I'm stronger because I HAD to be. I'm smarter because of my mistakes, happier because of the sadness I've known, and now wiser because ---- I've learned !
@anthonybowman1124Ай бұрын
Have been living this for 18 years now. Peace is an amazing feeling
@palapalak.8907Ай бұрын
Freedom too.
@BitterMoonEmpressАй бұрын
If they don't call or text you, they're not interested in you - no matter what they told you before. Don't believe in words or messages, believe in the truth of their actions. No action - No interest.
@antoniocarlosrodriguescamp14972 күн бұрын
Exactly.
@Chuncy566Ай бұрын
If they dont call you for a long time ,they dont miss you,can easily do without you, have compleatly forgot you even exist, hide there where abouts from you, no use waiting for someone like that. You will be wasting your time!
@AngelaGibbs-ue8oxАй бұрын
I have a sister & brother like that. We haven't communicated since our mom's passing 7 years ago. Sad that your own family can sometimes be your worst enemy 😢
@Hazy3Ай бұрын
@@AngelaGibbs-ue8ox I'm going thru the same thing too. My sister was never supportive when my husband passed away from Covid. We have no children. Not once she came to see me. I moved to SC to be near by my brother and my sister, in hope that we might be able to be together again. She's only 40 mins - not once she came to see my new home. My brother and I have been meeting for coffee or lunch or dinner once a week. He came to my house to watch my dog while I go away for vacations. I will never see my sister again. It's just the way it is. I think she's insincere. I've asked many times to meet up with her. I have stopped trying. I don't call her anymore. It's been total of 7 years. 3 years since I moved. It is sad. but why? I don't know what's her reason? My brother thinks it's all jealousy, she's always been that way. That's not my problem. She has more things in her life than I do. She has 3 beautiful children and husband to go to home, I don't. It's just me and my dog. What's there to be jealous of? That's crazy to throw away a sibling over senseless. Someday your siblings will come around when it's ready. God is with you all the time.
@Sci-d9cАй бұрын
@@Chuncy566 What are great gift. The Evil Spirit who hates you and wants to destroy and who pretends that they love you just left you. You didn’t even have to do anything to stop the torture. It was done for you! What a Gift. Now take your life and go live in peace and love and happiness and never look back! If you Value your Life then that’s exactly what you will do! Good Luck 👍🏽 ❤️
@stellafraser8351Ай бұрын
Same scenario for me. Since my parents have both passed, I feel I have no family. I just concentrate on my children. It's a shame they don't have aunties /uncles that show interest in them.
@PatHelpsАй бұрын
What about tit for tat Also forget you never e ven knew they were on Planet Earth. Revenge ! In other words
@lornahaynes7886Ай бұрын
I am learning every day not to get attached to anyone God' is my faithful companion ❤
@lauralee2222Ай бұрын
In Jesus' name amen 🙌
@barnabarabas762429 күн бұрын
Agree...
@themountainsandthesea412127 күн бұрын
@@lornahaynes7886 👍🩷
@anndavis29203 күн бұрын
Hard, painful lesson to learn but i understand my solitude much better these days. I need to heal my inner child anyway, so she likes to be alone. Amen. Praise to TMH
@michellebenoit93263 минут бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Newtonwilson-yw4kgАй бұрын
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
@oglaskubuotАй бұрын
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
@Newtonwilson-yw4kgАй бұрын
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@oglaskubuotАй бұрын
I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
@Newtonwilson-yw4kgАй бұрын
I promise you will not regret it
@dealsmartk84517 күн бұрын
Never beg for love ,attention , & recognition .Ceasing pursuit is the answer .
@dannyvestal299Ай бұрын
People are mean and cruel. Best to stay away and keep to yourself much as possible. Took many let downs, but after 50 years I finally accepted it will Only get worse..not better.
@Kitca4512Ай бұрын
Same here
@KimberZKАй бұрын
Even family members. Especially family members.
@PatHelpsАй бұрын
Nothing like your. own company music from the 60 70 and your needlework or which ever hobby you interested in. Patricia South Africa 🌍🌍
@themountainsandthesea412127 күн бұрын
@@dannyvestal299 🩷👍🙏
@Goodwillwinoverevil198424 күн бұрын
Even online they are. I could have said the same thing, but probably got around HALF as many upvotes/people agreeing. Especially with my old username. Edit: Scratch that, probably 1/4 or 1/5 as many. And no, my user name was NOT innapropriate.
@Afulio-p1cАй бұрын
Absolutely, when someone says something nice to me anytime, it makes me feel so so good 👍 and make my day.
@rosaliebess2431Ай бұрын
Move on think about your self give it to god😇
@morrisdennisАй бұрын
No contact for 1 yr and I delete their number, that's how I weed out lukewarm half hearted ppl....
@anndavis292025 күн бұрын
No hearted people towards me.
@tonyroe1670Ай бұрын
No matter what u hear as an elderly. Remember u are a recycled. Teenager. Have a sense of humour eat plenty fresh fruit. Walk as fast as u can. Avoid toxic people. An sing. Yes Sing. It’s great therapy I’m 76. Never let me down God Bless 8:09 8:09
@antarasinha8639Ай бұрын
Yes, we should always sing the song of our souls to live a musical life. And that's it.
@marytaylor40259 күн бұрын
From now on if anyone asks how old I am or comments on my age I will say I AM A RECYCLED TEENAGER FANTASTIC and THANK YOU FOR ADVICE NEVER TOO OLD TO LEARN 😂😂😂😂
@Dumakude277Ай бұрын
"Things that hurt you actually teaches you" this is the one that is encouraging me @ the present moment but i've learned and loved all the quotes thank you for sharing❤🙏🙌
@aschule5684Ай бұрын
No communication from someone is pretty easy to figure out and it doesn't mean they're waiting to hear from you 🤔
@Acrobatics1-b6rАй бұрын
It's a blessing in certain cases!
@KrystalLee-i3wАй бұрын
Amen 🙏
@runthorng3689Ай бұрын
1 thing for sure / two things for certain ; spot on Ladd 😮😊
@marcusknoll9500Ай бұрын
Dam.....even from a "friend" right?
@aschule5684Ай бұрын
@@marcusknoll9500 yeah unfortunately 😔
@Sci-d9cАй бұрын
Let go and let God! It’s so peaceful and rewarding!
@themountainsandthesea4121Ай бұрын
@@Sci-d9c yes!🩷
@deborahmccarthy8000Ай бұрын
Great Words Of Wisdom/ Knowledge 👍🌟✨💯
@TreasureZoe-b5cАй бұрын
LIFE GOES ON IT MAKES YOU STRONGER DON'T FEEL DISILLUSIONED THE PERSON IS NOT WORTH IT .... NOT RESPONDING IS CALLED BAD MANNER'S YOU LEARN AND BECOME WISER LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL DON'T WASTE YOUR TEAR'S HUG'S N KISSES TO THE LOVELY PEOPLE I LOVE 💕 YOU ❤❤❤❤❤
@AnnaParada-x3yАй бұрын
GREETINGS FROM KENTUCKY PPL NEED TO TEACH TEACH THEIR CHILDREN TO FOCUS ON GOD AND HELPING AND SERVING OTHERS AND GETTING AWAY FROM THE NARCISSISTIC SEXUAL LIFE LOOK UP ACIDIC JEWISH PEOPLE FROM BROOKLYN LOOK UP THE MORMONS THE AMISH THE MENNONITES THE OCCASIONS AND HOW THEY LIVE OKAY LOVE YOURSELF AND BE OKAY WITH BEING ALONE THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT AND TO BE HAPPY AND HAVE PEACE HAPPY AS A CHILD WHO HAS PEOPLE NEED TO BE TAUGHT TO LOVE THEMSELVES OKAY AND NOT COULD NOT BE DEPENDENT ON PEOPLE AND NOT BE ADDICTED TO TO FAMILY AND PEOPLE BECAUSE MOST FOLKS ARE NOT WHAT THEY USE TO BE 🙏
@TammyHultquist9 күн бұрын
The sad thing in my situation is its my own 3 Daughters, We weren't just Mother and Daughters we were all best friends. Very close until my Husband and I were both diagnosed with Treminal illnesses and needed help. My Husband was very sick with Lung and Brain Cancer. They didnt visit call or text. When i did they seemed like they didnt have time. The last 4 weeks of his life he had to be in a nursing home. Then they came.i guess to be seen.im still here but never see them. We have one Son who never left our side.Hes living with me and does almost everything for me when i get bad. This has been so awful with the girls. I still cant believe it. I never thought in my wildest dreams they would be like this. There 41,38 and 35. My Son 44 and he was a cna for 12 years. So is very good with me. Im so Thankful. My Precious Husband of 49 years Died on my 65th Birthday January 2nd this year. We had such a blessed life together 5 Precious Children, our oldest Daughter is in Heaven with Him. 11 Precious Grandchildren. Sorry to ramble, Good to get it out.😢😢😢😢😢
@gayledavis4017Ай бұрын
So Inspiring I'm going to apply all these messages to myself Thank You 🙏🙏🙏
@sallycreitzman1953Ай бұрын
Wonderful. I’ve applied these wise words into my personal development journey and it works beautifully. Although it can be painful losing friends in your life it’s a good thing in that your Soul is progressing and you’re true to yourself 🦋
@judiellal97942 күн бұрын
@sallycreitzman1953 What is really hard is having a best friend since were 21, and now at 70, hardly ever hear from her. I have been trying to keep the friendship going, but it just makes me feel sad
@Tipusultan-chico28 күн бұрын
Up to myself.. And negativity doesn't help anyone
@andreawilliams1272Ай бұрын
Thank you for this message
@EugenioJ.BallengerАй бұрын
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
@Henry-hp3klАй бұрын
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
@EugenioJ.BallengerАй бұрын
Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?
@Henry-hp3klАй бұрын
Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment
@EugenioJ.BallengerАй бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.
@sksharma6741Ай бұрын
Very nice thoughts and advice Thanks sir
@tessapjohnАй бұрын
So true and beautiful, I sure can learn a lot from this.
@Imjustme-r4cАй бұрын
I have been trying to end this situation for years now i'm done with everything
@divinetiming1005Ай бұрын
Sometimes you just have to REMOVE people without warning! We're getting too old to be explaining what they already know they're doing wrong ! Don't waste your time ! I didn't !
@aparnamore7837Ай бұрын
I love my peace thankyou for the life lessons.
@WAM3601Ай бұрын
Profoundly Amazing Quotes 🙏💯
@Squirrels_yellowchicksАй бұрын
That means… they lost their phone and your number wasn’t backed up😂
@adi1017Ай бұрын
Multumim! 🙋♀️Pretuiesc aceste povete, le citesc cu placere si le am insusit si respectat ! Duminica binecuvantata! Noapte buna🙏
@joylindadichamounixАй бұрын
When a man does not call you, your women friends will tell you that he is shy or afraid of his own feelings-your men friends will tell you the truth.
@richardho5955Ай бұрын
😂😂😂🖕. 🎸🕺🏍️🏉🍺👍👍😊👍
@debaser_666Ай бұрын
When a woman doesn't call you, she doesn't like you.
@joylindadichamounixАй бұрын
@@debaser_666 It is that simple!
@LăcrămioaraLianaBurianaАй бұрын
When a man don't call you ,no message and font coming în visit don't love you, don't like you .😊
@joylindadichamounixАй бұрын
@@LăcrămioaraLianaBuriana Improper grammar but right idea.
@moonorashikinahmad9221Ай бұрын
What ever.. Don't care.. No call no message.. Won't die
@PatHelpsАй бұрын
I agree
@KrystalLee-i3wАй бұрын
Facts
@AngelaGibbs-ue8oxАй бұрын
I wish that I could get there
@BradleyPrice-u3nАй бұрын
It means she doesn't care plain and simple.1111
@hasinasodager9380Ай бұрын
Excellent video thanks brother
@rosaliebess2431Ай бұрын
Move on take care of your self things will get better😇
@KLeonardMАй бұрын
Some of these truths can depress the hell out of you
@jameswilson4978Ай бұрын
Mumbo jumbo mind-boggling crap
@mariaelenahanson-t8yАй бұрын
I let him go cuz he was hurting me over and over again, enough is Enough !!!
@Zohra-b9jАй бұрын
If you want forgiveness forgive others
@DorothyMoore-y6dАй бұрын
Good advice thanks for sharing
@nancymatheny7972Ай бұрын
They don't want you in their life and that's fine with me. Not ever going to be in his life again. Last time was the last time.
@deborahray4568Ай бұрын
Trauma makes people dissociate. Maybe you should check on them!
Sometimes life gets so Real that you don't want to burden someone else with your problems, just offer it up to God. Live & let it go.
@mandysampieri5720Ай бұрын
Yes i learnt that the hard way.
@AsmabanuDavangereАй бұрын
Really it's good advice thank you
@NewReality-e3rАй бұрын
Right! Thank you!💥
@gwendolinebalhao9609Ай бұрын
Best advice ever❤
@voiceofreason7856Ай бұрын
"When A Person Doesn't Call Or Message You For A long Time ' it may be because they've felt used or slighted by you.
@naveedalam8069Ай бұрын
Bravo!!!!!!! Great ones.......Thanks
@ptheprodigalson.575Ай бұрын
There is no singsingle answer to this point. No answer is black or white. Without question and communication, we're always guessing. The ego loves guesswork, it's easier to corrode. Love trust, take risks, never isolate. Yes take some time for you, but always stay connected. Too much love from you, is never wrong. It is what the world is short of. There is no I, in us x
@danbasta367729 күн бұрын
I had a former best friend who I cared a great deal about as he was going through the very same things I was going through in life and tried to encourage him to continue onward, until one day he left a message saying because he doesn't have a university degree, and other things that were abusive, then calling me a a-hole. Never heard from him ever since. I do miss him, and care about him however it's what he wanted so, so be it. I don't beg anybody for their friendship, best to let others go and not get involved with people at all. This way, you'll never get hurt ever again.
@margaretaljaser4053Ай бұрын
It means that they never care nor had any intentions to be with you. Taking advantage of people's love. That he didn't plan on keeping. Liar's who denied knowing each other. Strong but weak. Regretting to help a person. Knowing that one survived the unthinkable. Nothing is what he thinks i am.
@parishadnz.6048Ай бұрын
''i''??
@mohaukobeli488Ай бұрын
Beautiful words of wisdom. Thank you 🙌🙌
@marilynserrano-soto3100Ай бұрын
Facts...Amen ..
@leroyvassell439511 күн бұрын
It is very clear that I need solitude as so many people; family and friends have disappeared from my life. I am cleansing and healing ✨️ it is truly a magnificent journey, one that was initially challenging, but now I simply embrace with ease. Thank you for this video.
@Zacharychampion-yy3ntАй бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@linamoon-mi7wdАй бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
@Zacharychampion-yy3ntАй бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@linamoon-mi7wdАй бұрын
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@Zacharychampion-yy3ntАй бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@jasonmccannon235Ай бұрын
You'll thank her for leaving as its going to allow you have an amazing life and meet really good people. Starting is the hard part , enjoy your journey 🫡
@Christina-yw7goАй бұрын
It means nothing because one can't change anyone.
@aparnamore7837Ай бұрын
Thank you.
@mandysampieri5720Ай бұрын
Yes it happened to me.But there wont be a next time.
@BERROU2023Ай бұрын
Thank God , she and i are now together.our love is infinite.
@Eduardo-m2iАй бұрын
A few reasons, Too busy,,,, Trying to distance the relationship, ...Maybe the person is ill , try contacting the person
@hafeesaАй бұрын
Deepest Gratitude ❤
@ashajagavkar5747Ай бұрын
Amazing 🕊️
@lyndafjellman3315Ай бұрын
If they don't call you for a long time, they might be depressed and really need you to reach out.
@Skinnybearr75438 күн бұрын
Dont bullshit brother. To those who are reading this LET ME AFFIRM THE CALL NEVER COMES. MOVE ON BUDS
@dealsmartk84517 күн бұрын
Better check them out just in case ...so that they never say you never tried
@IrnBruXtraАй бұрын
I have organic brain syndrome. I move on from ex's after 6 weeks.
@vaeldsableАй бұрын
"Your past doesn't define you. It just gives you the starting point of who you are to be" // game over :)
@adriand2895Ай бұрын
Amazing!
@anneliesevandenbroeck8132Ай бұрын
It is all true, but not evident to live like this.
@SereneandmiraclefreespiritАй бұрын
For me to be Civilized, kind & Etiquette towards others has always been my nature, That's just the way I am. Yet for many years now, people who say they are my friend's belittle me, gaslight me, ostracize and ghost me. ect. After so much of it, decided to cut them loose & move on for my own inner serenity & joy again. Now I live my life without toxic people in it. & I'm so glad too. Because now Im much more happier & Serene.🤗💕💕
@HEARTLESS-201Ай бұрын
I AM FILING IN THE MORNING I BEEN IN A DARK SPACE THREE MONTHS IM DONE I NO LONGER WANT HIM OR THE MARRIAGE MY KIDS ALL I NEED WAT I CREATED💔🙏🏾💔🙏🏾💔
@milagroslim44178 күн бұрын
Protect my life from danger amen
@ravishankars1612Ай бұрын
The quotes are nice, but unfortunately there are many punctuation mistakes in the text appearing on the screen. It would be good if the authors are credited for their quotes.
@nosterpierre735329 күн бұрын
Stop here if someone doesn’t call or text long time I’m ok with it instead these who keep calling me nonsense,nonstop
@namehcvl4884Ай бұрын
Thank you for this ❤
@dawniebabe65Ай бұрын
Friday evening we said. Good night. Love you etc. haven’t heard from him since. Ghosted me all weekend. We’ve been in a relationship that’s complicated for 8 years.
@KurumiNakamoto-ge8xcАй бұрын
Yes, we need to talk so that no doubt, to know and analyze.before you jump into conclusion.clarity arise.im sure you understand me.Tell a mediator to talk so that we can manage.ok needed to talk because to release' the things to settle.
@Openguy23Ай бұрын
The stupid thing is they listen to the wrong people, Can’t make their own mind up.
@Trish-ql9kzАй бұрын
What about people who keep calling you even though you rather they didn’t! someone who calls regularly just to off load their problems... they quickly turn the subject back to them after grudgingly asking you how you are and you have just begun to tell them
@ronmills6244Ай бұрын
I ended a 20 year friendship because of this.
@jameswilson4978Ай бұрын
That's the way my narcissist friend is you'll say something he'll change the subject completely different from what what I was talking about let's say for instance hey Jeff I Got a Brand New Pair of Shoes and he says it's supposed to rain today I think I'm going to go do this and I'm going to go do that and I'm doing this and I'm doing that I'm sick of this dude for real
@16nowhereman18 күн бұрын
You're a good listener.
@ledosecurАй бұрын
Thank you🙏❤️
@LB-ty6ksАй бұрын
Very good.
@dorisjones23005 күн бұрын
There really is an art to living life
@walid4979Ай бұрын
Thanks brother
@MikeF-op4gs2 күн бұрын
Wouldn't even know what my nieces and nephews and their kids look like if I passed them on the street!! It's sad but the truth, COVID didn't help with not seeing people either!! This is depressing!!
@SS-pk6tfАй бұрын
They can do without u or they struggle with their parents insecurities finances doubts yes without knowing a person. My very own experience. I know who I am in life and live live as it comes. My own peace and happiness comes 1st. I don't go near negativity..in family is what I can't avoid. Sure enough my success shut their mouth
@PEARL712scottАй бұрын
I have many friends I do not hear ffrom months at a time.I also know so many people I can not stay in touvh with everyone.many people I know travel. It would be a huge job to stay in touch with everyone all the time
@parishadnz.6048Ай бұрын
..here is talking about whom you are supposed to hear form.
@taroman7100Ай бұрын
Oh, great this is real uplifting.
@sojourner84226 күн бұрын
Al Anon teaches you can love someone dearly and still live a life yourself that isn't dependent on everything the other person is doing. Sometimes less clinging and just finding your own personal stability becomes healing for both of you. I think the others are correct when they say "work on your own independent person" and see where it goes. It does produce maturity if nothing else. Truly wishing you the best😊
@heatherjovero9379Ай бұрын
The truth always comes out in the end is the only unmovable bar in thesr words of advise.Others are contingent
@patrickbodine130024 күн бұрын
...you can do without them.
@Twilight-yt8dcАй бұрын
Yes 💯 amen 🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
@girishmulyeАй бұрын
I would rather say leave it to GOD.
@antarasinha8639Ай бұрын
Surrender
@nicholuswanjohiАй бұрын
wonderful 👍
@oppa-e1l4 күн бұрын
I dont need people full stop. I have quite a few ex-friends i totally ignore and can live without very easily.
@lessanchez3904Ай бұрын
Give me Trista. You guys are killing her
@ladychatelaine697Ай бұрын
Imo, happiness is just an illusion! 😖
@davekat4680Ай бұрын
….nice 💫
@Ivuv122-2Ай бұрын
All these comments are true I knew from the start
@ChristinaEscajeda-e1jКүн бұрын
Sometimes just let it be.
@JannieHayes-w5gАй бұрын
That mean it over
@baturaotara3064Ай бұрын
People, places and things come into your lifetime for a reason, a season or a lifetime.