When Does A Man Stop Cheating?

[@jameelahsalahuddin226]

A chronic cheater will only stop cheating when he gets sick, is too old, no longer can perform well or the money ran out.

[@babydii3487]

💯💯💯 and still be out there tryna find something to lick

[@reshanamarie]

@@babydii3487💀💯

[@FreeBirdee]

The safest relationship to be in is with yourself.

[@LethalWeapon73]

I agree and what I plan to do is take myself out on dates.

[@doraleslie8518]

I totally agree with you. Who has time for hidden agendas & games. Continue loving yourself, dating yourself & putting yourself first!!!❤❤❤

[@tlc6756]

But safe isn't always rewarding. I'd rather find my soulmate and grow with him with God in our lives. I'm tired of being alone. There's no such thing as "safe" in this world anyway. I could say I don't ever want to travel in a car because I could get into a car accident, but I enjoy going places and my freedom to drive. Yes, maybe there's more of a chance of a husband cheating than us getting into a car accident, but with God all things are possible.

[@FreeBirdee]

@@tlc6756 You know what is rewarding? Having the freedom and autonomy to choose your life path without limitations. Loving and relating with people without attaching and/or being codependent on them to keep you company. Waking up every morning realizing that you are love and that no one can love you more than you can love yourself. Good luck on your search for a soul mate…you’re going to need it!!

[@tlc6756]

@@FreeBirdee haha...well I think if you truly loved yourself like you say, you wouldn't have a need to make demeaning insults. This may be why you are bitter towards relationships. Yes, I agree, it's great to be single because there's no one to answer to and there's alot of freedom. But there can be a price to pay if we truly want to be married. Being married doesn't make the relationship codependent. With a spouse, each one can end of having freedom in other ways if each one is giving in healthy ways in the relationship. Perhaps you haven't come to a place of depth or insight yet about relationships it sounds. I wish you the best.

[@peaceriver1793]

My father said, when a man no longer has options, he stops cheating.

[@joannaturyk9360]

It sounds like being faithful to a woman is a struggle for a man, even if he is in love. That's the difference between a man and woman. If a woman is happy in a relationship and in love she doesn't wants to or needs to go with another man. Correct me if im wrong.

[@angelaslaton3211]

I don't agree. My grand parents were married for over 60 years and we're always together. 150 percent didn't cheat. There are a lot of stories of faithful couples. Men need to stop watching pornography, and stay off the internet. No way would I ever listen to a cheating man talk to me about God. Or teach me.

[@realtalk1709]

Wrong…..once hypergamy hits you’ll sleep wit the gardener, paper boy and the milkman🤷‍♂️

[@BigDeejaypro]

@@angelaslaton3211 no way you could even possibly know that for a fact smh

[@angelaslaton3211]

@@BigDeejaypro "Thou shall not commit adultery" Not everyone breaks that commandment, they fear God too much.

[@angelaslaton3211]

@@BigDeejaypro also when a man commits adultery, he has to tell his wife about it because then she gets to make a decision whether she wants to continue to stay married or not. If he doesn't tell her, then he's withholding by lying Now he also has an evil demonic soul tie in his marriage as well. And being a continual liar as well The Bible says not to grieve the holy Spirit, So do you think it pastor who is doing these things is hearing from God? I assure you their not.

[@herpath2purpose]

I’m realizing Tony is too much truth for a lot of these people. But Lord give Him strength to stay in his purpose.

[@angelicsweetness444]

Right ‼️❤️‍🔥

[@ptalester]

Mr. Gaskin, I am a true believer. I believe God has a man especially for me. I don't want a man that has no discipline. I don't want all those women in me.

[@ptalester]

I don't like or trust your advice. May God continue to bless you anyway. I think you need prayer.

[@tracysanchez2139]

@@ptalester i think we all need prayer, no matter how well we’re doing in life. Be fr

[@soniaspicer2050]

There is some truth in wat he is saying but it's because men tend to lack in discipline when it comes to cheating because of their respect level towards women. They don't have a problem withholding when something is a deal breaker for them.

[@benithacalloway8286]

When I don’t have time to watch your content I still put a like on it because you’re genuine and trustworthy

[@beatsbymelody]

Same 🙏🏾

[@Itsjustanna16]

Me too!!

[@1Kayliah]

Exactly

[@MichelleNagir]

Always!!!

[@sunflowersoul821]

I do the same because I already know TG's content is genuine and transparent .

[@melissajdelacruz]

I really wish more men thought like this. The family unit is suffering badly.

[@IAMJEWEL7]

It definitely is in the black community…. I see too many broken homes in the black community

[@xyz-mc5of]

The down low manosphere is spiritual wa*fare and has destroyed and turned out those men who let their weak minds be infiltr.

[@transitionsnc]

Agreed.

[@gingerandspice1209]

Blk men don't value marriage or blk women

[@maria_goretti]

Yep

[@954dreamer1]

Kinda reached a point in my life where I view people cheating on each other as something trashy like a jerry springer episode or judge Judy episode

[@954dreamer1]

While no one has done it to me. I know if someone did best thing to do is leave them. I’m not going to lose my mental sanity or be kicked out of social groups bc of being withal a cheater

[@954dreamer1]

Being with a cheater is social suicide. Please everyone living in America, don’t feel obligated to stay with a cheater

[@954dreamer1]

@@Negative_A It really is 😂

[@angieponders3844]

When he begins respecting himself.

[@KFontLab]

Whew!!!!!…. Thank you! Commitment is a matter of Discipline not Love. Ladies please remember that. I tell this to ladies who ask me all the time. Preach sir!

[@doraleslie8518]

No one has time for games. Women, please put yourselves first and don't surrender power to game players!!! You DERSERVE BETTER!!!❤

[@diadash]

This why after many years my husband and I have separate rooms. I need at least 8 hours of solid sleep and the snoring and different sleep patterns were killing my vibe. Things are better than ever. I can see why they did that back in the day.

[@Queengemi5]

How y’all get things back together

[@diadash]

@@Queengemi5 Giving each other space.

[@tlc6756]

Hopefully you can still commit to intimacy though. If you are Christians, the Bible says that you shouldn't deny each other sexual Intimacy (it never said you have to sleep in the same bed though, lol).

[@diadash]

@@tlc6756 If anything it increased it. No one is in the mood if they don't sleep right .

[@tlc6756]

@@diadash that's wonderful 😊

[@n.Lenice]

I honestly wasn't going to listen to this video bc a relationship is not a top priority now, BUT I usually do click on all Tony's videos when they pop up in my feed just to hit the like button and then go bout my business 😂 BUT for whatever reason I stayed, set the speed on 2.0 (I've found that I prefer to listen to videos and podcasts at high speeds) and so he began. It was nothing but an answer to a prayer I've been longing for for quite some time. Thank you, Tony. God finally said, "You gonna stop and listen TODAY"😂

[@stay_blessed23]

Yes Tony go off! 😂 As long as I’m good with God and doing what I’m supposed to do, he gonna make sure I have everything I need on this earth until I’m gone! Very wonderful testimony Tony! I will take this knowledge in now that I’m 26🙏🏽

[@ptalester]

Mr. Gaskins, According to you no man has any discipline! Secondly, I don't want al those soul ties in me. No, no no! I want someone to love me for me. Your wife, I wonder how sure she can be about you?

[@MeetMeOnTheMoon]

You be hitting where it hurts. I feel this in my heart, my stomach. My eyes are getting puffy. I’ve been affirming “I accept me as I am” every time the feelings of unworthiness come up. Oh here come the tears.

[@lillianthomas9046]

l can honestly sympathize with you sweetie...praying / pouring out to GOD and DAILY AFFIRMATIONS is how you will build your self LOVE...l am praying for you...🤗❤🙏

[@OctaviaMonique2]

You are beautiful! I affirm this with you! 🙏🏾

[@gapeach7814]

🙏🏽♥️

[@whiteswan8210]

We are WORTHY, and sometimes the person that we are pouring our ALL into, and if it's not being reciprocated, then they are vibrating on a lower level than we are, and we deserve better Queens. I'd rather be alone, than to have someone that I have to share, just because he's a MAN. No excuses!!!

[@loismartin9634]

​​@@whiteswan8210 Yes! I agree yes it hurts like hell when the man we love cheats. If it is one time and you pray seek God's guidance....you may forgive it one time BUT for me if you continue to cheat & disrespect our vows (if married) I WILL not stay period...no matter how much I love him or how well he takes care of me! And the same thing goes if we are dating "exclusively". Now if we are not exclusive that's another thing. I am worthy of love & a commitment from a man...I am not tolerating that anymore! I've lived and value myself much now than I did in my younger years.

[@AmberOJohnson]

I love all of this message and I’m only 22 mins in…come on Pastor, Coach, Mentor Man Of God!!! Praying continued blessings for you and and your family!

[@vikki7286]

This message is the confirmation I needed, Tony. Thank you! I'm being tested, tempted, and ostracized right now from several different angles--- including a married man having the audacity to proposition me. My gangsta is being tested at the HIGHEST level, but the spirit told me to keep being a good person. Then I heard this message TODAY. Thank you!!! Thank you!!! Thank you!!!!! God bless you and your family, Mr. and Mrs. Gaskins!!!!

[@diamondgold5277]

Some Men will stop cheating once he hits a Wheel Chair, on a Cain, a Walker and wearing Dentures lost all his hair on his head, and his wee wee not working no more, then he ready to settle down talking about he loves you and he's waiting you to cook him dinner 😂

[@tracywood9301]

👍🇬🇧

[@queenefuah444]

😅 That's so true!

[@Tyeshoes123]

I've said this a million times 😅

[@loismartin9634]

Yep! Pretty much 😂😂😂

[@Mspuddin67]

Or his "member" stops working

[@AmberOJohnson]

All men should watch this and TAP IN!

[@Jewelz90]

Man this man asked for a child, I get prego, he lost his son, & while I’m baking our child, he goes on a vacation & cheats. I tried to make it work but I can’t get over the face that he cheated while I was creating our child. He said the other woman offered the vacation since he lost his child but what woman gets involved in such an act while she knows his expecting a child (after losing his only one!) I know it takes two to tangle. So they can keep poisoning each other & leave mines alone. I’m over it. He plays like his all godly but constantly cheats! I need my power back. & your video is so true. He says “his doing what is needed for us” whole time she’s helping him get recruited into her job company. I’m sooos drained. My daughter is only 2 months & he just got his own Apt & says it’s for “us” yeah right! I tell him all the time his better off single! & I’ll show him better then telling him

[@Christa-gc4ik]

🙏🏾 💪🏽

[@acomment5991]

Before I even watch, I’ll answer. They stop cheating when they bellies pop out and their prostate becomes an issue. Then you can have them to yourself.

[@Liyahw2326]

😂😂😂😂 might just be true

[@Emptytopfloor]

Eww……no thanks. 😅

[@acomment5991]

@@Liyahw2326 it’s true. That’s how the baby boomer women stayed married for 40 years. Grin and bear it until they age out of being desired 🤣

[@acomment5991]

@@Emptytopfloor 🤣

[@Fabii._]

I’ve been rewatching numerous videos of yours.. you’re pure gold

[@tlc6756]

If a husband is a Christian, he should already be in touch with his purpose...which is to love and cherish his wife (and to raise his children if they have them).

[@UniquelyEm]

Yeah every time I watch a video of you Tony I always learn something different. Love isn’t enough for men . I’ve witness a lot of men say this even in todays music. Once I get to know the man I see the root of there decisions in life. God really holds me accountable and shifts my perspective . I love this message by the way. Keep sharing the truth. God bless you❤

[@joiagenae]

When Tony gives the disclaimer about being a man.. it always takes me out bc he bout to go in 😂😂 lol

[@tieonne]

Tony, I want to thank you for all of your life-changing content. Your Growth Club, Saturday sessions, and KZbin videos have helped me grow so much over the past year.

[@weareallone6148]

Preach, Tony, preach! When one lives in Righteousness, God is going to Bless them in all areas of their life! Stay Blessed, Tony because you live in Righteousness. Thank you for guiding the Ones who are listening.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@KrystleLaughter]

I love the way Tony does his videos. He puts in so much information, and I always get something I didn't expect. You have a lifelong supporter. Your messages have genuinely changed my life. I was a broken and insecure mother of 7 who didn't know her worth and value. You taught me how to value myself. I took what I learned from you and wrote a best-selling book called: Love Yourself First. Now I have a KZbin channel & I am working on my academy. Thank you, Tony!❤❤❤

[@stephaniegrace8993]

60yrs, trying to figure stuff out for years. God's spiritual wisdom is ageless, timeless. Thank you (UK).

[@mszaire5705]

Exactly..my husband says he fears God..I tell folks all the time that my husband's faithfulness and commitment has little to do with me.

[@rekindledaffinity520]

The more he talks the more.I don’t want a man there behavior is what I don’t want around me👁️

[@TheDiamondEdge1]

I agree with you

[@yasminogbu8929]

I agree! A god fearing man! There is nothing like it! You don’t need to worry about him listing after the next chick or watching porn or cheating! He is accountable to his maker who he knows sees EVERYTHING!! HUGE DIFFERENCE

[@angelshevell]

You are a true man of Integrity...thank you man of God, for your honesty and openness. Thank you for using your gift of telling the truth❤

[@TheRuchingDiva]

"My credit with God is good"... 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

Thank you, Uncle Tony. Today I've learned the difference between jail vs prison. I had no idea. This video is full of GEMS 💎

[@yourfuturedocburenbeiya]

I have so much respect for you & rare men like you. I hope there are more men in the world who grows up to live life the way you do with this solid character, values, morals, etc. That means a lot more than money/status. Thank you for all you do & I love watching/listening to these videos whenever I get a chance. Your delivery is always on point & I literally lol when you say certain things. Stay blessed & God bless to you and your family! 🙏🏽

[@wechwech695]

Tony’s so unintentionally funny 😂

[@moniqueb387]

I swear. Not hit her with the $5😂 That's some discount 😻 forreal.

[@fenesss]

Thank you Lord for this video!!! Just a reminder of the blessing you have for me after the storm!! Sometimes you get weary because of the storm. But the storm should make you happy because there is a blessing at the end of it! Just hold on and keep the faith, it's something beautiful waiting for you when it's all over!! Thank you Jesus for the storm!!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

[@maria_goretti]

So damn on point. The point of surrender to God and doing what's right by Him in obedience brings the blessing and overflow.....God and hustle and grind.....thank you for sharing those necessary wisdom pearls

[@gailhughes1258]

YES LORD, THIS MAN IS TELLING THE TRUTH.

[@renategolucky8973]

Tony, you are awesome!! “I’m spending my money” you funny to me!!!🤣🤣🤣😆

[@marrencebaraquiel]

you helping a lot of women including myself. thank you so much tony!

[@channingtaylor9323]

This is truly amazing thank you Lord for changing this man’s heart and for blessing him and his family for his sacrifice of be obedient renewing his mind and his heart!!! This is so inspiring Ty for sharing!

[@Kingdom_Women_Rise_41]

Amen tell ‘‘em Tony, it’s the Lord faithfulness. God will reward the faithful

[@clarkclarke]

Very powerful Tony I wonder if people will ever come to realize that cheating creates nothing positive .. it's like smoking .. what are you left with ... Nothing you can take to a bank .. or like picking up someone else's scraps off the ground ....😫 continued blessings to you Mr G .... You deserve EVERY blessing coming your way 💕🙏🏾

[@Baquetsartbakery]

PUT ALL OF YOUR TRUST IN CREATOR AND HE WILL DIRECT YOUR PATH!

[@lisarichey7029]

I believe he is totally correct! I love his speaking. Ive always wanted to know a mans perspective

[@phylliswilliams2391]

I needed this topic today! Thank you Tony!

[@MichelleNagir]

Good will win in the end!! Makes me so happy because I do go through some attacks and I know it’s short term.

[@Vee_Davis-wb9wd]

THEY NEVER STOP CHEATING SMH

[@tlc6756]

I think love can be enough for a man if he lost a woman he loved because he cheated in the past. Some men do learn that it wasn't worth it and become stronger/wiser the next time around.

[@simplymekia1563]

Amen! Love that part that my credit with God is good 🙏🏾.

[@kimberleymcdonald9235]

Your wife is a very lucky and blessed young lady. I'm sure you are too, to have her in your life, as well. Keep up the good work. You sound like my step sister, she says her kids aren't getting any of her money either. I understand you both.

[@yoditassefa7126]

Thank you for being honest. We all need to hear and know the truth.

[@sandeejaye7239]

I'm so glad I listened to this one. Faith without works is dead.

[@the_feisty_vegan_llc]

THIS! Very encouraging, spirit-filled message. Thanks, TG!

[@KhaliahAli]

Very powerful message brother!

[@tarahbruno3793]

“ I’m spending my money”!! 😂 facts. No need to hold on to Money for dear life. This whole message was soooo good!

[@user-wt9xm6xz6l]

That part took me out 😂💀💀😭 Tony is hilarious man

[@tejuanahardison7516]

You just lit a fire underneath me Tony. I’m signing up for some courses classes etc. I’m manifesting a 100k business

[@LarennPBel]

I love listening to his content. Thank you Tony!!!!!!!

[@lizmestanza4891]

Im going through spiritual warfare and enemy wants to also bring down my children!

[@SassyMrsK]

Same

[@MysticKueen-y7d]

🙏🙏🙏

[@lizmestanza4891]

@The Lovely Life thank you very much! I pray that God uses you in a very special way in others’ lives.

[@sherryharvey9873]

Amen.. It takes more than Love to have a Successful relationship.

[@odiliagaspar4339]

😊wow this speaks: thank you for sharing. Helps me to understand more about my husband, ease things with my wondering chatting mind this silence all that mind chatter.

[@profmj7630]

Yes sir Tony! This is a powerful message and helpful when picking a future husband

[@lisasmilez]

Brother Tony the last 5 mins! 😂😂😂😂😂God bless you! I love your teaching style 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@attcustomer1863]

Thank you Tony I needed to hear your inspiration today I really did thank you ,you are a blessing,I love to see black love and black couples in a happy marriage

[@lifegoeson1545]

I like how Mr Tony breaks things down an bring forth understanding. Thank you so much

[@Konfident_Lee]

"You're not going to sacrifice for God, for long, without reaping the benefits"💯🎯

[@HaliSue2009]

Enjoy the fruits of your labor, TG 🙏🏽

[@Happyhour7]

I love me some Tony Gaskin. You are the man, brother. Love your family and wife. Keep up the good work. Sir.

[@VirtuousWoman1143]

BLESSINGS VS. SNARES !!!! TONY U BETTER PREACH THAT THANG !!!!

[@loismartin9634]

Thank you for the truth! Blessings to you & Mrs Gaskins and may your love stay forever strong, & committed in Christ Jesus! 😊

[@Fabulous_Four]

Thank you for this, your words are always truth. Continue what you do, servicing God through your channel. Giving knowledge to many many people. 🙏🏽

[@PeachReverie]

I'm giving up on love, just sounds like there's no hope

[@Emptytopfloor]

I keep hearing men are lonely and yet they can’t stop cheating? No thanks. I’m happy with my own company.

[@joannwright3552]

Very true! Thank God for your relationship you have with God. Many one night stands received AIDS from cheating affairs. I pray God will continue to keep you. Amen!

[@angelaslaton3211]

I was in a serious relationship with a guy and I know he never cheated. The others did though. Not every guy cheats. Not even in the most horrific situation s in the relationship. I think cheating is an individual thing. Low self esteem, insecure, wife won't give him sex of any kind, boredom etc .Men and women should never be alone with the opposite sex either. Pentecostals send witnesses when a brother or sister needs help. No meeting a husband without his wife present. Big No No. Stay off the streets too, and away from big booty clubs and flirtatious women. And the internet!!

[@chrissysam7949]

Thanks for this TG! Praying for all of us 🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾

[@suebrown4040]

AMEN TO THAT SON OF GOD THANK YOU FOR THE WORD

[@Baquetsartbakery]

So wise and in tune to the Truth! Thank you and THANK THE MOST HIGH for granting that to you!

[@ritaharris7120]

You better preach and testify for Christ Sir! Good teaching. 🙏🏾👍🏽

[@artimasartimas4515]

Great video and very true. May Father keep blessing you and your family.

[@Lookabove1]

All do respect Tony you have amazing videos its best to assist people to truely see others grow who dont ask for a raddle and a play pen

[@Char-YAH]

Awesome teaching! You are right, your sins (secrets) WILL eventually find you out

[@UCanHaveHim]

This is why I'll never respect a man.... I'll never trust him therefore I'll never feel safe so he's no good to me.

[@valleriejoseph]

Same I will be never

[@gailpdesigns]

Please Tony next video “Rooted & Grounded” how to recognize it in yourself first!

[@qscott888]

Oh the tap-ins coming in I’m sure on this one. 😂 listen to the end…so many takeaways in this one here.

[@thankyouforfavor8396]

WHEN YOU WALKING IN YOUR PURPOSE GOD GOT YOU. IT'S NOT JUST THE MONEY. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!! WHEN GOD BLESS YOU HE ADDS NO SORROW. PRESS DOWN SHAKEN TOGETHER AND RUNNING OVER!!!🙏🙏❤

[@mattygurl6601]

Thank you so much . Man of God - I needed this message of encouragement and support

[@Tresieeeeeeèe]

I’m so glad & happy for you … maintaining your own health & sanity through helping us folks & also maintaining your own family🤍🤍🤍🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾⭐️⭐️⭐️thank youuuuuuuu❤

[@DjAlexMiamiDj]

You are speaking to me on this video. Salute. Thank you.

[@glittersparkle5148]

The first part of your video is good but the second part really hit home to me because I have been giving out free advice

[@juanitakelley8877]

PREACH!!! AMEN!! I completely agree with you. Keep speaking the truth.

[@sabrinah8197]

Catch them Jewel. Stay Woke... Stay Blessed ❤️

[@destiny2092]

SPEAK ON IT TONY!!🙏💯🙏

[@forerunness]

🔥🔥🔥 powerful. Thank you! Yes, fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom 🙏🧡

[@purely7762]

“The devils throwing snares & God’s throwing blessings, people don’t know the difference “ This blessed me as my husband left me, his beautiful, faithful, forgiving wife with all of our kids living in horrendous conditions, got a new car, house, job, promoted several times while children & I don’t see a dollar. Snare made it make sense, mercy for his soul. I want God’s blessings that add no sorrow! Glad I listened to the end 😊

[@shegotstandards]

Tony is so funny and keeps me smiling along with the good information he provides. I know Tony talks about relationships but he seems to light up and have a passion when he talks about business things LOL.😊

[@rosemcreynolds8840]

Praise God may you continue to be blessed by God for your spiritual service bless your family and marriage in Jesus nane

[@queen_Lex25]

Glory to God, Thank you So much, you have impacted my life in a wonderful and inspirational way. Thank you you for what you do.

[@gloriabanner2750]

Love the wisdom Tony brings