WHEN I THOUGHT HE WAS THE ONE AND GOT ENGAGED THEN LATER TO DISCOVERED IT WAS ALL A.....

[@Over50andMe]

Free tourism and free goodies . 😮. You owe no one any assumptions. BE BOLD. These men are making it a GAME. We are not desperate. We are worthy.

[@laetitiamathe5779]

😭😢

[@gwynethgirl6558]

Number 1 red flag was when he asked her to pay for accommodation.

[@gwynethgirl6558]

A man will do everything for you if you’re the one he wants. It’s almost like an obsession type of love. Talking out of experience 💯

[@chella2608]

Very true

[@SA-nl7wn]

So much learning. May those girls be blessed for their willingness to share their sad stories. They really edify us.

[@fridamukelabai8188]

Im new to your channel..it's really helpful..thank God I met my black American on tagged after so many bad experiences from different dating apps...

[@carolinemugure2192]

Hello bella ,.. God help us , I am tired of dating sites , .. I have let God will upon my life

[@MunaIbrahim-hq2de]

Don't give up siz pray alot and ask for belas advice u will be fine

[@carolinemugure2192]

@@MunaIbrahim-hq2de Thanks gal for your good words but I have prayed , fasted , till I am not even praying over again over a life partner... I have dated someone online, recently we have now stayed almost a week without talking,.. am not desperate for love , if it's the will of God it will happen, without forcing it,God timing is the best ,.. 🙏

[@diamondivine]

​@@carolinemugure2192 I feel you sis. I had a terrible experience through Afro introductions that I'm not sure I will ever talk about because, it shattered my heart to pieces. Thanks to these dating sites I lost hope of finding a good man. I'm at that point where I am no longer searching. I guess dating sites are good for certain people but horrible to some like me.

[@annortis]

Don't give up,God opens a new chapter when we are tired❤

[@carolinemugure2192]

@@annortis Amen and thanks

[@temiladeadams9927]

I have been patiently waiting for another storytime 😅

[@ciaobella796]

Poor girl, praying that we all have our eyes open to be able to see the red flags. Good story telling skills girl.

[@niellaansah75]

Hmmm Sisters please let's take Bella's tips serious ooo . I pray God lead the right people into our path as we continue with our search.

[@namakulasema8855]

Hi Bella welcome back girl 🎉

[@STLBlessed_05]

Thank you Bella for another informative story, it helps to learn and avoid some if these heartaches

[@AggieWes]

Good to see you sis

[@marthakunda-nn9jc]

Wow wow welcome back dear sister Bella We thamk our heavenly father all we arefine ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉

[@VickyGist7477]

So sorry for Lilian for everything, thanks for sharing dear African bella 😘😘

[@Favoritedahmi]

Thank you belle. You are always on point. I paid for the 2 dating app I am on. I just believe you must sacrifice to get something better. Some times those free users are not serious.

[@annortis]

Afro introduction works no need to pay ❤❤❤

[@Favoritedahmi]

@@annortis I was there for 3 months I couldn't meet any reasonable person because those texting are free like me so we couldn't read from each other . I had to pay for a month now.

[@annortis]

@@Favoritedahmi my prayers you find a good man ,trust in God he will give you that loving and caring all the best sis , waiting for your successful story 🙏🙏💕

[@Favoritedahmi]

@@annortis thank you dear . I can't wait really I am tired of the disappointments. But I am still holding on and believing God.

[@annortis]

@@Favoritedahmi Amen hold on him 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@lisabubbleskatyekele898]

African goodie is diamond imagine people traveling just to enjoy the goodies😂

[@mlolombapapama6243]

Desperation will lead us to difficult situations,but we all learn from our mistakes .

[@sellysang7504]

Hi dear I m married, up n down like ny other long love 32 years in Belgium, but I love your story ❤️ always looking beautiful 😍 🤩 👌 ❣️

[@aijukaadrine4995]

Hello bella,am a new subscriber and on dating apps

[@locgirllifestyle]

This American guy had so many red flags. Poor Lilian, our circumstances can really get the better of us. I myself met a German guy who was always talking about marrying me, meeting me and every sweet words but starting asking for my pictures, (unknown to the mugu, I have my common sense and my Auntie Bella's advice guiding me). 😂😂 These players on online dating, you people will not see heaven. Thank you Lilian for sharing your story with innocent ladies who need to see this and hear all this. God bless you Auntie Bella, for all you do 🙏🏼💝

[@Salvation123..]

Hopefully she gets healing after encountering such a narcissist. There was a lot red flags in this story. Sometimes, we must trace back what hapened in your last relationship & heal before we move on to.tje next relationship. Thanks Bella ❤

[@alicenafula7789]

Oh my gosh 😢😢 he just enjoyed every thing for free 😮 So sorry dear sister but never give up, much Love ❤️ baby girl 💕

[@jjdorothy7866]

Jesus Crist this men 😢😢😢😢😢I thank God our love Dr Bella is here for us ❤❤❤❤❤

[@olivianangobi1746]

Thanks so much dear sister Bella.👏❤️

[@Jesc256]

Sorry dear Lilian may God lead you to the right person and thanks Bella for always sharing with us we love you too ❤❤

[@SharonandFamily]

Wooi Lilian she pass through alot in the past relationships only to meet Max and its another disaster relationship and being used. Glad she ended it with that player. Good she is in a better place, learnt her lessons, wish her all the best🙏🙏

[@lifecoachwithlina1879]

In case you have introduced a man to your family and he turns it off. Just tell your parents that "He died "😂😂😂😂 that will help you avoid shame

[@MunaIbrahim-hq2de]

I know siz this has happened to your move on it's ok it'll past but learn from the past may Allah provide u will the man of your dream may he be with pray .

[@maryasekenye1169]

Thank you for sharing with us lovely story

[@riamhills11]

So sorry to Lillian, may God bless her with her dream husband 🙏

[@MunaIbrahim-hq2de]

When lam in trouble god shows me he,s signs Guys pray alot to god and ask Bella's advice u will be fine inshallah ❤❤❤

[@carolnalujja4003]

But please write God with capital letter

[@MunaIbrahim-hq2de]

Alright siz but I think God isn't ungry with me I forget😢

[@Samiraa2022]

Well come back belaa ❤❤❤let's which story time i am excited 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Missrebecca519]

I once chatted the same guy who told me to pay for an air bnb. I rejected immediately and we ended the relationship right there. In other words this is a shocking story and Lilian for so naive.

[@anitatumeka1466]

❤You are glowing Bella as always stunning

[@NomvulaMaseko-ej3ps]

Thank you for sharing this with us.

[@dayana5513story]

Sorry Lilian everything happened for reason God he will bring right man soon😊God bless you Bella 💖

[@crossjoe1142]

The one who bewitched women died long time ago makes me 😅. We should really change. I changed from not being only online dating, but relocated to An African country where white always visit, behold i always meet different white men but focus only on a British man who's taking our relationship to the next level soon. Take heart lady. Thanks on this video African Bella . Nice share.

[@annortis]

I'm sorry for her ,hope this time it works with God all things are possiblethanks bella ,God bless you ❤❤❤

[@LillianNansubuga-u1z]

Hi everyone from Queen Bella's family

[@nakawooyagrace792]

Sorry dear Lilian imagine to come and just enjoy your goodies some men are hell indeed i pray to God for that new relation to be successful 🙏🙏 Thanks dear Bella for always guiding us love you darling ❤

[@Shei621]

Welcome back Bella

[@CelestineLihavi-rw8kp]

Thank you for leaning more point from you ❤❤❤

[@maureenatieno2876]

Hi beautiful Bella, I met this German man and in the process of us getting to know each other, I decided to ask him about his religion and he told that he is a viking and he hates going to church and he have nothing to do with God.. l ask him if he can convert to Christianity and believe in God like me, he just block me and ask me that who am I to change him

[@Missrebecca519]

😂😂

[@maureenatieno2876]

@@Missrebecca519 what's funny

[@Nonhla293]

You asked what’s funny but you also have a laughing emoji 🤣🤣, my advice dear, it’s difficult for an adult to convert, if he’s not a Christian, move on cause another one may promise to convert but he won’t and you’ll regret your actions of pursuing a relationship with him.

[@Nonhla293]

@@maureenatieno2876I can see you edited and removed it, not a big deal, have a blessed night dear

[@PrincessroviehNambuusi]

Eeeh he was pegan

[@aishapendo4192]

Happy to see you back bella ❤❤

[@VeraEkwa]

Omg I can’t believe Lilian was played by this guy like this!! Never try to impress a guy be yourself and show him the real you. Like Bella said if you like to be spoiled ofcourse which lady doesn’t love that let the man spoil us and beautiful ladies let’s not ignore the red flags and ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN EMPTY WORDS. So sorry for Lilian I hope she had learned her lesson and we all can learn from this. I don’t believe him !! he doesn’t have any cancer just a manipulative way to get Lilian back and used her.

[@Asia-ew9wx]

Eeee i better be patient and wait for God's time than longing so fast to meet someone to talk to just because i am lonely.let me invest in my self, travel even more than ever as i wait for my turn❤.thax Bella

[@Mari-que]

Yes move out do wgat you do , do your part leave your profiles there and let God do the rest .

[@wangarikibunja1475]

My gal Bella, so true tulirogwa.....it's takes so long for a woman to learn but your tips gal are like medicine. One day when I finish this race and get my man we will laugh about all this

[@betsyakoko6810]

Looking good Bella ❤❤❤❤✌️🇰🇪

[@jjdorothy7866]

Hey sis Long time love you soooooooooooo much Bella ❤❤❤❤❤❤😂.

[@memorybanda9277]

Oh poor Lilian she was blinded by those sweet words, the first red 🚩was the booking of a place to stay, he is a player 😂😂😂faking that that he was found with cancer eeeee people can lie even to their own life 😅😅Chai, thanks my dear Bella we have learned something from this sad story, love you always ❤❤❤❤

[@sharonandrews4132]

Thank you for your advice. ❤❤❤

[@chipobenjaminnyahuye4165]

I'm really sorry for Lilian. This guy was full of red flags and she didn't notice that. May God 🙏 bless Lilian with the one. Thank you Bella❤

[@peshpeshgal3796]

I’m really really sorry for Lilian for what she went through. Her eyes are now wide open and by God’s will and His promises upon Lilian, He will send her, her rib. God bless Lilian for sharing her story, God bless Bella for airing it to us and God bless everyone who listened, commented and shared the video 🎉🥳🥰❤️🙏

[@maximr6576]

My wife is Lilian and i am Max. What a coincidence!

[@Missrebecca519]

😂😂😂

[@Nonhla293]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@joskyshams4758]

I have learned a lot today.

[@locgirllifestyle]

😩😩😩😩 When I thought I was going to be the first today 😂😂😂💔💔 I'm second ❤❤

[@africanbellatherealtalk]

😅😅

[@locgirllifestyle]

@@africanbellatherealtalk Great video again Auntie Bella I'm not done with watching but I trust you 😁😊

[@nnennaaroh6268]

So sorry for her. May God bring her real man to her. But please dear Bella how do u differentiate between real engagement ring from fake one. Please I need ur answer

[@alicenafula7789]

Hello bella, hope you feel better now 🙏❤️

[@nassalishamilah3731]

I a always appreciate about your tips madam bella because it's really really helping me may God bless you 😊❣️ and how should I Kno that the ring 💍 is fake 🤔🤥??.

[@MunaIbrahim-hq2de]

Hello sis lots of love ❤❤❤

[@PerisMueni-jw8kt]

Welcome my siz bella

[@MunaIbrahim-hq2de]

U don't need to prove people be u own❤❤

[@halimahassan3031]

Hello Bella hope you are doing fine now❤

[@Mari-que]

Bella welcome backkkkk . Omg these guys 🤣 i think if ine tells me to pay for them i can laugh 😂😂 anyways thank you Bella

[@InahDama]

Sorry 😢Lilian

[@ruthnalumansi719]

I am the first one here

[@MunaIbrahim-hq2de]

Lilian u have my prayers

[@Sasha-ti9xh]

Longtime Bella❤❤❤

[@betsyakoko6810]

Sorry for Lilian one day God will vindicate her she should stay strong and have faith in God as for max he was just out for goodies

[@Thabisa696]

Hello Bella ❤️❤️❤️

[@carolinechebon4513]

I'm sorry for Liliana,,but now she is here with Bella she will be safe❤❤,now she knows what are red flags 😅😅

[@anitatumeka1466]

When a guy talks of being diployed this and that. It's a red flag

[@evanakiboneka862]

This guy used Lillian's naivety to fool her and so sad taking her goodies. Someone wastes your time like that with even a fake ring ☹️☹️☹️☹️. We should always be patient and never ignore the red flags.

[@PrincessroviehNambuusi]

Sorry Lilian but buying food in restaurant was big red flags me i just leave u immediately there sagala kamanyiro nze omwana wo muganda

[@faridahmaghanga2070]

Waah things women go through 😮

[@africanbellatherealtalk]

Ni a lot

[@maggiemakapa2820]

I am on time😂

[@pedzyjim7194]

Hello bella

[@fridahmachilima6940]

Happy to see you bella Im asking if I can talk to you

[@betsyakoko6810]

With that max I couldn't ask he was just out to use Lilian

[@ericaanna288]

Black American men ni Moto wa kuotea bali ,I come across one online oh my goodness that man his bad attitude was of another level I chatted with him only 1 week I listened to him all iwas seing ni red flag though sio wote wabaya but the majority they are not good

[@PrincessroviehNambuusi]

Sorry Lilian but buying food in restaurant was big red flags me i just leave u immediately there

[@usertopista6633]

Max was so manipulative and a total user. Hopefully Lilian overcame all the traumas and she has healed so far.

[@sellysang7504]

In Belgium 🇧🇪

[@betsyakoko6810]

Max was like reesa Tessa ligion Mr. Big promises and empty words

[@vivianrono-dh4ox]

Which that dating site which is free

[@nakayizarose1766]

Men from America are not easy ladies be care full about them

[@joskyshams4758]

Dear ladies, dating is not mating.

[@aunedaisy]

Paying only for his food ? For me once I see that I cry and quit already I won't even sit on the same table with him its over! What a selfish man he is.

[@pamelanyandiga4595]

Number 2 red flag was he didn't introduce her to his family

[@malliahkoolzvitex3145]

This Max is really ungrateful 😔

[@siduduzileennieskhosana7858]

Hie Bella

[@selmaelago6621]

From my experience any man online telling you that he is an engineer, army, my sister, run for your life. Run faaaaast, don't look back

[@jacklinenjambi4450]

That's was a thief.

[@varaidzongara5257]

Online dating is not for the faint hearted hahahahahaha its not easy woo

[@harriet7303]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@gracegifty6845]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@SHARONMULAA]

😮😮😮

[@jacklinenjambi4450]

He was coming to use her again

[@betsyakoko6810]

That Max was a manupulating liilian

[@lionidakirochi9863]

Bella the came for free tour and taking goodies . for me I can't pay for accommodation for the guy

[@Lungiandcaro]

I wonder why we are so obsessed with wanting white men? Why can't we ask God to give us our significant other....it's so sad how we have become

[@Nonhla293]

It was written on the screen while Bella was talking, it says Max was a black American man

[@africanbellatherealtalk]

@conylicious7619 Yes dear he was a black American guy.

[@Lungiandcaro]

@@africanbellatherealtalk thank you for the correction 🙏