What's Up With John's Hair? Featuring Mrs. ASP!

[@ArchetypeofMan]

"People have a whole life going on...you only see a small part of it" Truer words have never been spoken. I'm just happy to see you happy and your fitness journey has been inspirational

[@christopherbinkley2243]

John - As my mother-in-law died from a GBM, I offer heartfelt condolences to you and yours with your mother passing. Be strong and of good courage knowing you will see her again in heaven. God bless. Be safe, be well.

[@RohannvanRensburg]

"Why do you have long hair" "It's called 'Nunya'" "Nunya?" "Nunyadamnbusiness"

[@310_Latchkey_kid]

😄...Good one!!

[@Sinebeast]

I'm sorry for your loss John. My father is on probably not going to walk out of the hospital. So my heart goes out to you.

[@Joe-bg9gi]

I’ve never cared what you looked like. I watch for the valuable lessons your content provides. Those lessons have probably saved me on one or more occasions in how to handle a bad situation with verbal judo and situational awareness. You do look healthier, happier, and more ready to defend yourself and your loved ones.

[@richardaguirre3719]

Neither do I but I do catch myself saying what beautiful locks he has

[@dalekerr5091]

You look good John, I’m sorry that comments have had an impact on you. Some people are mean, some people are joking, some people won’t let up. I think most people here are good-hearted and having fun with you because we see you as a friend. Sorry to hear about your Mom, it was nice to hear that she liked your look.

[@yungestmilf]

@@dalekerr5091 yes!! exactly, i only comment saying ANYTHING pertaining to the PERSON and not the channel/ video. when i genuinely CARE about the creator and not just his content. But he only cares for his content, actually extremely disheartened with how he took and replied to my comment of genuine care.

[@yungestmilf]

@@STEADFAST__and__LOYAL__M1059 yeah fr, even just being genuinely concerned with him as a person he doesn't respond accordingly. He only genuinely responds rudely to ' hate ' but not any of the loads of positive comments from his day 1 fans. Ive commented on and seen almost all of his content and the one time he responds to a ' fan ' isnt any of the ones i genuinely wanted him to reply too. ' good grief ' well sorry i showed concern john, a reminder to me that its best to not engage with people i look up too online. They're not what they seem, and creators are NOT as good as their content.

[@ASPextra]

You literally have FOUR comments total on this channel. And you’re ignoring what I actually said.

[@yungestmilf]

@@ASPextra ive different accounts goober , i follow you on all 3 of mine. Agree to disagree cause i like your content. But i did listen to this video, and just feel differently. Because the internet is full of people and opinions. If you get offended by comments of people treating you like a person or pointing out something they see than maybe they should be closed. Youre right about the parasocial , but its tough you took it the opposite of what i was trying to achieve with it. Especially due to me commenting a good amount of positive comments ( my main account) just to only be replied to by my one dry statement in a matter of minutes negatively. Thanks for the content , and i do apologize

[@ASPextra]

@!s88m88h It's funny that you assign that as 'sensitivity' to me. Imagine that you walked down the same street every day for 5 years and you walked past 2000 people on your way and every 3rd or 4th person kicked you in the junk.... but you made your living walking down that street.... would you do something to address it or just continue to let people kick you? I make videos for a living and if the same topic comes up over and over and over that seems to be a clue that folks may want to talk about it.

[@michaellynn7745]

Sorry to hear about your mom. My condolences. I remember your video taking your mom to the ball game. Glad to hear that you got some quality time with her. My mom is spending Christmas week at my house, so I’m trying to make it special since we really don’t know how much time we have left.

[@LVonEveryDuffle]

Hey John...LOONNGGG TIME watcher... just want to say first of all sorry to hear about your mom. Second thank you for the real world lessons that actually help ppl. Keep up the great work sir.

[@ASPextra]

I appreciate that

[@pr_beast_23]

With weight, hair, beard, or not beard, I respect you, sir. I'm a fan, and I'm great full for your content and the way you give us valuable lessons to be better citizens. 👏🏽💪🏼

[@atomsk01]

John has that Joaquin Phoenix lookalike vibe! Looking good my man.

[@ccopeland712]

Thanks for a timely reminder about social niceties, and thanks for being REAL and not a one-dimensional "social media influencer". Most importantly, thanks for being a man of God with a heart for a "ministry of safety" that helps me be a better protector and defender. Much respect from a brother in Christ!

[@CosmoFlo1]

Happy Wife happy life!! And Mom always knows best. Nice to see Mrs ASP ❤❤❤

[@chriskessler8847]

Awesome John! Love your ASP cast! Love you being real about your Mom and your wife and family. Love the fact that you are doing the Lord’s work! Keep it up!

[@jessecarver9176]

I'm bald as a basketball, and look homeless when I grow out my beard, rock it John, whatever it is baby!

[@Lynn-vt4id]

Great seeing you and Mrs ASP together. I think you should have worn the kitty ears though!!!!! Topping on the comment cake. 🥰

[@dalewikfors9194]

It's strange what we do for our lost loved ones. Keep it up John. God bless you.

[@roulanyu3183]

Some folks live in a Cave, We live where we wanna live. We love you John, and mrs. ASP as well!

[@Moresco24]

This is how you handle stuff, up front and direct. Good stuff god bless yall. I’ve changed me hair like 6 times don’t trip

[@petewilson2314]

Never cared about your hair or beard, you do you. I was concerned when your weight was up a year or two ago but only to the extent that I was seriously concerned about the direction your health was taking. You are an incredible force of education and I want you to be healthy and around for a long time to continue your mission of helping people survive violent encounters. I'm happy for you that you found the motivation to make those changes and did it the right way!! I'm looking forward to many more years of you covering our ASP's

[@happycamper4ever873]

So sorry about your mom, John. You spoke of her with such love in your voice. You are one of a kind.Ive been subscribed for years. I’ve learned so much from you and your videos. My family is safer because of you. I stopped commenting on peoples bodies, hair and clothing years ago. There are lots of other things to talk about.

[@williamhoppe4500]

I'm an old man and don't get people getting into personal business rather than learning from your teaching. If I have a question on the teaching I'll ask for clarification. Thanks for all the good teaching.

[@SpontaneousIntrospections]

Dude! Where to start?! Thank you for putting this out there, Basic Civility 101 from a reasonably libertarian standpoint. It's not the can I, but must I standard applied to human discourse. I may not have been a fan of beard, hair style - or maybe they were my favorite ever, but did it matter/affect me personally? NO, so not my field of discourse or area of expertise. I'm sorry to hear about your mom's passing, but so glad you were able to share the story of your last communication. it edifies me as well as you to know that she loved it and I will forever see you now as a guy who is doing his mom a +1. thanks for all you do and nice to meet Mrs. ASP!

[@jennahallam]

I appreciate all you guys provide here on ASP. And love your wife’s shirt!!!! Gilmore girls forever and always✊🏻

[@ASPextra]

I think she’s watched the whole series at LEAST twice through. :)

[@jtknight4647]

Hey John and Laura aka Mr. & Mrs. ASP 😎 So nice to meet the wifey! Man its incredible how lame some people are…in the interweb and life in general. SO irrelevant since we are here for the one-of-a-kind lessons on self defense. Gotta say of course now we all love you so i guess maybe people feel right to comment harshly…well put to everyone John, really hit all the nails on head. Last not least, cheers to your mama! Sorry for your loss man, lost mine in 2015, still miss her immensely. She raised one sharp, kind, badass dude 🤙🏼 PS-as a life long true Lefty, i take offense to the ‘thats a left handed comment’!!! 😱 kidding bro 😂

[@michaelmappin4425]

I said to get a haircut once. I'm sorry. I was out of line. Also, I'm sorry for your loss.

[@ASPextra]

No worries man. :) I get the joke. And most people make it as a joke. It just gets old when you hear it so much!

[@Curtisbock68]

I don't know if it means anything but thank you for sharing your hearts. Have a great day

[@Real_LiamOBryan]

Sorry to hear about your mother, man. I'll keep you guys in my prayers.

[@1a1u0g9t4s2u]

...same song but different verse...I had bought a new truck and while giving a ride to a friend he commented that I should have bought a different truck. I simply said that I bought the truck more me, not you. Years later at work a very religious co-worker made a nasty comment about the rainy weather. I responded, well that is what God gave us today, I think I'll thank him for watering my lawn and garden for me. She huffed and stormed away. Thanks for letting me share this with you.

[@ASPextra]

Good analogies!

[@bowman321123]

Sorry to hear about your Mom, I feel you, my Mom passed away while visiting on Christmas a few years ago. Your hair is your own thing, it looks good without the beard but do what you want. I was glad to see Mrs. ASP, seems like she is a real keeper! Keep on ASPing, great job.

[@Mister-sm1hs]

Founding Fathers hair vibes...

[@MolonLabe1x]

John, I’m so very sorry for your loss. I agree with everything you said in this video. I’m glad you pointed out that (can’t remember what you said lol) relationship that we share. How the viewers might feel that they know you since you are watched daily- yet “we” are a camera. That 100% is why some feel they can say whatever they want to you like you’re college friends. I’m glad you voiced your boundary. This was the first time I’ve seen Mrs. Asp, and I have to say, you can see the genuine love and bond you both share 🙏🏽, and to hear almost 30 years! That is so wonderful. I’m old enough to get your son’s hair reference too haha. He was my fav player. God bless you and your family John. (I only met you once briefly 10 yrs ago when you let me volunteer at your church when I was in my apprenticeship 🙏🏽)

[@RohannvanRensburg]

Internet interactions aren't really "human" interactions. They're not normal, polite, restrained-by-social-etiquette-and-culture conversations, it's more like a stream of consciousness, where the most common things said are products of the collective hivemind. People definitely noticed when your beard left as it's a major change in appearance, and it reflects the usually-private experience of being somewhat shocked when a beard is completely shaved and the process of getting used to it over time, but on the internet these "private thoughts" shared by many tend to be aired quite openly. It's important to remember, however, that the vast majority of people watching these are watching for your education and content, and the reflexively commented-on observations aren't what the majority of people are actually focusing on, even if the lack of beard is the first thing they notice (as an example).

[@Farmdogs]

Thank you!! This was so nice to hear. 😊😊 i absolutely love your channels❤ ive learnt soo much. Lots and lots of well wishes from south africa!!

[@derekbailey4151]

John, as a long-time YT student of your channel and someone that has rarely (if ever) commented: I could care less what you hair looks like or if you are bearded; it neither adds nor detracts from your mission to educate your internet pupils. Also, thanks for humanizing this by sharing some of the interactions you had with your mother...I couldn't help by tear up a bit. Much respect, my friend.

[@ChromeForDays]

Good on ya, sir. I wish I had the capability to grow hair now. If I could, I'd let it grow as long as possible, so the haters can just keep hatin'.

[@leehanson1416]

I had a beard when my first son was born. When he was about 9 month, I shaved, and my voice coming out of a stranger terrified the poor kid for a day or two. Now you know the mentality of folks that get upset over hair length or razor use...

[@onelifetolive927]

Lol. I never even had real long hair or a beard of any kind, but getting haircuts has weirded out two of my young kids when they saw me go from maybe 6 inches of hair to about 1 inch. They genuinely got upset for a few minutes because Daddy looked different. Lol

[@ManleyArts]

As one of the people whos made fun of your hair in a previous video I apologize. And God bless your mom. Thank you for doing what you do, you're definitely making the world a better place.

[@Felon_With_A_Pew]

Hello Laura!! I have actually never seen you on a video. I've only been watching the channel for a year or so and I don't always catch every day, even though I try. It's really nice to see John's better half on the channel LOL. No offense John, I think you would agree our wives are always are better halves LOL.

[@kylesanders8276]

I have long hair and donate every 4-5 years. It's not nearly as long as the recent katana-guy bicycle theft defense video, but same type. I've dug your hair ever since you started growing it out. You look like a completely different person overall, you should be proud! We are!

[@rubeclayton8233]

I Once Had Very Long Hair... I Might Grow It Out Again.. I Also Once Weighed Over 400 lbs. So I Completely Understand What You're Saying... You Look Good Dude... Your Happy, Your Wife Is Happy .. Everyone Else, Can Go Pound Sand.!! Rock On With The Great Videos..

[@Surai00]

My wife asked me if I would watch Gilmore Girls once a year, about 5 years ago now. I agreed, but my terms were that we would watch Lord of the Rings (all 6 movies, extended edition, of course) once a year, and I could escape any time she wanted to watch Grey's Anatomy. I agreed to watch Mr. Ballen videos to get her to watch ASP with me. We are all about the fair compromise lol.

[@doulalaurac]

LOVE Grey’s Anatomy too!

[@Surai00]

@doulalaurac It's not a bad show. I just can't keep my mouth shut when they get to the moralizing/political episodes. It's better entertainment for her if I just go ahead and hang out with the dog in another room! 😅

[@JacobOfJedi]

Honestly the hair is legit, wish mine looked good like that, I would flaunt it so hard

[@jonathankammer9078]

Right on.

[@joshmajor8662]

My grandmother asked me to cut my hair before she died, it was to my chest. I cut it for her!! ONLY her Lol it was the last thing she saw, the last thing I saw was her smile…… wouldn’t trade it for the world!! Sorry to hear man, I know she’s in a better place but still! Doesn’t change the hurt..

[@310_Latchkey_kid]

My deepest consoles about your mother.......thanks for your instructional videos......I find them really helpful!!

[@ASPextra]

You are so welcome!

[@a2ztacticalacademy]

It is a great perspective on how people who are keyboard warriors affect others. I really liked the analogy of someone walking down the street. I also really enjoyed the ad-lib video where conversation is light and unplanned. It is very personal and enjoyable.

[@DonLytle68]

It’s great I love it

[@pook1291]

You actually look younger in my opinion. Keep up the great work 👍🏽

[@craigperry6913]

I'm sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. As far as the comments, YOU DO YOU! As long as your look is what you like, honor your mother and your wife! By the way, great to see Mrs. ASP in a video! Keep doing what you all are doing! Love both channels! Love the podcast! Starting to get into the app. Thank you all for what you all do!

[@hippiebits2071]

Seems you have a great wife, John. She instinctively offered clarification several times when you were potentially opening yourself up to the nitpickers in the comment section lol

[@Gunnybumper]

If you are talking about Johns hair, YOU ARE COMMENTING ON THE WRONG CHANNEL!

[@steveneldred8928]

As always, great advice. I had a ponytail for about 15 years (I got rid of it when I had an injury and had difficulty washing my hair). Anyway, my wife and I were traveling a few years ago and visited an antique store in Springfield, Illinois. I found an old U.S. Navy stainless eating try and silverware, and was standing in line waiting to pay for it. The old guy behind me says, "I've had sex with girls who were better looking than you are with your girl hair". I'm like, WTF! (I too learned the language of a sailor : )

[@kenpaulsen5427]

John- keep it up. Gotta keep momma and your precious wife happiest. Thanks for being real. Your bro in Christ!

[@bizango99]

love the hair John. Also like you clean shaven. Love, love, love your channel

[@KyleCombes]

My favorite insult from John is to HK. "You suck & we hate you." 😂

[@ASPextra]

I got it from Larry Correia the best selling author. :)

[@kentonsoufal6340]

Dang John you made me tear up great video, losing a parent is never easy.

[@anthonyranieri2631]

Thank you for your video God bless you and your honoring your mother and i wish i had those curls

[@Timothy-NH]

I've watched this morph over the years, and just the need of people to be rude and nasty online.

[@kellenfurter]

Good to see you!!!!!

[@sanm101]

Sorry to hear about your Mom John. You’re a smart man to listen to the two most important women in your life!

[@nathanwilliams3049]

I love your hair !!!!

[@OregonPacificRailroad]

I gotta say, you look so much younger, fitter, better than ever before. Not that it matters what we look like or that you ever looked bad, but the transformation is really staggering and it gives other people hope that if they take care of themselves, do the right things, they too can transform their lives. I'm not sure why anyone would say anything mean to you about the new look, other than jealousy...honestly. The hair fits you perfectly and getting rid of the beard made a huge difference. I really can't imagine you going back. Don't regrow the beard! LOL.

[@241william]

We pick on you because we like you. At least that’s how I treat my friends. But, yeah… the internet can be dumb.

[@Just1Guy1000]

Hey you do what makes you & those that you care about happy. Belated thoughts to you on the loss of your mother.

[@matthewellisor5835]

Awesome way to turn jerk comments into a good lesson.

[@criswerner174]

Point well said. We all can learn from this video. I love your content. Keep up the good work.

[@js2567]

I've loved the hair change. Never commented on it before just in case it was a real personal thing, but it looks good man.

[@simmonsa77]

My condolences. I am glad you said their comments regarding your appearance don't matter.

[@nickortcoski6769]

Watched you change you body shape over the year's not just the hair mate More power to you!

[@daniel29263]

let's call it an Aspfro 😂

[@ASPextra]

lol

[@RamonRomero-xk7bj]

Your hairs on point brother!

[@ashleyclarkchin]

My only issue with your hair is that it looks SO AWESOME with so little work! I have to do a 10 step wash day that lasts forever to get my curls to behave. ;) Keep doin' you and say hi to Laura for me!

[@doulalaurac]

👋🏼

[@jjoosneaphh]

I guess I am one of those types that noticed but didn't/don't really care what you choose to look like. Simply enjoy the content.

[@ASPextra]

I appreciate that!

[@oldschooljeremy8124]

I used to have a beard, a pretty wild one. It was "Hey, it's Grizzly Adams", "Jeremiah Johnson", "Rasputin", "Unabomber", and at one point "Conor McGregor". :D

[@latinobowman6430]

Fantastic Honest Viddy 🇦🇺✅♥️🏆

[@Smok0z]

I think that the hair looks great I don’t know what people are thinking and also thank you for service and my condolences for your loss John you take care ❤️🙏

[@josh48315]

17 minute video on John’s hair. Bro is obsessed. Vast majority of us don’t care man, you do you and what makes you happy. Great work on the fitness journey keep it up man

[@ASPextra]

No, bro wanted a link to reply to dumb comments with.

[@Felon_With_A_Pew]

​​@@ASPextra lol. People who tell you that the comments that you read aren't really there LOL.

[@TheKingOfInappropriateComments]

I agree with your mom. I think you look absolutely amazing. Congratulations on your transformation. All that ever matters is how you feel when you look in the mirror. My parents have been telling me to cut my hair for 35 years since high school.

[@ElSheepodoggo]

I was convinced someone was filling in for John until I heard him talk.

[@jakeneff9268]

Do what makes you feel the best my guy.

[@markb.1259]

Amen... Well said!!!

[@kurtis7328]

Looks good bro, you do you.

[@max8591]

I think you've never looked better John. Sorry for your loss. I don't know why people think they need to stick their nose in other peoples business. All the best!

[@dreamcastdre]

So sorry for your loss, John, praying for you and your family. I hate that you even felt the need to have to make this video. It’d be nice if people just STFU and mind their own business on stuff that affects them not one iota.

[@nommadd5758]

My deepest condolences for the loss of your mom. Do what makes you happy! Ignore the 'critics'. Do they really have nothing more constructive to do?! Like maybe volunteering at a local 'community kitchen' or food pantry. At least checking on their neighbors and family! Nice to see you two do a segment together! Thank you and God bless the ASP family!

[@jeffriffel4364]

Sorry about your mom. My hair is all Grey, don't care not bald, not concerned about what people think.

[@ivettecabanas602]

I agree with your mom, long hair and no beard 👍

[@loril4886]

Keep doing what you do and keep being who you are John you are an amazing teacher and such a positive influence on people!! Haters gonna hate … misery loves company remember that… wisdom words from my mama ❤ As I listen to this video, I have to add another comment ha ha You can rock whatever look you choose to rock… and like you said your wife is your biggest critic and you know she loves you however you choose to decorate ❤ Your smile will never change and it continues to Show your inner warmth. You do what you do because you care about people( meaning ASP) … and like I said, there’s always going to be those haters because they’re jealous…

[@wantitprintit]

My mom passed in 2003 and had she told me she liked me with long hair I'd be tripping on it by now

[@aLLwOrLdGamer]

Good for you brother! Stay after it!

[@ReDuVernay]

#1: Sorry to hear of your loss. #2: You don't owe us ANY explanation for what you choose to do with YOUR body.

[@matthewtuma218]

I will never understand why people get upset over over things that have zero impact on them.

[@dustinrichards5110]

Damn man you’ve slimmed down. Lookin good 👍🏻

[@ASPextra]

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[@jonathanj.4800]

John, we've had a number of deaths in the family, including my mom - which was a super ouch- and my wife's dad. Also lost other cousins and really close friends (like 4?) We are recovering. But they have those white robes in Heaven. Rev 7:9. Praise the Lord. Still, sorry to hear about your mom. Ouch.

[@ceasargarcia7650]

Hello John. My condolences for the loss of your mom. About your hair, that isn't why I've been a follower of your KZbin channel. I have been following you for 6-8 years or more. I appreciate your training and lessons. That is why I watch. Having said that, don't let the comments bother you. You are a public figure and people will have opinions and take shots at you. You have to expect that. Or it could be just good hearted locker room banter as we would say If people have an issue with your hair or beard or weight just let it roll off your back. Be that good, moral and prudent person that just doesn't take the bait. I would bet that most of those making comments are older conservative guys that don't roll with long hair or beards for that matter. I was a professional first responder for 33 years. As a professional first responder we had grooming standards and that's the look we wanted to project. I think that may be where people are coming from. It does look more professional and serious when a person has short hair. Now I get it you're not a cop and this is your business, so you wear your hair the way you want to. I had a personal side gig where I would put a wig on as an Elvis Tribute Artist and I once had a person say I looked like Lord Farquaad from the movie Shrek. I blew it off. And you know...I did kind of look like Lord Farquaad LOL.. I think you look better with short hair, but it's your life. Wear your hair how you like. Keep up with your show and God bless you for doing it.

[@clintharris1898]

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[@ramairgt2]

I often wonder what I'd look like with longer hair but I cut it every couple weeks and I think its because I used to spend over an hour every day spiking it with gel when I was younger. I'm really sorry for the loss of your mom as well. Mine passed away 7 years ago on September 5th. Anyways it doesn't bother me what you wear, how your hair is etc. I watch your channels for the lessons and improve off those. Keep up your hard work.

[@ASPextra]

I mean, it’s 2024…you can do a spike again! :)

[@ramairgt2]

@ASPextra I probably could but don't have the energy at 5 am before I go to work lol

[@pc5440]

Welcome to the internet. Enjoy your stay. Don't feed the trolls.

[@MRPosserLivestreams]

Dude you do you... but the hair looks funky lol Sorry about your Mom's passing. Heartfelt condolences.

[@olanderdecastro52]

Well John, as a long-time subscriber I am really happy to see you get your weight off and keep it off. Your energy level, demeanor and positiveness are way up. And, as a dude this is hard to say but you have a really handsome face. Keep up the great work!!

[@ASPextra]

Awesome! Thank you!