What to do if you're Scared or Anxious of Driving | Driving Fear Help

Anxiety, Fear and being scared of driving is a common thing around the world which CAN be overcome with a little time, effort and dedication. Practice and professional help is the key to overcoming driving anxiety, from improving your own driving skills behind the wheel to overcoming the fear after a crash in your own or someone else's car or just a fear that you've had for a while and can't truly explain.
Take your time and keep up the driving practice and you WILL get there! You can turn things you don't like into things you enjoy, driving included.
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[@thefrostscorpion]

I just have the anxiety of what other people think while I'm driving I know it sounds silly but I can't help it

[@MajinMist603]

frost scopion same but I’m more afraid of what other people are going to do than think.

[@Youman-tu8wr]

Majin Mist same I'm afraid of slowing people down

[@seasons1146]

Oh man same as much as i hate to admit it 😭😭 at the time i wasnt good at parking and i got a video made of me by some chinese dude just cuz i wasnt able to do park properly. A man instructed me tho bless his soul but after that ive been sooo scared

[@khangchau9665]

I'm a newly licensed teenager and yes i freak the h*ll out when people tailgating me and honk even when i'm keeping at the speed limit or haven't stopped braking bc the red light was still on ...

[@sharppie8585]

Ikr I don’t wanna inconvenience other drivers or have them get upset with me and that’s what scares me

[@bazasulli4975]

I found that going out late at night where the roads are practicaly empty is good to help driving anxiety. I done it at it worked brilliantly.

[@oscarorozco4452]

Baza Sulli I will try that thank you

[@talcareyifill5937]

Baza Sulli will try that

[@kaungkyaw465]

@@talcareyifill5937 will try that

[@talcareyifill5937]

Kaung Kyaw I did try it and I go in the nites for gas ....nobody is around hehe

[@kaungkyaw465]

@@talcareyifill5937 haha I drove to them at night also and the same thing happened 😂. my telematics company doesn't like me driving at night so it is a bit risky go to go out after 11. When changing lanes how do you know if the car behind in the lane is far enough? Been looking all online but I can't find anything.

[@RB-H]

My main anxiety comes from other drivers, when I look in the centre mirror I get all uneasy. Especially at roundabouts

[@CapybaraConnoisseur89]

Hey I got my license two months ago, been looking for car and got it three day ago. But I was biker for 5 years, still driving in car gives me anxiety, also hate people following me but that is normal. Worst thing in UK is people speeding right up to you and following you all the way.

[@rmg5111]

Same

[@sankikalengo7969]

Same

[@jsafiyya6441]

Passed my test, bought a car yet I'm still shit scared of driving lmao. Your videos are the one thing keeping me sane 🤣

[@Paynos]

Keep up the practice, it gets easier over time!

[@tessnf]

I have the same problem ahh >_

[@pilvion]

I haven’t started driving but all the things that you have to do really intimidates me. I legit have no driving experience. I feel like an instructor would make me really self-aware about mistakes I make. Being 18, I feel left out whenever I see one of my friends driving but all the stuff you can get pulled up on and all the things you need to do to work the car really puts me off. The entire concept of driving intimidates me and makes me anxious whenever I think about it.

[@al1meeo]

Pilvion Me too, and my parents are forcing me to do everything as fast as possible even though I know I might stop in the middle of the road or something because I’m so scared :/

[@sagemaster1357]

I feel the same way

[@rayanu2355]

3years later I would love to know hows drvinging for you rn

[@Alesha_Lewer]

My driving anxiety comes from not trusting my own abilities. I’ve been told by a few people I’m a good safe driver, but I don’t think that or feel that about myself. I got my P1/red P’s license 3 days ago and I’m absolutely terrified to be driving by myself without someone to guide or watch me. I’m trying to get past that and just go on short drives that I know the road, it’s not helping though. I also get really tense and stiff when I’m driving, I really grip the steering wheel hard too

[@thx2933]

Same here, I don’t trust my abilities too, I have a constant fear that I’m going to lose control and might harm somebody! I just applied for driving school after 2 years of delay, but I’m so scared and tensed, all my friends have license but they don’t seem to go through the same problem as me .. I’m a bit glad someone is going through the same problem as me

[@casualonion]

For me, it's roundabouts. I feel pressured by those behind and end up missing gaps which makes it worse. 😕

[@MrCmon113]

Roundabouts are supposed to be easy and safe. I think you Brits are building them wrong.

[@brokefriends6253]

I know right😭 and turns for me😭

[@Myawesomeguineapig]

It's merging onto the freeway for me. I'm in a densely populated area so rush hour is a nightmare

[@rmg5111]

I failed at a roundabout

[@Shanti20057]

Same😞

[@angb1672]

I’m scared of road rage, too many road signs to look out for, too many roundabouts, just really getting something wrong when out and about

[@talcareyifill5937]

Well my anxiety is driving ...but I will do it one day

[@ruthvance8793]

I have spent months researching into ways of beating the fear of driving and found a great resource at Roys Quick Fix (google it if you're interested)

[@edentranlol]

I got used to it in a few days

[@josephmullen3254]

Very sorry to hear that how are you now

[@josephmullen3254]

@@ruthvance8793 i feel loosing control of my car even so I won't but kept getting the feeling

[@clarkiie8620]

I was a late bloomer.. Was 29 when I passed may 16th 2017, I'm 30 now. I was so nervous on my first test, I was forgetting to push the clutch down to even start the engine!! lol I had to take few mins, breathe and relax, once I was rolling I was ok, I did fail but only by one silly mistake due to nerves, which weirdly made me feel better about retaking my test as I realised I wasn't a complete failure?.. I was still very nervous second time around but managed to keep nerves as down as possible and passed with only a few minors, but the anxiety I do get from driving on my own now is quite bad, roundabouts and people right behind me, making me feel like I need to rush are the main culprits!! I'm getting better though and hopefully soon, will be sorted! Any ways enough rambling, great vid for others out there with similar problems =)

[@telcyrachelle]

This may sound weird but can we keep in contact like on fb, idk anyone with driving anxiety and it tends to suck! My anxiety is through the roof!! Im a late bloomer as well. You comment is 2 years old, how is your anxiety now?

[@clarkiie8620]

@@telcyrachelle hey, I did wonder what comment this was on as didn’t even realise been 2 years, time flies ey?! Lol I’m better then it use to be but I also decided to change to automatic just before beginning of this year and that’s definitely eased a lot of the extra worrying for me.. I found out I suffer with severe anxiety in daily life which probably didn’t help as I tend to make big deals out of smallest situations and will think about the smallest detail for days n days and drive myself mad lol but I’ve improved overall and driving wise the change to automatic has helped me out a lot. Though that’s kind of the cheat option I guess haha

[@clarkiie8620]

@@telcyrachelle n sure can message me your FB if you like

[@Paynos]

Ello lads! Shoutout to the livestream crew and people who put those driving practice hours in! Thanks for 20k you beautiful people.

[@abbasfeysal]

Paynos livestream crew 🤙🤘

[@monzy-]

Congrats for 20k bro..thank you for the helpful videos. 😊

[@morbidfanatic7503]

I feel anxious while driving because I have to make decisions in a limited time and I can't just stop my car in the middle of the road and think about what to do

[@ygkayy]

Hello, I've been watching your videos for a while and used them to help me drive. I took my test this morning and passed with 0 DRIVING FAULTS!!!! I couldn't believe it. Thankyou

[@Paynos]

Legend well done! Safe driving my dude

[@adamleeding2023]

Paynos can you give me some advice I passed my test 9 weeks ago I feel nervous because I won't have my instructor with me I haven't driven since I passed my test any tips or advice

[@lynnd.5135]

im having the same problem. i dont know what to do

[@Richesworld1]

Wow congrats, I'm still learning

[@zoeyduthie6382]

Hey I’m a learner driver and I don’t have a lot of confidence in myself and a lot of the problem is other drivers feeling like they are judging me because I’m a learner, watching your videos have actually helped me feel a bit more confident and I also watched you other video with seat positioning and clutch control which helped me a lot too so thank you for these videos!

[@Youman-tu8wr]

Zoey Duthie How is it going now? I'm literally in your position now, afraid of what other people think.

[@np7905]

@@Youman-tu8wr how is it going now?) I'm literally in your position, scared of people and my instructor😅

[@Youman-tu8wr]

N P I don't want to down your confidence but I feel like driving is not for me. After 22 hours or more I'm going to stop doing manual, never got used to it. I know how to drive if I had a car. It's switching gears when turning directions and reversing which is hard for me. I wish I could go back and started doing automatic first not manual. My driving instructor even said go to automatic twice😁😅 But I tell you one thing, don't know where you live but where I live which is Brighton, if you make a mistake people don't get annoyed straight away, they are actually quite patient luckily. But good luck to you👍🏽

[@kas5115]

I have driving with an instructor for 2 hours and I’m so scared :(

[@sagemaster1357]

@@Youman-tu8wr same

[@chloe-janeegan6334]

I’m so glad you made this video, I passed my test last week first time and I get my new car tomorrow and I’ve been so nervous about driving by myself with no one else being there

[@BringIt96]

The scariest thing about driving for me was the idea that I would be in control of a car doing 60MPH 😂 I mean it doesn't feel that fast when you're driving but just the idea that you can do that is crazy

[@raph_csg]

BringIt96 try 120

[@sophiabel6621]

BringIt96 thanks for scaring the hell out of me and other beginners

[@candiceratana6871]

I have the exact same thoughts 😧

[@Shazzkid]

Pussy

[@24Skitz]

I went 150 for my first drive out 😂tf wrong with y’all, have a lil fun

[@sethcrockett9061]

I literally get anxious about every single one of my lessons. I hate stalling when there’s loads of people behind me

[@mixartjohnson8968]

I am scared of driving, I know the problems surrounding and in driving. It makes me anxious. I am so scared of driving, in detention, they threatened to get me in a driving course instead of taking away the possibility of a license. That did actually shape up my behavior. I live in Vegas, and not all the drivers are sober.

[@MrCmon113]

What in the world are you talking about? Why would anyone threaten you with enlisting you in a driving course?

[@mixartjohnson8968]

@@MrCmon113 Ditching classes. What can I say, I need more time to study. It was back in High School. I graduated.

[@Chrisallengallery]

If there is some aspect of driving you hate, like roundabouts, best thing to do is throw yourself in the deep end and do as many roundabouts as you can in a short time. Rinse and repeat with whatever else you are least confident with.

[@Paynos]

100%! Can't learn if you don't get stuck in

[@Chrisallengallery]

I forgot to mention. I was an extremely nervous driver. Only passed my test when I was 25 on the second try. Getting stuck in where it stressed me the most helped me. I reckon I'm a pretty good driver now because of it. Getting lost around Bath and Bristol helped a lot too haha

[@hammadlife325]

Devil's Advocate I am avoiding right turns with yellow box but have been brave enough with motorways and sort of loving the roundabout. You're right though face your fear! 👍🏼

[@Oakleaf700]

@@Chrisallengallery Oh Bristol is horrible to drive in.. so crowded..

[@jonofilms4820]

I highly recommend a dashcam, it actually makes it more enjoyable to drive knowing if anything happens you will have footage. Of course they are mainly used to capture road accidents, but you can also look back on your driving. I have one in the back also which can help prevent tailgaters as they see the camera. I drive at 3:00am many mornings so wild animals are always a problem too...

[@mikeockslong5047]

What's a tailgater lol

[@mrbrandonterry]

@@mikeockslong5047 someone who drives very close to your bumper.

[@mikeockslong5047]

@@mrbrandonterry I don't even remember commenting that and why did I say that I know what a tailgater is lmao

[@jordankhouri4853]

Thank you for making this. It helped calm me down. I was involved in an accident and it caused me anxiety when I would drive. Remembering these tips will help me feel more at ease. Thank you.

[@charlie5273]

Hiya mate can I just say thanks for the consistent uploads recently 👌🏻

[@Paynos]

No worries man, loving being able to be more active!

[@sirbazzamous2386]

Literally just about to search for something like this, love you man 🙏🏾

[@davidhardcore704]

Or buy a sticker that reads ( I support law enforcement).. Got me out of a ticket about 40 times!

[@talcareyifill5937]

I need to buy that lolll

[@novicetheaf]

Legend!

[@SkullThuggery]

Well if that isn’t some bullshit lmao

[@dezikatotaku302]

Facts😂😂

[@vgames1543]

To me it is actually getting into the Car and go. Followed by narrow streets, steep streets, parking and turning around in order to go back. I had a whole lot of driving lessons before I got my license, but I am an insecure person with little self esteem.

[@HardCounter]

At the start of the year (2017), I was in a car crash where the car did flips. It happened because my dad fell asleep at the wheel - he's now diagnosed with insomnia.

[@Paynos]

Sorry to hear that man!

[@vanillacookie900]

I passed my driving test the 3rd time and I was very scared of driving. I think practice is the key and driving at weird hours when there are less cars on the road. If you commit to driving everyday, at first it is challenging but you get used to it quicker. Also, driving alone is the best in my opinion.

[@Richesworld1]

Congrats but you can't drive alone when learning, how to drive. Its will always be with driving instructor. Please how many hours did you drive before the final test?

[@kas5115]

I am driving with an instructor today for two hours and I am so nervous

[@andrealeeman3207]

That was a fantastic video, I just passed my test last week and I found this really helpful! Thank you for all your content, it has really helped me to pass my test and become a more confident and safe driver. X

[@marcsmith8884]

got my first solo motorway run tomorrow, compiled a playlist of music that just fills me with driving confidence and I’m running my subaru that I know will do motorway speeds and protect me if the worst happens. It is genuinely scarier on the motorway with a car that makes a racket at 70 miles an hour, so that’s something to consider when looking for a car that won’t make you too nervous.

[@angrylittledumpling]

Having just moved to the UK from America only a week ago, I have extreme anxiety at the thought of having to drive soon. Today I was told that I have an appointment next week that I will have to drive myself to, I had to excuse myself and take a moment so I wouldn't start crying at the idea. Driving in England freaks me out. The roads are SO tiny I feel like I'm going to get hit by an oncoming car or I'm going to hit a car parked on the road, and the roadabouts TERRIFY me. Thanks for this video!!!

[@JenRose]

I've failed three times now, all for stupid mistakes. It's so frustrating but I get so anxious everytime🙄.

[@TD-tq2ob]

It will get better the more you drive and when you have your licence

[@rmg5111]

I failed 3 times too then my theory expired nervous to do it all again now 😞

[@dezikatotaku302]

Aww guys this makes me feel better i need to learn period im fuckin 37 im so fearfull..but its also L.A easy to get around.

[@telcyrachelle]

Im almost 30 and still freak out

[@sociallyresponsiblexenomor7608]

I took drivers ed and it helped a lot at first; until I couldn't get any driving time in for months at a time and I made a note to the school asking what was up; and my instructor got hella mad I "filed a complaint" and was agitated and...unpleasant all next driving session. Having someone there evaluating you who hates your guts only made it even more stressful. I suggest just getting a friend or someone that you trust and who has a solid driving experience to just come along and coach you...better than any drivers ed honestly as long as they don't pass on any bad habbits they may have.

[@jabzz789]

I passed my driving 7 years ago yet I still watch your videos lol, great content mate 👍🏼

[@renaulttoyota6794]

I have my test in 6 days lol

[@jabzz789]

Good luck 👍🏼

[@Paynos]

Cheers lad

[@omarzowila]

Whenever I get my permit, I am definitely gonna want to get myself a 2001 Chevrolet Suburban Z71, & the Z71 is the Off-Road version of the GM Trucks & SUVs & that Suburban doesn’t even look like a normal boring Soccer Mom car on the outside because it has black rims & Off-Road tires

[@dailyteens8]

I go at night with my father but I’m still nervous as hell especially when there is a driver behind me honking! Bruh it’s scary

[@callum9513]

I watch your videos before I do a lesson, it always helps.

[@theboutique1]

Thank you for making this video, when I was learning I took my driving test a few times, about 5 ... I have passed now but I'm fearful to drive because of mistakes I made when on my tests (that I failed) I won't say because it's embarrassing tho. I try and rationalise by saying though there was one or two test fails for dangerous stuff, and the instructor intervened that was because I wasn't ready to pass and I just needed to learn some more and I could do it, which is what happened and I passed. Plus I wouldn't make the same mistake again. And the other times I failed (and I'm not saying I should have passed) but if I was to make the same mistake again whilst driving on my own then the worse that would happen is I'd bump the curb softly when parking which isn't a problem. When I passsed I only got 2 minors

[@julietzena2041]

Thankfully I'm not too anxious anymore. But I'm sure this video will help others, lots of good advice. ☺️

[@sweatinglikegaryglitterint6701]

JulietZena are you currently doing your lessons?

[@julietzena2041]

Hood lum no I passed my test about 5 months ago.

[@krayonss]

I've never been anxious behind the wheel other than actually sitting my test, my friends say I'm too confident now. But for whatever reason I was just a bundle of nerves when I took my test. But everyone gets their license eventually, so the best advice anyone ever gave me was to just think about your next test and what you're going to improve whilst doing your current one to bring your nerves down and let you ignore all the little mistakes that drive you crazy

[@julietzena2041]

Keenan Negus it is possible to be too confident. As long as you don't act like you're better than everyone then you should be fine. Exactly, everyone gets there eventually.

[@TopMassEntertainment]

haawt

[@kylawatson4603]

I actually am scared of driving because of accidents and crashes I'm about to start my driving test learning In summer after i turn 15 and I'm watching this video to help get over my fear

[@astrolover4061]

My fear is I'm going to do something wrong and lose my licence.

[@preetmusic3]

This couldnt have come at a better time tbh, im having driving lessons atm and i get nervous quite a bit so this was super helpful!

[@shannonwiley7455]

My peer pressure is my husband I'm 24 and very scared af

[@BenNeedsATheme4aDream]

Just tell him off road to stfu and support u ... Ur gonna be awesome ...don't worry✌️✌️

[@felyganda1614]

Mee too he screams makes it more scaring

[@ghostparty2062]

IV just passed my test first time today 😁 pretty anxious about been out on my own now

[@dibyadipandutta4712]

Paynos thank you so much for your suggestions just Loved it 🤘🏻

[@grunge_surf_witch_uk9130]

I’m 42 and has lessons on and off over the years mainly once a week but run out of money...I have developed more of a fear since I started.. I nearly took my test once but the test center closed and Im thinking of trying again I passed my theory test last month so need to find a nice instructor who understands my fears.

[@katyemma4557]

very helpful video, thank so much for the upload, i get very nervous about driving, even though i passed my test last year

[@anonymousmind]

Do POV Driving Videos with a foot cam and a shift cam!

[@Paynos]

Coming up fam

[@anonymousmind]

Paynos are you live streaming today?

[@CrispThegamer]

PLS :D

[@freemusic7421]

Anonymous Yes I agree with you have written - it's more difficult than some people make out to overcome fear of driving. You should be aware of this and take advice from others. I searched round many websites and found plenty of good help by searching google on sites such as Fergs Driver Dismay. I wish you luck and hope you are successful!

[@anonymousmind]

TrusTIo TrusTiov what are you talking about?

[@jackmurphy2262]

hi i get very bad panic attacks on motor ways its a feeling of being traped and its the fear of dieing feeling, the worst feeling is if i had to be a passenger in car with a pearson that are not careful and drive too fast most people i know do that, so in a way if feel doomed if ever on a long trip like a breack down, what help should i get for panic attack driveing does anyone know if so get back to me asap thanks

[@serzlaky5266]

here's a few things ways of beating the fear of driving take somebody with you do additional driving lessons don't drive after dark listen to quite music (I read these and the reasons they work on Fergs Driver Dismay site )

[@wwesk8jpd]

Passed my test a week ago , this helped cheers pal

[@mamunaakbar8391]

Got my driving test on Monday- wish me luck 😩❤️

[@Kruxxin]

Mamuna Akbar how you do

[@cyrodilicbrandy]

I used Rescue Remedy, worked a charm! Although gotta be careful as I’m pretty sure it contains alcohol in tiny amounts 😂

[@Monikaummos]

Ooh thank you thank you thank you. I failed four times. Feel like giving up so scared to go on the test again! Decided to change the area as had the same examiner fail me three times !! Weak in the knees every time, with your video I will be much better now :)

[@luciejade8387]

Monika Mneimneh did u pass ?

[@rossg964]

Did you find mock tests were much stricter than the actual test? My instructor gave me a serious for indicating a second too early... 😐

[@clairemills9957]

I'm scared of every thing the lessons the theory test the high way code and being on a road with other drivers all the other tests and and have mild learning difficulty

[@oursummerjam]

Thank you. I needed this

[@valentinozoboli4592]

Passed my test second time. I've got a 1.4 Seat Ibiza SE 2003 now. The driving isn't so bad to be honest, it's really fine. The only problem is that I'm going to have to have a Black box installed and the policy could go up if my driving isn't good.. It could also go down to be fair but it just makes me feel a little apprehensive..

[@iTzAdzii]

Pay all at once.

[@valentinozoboli4592]

We have but the insurance provider reduces the premium or increases it depending on your driving, it's odd.

[@MrBeakman]

An insurance provider can't increase your premium even if you score 1/10 or whatever the equivalent is with your provider, you will not get discounts and your renewal after the year is done may be higher but you will not ever get charged more for driving badly. Hope that helps :)

[@dyerma2327]

fuck sake i hate loving cars at 14, i cant wait to drive and i have to wait sooooo long, ahhhhhhhhhh

[@CommonG]

Bro believe me time will fly

[@dyerma2327]

i hope so.

[@Paynos]

You'll get there my man. Start learning now and you'll be flying when you can drive

[@dyerma2327]

Thanks Man Your Vids Help A Lot Informing Me About It.

[@rae.......]

Thanks so much for your advice!!

[@01Psyc]

I’m 16, and my mom wants me to get my permit already but I told her that I can’t because I’m scared, and I can barely place my hands on the wheel without feeling my heart beating slower every minute. It’s weird because whenever I drive with my friends, I don’t feel anything. I just feel normal, no fear. BUT WHEN ITS WITH MY PARENTS, I’m scared asf.

[@paigeoschwald9159]

s t e f a n i sameeee, except i have my license lmao but i drive rlly well alone

[@duskshadowpaws4434]

My problem is something that happened before, it was on my 4th driving lesson (doing my 5th tomorrow which is why I found this vid), I was going down a village road, cars parked on my side and the opposite side, my instructor tells me to go ahead and then go into a small gap up ahead to let a bigger vehicle move past going the opposite way, it was a bright red fire truck, and I'm not sure what happened, it was all over so quickly, I don't know if I froze or panicked or what, but the instructor took control, put on the brakes as I was steering into the gap he had indicated and we managed to slow down and stop without hitting anything and the fire truck could get past, same lesson 10 minutes or so later there were 2 vehicles that were stopped on the road for unknown reasons so my instructor told me to put my right signal on to overtake, but as he was telling me to do that I was doing as he said, but I must've panicked and locked up again because I saw another car coming down the road heading towards me, I wasn't sure whether to continue following the instructions and overtake or slow down and stop and I didn't want to disobey the instructor so I started to overtake, again, the instructor corrects my steering and there's just enough room for me and the car going the other way to get past, suffice to say, I had a slight case of the shakes after that for a good 30 minutes, I'm not sure whether I should be afraid or dreading my next lesson, either way it's left a bad taste on my tongue

[@valkon_]

Are you supposed to look over your shoulder when changing lanes?

[@ShadowMoon96]

I’m just scared of crashing again

[@shroomtea]

I've had a couple lessons in a petrol car and I've practiced in my mom's car. I get alot of anxiety when there's cars behind me or by traffic lights. the other day I tried to drive my dads diesel, it was a complete flop and brought down my confidence a lot. I ended up crying after because I've been learning for so long and I keep getting worse.

[@mariemarshall2862]

I get anxiety about fast moving roads e.g. Motorways and I panic when I stall my car. I just find that praticising over and over and over on my own helps. I have yet to tackle motorways but I did pass 6 six weeks ago and live and work local to Basildon.

[@Premises225]

I've passed my test but I don't think that I'm 100% on the road that's why I'm doing the IAM advanced driving course so you feel more confident in your own car etc

[@thatomotau8785]

I got a new ride last week Saturday and honestly the best advice I got was to just keep driving. Out of 8 days, I've driven that car like 6 days and by the 5th day, I could fiddle with the radio(stupid I know) while waiting at stop sign. I wouldn't dare look at it on the first day. Now it's kinda gravy. It really gets easier everytime you drive. The only way is to face it. Great video bro. Oh and another thing, my driving improved much much more when I was alone with no critical passenger. You have to remember all of us will have unique driving styles and everyone wants you to drive like them. As long you got the basics down, you'll figure out most stuff on your own.💯🙏🏾🔥

[@gcvcodis6982]

In the US driving tests are soooo inconsistent! My cousin failed the test the first time. And the second time the car he brought failed, so he had to borrow a car on the spot from a very nice girl. That car failed to, even though it passed 15 minuets ago... it’s all bullcrap, you really have to get lucky like I did to pass it the first time. So don’t feel bad if you fail the first few times. It’s just luck with your instructor.

[@talcareyifill5937]

PCruler it’s not luck..practices practices practice

[@talcareyifill5937]

I am planing to do just what you say....hate left turns (was in an accident) I need a refresher course.

[@ismazzbot]

I’m not scared to drive automatic but I am scared to drive standard. I’m just scared that the car will turn off in a uphill and I hit the car behind me

[@Ross-ve9ww]

Same I just don’t trust myself with a manual!

[@Douglas-1994]

I have a road rage fear, driving fear, what people think of my driving fear etc... I've uncontrollably crying on and off about it for two months straight and I can't take it anymore.😭😭😭. I'm close to calling 988

[@TheBokChoy]

I don't really understand the phase 'good driver'. Of course I understand what it means, but what does it actually imply? If following all the rules 100% and driving how an instructor would like you to makes you a good driver then so be it, but I don't think most people would agree. Surely a good driver would be someone who knows their car well, what it's limits are, how far you can push it, how to maintain it, etc... Confidence is another factor. You can be a somewhat sloppy driver but I would say that is better than sitting at a roundabout for 30 minutes too scared to pull out, and then crawling when you finally do decide to move. I've loved cars since I was born, and they're amazing things. One of the best inventions to date. On the midnight of my 17th I drove 40 miles with my dad sat beside me. No issues at all apart from a jerky shift or two. And that's mainly due to confidence. I live and breathe cars, so when the time came I just instinctively knew what to do. I know most drivers are unlike this, and it urks me a little bit when people talk of driving as just an A to B activity, especially when they also claim themselves to be 'amazing drivers' (Spoilers: They're usually not) I'm happy for people to be driving, and I'm even happier for those who take an active interest in it even if they aren't a massive fan of the mechanics of a car. But having knowledge of a car really REALLY helps you to be a 'good' driver. Knowing that a clutch is two weighted 'discs' that bind via friction really helps. A couple of my less car-literate friends managed to improve their clutch control by quite a margin after I taught them how the clutch worked.

[@purplevickie]

Tomshotz That really doesn't help if you find cars very boring and don't care how they work 😁 They're just machinery, I don't understand why anyone finds them interesting.

[@RGB2060]

Got my license in 2012 and my fear never really went away. Sure I'm not as anxious as I once was, but If I can get to some place without driving, I'll be more than happy to do so. When I have to visit my friends who live more than an hour away from where I live my heart still sinks all the time 🤣 and when I have to go somewhere I don't know, even using the navigator, I'd prefer to just disappear at that moment altogether 😂 but in the end I never really had any issue, always drove safely and never crashed, however it still makes me extremely anxious when I have people behind me who clearly would like to go faster.

[@kevinm8916]

I am so nervous about driving. I took the driving test maybe 2 months ago and passed first try but its always scary when I normally drive. I feel like my ability to drive is average but when cars are behind me and I am going the speed limit and they are close I think I am going slow and if I need to take a right I put my signal on but I feel like they will just ram into me when I slow down to turn. My parents tell me I am driving fine and if drivers think I am slow they should just pass me but to never speed up because you are right and its just a feeling that moment. Idk I am going to try to think I am right and just be confident and not be pressured by other drivers

[@rssbssb2942]

Hi do you have any tips how to drive safely with on coming cars on a tight road with a small gap

[@cjfeliciano5231]

I've been in 4 accident most of them not my fault but I'm not confident whatsoever driving I've been biten by the luck of having a couple of my cars total.

[@angiebannany679]

Listening to you talk I won't be scared

[@chazteb]

my anxiety is that im always speeding, and that im going to get caught speeding.

[@eleanorsmith696]

Omg same. I thought i was the only one

[@chazteb]

@@eleanorsmith696 1 year ago wow, that was when I passed my test, its much better now! just keep calm, check your road signs and keep an eye on your speedo, but don’t stare at it. You can’t go far wrong, I’ve learnt this in my first year its all part of being a new driver 👍

[@eleanorsmith696]

@@chazteb i didn't see that it was a year ago😂. That's very comforting. I am a new driver and driving makes me so nervous!! Especially since I have to do it for my job. But to know it gets better is very good news ☺️☺️

[@Flowermouth]

Paynos, where are you from? I've seen those blackmarket stickers on a few BMWs and Skylines around New Milton.

[@horrorcops]

I'm going to pick up my new car tomorrow, I've got to drive it home first time after passing my test...found your channel

[@lavayuki]

I just get nervous on big motorways and those massive roundabouts at the exits with multiple lanes. I took a motorway lesson after my test but still get nervous on my own, especially when I miss an exit and have to turn around using the roundabout at the next exit.

[@Aldeveron]

I’m close to being ready for my test 😛 can’t wait gunna be awesome.

[@tanyamarie1992]

Thanks for this video!! 🚗

[@eringarceau3752]

Actually if someone's tailgating you and you hit the brakes and they hit you, and they rear end you it's not your fault it's their fault :)

[@ajgardiner77]

I just bought my first car, i passed my test 7 months ago. but i am now nervous to drive again. i haven't even driven the new car yet. mostly because i learned in a diesel - just lifting off the clutch to take off. now i need to learn the petrol way :P i know i can drive so i don't know why this little element i have to relearn is putting me off so much.

[@aysha-i-i2z]

ajgardiner77 same here ,how u going ??

[@drippypipes1932]

It’s just that I’m about to get my learners and I haven’t driven really ever, of course of driven for like my brother if they need something or driven home from somewhere that was a short distance, but I don’t really have any experience driving on an actual road and I’m just worried in general

[@tobybryan02]

Giving way in tight spaces is the one for me

[@josephmullen3254]

Going on long journeys like over 20km is this weird, should you drive on the same road every day I feel anxious on the surface of some roads or turns

[@justhuman4746]

When I was about to take my test I was so anxious it was terrible and my friend was like "Ohh test is so easy!" Guess who did the test and who didnt! I did ! he failed! lol

[@jorgemota8229]

Same me I am scared of making mistakes on the road

[@carilumadue5735]

I have my permit and I’m afraid to learn to drive bc it’s actually scarier than I thought. And I wish I had my own car bc when driving with my parents they give me anxiety bc they think I’m going to crash their car. And everytime I turn the car to the right or left when I’m turning I get so scared like do I keep my foot on the break or take it off IDKKKK

[@nataliedebiase5089]

Just discovered your channel after recently passing my test, finding these really useful & helpful thank you! I know this video is old now but please stop introducing your vids with hello 'lads' 😅

[@josephmullen8160]

Hi my fear is driving far from home like over 20 miles I get really anxious and feel like I am going to die, so if anyone out there has the same thing please contact me thanks please.

[@londonschannel1864]

I feel like that too

[@aaliyaha4011]

Any recommendations for advanced track courses which aren't too pricey?

[@woolenhat5796]

Lads. Lads. Lads. Lads. Lads.

[@epic321123]

I'm going to start driving soon and I keep having nightmares about flooring the brakes but the car doesn't stop and it's giving me so much anxiety...

[@marcsmith8884]

Take this as a reason to learn how to check your brakes. Not only will it bring you knowledge but also help you quell your anxiety since you know what to look for before you drive the car. As for driving? It’s nigh on impossible for all of your brakes to fail at the same time. The brakes use split systems nowadays, so if one set doesn’t work, you still have two at the minimum to allow you to stop. In the 0.0001% chance your normal brakes did fail, handbrakes are cable operated, so you can still use your handbrake to bring yourself to a stop if needed.

[@epic321123]

@@marcsmith8884 That's really helpful, thank you!

[@alexandraz.7951]

I got my test next month and I still make mistakes! My instructor told me that we might have to postponed my test but I don't want to.. I have good and bad days. Last Sunday I was approaching a roundabout and while i was checking my right mirror I drifted to the left :( and my instructor had a go at me saying that he can't take me to the test if I'm making these kind of mistakes. He said if I fail then his pass rate will go down.

[@sundayfunday722]

Not really my business, but it sounds like your instructor cares more about money and statistics than he does his own customers which is sad :/.

[@aliyaanderson1852]

First time ever driving, pulling out out of driveway the car was in reverse and my grandma told me “go back into the driveway quickly there’s someone waiting” so I did but I forgot to put the car back into drive and almost drove backwards into a tree so now I’m scared to drive still and it’s been 5 years I was 19 now I’m 24 and still can’t drive I let my permit expire and never got my N 😩😩😩

[@zanes-g179]

I have my first drive in about 15 minutes lol but this helped man, thanks! 😂

[@Faith-sr8zw]

I forget to blink because i feel like my eyes need to be everywhere