What’s a Booty Call? ‘The Real’ Ladies Break It Down

One-night stands and friends-with-benefits arrangements can be a little tricky. Watch as the ladies of “The Real” break down the dos and don’ts of booty calls and causal hookups.
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[@LilianX26]

Omg this was terrible to watch, because Tamera wasn't even judging them.

[@stephaniebaileyc.g.i7059]

Ikr. Her & Tamar reaction 😥 (5:58)

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

Right that what I'm saying she was just letting them know how she felt about I mean I agree with Jeannie and Tamera. See some people wanna oh now you judging me but hello u said something I voice my opinion and feel as though in stands that everybody not like she letting them know. So the other three is on FOOLISHNESS!!!

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

I don't know. All I know is that is that I agree with Tamera and Jeannie!!

[@alexianicole7268]

I felt so bad honestly

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

Yeah I just felt upset

[@orlenecharles6590]

I feel bad for Tamera..they know she's a Christian so they automatically think she's out of touch with reality...but I admire her to sticking to her convictions and trying to prove her point with the hormone thing.

[@uncommonsense9711]

Khadija Newell YAAAAS!!! I was thinking the same thing!! Its because she's a Christian that they persecute her. "They think she's out of touch with reality. " Very well put

[@Adrienne.Michelle91]

I know. I hate that they assume because she's a Christian and when she says anything that's not "holy" or "Christian-like", they look at her like she's got a tumor growing out of her face!! I hope she sets them straight this upcoming season 😡😤

[@uncommonsense9711]

So they HAVE been renewed?

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

You talking about when she said she had a freakum dress yeah that kind of peed me off too! I was like she is a grown MARRIED women not a teenager or a child like seriously like what is she gone do walk around in gowns all day. Like come on!!

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

Now I will say on tameras part the drinking thing is not chritsin like but umm hey I'll keep her prayer

[@meliss298]

I feel like they felt judged by Tamera when in reality they were the ones judging her.

[@TheActionTourist]

Both in a way. They were projecting their own insecurities onto her by lowkey shaming her / judging her. Tamera being who she is confronts the others with their own 'shortcomings in their chastity

[@cassiemiller399]

Omg Facts sorry I have values

[@cynthiacarrera4923]

Yes!! Plus they we’re putting words in her mouth! Things she didn’t even say!

[@RyanJCreations]

Tamera comes off that way sometimes. Tbh they’ve all judged each other at some point. Everyone does it.

[@remember_To_be_kind]

They also knew it's the wrong thing they are doing. People don't like hearing the truth

[@iamdidi.]

Loni was so disrespectful to Tamera especially with that question about Aiden

[@DajiaStar]

daisy v Loni was very insecure during this time and still is a bit.

[@ortizisabel0716]

What did she say exactly? I keep going back but don’t seem to fully understand her comment

[@ortizisabel0716]

Lauren Westerman oh ok. smh that was way out of line!

[@sheislove0179]

@Lauren Westerman wowww. Disrespectful

[@KeeekThaSneak]

Dajia Star right though? The insecurity was written all over her

[@ZizYoubizHERE]

they completely twisted tamera's words and made fun of her like sorry she has morals

[@JouvannaMorgan215]

+ZizYoubizHERE what a world we live in, right

[@leslies853]

bearraaaaTV Are you mad ? There’s NOTHING wrong with being traditional and conservative. I guess in this society everyone’s allowed to have an opinion UNLESS it contradicts what you’re saying. You obviously don’t value yourself.

[@raihanazh3246]

Exactly!

[@viviana9725]

@bearraaaaTV those are HER standards. Shut up and respect them

[@siamsa69]

Tamera doesn't need to be school. She's respected and valued. She's also married because she's respected.

[@TotalmenteEng]

+siamsa69 AMEN TO THAT

[@LIVEINPEACE2023]

Of course she does. One should educate themselves on numerous things whether or not they agree on said topic. 📚

[@vturner]

Oh yes, Adam knows what kind of woman he has , he even said that she has access to all his stuff. Real men are valuing women like her

[@soba_me]

@siamsa69 Agreed!

[@jalenluckey]

Jillian Mallory I love how your name is Jillian Mallory and mine is Jalen Mallory!! so cool!

[@gymjunkie453]

Jeanie was gently supporting Tam here it was really nice to see. Every group of friends goes to far sometimes, it was nice to see Jeanie handle some of it

[@teetawn9454]

Amen

[@jojopemb2218]

I'm all for a good joke, but what Loni said about Tamera and her son is highly inappropriate

[@rootedbyj]

@maxine porter I normally don't reply in defense of someone I don't know but felt compelled to say something here. Loni doesn't have children because of a traumatic experience she endured, not as a lifestyle choice. I highly doubt that her poor choice of joke can be attributed to jealousy. Loni actually was once pregnant and sadly miscarried. That experience, in her words, traumatized her. From then on, out of fear of experiencing that again, she CHOSE not to get pregnant again so she wouldn't have to risk potentially miscarrying once more. Her not having children was her choice borne of fear from a traumatic experience. We as humans should really learn some more compassion. Instead of spreading false narratives and spending time trying to project or judge others, maybe we can try to practice refrain and not speak on people's motives and reasons for being if we have no personal knowledge of who they are.

[@Tranquilbutterfly28]

@@rootedbyj Though Loni went through that traumatic experience does not excuse her to say inappropriate comments about children and their mother's.

[@QueenJasmine1991]

I wish they will allow Tamera and Jeannie state their point of views and the other can state theirs. I always find myself agreeing with Tamera and Jeannie

[@tinytowz4471]

Absolutely!

[@maiali5362]

+QueenJasmine1991 loni really annoying

[@mariadefeo5621]

I go out with my man for 3 years WE have done it yet I been wait to get married but he trying you know

[@tinytowz4471]

Maria DeFeo Hang in there! :-)

[@widow3583]

@@mariadefeo5621 Bless your heart🙏🏽! U might not have been sleeping with him, and u two might not have been sleeping together…but I assure u he was having sex with another woman. U just didn’t know! Men aren’t built like that. Trust‼️

[@DiahnetSantos]

Tamera is the only one right on this topic. Same for Jeannie

[@iamNissiV]

To a certain extent

[@dreamedia40]

Exactly all women get attached

[@a.cdiamonds8370]

Not all women get emotinally attached, including me.

[@candlecane]

+A.C Diamonds Some people need to believe that BS, lol. Smh.

[@candlecane]

+Tracey Kralik I disagree. I think that anyone who is completely honest with themselves can always separate the two.

[@thatlittlehuman9238]

I’m late on this but damn... Loni asking Tamara if she gets hot and bothered while breastfeeding her son was MAD disrespectful. You don’t say that to a mama like that. No.

[@victoriasmith2965]

Yea I felt that was super wrong even if she's joking. That's just disgusting... mothers see it as one thing and one thing only, that they are feeding their child. For anyone to see it as anything other than that is super disrespectful.

[@Onairosicnarf]

I’m so glad Tamerra has grown so much from this video cause the way Tamar and loni kept shutting her down was hard to watch. Now tam be telling them off ! Go tamm !

[@msbossyjewell]

First of all dont come for tamar she wasnt shutting her down at all so get your facts right

[@amariamoore3504]

@@msbossyjewell Girl she was rude asf. Get your facts straight

[@christinajohnson1730]

@@msbossyjewellexactly she was rude get your life 🙄👋🏾

[@dailylifewithgema]

Let's pause and admire how beautiful Tamera looked here 😍😩

[@jennyoyster5054]

Gemalucha Exactlyyyyyyyy, girllllll, lol.....

[@sonatashinome4672]

Because she court-shipped and is blessed. Not making herself cheap and sleeping around with e'rybody

[@yuribec610]

I was about to say thattt

[@zuliettearencibia6615]

yes and adriene... but shes better looking.

[@zuliettearencibia6615]

I meant Tam is better looking.

[@dirtykitchen_thebowloflife]

I 100% agree with Tamera!!! These women are making fun of her for having standards. This world is sad.

[@tinytowz4471]

:-)

[@paris3331]

Amen

[@ktienne1977]

I don’t think Jeannie was..

[@malaikapaul6315]

What's nasty is what people like

[@adrianteel8229]

Tamera thank you for being a good example of a lady who has standards. Dont fold for none of them! Much respect!

[@CeeP211]

Well she's married it's kinda easy for her lol

[@midnightsun111493]

Why were they putting words in Tamera's mouth? She wasn't judging anybody and was saying what she personally did. She didn't say nobody was a ho or throw in shade at people who have booty calls. smh

[@kiarahh7074]

I can't stand how they treat Tamara like a baby just bc she's a conservative woman

[@janjetina138]

"It'a a scientific fact!" -"I just disagree with you..."

[@imtoosexy9145]

She’s not conservative she’s liberalish I think lol doesn’t like the orange guy) just Christian

[@violinplayer101]

Right?! I had friends when I was in college who would occasionally tease me and treat me like I was a child/ naive because of my more conservative views on dating (which weren't even ridiculously conservative, I just have standards). It was kind of annoying...

[@maggiejoseph6041]

@@violinplayer101 I agree, and I hate when they say "your standards are unrealistic" or "you have too much of a high standard"

[@CaroDuran29]

I AGREE.

[@natasha275]

Why do they try to make Tamera into someone that needs to be schooled. They always put words in her mouth

[@indigogirl5172]

+natasha275 because Tamera is naïve and only sees the world through her eyes...idealistic eyes. No one has a problem with Tamera's lifestyle...but I ALWAYS notice an air of judgement Tamera has when it comes to certain choices women make about their sex life. You should have seen Tia and Tamer's reality show when they were discussing the Wills, Tamera actually told Tia that she would not want Tia to be her children's mother..in case she died. Tamera said she did not agree with the way Tia and her husband raised their children. It was VERY weird and awkward...suffice to say Tia was crushed and cried, because Tia wanted Tamera to be the mother of her children...if she died.

[@natasha275]

Indigo Girl ahhh okay now i kind of see why people may be a little put off by Tamera's opinions. I actually started to notice what you said when i watched more episodes after this one.

[@annieparker2788]

Tamera herself said school me.

[@tmhanker100]

+Indigo Girl Your response sums this up perfectly! I love and respect Tamera's opinion along with all the other ladies, for I believe they each bring unique and valuable opinions to the table. However, with that being said, I do think Tamera sees the world through "idealistic eyes" as you said, and can sometimes forget that when it comes to dating every woman does not always get a fairytale story. I am a Christian, so I understand and respect that her views come from biblical principles, but I also know that we live in an imperfect society, and what is ideal often times is not reality. If a woman finds herself being single for a number of years, whether it be by choice or due to circumstances, I deem it unrealistic to expect her to not be sexually active for the duration of her singleness. Most people don't find themselves being celibate for years or even decades at a time. I typically find Tamera to be very understanding of those who may have a different background than her, but unfortunately, when it comes to sex and dating, I think because Tamera can only pull from her experience, which fortunately for her was ideal, she can't relate to those who had less than ideal circumstances, thus I do think she comes across as slightly judgmental and has a lack of understanding towards women who had a different path. I think it sometimes frustrates the other ladies on the panel because they may feel like they are being shamed or judge because they have a different perspective due to just having less ideal experiences. Sadly, many religious people say we should not judge, but ultimately they end up judging the most, which can be very off putting.

[@Beaneabean]

Indigo Girl thats called having an opinion. You dont have to like everything. It was about her kids, not about the sibling bond between the 2 women

[@sarahbhattan-pomeroy8762]

That's why the rest of these girls have failed relationships except for tamera PERIODT

[@LiLmSzDiVa]

island _Empire17 true

[@spicymami6468]

@@roxjnie9028 girl smh,good luck listening to them!

[@girlsixdiva]

ummm..Adrienne is happily married.

[@mochamuneca8093]

girlsixdiva she wasn’t at the time this episode was shot

[@cynthiaclemons4987]

Tamera has failed relationships too.

[@marysesanou1554]

Tamera: it’s a scientific fact Tamar: I don’t agree with you

[@EllePlowPlow]

maryse sanou she’s using that scientific “fact” incorrectly. If Tamera was correct, it would be like that for every woman and it’s not. So Tamar is right on this one.

[@viviana9725]

@@EllePlowPlow you're wrong lol not people can choose to ignore their bodies lol

[@joyjoyjoyful]

@@EllePlowPlow And where’s the scientific evidence to prove this nonsensical point of yours and Tamar’s?

[@LeShawnDanielTV]

I loveeeeeee that Tamera stands out with integrity, and uncompromised 👆🏾

[@jessicavarona8099]

You know things are twisted when the married girl with the beautiful family is getting shade for being 'antiquated'. This conversation was so sad actually.

[@gigimoore4529]

Jessica Varona it really was

[@Allome430]

Tamera is so drop dead gorgeous here wow! Her innocence makes her look even more beautiful ! Love her .... Side note Doja cat looks like Tia and Tamera.

[@jayporcelain913]

Loni has always gotten on my nerves. She talks way to much like she’s got all the answers and the other girls are just there to ask questions.

[@TamImBlessed]

She is the type of wife a man doesn't want to go home and meet haha.

[@user-yh8jr8tk9z]

Yes I wonder why she doesn't just go off and have her own show with just her on it.

[@Kirsty33377]

I feel so sorry for Tamera, I've been watching the dynamic closely and I think she is stereotyped and because others THINK that they are being judged by her, they treat her differently. All the women in the group are likable and have a lot to give, but it's kind of off putting to see her being treated that way. Spread kindness! :)

[@healtheworld12]

Agree!

[@bjenkins2012]

I feel that tamera usually represents my point of view and I would like to hear what she has to say. Also, I LOVED the test season but I feel like the dynamics have drastically changed now that they've gotten picked up. I hope it gets better because I want all 5 women to succeed and this show to succeed!

[@RedaGirl55]

IMO, I think it can be looked at that way but in reality all it is, the other 4 women are agreeing w/ each other, which singles 1 person by themselves. Basically, every1 has their own opinion, they def get along.

[@Kirsty33377]

***** Agreed! I like hearing what she has to say.

[@Kirsty33377]

bjenkins2012 Me too! I love her! :)

[@illinthe_____]

It's slick pissing me off to see them basically ganging up on Tamera for having values. Like - what? They always use the excuse that "that doesn't work for everybody" to say that she's out of the loop or "lame" and then start explaining whatever term or subject is in discussion. But if they actually LISTENED to her - she's just saying what SHE did. Not what everyone else should do. Real spit - WHO CALLS/TEXTS TO SCHEDULE A DATE (1) AFTER 8 P.M. (2) THE SAME DAY (3) WITHOUT SEXUAL INTENT??? I hate that they go out of their way to make her seem like the prude of the group when she just has her own morals. I know they love Tamera but I think they need to check the way they ALL (except Jeannie) slick gang up on her for having an opinion that is contrary to POPULAR opinion. What's popular isn't always RIGHT.

[@tinytowz4471]

U r right about this, tho.

[@yessibaby03]

EXACTLY!!👏🏻

[@CaramelBeauty091]

Agree

[@dreamerof93]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@OlaitanFajr]

yes especially Toni she always interrupts and talks over everyone

[@QUEEN-fe3lu]

Tamera was such a GREAT REPRESENTATION 💯💯💯

[@stellamanurung519]

that kind of thinking that is why we have so many baby mama and baby daddy but not husband and wife

[@Rogue_panda7]

I usually like Loni but honestly she was pissing me off in this video. She was being hella rude and trying to make Tamera look like an idiot just because she is more conservative and classy. Like shut up and let Tamera talk! Loni and Tamar were acting ratchet in this segment. I couldn't even watch the whole thing from how annoyed I was with the disrespect.

[@avataz]

Loni is gonna end up alone with 50 cats and box wine

[@SparklingJuice247]

Loni talks soooo much she cant even understand what Tamera's saying 😠😠😠😠... Lol all Tamera was saying is she doesnt go on booty calls....it wasnt that deep

[@ifunanya24]

Yes true. But as Loni has unresolved issues and is old with no man no kids no husband. She thinks she can live a life of booty Calls and this will fill the gap. The void. Obviously she's sensitive about it. It's almost like a failure. And when Tamera who is happily married living a happy life with her kids and hubby starts talking about having standards ( which you don't need to have with booty calls) Loni fires off. It touched a raw nerve. It's almost a reminder of what Loni doesn't have. Standard. I should have been a shrink. I would charge Loni double for a session.

[@aizenosaimafidon1119]

+ifunanya24 lmao so true

[@mikarose6916]

Loni does not have any sense lol... she just living without a purpose right now

[@rachelc586]

SparklingJuice247 She's fucking annoying

[@kellietalley2979]

Rach C Loni is just being herself, which is the only way to be. I think she is great. I certainly don't want to see someone fake on the Real.

[@amnedits4898]

Tamera couldn’t get a damn word in because Loni kept over talking her. Jeannie the real one for allowing Tamera to finish 🔥👏🏽

[@swirlyferly]

Awww Tamera I’m a Christian too so I feel you with the marriage thing 😂😂 Stand strong girl

[@tiffanyruan970]

I agree with Jeannie and Tamera. And plus, even when you're single, doesn't mean you have to go sleeping around.

[@tinytowz4471]

Agreed!

[@michaelmyers7383]

i agree

[@maiali5362]

+Tiffany Ruan I agree

[@JouvannaMorgan215]

+Tiffany Ruan I agree

[@michimeow523]

100% agree

[@rochellerive7778]

Funny how they're giving tamera crap about dating yet they're the one still single. Tamera got married. She got standards

[@nimlasaafi3562]

Rochelle Rive 👏👏👏👏

[@rtmusicvideos431]

She got married to a racist lol better off just being single

[@EmaMalik]

Except that Jeannie and Tamar were both married in his clip

[@sonatashinome4672]

@@rtmusicvideos431 Who said she go married to a racist?!

[@JessicaJEElaine]

Sonata Shinome I think all the racist talk came when Adam worked for CNN. I think he made some bad comments about the Trayvon Martin case.

[@tisland01]

Agree with Tamara standards as a woman. And Texting me 9 and 10 at night saying What are you doing / I wanna see you... I'm not going! So disrespectful to even try it.

[@Dasani9582]

Who else is seeing this in 2019. Kinda of cool to see where they started and how they have evolved. I notice they don’t let tam tam talk. I’m happy that now she demands her time to talk.

[@SupernaturalLove100]

Tamera NEVER said that un married people can't have booty calls.. Loni too busy twisting her words outta apparent insecurity. Sit down Loni. Ain't everybody the exact same as you.

[@Kupo923]

Scientifically, Tamera is right. She's talking about the hormone oxytocin.

[@victoriasmith2965]

Lol long said endorphins

[@thepinkprint5936]

These segments were SO toxic back in the day omg. I feel like Tamar and Loni were always ganging up on Tamer and Jeannie....not cool

[@brienethefox853]

The Pink Print it’s still toxic. I’d argue it’s even worse now with Amanda Seales.

[@Shalayah2010]

Nothing about this was toxic. You guys make up stuff in your heads.

[@thepinkprint5936]

@@Shalayah2010 it’s my opinion. From what I saw, it was toxic.

[@Yeauthought]

Tamera has so much structure..love it LOL 😘😘

[@cassidycasimirisme]

I completely stand with Tamera on this one. Bonding chemicals are released when you *hug* someone for 30 seconds, and these women act like its the more absurd thing that bonding chemicals are released after you have sex with someone. Tamar obviously proved this right after she said that no other girls in her circle can have sex with her booty call partner. If she didnt feel bonded to him, it wouldnt matter who he chooses to have sex with after her. Hed simply be another random guy. Stop treating Tamera like shes stupid and too pure to have any valuable opinions. Its so condescending.

[@tinytowz4471]

Agreed.

[@yessibaby03]

Yes!! Yes!! A thousand times yes! 🙌🏻👏🏻

[@TaperedNatural]

That's not necessarily true. Many people believe that men can have sex and not be emotionally attached to a woman, but even if a man is not emotionally attached he still does NOT want his homeboy smashing the same girl that he is sleeping with.

[@annieparker2788]

Tamar right booty call has rules and you break them punch in the forehead.

[@hughettecampbell1010]

see no, i dont care if hes having sex with other women. ust not my friends. that wierd

[@BabyC51085]

At this rate, I may actually begin to dislike Loni. This is the third time I've seen her disregard Tamera's opinion. What she said about Aiden was just nasty. I love Tamera, one of the reasons I watch the show is because they have a levelheaded person who shares my views and morals and also has class. I hope it gets better and they don't just push her views aside.

[@BabyC51085]

Yes - she didn't even judge them, she simply stated her opinion.

[@evlvng]

I agree.. I'm not even mad that Loni and Tamar had differing opinions its just how they reacted to Tamera's opinions. It's almost as if she's seen as this girl who has no experience and is naive and "ignorant" to the real world.. but her opinion is just as valid as anyone else's..

[@Drfeelinu]

When did she say something about Aiden?

[@Drfeelinu]

Ohh I see😑that woman is a low down shame. She also says a bootycal at 12am is the same as tamera rolling over to have sex with her husband. No Loni, that man is committed to tam but yours may not be there when u wake up

[@camy9328]

I agree with you. Tamera is the level-headed person and everyone else just treats her like she is a child .

[@keilamedinamiller9728]

I love how Jeanie called out Tamar’s perspectives on bootycalls!!

[@candiceallen4455]

Damn. Loni needed to shut up and listen here.

[@delmainedonson4791]

I hate how they keep making fun of Tamera. She's got morals. I hate how some of the others sometimes glorify being easy!!! There are other women like Tamera in the world!! Stop making like shes stupid. She knows what she doing!!! And she a Christian woman. And i completely agree with her. She got her head screwed on right!!!

[@tinytowz4471]

Absolutely!

[@art.bae.hannah8196]

+Delmaine Donson GIRLLLLLLL I HAD TO STAND UP FORTHIS!!!! BUTT YOU WANNA KNOW WHATS FUNNY WHO IS HAPPILY MARRIED WITH A MAN THAT LOVES HER ANNNNNNNNNNNNND A CHILDDD >>>>TAMERA

[@ValerieAbena]

+Delmaine Donson just because someone likes casual sex doesn't mean they lack morals...

[@Wesreck]

+LadyChaos101 it does actually. It means you lack the moral to not be easy like that. But if you think it's ok do you girl no hate

[@vannyjm]

girl your so right.....I'm not Christian however I relate so much to Tamera. Everyone has their own opinion on how they feel and what they can do and not do and be fine with afterwards.

[@myhextixmind8632]

Jeannie lowkey got Tamar with that last point though

[@Malibumal418]

oh yeahhhhh

[@michellelopez5264]

Yesssss!

[@meciagotcha]

True

[@thephilosopher5799]

@Michelle Appiah people want to see Tamar fail so bad

[@brittany1484]

@john smith Good to hear, but that hasn't been my experience at all. lol Most of the men I've encountered have been territorial and possessive, even if we're not officially together.

[@osenifabua1912]

This still remains the craziest Girl Chat of all time😂😂

[@duhits_him]

This cast was the best… 🥺. This group of ladies is what made this show even more interesting.

[@cycy805]

Seeing loni talking Tamera down like that reminded me of Tamar talking Jeannie down

[@flabiavee7518]

+Cyrah Laird totally agree

[@cycy805]

+iam flabiaax B) cool that there is someone else who notices things in a similar way

[@GladysRose]

I noticed it too :(

[@aizenosaimafidon1119]

just cos they have different views - they are probably a bit jealous

[@JalahMay]

They grown woman they need to speak up if that’s how they feel

[@kat7939]

Who the hell goes out to dinner after 8pm!! Guess Tamera is the only one with standards!!

[@quacy1946]

I do sometimes :p

[@LesTwinsSociety]

exactly

[@aizenosaimafidon1119]

Exactly

[@cyrielle8803]

Lol every european,

[@kat7939]

+Cyrielle Agbo lol..... To be fair in Europe, I was going out at that time!! But here in America, restaurants are almost closed at that time!!

[@bigmocha4694]

Can't help but admire Tamera's look on here. She looking fabulous.

[@solannyandrea378]

so im new to your show and im low key mad that i didnt know about this show untill now!! what i love is i watched most of you as a kid all the time and i think about these shows all the time and its so nice to ssee you all so happy, keeping it real and giving amazing advise.

[@Ultravioletx1]

they're the ones judging tamera. smh

[@tinytowz4471]

Judgement is also toward Jeannie, too.

[@gooberbear9735]

"That's disgusting, Loni" I love how Tamera is telling it how it is!

[@CR-cu2iu]

Loni was way too disrespectful in this.

[@kimberly6497]

I agree with Tamera. A date is between 2-8 pm. I have to work the next day.

[@ubahali8333]

Jeannie and Tamera looked gorgeous

[@mibukdesjarlais534]

Definitely.😊

[@lw3443]

They look like old ass white woman from back in the day🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Nora-qu1ph]

Because of the bangs?

[@allysonmessina1785]

And they're putting words in her mouth. She was not judging, they didn't even give her a chance to explain, its a communication issue.

[@alexianicole7268]

exactly. and it's always been that way. I feel like they're always picking on her

[@Ajbgaming34]

What loni said at 6:35 is straight up disgusting

[@Ajbgaming34]

ROMILLY she said ‘did you get hot & bothered when you was nursing Aidan’ basically asking did she get turned on while nursing her child

[@marcod440]

You could the feel the tension .. Awkward

[@usmansharif3273]

You guys are so informative thank you for bestowing this impressive knowledge. You truly have changed my life.

[@juicyjaynie]

Why they gotta be like that to Tamera :( I appreciate and admire her old school ways

[@Risse14]

This just proves why women are not made to do bootycalls. Their emotions will some how get caught up. What Tamera and Jennie said was true. Soul ties and exchange of hormones are real. Also, there was nothing wrong with Tamera having times she considered respectable hours. You teach men let alone people how to approach/treat you. I'm sorry but i didn't like how Loni was coming at her on this episode. She started putting words in Tamera's mouth.

[@Risse14]

rigggghhhhttttttt........keep telling yourself that!

[@Risse14]

Thanks will do darling! Now run along!

[@Risse14]

That's what run along means sweetie!

[@Risse14]

I don't have too this my post.

[@Risse14]

Make me.

[@Elizabeth-mf3dn]

All of their hair styles are killing it this episode! Beautiful

[@ellet7946]

I agree with Tamara,its all about setting boundaties, respecting yourself..

[@anisaantoinette6381]

They need to stop talking down to Tamera because she has higher standards and doesn't just give away easy sex like they do. They always unintentionally gang up on her because she's not this wild woman and has a lot of respect for herself and her body. That's HER. Let her do her and have her views without judging her. She was only giving her opinion. I could feel her getting frustrated by this conversation. Hell, I was getting angry for her

[@niyuki87]

Anisa Antoinette excuse me, it is a low standard being free to have sex with whoever you want whenever you want???? are you kidding me???

[@anisaantoinette6381]

Marina Mas never said that but it sounds like you're taking this personal. Hey, if the shoe fits ...😂

[@reneeproud5273]

For real tho 😂

[@kinndah2519]

Anisa Antoinette Um, yes you did say that.

[@arianacollymore7091]

Say it louder👏👏👏

[@floresamor4146]

Oxytocin is the hormone she is talking about. It makes you emotionally attatched.

[@tinytowz4471]

Yup, it's fact!

[@atlmeanswater1138]

yup

[@tinytowz4471]

BTW, Loni's comment to Tamera was disgusting; Tamera's immediate response was perfect!

[@floresamor4146]

Tiny Towz It was weird and uncalled for

[@floresamor4146]

***** what's bs?

[@fridanavarro934]

I will never get tired of watching this.😅😅😂😂

[@shelevah8938]

The hair, makeup and Adrienne's overall look is just top notch 😙.

[@gta_3714]

I'm starting to not like Loni. She wouldn't even let Tamera talk. I don't really like Loni on this show or Tamar. Replace them please!

[@CKFIERCE1]

Tamar should be replaced with someone like Brandy.

[@CKFIERCE1]

seriously though, She's so level headed. Which Tamar is not

[@gta_3714]

Tamar is annoying

[@CKFIERCE1]

exactly! for someone who's suppose to be 37, she acts like a kid.

[@aiimmee2011]

Agreed!

[@vigoesandleos]

I think Tamera has some of the best advice on this show!!!!! It just seems weird to some people who are so used to living in there dysfunction!!! I like her advice because its always bases on a functioning relationship and mindset !!! After 8 pm YOU ARE A BOOTY CALL! Just because you gave him the booty that does not delete you from booty call category. That just mean your the CERTIFIED AND STAMPED BOOTY CALL!!

[@mckenziebennett9711]

Hahahhahahah you right

[@tinytowz4471]

IIT! U R RIGHT!

[@kimonaaang3133]

Oh how these ladies' looks have evolved! Rewatching the oldies but goodies! Speak truth and wisdom Tam even if ur the only one standing for it

[@jaylarose]

I agree with Tamera! She has certain standards and don’t want to do those things in a worldly sense. I want to be comfortable and do things the way God wants me to do them.

[@NoraGreen1992]

Tamera is just soooooo gorgeous with this hair and that dress!

[@BreenyLee]

I agree with Tamera :) Well I always do... she usually comes from a wise Christian view :)

[@sallysmith9421]

Breeny Lee after 8 not good can come if it someone's trying to hook up with you 😑

[@nezabytes]

Dat dress aint Christian!!! I like!

[@kahjman4825]

Breeny Lee same Christian who said she wouldn't even date a man if he had no car yeah that's a righteous women for ya ass.

[@FriendshipIsMagic6214]

Wise?

[@bw4423]

ohh please

[@shaedavis53]

My grandma raised me the same way Tamera was raised! I didn't go out late because of priorities like school and work. I didn't do booty calls or dating I just went on dates!! I couldn't allow a relationship to interfere with my money and my mind learning the skills to survive life!

[@LeoSilva-fp9bz]

Tamara rocks, hope she never changes...the best role model❤❤

[@simpossibly_tiffani]

Loni was crossing the line when she talked about Aiden. Let Tamera speak and stop singling her out. I agreed with Tamera but wish she could've spoke more. Tamera isn't just gossiping...she's trying to have a conversation!

[@wweuploader098]

Tia would smack the shit outta Loni is it was her on the show

[@45mo4528]

SO TRUUEEE Tamera's sweet but Tia don't play lol

[@wweuploader098]

45mo4528 Yep Tia needs to be a guest on this show and then we just wait till loni iinterruptsher more than twice

[@JHdtx]

Really? LOL I never payed attention to how different they are.

[@blancojennings664]

Shaun M Tia has a stronger personality than Tamera but, I believe she would handle Lonnie in a classy way without the ghetto slapping the u know what out of Lonnie. This is not Jerry Springer, and to insinuate that Tia would behave that way is far from anything I have seen in her character. Tamera should have used the good sense not to get on a show like this. I believe Tamera took this show because she was desperate for work and Tia was getting a lot of work, so she seemed kind of jealous cause Tia was outdoing her. I do agree they are so hard on her and I feel bad for her. Tamera may need to grow up a little more. She is a beautiful and intelligent lady but she is getting a little bit too old to act so naive. Lonnie need much prayer for saying the things she said about going to hell and about little Aden.

[@45mo4528]

Blanco Jennings I so agree with that! I've watched a few episodes of Tia & Tamera and it was clear to me that Tamera was jealous of her sister outdoing her which is why she took this show. But I don't think she'll stay much longer... And you're right again about Loni, the comment she made about Aden was rude and disgusting.

[@elisabetholiveira1772]

All these ladies are so amazing and they are on the perfect talk show cuz they know keep it real

[@SuperKitty104]

I love how the ladies called Tamera “Tam Tam” it’s so cute!!! Her bangs look great!

[@peachrocker1]

tamera and jeannie should get their own show, i like what they have to say, but they're usually shut down. loni is loud and obnoxious, adrienne is very illiterate and tamar is the worst of them all. she thinks so highly of herself and is constantly rude to jeannie-- she was even rude to jeannie when they were on the ellen show.

[@jackieochoa]

totally agree! you should write to the show and tell them that. because honestly, tamera always has the best advice, as well as jeannie, but the others always put their thoughts to the side

[@0808sumire]

Elias Perez im so agreed with you!!

[@Lna445]

I totally agree! Tamar is so rude to Jeannie even in last season. She's loud and has this stink attitude towards her! Jeannie needs to speak up!

[@conflictstress]

.... I literally wish every show - for the entire show - that Tamera and Jeannie would get fired from television forever. They are insufferable, boring, and tragically unfunny - hence why the producers probably told them to shut their mouths and not drive viewers away. I'd watch 5 hours of just Tamar before I listened to a single segment with just those two.

[@ravenposh7138]

.....I think Adrienne and Tamar should get fired. They are both irritating and give horrible advice. Lonnie is loud and crass. I find it hard to believe that she is getting laid as much as she claims. Who is really reading a book written by Lonnie Love? This show will not last long with this cast.

[@caywaii8844]

I love tamera for staying true to her beliefs they were making her seem like she was wrong or uneducated but I think she has the most wisdom out of everyone. Also it always seems like whatever Loni says goes and that's not cool all the time. and side note I miss this jeannie from season 1 ):

[@katnissfrogge5853]

Chile I love binge watching this little clips but I need more

[@destinyjohnson5996]

longest the real clip in history

[@therealist8364096]

loni needs to stop..Tam didn't say that ur wrong for having sex outside of marriage even though that's her beliefs.. she didn't judge anyone. they putting words in her mouth.

[@tinytowz4471]

Agreed!

[@michaelmyers7383]

ikr

[@Ashhwitcash]

I agree with Tamera .. sometimes it’s hard to have relations because you do start to catch feelings even if you’re not trying! But everyone can agree to disagree

[@ifonua4007]

Absolutely agree 100% with Tamera and Jeannie.

[@tashamack2781]

I am soooo disgusted by Loni's personality in this clip!! She was SOOO rude to Tamera and such a bully!!! That comment that she made when Tam was talking about nursing her son was disgusting and low!!!! Newsflash Loni.....some women still respect themselves enough not to let everything that offers to take them out run up on them!!

[@carolellamuch9571]

Tasha Mack yeah that was lowest level of low going after someone's kids and she caught herself too so she's tried to apologize but it was too late she can be ignorant at times

[@williamwallace2278]

You take a person out of the gutter. However you cant take the gutter out of that person

[@giisellegaalvan1996]

That was so fucking low and notice how she's playing it off as a joke when you can see it in her face that her intention is to hurt Tamera

[@thenewuser3100]

Soo Ghetto and unclassy and low

[@kitapanell4973]

i don't like what they are doing to Tamera period,dismissing her like that. Tamar should just quit being mean to Jeanie,its getting old

[@nyssajames5574]

***** u don't know what happens behind closed doors to make that assumption tamar been the same woman loud n blunt since a kid... watch bfv and her parents can tell u the same thing

[@ronnie6696]

Jeanine is pretty ignorant I wouldn't listen to a word she have to say and she is delusional talking bout she never been cheated on smh how do you know? or she never go through her man phone like she is little miss perfect oh please. You claim Tamar does not have a reason to be pissed with Jeanine but did you hear her black man comment? or did you just threw that out the window or the fact that Jeanine mom called Adrienne a Mexican dog (guessing that's where Jeanine gets her ignorant opinions from) Jeanine didn't even realize that her mom insulted Adrienne until Adrienne said something. Jeanine's exact words were "Oh I didn't think of that" yea you don't think. I am so over her she needs to be replaced.

[@keaundrasims7477]

Kita Panell y'all always say tamar be mean to Jeannie that be Loni Tamar just be playing and the producers tell them to do that to bring more action but in real life Jeannie be going to Tamar house and they be laughing and talking and Jeannie be play with Logan so u can't say that she be mean to Jeannie cause she dont

[@drsiza]

They just argued till it got personal I’m glad they’ve grown and now they understand that everyone is entitled to their own opinion

[@janellecavil1128]

The amount of times “booty call” has been said😂

[@TaurusVirgoDvineFem]

They are so rude, obnoxious, & condescending towards Tamera...I can't even stand to watch. Every time she opens her mouth, they (Loni) are so ready to hate on her opinion. I think there's some low key jealousy on that panel.

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

Well I wouldn't say jealousy but I will say so u stand what u saying. And also feel like Tamera been taught some chritsin values and some people can't handle hearing what she say but I will say this they better hear and listen to what she's saying because she be on point!!! Like for real though

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

And she can be a help to some of they boots too

[@tinytowz4471]

+Airreona El-Amin True.

[@abigailjimenez2148]

Tamara is the only one with morals.

[@mibukdesjarlais534]

Same for Jeannie.😊

[@poopa7642]

Your morals don’t fit everyone else’s morals. Quiet down

[@kimmy9204]

Its either you got morals or you dont its that simple!

[@borednerd2100]

@@kimmy9204 really? Because where I'm from that cleavage is definitely immoral..

[@latoyagriffin1410]

I hate when people try to act like they have to calm you down like Lonnie just did Tamera. Nowhere was Tamera getting carried away but just explaining herself.

[@mekatriona]

Great to watch, you are such confident women, but you've got to give space when each other wants to say something..you are talking over each other. But I still loved it. Love from London, England UK.

[@genavievec1798]

I just found this show on TV the other day and I'm sooooo sad I didn't find it sooner !! I absolutely love this show !! The show has a vibe that reminds me of the Tyra show.. I love it ! :) I'm a loyal watcher now

[@TheRealDaytime]

Gen C Thanks for tuning in!! Don't forget to get your REAL on with us, every weekday!

[@chriskombo9555]

+The Real Daytime The real

[@jnaekeyes7712]

+The Real Daytime hay girl

[@brittanifergueson6938]

I watched this

[@genevieveeversole5264]

I love ur name😄😃

[@SoothingPeace3]

Seriously what the hell are u supposed to be discussing after 12 am midnight like really except for booty call. I agree with Tamera. After 10 pm I don't want a call from any guy except we dating.

[@Msladyrae92]

They treated Tamera horribly in this segment

[@nicholegajadar1950]

I didn’t realize how annoying Lonnie was. She was willing to do and say anything for a laugh. That comment about Tameras son was disgusting and so disrespectful!!!

[@SMAnthonyW]

tamera is so pretty