I work in the school system, my own neice who I've known since a BABY started going there as a freshman and feels it appropriate to see me and hug me in the classroom, and I make it known hey this is my niece! I make sure the teachers and guidance counselors know this is my niece. Boundaries need to be set period, even with my son and daughter who go to different schools no. It isn't appropriate. Niggas need to relax. As an educator, teacher, staff member, have a relationship with the parent first, the babies need to stay safe period.
@DaChemist136 ай бұрын
I’m so conflicted on this one because a part of me says this is inappropriate but when you know that the parents were onboard and actually defended him, that means they vetted him and are familiar with him and didn’t take any offense to it and those are their kids so if they cool, why should we complain? Not to mention, we know how dads are especially black dads, so I mean why did none of them if they are present pull up and press him about it? So this leads me to believe this very well could’ve been innocent interaction between him and his students and we’ve just vilified him and made him a creep. It’s boundary bending for sure but I don’t know if it has malicious intent behind it.
@Iamhimbutyouarenot6 ай бұрын
Just because the parents are fine with it doesn’t make it ok. No offense, but a lot of kids have bad parents and uuhhh, yeah.
@DaChemist136 ай бұрын
@@Iamhimbutyouarenot you’re making an assumption that their bad parents which I don’t believe is fair at all without knowing them. Society is a little different know and things like these are par for the course in this day and age of tik tok and social media. And if their parents are fine with it, then for them it’s ok and it ain’t for us to judge it unless it was our kids. They don’t have an issue with it so why should we if it’s not our kids? That’s my thing. They clearly know him better than we do and feel more comfortable based on their interactions with him, interactions we did not have. It’s not fair for you to just make them out to be bad parents based on a situation you don’t know the inner workings of.
@thecircle26626 ай бұрын
if you are OK with an adult texting your kids then it's safe to say you are an irresponsible parent. thankfully the school had some sense and fired him
@yusuf_nodejs6 ай бұрын
I thought that was Dwight Howard in the thumbnail--I was befuddled.
@dominiquejolly77816 ай бұрын
Honestly teachers rely on relationships so much because behavior in school is not addressed at home. So it’s not as clear cut as pull up teach and dip. Parents would be pissed if they seen the growth or data that would produce. So as a teacher you are forced to enter a tricky area. As a teacher I’ve sent home communication for parents with my phone number and students have texted me and I had to shut it down.
@saveyabreath6806 ай бұрын
He also admitted to texting these kids regularly
@CWHYSE6 ай бұрын
How a first grade love affair even ... #nourishmentinfinite
@playa64176 ай бұрын
Community or not it's totally inappropriate 👎🏾
@jabrelsamuel87676 ай бұрын
What is it the braids!
@piffpowers6 ай бұрын
How yall feel about the white guy
@MrE9146 ай бұрын
If it's my daughter, yeah I will let her know not to do such thing, and yes I would approach the teacher on it... But at the same time, to me, my thing is...well how is his work ethic as a teacher, how are the kids grades, are these some troublesome kids turning a new leaf, etc. What I understand is this, a teacher is with our kids all day, and they have to connect to them in order to make sure they have good attitude behavior and learn education. The problem in our community, we take certain shit and blow it up to a major thing. This man has no record, no crazy background history of any pedophile type shit, and have a passion, and willingness to teach..right?.. And then on the flip side of this when you look at a white male teacher doing this with white kids or whatever, there's no major flag for that dude.... Listen... I feel for the situation, and I hope things sort out right and better for that teacher. But the way we do shit most times?....be out of damn pocket too
@thecircle26626 ай бұрын
I had teachers who connected with me and we never made physical contact outside of a handshake. Thousands of teachers are able to do the same. if he's too stupid to figure out how to be impactful to the youth without crossing the line then he is really bad at his job and should not be a teacher. I refuse to believe that he HAD to do it this way to be effective at teaching
@MrE9146 ай бұрын
Yeah I would think it would be a problem too if a male teacher was having you braid his head as a little boy.... Teachers hug students do they not? Kids even sometimes hug their teachers, do they not? It's not like the dude had his eyes rolled back and was making moaning gestures and shit... And yeah back when I was growing up it was totally different from this sensitive ass weird ass country as it is today... Look all I'm saying is... Good teachers especially black teachers, with meaningful desires to educate, Never get the credit of kids accomplishments, but yet get ridiculed, and blackmailed.... Remind you this is after the class is over it's not like it's during the- yo listen man.... Everybody have their own opinions it is what it is
@thecircle26626 ай бұрын
if you can't figure out what's inappropriate and what's not then you aren't smart enough to teach. ima leave it there.