What to look for on a first date. | Things to look for on a first date. #askRenee

Here is what you should look for on a first date so that you can learn to identify earlier on if they are someone with potential. A first date is easier when you know what to look for.
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[@rickc.3552]

I had a girl tell me she didn't want a 3rd date because I wasn't comfortable telling her my deepest darkest fears and failures on the 2nd date. Needless to say, I concurred with not wanting a 3rd date.

[@MrPlayo3]

You should tell her: I have fear of spiders and easily change subject.

[@mae88b.16]

Hhahah

[@Ashbyee]

My divorce attorney gave me the best advice: don’t marry potential. Take people for who they are not what you “hope” may happen.

[@sparcx86channel42]

The type of advice you give to a eight years old because it’s obvious

[@RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson]

THANKS RENEE SLANSKY BSET DATEING ADVICE

[@RajpalSingh-bi2tc]

That certainly made a lot of sense. You are amazing .

[@ReneeSlansky]

thank you :)

[@stevechristie2569]

I subscribed. Renee is eloquent, thorough, classy and wonderful. A great ambassador for Australia. (Guessing she's Aussie.)

[@ReneeSlansky]

Thank you and yes I am Aussie :)

[@euniceatieno9371]

Renee ,you're such a blessing to me .

[@ReneeSlansky]

Glad I can bless you :)

[@MistiqueL]

Great tips! But I would replace the one with "it should be easy" with "it should feel safe/ comfortable". Things being too easy can be a red flag. The person may be a people pleaser and just agree with you on everyrhing. A little bit of disagreement is healthy. You cannot think the same on everything. That s what makes someone authentic and unique.

[@SamanthaN92]

Renee im surprise you dont have more subscribers. Your advice is so helpful and straight to the point. You deserve a million subscribers!!! ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for sharing your wisdom with us 😊

[@ReneeSlansky]

Thank you! My channel is still new I guess and still getting the word out. Feel free to share! x

[@rachelmoore5079]

Thank you 🙏 I really like your videos 😊💖🧚‍♀️

[@ReneeSlansky]

You’re welcome 😊

[@lindseylee251]

you're so pretty and you give the best advice!

[@ReneeSlansky]

Thank you so much!!

[@AM76585]

U R smart, liked this

[@angyt1070]

Thank you. What about if on the first date he wants to kiss you goodbye how would you address that?

[@michaelyip324]

hello. I have been watching your videos lately quite alot(and enjoying them) Am I correct in assuming most of your clients are women? My guess is that men do not tell u what they are thinking or your sample size is small and does not represent the full dating pool. Or possibly I am completely out of touch. A man(if serious about finding a potential serious women marriage candidate) will prepare like he is going to war( in terms of preparation). Sorry if u already covered this in a video and I missed it. The man will do his due diligence first and understand what the ratio of single men to single women is the geographic region. Then in no particular order he will try to make a reasonable guess as to what filtering mechanism the woman is using. For example-income cutoff, education level, previous relationships(divorced or whatever). Then he will look for obvious red flags in women candidate. This could be almost anything. The male candidate will classify himself and imagine how he measures up to stereotypical ideals or target characteristics. For example a tall, athletic professional male will have no trouble imagining himself to be the winner in any contest against any other males should a woman have a choice. The more normal males (shorter lets say or less socially skilled) will assess their chances as less and self-eliminate. These are still strong candidates but imagine themselves as less chooseable and avoid open competition in bar/nightclub setting. They are hard workers probable working weekends and evenings and not be circulating in artificial environments competing against pickup artists where the odds are against them. These candidates are the most overlooked but still worthwhile candidates. One main concern is to avoid women who are golddiggers or using a clear income filter. Another concern is over emphasis on appearance(tanning booth look, loud jewelery, overexposing cleavage. The male is likely looking for qualities like stable character, useful ways of spending time(like a passionate hobby) but not following soap operas like life and death). One common desirable trait that i hear about is "he makes me laugh...(etc) but this is not a skill that the man can learn and seems ridiculous. I look for money management hints or manners. offering to split the bill is very desirable to me. I would look to avoid someone who has chosen 'bad boys' before-This shows poor decision making skills. I would avoid someone with any hint of trading up constantly. Women can increase their chances by giving the more socially awkward guys a chance. and also take the initiative if they spot a good character but less confident man. Sorry for the long comment, I am starting to ramble on a bit

[@lavayuki]

Im a very indecisive person and find it hard to make snap judgements on one date and one encounter. I find online dating to be like a battlefield. Im using eHarmony which seems to go by compatibility parameters, but when you meet in real life its hit and miss that I wonder what all those questions at the sign up are for

[@ReneeSlansky]

Online dating and dating in general isn't meant to be a battlefield . Have you downloaded my new guide and quiz Are You Dateable ?go.reneeslansky.com/are-you-dateable

[@azuma5566]

big fan of your chanel renee!! ive got a question. i really enjoy being in his presence - he makes me feel happy, calm, and safe. i'm slowly falling for him but i feel like both our energy levels are on the low end, and sometimes i do feel a little bored because he doesn't initiate conversation sometimes. i like him a lot but don't know if i want to be in a relationship with him yet. how long should i wait for before deciding whether to move on or not?

[@ReneeSlansky]

Good question! Let me answer it in a video :)

[@azuma5566]

@@ReneeSlansky thank you so much!! i really would love that. we don't know a huge amount about each other yet, nor have any friends in common. would this be the reason why we don't laugh loudly together and have a crazy time? when i'm with my friends, we're able to laugh a lot

[@Chimalmita1]

7:40 Dating is hard for introverts. I never enjoy meeting new people

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Also love the white teeth

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[@yankeedoodle6293]

Is she English or Australian ? I’m liking the accent

[@alrivers2297]

Aussie

[@ReneeSlansky]

Aussie ;0)

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10 mins one drink

[@RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson]

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[@ReneeSlansky]

I'm married actually :)

[@rain701]

where to find single women or girl where are they

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

I never saw you my first date

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

Bye

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

Sorry and let me go yet

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

Bye

[@manuelvikingo7668]

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[@ReneeSlansky]

No they haven't