What To Look For In A Future Husband/Wife

[@han3298]

i saw the title of this video and immediately clicked. this topic has been on my mind a lot lately and i’ve been praying about it. so thank you for sharing y’alls advice :)

[@ChelseaandNick]

Hannah Lynn so so glad we made it! 💓🙏🏼

[@kykyossur4665]

It’s refreshing to see a couple that has such strong values, love your videos!

[@ChelseaandNick]

KyKy Ossur we so appreciate this! Thank you!!

[@nighttime5585]

I think of you two not only as family in Christ, but as friends too. Love you guys so much and know I keep you in my prayers daily.

[@ChelseaandNick]

NightTime you are so kind 😭 You have no idea how much this means to us!

[@sejalchettri2760]

I'm a Hindu but i love seeing you guys talk so much about God, faith and love in general 💜 Hugs and prayers for both of you 💖

[@ChelseaandNick]

Sejal chettri thank you so much for being willing to listen it! ❤️ Appreciate you!

[@teamwerewolf1998]

I’m currently in a situation where I more than likely am going to end a relationship with someone I love. Literally every bullet point I feel I haven’t gotten from him in the year we’ve been together. Lately he’s become what he said he’d never be and has been basically objectifying me and I’m not having it at all. Just asking for prayers right now as I figure out what to say to him. I truly thought he knew I wanted a God centered relationship and he doesn’t necessarily want anymore.

[@ChelseaandNick]

Brooke W so sorry girl, but it’s the best thing to do when you know you should end it. You got this, and it’s only going to improve you in the long run! 🙏🏼

[@teamwerewolf1998]

The Hurst Family I ended things with him tonight. I don’t know why I’m publicly announcing, but it kinda feels better to say it. I just feel awful 😂

[@Itsalejandra97]

This video is so God sent ❤️ I was talking to my mom about the qualities I’d want in my future husband and then this video pops up in my notifications. I love listening to you guys and relating bc we’re the same age. You guys are such a blessing in my life. Thank you for everything. God bless.

[@ChelseaandNick]

Alejandra Morales 😭😭❤️

[@ChelseaandNick]

Alejandra Morales wow that’s amazing!! So glad it was timely 🙏🏼❤️

[@ByAnnieBasson]

I always knew I would date someone i would want to marry. I had tried online dating, granted it has it's difficulties, however, I've found my guy. Yes i have personal struggles but I can't help but think he was made for me. We both have an awful sense of humour, love the same music and have the same aspirations. I love him so much and he is my person. I'm 19, he's the first proper date I've been on. He's my first boyfriend. My first love. My only love. It's difficult don't get me wrong, but I wouldn't change any of it. Trust me, if you are in the position where you wonder why its everyone else and not you, your time will come! Trust me

[@jenniforjenessa]

Y'all are making me wanna write my own husband characteristic list. I never thought it would feel so fun and exciting when you read it with your future husband. You guys inspired me to do it. Thank you 💖

[@kassandrajohnson2939]

Some great ideas here. I'm working on a second list that's more than my own personal preference and includes specific Bible verses for every point. It's been a lot of fun!

[@ChelseaandNick]

Hopelessly Homeschooled that’s incredible! Keep it up

[@abbyr.]

"You can't just drive to South Africa, that'd be really difficult"😆

[@ChelseaandNick]

Abby R. I wish i could 😂😂😂

[@agathafriessen3006]

Such deep and meaningful qualities to look for in a spouse. Every teenager should watch this. Love you guys.

[@ChelseaandNick]

Agatha Friessen you are kind!! So glad you think so.

[@jacindaarndt5623]

I had my baby girl in March 2019, on the 14th! I think its a super special time, clearly others had life altering changes during that time too!

[@MrLisarn2]

Working from home IS a thing. Love you guys. Great vid.

[@ChelseaandNick]

Lisa Wilson yes it is! Love you ❤️❤️❤️

[@VeggiesbyEos]

"genuine and protects my heart" ♥️

[@ChelseaandNick]

Veggies by Eos it’s one to have for sure! 🙌🏻

[@girlspaulding8857]

As soon as this popped up I clicked on it. I’ve been talking to a guy that’s in my class lately and we have a lot a like but there seems to be communicate issues between us and I just don’t know what to do. We’re just friends rn but i think we definitely like each other

[@girlspaulding8857]

I’ve been just praying for the right guy to come along

[@ChelseaandNick]

Tink Spaulding keep taking things slow and just get to know one another! There is no rush 😊

[@girlspaulding8857]

The Hurst Family Thank you ❤️

[@shevegan4302]

I agree! I married my first boyfriend when I was 22. We will celebrate our 10th anniversary next week! My parents didn’t have any relationships before getting together either. I believe it’s the best way to do it but some effort is required before jumping into a relationship with that person. We were friends first and we talked through everything before deciding to move forward with a relationship and then marriage.

[@kezziahlibarra]

The way you look at her, it feels like she is the most beautiful diamond you ever saw. And indeed she is beautiful. You both are lucky that God collided your path. I really hope someday God will also grant my wish to have someone I could love and God will also be the center of it. By the way I'm a new subscriber. And I'm loving you guys. Keep growing together with God ❤

[@ethankimmes]

Don’t say “I hope” say “He will” He knows your needs. In the right time he will absolutely without a question of a doubt bless you with that Guy you are praying for. I have that same dream/prayer. And I even got a vision from God about what she looks like. I’m already thanking God I’m advance for her. Have unwavering faith 😊 he’ll bless you

[@edenr8678]

Thank you for being so wise and sharing your knowledge and experience!! Super helpful ❤️

[@ChelseaandNick]

Eden R we appreciate your encouragement! 😭❤️

[@folukeoemmanuel9785]

I really appreciate this video! I was lead to come back to this channel and it was at the perfect time! Dating for purpose really stood out for me, since I'm eighteen and I get asked how I've never had a boyfriend yet. I trust that God will lead me to the right person, even if that's through people who will teach me different things. Thank you for this video, and I wish you both the best! 🙂

[@katelyndashwood1610]

I finally got engaged!! And yes, your future partner has to have the same intentions, goals in life, beliefs... I wouldn't date anyone who doesn't have these things... it would be a 'waste' of time and energy. Took years and bad experiences but I finally found the one :D Love watching your videos btw!!

[@HaleighDobson]

thank you for making this because i feel like people (saying people i also mean me) tend to look at someone’s actual “looks” rather than their characteristics and qualities! you guys are really an inspiration to me and are so loving towards one another... i really do agree with Nick on the subject of “dating for fun”! “dating for fun” is going to cause you more heartbreak in the long run because your heart is falling for different people and by the time you meet “the one”- are you gonna be able to trust that person with your heart after all the heartbreaks you’ve been through. my parents have set rules to where we aren’t allowed to date til we are 18, and i totally agree with them! save your heart! “date with the intentions to marry!” love you chelsea and nick!!❤️❤️

[@kristincharlish9941]

I think I need to take a page out of his book as I need more of those qualities for myself as I definitely don't have them now.

[@madelyng8624]

Hey Chelsea! I’ve been watching a lot of your videos lately and I just had a question for you. As far as the topic of relationships goes, do you have any advice for loneliness or doubt when being single? Often times I find myself thinking things like “No guy wants me, I’m not good enough” or “What guy would want me?” or I’m never going to find a husband.” That sort of thing. I’m a Christian who is waiting until marriage, so I’m all ears for any advice you have.

[@gesinesamuelsuvi6557]

Hi guys I love your videos and praise God that you are a minister . God bless you guys

[@MrLisarn2]

So proud of you two

[@ChelseaandNick]

Lisa Wilson love you aunt lisa!! ❤️❤️

[@genevawelsh9133]

I did a list of qualities too a long time ago when I was really young. But it's nothing compared to that 😂 mine is more like, sense of humor, confidence, same values, Catholic,nice, puts myself needs before himself. Brings me closer to God and my friends and family. Wants kids. Who knows if it will work lol. I've also had dreams of my future husband. Like I've had dreams of what his hair color looks like what the estimated hair color is.

[@hanniamartinez9477]

Loving the podcast btw

[@ChelseaandNick]

Hannia Martinez ah so glad to hear that!!

[@carolinepoll643]

Oh wow! I wish you could speak to Thease young married couple here in my island, so thay understand what is dading, and just what to look for in a partner. Thank you guys, I enjoy this video.

[@alittledisciple4606]

Lovely list for a 16yr old. I completely agree

[@hanniamartinez9477]

Needed to hear this, thank you and god bless ❤️

[@ChelseaandNick]

Hannia Martinez 💓💓🤗🥰

[@haileywasheree]

I can't wait to marry my best friend ❤️You guys are too cute

[@jefferyronson8950]

Back in 1974, I met a girl that was drop dead gorgeous and started dating. several months later we became engaged. we both were very happy with each other for a couple of months when everything started going sour. One evening I went to pick her up to go out she became hostile verbally. I then decided then to break off our engagement in which she acted like she didn't care. At the time we were both living in Oregon, I now live in Texas and her in Washington.After I moved to Texas I have been married twice and failed And now after 46 yrs. I have found the girl I was engaged to in '74, We talk on FB, phone, etc. In August, I plan a trip to Washington to see her again. She seems to be very excited about my trip. ...My question is...should I pursue a relationship with her again? or just be good friends?

[@bladegriggs4090]

How are y'all doing now?

[@jefferyronson8950]

@@bladegriggs4090 I drove from East Texas to Washington state and brought her back to Texas with me. We have been married now for two yrs.

[@bladegriggs4090]

Nice! It's good you got to reconnect with her.

[@jefferyronson8950]

@@bladegriggs4090 yes it is, but, I found out that it hasn't been a bed of roses for her. Some of the bad luck she's had in the past years with other men has really changed her for the worse, but we're working through it. She's realizing that all the love that I had for her back in the day is still there for her.

[@bladegriggs4090]

At least y'all got back together!

[@laurenserbel2920]

You guys are so cute❤️ love your honesty and advice!

[@orpheusasmr9858]

Thank y'all so much for making this video! I'm glad that y'all allow God to work through you!

[@geraldinerosos3015]

Hello🖐. I have been following your channel and watching your videos. So much blessed and inspired on how you loved each other and so much enjoy with the love of the Lord. My prayers to God is I really want be like both of you, for being growth together Spititually. I am single as of now, and enjoying also the goodness of the Lord, waiting for someone who loves God much than me😊.. I am from the Philippines and being inspired too much of your story.. God bless you more and more.. 😊❤😇

[@malkalevanna1071]

I practice Orthodox Judaism, and many of the things you mentioned also apply in Jewish dating. I haven’t started dating yet, but I will only date with the intention of marriage.

[@ChelseaandNick]

Regan Butler that’s amazing!

[@sarabella8093]

I’m also Jewish and I was thinking the same thing :)

[@cayleaaaa]

You guys are so sweet! I might use your idea Chelsea about writing what I’m going through as a 16 year old. :) y’all are so inspiring!! 🥰

[@MamaThatCares]

Yall are so cute! May God continue to bless you guys!

[@boborambles]

I feel like the non-dating/marriage points are good for just good humans. I don’t think it has to be strictly for partners, it can be for just how to find someone you will actually get along with. Idk if you know what I mean 🤣

[@amandacomeaux6018]

Hi! I am new and I am already loving your videos! And I have your book your own beautiful and it is really good so far!

[@NikkiRazo]

That's so amazing that you (Nick) are a minister that's so wonderful! That's so true Chelsea about your whole list I feel the same way! Personally when God puts that perfect someone in my path I want to court that person for marriage like betrothal (I dont like calling dating lol it's so modern). You guys are so special and lovely together!!! ❤😊🤗

[@simplyboppingK]

Honestly, I am really just looking for a guy that won't date me for a year and dump me to date the girl he loved throughout our WHOLE RELATIONSHIP. That he told me not to worry about...

[@savannahroserecipes]

Basically the same thing happened to me, you're not alone 💙 but at least we learned something from the relationship and know that God has someone better for us!

[@nimodama2885]

Can you do a video on jow you planned your wedding

[@righteousfroce1254]

Your like me. I date to marry. Of course I never been on a single date because I can never get that far in a realatonship.

[@morganstarling7148]

I’m from North Carolina. ☺️

[@sarahjuntunen5884]

I have a question for Nick, how important are looks to men, specifically Christian men?

[@rileypowell03]

Have y’all been to the ARISE conference?

[@jahangirhosen1076]

Best couple 💚 Love from Bangladesh 👍👍

[@jadajohnson7957]

Please pray for me get a husband

[@carolinepoll643]

Hey there 👋👋

[@jadajohnson7957]

God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted and strength n arms I trust God and believe in him. I need to lead God for me pick him out to be my new future husband.

[@12Messenger]

Examples

[@irinas4100]

I've been following your channel for sooo many years and I have to say I do like the change of content as you grow up but this is becoming really repetitive.

[@ChelseaandNick]

What would you like to see? We’re always open to more ideas!

[@irinas4100]

@@ChelseaandNick Hi, thanks for answering. I can't really suggest in detail since it's up to you, but maybe to get to know you more as a couple in day to day life and relate. So, maybe weekly vlogs? Or if not vlogs then let's say going together grocery shopping while casually answering questions or sharing your thoughts but while doing things together. This way it's always sit down videos with very similar topics.

[@Raycarlaxo]

Into hunting ?