When I Stopped Thinking About Him, He Couldn’t Stop Thinking About Me

[@generatemagic]

Wow, all your videos resonate, but this one is particularly timely. I realized recently I was putting my goals around success on a pedestal, and then it dawned on me: "I AM the success." I felt the truth in this statement. Still, some painful childhood memories resurfaced and a fear came over me, that I would always be stuck in this cycle of seeking external validation and never feeling good enough. Then, another sentence appeared in my mind: "I AM amazing no matter what." Again, I felt the profound relief and truth in the statement. And yes, this video reinforces the idea that when we put our I AM on the pedestal, we immediately put ourselves in the driver's seat and cut off that cycle of dependency where we're seeking that external validation to feel loved and valued and prioritized. Also, not too long ago I, like your client, was feeling like I wasn't prioritized in my relationship, I was getting lots of hot and cold behavior, and I was trying to get different results through scripting, imagining, "thought transmission." Then my dad said, "I don't care how great this guy is or how much money he has, any man would be lucky to be with you." I know this is the kind of thing that fathers say, but the statement hit me like a lightning bolt of truth. I thought, "You know what, he's right. I AM the prize." And immediately I stopped efforting and things very rapidly changed for the better, suddenly I WAS the priority. There were other components to this I believe, but putting myself on the pedestal and owning my inherent worth was a big one. But I didn't realize this until just recently.

[@generatemagic]

@@pickmeupstix Love it!

[@almaelizalde2973]

Omg Tom!! I don’t have to influence anyone at all. Instead, change my “I AM” and 3D has no choice but to bend to my “I am”. Thank you for the wisdom!!

[@theAbsurdLogician]

Damnit Tom ☹️ I saw the title and got triggered thinking “i barely think of him!!!”. But then decided I wasn’t in a state of being to watch it and waited. But then when I did, you hit me hard again. What made him come in, in the first place, was when I put I Am on a pedestal. I somehow got caught up in conditions again, trying to influence circumstances. But of course not!! The law is the law! There is only I Am. I can’t wait for the live! Much love Tom! ❤️

[@soullove8280]

I so love it here!!! 🥰 I used to say that every video here is a master class but truly every sentence is a gold nugget that I have to pause to listen to again! My "insides" kinda feel like a Tetris game! Only before I couldn't get the pieces to fit - or I couldn't get them to fit fast enough...I'd panic....and now the pieces are aligning with more ease and I'm feeling the relief and satisfaction of the pieces "fitting" and the "board" clearing.....and as I write this I suddenly am aware that I don't even have to "make or try to make the pieces fit" I Am the Tetris board! 🙃 Thank you Tom! Things just keep getting clearer! 🙏💖

[@generatemagic]

Beautifully stated. Yes, I feel the pieces coming together in my own life more and more, sometimes a painful memory or thought will come up to trigger me but then I'm able to come up with a response, and it's the relief of knowing that I don't have to think that way anymore, that I don't have to buy into these bogus beliefs that I'm not good enough, that I have to "prove" my worth, or that on a meta level I don't have to let these voices in my head (or circumstances) bring me down, that I can choose to feel good in every moment.

[@soullove8280]

@@generatemagic Yes! 🥰 How empowering to know that it all boils down to a choice! At first that really ticked me off! Lol I remember being so angry that anyone would say that I "chose" the circumstances I was experiencing....until it hits that, if I had the power to "do" that, then I have the power to experience something completely different! 😍 Realizing I am not my feelings - they are just fluff, dust, cobwebs - trying to distort the truth and they are only as powerful as I choose/allow them to be. Its persistently reminding ourselves(for me sometimes minute by minute 😅) that we get to choose.

[@generatemagic]

@@soullove8280 Totally! I love the cobweb analogy :)

[@tempistarks]

Years watching you and I finally get it. Thank you 🙏

[@Lettie_Elisabeth]

Omg i needed this one, brilliant. I was wondering about thought transmission. But to think i need to send a thought tells myself we're already disconnected. We're not! Focus on me.. the I Am. It has to connect. Love love love it.

[@lenarolls443]

This is pure Gold an on point!!!!

[@BeStillandKnow0000]

yes, this was my exact struggle to and the thing that changed about me... it felt so heavy when you put other people's thoughts about you on a pedestal whereas I remember being so carefree before when I (without any awareness) put my thoughts about me on a pedestal

[@Infinite_LoveJoy]

Tom you’re truly Divine - also love that you’re consistent in laughing 😂 it’s contagious. Also thanks for the playlist ❤❤❤ Blessings ❗️

[@Muchness11]

I second this, I always laugh when Tom laughs!

[@OvercomingEverything]

Man here I am talking about me in my head while I’m listening to this and it completely lifts my vibration!

[@107keroppi]

Thanks!

[@awakeningwithamy]

This video is absolutely brilliant!! It embodies all teachings and goes above and beyond!! Thank you so much for your amazing videos xoxo

[@simplyso111]

Another treasure! Thanks Tom!

[@camishajackson9351]

Omg!! I just love your content!!

[@Q-Rigal]

Tom, you indeed are the best! This channel is the best “manifestation” teaching channel. Thank you.

[@107keroppi]

I can't believe this video. Just this morning I was thinking about receiving roses at work🌹, and I didnt even know who'd sent me these...It was such a peculiar, yet specific thought. Then I watch your video, and I got chills. This is a magnificent lesson for me🎉

[@susangrande8142]

This is wonderful, Tom! 😍🙏 Thank you, dear one!

[@bailey__]

This is the one 🎉

[@brianwebster7622]

Science of the Mind ... amazing book... changed my life!!!

[@balancedwellness.1]

Thank you Tom!!! ❤❤❤

[@BeSomethingWonderful]

Thank you so much for being here!

[@Ciaoblla]

This was so amazing! Thank you thank you thank you!

[@alexandrasky4952]

This was amazing! Just exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!

[@lourdescrowley66]

PURE GOLD. Thank you once again Tom! You are a true gem. With every video Matter-Realizing is clearer. Amazing. 💕❤❣

[@yaarahaim6143]

Amazing video Tom, One of your best! Thank you ❤

[@RandomthoughtswithKay]

I been listening to this repeatedly. I love this video. Thank you so much for what you do!♥️

[@Cathenz]

This answer a lot of questions I’ve had lately. Thank you! Very timely.

[@thefounder761]

Thank you so much!

[@alethiacharis2480]

This is cool!✨️ Its like saying, whatever thoughts you think are the atmosphere you surround yourself with, and you literally take on the geometric shape of that vibration you are choosing for yourself. 🤣🤣That's kind of a weird explanation,😆 but I heard something recently about our souls taking on a certain shape, at an atomic level; based on the choices we make in life. Anyway, this talk is really inspiring ☺️💃🏼💖

[@infinitebeings1985]

Amazing 👏

[@TheMatrikaP]

Great one Tom! 😍Thank you so much! 🥰

[@lucydiaz1074]

Thank you for this video ❤

[@bananekuchen-fy9dj]

Damn that is the one video!!

[@BeSomethingWonderful]

Thank you!

[@bananekuchen-fy9dj]

@@BeSomethingWonderful❤

[@Liv-181]

Hey He told me I’m too good for him. What does this mean ? what should I change in myself ? Did I put myself too high on pedestal ? I don’t want others to think I’m better than them after working on myself

[@c2quick4u]

WOW!! I AM that I AM, I AM source so why would source hold on to anything!

[@shanshan504]

Is It Me! Because you're looking younger these days. Aging backwards ❤

[@dannycooper7552]

Everything. Everywhere. All at Once. ;)

[@CassieA525]

Wow!!!! Thank you so so much!!!! No wonder I am not experiencing my heart desire to the fullest. I did it wrong by trying to influence him all that time. Are you saying that I should not talk in my visualization at all ? But just see the pictures and feel the end result?. Or not seeing him talking to me and telling me what I want to hear? 😊❤🎉

[@CRAZYxSNAKE]

:)

[@alexandrasky4952]

Thanks!