WHAT THEY DO NOT TELL YOU ABOUT DATING SOMEONE YOUNGER

Hi Tribers,
This is an honest conversation about dating a younger man, especially in Nigeria. It chronicles my experiences dating and marrying a man younger than me.
I also linked videos that I think you should watch in case you haven’t seen them. I hope this helps you? Please comment to let me know your thoughts.
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[@dorcasokeowo4695]

Okay, maybe I'm late but still glad I stumbled upon your videos. Was really struggling with the guy I'm presently with because he's 2 years younger... God! I used to say I can't end up with a guy who's younger and that made me go into a frenzy when I discovered that it was happening. Well, we just started and I must say it's the best decision I've made in months. In the place of prayer and by the help of rbs Holy Spirit, I had already reconciled the fact that there was nothing wrong with it but I still desperately wanted a Christian couple in the same boat because I for one have never seen one but you two are answers to prayers🥰. Thank you for yielding!

[@oluwatosinbello2883]

Truth be told, have been married for 10 years now, Marriage is work and it is not for the lazy ones. A lot of teaching, learning and so on but it keeps getting better. God bless you Tito.

[@wifimoney7240]

This teaching and nurturing ministry in "older wife marriage" is not for the faint of heart, I pray for more grace to get the best out of my union. I have dated 10 and 7 years older in the past and I still had to teach sha.

[@tracyomontubu932]

Thank you so much ma’am for sharing this. I’m actually 2 years older than my fiancé and for the most times we don’t even remember about our age difference, like we totally just forget about it. God bless you and keep your marriage ❤️.

[@marianwande3367]

My husband is older than me and we have been married for close to 10 years but I want to say I love you for being sincere. Teaching and nurturing is continuous process even in older men. Thank God you learnt early to ignore gossips and I think that will help. I wish you heaven's Best in your marriage and ministry

[@olaynkcares980]

To protect my mental health, no one knew am 2 years older than my husband, even his parents and my parents doesn’t know not to talk of friends, we are 6 years married now! love my Aremu so much! Will choose him over and over again!

[@frimpongharriet3106]

I can actually relate here.currently dating someone two years and society is always making me feel lyk sh!t.i think it's high time africa accepts such cases cos it's a headache.day in and day out people are always reminding you of your age difference.im glad I chanced upon ur page.God bless

[@olufunmieunice4439]

This is so relatable, my husband and I and months apart and whenever i try to teach him he feels i am ordering him around. I am now learning to correct in Love and also be firm about it.....lol Thank you for Always 🤗😍

[@jessicaezeanyika6974]

I love this woman😄, very blunt and straight to the point💯

[@stelia-ladye7090]

Ma it’s true oo Africa community molds and shapes you for marriage at a very tender age. You’re so funny ma 😂😂😂😂ur explainations cracks me up. 😂😂😂as soon as get up in the morning the first thing you tell God is I am older than my husband for 2yrs you got me rolling with 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

3:15 - "Don't you know that I'm a spec" Such an infectious personality 😂😂😂💜

[@dunnioni1151]

Such a fresh, down to earth but true voice of God to us in our relationships. Thank you, sister

[@abisoladada4214]

It is the set up for me🙌. So Beautiful 🌹❤

[@temiloluwaadeniyi-aogo5554]

Your shirt is very beautiful. I love the shade of green so much.

[@glorieedim]

😄😅😅😅It's the leg shaking for me! "Eskisss me😅" The nuances in these video are everything! Love eeeet😍😍😍

[@oluwatosinbello2883]

A man that does not have mission should not be submit to. I enjoyed every bit of it.

[@olamidedaniels3471]

Hear talk That's what the Bible said abi...I'm just laughing at you women. Make I no talk sha

[@chidimmaokafor5064]

@@olamidedaniels3471 Just out of curiosity, what would be the point of submitting to someone who isn't going anywhere? Apart from the fact that such a person ought not to be in a marriage at all to begin with. It's just an application of the word submission. Imagine carrying a lot of potential, plans and aspirations in life and having to sit idly with someone who isn't just going anywhere but has no plans to go anywhere because you are married. Some women even eventually come to realize that the once-upon-a-time comfortable man they married isn't reaching for anything more than a paycheck in life. So when life happens, he becomes easily discouraged from doing anything for fear of failure and before you know it, the marriage is a mess. She's right when she said men (regardless of their age have an awful lot to learn) and her reason for that are valid.

[@olamidedaniels3471]

@@chidimmaokafor5064 Just answer yes or no. Did the Bible stipulate certain conditions in which a woman must submit to a man and that if the man do not meet those criteria then then the wife can then not submit to the husband abi. I like how you women bend things to suit yourselves lol. So if you married a very ambitious and zealous man and then along the line in the marriage he lost that tenacity to chase after his goals and dreams. Then the wife must revoke her submission to her husband and start full disrespect abi and make his life a living hell. I wonder which version of Bible you all read.

[@olamidedaniels3471]

@@chidimmaokafor5064 If your submission to a man is conditional then by all means avoid marriage as a woman. That ambitious wealthy man can lose it all tomorrow and not have that drive to bounce back then you take back submission abi? Just make sure you don't get married with this mindset I beg you. This is 2022 women work and chase their goals and aspiration too and must of you claim not to need a man. People that do not need a man how will they submit to him abeg tell me. Just don't marry anybody's son and make his life miserable anyways. Go to a convent and submit your life to God since men must meet your terms and conditions to obtain your submission 😏

[@titoluwasam-oladapo]

@@olamidedaniels3471 Actually, there are stipulations in the Bible for a man. You people skip that and focus on the “unconditional”submission of the woman. A man without a mission should not be submitted to i.e. should not be married. Mission is more than job and money! It’s beyond that. So don’t limit a man’s sense of direction, purpose, destiny and calling to his currencies! That’s myopic and base. Instead of fighting how women “see” things, hone your skills to build a mission in alignment with God, and a great woman will follow.

[@aikhuomogbeehimen9287]

I really like your sense of humor and the way u speak

[@ajahsandra1573]

Wow, Hmmmmm, I love you already, like why I'm I just seeing your videos, my sister don't stress yourself, I already subscribed, I'm a new Famz 😆, I can't believe I already watched 5 of your videos, Love you ma'am 🤗🤗.

[@faramayeoyindamola5042]

God bless you for this ma❤

[@belindaboameh6692]

You’re speaking wisdom and making it so interesting 😂

[@abimbolaohiozua]

Thank you Tito for emphasizing on this matter again. Unfortunately mine didn't end the way I would have loved it to, but once beaten twice shy as the saying goes. Next time I'll err on the side of caution. God bless you and your husband and happy birthday again, much love. B!

[@tinycoloredmiracle]

I read your comment and I want you to know that we love you❤❤

[@precioussobamiwa5881]

So much on point points!!!🔥🔥 I needed to hear this! Thank you so much!💛🌹

[@thatitsekirigal]

It is beautiful and simply well put... I love your ajasa, the accent and funny facial expressions...🤣🤣🤣 God continue to bless you and yours🥰🥰💓💓💓

[@oluwatosinbello2883]

same here

[@chetaugbor7755]

Thank you so much for being open minded and everything you said all made sense

[@promiseojukwu544]

Honestly....my dad and mum had a terrible marriage, they divorced and he re-married....to my surprise he is now a "perfect husband". I can't help but feel hurt

[@foluolumideko7701]

Beautiful setup. Great & timely conversation as well. Samuel, you owe me o, you must pay for that ‘bad behaviour’ 😆

[@titoluwasam-oladapo]

My sister, ladies and gentlemen!!! ❤️🥺😘

[@viviadjei]

We are taking notes Ma. God bless you ❤️

[@priscilladickson7193]

Wow,thanks for sharing. And I like your confidence. May the Lord continue to bless your home.

[@tumininuoyinlola6405]

Love your shirt, love the scenery, love love loooovvvveeeee you

[@foyinlolasworld6072]

Awnnnn 😊 thank you so much for this❤️very enlightening Never saw this in this light

[@DoofanHiikyaa]

Beautiful set up, beautiful woman!

[@anitaibetei4899]

On that bossing around part, I've dated a younger guy but the guy was such a boss than even the man I ended up with.

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

7:55 - Hmmmm... I've never considered it this way. Ahh It's a deep pain oo.

[@peacechiamaka440]

Alot of questions has been answered 😮😮

[@chinatumusic3011]

Wow..eye opening and impactful

[@wifimoney7240]

Been waiting for this, thanks so much for sharing this

[@tokehmillah293]

1 yr, 3months older than him too.... We're not married but we're cool so far

[@udueyinprecious6184]

Why do I love you this much😭 Thank you for sharing this ma ❤️

[@rukevwemoses8335]

You are extremely funny, I learnt a lot as well as having fun thank you so much🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@GracefullyKaren]

Tito, thank you for sharing. Your funny. As for 8:00, I laughed. Very insightful 🤗.

[@eniolaenioluwabo7784]

Lollzzz...you're a Porsche kind of street! Your points are valid tho Welldone!!!

[@folasade85]

Hmmmm me that I married someone 5years older than me. It is practically everything that I have to teach him and it's exactly the same way your described your husband's reaction my husband reacts. Sooo many fights ooo. 6years going to 7years. Still at it ooo. Our parents didn't really prepare our boys,so the girls are prepared when the boys remain babies though masculine. Thank God this generation is determined to do better.

[@preciouseniola6417]

It doesn't come up, we're friends right? I love that❤🎉

[@akannitobi3985]

I love this episode so much ,definitely learnt from it 😊

[@chiziteluumeigbo]

Ma Tito I really wish you could do a video on spiritual compatibility in relationship and marriage (i know this sounds somehow 😅). There's this unspoken thing where most ladies expect the guys they're in a relationship to be more spiritually mature than them. Most times that the yard stick that ladies use to measure and gauge if they should be in a relationship with a guy or not. But what if the reverse is the case and the guy is willing to learn and grow. I would really love to hear your thoughts on this. I sincerely hope this made sense. Thank you ❤

[@titoluwasam-oladapo]

Okay. I’ll see if I can whip something up.

[@chiziteluumeigbo]

@@titoluwasam-oladapo thank you ma😁😁😁

[@manyu9089]

​@@titoluwasam-oladapoPlease do, Ma. I know this is far late a request, but I've been learning a lot since I stumbled on your channel some weeks ago. God bless you

[@thulanimlauzi]

I agree please do If it was done please tell me the name

[@loveanuforo]

I concur oooo. I will like to hear your thoughts on spiritual compatibility! I have been so blessed ma! Thank you for yielding.

[@tolulopejaga3510]

Blessed! well-done TITO😍

[@Peacewuraola01]

Thank you so much mama ❤️

[@EwehPromise]

That family member part is another part o.

[@beautifulokeke]

Thank you for saying that,you will train your son too. They too train girls.

[@jumokeoni9133]

This is so helpful 🥰🥰🥰

[@peacechiamaka440]

I love this 😅😅😅😅

[@OpesPOV]

Lol you’re funny. Love your energy

[@gilbertfaith7957]

Notification geng 😊😊

[@akangbeoyebola5969]

❤❤❤❤Thank you for this

[@D-GlobalCrown]

Ho my God! Tito is so crazy...🤣😂🤣

[@Ngozee_]

I love love love you ma 😘❤️😘

[@yellowcabmedia3419]

This is nice.

[@titoluwasam-oladapo]

My G!!

[@fiyinfoluwaadesola9880]

Second today 💃💃💃

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

9:12 - "You will see my ghost in that marriage" 😂😂😂😂 I'm dead. I actually cannot breathe rn 😂😂 It is well. 😂💜

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

4:12- I'm dying of laughter. He'll start cooking at what age Biko 😂😂😂

[@ennydahunsi]

“I’m ageless” 🤣🤣🤣

[@EwehPromise]

Is it advisable to let family members know during courtship that your man is younger. Asking because some members of the family may want to use that to discourage the man

[@realityandtherapy]

Am I the only one who thought Tito is pregnant in the cover of this video? Am I tripping or are we abt to celebrate?

[@ekelindaadaku]

I like your shirt.... I want please 😊😊😊

[@tumininuoyinlola6405]

Me sef oo

[@akinadetolulope3094]

😍

[@paragon001]

How do one handle INSECURITIES as a Man? 🙏

[@titoluwasam-oladapo]

Hi Michael, I guess you’ve given us a topic for discussion. 🙏🏾We’ll deal with this soon. Thank you for watching.

[@paragon001]

@@titoluwasam-oladapo Am Miracle not Michael 😊

[@Jadetalkclub]

My own question is am a Pentecostal church goer and he is a Catholic Church member. Is anything wrong about that?. The only thing is I feel they do not believe in the holy spirit the way a Pentecostal church believes in . But, pls Tito , is it wrong?

[@titoluwasam-oladapo]

What is the Holy Spirit telling you?

[@Jadetalkclub]

@@titoluwasam-oladapo omorr, I don't know really sincerely

[@princessokosun5036]

I think you should have a personal getaway with God to hear His voice

[@igohedimma4691]

Lol @ good morning lord oh I’m 2years older than my husband 😂😂😂

[@Ayomide_C.O]

👏❤

[@DivineOgbemudia-sl1go]

I have a question I'm in the university and there's this guy that likes me but I don't like him ND he's also two years younger than me He's turning 19 ND I'm turning 21 wat should I do please Ma I've also stopped talking to him at some point

[@chigold.2239]

You answered the question yourself. You don't like him. If the first answer doesn't help, try this: if he wasn't younger would you date him?

[@DivineOgbemudia-sl1go]

@@chigold.2239 Ma if he wasn't younger I would date him because he's very nice and he calls me everytime to check up on me But ma we talked it out yesterday now we are talking Ma there is another question I want to ask , ma wat if dere is no spark now ur dating someone ND halfway through the relationship u feel it

[@DivineOgbemudia-sl1go]

But now I like him oo but not as much as he likes me

[@oluwasegunhaziz]

What do married people do?

[@D-GlobalCrown]

They do what the married people do 🤣