Mother forces her daughter to diet l First Broadcast on 6/17/17

A mom treats her two daughters differently based on their weight - buying one girl a doughnut treat, while forcing the other on a strict diet.
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[@lovelylapis979]

Being fat: *gets shamed* Being skinny: *gets shamed* Wtf

[@curiouscappuchino3677]

right like wtf

[@eljovendemichoacan5040]

WTFFFFFFFFF

[@ashleyfellows745]

Every body get body shamed even though you are skinny or fat you are pretty neither way... I got told to kill myself just because I don't eat at school...

[@kimaya.3563]

i dont think skinny people get shamed as much as fat people

[@angelita2213]

@@ashleyfellows745 lol nobody I know eats at school that shit they call lunch is literally slop like I don't want to eat dry burgers

[@Simoncuong]

No one is going to talk about how the two sisters are called Nicole and Nicolette?

[@kingofthetrill]

😂😂😂

[@claireelise3125]

I’m confused about the “But I got better grades than Sarah” part. Is the sister named Nicolette or Sarah??!!! 🤷‍♀️

[@Hannah-qh1ss]

Claire Hudson I think they just called her Sarah while filming so that they wouldn’t get confused in the loud place but her name is actually Nicolette

[@Simoncuong]

To be fair a mother who calls their children Nicole and Nicolette is destined to be at least this cruel

[@natalielove4764]

🤣🤣🤣

[@p00f_01]

taking someone that’s on a diet to a donut shop is pure evil

[@stan3449]

Evil is Hitler or pol pot, not some mother that takes her kid to a donut shop

[@esmetheexpressohyena9337]

Ikr

[@Rimuwheel]

I mean at least give the child one donut she likes that what it is

[@Hope-tg3tc]

For real! 😭

[@Brook_3226]

Ikr

[@VamprinaBelle]

that guy at the end made me tear up. you can tell he's a great dad to his daughter.

[@flightoflightning2505]

to be honest, if i had an overweight daughter, i would still give her donuts, just a smaller portion, but she is still havjng a donut

[@VamprinaBelle]

@flight oflightning absolutely, that's how it should be! anyone who treats their other kids but not their overweight child and brings them ALL to a dessert shop is just mean. the kid can be a diet but still have a treat here and there. being on a diet and not having something you crave once in a while will gonna make you depressed and more likely to break the diet because you're forcing yourself to diet way too hard.. i feel so sorry for any child actually going thru this 😞

[@444riya]

@@flightoflightning2505 in my opinion, never take her to a dessert shop in the first place. Don't even bring up her weight to her. Just start feeding her healthier meals, and don't be unfair with the sister

[@topkek4223]

@@flightoflightning2505 good dad

[@flightoflightning2505]

@@444riya That is true. I feel like kids should have some leisure and go to places to eat. I might "inadvertently" drive them to eat healthier without them realizing. But at the same time sometimes we need to enjoy ourselves. I am the type of person to encourage healthy eating, but I wouldn't make someone feel disheartened because of how they are. Bullying someone for their insecurity is disgusting.

[@fatimah385]

Is nobody gonna talk about the two boys who were like, “wAiT WHaT DiD yOu SaY?”

[@ttylxoxo1929]

Right?😂

[@fatimah385]

olivia lol

[@janaeann9871]

Omg I was scrolling for hours looking for this comment 😂😂😂

[@roxy-kz4nq]

wait i cant find it where in the video is it?

[@roxy-kz4nq]

nvm i found it

[@shockalit]

I know she’s an actor but I feel bad for the girl who was being called overweight🥺. I bet the woman playing the mom felt bad after this, even though she’s just acting.

[@ajaxs1889]

Shocka Lit I know I always think how it must be degrading hearing that about your self even if it is just acting

[@alyssaquinn5037]

me too I'm fat too

[@devss4982]

They know. It's called an audition

[@wilhelmdietrich8474]

In general- they're pretty careful with kids. They get debriefed and all kinds of help.

[@haley.michelleeee]

Alyssa Quinn same

[@whatintarnation426]

I could really tell the first lady was a therapist! She approached mum with so much understanding and gentleness and handled the situation like the pro she is.

[@GabePerez7050Real]

Nah

[@davidl8759]

lol@@GabePerez7050Real

[@sunnybunny9003]

​@@GabePerez7050Real why does "nah" translate to "now" 😭

[@princessapoppy]

@@sunnybunny9003nah is Indonesian for now

[@sunnybunny9003]

@@princessapoppy ohhh. My bad

[@alissahenderson641]

that older guy was very smart because he knows he can’t actually do anything about the way the mother treats her, he still wanted to encourage her to keep being strong

[@SheSoSleepy]

“You have your own lil doughnut around your waist.” That one hit different. 😭😭

[@twymmf2001]

🤣🤣 Me too

[@the_hebrewhammer]

@@glowblank17 What the fuck-

[@rotundmonibuv5103]

That was an absolute roast

[@pinkcherry9695]

@@glowblank17 *FBI, OPEN UP*

[@TheInMine]

@@glowblank17 simp

[@ayushdpandit]

The therapist approached the situation really well. She didn’t immediately attack the mother, whilst still educating her about the damage she could have done.

[@user-ug2fm5xq3q]

Well she’s a therapist lol

[@roxy-kz4nq]

exactly what i was thinking

[@jonathanporter424]

Von Follis and some night let them have it lol ✌️

[@girlnextdoor97]

IKR fr

[@alisonclark5487]

Your not wrong-

[@lane_love1353]

There’s nothing wrong with wanting your child to loose weight for health reasons, but you shouldn’t point out insecurities and not feed them.

[@milanmilicevic7883]

I know this is an act but she’s still calling her fat like in real life 😢😢😢

[@mariethesizzler]

I know! That's what I always thought about in the back of my head 😔 hope she has the mentality that it's just acting and it doesn't bother her 😕 even though it would make me sad I think

[@milanmilicevic7883]

@@mariethesizzler yea it sad😥😥😥

[@mariethesizzler]

@Princess Azula ????? Even if it's "just a description" it's still sad shes a little girl being called "fat" constantly for work...I'd feel super insecure and sad if I were her because you never know if she has that "strong" actor mindset that says to her "hey this is fine it's just acting" she's so young y'all! and all I know is that I would be so sad and so embarrassed 💔 if it's "just a description" let's say you were autistic (just a example) would you like it if the show kept talking about everything that's "wrong" with you because of your autism? No! Right?! I feel bad for the kid and what you said just seemed a little off Ps. I dont mean to be mean

[@B_27]

@@princessazula600 To an extent but as child you eat the food your parents give you and you pick up the habits they teach you. I know this is an act but if a child needs to lose weight, the whole family needs to take part and change their diet too. Using food as a reward like this is an unhealthy mentality to have as it reinforces an emotional connection with food. Why not reward both kids with a fun activity they can do together?

[@AD-fb6qf]

Right?

[@hoorkpop6735]

Body-shaming is one of the worst ways to hurt kids, teens or adults. Edit : For the mast time people! I've had enough of people saying "being fat is unhealthy" "you are damaging them" what I'm saying BODY SHAMING itself hurt not saying they should stay chubby and not go on a diet I'm on a diet myself just because it more healthy! stop coming at me for God sake

[@optismtlix2651]

im 9 and my family makes fun of me

[@optismtlix2651]

RICHARD TAVERAS ik

[@optismtlix2651]

bella gonzales that’s rough and sad

[@damedusa5107]

That’s true, but also promoting fat as being healthy is also wrong. It’s not healthy but people shouldn’t be shamed.

[@usersareoverrated5652]

Honestly I think some of you are mixing harrassment with like normal sibling play and fight tbh playing and joking and lime normal fighting just may seem annoying and irritating but hassrament makes you feel depressed hurt mentally physically verbally and wondering am I enough making you hurt and feeling pulled into an corner and punished mentally for no reason.

[@hercreation]

it’s okay to want your child to lose weight when they’re unhealthy, but taking ur kid to a donut shop and watch their sibling eat a donut and literally pointing out their insecurities to other strangers is wrong

[@jessicahoward3025]

Yup I agree

[@bellasaurusrex3795]

Yupp

[@lilliawalsh7325]

omg yeah

[@sweetangel6630]

Exactly

[@pratheepasathees5151]

I agree

[@haylielong8707]

I understand where the mom is coming from, my cousin is 200 lbs at 7 years old., but my family would never ever tell her she’s fat, or bring her into a doughnut shop but tell her no doughnuts. In our situation we aren’t worried about her physical image, but her health and mobility.

[@Classicalliberal85]

gotta do something about that, cousin is on track to end up on tlc 600 lb life

[@5adb3tch35]

That is extremely concerning

[@lval05]

The way I see it is if your cousin let's say did good in school and got an A's it would not hurt to have a treat cause she earned it. That is why the mom was at the doughnut shop to reward the girls, but its not fair to reward the thin daughter, but not the other daughter when she said she got better grades and she has been healthy all week. Was not fair of the mom. I struggled with weight it can take time. Its all bout monitoring your portions too. If I was that mom yes I would give her 1 doughnut, but that will be her only treat of the day. cause remember kids are still growing too. The mom was sorta right but its not okay to humiliate her daughter and make her feel worse than she already is. She is 8 and who knows she could grow up to be beautiful. The best thing to do is teach kids about portions. I use to be over weight but now i lost 37 pounds. It took me a while but I did it.

[@Melsmom]

than health needs to be expressed and empathized in love.

[@phenomenalprofile7189]

200 pounds at 7 is straight up abuse

[@user-to6tw1gh8q]

it’s so cute seeing everyone stuck up for her it gives me hope in humanity :)

[@samshadburn2219]

Bruh I scrolled through the comments for 10 minutes straight and nobody’s gonna talk about that old guy that told her she needed to be skinny like her sister?

[@Journee1]

THANK YOU!

[@erin1674]

OMG FINALLY

[@skylerharris6932]

THANK YOU

[@snowieratom6068]

I agree with him man. And that's coming from a dude with past weight problems

[@jadaecckles9511]

If you don't know when you're over weight/ obese you start running into alot of medical problems so he tried his best to educate although he knew the mom was being cruel he tried a more gentle approach and using himself as an example to encourage her.🤦🏽‍♀️ and he spoke nun but facts.

[@sophiebyers5496]

Taking an overweight child (or someone with any age) to a dessert shop while they’re supposed to be on a diet is just cruel, rude, and impolite.

[@chelseadaley9770]

Sacred Spinach I felt the same way about myself all the time when I was getting bullied by the mean girls

[@sophiebyers5496]

@@chelseadaley9770 I’m so sorry

[@xxalpha_devilxx2797]

I was overweight when in was a kid then people started bullying me just because of my weight and height my size but now I'm thinner im living happy now tho

[@sophiebyers5496]

@@xxalpha_devilxx2797 I’m so happy that you have a better life now. Although, sorry about the bullying.

[@xxalpha_devilxx2797]

@@sophiebyers5496 😊

[@asmrgolden6790]

Respect to the guy who was being honest in a nice way

[@JewishKeto]

A few months ago I weighed around 264lbs but have lost 82lbs, I know they are actors but this broke my heart and brought back tough memories for me. You can’t take a child to a sweet shop and tell her she can’t have a donut… that’s just cruel.

[@BigDaddyJaquaviousThompsonIII]

W guy

[@elitaniagranciano3021]

Any tips

[@user-js2oj2qi8h]

BTW, congrats, man 🎉

[@maddyoliver1642]

Body shaming causes: Eating disorders Depression Suicidal thoughts Suicide attempts Severe anxiety Sadness Self hate Lack of confidence And basically killing their personality. Dont do that to people.

[@Christina-yh8vf]

@Light Kira no dumb ass its fucking BODY SHAMING

[@Christina-yh8vf]

@@yourfavestem frr I hate people who fucking body shame

[@Christina-yh8vf]

@@yourfavestem I'm really sorry girl dont listen to people like that they only want to make you feel bad about yourself stay strong 💜❤

[@Christina-yh8vf]

@@yourfavestem you are very beautiful no matter what others say ❤❤

[@Christina-yh8vf]

@@yourfavestem 😌😊❤💜

[@raa98raa]

I watched a video of a little girl who was at an unhealthy weight and her mom, instead of putting her down or telling her she needs to lose weight just cooked her healthier food and took her exercise at trampoline parks and playgrounds. She didn't even know she was losing weight she was just having fun. That's how it should be

[@cow167]

That's the right way to do it! You don't even need to mention anything about their weight, not even say "oh look you have lost weight", because they probably wouldn't notice. Ofc fat doesn't always equals unhealthy, but if your child is overweight, it's not always on them, it's the parents responsibility to look after them

[@oopssenpai8208]

Yes! Since I was young me along with a lot of kids in my country start sports! It's really fun and we also get to learn how to move our body from a young age, now at 14 I'm really thankful for that

[@fleurboisvert8816]

Hell yeah although those things won't necessarily make her lose weight b/c it's more complex then that and wish we focused on health before weight.

[@ok-lm9ns]

@@fleurboisvert8816 but that’s the thing, the mother did focus on health before weight. She enforced healthy eating habits & and active lifestyle, and as a result the daughter lost excess weight. I agree that solely focusing on weight loss is an issue - especially when it comes to kids (why should we even care about what children look like in the first place?) but I don’t think that’s an issue here.

[@LilMyMy]

I watched it too!

[@dasse6637]

Everyone is talking about how the paid actor is a bad mom but no one is talking about how that kid actress had a real mom who let her be exploited like this.

[@user-un7yy3rh6h]

fk, i started laughing when she took out the bag of fricking carrots 😭😭😂

[@cheesecake1711]

“That’s just the attitude that got us in this mess” *taps stomach* THAT MAD ME SO MAD

[@martintsanov4341]

But is true. You cant get fat from breathing.

[@MayerJune]

@@martintsanov4341 HEKDOWOELDLDPDPEPDF

[@martintsanov4341]

@@MayerJune you ok bud?

[@christinewatson1989]

He's the only one not feeding her straight bullshit. He's treating the girl compassionately but respectfully enough to tell her the truth.

[@helloiamsuperrandom]

@Flightstuff exactly. if this were a real situation, the mom should have stayed away from treating food like a reward altogether and taken them to go bowling or something as a reward for good grades.

[@whokilledangel]

If she’s supporting her daughter with a healthy diet that’s good for her, I support that. If she’s fat shaming her, then that’s wrong.

[@NotSyd]

XxAngel_GachaxX i didn't expect you to be here- i like these kids of social experiments, because i can relate to them in a small or big way. also, i love ur content!

[@brittanyhonaker4773]

Yeah I agree on that it’s kinda dumb she’s at a donut shop and the girl can’t have a donut if she was supposed to be healthy the mom could of reward her good grades by maybe taking her to a trampoline park or the playground instead and fat shaming that’s really bad I once heard a story about a gymnast who was told she was not thin enough and she became a anorexic basically she stopped eating and it killed her

[@breonnareid6537]

That girl looks 10 years old. If a child is big at a young age then it’s the parents fault. Supporting a healthy diet and going in a diet are different

[@noneofyourbusiness9156]

Ew gacha

[@homersimpsonsdoughnut6280]

👍

[@Itzgraceee]

The fact that the little girl is actually bigger than them us saddening and you better have talked to her respectfully because she’s being used to “act” she deserves the world for being in this video period 🥇.

[@fake10hourentertainment17]

If you didn’t know you were talking to an actor you probably wouldn’t be very nice to her.

[@kiss4tuti46]

this honestly comes close to heart. Simply because doing this to an actual child will make them insecure and feel so ashamed of how they are.

[@spicypisces345]

the “overweight girl” must feel HORRIBLE to be hired as the “fat” one 😭💔

[@cubixman9676]

She agreed to it and she knows what she looks like.

[@ReyleeSimmons]

@@cubixman9676 Oh my gosh, exactly. Like, does nobody get that? :^

[@ok_9577]

Righttt that must be horrible 😣💔

[@mikebibbyhighlight]

not really. Actors gain and lose weight all the time for different roles. No shame in that.

[@cubixman9676]

@@mikebibbyhighlight ok now thats not epic. They must work so hard in order to be perfect. Althought they could also use a fake body to look fatter like putting a pillow under your shirt as a kid to look pregnant Edit: i have a lot of experience with pillows under my shirt

[@aidenjohntierney2518]

I get putting ur child on a diet but the way she treats the daughter isn’t good.

[@zion2794]

Yeah, if she went nice on about it then ok

[@skeletorcavani4046]

This is acting

[@Nova-gb5hy]

Skeletor Cavani yes we know that lmao but he’s meaning for parents who do put their children on a diet.

[@sp1derweb082]

Not a diet just less sugar only for a treat

[@aidenjohntierney2518]

Ebonie AK less sugar doesn’t make you lose weight

[@eduardreamerrr]

i love to watch videos like this because it reminds me that there are still good people in this cruel world we're living.

[@ellamichelle3850]

Everyone in the show was so sweet and compassionate especially the older people made who said to the mom “you are making a spectacle of yourself” you can tell they were hurt

[@bookwormdeluxe328]

I don’t have a problem with not giving your daughter donuts cause she’s on a diet but taking her to a donut shop so she can watch other people eat donuts is kinda cruel

[@rq5583]

Agreed

[@a.augustine1234]

Should have took them to a Frozen yogurt bar instead

[@yourmomforever8554]

i agree dats just wrong

[@andreacamilavega5317]

Exactly

[@Jere746]

Self control

[@historygirl0126]

This breaks my heart. As someone who was a chubby kid, with a skinnier sibling, and still struggles to keep my weight down, this hit home.

[@Ray-fk7ly]

💕

[@rifaaa_595]

Omg are you me?

[@mattsworld7201]

Daughter:but I have been eating healthy all week. Mom:I know honey but it's not showing. Me:ofc it's not showing it's not gonna show that quick, I am very slim and I only gain 2 pounds once a week .

[@abbythebest1018]

I am a skinny person and I feel like I need to be chubbier

[@mattsworld7201]

@@abbythebest1018Oh

[@manisha4516]

My dad used to call me a cow when I was little because our mother left and my grandma used to compensate and show extra love by feeding us more. She now does the same with my little sister and my dad does the same with her. It's hard growing up thinking you are fat, then learning you have a disorder that actually stops you from keeping weight off. I actually was suicidal and depressed from a young age due to body image. Don't hurt your child or compare them to your other "perfect" kids or people's children. You may think you're helping them but you are not.

[@alexawermuth1219]

3:28 omg that was straight savage I was not prepared 😂😂😂

[@dazzleglam95]

The old man who was struggling with his weight as well was so compassionate while still being honest. You could tell he was identifying with her.

[@aestheticlife3184]

He was so wholesome

[@fleurboisvert8816]

Yeah and no because kids shouldn't be on diets. Change what food cook and have in the house. Encourage joyful movement. But don't give your kids a restriction mentality. Oh and don't give food as rewards or as a replacement for time, affection, attention...

[@timothywait9457]

@@fleurboisvert8816 it was the mothers foult she was fat to start with by not cooking healthy meals

[@fleurboisvert8816]

@@timothywait9457 We don't know that. Stress increases weight, being in an area of high pollution affects weight there are so many issues other than junk food.

[@dazzleglam95]

@@fleurboisvert8816 her mom literally did what you said lol It’s not starvation. She can have a snack, but it’s carrots instead of the unhealthy food. That’s how you have to do it.

[@dannica7913]

She looked like she was actually crying inside😭😭😭😭 It must be terrible to have the 'fat girl' role :c

[@crackyjoshy4818]

Well she went for the role she’s fat so she can take the far girl role they don’t pick someone they do casting where people go to audition for that role

[@crackyjoshy4818]

@@Berries.creamm or what you fucking walking tub of lard

[@Julia-di7pb]

I think it’s important to stop being afraid of these terms. Some people are fat, some people are skinny. There are heathy fat people and unhealthy skinny people. What’s important is being healthy and honest about who we are. When we’re afraid to acknowledge our own and each others’ weights, it creates more stigma.The only thing that would be wrong about someone’s weight is their health, it shouldn’t be seen as an insult to be fat.

[@crackyjoshy4818]

@@Julia-di7pb I 100% agree with you the only reason people feel bad for her getting the “fat girl” role is because of the stigma that has been created as a whole society

[@uggupuggu]

@@Julia-di7pb lmao being fat isnt healthy

[@droneshots6192]

That therapist is so good with handling this situation. It’s crazy, she even said she was trying to understand what the mother was thinking. More people need to take in others points of views before judging and criticizing them. And the older man that supports the girls weight loss. Other people almost encourage her body type, but not that man he is honest and tells his personal experiences of having problems with weight, the mom just needs to encourage her in a better way.

[@andispins64]

When the old man is telling her that she should keep the weight off and agrees with her mom you can tell the bigger kid is holding in tears. Her throat starts to tremble and you can see a little water in her eyes. I feel bad for her. 5:15

[@mariethesizzler]

"You can't have a bite sweetheart you're fat" my conscience at 3am

[@nbd6213]

😂😂😂

[@jenniejohnson6660]

Michelle is so mean to Nicole

[@Villemey]

You just made me laugh😂

[@blackqweenmars]

Fr

[@superiorsalmon2507]

LMAO IM DEAD

[@ks9759]

“Can I just say something....YOU DISGUST ME.” 🔥 Damn, he just let her have it.

[@cloudly_cane1534]

There’s only 2 people. “The therapist” And “That guy” which is most of us which when we want to beat the shit out of a person but forget we probably could have just talked-

[@cameronlarson4046]

Lmao

[@cloudly_cane1534]

@@m2sicfreak228 yeah sometimes you just gotta talk and not release all you furry and glock them in the face.

[@jmurdock8303]

What a nosey big mouth woman

[@jmurdock8303]

@@cloudly_cane1534 it's none her business

[@stacywilliams5895]

This whole video broke my heart very much. If I was out in public and I heard a parent say to her own child she couldn’t have a donut because of her weight I’d be mortified and immediately irritated and I’d buy that girl a donut myself if her mom doesn’t. “What would you do” team be happy I wasn’t there when this episode happened because I definitely would have went above and beyond toward that mother for her daughter. 🍩✊

[@stacywilliams5895]

@AneMore SHUT UP!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@maracuj44]

Why would you take a child who is on a diet to a dessert shop? That’s really an exemple of a bad mom.

[@noorrougelewis6704]

Because it's fake

[@Kbear-xt9mh]

Jane Doh, no shit Sherlock. You do realize that the whole point of these fake scenarios is to invite people to give their opinions on the subject matters because they’re relevant to real life issues...right?

[@divypatel1002]

I know it's fake, but it might be possible in real life to, suppose mom picks up the kids from school and the the shop is on the way home, why would she drop the kids and come back to waste more fuel and time?

[@alexocampo531]

Yeah because why would you plan to take both of your daughters to a donut shop and only give one of them a donut?

[@earli649]

the daughter needs to control her temptations

[@jason4270]

YOU CANT JUST REPOST THIS 5 YEARS LATER WWYD: HAHA PRINTER GOES BRRRRR

[@alysiamerdavid-wasser9165]

😂😂😂

[@Sam-qw1ny]

Ikr !!! 😂

[@ilovenoodles7483]

bruh

[@olivermoulson8098]

😂😂

[@karenhauck9426]

I've seen it on Azzylands channel

[@CB-ph3kn]

I know this is all acting, but being that I've been overweight since I was about that girl's age, I can imagine what kind of impact this may have on her. 😞

[@angmoulton8528]

I know that's all I can think about

[@susannahsmith6286]

Poor girl she deserved better her mom put her on a diet she deserved the world💔

[@Razear]

"You have your own little doughnut right around your waist." BRUH 💀

[@sestoalternativeevo8884]

Razear 🤣

[@AJD7233]

Im dead HAHHA

[@lmao3811]

Donut*

[@apricot3998]

Amberly __ are you really correcting people...? I’ll say this nicely: different places spell things differently. They’re called dialects.

[@lmao3811]

Anderson Ryder im just saying so she/he doesn’t do it wrong again and its fine im not doing something bad and pls chill jesus

[@jillianleda6732]

That therapist was amazing!!! She didn't criticize the mother because that ALWAYS backfires she just showed her another way.

[@catcam4028]

Yeah 💖

[@anayelisel2798]

Yesssss!😁❤💖💕💗💞

[@amylee8969]

@Jillian Leda Yes! Makes no sense to take her kids to a damn donut shop if she's against them eating Unhealthy. At the very least, she should have the heavy girl shopping at her favorite store or something like that. Or better yet.......take them both to a theme park.

[@H.K.5]

That's why she's a therapist.

[@AB-ly9dy]

not really (in my opinion)

[@CarrieAKouri]

This video makes me happy people spoke up. I was overweight as a child. My late mother used to act like that with me at restaurants, family gatherings, say she was ashamed of me at 9 years old.

[@lisari6246]

My mom had me on a diet too. Made my life better. She would have never taken my sister and me to a Donut store though. We would never get Donuts or anything but praise for good grades.

[@realone7488]

LOL. There is literally a sign on the door saying “What Would You Do?”

[@ultimakey3111]

It’s edited.

[@treasuresdiary4530]

😂😭

[@Its_Fr0sty]

Yea

[@avajohnson6799]

Where I don’t see iy

[@poopshartnoise]

It’s edited on you dumbass

[@sandypark7776]

my mom used to body shamed me all the time when i was teen, and now i am suffering from eating disorder in my 20s. this video literally breaks my heart into tiny little pieces.

[@natalie_eri6907]

Aww, I'm sorry to hear about that :( No one should deserve to be treated like that.

[@LarissasExotics]

im 14 and have anorexia. im already thin but all i want is more and more, i would never wish this on my worst enemy. shame on those who think its okay to bodyshame, clearly they're insecure too.

[@chika5384]

kittymuff Hope you get better:( Stay strong💓💓

[@graciegizelle]

kittymuff You guys are beautiful the way you are try talking to someone please :(

[@graciegizelle]

You guys are beautiful the way you are try talking to someone please :(

[@Mickamo]

This hits close to home for me man, my parents were like that and it really broke down my self esteem overtime and it definitely breaks your connection with parents

[@j5110]

im so sorry. See I feel like this child should lose weight, as it is easier as a child and being over weight just isn’t healthy. But body shaming? Absolutely not that will create so many issues. Also the whole family should eat a healthier diet so the girl doesn’t feel like an outsider . Just create a lifestyle change for the family yk. And for gods sake let her have one fucking donut

[@kciee6258]

that therapists’ advise was great! 🙌🏻

[@_apoorva_07]

Man *steps in politely* : Can I say something? Also him: You absolutely disgust me He went straight to the point! King burn😂❤️🔥🔥🔥

[@milwaukiedave]

Yeah, he was pretty brutal with his opinion. I was like, "tell us what you really think" lol

[@_apoorva_07]

@@milwaukiedave ikrr💀😂😂

[@GringoTearz]

I GAGGED LMAO

[@noelcruz5592]

Yeah, you should love your loved ones no matter their size!

[@_apoorva_07]

@@noelcruz5592 You should have love and respect everyone (not just loved ones) despite their size🙌🏻

[@murderman7265]

If I had to play the "fat" kid in any scenario, I would be emotionally scarred for life.

[@beansontoast9924]

0:43 my heart would break tbh. Even though it isn't real,like just no.

[@haramboi7784]

Not if your college tuition gets paid for

[@savannah7317]

Well she signed up for it and is getting paid, and obviously if she felt uncomfortable she wouldn’t have signed up for the role or gone through with it.

[@beansontoast9924]

@@savannah7317 true. it still would leave scars though .

[@beansontoast9924]

@@savannah7317 I know that. She has been casted to play a fat person. She got chose to do a fat person. Now she knows she is fat it could trigger an eating disorder.

[@EyeoftheWhiteWolf]

I remember when I asked my dad for a ride to school, he made a big deal about it (even though he wasn't doing anything) and said, "It's not like you can't use the exercise!" I hate my dad. Parents, teasing or giving "tough love" is NOT the way to go!

[@bigbadbillb]

Even though this is just acting, I can't help but wonder how that girl really feels hearing these remarks about her..

[@ihatedinonuggets]

Customer: "It's tough to get my weight down, I'd rather look like that guy" Guy behind the counter: 😚

[@notboshy0644]

Could you tell me where your profile picture is from?

[@notboshy0644]

@@ihatedinonuggets thank you!

[@jj2059]

He was the only sensible person there. Teaching body acceptance isn’t ok when your body isn’t healthy. He told it like it was

[@toiletinuraaa]

@L lawliet 🤨

[@k.v.7681]

@@jj2059 There is a difference between body acceptance and building a false sense of pride where it shouldn't be. Loathing yourself and fearing death because of a treat is absolutely not a starting point to loose weight as a child.

[@KingChrisXX]

"ooohh, I want the Oreo!" "Are you sh*ting me?!?"

[@DannyOF]

xd

[@aspirin43]

Gets late abortion

[@angelaconrerasisthebest1642]

Me too

[@angelaconrerasisthebest1642]

Yes

[@cheyennecassidy6313]

I love Oreo ice creams milkshakes Cookies donuts 😋😋😋🤤😊😁

[@Jessica-ug7gq]

As someone who was told by her mother all of my childhood and puberty that i am too fat and i can't eat certain things, i have a really bad relationship with my body; I am 19 and i know that my insecurity comes from that and it has made so much damage to my self image that i think i won't ever be at peace with my body thank you to everyone who stood up for the little girl

[@skyler9512]

That first woman’s kid: WHAT! WHAT DID U SAY?!?! 👁👄👁

[@Jbscddnz]

If you want your child to loose weight you can’t be so horrible, you need to be supportive. And even if you are a bit fat you can still treat yourself once in a while.

[@LookaCatHuman]

Yes. I think if you have a child that needs to lose weight, you should go on a healthy lifestyle with them and not let them do it alone or even take them to a donut shop when they can't have any unhealthy sweetness.

[@carpet7398]

Ye it’s ok to have a wee chocolate bar everyday if ur on a diet

[@der5565]

emmzzystar not everyday, but every once in a while

[@LookaCatHuman]

@Fit Tall Gay Blond Yes child obesity is a thing and very serious. I agree that if a child is obesed that the child then loose weight but then the mother should have been supportive of her you cant go into a shop with donughts and expect her to not want any. The mother should rather then take her to a shop where they sell healthy sweet stuff taht isnt filled with junk.

[@Jbscddnz]

Fit Tall Gay Blond I see your Point of view, but you can’t take your kids to a doughnut shop and fat-shame one of the kids. Fat shaming is not okay, it leaves a lasting impact on their mental state. If you don’t want one of the kids eating doughnuts, don’t take them. I agree with your point, but not how that mom delivered it.

[@ericlikeschipotle]

THE CHILD SENT ME “Wait what did you just say ?! 👁👄👁” 😭😭

[@jo6920]

Wait when 😅

[@kamiekamster8276]

@That British WEEB thanks I couldn’t find it either

[@theressasoriano9487]

Dude just jump in there for no reason lol

[@purpI]

@That British WEEB ur emoji guys has a left hand for a right lmao

[@user2k08]

@@purpI you took the time to check and point it out-

[@jessiewalthers7645]

This was done to me about the age of 7-8 years old , I was put on the diet, while my brother and rest of my family had icecream ,cookies ext.. after years of always being told I was fat and chubby I developed an eating disorder when I was 12, which still now at 38 years old I struggle with each and every day and also led to so many other issues. Ppl think if they call out the obvious that it’ll all of a sudden make the other person change ..: not how to do it.

[@kathym322]

what’s so funny is that you control what your kids eat. you control what snacks and junk you buy into your home. do not blame your child for their weight. blame yourself.

[@Hannah-eh3hs]

Title : Mother forces daughter to go on a diet My mexican parent's : don't be shy put some more

[@attackmaheart]

Oi you should have seen me when I was a baby! I was thiqqqqq!!!!

[@boringmelon721]

@@attackmaheart same situation right here

[@attackmaheart]

@•B ë c h ë M e l ø ñ• RIGHT!

[@boringmelon721]

@@attackmaheart I was 4 kg when I was born

[@attackmaheart]

@•B ë c h ë M e l ø ñ• I was 9 pounds ;-;

[@lydiahickerson7782]

those lady’s are the sweetest people.. like that one lady that gave her a donut, she’s is so sweet

[@Thecobrakaifamily]

I agreed she really nice

[@Rhizzly]

Personally I prefer the tattooed guy because he really gave the mom a piece of his mind

[@laynielenz2k]

What’s the time stamp for that moment?

[@lydiahickerson7782]

@@laynielenz2k 4:07

[@lydiahickerson7782]

@@Rhizzly agreed..

[@BIGDWFC]

6:43 the way she smiles 😭😂

[@ILY95]

These videos restore faith in humanity while still breaking my heart. 💖💖

[@wattah9299]

Wait how they choose the fat actor without telling them “You’re fat! You’re perfect for this!”

[@tuamor5292]

oml imagine 😭💀

[@sophiemurray4363]

She had to audition, don't worry. And plus she got alot of money. And the actress is actually working to get thinner. :)

[@johnsmi213]

They held an audition saying "Looking for plus-size young actress for What Would You Do? Mother will body shame you to see how people respond in social experiment that will be televised on (network)."

[@sophiemurray4363]

@@johnsmi213 It was her choice to make, jeez.

[@johnsmi213]

@@sophiemurray4363 I was literally expanding upon what you said. I work in casting; I was saying what casting calls look like.

[@epicXtrollface]

The girl who plays the daughter must have really thick skin. If I were to be hired for a role like that, I'd probably feel really insecure. I'm glad so many people came to her defense.

[@ryethekitsune902]

Me too, it's really upsetting and I'm glad that people were not ignoring it.

[@mcblyat-mobile712]

Yeah I’m a chubby person myself and I would be depressed if I was hired to play a role where I just get bullied for my weight

[@christopherstaffordd]

Mcblyat- mobile you wouldn’t if you’d get a lot of money for it, and it’s acting

[@epicXtrollface]

@@christopherstaffordd I would, though. There is a reason they chose her as the "overweight daughter", and it's not because she's rocking a summer body. No amount of money could change someone's self-esteem, and it's not like the girl got a lot of money from a single video on wwyd where she barely has to say anything.

[@vibragarden]

if the actress is actually self conscious about her body, she was likely trained for what she would be going through in the act

[@kingstontwelve]

I love that woman who gave her a donut and puts the mom in her place 😅

[@shelbeyhershman7531]

I still come back and watch this video, because once I was that little girl. Whether it was in a clothing store or sitting at a restaurant booth. I’m glad she had someone to stand up for her, real or not.

[@awhlulu1759]

The therapist: Shut Up!!!!! The little boy: What? What did you just say? *Everyone LITERALLY ignoring him* Me:LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

[@brandonalexvargas]

He thought he won 1.000.000 dollars

[@ohsusok5957]

Brandon_Cool 😭😭😭

[@KaumariJ.]

I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT💀😹

[@clarissaubawuike6596]

🤣🤣🤣

[@trouble4453]

@@KaumariJ. Same

[@sarahchitchat1129]

Oof him telling her she should loose weight when she’s acting

[@chialeendrums]

Yeah oof😔

[@sm1purplmurderedme583]

Sarah Chit chat but he didn’t say it in a rude way

[@glowblank17]

@Sarah Chit chat, *Damn, you sure are a lil’ CUTIE 😍! May I PLEASE pay for your college tuition/student loans (Soon-To-Be Dr.) 😩?*

[@122_ah7]

Ik.....😔😳

[@cucli3346]

Yeah honestly hahaha

[@Tarpondss]

“Her obvious shortcomings” 😂😂 Is my man trying to help her or roast her

[@beautifullyandwonderfullym7517]

I remember my niece Beatrice was told to go on a diet by her mother, and it broke my heart. I said listen to me you are beautiful and don't let anyone say different not even your mother, she said my mom said I'm big-boned like my dad's family. I do believe that it damaged that young girl.

[@clairekatelynrichardson2622]

Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes

[@livesmart9481]

Mom is trying to make her daughter healthier, but the way she does it is wrong.

[@AJPReactions]

Yes she shouldn’t be fat Shame her but she definitely should encourage her in losing weight in a nice way

[@rayzhang7591]

Yeah being overweight is not just about look. Cardiovascular disease, diabetes, even cancer risk goes up for obese people. Not to mention the bully a "big girl" might get at school. But seriously you don't bring your kids to a donut shop and only have one of them getting the sweet unless the child herself chose not to get the donut.

[@Saphire_Throated_Carpenter_Ant]

The real parents are the ones responsible for the girls weight. If a kid is becoming a lard o then they are consuming more calories than they are burning. Don't let them do that. Problem solved.

[@MultiAarcher]

If I Had A Mother Like That And A Father Like That I Would Probably Constantly Push Them Out Of My Life And Go Find A Better Suited Place For Myself To Live Where I Have The Freedom To Eat Whatever I Want Or Choose To Eat

[@simarpabla2796]

If she wants her to be healthier just limit her sugar and make sure she stays active

[@alysiamerdavid-wasser9165]

"She called her fat *to her face.* ". "Quit body-shaming her about *her Obvious shortcomings.* ". Umm....Wut?

[@Mokawoo]

Lmaoooooo

[@gnomechump-stiny7128]

STOP Morbidly OBESE SHAMING LOL

[@Pmosa-kv8gu]

Mums life being fat means u eat bare shit and don't exercise and people out here saying stop fat shaming🤣🙈 smh

[@odetothemasses]

Pierre even if they don't, it doesn't mean you can give people body issues because you think it's funny

[@Sinful_Ariq]

At least it you know, not saying FAT

[@katdoe192]

my mother did this to me my whole life. parents that say things like this to their kids don't know the damage they are doing{or they don't care} to their child and it can affect them for the rest of their lives.

[@aubreyanderson4591]

I get that maybe the mother cares about her daughter's health but the fact is that she calls her fat in front of her face and gets her sister a donut baffles me

[@jacelanster6427]

Random man: *sneezes Me: bless you John quinones: “so what made you say that?”

[@gabriellahazan3750]

Jace Lanster trieeeeee

[@nathanw3225]

Can’t be slipping- John could be anywhere

[@jthb]

Random man: I was trying to give her Corona

[@DementedDoritoOfdoom]

Overused

[@gabriellahazan3750]

Demented Dorito Of doom shut up

[@lc7490]

The first Lady was so nice. She wasn’t attacking the lady yet she made her point.

[@amylee8969]

Exactly! It's all about moderation! If she's been eating healthy all week and working out, there's no reason why she can't have at least ONE donut (not a whole box) at least once in a while.

[@nanasarpong8408]

Ur pfp om

[@Jude-hl5cr]

@@amylee8969 I know but even if she didn’t work out or eating healthy then she should still have lne

[@Hi-ob5wi]

“Can I say something?” “Yeah?” “You absolutely disgust me” W guy 😎

[@keunnataylor1940]

This one is tough..no one wants to be told how to raise their own child further more what would you do? Let your daughter risk diabetes high blood pressure parathyroid disease...

[@HakunaMatata-gr9mm]

No dont take her to donut shop

[@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327]

The first woman’s was unexpected but set a really good example for me. She didn’t yell or go, “What’s wrong with you?” She don’t shame her. She was calm and collected. I respect that.

[@TheWhiteScatterbug]

2:50 "Are you really a therapist?" "No, I just made that up, lol!"

[@mia4realss]

TheWhiteScatterbug ??? She said she is a therapist...

[@FearFury503]

mj uwu r/whoooooosh

[@elizabethcoria.3964]

plot twist. hHAHAHA

[@Anubonek]

xD

[@derppan9215]

@@mia4realss its called a joke

[@finnsmith9066]

This video is legendary at this point.

[@jessicalanda4098]

At 5:01 that look in her eyes broke my heart, she is on verge of tears.. this guy was awful. She said "i think i look fine but my mom want me to be thin like my sister, do you think i shoukd look more like my sister?" And he agrees.... i would lost it if i heard that. She wasnt acting at that point, she internalized that... you see her sinking inside. It shoukd have stopped there. These kids should not be subected to this. That will always stick with her. Some adults shouldnt be speaking to childern about self their body image in a neg way especially a man. The cameras should have come out right then, shame on the host fir not protect this child!!! Poor baby

[@vuedanto8576]

He was just trying to save an innocent child from having the problems he has, and the way you wrote this comment seems quite interesting, especially, "Some adults shouldn't be speaking to children about self body image ESPECIALLY A MAN." What is wrong with telling children to be healthy and what is wrong with him being a man?

[@DG-zv4bl]

Rather than saying 'be thinner' she should have said 'be healthier'. That would have had better responses.

[@roserosiecake815]

Bro my last name denny

[@judyboyce802]

Nigga nigga donut

[@alexissaldivar927]

nvm no bbq

[@madokafied]

What even is this comment chain-

[@DG-zv4bl]

Nigga shouldn't eat doughnuts

[@claireelise3125]

This makes me want a donut rn. Edit: wow! That much likes in two days! That’s a new record!

[@makotonaegi9068]

Agreed 🍩 and 🍪 Cookies. 🤤

[@ikaelazz1580]

Claire Hudson omg same

[@jaden9423]

i work at Dunkin’ Donuts and after watching this I still don’t want a donut reminds me of hell

[@geyscout6875]

This made me not want a donut

[@phantomsmusic6666]

Claire Hudson Sam we

[@cashysnake]

She is so cruel! Body shaming is never okay because a lot of people have eating disorders because they’ve been body shamed.

[@karinaruizleyva2361]

She’s making a spectacle

[@idealcookie.]

If I ever see someone like this to their child, 100% I'd interveen. Mainly to support the kiddo, and to explain to the mum that it's not good to compare their children.

[@royalpain9281]

It would be more believable if there wasn’t a WWYD poster in the background

[@wyattolefflover6317]

wait what where

[@Ivashaaa]

Royal Pain where?

[@royalpain9281]

WyattOleff Lover 6:52

[@Ivashaaa]

Royal Pain wow! If i saw that and was there I would 100% know it was for the show. Do you think the vids are fake then?

[@royalpain9281]

Ferxani Eh all reality shows are fake I can’t confirm WWYD is real nor fake I can’t really give an opinion I am just saying I would expect John to pop up if there was a WWYD poster

[@annitab7062]

There's so many issues here 1. If a child is overweight, it's not the child's fault but the parents fault. The child's obesity is simply a manifestation of the poor lifestyle choices made in the family. In a circumstance where one child is fatter than another, the ENTIRE family, needs to ensure they have healthy eating habits and normalise exercise. 2. It is very problematic, and potentially damaging and counterproductive to instil in kids that donuts are treats or rewards, and fruit or veggies are basically not and are kinda like punishment.

[@urgae9125]

Not to mention the poor child will end up with eating disorders

[@unnamedcharacter9065]

@Aubrey Frye In a way, you just said that sometimes it's actually exactly the parent's fault. Unintentional fault, but the fact is they are the reason the kid ended up with the genetics they have. Of course, though, genetics doesn't doom you. Lifestyle/diet/etc. is what truly determines how you end up. Genetics just determine how much of an impact those elements have.

[@starrycarleigh]

@Anittha Brown I was thinking the exact same thing!

[@fizzahyder2965]

Nobody is fat or ugly, we just have a really judgemental society.

[@silent_march8130]

Fat refers to obese or overweight, which she clearly is. And it’s sad how a child could get to this weight at all.

[@ninjanerdstudent6937]

If you're not buying your kid a donut, then don't take your kid to a donut shop. That's like taking your kid to Orlando, and forbidding them to enter a theme park.

[@Ilovedogs3344]

“Yum I want the Oreo” hahaha 🤣🤣🤣

[@jazrackz]

LMFAOOOO she went straight to the point💀💀