When I cared too much about other people!

Do you care about what other people think about you?
When will you stop thinking about what anyone would care?

[@ashishbist6371]

Being THE G.O.A.T. and still making videos relatable to us and how we feel, you're truly an inspiration to us. The fact that you remember all these aspects of your journey shows your struggle. Hatts of to you Sir. "I am the GOAT!!" - Chetan bhagat

[@sanjeevkumar616]

GOAT at what? Stop using random stuff to sound cool.

[@rameshgaikwad532]

Chetan your thoughts are very clear you are really gem Thanks for inspiration.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

My pleasure!

[@SSCCGL-ph9eb]

It takes gutts to tell your authentic story to such a large audience on d internet. I can relate to u sir. Thanks for this video 💯

[@jaydeepgoswami8469]

Love you sir ❤

[@ratindersingh1464]

Yeah!!! You are right .Life is all about keeping yourself happy not others . we shouldn't feel ashamed of admiring our success .Ever since I started following you , my thoughts or way of life is being changed gradually just because of you.Thanks to share your precious thoughts with us and make our life ...

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you! Happy to help!

[@deepajamwal1139]

I am 53 yrs old woman & like listening to u &feel u r way wiser for your age & live intelligently. Stay humble & keep shining. ✨️

[@bishalsaha8354]

Thank you sir ☺️

[@punyakakria5369]

You are my drive these days! I developed interest in reading via your books only. In my school days, when internet wasn’t much famous, your books were a big source of refreshing up the mood! I read them all, completed each of them within 2-2 days! Thankyou sir! Even being consistent on KZbin isn’t easy! You are doing that! So proud!! Also I have read Revolution 2020 3-4 times :p it’s my personal fav!! Never imagined 7-8 years back, I’ll be watching you speak on KZbin!! You goo sir❤️❤️🔥

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@managementguru7173]

A great quote from a wise guy "other people's opinions is just that ....their mere opinion"

[@adityambaruah26]

I totally agree with you sir ❤❤❤

[@cricket.Insiders]

Hats of to this man the way he is enlightening the society ❤️huge fan sir ji

[@bariyaprahlad3576]

This is real Chetan Bhagat unshakable confidence. I love your work sir really helped.

[@Ciwamczack]

I still remeber the days when I had travelled 27 kms just to purchase your book “One Night At The Call Centre” from a book shop in Railway Station... Later I had written my first letter confessing love to her and sent it placing between the pages of book. And after 7 yrs both these have been with me... The hobby of Reading and she.... Thanks a lot sir ❤

[@shrinivaskulkarni1565]

Great elderly advice for us.. We will implement this in life..

[@aradhnatyagi4833]

Love the way you inspire people,perhaps you yourself sometimes don't know,what change you're bringing in the lives of young aspiring people, God bless

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Love that! Thank you!

[@psn-ii1ri]

Can't believe that The Chetan Bhagat used to feel inferior to others and then imagine the plight of mere mortal beings like us. Glad and very grateful that you are talking about such issues and helping us by bringing out such content. 🙏

[@_mana_]

Chetanji, thanks for sharing your story and ideas. It helped me personally to deal with my PTSD (from racist attacks) and encouraged me to start my channel much like your long-format videos. Keep 'em coming.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad to be of help!

[@jhololi]

Superb suggestion of all time. Thanks for the video, Sir.

[@Ali-wh7cr]

Sir, Thank you very much for this civilised conversation. Ali

[@imageofparadox]

I like your courage and ability to put yourself as an example for others to relate and to resolve their issues.

[@parulsrivastava8202]

Totally agree with you Sir👍👍Always thankful to you for sharing your own life experiences and motivating us👏👏

[@yashkachhadiya2325]

I am 20 year old but i think your video is for everybody . You help us to avoid mistakes in our life . Thank you so much

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad to hear that!

[@dishadolphin]

TYSM sir for sharing your story ❤️ I was a people pleaser, but now I realised they give opinion according to their perception. They don't know me really & it doesn't matter now 😌

[@preetiesingh3193]

Chetan you are my super favourite. You speak in the same way as you write. Dil say......and it straight way touches heart. We all sometimes feel but cannot express to ownself but your power lies in your expression.

[@sohinisaha597]

Yes, it happens with me too. We deal with self esteem issues in some phases of our lives. It makes us vulnerable to criticism and negativity and blocks us to see the obvious greater things happening for us. No this is no arrogance. It is discerning and judging yourself in positive light. This for me self care. Thanks for sharing your story. Everything you say is so relatable.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you. Glad you could relate to it!

[@souravprosad2277]

Knowing your worth is really important in life. People always try to discourage you even they are nothing. If you see their net worth, lifestyle, their health you will laugh. They are not concerned about themselves but yourself. Don't try to please everyone. Be yourself the right people will come to you and stay and the wrong people will walk away from you. Let people say what they wanna say, you just focus on yourself and do your work. Let success make the noise.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

So true! Let success make the noise!

[@souravprosad2277]

@@ChetanBhagat1 Thanks Sir.

[@AshishGaikwad27]

I have genuine respect for u sir. Your words always motivate common people like me. Keep it up.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you!

[@monikapal237]

I have been watching your videos since long but never comment. But this topic is very fascinating and genuine to talk about. As thinking about what others will think limits your worth and only stop your growth. Keep uploading such videos. 😊

[@ChetanBhagat1]

So nice of you. Thank you!

[@trishabhattacharjee753]

A much needed talk .....thank you sir.

[@manojrrao9600]

Your talks and books are very engaging and relatable. Thankyou sir

[@foodiepanchal]

So humble of you to share these things. I can really relate a lot to it. Thank you for this perspective. It is not what you have in you by birth but it is what you see yourself as and what you work for. Thank you brother. 💛

[@SanjayDas-yo3nd]

You are the greatest of all time sir 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 .

[@priyanshi5647]

Thank u❤️ same things happened to me few yrs back!! But now I realised my worth!!!❤️❤️ Thank u once again 😘 ur attitude is lit🔥

[@opcartoonst.v9828]

sir when you said now i don't have to work for money , it hits hard.

[@PANKAJKUMAR-fe8zn]

Love the attitube toward himself. I came here to learn this attitude about myself.

[@shreyanandanwar968]

thank you so much sir , you have totally activated my mind

[@ChetanBhagat1]

You are most welcome!

[@CA_HimanshuGrover]

Thank you for your great words! Keep inspiring us & enhancing our mindset to right side. ♥️🙏

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Always!

[@ritikraushan5456]

Hats off🙌...my mindset changed by you thank you so much sir❤️🙏

[@harshpandey7605]

Awesome video sir, I have overcome many self doubt issues in my life after watching your videos .They have made me believe I am more than enough. Thank you very much

[@ChetanBhagat1]

That's great! Keep it up!

[@kiranchandola1732]

Well you are right ..i'm 23 years old and mujhe abhi apna carreer bnana hai shadi nahi karni hai par log aa. Aa kar mese jbrdsti bolte ki isese shadi kro usese kro ye career lelo wo lelo .jabki wo nhi jante ki mko kya pasand hai mai kya nahi kar sakti or ye apne bhot acha kiya apna experience share kar dia kuki logo ne preshan kiya rehta hai ki ye kro nhi ye kro. Thanks a lot sir

[@evergreen7781]

I learned so many things from so many inspiring people. And this topic is very well explained by you Sir. In one of your earlier videos you explained beautifully with the example of "Kisine laal Baal Kara liya" and then... From that day I stopped caring about what people would think about me.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Keep it up! Thank you for watching!

[@shreyarai1994]

❤️❤️❤️ what a courageous soul to put true feeling in words! ...and making it relatable to each one of us.... Kudos.... Very well said...

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thanks a ton!

[@amanagarwal1308]

Duniya ka sabse bada rog, kya kahenge log. Thankfully I have escaped that part of life. Well said .

[@ajeyavikramsingh5682]

Thank you sir for sharing your real life experiences. Don't follow the herd instead go where there is no path and leave a trail. No one knows us better than we do. Our lives should be governed by us and not what others expect from us at different stages of our life. We should follow the path carved by us and not the designed path even though it might appear to be an individual self centered selfish approach in the eyes of other people

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Well said!

[@aagyajain]

You are a true inspiration for me. Your share of experiences are worth listening...🙏❤️

[@ChetanBhagat1]

So glad! Thank you!

[@ArtSanjay2343]

Sir I STARTed READING BOOKS BECAUSE OF YOU, YOU WRITE SIMPLE WHICH WE UNDERSTAND easily WE DON'T WANT HARDY WORDS WHICH CREATE MISS COMMUNICATION. THANK SIR TO DO REVOLUTION IN INDIA IN WRITING ✍️ 🙏 🙌

[@aspirant5040]

This is need of an hour. Super thanks sir for these type of videos....

[@gahuj1]

Thankyou for opening up like you did.. not easy to share vulnerable parts of your life.. 👍🏼

[@prasenjitdutta288]

Thank you sir for your great advice... It will improved my life alot... I have seen all of your videos and learn a lot and implement in my life

[@nidhisingh18]

Such an honest talk Chetan , thank you for sharing this 🙏 i too had wasted years caring about other people's opinion, still i feel i haven't completely overcome this weakness, still working on myself, n i really want to be courageous like you. this video is truly thought-provoking. Keep motivating us😇🙏

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thanks a ton!

[@multiverseofarj8348]

I am travelling now and listening ur - audio back to back on loop,superb real topics 👍

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thanks a lot!

[@dayasagarswain2566]

Love you sir.... I am a mbbs student... I was currently going through phase.... Really it taught me a lot

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad to hear that!

[@laxminarayankr4609]

Thank you so much sir for this video. I really think about people what think about me . After this content my perspective changed and i enjoyed my life without fear of people's perspective.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Keep it up!

[@rickyrahul17]

You’re awesome. You made me feel real and confident

[@KM-lb2zk]

Some worthwhile things he is delivering w taking money. Really great sir 👍👌

[@hemanthchitneedi3179]

Hi Chetan, I rarely comment for a video on youtube. What you talked is something I could relate to. Thanks for letting me realize the trap where I shouldn't go.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

My pleasure! 😊

[@PatakhaGuddi09]

Very few successful people tell such things about themselves. PLEASE KEEP UPLOADING THESE PRECIOUS THINGS💙❤

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you, I will!

[@sharadakulkarni8162]

Your every word is so right sir .. ya everyone relates to this

[@vishnusmart6803]

Thank you sir I just recently started following you sir from the book 400 days. You're videos are more useful and you told how the life is and how can we enhance our self and how time more important I'm just Reached my 20's you're thoughts and videos are helpfull for career. I know English is but I'm keep trying to improve my self sir thank you. 💛💯

[@pushprajsingh6891]

If force is balanced motion is simple , efforts are balanced love is simple......Simple things we like more and lasts long

[@sushantgupta1598]

Chetan Sir you made me cry 😢😢😢

[@student9137]

Thank you so much Sir for your thoughts I was in the same phase few months ago but something was telling me just be yourself and don't overthink too much now today I got my verification thanks a lot once again!

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Keep it up!

[@mitaligupta4765]

What you said about yourself is right Sir ,your books are good . Because of your book I develpoed habit of reading books 📕📖😇

[@ravinderpanwar8176]

Great video sir. I was very much depressed. But after watching your video i am feeling well.

[@asha5201]

Thank you sooo sooo much Sir.... I really really love you sooo muchhhhh..... I have read all yr books and I didn't know that You have your own KZbin channel. I really wanted to say that thank you soo much for writing because I love yr writing style and I was dealing through depression and all. And, I gave try to your books and I was highly addicted to your books. You are the best writer. You write in a simple way and I feel that someone my close one is narrating stories for me. Yoh are my inspiration and I love you soo much. Even, Idk. Why do people hate you? I sometimes believe that these people aren't able to do anything and now they are soo much frustrated with their lives that they can not see someone success. Keep going sir... Please write more books... And, Even I used to afraid from these hi fi english waale people but then I realised that they are just living on their parents money. Seriously, Then, I pushed myself that Asha You are good. F**k these people and I am gonna live my life in my way. And I am soo happy now... Thanks a lot sir... Love u🙂

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you so much for your kind words!

[@asha5201]

@@ChetanBhagat1 thank you sooo sooo much for replying sir. You made my day 😍😍

[@ShivamSingh-iy2vf]

I just fall in love with your thoughts Chetan sir, a very big ♥️ form me to you.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thanks a ton!

[@vetknowledge4929]

You are great sir....

[@penduludhianvi7151]

Thanks Chetan bhai. You have changed my perception towards life

[@dhirajaspirant6229]

मैं life कुछ भी अच्छा करूंगा तो आपसे आशीर्वाद लेने जरूर आऊंगा sir जी 🙏 your video totly change my life 🙏❤️

[@bhanwishree6269]

Sooo liberating...❤️🥹

[@user-hj1uf4gd7b]

Thank you dear sir for this types of videos. You are youth icon and changing lot of indian youth. 💕💕

[@ChetanBhagat1]

It's my pleasure!

[@gmwizz]

Really honest n helpful! Thanks Chetan

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad you liked it!

[@templogical3095]

Thanks Chetan Sir, Such a Impactful video because of your own examples.

[@chatraswargiary3093]

Bohot atsa video sir ji...pura Bharat Mai yeh video bohot jaruri hai.

[@parthapratimdas6283]

I read a lot of novels since childhood but "Five point someone" was the only one I couldn't put down and read it late into the night.

[@tannukumari4394]

Thanks a lot sir 💫🙏

[@wanderingnomad1]

Thanks for sharing your experience Chetan bhai, very dangerous underestimating oneself.

[@jiyyadmohammed7604]

Nice video sir.... I read books of various authors and each author has a speciality....Your books are simple and easy to understand....Have really enjoyed your novels💓

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you!

[@umeshpatwardhan6246]

Nice video. I keep reading your articles in Sakal (Marathi) Newpaper. I really look forward to those.

[@siddharthsingh2331]

Awesome👍 sir shayad hum jyadatar log aese hi hote hain but improvement is must ..mai bi kabi logon ko khush krne k lie laga rhta tha our abi bi i m still improving myself

[@Abdur_Rahman_km]

Thank you sir.

[@st4157]

To say I look up to you is too much of an understatement ❤️

[@DeepakKumar-id7ug]

That's way I have to come after any notification of Cetan Bhagat Its totally change the way of thinking #goatchetanbhagat

[@HimanshuKumar-oi8qh]

kitna relatable hai yaarrrrr😣 Thank you so muchhhh sir.........!!

[@akankshaakanksha1798]

people will be what they.... we should all focus on what we feel and stick by it because inner instincts are always right

[@sermusdiary8255]

Thanks for sharing such positive thought....

[@ChetanBhagat1]

My pleasure!

[@RS13363]

Thank you Sir.

[@neyazahmad3288]

Perfect video sir ❤️ i am your regular viwer of daat series and I realise that all things you say it is useful for my life ...

[@bhavna297]

Felt like this .watched the video now I don't feel guilty I understand the strategy of those who try to butcher my confidence to hide their mistakes

[@pampasingh1853]

Yeh mere sath bhi hota hai.. Par aapke videos se mujhe confidence milta hai.. Thank you Chetan Bhaiya ☺

[@welivelifeonce7853]

Yes this is true Even I'm not good in English But it's only your books who encourage me that I can also read English Novels And now I proudly keep your novels with me Thanks Chetan ji. And yes do not care about people waht will they say?

[@ChetanBhagat1]

So nice of you. Thank you!

[@moumitadeysengupta]

Thanks a lot sir 🙏🙏

[@gul4470]

Thanks for highlighting your insecurities as people look upto someone hailing from IIT-IIM background, who can also have this feeling. (Kyu na ho hum sab insaan hi hai) Also, the point in which you mentioned about kids who speak good English language just because their parents could afford them to send them in expensive schools compared to kids who do not hail from metro cities but earn higher than them. Speaking in English does open doors for you in certain opportunities. But if you just talk about financial success there are majority of people from non-English medium backgrounds who land up at top colleges in India (Correct me if I'm wrong in this part) I personally have met people who communicate well in English language despite hailing from Hindi medium school. On asking them they told me how much hard they have put on in learning English language. I have huge respect for them (two widely known examples are Mr. Mustafa (founder of ID Fresh) and Kangana Ranaut. There is a difference between such people and me...today I can speak in English because I had an access to a good school but that's not a big thing. Rather these people who didn't go to English medium schools but have worked hard and became examples before us to teach us Hard work and determination will make your aspirations come true :)

[@harsh-simplelife]

Sir great content....life is short....only 60-70 years ...then died...so do best you can in your life 👍👍👍👍

[@deepikajain552]

Its all about us ... People giving us time... That is more important... They care us somewhere... That's why wo log kuch na kuch bolte hai... Kisko kitna sunna hai... Kitna dimag mein lena hai.. Ye hum pe depend karta hai... I think.. It's all about right and wrong. And mainly the circumstances... 🙂

[@tambrahmiyer]

Superb video 👏👏

[@subhashreerout2019]

Wowwwwww... Thnkkk uuu The line .. Bank ki job mt chodna aur writing k lye toh blkul b nae ❤❤❤❤.... Thnk u for ur insight

[@amankatharia7032]

Areee, Thank You Sir❤️

[@rohitshaurya9412]

Thank you 😊 for making such kind of video ❤ Big Fan Sir

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you so much! 😀

[@dramnaarshad215]

Hi chetan sir, good to see you,thankyou for your amazing motivational thoughts