What's your biggest insecurity?

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[@piqachu]

❤

[@hahaplease97]

I’d be too insecure to even reveal my insecurities.

[@sabrinaaa417]

Sudip Limbu thought it was just me

[@melody-xn1ko]

Me

[@user-pq7ip4if5r]

Same but then we just revealed one of our insecurity.

[@artemis88899]

same

[@anastasiabakali7835]

Wow i thought i was the only one

[@imaynotshow]

The girl who said "My biggest insecurity is myself" and the other one who said "I feel like I am never enough"... man, I felt that.

[@gabbyh.3022]

Mey honestly same. I felt them both so much. I think they both go hand in hand because when you care about others so much you forget to think about yourself and then at the same time you do so much for others that you notice they don’t do as much back

[@imaynotshow]

@@gabbyh.3022 Exactly! We should start being proud of ourselves tho, we deserve it ♥

[@Charleeh3]

They didn’t put themselves out there for you to feel it

[@idwmbijpagu9505]

Mey I was the 1,000th like

[@imaynotshow]

@@idwmbijpagu9505 Gosh I didn't realize it hit 1k until you commented 😂 I'm sorry that we all feel the same, it will for sure get better soon y'all. Sending love 💖

[@jaisha7746]

How attractive do you want these insecure people to be? producer: yes

[@amdl270]

That's what i thought! They are all stunning. It's like they filmed this at a movie or model rolecall. Even the guy who says he has bad skin lools great!

[@Silvia.Araujo]

They are all beautiful in their own way 😃

[@deedeemonroe1076]

Probably went for people who didny have obvious answers ???

[@melissamissingchriscornell2513]

That's our everyday is sunny San Diego for ya😉

[@soalone0024]

That first one.. phew...

[@chandanayj7760]

It’s crazy how our biggest insecurities, as adults, are so heavily influenced by the experiences we had as children.

[@vaidehi_n]

Psychology says*

[@PlaceForAnEcho]

@@vaidehi_n thank you. Literally was going to reply: basis of psychology

[@Zanaze_banane]

@@PlaceForAnEcho Generally yes, but it's not always the case

[@cartooncottage2024]

It's true.

[@Kate-cb5ib]

UR Not Famous

[@victoria_dennis]

Imagine how many people we pass everyday with these same feelings...

[@lana.notdelray_dh]

Not anymore.... Not seeing anyone.....

[@YaswanthKarthick]

@@lana.notdelray_dh True for now

[@hearteyes12373]

yes

[@azaka3720]

I think everyone has some kind of insecurity

[@omegaxx7777]

itslaneya yeah and everyone has their own insecurities but honestly most people don’t think about ur insecurities and ur always just more hard on yourself than how other people look at you

[@bargvili5658]

"my older sister is prettier" they look almost like twins O_o

[@sugarcakezz]

They loook nothing alike one looks more white the other looks like my sister who is half filipina I don’t see it😜

[@Whimswirl]

@@sugarcakezz Honestly, neither of them look white, one just has green eyes.

[@gamerdude9493]

Yeah and they both look beautiful

[@kativ9368]

I thought it was the same person so I skipped forward to see if this had more than one person in the interview

[@bugeye8749]

The younger one has darker features n she’s aware that ppl would by default prefer her sister bc she’s “prettier”... What does that tell u??? ....🙄😒

[@prod.wonder4652]

I’m insecure that people can see I’m insecure.

[@sadypack]

Oh trust me they can tell.

[@lastchance1101]

that's exactly me

[@emanchaudhry4937]

Bruh. Dash deep

[@suzanbkr]

omg I was going to comment the same bc I felt like I was the only one having such a "weird" insecurity. (And personally people usually can't tell I'm insecure unless they really get to know me)

[@Dara-mv4wx]

You’re insecure about what though? Like in order for you to even be insecure in the first place, you’d have to have something to be insecure about. Let’s say maybe you’re insecure about your hair. If that shows then that would be the reason.

[@Phia.the.connection]

I feel like some of these people smile just so they dont cry

[@johnsbanana6611]

Yeah, that’s usually what I do, and some people laugh to help them not cry

[@GeeEmming]

i think they laugh because they´re surprised to hear these comments coming out of their mouth. It might startle someone to say some of these things out loud for the first time.

[@kristagrym]

It's a self defense mechanism to cope .

[@alliexcx5576]

Yeah

[@icecreambodyrolls]

Don't we all

[@svb6594]

First of all....... Being that close to my face would've made me hella insecure.

[@Alexandra94-94]

lol

[@nw6070]

its called zoom lol

[@kimaya.3563]

I think she just zoomed in

[@lana.notdelray_dh]

I really don't think she put a camera that close to their face, they wouldn't even be able to breathe, I think she just zoomed in with a professional app or something because when I zoom in it looks foggy and unclear

[@mehr7774]

lol same

[@tulinha23]

those first 2 girls are god damn so pretty makin ME insecure lol

[@nicolasgongora2234]

Don't be, you are beautiful too

[@em2106]

Tula Borges same lol :(

[@xkiss7072]

Missing the whole point...

[@silvanavalderrama]

They're sisters!

[@lexiharvey8630]

They look like twin sisters but 2 yrs apart

[@homie7530]

my biggest insecurity is the fact that i can't connect with people as deeply as everyone else. i just can't make friends the same way everyone else does.

[@isi_pisi]

Is there a reason why thats so ? 😕

[@alexslaydon5589]

I definitely understand where you're coming from. I'm not quite sure how your life has played out, but having moved cities every year during highschool really messed up my chances of making close friends. It's definitely a shitty feeling. Kinda like you missed out on a "real" childhood ya know?

[@jasmines4236]

Same here ✌️

[@rucinitiva7249]

Homieø omg same! I always watch people become close friends so quickly and I’m like why can’t I do that

[@user-xj6gg5wk8j]

☝️

[@tebogomodingoane3967]

I think everyone just wants to be accepted

[@lunasungacha9970]

Its so sad that society does that

[@Just1Independent1]

We want to be accepted for being our authentic selves

[@bighitstannnnnn1203]

You have to accept yourself before anybody can do that for you.

[@Aunt-B]

That’s why I love my religion, to give an abundance of grace and acceptance is what I strive for.

[@multicreativeartist6579]

My Lonliness *Intensifies*

[@lailajanssen3709]

The girl who said “sometimes I feel like I’m a burden to people” that breaks my heart

[@philima]

I also always feel like that even though I'm very independent. I feel like I can't impose on other people. Sometimes I wish I was able to ask for help or support more easily.

[@beckymaggie4606]

I feel it too

[@RibbonVintageGirl]

Me

[@sannehol6942]

That's how I feel somethimes. Like I'm too "existing". I don't know how to explain it in English.. like I talk to much or something. But I'm just a really present person..

[@xThatxGuy]

She just like me

[@ryleonna]

thank you. from the bottom of my heart. these videos have helped me understand people a little bit more each day.

[@rachelok2253]

SAME!

[@lhntr2]

Same

[@doraumekwe2328]

Same here. I've had people tell me that videos like these are depressing and they don't understand why I watch them, but thing is I don't see them as depressing and they have helped me view life outside of my bubble and sent me on a path of self discovery.

[@strawwberryyy]

exactly.

[@APredictableLife]

makes me realize that we're not alone

[@shemab2639]

*"She was older, she was prettier"* But...but you look like twins 🤷‍♀️

[@allyonightmare]

Not really, no

[@kimaya.3563]

lol thats what I thought

[@greatawakening9185]

Jimmi Johnson only because of the hair lol it makes a difference

[@lunasungacha9970]

its an insecurity, people get major anxiety from it. some people don't even notice it

[@east1845]

Ikr, they look the same to me

[@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327]

If I was asked this question I wouldn’t even know where to start.

[@kendallmcbay2992]

look at youuuu

[@T7d534]

Same tbh but siss you look so beautiful💕

[@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327]

Treasure army xxx Aw, thanks.

[@wherearetheavocadossss]

oh my gosh no u are so beautiful girl!!

[@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327]

@@wherearetheavocadossss Aw, thank you.

[@btslife7226]

The 2 girls at the start are so fckin prettyyy 🥰❤️

[@SGRmoss]

Missed the point

[@nickysancheeks28]

All the girls are beautiful here

[@telepups28]

@@nickysancheeks28 ya

[@cakelady8534]

I think they r sisters

[@happylittletree4932]

They all are beautiful

[@stephanierojas3185]

“Never finding love... my parents didn’t, so I’m scare that I won’t” 10:28 I have tons of insecurities but this one definitely hurt a lot.

[@fatimazahrah6748]

Stephanie Rojas same... it’s scary

[@logiic8835]

Stephanie Rojas her parents didn't find love? What is that suppose to mean?

[@flavia6823]

Dzaki that could mean that the parents split up for example or possibly discovered they were not right for each other... etc Stephanie Rojas i completely agree... it’s such a scary thought

[@64again]

@@logiic8835 , my parent didn't find love either. They divorced before I could remeber, I have no memories of them being together. I'm now 28, and both of them are single and so am I. That is my biggest insecutiry as well.

[@XHollisWood]

Opening our hearts to someone to love could be the hardest thing to do, yet the pain assures us we are alive ! Never give up SR, I’m not 🤔 Thxs for sharing 🚒🚒🚒🚒🚒

[@booklika]

the Sisters in the beginning were so beautiful wow. everybody else too tho

[@thekingcrab1345]

"No one is born ugly, we just live in a judgemental society"

[@sanaaamani3582]

@Karin Korenkova no it isn't😃

[@user-oh1mk6qq8u]

@Karin Korenkova "No one is born ugly" meaning that though some people call you ugly there are still some people who think they are beautiful. Just like you said "beauty can be in the eye of the beholder". "We just live in a judgemental society" no one should call someone ugly just because you find them ugly because ugly and beautiful should be judged by them on the inside. Mostly the people who call others ugly are called ugly by others so if a 100 stops everyone stops. Together we should defend everyone and judge beauty not by the outside but the inside. Just like we all have different understandings we all have standards for beauty but we should keep them to ourselves and love eachother not for their looks but their personality.

[@thelastpigeon8098]

@@user-oh1mk6qq8u If someone is bad looking few people will think they are good looking while the majority will think they aren’t and vice versa. That is an indisputable fact. Its nice to say this isnt true for motivational purposes but sadly that isnt the case.

[@user-oh1mk6qq8u]

@@thelastpigeon8098 Hmm let's look at this. What do you mean by that "bad looking"? Huh by your standards? That bad looking is chosen by us not anyone else. Korea and most of Asia likes fair skin but America likes tanned skin so if you are tanned in front of the people that like fair skin (an example) and consider it as beauty then you are bad looking in their eyes and same goes with people who liked tanned skin. It also happens to eye size, lip size, lip color, weight, height and the list goes on. If someone is the opposite of what the people in their country state or city consider as beauty then they are bad looking to them but still good looking in the place where they consider what they are as beauty so they still are beautiful. Your statement was true but also quite wrong. The people decide who is beautiful and who isn't. One might find you bad looking but others might find you good looking. Let's say there is a most beautiful women and man in the world. Then, you are exposed to the people from all over the world. Do you say that that particular person will be considered beautiful by everyone? At first sight without knowing that particular person is the most beautiful few or many may think they aren't that beautiful or beautiful at all. But if the people keep saying that "they are the most beautiful" over and over again that can mold your opinion and you'll call them beautiful. Same goes with people who are considered ugly. People influence people. There is no change to that.

[@louisaislife2285]

@@tanvisharma2831 Namjoon never said this.

[@unknown_______9417]

3:33 "I'm my biggest insecurity" that was deep sis 😢

[@danielrobinson8176]

Is it really deep tho?

[@unknown_______9417]

@@danielrobinson8176 it's representative of how many ppl nowadays feel

[@views-lz9ww]

not deep at all snowflake

[@danielrobinson8176]

@@unknown_______9417 does relatability constitute for profoundness?

[@morganbrooke8922]

I don’t get it

[@k.larsson1848]

The word *"like"* was said 106 times

[@HiHi-wn9wz]

K.Larsson18 I’m really proud of you for taking your time to do that dedication dude 😂

[@joe123-s9p]

K.Larsson18 the amount of appreciation you got for counting 106 “likes” is exactly 45

[@k.larsson1848]

@@joe123-s9p well I just wrote some random number

[@wherearetheavocados4873]

you have 106 likes 😂

[@aubreyhenson8126]

I was gonna like this comment but it has 106 likes and that's just too perfect dude

[@mesomeone8684]

The deaf woman, "they ignore me" yikes. Hurts my soul. you deserve to always be heard beautiful. 💜

[@charliecastillo2011]

Monique Williams I used to be really insecure about my Deafness. I went through something similar in middle school.

[@afruttyy]

@@charliecastillo2011 So you're fine now?

[@afruttyy]

Wasn't she someone who couldn't talk? She could hear right?

[@cristhalfecunda9246]

When the girl with natural hair popped up, i was like bro i lovveee her hair. Then she goes like "probably my hair" and im like oh i-

[@kategaynor8053]

I KNOW. literally my jaw dropped, if I had her hair I wouldn’t know how to act. I hope she learns to love it

[@Rosecloudlyrics]

I loved her hair

[@abigail.lozano]

Ikr!? Her hair is beautiful!!

[@thatbadgamer4531]

The comment above your said that it’s crazy how much Americans say “like” and you said it 3 times, that was wierd

[@cristhalfecunda9246]

@@thatbadgamer4531 LMAOOO the fact that im not even American😭 i literally learned english from watching tvvv💀

[@itsameasaraht4468]

Older and prettier? You two look so much alike lol you're both gorgeous

[@xLiviPoox]

You must have a very inviting vibe about you. Its amazing how you can get complete strangers to open up so much to you. Not everyone has that skill

[@onenighttoremember]

She probably gets a lot of NOs too but its just not on camera

[@jessieedgil4218]

You'd be surprised how much strangers open up when you ask them a specific question.

[@OuroborosInstitute]

I’m working on that right now, SHES SO GOOD!!!

[@OuroborosInstitute]

onenighttoremember I started making videos similar to this, I’ve already gotten SO many no’s but the yes’s are so amazing. People want to share so much. It’s crazy to me because everyone has a story they want to share but don’t.

[@xLiviPoox]

@@OuroborosInstitute that's good! I hope you continue to do this!

[@theupsidedowndill2915]

My biggest insecurity is that nobody really likes me, not even my friends, they're just being kind out of pity

[@gracewhitmore8198]

TheUpsidedownDill most people don’t waste their time on pity, they probably genuinely think you’re worth their time

[@hanna9630]

TheUpsidedownDill i know hiw it feels.

[@murchan4208]

yes ive definitely felt that. sometimes it makes me feel like im just straight up annoying. my friends know a lot about me, and we're really close. but sometimes I feel like they talk to me just bc of what I'm going through. i can get obsessive and clingy at times because I'm just straight up alone. I know how it feels.

[@mohammadshahir185]

they are not ur friends

[@gracieraquel9172]

same :(

[@tashagomez4206]

My biggest insecurity is that I annoy everyone who come near me. I overthink everything, I get anxiety when talking to new people.

[@manalfattima5404]

Tasha Gomez feel u 😔

[@muskankhan4237]

Me tooo

[@1eft1ungg]

Same

[@j.h.3777]

I find it helpful to think of every new person as a friend or family member. People are just people and as you can see, they all have insecurities.

[@maira7804]

Same bro, that's exactly my problem as well Sorry for this, it sucks

[@Thorayaa]

I just want to say that I LOVE YOU ALL. I wake up every day and I get to live my dream as a filmmaker because of you. I hope you all know just how much your support means to me ❤️

[@trupekamu2126]

Thoraya Maronesy we love you💛💛

[@loser-vp4ye]

♥❤❤♥♥❤

[@potatopotahto5824]

Thank you for providing us with such amazing content!!!

[@xquintessential]

Lmao okay

[@Anna-jl7gy]

I love you and your videos too ❤

[@shukriehasan8460]

On the second girl i thought wowww she looks like the first one!! Aaaand they are sisters, fair enough🤭

[@GeronFletcher]

Shukrie Hasan same lol

[@leonawei2811]

And they are both so unbelievably beautiful, good genes I'd say

[@juli8838]

Both of them are so beautiful!

[@harley4841]

LMAO ME TOO 😭😭😭

[@davinavissers6825]

Haha samee

[@BenJones1127]

I actually love how close the camera is, is that weird?

[@hannahnoel1020]

Ben Jones not a bit. i like it because you can’t see anything else- not their height, figure, clothes. i feel like i’m looking straight into their souls.

[@dianav.8933]

a little bit

[@memeteam6358]

Yeah it’s a bit weird, please calm down.

[@mmmkk8721]

Riaz Ahmed they are calm. everyone has preferences, respect them bro lmfao

[@Tefixitafuckme]

Nope. I feel like they're talking to me

[@gemmadidit4118]

I'm insecure about attracting attention. I grew up with a great deal of criticism. So I find it hard to just relax and be myself because even when I get positive attention I feel overwhelmed.

[@smolgok384]

For real. Me too🙃

[@asudemeryem8832]

You actually just have to stop focusing so much on yourself.. Listen to them and be comfortable They're mostly all looking just at themselves either..

[@erickhealth253]

I can relate.

[@danimelomoura]

Same. my mother used to criticize everything about me when I was a kid even though I was doing great in school.. I was literally the “perfect kid” but nothing I did was good enough that couldn’t have been improved in my mother’s eyes. I developed social anxiety because I was always criticized which made my self esteem very low. Tbh I wanted to push her away from my life but I’m an empath I feel bad and can’t do it. Also I have a hard time receiving compliments. But I’ve been working on healing this trauma and stepping out of my comfort zone to become less social anxious.

[@danbrito9502]

I just realised that the most people in this video said "when I was younger". I thinks this is a big problem.

[@xX13Pwner13Xx]

Freud, among others, has talked about this a lot. It's no secret that most of our issues are rooted in childhood

[@sugarcakezz]

A lot could happen in 20 years. Something new everyday:)

[@danbrito9502]

It seems like it didn't change. Not the way it supposed to be.

[@adrianaa2767]

Yea, some events in your childhood are like seeds, i feel that if you plant it and let it root, it's hard to take it out of you when you're an adult. It sucks

[@weeeewg]

Freud is dancing in his grave

[@dogtooth5913]

the girl at the beginning- who said her biggest insecurity is that she doesn't know who she is and she pours so much of her time into everyone else, she doesn't focus on herself enough, and it keeps her up at night- i relate to *everything* she said

[@blaakcoffee]

Very touching

[@deekshithabelah6870]

Same

[@somebodynooneloves7569]

me too but it's prolly because of my bpd

[@andreamirella5171]

To the girl who's insecurity is their skin and their breakouts.. I honestly couldn't stop looking at your eyes and freckles - you're beautiful!!

[@bryceeckman4294]

which one are u even talking about?

[@emilydickinson5033]

Same! Her eyes are captivating!

[@emilydickinson5033]

@@bryceeckman4294 8:48 :)

[@bryceeckman4294]

@@emilydickinson5033 yup thats who i thought it was thanks.

[@cecemorrow3606]

my lips, my skin, my nose, my weight, my stomach, being too open, my legs, my chest, my body shape, my hands, my feet, me.

[@Ellie-in3dm]

Cece Morrow :((

[@nic9479]

You are perfect exactly the way you are and exactly where you are in life Cece 🌞

[@user71281]

I felt this on another level :,)

[@annyfriessen9163]

Same...And my hair and butt

[@crystalhayter9370]

Relatable af. video titled biggest insecurity and I’m like “I have to pick ONE??”

[@gaytranny1124]

“ I’m basically my biggest insecurity if that makes sense” That hit me hard

[@jemh9620]

Everyone is beautiful. We're just our harshest critics

[@noonie_]

Jemh i love this comment

[@rpwzh5403]

Maybe.

[@Ori0987]

Nobody should be treated badly solely based off appearance, but stop saying that everyone is beautiful. There are attractive, average, and physically ugly people.

[@Jmdeleeuw-]

Those two girls talking about their hight is a great way to show that people can be insecure about both parts of the spectrum. One person their wish can be the other person their insecurity.

[@WalterLiddy]

How does she get people to even answer these questions? I've always found that getting people to talk is like pulling teeth. I'd like to see how she approaches them and what she says to make them so comfortable.

[@nicolapepper7804]

she probably has a really chill and accepting vibe to begin with

[@XsirtX]

It's usually easier to say this kind of stuff to people you don't know, because you know they won't be thinking about it when spending time with you. Or, maybe she offers them money lol

[@Willow420blazeit]

People want that 15 minutes of fame so the camera helps.

[@blue-cc4ul]

@@Willow420blazeit probably scripted, what isn't these days🤢

[@classclown6673]

Cameraman: how much do you want me to zoom I- Producer: yes

[@chickennuggest5253]

It’s a CameraWoman 😂

[@karazor-el6577]

it's actually pretty neat. you clearly see their expression like talking to them face to face

[@KKP-]

🤣🤣🤣 it was nice to laugh when you are watching a very emotionally charged video. Such amazing videos. I can’t stop watching !!!

[@88.vv1]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@dorothyaboagye3363]

I think they did that because if they had shown us a view of their full body we'd get distracted and try to look for the insecurities some of them are talking about (body wise)

[@hipnhappenin]

Are the first two sisters? They look so similar. And both are so beautiful. EDIT: Yes they are.

[@sanai9333]

hipnhappenin yes they are what?

[@kelyann2529]

sisters

[@sanai9333]

Sarius fucking perv

[@AYouTubeChannelwithNoName]

It’s their hair

[@bomoore5170]

Are they actually? If they are then she's talking about her older sister being the first girl? Idk, clarification

[@tuty-756]

I was thinking you could ask question to homeless people... There might be some stories. Also, you can leave a camera on the street with a sign saying "tell me the thing that is stuck in your chest" Sorry if there is any mistake in my English.

[@hazel250]

Great idea 💡

[@conniedavies6372]

that’s a really good idea 💗

[@macyhinds5968]

Those are both really good ideas....I would just be afraid someone would steal the camera.

[@h.s.6269]

I was thinking the same. The idea is beautiful but I'm almost positive someone would try to steal the camera.

[@adrianaa2767]

this is really good idea Naty

[@Kategan]

The amount of "like" Americans say is crazy.

[@starsandsuch7778]

Mostly happens when we, like, get nervous. 😉 But I agree haha

[@jenocidejoy9988]

I'm American and even I don't say it THAT much XD At least with the second girl, I was thinking, how many times is she gonna say "like"

[@T7d534]

I didn't even realise lol

[@bella-jt9cb]

Yet another insecurity of mine

[@kaydenceking5548]

to everyone reading this Jesus loves you so much that He died for you! i pray you surrender you’re so loved!! have a blessed day!

[@Kirby08]

I remember in high school I once told this girl she was so skinny, like soooo skinny, and I genuinely meant it as the best compliment because I loved her body and wished I looked like her. At the time I didn't think how it made her feel but I remember her just standing there with a shy smile and she didn't say thank you which I didn't understand because if someone told me I looked skinny I would of probably been the happiest I could of been... Her friends just stared at me and idk the whole situation makes me cringe when I think about it, we were all in drama class and I don't ever remember having another conversation with her but every now and then I think about the comment I made and how it probably made her feel... I would *never* make a comment about someone being overweight, so then I should never make a comment on someone being underweight either... Lesson learned

[@kathrynjoy2551]

Kirsy Vargas, yes i am skinny but a healthy skinny and i 5.8 so its weird. And when people say that it makes me think “should i get fatter or am i too skinny, do they think i dont eat?” So i get the girl you talked about.

[@lucymane3628]

That was me in high school. The very skinny girl. I hated those comments some people would tell to me eat a burger. I hope the girl you told that too didn’t take it as bad as I would take it.

[@Crystal_Allen]

Thank you so much ... I'm skinny and when ppl tell me about it I don't take it as a compliment

[@sandraolsen868]

same.. im skinny and people alwys say u so skinny. dont u eat? it rlly hurts to hear that..

[@underthestarsoverthemoon4259]

My sister is skinny and very insecure. She is trying to gain weight. She is flat and she wants a butt and everything. She is 21 almost but she looks 10-12 years old because of her body and she doesn’t want people thinking she’s anorexic. She doesn’t look it to me but others who do not know her could think that. She hates when people mention her body. It’s one of her main insecurities. She eats a lot of snacks and fast food and she gains a pound a month. That’s how my older brother was. He’s still skinny but he would be made fun of by my other brothers. All bodies are beautiful.

[@zacharydbooth]

that mother speaking about gaining weight... you are so stunning and radiate beauty. own it - that body made four children!!!

[@CCubes88]

Zach and Abby Vlogs five kids actually!!

[@rainbow-mk2ic]

Zach and Abby Vlogs five*

[@torahnoah5445]

Five, just like my mom

[@vendetta2163]

She has beautiful eyes and eyelashes

[@maggiedk]

Yes!!! She's gorgeous!

[@kenideg1558]

“I’m basically my biggest insecurity is me” I felt this hard because I feel like I’m not enough, I don’t do enough and that nothing about me is good or enough. This is me

[@kokilasharma27]

You are enough love.. you were enough, you are enough and you'll always be enough.. lots of love from mumbai, india 💕

[@jossyj1]

You were enough at your creation💫💕

[@thematriarchy2075]

I send you enough love from Amsterdam the Netherlands to last you a lifetime ❤

[@forrestgump8717]

I'm hard on myself too. Just do the things that make you happy. For me, I always have to be setting goals or working towards something. But, after a while, I noticed I wasn't setting time aside for myself. I was only focusing on my running career and school and video games. I found that when I cleaned up around the house a little ( not even 5 min.) and just sat on my bed, for around an hour thinking about life I felt a lot better after.

[@TheDorreProject]

I've felt that way all my life. It's gotten better, but I still question everything about myself.

[@nico-1553]

Its crazy how most of time when people talk about their insecurities they try to laugh it off at the end to make it feel less of a bad thing. Like everything is okay, and they don't want to feel a burden to other people.

[@ysobell47]

has anyone noticed how beautiful shy people's smiles are??? theyre always the cutest :)

[@sumi8392]

yeahh. dats so true .grt amazing discovery i just realised

[@Seizuresalade]

NOT me

[@sandhyatamang6558]

I'm kinda shy ... this made me smile. 😊😊 Thanks

[@kendallmcbay2992]

i'm shy and this made me smile. Thank you

[@jadorieneedham6213]

I have the most ugliest smile and I don’t smile so people think I’m weird or shy but I’m very open I just don’t like smiling ,talking and like communicating so I am shy but get very talkative with my sister but not my brothers🤔😌

[@weisswurschttv6138]

I swear "like" is the most used word of all time.

[@sandymonye4538]

WeisswurschtTV I hate it so much

[@h.s.6269]

A lot of people use it in place of umm, when they want to fill the silence as they regather their thought process.

[@starcaster1400]

They're trying to process their emotions and say accurately what's on their mind. Don't understand why you'd expect people talking about their emotions to give the most coherent, well put speech ever

[@zeinm.7391]

I was thinking the same!! I use it a lot like... you know what I mean :p

[@bugeye8749]

Bc most ppl are dumb

[@aubreunbray5761]

My face :( Thank you for making this video. Its crazy to see so many beautiful people have insecurity.

[@susieruth1558]

Same here... I had a stroke when I was 11 in 2007 and it changed me drastically. Although I learned to walk fairly quick, I still look deformed and people often look at me with disgust especially little kids

[@dirkbuskermolen4174]

@Empire of the Exiled same, but for me i put baby in front of face. So many people complain that they have a babyface, but they haven't seen me yet lmao. I'm 22 and look under 10. First I thought around 15, but every time i keep thinking about it, I give my face a younger age

[@dirkbuskermolen4174]

every time i see someone who says they have a babyface i think to myself, if that's the average for calling it 'babyface' than i must be a outlier or the ultimate babyface guy. And the fact that I'm a man just makes it way worse because of the masculine standards about men

[@aubreunbray5761]

Amy Rose in sorry to hear that and I bet honestly your one of the best people on earth with a big heart. :)

[@dirkbuskermolen4174]

@@aubreunbray5761 I fully agree. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and your comment is a perfect example

[@joshuagillard5265]

My biggest insecurity is about self-worth. I can never tell if I have done enough to be worthy.

[@blaakcoffee]

You are worthy just because you are you!!

[@lizacruz1467]

Agree

[@maitegonzalez3336]

At 6:00 when the woman said “That I’m not enough for people” I felt that :(

[@laurelmatson1766]

Maite Gonzalez Me too

[@foxiefair123]

Maite Gonzalez Yeah, I feel ya. Who is these days?

[@beckysaldana4010]

Same

[@underthestarsoverthemoon4259]

Same

[@MadonnaGrogan]

Be enough for tourself

[@drewpixels]

Thoraya you need to go International... go on Holiday somewhere and do these videos!! Love it!!

[@lilychiasson2890]

Drew Secky yes! She should travel and see how answers vary all over the world :)

[@yeseniarios3304]

Seriously!! Other cities.

[@powertothelocaldreamer3803]

Yes!

[@nadinebee860]

The amount of times “like” is said in this video LMAAOOO

[@briellegrant4289]

nadine bee yesss😂

[@elliesebastiano3669]

nadine bee omg as I read this someone said “like” lol

[@101byrdie]

nadine bee people say it more when they’re nervous

[@emmaduprazova3799]

i was looking for a comment like this

[@WootyPooh]

Hahaha, I thought the same thing!!

[@bergrugu]

I feel more comfortable sharing my deepest thoughts with the internet than with my friends or family

[@rakadoni8403]

How come ? x

[@berlykimibei7774]

At least you won't be judged harshly by people who you don't know

[@themexicannacho3681]

That’s weird you don’t know us

[@gulgun3079]

feel u bro I thinks it’s so much easier to open up to people u‘re not seeing constantly and idk most of the people on the internet are just so much more open minded and kind and they really listen to you, but I guess that’s because we all are looking for the same. For someone who really listens and accepts u the way u are

[@bergrugu]

@@gulgun3079 bro this was 4 months back, I'm in a total different mood rn... idk, feels weird

[@maddie-rz7nn]

"Im basically my biggest insecurity if that makes sense" Brooooooo that hit me so hard😔 Edit: DAMN thanks for all the likes😲

[@emmarobb6630]

Madeline French I can relate to that person so much

[@oliviamichael652]

Same,,,

[@sophiej6623]

Emma Robb same

[@LinoleumFire]

14 year old girls Omg ThAts So DEep

[@ellebourne5875]

Same

[@meganlutman8585]

I thought the guy at 9:40 was serious for a second. I was like "oh okay then boo, keep on keeping on." 😂

[@nicoaf5183]

I went on my phone just to see if anyone was talking about it before seein the full part caude i wad on my ps4 and i can not see comments

[@singing.winnie]

@@nicoaf5183 exactly what I did as well 😂😂

[@91loveismyreligion]

@Gxzzi Nxnja uhm he is attractive...? Don't project your standards or insecurities on other people. Thanks

[@cocot9414]

Funny thing is I believed him. Because I think people are told "every one has something they are insecure about" and I don't think that's true. I think confident people are misjudged as vain or full of themselves but if they weren't the'd be full of others idea of them and there is when the insecurity is formed. Being full of oneself leaves no room for others ideas of you especially if they are false and limited. Does that make any sense?

[@empressallyson8323]

2:50 okay I’m crying. You are loved you are beautiful mama💗

[@lifeisanenigma213]

Her’s made me tear up. What a sweet momma.

[@lubaperl1484]

I can relate to her 😥💔

[@MD-yt3en]

"Never finding love. My parents didn't so Im scared that I won't. You know." She's representing me. Well, maybe my parents did love each other at first but it changed along the way and they failed to go back to that harmonious relationship they've had before.

[@okaymea]

My biggest insecurity is my lack of social skills and extreme shyness

[@sciencehacker7541]

You can change it

[@gingersnap3024]

Slow Turtle Love Bug I have the same problem, I've watched a lot of videos on the chanel "Charisma on command" . The guy in those videos really helps!!

[@chole4615]

You can over come it :) God bless you❤️

[@Bro-tl1ev]

4:20 Dude your hair is so frikin cool you should be proud of it

[@Princess_Lilly13]

She is gorgeous 💓 her hair is so beautiful 💓

[@sh-cf2yy]

Can’tStopProcrastinatingMate right

[@jakefromstatefarm7363]

420

[@avree.]

420

[@freerights6695]

Ikr I was like tf when she said her hair

[@rickardareichert4212]

My insecurity is definetly being judged and laughed at or hated by people I see

[@anastasiabakali7835]

Same.. But just remember you only live once so don't care about what others say, i know its easy to say but very hard to do it. Being with people who understand you and love you will help and remeber you don't have to be liked by everyone and its okay. If you are a good person and do good things, good people will like you and bad people won't. So if they don't like you you can't do anything about it and you shouldn't care because its not your fault. ❤

[@isi_pisi]

@@anastasiabakali7835 thank you ^-^

[@anastasiabakali7835]

@@isi_pisi 😊❤

[@babychongkerzz3014]

same

[@sharxpendragon]

Me too

[@Maria-qy2sw]

Americans say the word 'like' verrrrrry often

[@NameNik223]

"Yeah, well, you know, that's just, like, your opinion, man"

[@haileylaine5247]

We get nervous 🥺

[@your_local_chipotle9694]

Mostly younger kids tho

[@Be4tJumper]

Not just Americans

[@feet4life155]

So do I and I'm British

[@martairuegas5406]

I am insecure about everything. My smile, laugh, lips, acne, acne scars, body, personality, hair, eyelashes, voice, laugh, anxiety, eye shape, teeth, everything, just everything. I'm not good enough for myself so why would I be good enough for anyone else.

[@fellafifi7700]

It's like ur saying my words... I won't even be able to talk to the camera like that cuz am Hella insecure

[@aliciabea1598]

My biggest insecurity is my height I am 5'5 I want to be alittle taller than that

[@eszterracz17]

You HAVE TO love yourself first, but God loves you before anyone else❤

[@F1ugPlatzz]

@@aliciabea1598 Surely that's the perfect height for a girl?

[@girlnextdoor8109]

Marta Iruegas I feel the same way but let's love ourselves ❤️

[@marcheluki]

Film a behind the scenes. Like, dudeee how do you even make people trust you so fast? Btw love the whole series

[@spacegirli]

That would be so Awesome! I guess it’s because you can clearly feel her genuine aura that she only wants the best

[@gabimarie4297]

A lot of people actually prefer to let themselves be vulnerable around strangers. Ever work as a cashier? You’d hear the craziest stories from people who just have heavy weight on them and probably don’t have anyone else to talk to. I read something before that said a lot of people prefer to open up to a stranger because they don’t feel judged and if they were to be judged it hurts less because you’ll never see that person again.

[@Quahhn]

Like yeah like lol like fr gurl

[@clairecheatham1076]

I think she talks to them for a couple of minutes and then cuts those parts out

[@islandghoul417]

She did!

[@rubychannelingmusic6001]

Why is everybody so god damn beautiful in this video ? Oh I know, it's because they speak from the Heart 🤭

[@byebabies2962]

Ruby Channeling Music you are correct especially first girl

[@saliob32]

Thought the same ! Naked beauty !

[@NameNik223]

That's the only correct answer here :)

[@jshanker2005]

The first girl took my breath away! Gosh, how can people be so beautiful?! Not fair at all !!

[@chloevesnaver]

I didnt know that the first girl were sisters with the second girl lol edit: OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH IVE NEVER GOTTEN SO MANY LIKES BEFORE OR COMMENTS

[@laylajackson99]

chloe anna They talk so similar

[@MaggotfromLA666]

chloe anna it’s obvious

[@juli8838]

@@MaggotfromLA666 it really is!

[@tasnim1559]

they are both equally gorgeoussss

[@lolalola873]

I went back again 😂then realised

[@smokeycat1402]

Guy at 8 minutes gets the award for best glasses.

[@diezaubereule4968]

They're awesome.

[@berryvonpyre6998]

Smokey Cat omg thanks😅

[@ClaireEliseLumiere]

The first two girls could've legitimately been twins, both in looks and the way they talk

[@kylel2576]

They are sisters

[@ClaireEliseLumiere]

@@kylel2576 ok but check this: sisters =/= twins

[@omgurheadsgone]

Claire imo they don’t look like twins, similar features but distinct differences. For example second one has dimples, and a skinnier face. Definitely sisters but not twins.

[@AYouTubeChannelwithNoName]

@Claire Twin Sisters.

[@karaniqueskorner]

omgurheadsgone and one has colored eyes and way lighter hair. But both were EXTREMELY beautiful. When I saw they were both sisters I was pleasantly surprised lol makes sense, beautiful genes.

[@Tanoaproductionsfiji]

If people could see themselves through the eyes of another kind person they would love/like/support themselves way more.

[@sarahrr12345]

Can we just give a shoutout to how she’s filming without a tripod! @5:57 Cameras get heavy after awhile and this steadiness is amazing

[@studyfella695]

So true

[@briannafranklin8263]

Those are some steady arms

[@teona4279]

SHE LIFTS BRO

[@mytopfav4954]

My biggest insecurity is my speaking ability. i find it hard to speak my thoughts and talk in front of people. It makes me shy, quiet, boring and introverted. I tend to keep my thoughts and just listen to people.

[@ghostlycharybdis1806]

myTOPfav neoivan fuck man. Nice to meet you.

[@iliana2003]

Same☹

[@iliana2003]

But still not my biggest insecurity. The way my face looks is

[@Nada8487]

Same !

[@aporielle120]

It would be interesting to ask people what they would do if they got a second chance. The opportunity to start with clean slates and how they would follow their dreams if they got the chance. Loved this video btw

[@sugarcakezz]

Aporielle yes!!!

[@blue_jai2790]

YES THATS SUCH A GREAT QUESTION OMG

[@michii7286]

"as a mom it's hard to take care of yourself"

[@agateklausenberglann986]

9:40 «because i’m just a really perfect person» Mood💀

[@martaleja9279]

I'm your first comment

[@anandadaquino3604]

Dude...

[@1aurina]

So many people scared of being alone or unloved. Breaks my heart

[@huyked]

I'm one of those. And the sad part is that I believe I'd be the most loving person to my significant other. :( Getting past the shyness when I'm attracted to someone is the difficult part. But I'm so natural, talkative, and friendly towards everyone/strangers I meet. Just can't be myself when I'm attracted to them. :\

[@fluffylittleclouds1]

It’s better to be by yourself then feeling alone in a bad relationship. But you can still find someone. People have fallen in love in elderly homes.

[@huyked]

@@mdd25 Aww. Sorry about not being able to see your crush anymore, and that you feel stupid. Hey, just take it for what it is and learn from it. I know, for me, I live by the thought that if I have something positive I'm thinking of about a person, I try to force myself to tell them, because people like to hear honest, positive thoughts about them, and it lifts their spirits. They may think later on in the day, "Hey, that person made my day." :D So I will have to listen to my own advice and do that same thing with a person I'm attracted to.

[@Starlee123]

@@fluffylittleclouds1 thats like 70 years in the future tho I want a significant other soon.

[@bugeye8749]

That’s cause they’re weaklings

[@carry-2757]

"What's your biggest insecurities" Woman: "Height" Me: My body,my teeth,my smile,my laugh,my face,my fingers,my shyness,my personality,my voice,my height,My dumbness,My anxiety

[@shuya1827]

:'< *sends virtual hugs*

[@bambivalent3]

Hey you stole my comment ☺️ x

[@isgodevenreal9925]

Wow you basically described me but add weight and skin tone

[@imane8537]

Ouch that's sad

[@carry-2757]

@@imane8537 it is

[@natashasecrist4838]

Being forgotten. I always try to stay in people‘s memories by being kind, cheerful, funny etc, but in the end i always assume i‘m not important enough in their lives to be remembered. I guess in the end, i feel like i‘m not valuable enough as a person. I‘m always surprised when people want to catch up after some time or i hear that people have been wondering about how i‘ve been doing. As a result, i get crushes very, very easily since i misinterpret common actions as a friend as more meaningful attention.

[@savannahblues5258]

the sisters!! to the younger sister: you’re beautiful girl. you’re sooooo beautiful. stop comparing yourself to your sister, she is not prettier. y’all are both beautiful in so many different ways!!!

[@mina8495]

savannah blues ikr! They’re both gorgeous

[@antoniofernandez3122]

Her older sister is prettier but it doesn't matter

[@TMAC13reloaded]

Her older sis is pretty fine tho

[@rayans6875]

They look the same :/

[@nayeonn1e]

savannah blues i hate how she said her sister is so much prettier :( she’s so gorgeous

[@g-abthebeautyof8415]

New question: What would you want to be known for ?

[@Mary-km7rr]

YES

[@sousouhi4972]

Gabi Anquetil YES

[@nadiah169]

Great one!

[@noonie_]

Gabi Aqtl yess please

[@rosaazul88]

Niiiice

[@Lara-wn5jx]

Drink a shot everytime you hear someone saying "like"

[@painlife6799]

Too much "likes" I'm out lol

[@pitbulls4life141]

Lara 46 alcohol poisoning

[@AYouTubeChannelwithNoName]

It’s awkward

[@user-vq1cj5lq8x]

My mom said something like in California we say like a lot but idk if that’s true

[@krishnarajsinhbihola9928]

After all shots the shots of 'like' I am on a different planet with my hangover

[@freq3493]

My insecurity is being shy , quiet and not so expressive but the greatest one of them all is being introverted and feeling inferior.

[@painexotic3757]

Ehh, once u enter adulthood, this dies off fast. I've always been introverted and stuck to myself. I was insecure about it in school. Got into the adult world. No one pays my bills but me so I can careless what people think about me now lol

[@bellevie04]

I opened this video with the thought, "My skin is my biggest insecurity. I have eczema and it's always had such a huge impact on my life." This illness is isolating. But two people brought up their eczema in this video. It makes me feel less alone.

[@ByMariaSimon]

Same, your not alone except I din have eczema I have psoriasis but pretty much the same ig

[@moisesibarra]

Anjie B I just starting getting it on my hands and face it sucks

[@shonellgraham8414]

I have it on my face,chest n back I don't wear alot of things because of it

[@shonellgraham8414]

@Karina Amadu what's the cream called

[@emilybutruccio2751]

Anjie B same here, it gets so bad I have to skip work and school, it makes me extremely embarrassed to be seen so I avoid social situations or talk down about myself. It covers my entire face neck chest arms legs. It’s all I see in the mirror, I’m trying to realize it’s who I am and I can’t change it but it’s a process of not caring what others think!

[@lolachurchillxx5325]

The real question is- how do you pick just one insecurity💔.. Edit: thanks for the likes lmao never got this many-can I get 1k??

[@pekopekoyama4945]

Exactly, that’s what I was thinking for most of this

[@msbrownie8248]

Lol I only have one insecurity

[@juicebox.319]

Ms Brownie lucky you

[@melv1675]

Ok

[@reno8494]

@@wellplague i somehow can relate to you , though i don't know if that's what people call 'insecurity' , i feel nervous whenever i go outside, it's like all people stare at me , and wherever i go , i am always judged, i don't have any friends i can rely on , I've never told anyone about my feelings , i can't trust anyone . I hate it so much when people stare at me , i get the fact that I'm a mixed race and that they aren't used to seeing me but i wish i can just be ignored , when i meet people they have 'big' expectation from me , but when they see anything they don't like in me , they criticise me , this is somehow started to hate every single person i see . But i changed because of many things that happened to me , like bts for example , because of them , i somehow changed , trying to understand that everything has a reason ,maybe those people who hate me are as stressed out as i am , that's why they don't accept me as one if them , because of differences . I don't really blame them , seeing the real side of our world . I still hate going outside, but i think ,growing up , I'll be able to overcome it , the reason why I'm telling this is : i saw your username, seems like you're also a fan of bts , don't worry , you are beautiful and you don't need to be depressed , just remember what bts tells us , to 'love ourselves' , people are different , you don't have to be like everyone, you should be yourself , because that's what beauty is about , having a good personality, a good way if seeing things , you should know that you're special.

[@PrettyLovex3]

3:55 "I feel like alot of people literally look down on me." Damn I felt that, being short isn't fun.

[@KesserCFC4eva]

Keep going Thoraya. You're awesome!

[@Wen-zy4ic]

I'm insecure about everything of me, like there's nothing that I don't worry about, especially feeling useless

[@ariijacobs24]

Wen I thought the same thing when I read the title...

[@hebaqu9431]

Me too

[@singing.winnie]

hope you know how precious you are. everyone struggles with insecurities but your comment made me sad. you are without a doubt a precious person

[@morgedits]

|-//

[@Johny-Kad]

That piano music in the background gets to me every video! I think that what you do is very important, today we live in such a lonely society, we don't tend to talk about our feelings and we deal with things on our own, sharing what's on your mind can really help understand and deal with things.

[@miguelohara9534]

Do you know the song?

[@reallifelove]

Lesson learnt: We are all the same. We're all just people. We're all insecure. We should accept our perfectly flawed humanity and just let it be enough. Thoraya, you are doing a beautiful thing with this life.

[@tiadyer99]

“i feel like i’m never really good enough” that hit hard🥺

[@keni4532]

Girl at 4:20: My hair Me: *Jaw drops

[@harley4841]

Same, her hair is honestly so gorgeous!!

[@bugeye8749]

Oh please let’s be honest Afro hair is not attractive to most ppl who aren’t black.

[@noodlepotato132]

@@bugeye8749 You really think that? I would love to have beautiful coils, I know many many girls who do too. I'm curious about where you're from/live since you say that most people who aren't black think so

[@Alexacake19]

her hair is incredible!!!

[@blue_jai2790]

Same like it’s so gorgeous honestly

[@PurpleLabyrinth]

So many insecurities.. My weight, my teeth, feeling like I am not beautiful in anyway, a stupid person, a person not worth noticing, a person not worth getting to know because I'm boring or too much to handle sometimes and my biggest insecurity, not worth being loved for all the above.. These are the demons I fight against everyday. I'm working on loving my self better and with more confidence.

[@herstrangekind]

Melody Rosas I have struggled with this as well. I hope you can learn to be kinder to yourself.

[@abig6762]

Hey! If the person in that picture is you, you are beautiful!!!! I love ur hair and in my opinion glasses r rlly cute so u look amazing!

[@tajanarokaj7120]

You are not alone sister

[@zakiyamuhammad9813]

Tbh sameee girl

[@dreyar7153]

Same

[@lifeaskimberly9314]

The deaf girl saying her voice was her biggest insecurity is so sad >:(

[@222-l6h]

True 😢

[@222-l6h]

I was searching for this comment

[@apollospayne]

The first girl is absolutely beautiful

[@j.s.2990]

As well as the second!! 😍

[@kagaria]

No I'm prettier

[@Chezitss]

My insecurity is about how many insecurity’s I have, I’m sure a lot of people have this.

[@e.beauchamp]

9:02 The first thing I noticed when I saw you are your beautiful freckles!!

[@kurenomoto6152]

I'd put a ring on it 🤣 shes cute haha

[@neur0tic]

Same!

[@Mienarrr]

same 😁

[@e.beauchamp]

Anny AmayaAyala Yes! That was the second thing I noticed haha 🙂

[@rosaazul88]

Especially the ones around her eyes 💖

[@morganenaudy175]

I really love the acne of the girl at 9:00 this rlly make her different. love that ! Am I the only one ??

[@ryanmcyuh]

true!