"When did you know that you're gay?" || Alex & Tony || 13 Reasons Why 4x02

[@christalcavanaugh]

Ah yes Tony… the high schooler… the teenage boy… who looks 35 😂

[@kcwade2616]

Well in real life he is.

[@mysteriousaccountwahehe]

ik i wish they had someone els for his role…. no offense to the actor but he looks too old for the show lol

[@no_longer_]

@@mysteriousaccountwahehe yeah... But he's just fit so perfect for this role

[@vitorferreira6104]

He's so short it doesn't even matter.

[@Trying2study]

I thought all USA high-school students look old so Tony is normal as a high-school student compared to real life.

[@notwerkinginthishouse8634]

I am glad that they didn't make Tony asking Alex why he asks that

[@stephwiller9089]

I'm pretty sure Tony knew why he was asking and didn't want to make thing out of it.

[@shaungerald23]

@@stephwiller9089 He didn't know actually. Just finished watching the last couple seasons. When Tony walks in on Alex kissing his bf, he says "I should have seen this coming" lol

[@JmelBst]

​@@shaungerald23Charlie and Tony were a thing?

[@shaungerald23]

@@JmelBst Honestly at this point in time I don't even remember much of the show. lol

[@__Ari__AAA]

I think Tony then realized that Alex was questioning because I'm pretty sure as me myself being gay that generally when someone asks that they are questioning or are just curious

[@LilmeMusic]

I have a question So gays have natural feelings for other guys. So they were born that way. So does that means its impossible for a straight guy to become gay? Once straight always straight? Once gay always gay?

[@totallyoutofit6989]

@@LilmeMusic i think sometimes sexualities can shift but it won't outright change. Someone might stop identifying as straight and say they are gay because they realised they got it wrong. Some people might even stop identifying as a gay man, for example, and start identifying as a straight woman. But nobody can force themselves or anyone else to change their sexuality, and it won't be a sudden change over night if it does happen to shift I hope that helps!!

[@LilmeMusic]

@@totallyoutofit6989 Hold on, I'm not sure I believe the gay man identifying as a straight woman. The problem is which gender you are attracted to. Not your own gender in particular. Isin't it preety clear whether you are a man or woman? No confusion there I have a question though- If a guy is gay and does not have any sexual attraction towards women(100% certain), is it possible for that guy to develop sexual attraction towards women later? Also in the reverse, if a guy is straight and has no sexual attraction towards guys(100% certain) then is it possible for him to be gay later? That is, develop sexual feelings towards guys that he *never* had before?

[@khoapham8286]

@@LilmeMusic that's an interesting question. As a gay man myself, I have no feeling for women. I don't notice them no matter how beautiful they are, because I am not attracted to them. I've never wanted to be physically close to them, which makes me uncomfortable. And I believe I won't enjoy it either even if someone forces me to kiss them, for example. But I'm not sure if men who identify as straight would eventually develop feelings for other men if circumstances allow them to be intimate such as playing a dare where you have to kiss another dude. However, my hunch is that if a guy you're kissing is very handsome and attractive, the novelty of crossing the boundary combined with your curiosity can trigger something in you. I mean straight some men still do "gay" things right, like cross dressing to satisfy the fantasy of their women when in bed, so how can you be so sure that you won't turn side some day?

[@christalcavanaugh]

@@LilmeMusic growing up, I thought I was straight because I didn’t know there was anything else. Then I realized girls could like girls and that I like girls too. It’s not that my sexuality actually changed, I just grew to understand myself and the world better. Often times, people think they’re changing from straight to gay when really they’re just realizing that they’re always been pan/bi or really just like that one person who’s a guy when they otherwise like girls

[@kys.7654]

That scene was sooo adorable!

[@frz7553]

It was 🤮

[@Kat_Dmaorg]

@@frz7553 no ,i think it wasnt, is there a reason why you feel/think otherwise?

[@frz7553]

@@Kat_Dmaorg 🤮🤮

[@Kat_Dmaorg]

@@frz7553 why do you ont like the scene, bc it seems like you are homophobic or biphobic , when you dont give an explination, you know...

[@frz7553]

@@Kat_Dmaorg 🤮🤮

[@maggiegillis7543]

lmao tonys face when he asked how he knew he was gay im dead.

[@zeeeefineass1930]

“ well I always knew “ ❤️

[@nikdzuba1209]

Tony will always be my favorite character on this show

[@FandomOfMadness]

I'm so sorry I thought this was the guy that played in the good doctor😂😂😂 So sorry it's just with the hair and face shape.

[@raafat_reema]

Freddie highmore 😄 He's norman bates on bates motel

[@FandomOfMadness]

@@raafat_reema I know his name

[@raafat_reema]

@@FandomOfMadness ok

[@kellyhenry1045]

😂😂

[@bkace2198]

Plus the voice tone and quality. I thought the dance at first just listening to the scene

[@SYDAirlineEnthusiast]

Alex becomes gay in this season too along with zachary.

[@hannagyu]

zach isn’t gay. Alex kissed him and Zach said he didn’t mind it and it didn’t bother him but he said he’ll always like girls

[@SYDAirlineEnthusiast]

@@hannagyu obviously, he must be gay as no straight person wouldnt mind it. Either way, Alex suddenly turned gay in this season, which is weird.

[@beyblade332]

I think Alex is bisexual and zach is bisexual not completely gay

[@SYDAirlineEnthusiast]

@@beyblade332 bisexual still means you are gay. It is just different from homosexual as you have a crush on both males and females while homosexual just means on the same gender. Gay means you have a crush on the same gender, and bisexual is gay cause you still have a crush on the same gender.

[@beyblade332]

@NYCAirlineEnthusaist yeah I know that it still means you gay it's just some people who are bisexual prefer a certain gender more than the other but I know that and I understand what you mean

[@trinityholley9100]

I’m on season two and the second Polaroid that’s the episode what season is this I really wanna know

[@bigbrainalien3403]

Can you read a video title? - 4x02, season 4 episode 2

[@blueberryxbugaboo6902]

Literally says it in the title of the video

[@sunnyvlog9082]

Plz tell me full episode

[@staatsmongool]

Season 4 Episode 2

[@bernsoprettyy2217]

Hiiii

[@edielaufeyson1106]

Why are you on every video saying hi

[@bernsoprettyy2217]

@@edielaufeyson1106 cus why not??

[@azl2377]

hello

[@t3rrance]

@@edielaufeyson1106 cause he can why do u give a fuck??

[@FlashEarth89]

Remember now this season sucks because they made the actor break character by coming out as gay. Alex is supposed to be straight. Everything that happened in Season 4 is impossible. They even let Alex get away with murder. They're not the good guys like they say they are and Clay belongs in an asylum. Worst police in any shows because they bought Ani's bs story and she's an immigrant. Lol

[@katehedrick1627]

I disagree. After Alex’s injury, in season 2, he couldn’t feel anything for girls. So if he wasn’t supposed to be gay, they decided the character should be way before season 4. Remember that 1 time in season 2 that Zach pushed him against the lockers and he got a boner? Definitely wasn’t meant to be straight up until season 4

[@FlashEarth89]

@@katehedrick1627 Like I said, BS. Season 4 is a complete waste and it disappointed me and other fans. Doesn't matter because Season 1 and 2 will always count. LG B T Q did that. They made Alex break character for them pervs out there. It's just not right. Trust me on this.

[@jjandblue9072]

@@FlashEarth89 Its ok to come out of the close instead spewing hateful homophobic bullshit online we accept you

[@FlashEarth89]

@@jjandblue9072 There you go again. People like you are the reason why this show sucks and so does many new TV shows from today. You're a dirty fan.

[@kasenbrown5481]

you do realize a person can be bisexual??? he genuinely did love Jessica and he loves charlie, the only reason he specified gay here is because Tony is gay and he's really confused. sorry you are a homophobic asshole.