If they don't call or text you, they're not interested in you - no matter what they told you before. Don't believe in words or messages, believe in the truth of their actions. No action - No interest.
@antoniocarlosrodriguescamp14972 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@MurphyFarm2014Ай бұрын
Brilliant, Thank You! I sure needed that comment today... even though I knew it, it helped me coming from a stranger today! 😊 Heartbroken in 🇨🇦🍁🇨🇦 💔
@Chuncy5663 ай бұрын
If they dont call you for a long time ,they dont miss you,can easily do without you, have compleatly forgot you even exist, hide there where abouts from you, no use waiting for someone like that. You will be wasting your time!
@AngelaGibbs-ue8ox3 ай бұрын
I have a sister & brother like that. We haven't communicated since our mom's passing 7 years ago. Sad that your own family can sometimes be your worst enemy 😢
@Hazy33 ай бұрын
@@AngelaGibbs-ue8ox I'm going thru the same thing too. My sister was never supportive when my husband passed away from Covid. We have no children. Not once she came to see me. I moved to SC to be near by my brother and my sister, in hope that we might be able to be together again. She's only 40 mins - not once she came to see my new home. My brother and I have been meeting for coffee or lunch or dinner once a week. He came to my house to watch my dog while I go away for vacations. I will never see my sister again. It's just the way it is. I think she's insincere. I've asked many times to meet up with her. I have stopped trying. I don't call her anymore. It's been total of 7 years. 3 years since I moved. It is sad. but why? I don't know what's her reason? My brother thinks it's all jealousy, she's always been that way. That's not my problem. She has more things in her life than I do. She has 3 beautiful children and husband to go to home, I don't. It's just me and my dog. What's there to be jealous of? That's crazy to throw away a sibling over senseless. Someday your siblings will come around when it's ready. God is with you all the time.
@Sci-d9c3 ай бұрын
@@Chuncy566 What are great gift. The Evil Spirit who hates you and wants to destroy and who pretends that they love you just left you. You didn’t even have to do anything to stop the torture. It was done for you! What a Gift. Now take your life and go live in peace and love and happiness and never look back! If you Value your Life then that’s exactly what you will do! Good Luck 👍🏽 ❤️
@stellafraser83513 ай бұрын
Same scenario for me. Since my parents have both passed, I feel I have no family. I just concentrate on my children. It's a shame they don't have aunties /uncles that show interest in them.
@PatHelps3 ай бұрын
What about tit for tat Also forget you never e ven knew they were on Planet Earth. Revenge ! In other words
@TammyHultquist2 ай бұрын
The sad thing in my situation is its my own 3 Daughters, We weren't just Mother and Daughters we were all best friends. Very close until my Husband and I were both diagnosed with Treminal illnesses and needed help. My Husband was very sick with Lung and Brain Cancer. They didnt visit call or text. When i did they seemed like they didnt have time. The last 4 weeks of his life he had to be in a nursing home. Then they came.i guess to be seen.im still here but never see them. We have one Son who never left our side.Hes living with me and does almost everything for me when i get bad. This has been so awful with the girls. I still cant believe it. I never thought in my wildest dreams they would be like this. There 41,38 and 35. My Son 44 and he was a cna for 12 years. So is very good with me. Im so Thankful. My Precious Husband of 49 years Died on my 65th Birthday January 2nd this year. We had such a blessed life together 5 Precious Children, our oldest Daughter is in Heaven with Him. 11 Precious Grandchildren. Sorry to ramble, Good to get it out.😢😢😢😢😢
@bibsann861Ай бұрын
Oh boy that is rough. All I can say is take care of yourself and learn to just move forward to make your life peaceful.
@steelearmstrong9616Ай бұрын
My gosh what a story. This is bloody sad. If you were good parents to them girls then this is very sad. Your son is amazing. 🍀
@SereneandmiraclefreespiritАй бұрын
@@TammyHultquist I'm so sorry for everything you've gone through. I know it's a lot, & thats putting it mildly. But just keep praying for your daughters & trust God to do the rest. That's what I'm doing. I only have 1 daughter, she is almost 40 now. I myself am going on 64. My daughter began pulling away from me at age 10, then left home at age 17. Even to this day she has nothing to do with me & even slander me on facebook and maybe on Instagram too. We used to be so close, I did my best to give her everything I never had including my love. I always bought her gifts, and took her to Knotts Berry farm & Disneyland quite often. I just wanted my daughter to know I love her so much and just wanted her to be happy. Like I said she was until age 10. At age 10 she wanted to date the 26 year old men. I told her no. And that's why she pulled away & turned on me. I do consider myself to be a good mother, But I'm not about to let a 10 year old date full grown adult men. Now that she is an adult and moved out of state, all I can do is continue to love her and keep her in my prayers.
@irinewest5377Ай бұрын
@Sereneandmiraclefreespirit my all kids are awful ... But, at least, she has a son who is caring ❤
@SereneandmiraclefreespiritАй бұрын
@@irinewest5377 Just continue to love them & pray for them. That's the best love a mother can give. I literally had to put my daughter in God's hands & trust Him to do whatever is best. Just trust God.
@anthonybowman11243 ай бұрын
Have been living this for 18 years now. Peace is an amazing feeling
@palapalak.89073 ай бұрын
Freedom too.
@Newtonwilson-yw4kg3 ай бұрын
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
@oglaskubuot3 ай бұрын
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
@Newtonwilson-yw4kg3 ай бұрын
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@oglaskubuot3 ай бұрын
I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
@Newtonwilson-yw4kg3 ай бұрын
I promise you will not regret it
@dealsmartJoeK2 ай бұрын
Never beg for love ,attention , & recognition .Ceasing pursuit is the answer .
@divinetiming10053 ай бұрын
I'm stronger because I HAD to be. I'm smarter because of my mistakes, happier because of the sadness I've known, and now wiser because ---- I've learned !
@vicki9384Ай бұрын
Very nice!😊
@divinetiming1005Ай бұрын
@@vicki9384 Thank you! 😄
@lornahaynes78863 ай бұрын
I am learning every day not to get attached to anyone God' is my faithful companion ❤
@lauralee22223 ай бұрын
In Jesus' name amen 🙌
@barnabarabas76242 ай бұрын
Agree...
@themountainsandthesea41212 ай бұрын
@@lornahaynes7886 👍🩷
@anndavis29202 ай бұрын
Hard, painful lesson to learn but i understand my solitude much better these days. I need to heal my inner child anyway, so she likes to be alone. Amen. Praise to TMH
@michellebenoit9326Ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Afulio-p1c3 ай бұрын
Absolutely, when someone says something nice to me anytime, it makes me feel so so good 👍 and make my day.
@morrisdennis3 ай бұрын
No contact for 1 yr and I delete their number, that's how I weed out lukewarm half hearted ppl....
@anndavis29202 ай бұрын
No hearted people towards me.
@jefferypitts343Ай бұрын
After a year I don't delete their number, I put it in digital purgatory, works for me.
@lotte9964Ай бұрын
Thank you. That’s good advice ❤
@tonyroe16703 ай бұрын
No matter what u hear as an elderly. Remember u are a recycled. Teenager. Have a sense of humour eat plenty fresh fruit. Walk as fast as u can. Avoid toxic people. An sing. Yes Sing. It’s great therapy I’m 76. Never let me down God Bless 8:09 8:09
@antarasinha86393 ай бұрын
Yes, we should always sing the song of our souls to live a musical life. And that's it.
@marytaylor40252 ай бұрын
From now on if anyone asks how old I am or comments on my age I will say I AM A RECYCLED TEENAGER FANTASTIC and THANK YOU FOR ADVICE NEVER TOO OLD TO LEARN 😂😂😂😂
@SandhiMedam24 күн бұрын
Hi there it's really a nice feeling at scrolling down the comments. "Recycled Teenager'❤
@dannyvestal2993 ай бұрын
People are mean and cruel. Best to stay away and keep to yourself much as possible. Took many let downs, but after 50 years I finally accepted it will Only get worse..not better.
@KimberZK3 ай бұрын
Even family members. Especially family members.
@PatHelps3 ай бұрын
Nothing like your. own company music from the 60 70 and your needlework or which ever hobby you interested in. Patricia South Africa 🌍🌍
@themountainsandthesea41212 ай бұрын
@@dannyvestal299 🩷👍🙏
@Goodwillwinoverevil19842 ай бұрын
Even online they are. I could have said the same thing, but probably got around HALF as many upvotes/people agreeing. Especially with my old username. Edit: Scratch that, probably 1/4 or 1/5 as many. And no, my user name was NOT innapropriate.
@cathleenmore46562 ай бұрын
I find peace attending Catholic Mass/receiving the Holy Eucharist and praying the Holy Rosary🙏
@danbasta36772 ай бұрын
I had a former best friend who I cared a great deal about as he was going through the very same things I was going through in life and tried to encourage him to continue onward, until one day he left a message saying because he doesn't have a university degree, and other things that were abusive, then calling me a a-hole. Never heard from him ever since. I do miss him, and care about him however it's what he wanted so, so be it. I don't beg anybody for their friendship, best to let others go and not get involved with people at all. This way, you'll never get hurt ever again.
@Dumakude2773 ай бұрын
"Things that hurt you actually teaches you" this is the one that is encouraging me @ the present moment but i've learned and loved all the quotes thank you for sharing❤🙏🙌
@aschule56843 ай бұрын
No communication from someone is pretty easy to figure out and it doesn't mean they're waiting to hear from you 🤔
@Acrobatics1-b6r3 ай бұрын
It's a blessing in certain cases!
@KrystalLee-i3w3 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@runthorng36893 ай бұрын
1 thing for sure / two things for certain ; spot on Ladd 😮😊
@marcusknoll95003 ай бұрын
Dam.....even from a "friend" right?
@aschule56843 ай бұрын
@@marcusknoll9500 yeah unfortunately 😔
@rosaliebess24313 ай бұрын
Move on think about your self give it to god😇
@Sci-d9c3 ай бұрын
Let go and let God! It’s so peaceful and rewarding!
@themountainsandthesea41213 ай бұрын
@@Sci-d9c yes!🩷
@Maxxpace_EditzАй бұрын
Yes, it's true.
@carriephilippi27 күн бұрын
YES!!!
@TreasureZoe-b5c3 ай бұрын
LIFE GOES ON IT MAKES YOU STRONGER DON'T FEEL DISILLUSIONED THE PERSON IS NOT WORTH IT .... NOT RESPONDING IS CALLED BAD MANNER'S YOU LEARN AND BECOME WISER LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL DON'T WASTE YOUR TEAR'S HUG'S N KISSES TO THE LOVELY PEOPLE I LOVE 💕 YOU ❤❤❤❤❤
@AnnaParada-x3y3 ай бұрын
GREETINGS FROM KENTUCKY PPL NEED TO TEACH TEACH THEIR CHILDREN TO FOCUS ON GOD AND HELPING AND SERVING OTHERS AND GETTING AWAY FROM THE NARCISSISTIC SEXUAL LIFE LOOK UP ACIDIC JEWISH PEOPLE FROM BROOKLYN LOOK UP THE MORMONS THE AMISH THE MENNONITES THE OCCASIONS AND HOW THEY LIVE OKAY LOVE YOURSELF AND BE OKAY WITH BEING ALONE THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT AND TO BE HAPPY AND HAVE PEACE HAPPY AS A CHILD WHO HAS PEOPLE NEED TO BE TAUGHT TO LOVE THEMSELVES OKAY AND NOT COULD NOT BE DEPENDENT ON PEOPLE AND NOT BE ADDICTED TO TO FAMILY AND PEOPLE BECAUSE MOST FOLKS ARE NOT WHAT THEY USE TO BE 🙏
@sallycreitzman19533 ай бұрын
Wonderful. I’ve applied these wise words into my personal development journey and it works beautifully. Although it can be painful losing friends in your life it’s a good thing in that your Soul is progressing and you’re true to yourself 🦋
@judiellal97942 ай бұрын
@sallycreitzman1953 What is really hard is having a best friend since were 21, and now at 70, hardly ever hear from her. I have been trying to keep the friendship going, but it just makes me feel sad
@joylindadichamounix3 ай бұрын
When a man does not call you, your women friends will tell you that he is shy or afraid of his own feelings-your men friends will tell you the truth.
@richardho59553 ай бұрын
😂😂😂🖕. 🎸🕺🏍️🏉🍺👍👍😊👍
@debaser_6663 ай бұрын
When a woman doesn't call you, she doesn't like you.
@joylindadichamounix3 ай бұрын
@@debaser_666 It is that simple!
@LăcrămioaraLianaBuriana3 ай бұрын
When a man don't call you ,no message and font coming în visit don't love you, don't like you .😊
@joylindadichamounix3 ай бұрын
@@LăcrămioaraLianaBuriana Improper grammar but right idea.
@EugenioJ.Ballenger3 ай бұрын
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
@Henry-hp3kl3 ай бұрын
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
@EugenioJ.Ballenger3 ай бұрын
Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?
@Henry-hp3kl3 ай бұрын
Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment
@EugenioJ.Ballenger3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.
@antoniocarlosrodriguescamp14972 ай бұрын
And even if you die they won't give a damn.
@deborahmccarthy80003 ай бұрын
Great Words Of Wisdom/ Knowledge 👍🌟✨💯
@gayledavis40173 ай бұрын
So Inspiring I'm going to apply all these messages to myself Thank You 🙏🙏🙏
@Imjustme-r4c3 ай бұрын
I have been trying to end this situation for years now i'm done with everything
@mariaelenahanson-t8y2 ай бұрын
I let him go cuz he was hurting me over and over again, enough is Enough !!!
@Tipusultan-chico2 ай бұрын
Up to myself.. And negativity doesn't help anyone
@aparnamore78373 ай бұрын
I love my peace thankyou for the life lessons.
@leroyvassell43952 ай бұрын
It is very clear that I need solitude as so many people; family and friends have disappeared from my life. I am cleansing and healing ✨️ it is truly a magnificent journey, one that was initially challenging, but now I simply embrace with ease. Thank you for this video.
@divinetiming10053 ай бұрын
Sometimes you just have to REMOVE people without warning! We're getting too old to be explaining what they already know they're doing wrong ! Don't waste your time ! I didn't !
Ай бұрын
Best from my experience not to join any civic organizations or churches either. People try to take advantage of others if they can, also gossip andtry to control others. People can meet in small groups or spend time online.
@KarenTam-uq4pj3 ай бұрын
Sometimes life gets so Real that you don't want to burden someone else with your problems, just offer it up to God. Live & let it go.
@andreawilliams12723 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message
@rosaliebess24313 ай бұрын
Move on take care of your self things will get better😇
@moonorashikinahmad92213 ай бұрын
What ever.. Don't care.. No call no message.. Won't die
@PatHelps3 ай бұрын
I agree
@KrystalLee-i3w3 ай бұрын
Facts
@AngelaGibbs-ue8ox3 ай бұрын
I wish that I could get there
@vaeldsable3 ай бұрын
"Your past doesn't define you. It just gives you the starting point of who you are to be" // game over :)
@tessapjohn3 ай бұрын
So true and beautiful, I sure can learn a lot from this.
@Zacharychampion-yy3nt3 ай бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@linamoon-mi7wd3 ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
@Zacharychampion-yy3nt3 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@linamoon-mi7wd3 ай бұрын
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@Zacharychampion-yy3nt3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@jasonmccannon2353 ай бұрын
You'll thank her for leaving as its going to allow you have an amazing life and meet really good people. Starting is the hard part , enjoy your journey 🫡
@KLeonardM3 ай бұрын
Some of these truths can depress the hell out of you
@jameswilson49782 ай бұрын
Mumbo jumbo mind-boggling crap
@sksharma67413 ай бұрын
Very nice thoughts and advice Thanks sir
@nancymatheny79723 ай бұрын
They don't want you in their life and that's fine with me. Not ever going to be in his life again. Last time was the last time.
@BradleyPrice-u3n3 ай бұрын
It means she doesn't care plain and simple.1111
@voiceofreason78563 ай бұрын
"When A Person Doesn't Call Or Message You For A long Time ' it may be because they've felt used or slighted by you.
@SusanJackson-k4zАй бұрын
There is also another reason why people don’t make contact they are depressed and everything seems like a chore and they don’t know what to say because they are so down in them selves
@dorisjones23002 ай бұрын
There really is an art to living life
@Thebuilderofthings1Ай бұрын
A loser falls down and stays down, a winner falls down and gets back up.
@adi10173 ай бұрын
Multumim! 🙋♀️Pretuiesc aceste povete, le citesc cu placere si le am insusit si respectat ! Duminica binecuvantata! Noapte buna🙏
@RavenCrowCawCaw3 ай бұрын
That means… they lost their phone and your number wasn’t backed up😂
@deborahray45683 ай бұрын
Trauma makes people dissociate. Maybe you should check on them!
@BERROU20233 ай бұрын
Thank God , she and i are now together.our love is infinite.
@DorothyMoore-y6d3 ай бұрын
Good advice thanks for sharing
@naveedalam80693 ай бұрын
Bravo!!!!!!! Great ones.......Thanks
@LibWyn36013 ай бұрын
Profoundly Amazing Quotes 🙏💯
@baturaotara30643 ай бұрын
People, places and things come into your lifetime for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
@gwendolinebalhao96093 ай бұрын
Best advice ever❤
@margaretaljaser40533 ай бұрын
It means that they never care nor had any intentions to be with you. Taking advantage of people's love. That he didn't plan on keeping. Liar's who denied knowing each other. Strong but weak. Regretting to help a person. Knowing that one survived the unthinkable. Nothing is what he thinks i am.
@parishadnz.60482 ай бұрын
''i''??
@ptheprodigalson.5753 ай бұрын
There is no singsingle answer to this point. No answer is black or white. Without question and communication, we're always guessing. The ego loves guesswork, it's easier to corrode. Love trust, take risks, never isolate. Yes take some time for you, but always stay connected. Too much love from you, is never wrong. It is what the world is short of. There is no I, in us x
@NewReality-e3r3 ай бұрын
Right! Thank you!💥
@Trish-ql9kz3 ай бұрын
What about people who keep calling you even though you rather they didn’t! someone who calls regularly just to off load their problems... they quickly turn the subject back to them after grudgingly asking you how you are and you have just begun to tell them
@ronmills62443 ай бұрын
I ended a 20 year friendship because of this.
@jameswilson49782 ай бұрын
That's the way my narcissist friend is you'll say something he'll change the subject completely different from what what I was talking about let's say for instance hey Jeff I Got a Brand New Pair of Shoes and he says it's supposed to rain today I think I'm going to go do this and I'm going to go do that and I'm doing this and I'm doing that I'm sick of this dude for real
@16nowhereman2 ай бұрын
You're a good listener.
@carriephilippi27 күн бұрын
I stopped answering...
@hasinasodager93803 ай бұрын
Excellent video thanks brother
@Sereneandmiraclefreespirit3 ай бұрын
For me to be Civilized, kind & Etiquette towards others has always been my nature, That's just the way I am. Yet for many years now, people who say they are my friend's belittle me, gaslight me, ostracize and ghost me. ect. After so much of it, decided to cut them loose & move on for my own inner serenity & joy again. Now I live my life without toxic people in it. & I'm so glad too. Because now Im much more happier & Serene.🤗💕💕
@ChristinaEscajeda-e1jАй бұрын
Sometimes just let it be.
@Zohra-b9j3 ай бұрын
If you want forgiveness forgive others
@coolkitty2075Ай бұрын
If you r less than perfect a lot of people just don t bother with you. I sometimes look in the mirror and think have I done something wrong?
A few reasons, Too busy,,,, Trying to distance the relationship, ...Maybe the person is ill , try contacting the person
@MikeF-op4gs2 ай бұрын
Wouldn't even know what my nieces and nephews and their kids look like if I passed them on the street!! It's sad but the truth, COVID didn't help with not seeing people either!! This is depressing!!
@bud5084Ай бұрын
If they don't call for a long time means they haven't needed to get something out of you. They call when they want you to do something for them.
@oppa-e1l2 ай бұрын
I dont need people full stop. I have quite a few ex-friends i totally ignore and can live without very easily.
@mandysampieri57202 ай бұрын
Yes i learnt that the hard way.
@hafeesa3 ай бұрын
Deepest Gratitude ❤
@jeffswafford6017Ай бұрын
the big hurt, changes you, its time for self reflection. stand alone be wise, never give up, love yourself do right, love others, just know love hurts
@Christina-yw7go3 ай бұрын
It means nothing because one can't change anyone.
@mohaukobeli4883 ай бұрын
Beautiful words of wisdom. Thank you 🙌🙌
@SS-pk6tf2 ай бұрын
They can do without u or they struggle with their parents insecurities finances doubts yes without knowing a person. My very own experience. I know who I am in life and live live as it comes. My own peace and happiness comes 1st. I don't go near negativity..in family is what I can't avoid. Sure enough my success shut their mouth
@girishmulye3 ай бұрын
I would rather say leave it to GOD.
@antarasinha86393 ай бұрын
Surrender
@FRUITFUL-K53 ай бұрын
I AM FILING IN THE MORNING I BEEN IN A DARK SPACE THREE MONTHS IM DONE I NO LONGER WANT HIM OR THE MARRIAGE MY KIDS ALL I NEED WAT I CREATED💔🙏🏾💔🙏🏾💔
@adriand28953 ай бұрын
Amazing!
@aparnamore78373 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@anneliesevandenbroeck81323 ай бұрын
It is all true, but not evident to live like this.
@namehcvl48843 ай бұрын
Thank you for this ❤
@CynthiaGreen-mz6jkАй бұрын
Thank u for words of wisdom❤❤❤
@Openguy233 ай бұрын
The stupid thing is they listen to the wrong people, Can’t make their own mind up.
@patriciastevenson1079Ай бұрын
Yes.
@LB-ty6ks3 ай бұрын
Very good.
@ashajagavkar57473 ай бұрын
Amazing 🕊️
@JC-4A53Ай бұрын
Can’t trip about those who don’t care about you.
@debbiecritcher84362 ай бұрын
It could mean they are dead .
@milagroslim44172 ай бұрын
Protect my life from danger amen
@Phukayew3 ай бұрын
Is it wrong of me to want my grandfather to call me just to say hi, instead of needing me to do something for him right when he calls. I haven’t called him in a month just to see if he’ll call me,and he hasn’t. Hes ok I’ve seen him driving around. It’s been weighing on my mind am I just useful for chores and that’s it?
@LeonardBreau2 ай бұрын
People seem to forget that communication is a 2 way street. If a person is upset that someone hasn’t called/texted them, why haven’t they called/texted that person?
@Vietnam_Era_Veteran2 ай бұрын
Then the question is....who makes the first move? Who reaches out to the other person first? And, what if you find yourself being the person that usually or always makes the first move (reaches out)?
@LeonardBreau2 ай бұрын
@ Does it matter who makes the first move? First, listen to how enthusiastic they are when you call, if it’s somewhat cool then you might have a good idea of the relationship.
@taroman71003 ай бұрын
Oh, great this is real uplifting.
@sojourner8422 ай бұрын
Al Anon teaches you can love someone dearly and still live a life yourself that isn't dependent on everything the other person is doing. Sometimes less clinging and just finding your own personal stability becomes healing for both of you. I think the others are correct when they say "work on your own independent person" and see where it goes. It does produce maturity if nothing else. Truly wishing you the best😊
@kuchpopartАй бұрын
Great wisdom! Words to live by!❤
@KurumiNakamoto-ge8xc3 ай бұрын
Yes, we need to talk so that no doubt, to know and analyze.before you jump into conclusion.clarity arise.im sure you understand me.Tell a mediator to talk so that we can manage.ok needed to talk because to release' the things to settle.
@dreamwalker37073 ай бұрын
Sometimes it is because they died.
@walid49793 ай бұрын
Thanks brother
@lyndafjellman33153 ай бұрын
If they don't call you for a long time, they might be depressed and really need you to reach out.
@Skinnybearr75432 ай бұрын
Dont bullshit brother. To those who are reading this LET ME AFFIRM THE CALL NEVER COMES. MOVE ON BUDS
@dealsmartJoeK2 ай бұрын
Better check them out just in case ...so that they never say you never tried
@charlesedwards4160Ай бұрын
BS
@PEARL712scott3 ай бұрын
I have many friends I do not hear ffrom months at a time.I also know so many people I can not stay in touvh with everyone.many people I know travel. It would be a huge job to stay in touch with everyone all the time
@parishadnz.60482 ай бұрын
..here is talking about whom you are supposed to hear form.
@mandysampieri57202 ай бұрын
Yes it happened to me.But there wont be a next time.
@herbvoigt9002Ай бұрын
Love every quote of this vidio
@ooilanchang2195Ай бұрын
Tq for yours kind lessons.
@nosterpierre73532 ай бұрын
Stop here if someone doesn’t call or text long time I’m ok with it instead these who keep calling me nonsense,nonstop