WHEN ARROGANT ENTITLED CUSTOMERS GO TOO FAR!

[@catherinegatny1719]

I work inside a Costco and one customer was verbally obnoxious that a manager got their card number, pulled their membership and kicked them out . I was so happy that they were sticking up for their employees

[@sharongodwin1477]

I'm certain that most people won't agree with me, but I have seen a huge attitude change in people since social media came about. Without being seen or known, a lot of people feel free to say whatever to whomever with no repercussions and they become very insensitive. I've also experienced verbal abuse in years prior to social media. So, my heart is with you and I hope you'll feel stronger when this happens again. And in retail, it WILL happen again!

[@dolphinwatcher415]

We've hit a new low in society, when people are filming and just watching instead of stepping up. I am sorry you were treated so cruelly. 💕

[@gko818]

I'm a pharmacy tech, and I have been for the last 19 years. I've been dealing with nasty people since the 1st day, HOWEVER, the last 2 years I have watched people come literally unwound with horrible behavior. It's been crazy to watch, and awful to witness. I will not tolerate filthy names, filthy swearing, or personal attacks. I feel what your saying down to my bones, thank you for standing up and speaking up. I too am a Christian, it's hard sometimes to practice that when your being attacked, your a spitfire and trying to keep your cool! 😆 Good work!!!

[@tidestacker4674]

Old people get off their medication is a problem of it self!

[@myboringpowerpoints7782]

You did the right thing by kicking them out. People who act like that deserve whatever they get.

[@FlaGrown1955]

Society has changed so much in the last few years. Sorry to hear you had to go thru this. I owned a business I have thrown people out for swearing to my employees.

[@bookmagicroe9553]

My daughter worked the front desk of a high end hotel. An unfortunate number of wealthy, rich people treat the hotel front desk people and other staff like you describe. The people reserved a room and then demanded to be put in a penthouse room, but it was not available. They wanted my daughter to kick the people out of the room so their family could be in there. All the verbal abuse you describe was yelled at her. Her manager stepped forward and told the couple to leave. They couldn't believe it. He marched them right out the front door. My daughter was so thrilled that her manager stepped up to protect her and appreciate her dignity as a worker in his hotel she started to cry and had to take a break. She would have worked forever for that man.

[@dsmallsmile]

Sometimes people's behavior can be so shocking that it can catch you off-guard

[@emilywilson7308]

I always think of the perfect response hours later!😂

[@mal4349]

I feel like some people are so unhappy with themselves that they have to try and bring others down to their level. Very sad

[@EmilyBachmeier]

So glad I work for a company who allows us to disconnect calls with rude people. Nobody should have to be talked to like that! 💜

[@Indigo36734]

Anyone that has ever worked in customer service can totally relate to this. I worked in retail jobs all through my college days and it was a complete nightmare. I then went on to being a social worker for 30 years and if course, I occasionally had clients who weren't very nice BUT none of them came close to hurling the type of insults I received in retail

[@222ouch]

aww this had me tearing up. I'm glad God came through and restored your faith in people after that nasty incident. I have been in the same shoes with nasty customers. Luckily another customer stuck up for me.

[@edefyinggravity]

I had a moment like that with a jackass at church, and I lost it. When I saw my Bishop after it, I thought, "Here we go." He just smiled and said, "When someone asks what would Jesus do, remind them that flipping tables and chasing people with whips is an option. 😉"

[@ailishniriain787]

Agreed. It's good to remember that when somebody points the finger and says "call yourself a Christian!" They definitely wouldn't like Jesus. ;)

[@rosemarie6545]

I love your profession of faith, no one is perfect, and you tried to handle the situation the best you could. It’s a shame no one took up for you, I imagine the onlookers were afraid. It would’ve been appropriate for the other employee waiting on customers to have called for a manager. “Code 56 on aisle 9” for example, could alert a manager to immediately come to the area. I think there should be some measure of protection for employees when dealing with the public.

[@Memerewendy]

Retail sucks. I'm not surprised at all how you got treated. My husband goes through this every single day. He's a produce manager. He can't get another job close by. The terrible treatment he gets abused with every day has taken its toll on our family. The struggle is real. So sorry you went through this. You handled right girl. Sometimes ya need to go off on ignorant people. We totally get what you are going through

[@Memerewendy]

forgot to say my husband is on three psych meds from the abuse he gets from customers every day

[@viewpoint7404]

I work in a call center that records all our calls. We take so much verbal abuse constantly in the name of empathy, keeping customers, customer is always right and so on. We cannot hang up on them, cannot argue with them. I get so sad thinking how lost these people are that treat other human beings so poorly.

[@Treva2000]

The best thing that ever happened to me was getting older, retiring, and not having to deal with the public anymore. Somethimes I would come home so upset that I would be angry for days. It still bothers me to think of some of the things that happened.

[@jaygee2611]

Good for you for standing up for yourself! No one has the right to verbally abuse a person.

[@123canadagirl]

I wish those other customers would have said something to the toxic people. That’s totally unacceptable behavior.

[@ailishniriain787]

Here in the UK so many businesses have signs up about Zero Tolerance if people come in and abuse staff. There's usually security and the police will be called in.

[@pattiholder8961]

I used to work part time at a large discount store and had to deal with rude customers on a regular basis. I was giving the door greeter a break once and this lady just kept cussing at me because the door alarm had gone off and I had to do a quick cart check. I had to take the broom out of the cart to get to the bags. I was polite the entire time. I deactivated the anti theft device then as I went to hand this lady her broom, I just had to ask her “Do you want to carry this or do you want to ride it out?” She stood there and gaped at me and her husband, who had never once said anything during her entire tirade, told her “well, you asked for that one”. Something tells me he had been a victim of her tongue lashings also.

[@Reenie581]

Love your sense of humor with that line. So apropos to the situation, too!

[@tidestacker4674]

Well he married her, he needs to grow some balls

[@dianaludwik2777]

I work in a nursery too and deal with rude and arrogant customers daily. But never anyone this bad! I would have radioed for the owner to come over or to call the cops. Letting them get away with this behavior only encourages them to keep doing it. I'm sorry this happened to you.

[@laura-id5nd]

You did the right thing. As a retired R.N. I had to take abuse from irate upset family of patients for years. I think now I would handle it differently! You are a protector. You stand up for the down trodden. You reacted as an attacked person would. You did good! God answered your prayer! HE heard you!

[@tammybrown7797]

God Bless you and bring you to a place of peace about this event. I'm a mental health nurse and I meet those people every day. It's hard to deal with, but you are an amazing person and I'm glad you were able to use your Faith to handle it.

[@autumn6010]

As a waitress in the food industry I feel you. People can be truly horrible sometimes. “The customer is always right” does not apply to some of these situations

[@arvieearp7498]

Been there, done that! Dealt with the public many years and although most people are civil I think in some cases there are a few idiots that are just pressing your buttons to try and get some words out of you so they have you look like the bad guy and get you in trouble. Unbelievable the things some people will get so upset about! The sad thing is management usually only hears about that one freak and never hears about the hundreds of satisfied and happy customers you dealt with.

[@feathers34]

I might have said to them, " hold on just a sec"....went over to the phone, dialed 911 , and right in front of them, called the police to request an officer to remove 2 abusive customers from the store. See what they do with that one.

[@amylamb2768]

That's what I would have done also.

[@crowma]

I can't believe that others stood by and did nothing...

[@itllbesuzanarchy]

"People are getting meaner and dumber." 😂 Truer words were never spoken! It's never fun to be on the receiving end of that type of ire. I'm sorry it happened to you.

[@lynnwilliams1480]

Your story reminded me of the last time I went off on someone in public. I was at the grocery store. I get in line and notice the person at the check out was a Dr who used to work in the lab I used to work at. He had a bad reputation, I’ll leave it at that. So the cashier who had a tag that said “TRAINEE” on it must have been all of 16 years old. You could tell he was nervous. You could feel it in the air (or at least I could) so the Doctor goes to pay his bill of 14.38$ and hands the kid a 20$. Kid punches it in and the register tells him the amount of change. The Doctor then says “no no give me back my 20 and take this, and hands him a 50. So the kid takes it and a second later the Dr says “NO I need more small bills take this” and hands him a 100. At this point the poor kid on his first day on the register is flustered and trying to figure out in his head how much change he owes this A-hole Dr I used to work with. As the kid is counting The Doctor says “what’s the deal? Don’t you know how to count? Don’t you know simple math?” And I don’t remember what else. At this point the kid is about to cry. As it’s my turn the kid apologizes to me for the wait. Meanwhile the Dr is gathering his bags. I say loudly “NO PROBLEM! Im sorry you had to deal with a rude, stupid, fat fuc* like that!” The Dr of course heard me and just stopped and stared at me and I glared back. He waddled out of there as fast as he could. The guy behind me tapped me on the shoulder and said “good for you” the cashier said “thank you” I don’t suffer fools and my parents raised us to be polite. I don’t have to take that from anyone ever.

[@suecurwin9835]

So sorry you had to go through that!! We are so close to Jesus' return, and it's definitely showing! And I'm so happy to hear you are a sister in Christ ❤️ !!

[@tammyking9577]

Yeah, those people didn't need 3 gallon maples, they needed an anger management class. I'm a Christian too, accepted Christ when I was 19, but though I've been saved for over 40 years, I doubt I'd have kept my cool as LONG as You did. I really appreciate this video, and your personal testimony, and I think I'd like to reflect more on your comment about how Jesus can hear you. Girl, that's a powerful statement! Thank you. I always enjoy these videos.

[@jeanstrait2904]

You are an amazing young lady, so sorry you were verbally abused. Sure you handled the situation better than most. You were in a very difficult situation. Take care of yourself and be kind to yourself. People like that don't deserve any more of your time or worry. They both sound pathetic. Be happy and enjoy every moment, life is short.

[@margysvideo9183]

I just now saw this video.......I am so glad I saw this, too. I am so grateful for this dear lady known as Prepper Princess

[@claudiacoracini9460]

It's hard. I work in a hospital where we are abused on a regular basis and it's mostly because of frustration and stress from the other side; people just can't handle the problems and their burden. Some people are also evil. So when we get into this kind of situation we're told to excuse ourselves and leave. "I'm sorry you think so , I see I cannot help you right now, so let me find someone who can and take yourself out of the situation.

[@robinsteyer6986]

Praise God, I am so glad to hear how God came through for you. Sometimes even as Christians we fail by being human..You stood up👏and you recognized it and its shows you are Real, girl. yes reflection helps and because you shared, we are encouraged to repent and move on. None of us are perfect and thats why we have a savior. I am so blessed to find this channel as it encourages me alot!😊Press on PP❤️

[@susans9491]

I work at a ski resort. Well, actually it’s a year round resort with golfing, soccer, disc golf, an indoor water park and an Olympic ice arena. We draw in people from all over the world and from all walks of life, all professions, socio-economic groups and ethnicities. Until Covid I worked year round, now I’m just there during the winter. In my ALMOST ten years there I have been regularly insulted, and I have no idea why. I’ve been questioned about reading Steven Hawking (“but you’re a cashier”!) (I do have two degrees), I was asked how I got my watch (a Rolex my parents gave me), how can I survive on a low paying job like that (we own five houses and two commercial buildings outright and enjoy rental income & my husband is an engineer), and I was yelled at because a guest got a scratch on their car in the parking lot…when I sympathized I was told that if I had a decent car I’d be better able to understand their frustration (I drive a Range Rover). We have worked for everything we have, our bills are paid, we don’t carry consumer debt, we do volunteer work, and I thank God every day for the blessings we have. There really is something wrong with certain folks, the way they seem to go through the world looking to pick a fight with anyone within range. I work because I choose to, and frankly I’ve always worked and don’t know how not to - I suspect you are the same way. My best advice came from my dear Grandma, she told be to be nice to awful people because they need it the most, and to pity them because they’re so miserable that they try to make everyone else feel bad.

[@sheilakeeler2178]

Your Grandmother was very wise.

[@susans9491]

@@sheilakeeler2178 she certainly was, and I was so blessed to have her! I miss her every day.

[@deborahkilmer9271]

I have been in your situation, and it sucks. Try to advocate for yourself and your co-workers by asking management to put a system in place to make sure that management becomes involved whenever this happens. We have the "orange" code. All an employee have to do is use a headset and say the word, "Orange" and the location, and the manager on duty will come immediately. When the manager arrives, the affected employee walks away out of sight and the situation is handled. We have had to involve the police a few times, but the word is out and the incidents are becoming less frequent. Bless you and don't beat yourself up for not being enough. God knows you, and he also has your back when it gets too hard.

[@nancypparsons2818]

Love this - great system

[@brittanyb5942]

I've been working in customer service since I was 17 yrs old and quite frankly I'm over it! People are so rude! I have dealt with snobby "society" people too. They tend to be the worse!!

[@gymrat_raquel]

I would be ashamed of myself to say that to someone over a damn tree! I give respect when it's given to me PERIOD!

[@tinaturull3793]

Pepper Princess, I feel your pain. I am 64 and work at the 99 cents store. 98% of the people are so nice and understand. But, the other ones are so mean and call me names and sometimes I cannot keep my mouth shut. I am also, a Christian but we are only human. When people call you names lie C**t and Idiot and stupid I sometimes have to stand up for my self. I Love you Prepper Princess and you do deserve the respect like any human being. People are so mean and in my mind I just try to tell myself they are miserable so they treat other people like crap so they can feel better for themselves. I have no money, all my 401K went to find my son help for his Schophrenia. I lost my good job in Aerospace of 37 years and now to make ends meet I work retail. People are so mean and cruel. Love you and Rock pants.

[@kristyb5821]

We had an entitled customer last month that called one of our CSR’s a racial slur because she wasn’t getting her way. I had the CSR transfer her to me. I closed her account immediately and told her that we were very happy to fire her as a customer and her abusive behavior would not be tolerated. Hope she enjoys no Internet, cable and landline as we are the only provider that services her area for her business.

[@mpatrick8673]

Been there, in total despair of how society is now. Even driving, complete lack of respect for other people. Glad God sent you amazing customers after the horrible ones. I'm the same way when I'm frustrated and upset, red ears and rain in the eyes. We are here for you.

[@stacyhughart9363]

Yes girl! Same I can't sit by and watch someone abuse someone. I don't understand most people!

[@barbaratolker4366]

Thanks for opening up. I was in line at a dollar store. A man was angry at the cashier over $1.25. cussing him out, etc. I was intimidated; fearing repercussions. Now I wish I had said something. God bless.

[@waterspirit2254]

Beware of people picking fights for no reason. It could be a distraction tactic to draw attention away from another person shoplifting.

[@caitlinmichelehill4590]

I like this vulnerability from you. It's good to see you opening up. There's been some times where I didn't stick up for my coworkers and that still makes me feel guilty months later. I wish I would have been brave enough to put my foot down and say I won't them be treated this way. My Dad actually quit his job because the boss yelled at a 18 year old female employee and made her cry. My Dad said he wasn't going to work for someone that behaves that way.

[@user-cq1en7td4h]

I’m on your side. I have always worked in retail. You do not have to endure verbal abuse in the workplace, period. Those customers should be banned by the managers.

[@whereswendy8544]

Abuse like that is truly traumatic on a person's psyche. It could get worse in the future if it is not confronted. These are the tests sent to each one of us. Goodness will prevail.

[@endoranaiad8252]

I was an ER nurse for 13 years and I recognize when ill/sick people are not always on their best behavior. Needless to say I've got some thick skin and know when to hold my tongue but if shrills like these approached me as they did you, they deserve exactly what was given them. You did good girl, you did good.

[@lesliewallace886]

WOW! I needed to hear this - I was spiritually attacked by a customer last week - I have had a hard time getting over it -I have been watching you for a year and you are keeping me on financial track - thank you for now keeping me emotionally track! God loves us all.

[@mmc9828]

I live in AZ and was in Fry's grocery store in line. The older couple in front of me lost their shit when their bill rang up more than they thought it should have been The cashier apologized and called a manager to help. While waiting for the manager to show up they both start yelling at the cashier and cursing. The cashier starts crying and I'd had enough. I told them both to knock it off and that she was trying to help resolve the situation and belittling her wasn't helping. They turned on me and the woman says I KNEW WHEN I FIRST LAID EYES ON YOU THAT YOU WERE A CAREER WOMAN! LOL, um...thank you? Then she goes on this tangent about how the world would be a better place if women stayed home and took care of their men. At that point, all you could do was laugh at how ridiculous they were being which just made them even madder. After the psycho couple left both the manager and the cashier thanked me for standing up for her. People are just losing their minds and I can't figure out why. This world is getting to be a very dark place.

[@tidestacker4674]

The wicked prosper when the righteous are quiet! Biblical !

[@deekorbel5259]

I'm sorry you had to go through that. There were a lot of jerks before the pandemic. Two years plus in and now some folks seem to have become feral.

[@phototristan]

If that was me, I would have told them over and over - 'Please repeat that, I couldn't hear you. Please repeat it louder, I still can't hear you, louder please.' As if you do not hear insults and they just bounce right off you. This tends to work really well so the harasser will make a more a fool out of themselves.

[@suzettefaircloth5037]

I'm a cashier at a fast food chicken restaurant. People poop on me daily and think that because they make more money than I do , that it's ok to treat me like garbage. I understand your feelings

[@annazudis9850]

I remember when I was working at clothing store. I had a few of them. One that really irked me was after supe came they kept berating me to my supervisor and others hearing. I finally stopped doing what I was doing and told my supervisor she could finish with the customer. I looked at customer said I refused to be treated like this and hurriedly walked away before the tears came. Then later the customers that heard would be teasing about it making it worse

[@pistolannie0714]

All this happened at a NUSERY? I can’t imagine what was so life or death important? a TREE?? Omg 🤦

[@cevgunnerF]

No one should be subjected to that! Bravo!

[@paulaglogowski6544]

You are an amazing woman that has continued to pour into all of us on a regular basis. I worked in a grocery store and was verbally abused and saw my coworkers get abused. I always stood up for them or myself. I too am a Christian. God’s word tells us to stand up for those who can’t stand up for themselves. We don’t always do it exactly like Christ would but you are human and real living, emotional beings. I’m proud of you! I thank Him for showing you the kind couple that put a bright spot in your day. I pray that you never see that evil messed up couple again

[@Rita-hz2iu]

Yes, there are still good people out there and you needed to be reminded that you are a amazing employee. We all know you have a good heart. Thank you for sharing.

[@JubeeBijou]

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I understand. My son works in food service as he gets through college and let me tell you - he has been horribly verbally assaulted, threatened with physical violence, had smoke blown in his face (he has asthma). Some people out there are just awful to other people. I'd rather dig ditches or work in a room alone with my assignment than to work with the public. I've done it before and it's an emotional roller coaster: one customer is sweet, the next is a devil - up and down, up and down. Remember, we as believers are still falliable. We are going to mess up but HE is faithful to forgive us. Remember that. We all learn from reflection. Let it make you stronger :)

[@patdrouillard4660]

Amber I would have done the exact same thing as you did. No one deserves to be treated like that ever. Karma Never forgets bad behavior. Love your channel.

[@vintagemoss9578]

Employers no longer have the privilege of allowing the toxic rule “the customer is always right” as people are quitting for less. Customers are abusive and manipulative. Of course not all, however in the last 5 years more and more are developing this “ the world owes me living” attitude and I refuse to deal with it and I believe more and more aren’t either. I just want you to know that if I was there as a customer, that I would have stood up for you. Hugs and we’ll wishes from 🇨🇦

[@amylamb2768]

(Writing this after binge-watching your videos all day and taking notes of all the things I learn....) I am so grateful for you, sister. Every one of your videos tugs at my heartstrings in one way or another. If we were kids again, I swear you'd be my best friend, because we have the same sense of humor. Thanks for making me laugh, thanks for teaching me about money. Because of you, I am finally - at almost 50 - getting my act together with money. I didn't mean to not handle money well, but I had poor examples for money-handling my whole life, plus I had a hard life, plus I wasn't smart enough to figure out all the things that you figured out and share with all of us. Thank you for withstanding all the trolls and bad people to bring your message to people like me. Because of you, I know what to do and how to live now, and I have a chance to make things right in the end. I am excited because I can finally see the way out, I have a plan, and I have my spray bottle of a little Dawn and water. Bless you. I am keeping you in my prayers. And if I had been at the store that day, I totally would have intervened and stood up for you. From your friend in Wisconsin. (Also: I am so excited to become a prepper princess, too! I can do it!)

[@PrepperPrincess]

What a great comment. You really brightened my day. Thank you so much

[@kzf8978]

I'm deeply touched by your testimony. Thank you for sharing.

[@PricillaMac1]

Thank you for being this honest 🙂 God bless you today, tomorrow and forever. He is good.

[@circlefruit]

I'm horrified to hear that they actually treated you like that in person. You definitely didn't deserve that at all and I don't blame you for doing what you did. But I'm glad your story ended on a positive note. Thank you for sharing your knowledge through yt, it's helped me turn my life around. Don't let the bad people get you down.

[@leahgary1107]

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[@elviachauvin7291]

Wonderful testimony.. Brought tears

[@TexasGirl1633]

WOW…..people have just gotten crazy! I am retired and had to put up with a lot of crap, but never put up with it now. I have always jumped in when I see someone abusing someone physically or verbally. People suck!!!! So sorry you had to go through this, especially when you don’t have to work with or around these assholes.

[@Cheyenne2021]

Yes yes yes ! Thank you for your story. I also have had some disturbing moments at work with people. God is amazing, loving, and here for his own people. Thank you so much for that encouraging story ❤

[@luloops]

I work at Costco and it used to be where I encountered people like this rarely. It now seems as though it is almost a weekly thing. Working retail is not for the faint of heart. It is a spiritual attack.

[@carrieanorman]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORDS...... AND THE REMINDER OF GOODNESS 🤗🤗

[@erikaletty]

I worked at Walmart for several years and experienced verbal abuse from customers often. I was called an idiot one time because we were out of a certain computer and the customer insisted we had them there . She called on the phone mind you so she had no way of knowing what we had in stock and this was before websites. I was also accused of being racists because according to the customer I helped a white person before her , I’m biracial I know how it feels to be discriminated against I would never do that. Sorry this happened to you but like you said that other couple made up for it and gods watching over you girl . ❤️ also I’m a firm believer in karma.

[@graham108]

I'm so happy you stood up for yourself, at times this is a shitty world...thanks for sharing, sending love from Scotland...💙🙏💙

[@pamelabbartol978]

Im sorry you went through that. Some people get a sadistic "charge" out of bullying others. I have learned when it comes to bullies, for them it's really about power. They like to push people around. I just got through a long episode with a couple people like that, and all I can do is go over the verses, "Pray for those who despitefully use you, bless those who curse you." It's like shifting gears in reverse. It's really uncomfortable at first but it gets better . Again, so sorry you went through that.

[@kenneth7610]

Hug. Rocky(especially Rocky) or myself would not stand by while evil tries to prevail. We would stand up for you if we witnessed this.

[@onesilike9838]

I am a business owner. No one talks to my employees that way. Over the last twenty years, I have asked about 5 customers to leave the store and not return because of their abhorrent behaviour towards my staff. They will not be served if they return.

[@mxbadboy263]

You are a rare business owner. Thank you for not letting your employee's be abused.

[@dianedeck]

I feel ya Prepper Princess. I work in healthcare and have been dealing with a patients family members who are being very snobby and had them looking down their nose at me every visit I made to help their mother. It was so unreal to think that a person would be hateful to a person taking care of their mother. My job entails home visits and teaching them to be more independent so they can stay home not go to a nursing home and I made recommendations for increased independence. Such as grab bars in the shower, and other things. The daughter in law got so hateful telling me no they did not want anything like that and it was not to be brought up again. There was more to it but that was a piece of it. So bizarre at my age to be talked to like I'm a child. I'm 51. Believe me it took a lot of will power to bite my tongue.

[@jhm7554]

Sorry that happened to you. Nobody seem to care anymore or are to scared to get abused themselves. It’s soooo sad what the world is becoming. Zero patience, rude, sinister… God help us all.

[@debraolson5063]

I am sorry that you went through this. Stay strong, You are a child of God and you are valuable ❤️ 🙏

[@Sassylarita]

You don’t know how much I needed to hear this. I’ve cried all day due to flashbacks from the emotional abuse I suffered at the hands of my ex-husband when he started cheating on me after 22 years of marriage. He slandered me to the people we went to church with and they took his side. So many times the Lord has shown his love for me during all of this. I know one day He will vindicate me and they will know the truth, but sometimes it just gets to me. I’m so happy that couple called and complimented you!

[@misskat3218]

I work with people too, always have. I've seen a sharp decline in behavior over the past year or so. Everyone is on edge and ready to pounce over nothing. I've noticed the rise in gas prices and food have brought everyone to the edge. I'm so sorry that happened to you PP. You are amazing and kind. Don't let this incident ruin your day

[@michellewanner3921]

Behavior ignored is behavior accepted. Speak up for your fellow humans people!

[@PeaceDayCortez]

I love that the managers said they get paid to be talked to that way, yet none of them were available when you needed help. 🤔🙄

[@TheNasu7777]

I feel so bad. You held up good. I used to work with the public. They are terrible. They do this because they are miserable people. Nasty. I could go on for ever. Mean people. They are jealous people.

[@christinahenry9569]

I am so glad that you were able to see and feel how much God had your back. I thank you for your videos, I try to watch them all, I just wish they showed up like they are supposed to. I never get notices of your new posts. I have to hunt for them. God bless you.

[@gaylesankey402]

People have no right to treat others like this. Good for you for standing up to them. I just don’t understand how people can be so terrible.

[@ohwhatelse]

DISRESPECT for others is always evident in the use of filthy language. it is NOT acceptable! the best thing to do is to come out the good guy in your own mind & to those around--- just bcz that's what BEING RESPECTFUL does for YOU! NOT returning the filthy language! we can't control, nor are we responsible for the behaviour OR character of others but, we ARE responsible for our OWN! if we care about ourselves we are blessed if WE do the right thing. (age 78.)

[@kellywerner5976]

I worked in a Medical clinic for over 27 years. The Doctor's always stood up for us to Corporate. We had a tight knit group that stayed together until they retired because of this. It is so important to have each other's back and stand against evil. You were violated and it was wrong. You took it for way too long before you lost it. I am sure if someone had your back none of that would have happened. Thank goodness it did. You were picked to be the messenger. People love you and listen to you. Just think how many souls you touched today because of your experience. You have made a huge difference today by your teachable episode. Nothing is random. It was your day and you succeeded. We love you Prepper Princess. We all have your back and we will pass on your wisdom.

[@johnwright4456]

I defended a woman who was assaulted at work by a man. It wasn’t his first. I went to the police station and they took pictures. Management was embarrassed and threatened me to drop the case. I didn’t, they got someone to claim they saw me tap the perpetrator with a trash can. I did not. I was forced into retirement after 33 years. Bad people often prevail. My life has been so tough. I’m sorry this happened to you. You didn’t deserve it. Sometimes people push because of a personal agenda and set you up. We don’t live in a fair and just world. Best wishes for future successes.

[@karenemerson9486]

I’m a retired librarian. I was the manager of a small branch library that had mostly computers that the public could use. There was only two staff members in the library at any given time. The library was located near a homeless area. The homeless would come into the library and spend their days on the computers. Most of them suffered from mental illness or were on drugs. There were many times that they would yell at me and give me a bad time. I got no support from headquarters. They were just afraid of being sued. I learned to just keep my mouth shut. If it got really bad I would call the police. That was one thing that HQ would let me do. These people were not with the program. Nothing you said to them would make a difference. As I look back on it that was not a safe environment. I put up with it because I was just two years away from retirement. What I learned from this experience is that you can’t reason with mental ill people. Nothing you say to them will help.

[@karenemerson9486]

It’s sad. I have no training with dealing with the mental ill. I understand.

[@timm9271]

Prepper Princess your words today are exactly what I and so many needed to hear. I already had incredible respect and admiration for you. Today, few have your great wisdom and love. Thank you and God continue to bless you!

[@keyplayer5]

Thank you for sharing so openly your love of Christ and how He honors our prayers even in the midst of our failures. You blessed me tonight as a believer and have shown all of us how God brings good out of even the difficult situations. You my sister are truly blessed and so forgiven. 💕

[@TheVioletKat]

Made me feel warm and fuzzy when the nice couple called the store to compliment you. Like you said, there are lots of good people in the world. I worked in busy chain retail stores for 15 years...like you I have never once been rude to a customer unless they were being abusive toward me and I had to defend myself, but regardless of this I have had many customers be rude to me for no reason. When it comes to regular rudeness or customers who talked to me in a dismissive, irritated or condescending tone, I just let that slide because I know people sometimes are just having a bad day/month and the stress they are under sometimes just sort of comes out in an ugly way and they often do feel bad about it later even if they don't apologize...but in NO way is it okay for people to cross the line to where they are actually being abusive. Abusive customers need to be refused service and told to leave. And if they do not leave voluntarily, then security or police should be called to escort them off of the premises. Period. It isn't safe or civilized for customers like that to be able to spiral and escalate their behavior in a busy store. Kids as well as adult customers/staff should not have to hear someone yelling at you to suck their **** and above all, YOU should not feel like you should have to stand there and be victim to that. And yes, people (the witnesses) 100% should have stepped up and told those customers they can't talk to you like that...I think that a lot of people are unfortunately desensitized in a lot of ways to things like this so they don't always know immediately in their gut that they should do something about it when they see situations like this unfolding. They do know it's wrong, but it's like they are waiting for it to get even worse before it will trigger a response from them. That's how used to it we are nowadays when it comes to people treating others like crap. It isnt always good to have a thick skin even though it feels like a helpful coping mechanism. We shouldn't NEED to have a thick skin just to be able to do our jobs without having our mental health damaged by messed up situations that are tolerated. Sometimes it is better to maintain a certain level of sensitivity and awareness--otherwise horrific behavior is normalized and we don't even know when to help others or know where the line is when people cross it.

[@pamelam1500]

That “good couple” was definitely sent by God to show you that you are still very much loved in His eyes. ❤️ Hugs.

[@pamelam1500]

@@vince7735 agree!!! Had I mentioned the bad couple, I wouldn’t have been as kind as you. She did not deserve that.

[@patriciaweickert8412]

This is why there is a shortage of workers. People don't want to work for pennies to get abused by the public. I quit my job because I was sick of the harassment everyday. Management won't help either. The best way to cope is to feel sorry for them because they are so miserable. It's sad!

[@thomaskleven8314]

It's a sad state of affairs when your employer of over a year will fire you when you defend yourself from an abusive customer. They take the customers side even when they see you being abused. It's completely okay for them when it happens. Every employer is like this for some reason.

[@cindyasters]

So sorry you had to deal with this. I was once being stalked by an idiot who was saying horrible things. and I finally calmly to said to her. I'm praying for you and I never heard from her again.

[@samanthahardy9903]

This is the reason why I left retail in the U.K. I couldn't take the constant abuse from entitled customers every day. Managers were not helpful either and told me, "You need to learn to ignore it and grow a backbone." Basically the managers were telling me to just "Suckley it up!" During the pandemic it got worse and it took it's toll on my mental health. It was very demoralising! I don't have a very thick skin and thankfully I don't have to deal with these types of people anymore in my new job. Kudos to you for standing up for yourself.

[@pamelacupcakes4539]

OMG i am in Australia. I remember one time some junky came in didn't even say a word to me but started screaming for a manager. When my manager came down she asked the customer what was wrong. She started yelling at the manager saying how rude i was, How horrible i was to her, How i should be fired and how ugly both inside and outside. like she was so over the top that security had to come. I had no idea what the women was going on about she never came up to me never asked for help. I was shocked. I legit had tears down my face not because she called me names but because this women was trying to get fired. At this time i had 2 small kids to feed and put a roof over their head and i was a full time worker. (ps. never got fired 15 years later) But your right these days people just stand around and don't want to help if they see someone going off.

[@karenquina5458]

I cannot tell you how sorry I am that you were treated so disgustingly and disgracefully! With my birth name (which I’ve always loved) being, “Karen,” I’ve received a LOT of hate. I too am a strong Christian and do my best to just let it go. Dear Lord let us always forgive 70 times 7. 🍃🙏🏻🍃

[@ercokatty]

I understand the mean name-shaming. ☹️