WHEN IS IT THE RIGHT TIME TO LEAVE || HCPOD

Chucks & Po Discuss in their unique way; why people find it so difficult to leave relationships, how death effects other peoples interactions & Apple's outrageous top 100 albums of all time list!
TimeStamps
01:20 - When is it right to separate from somebody??
49:50 - Peoples reaction to death
1:09:39 - Drake's reference tracks
1:26:40 - Would Drake be where he is without culture?
1:47:00 - Apple's Top 100 Album OF ALL TIME ?!?!?!

[@michmariie]

I believe Poet's perspectives on relationships is shaped from trauma of course, but also the privilege of having such a wide community of friends that fill voids that most seek out in romantic relationships. If he didn't have that privilege, his reactions to being numb with the opposite gender would differ. Obvs Chuckie has loads of friends too but he's a lover boy, so it would differ. Love you guys :)

[@justanotherviewer00]

Chuckie is real for that

[@dollymoss4439]

Chuckie is also manipulative because he won’t wife her but will have strong feelings and communicate clearly and not get the kindness answer and stay.

[@YouCantSayThat]

Poet needs to go therapy and unpack all his demons or he will end up dying alone and full of regrets. The truth of a lot of men is we are so good at hiding trauma we indirectly hurt people around us and hide the pain with laughs and jokes it’s so unhealthy.

[@brickhertzrec]

Just when you think Poets about to land at Heathrow, he ends up in Luton🧐😂

[@KWTA]

Where’s chuckles female bredrin that he used to call 🤔🤣

[@kanthony9154]

He finally chopped it🔥

[@TYSHAAA]

Was Calum's disappearance from the pod ever explained? Is he just busy doing other stuff? Whats this other guys name? Also, I swear they said 'HCPod' was a temporary name - is it permanent now? - I know it's been a while but I need closure cos it crosses my mind every time I watch 😂😂😂

[@thatguy2.09]

Got tired of poets racism

[@warren5202]

Yeah he and Poet had a fall out, still does stuff with Chuckie though outside of this pod

[@demonslayer9101]

@@warren5202 Source on that?

[@Joeonline26]

@@warren5202 Not suprising. Poet is just an outright racist. Bro has issues.

[@unknowng888]

Calum’s voice was smooth (no diddy) and he added some good insight to the conversation

[@NinetysEra]

Love you guys (pause), love this pod, but I can’t lie, I’m 10 minutes in and through everything that’s been said can only hear two man that are only just short of 40 sugar coating the fact that they don’t want to tie down one woman and want to hide behind excuses.

[@abby5695]

Honestly this is what I always feel when I hear their relationship conversations. Even the one where poet was discussing why he wouldn’t get married sounded weird

[@NinetysEra]

@@abby5695 I think they forget sometimes that there are thousands of viewers that see through what gets said lol, but at the same time, I understand that content is needed in order to pod.

[@beammeupscottyny]

Kinda want them to touch upon why this is so common amongst British born Caribbean men. I kinda already know the answer but they need to unpack why they’re so scared of commitment.

[@DW-py4up]

⁠@@beammeupscottynynot wanting commitment and being scared of it are two different things.

[@NinetysEra]

@@beammeupscottyny this would probably be avoided due to the fact that they’d have to be open about their own personal lives. I feel the answers that they’d give would stem from something that happened a long time ago, maybe from when they were teenagers in fact, but it shouldn’t take up to the age of 40 to get over it - depends what it is mind.

[@thatguy2.09]

Poet is nearly 40 n proud of dating with no purpose. His parents failed him

[@rbh9694]

You talk like you know the guy

[@thatguy2.09]

@@rbh9694 he said he doesn't care if the girl pammin next man. Your ears don't work?

[@eugene1leroy]

Nah his parents did not fail him. If anything he is failing himself as he a big man you can't blame parents for everything

[@thatguy2.09]

@@eugene1leroy not blaming them for everything. Having a purpose is just 1 teaching. Life is broader than 1 subject matter. Hes had his heartbreaks and regrets etc like everyone else and I'm assuming hes scared of repeat

[@Joeonline26]

Fatherless generation. What can I say man?

[@queenirmamay]

Lying in a relationship, no, don't do it. We never lied to each other 37 years no cheating, and it was hard to keep it fresh he gone now RIP ALAN

[@laxpmanagement]

Good pod!! Both need healing and let the past go. I can hear that, they Still feeling heartache from the past relationships and can’t let the past go. That’s why both of them are not ready for commitment. It’s a lot easier blaming others. But…. Not fixing yourself and being real with yourself 🙏🏿

[@justanotherviewer00]

Poet talking about being not emotionally attached is WILD! is this how some men think cause thats scary???

[@andredrayton5668]

Could you timestamp the part which you’re talking about?

[@silewis9396]

​@@andredrayton5668Starts around 23:55

[@MrClinicaltiming]

Fling this on the TV and time to kick back and enjoy, you know the vibes ❤

[@water851]

Chucklie and Poe blessing a good one on this blessed Sunday.

[@GZMJr]

Grown Children

[@thatguy2.09]

Chuckie hasn't grown since yr 2

[@GZMJr]

@@thatguy2.09 Yikes 😂 that was brutal‼️

[@Eziopct]

I’m suggesting that the guy in the back recieves a mic, it’s a bad listening experience everytime he talks without a mic. Love the pod still!

[@jeremiemoludi]

Sunday afternoon sorted 😌👌🏿

[@Joeonline26]

Chuckie, all we want is a pod with Dan breaking down the Fury v Usyk fight. Is this too much to ask my bro?

[@earloflonsdale9639]

Legit

[@thatguy2.09]

Waste of his time. Chuckie n poet don't understand violence/boxing

[@Joeonline26]

@@thatguy2.09 Where did I mention Poet?

[@thatguy2.09]

@@Joeonline26 don't need to . Hc pod is chucks n po.

[@Joeonline26]

@@thatguy2.09 HC pod is Chuckie as far as I'm concerned. If Poet never made another appearance it would still be too soon.

[@Project-Aries]

Great pod always. I am a bit worried that both you at your age treat relationships with women, like children. You guys know the 12 jewels. You both know how to communicate well. You both know a good girl when you meet one. Regardless of how you perceive a woman, both of you have more respect than to call any woman a bitch for real. Really think about it. You are some good guys. All that cool fly shit sounds hot, but I know you both can be better. I know you are better. Love is beautiful. It's out in the world waiting for you. I promise it doesn't need to come with drama. It all falls on us, as men, and how we choose them. Salute

[@BM_624N7]

R.I.P to all the loved ones lost🙏🏾🕊

[@sillynamereally]

not all of them

[@ismailsayid6970]

Silly yute ​@@sillynamereally

[@contentBebop]

While the negative comments do contain truth, life is hard and judgment is easy. Bigup you guys for being aware and vulnerable with the world, appreciate it.

[@aura-kl]

It's the right time to leave when disrespect is the only way you're able to communicate or evoke emotion because good feelings are only opportunities to get caught with your guard down... 😮‍💨

[@SoulowDoughLo]

I needed to hear this one here!!!! Love this pod so much!

[@AM_9924]

Michael Jackson - Thriller should have been No.1 no question. That album changed the landscape of music and is still the best selling album of time.

[@thedoncjg6263]

Another one let’s go 🙏🏻

[@Muntw.2.0]

The timing for this one is good. 😂

[@inserviceofthesublime]

Great podcast guys! touched on something very important here for the community

[@sweetboyFUT]

I was hopeful that this was Poet's resignation episode after seeing the title but alas.

[@Joeonline26]

We can only hope its not far away bro. Sick of this guy

[@rachelwaite9490]

Ooof just listened to this one and i was shook!! I always like listening to your perspectives on topics but I was sat there like 😬 yikes. There is no hope. Makes me want to run far far away from men and never look back 😭😭

[@justanotherviewer00]

I dont understand why men can't just be real from the get go of what their intentions are and where they stand.

[@unknowng888]

Chuckie pronounces Kanye as “Kun-yeh” 😂😂😂

[@JanaAlsarhid]

This podcast can’t be replicated!!👑

[@netmonkey8336]

Po said, “with me, you’re not going back to the girls” 😂😂😂😂😂😩😩

[@Duhitsanti]

Such great convo

[@petersbawa]

Gangdem in sesh🥳

[@Torriotorres]

My younger bro is struggles with mental health, and is in and outta jail. Im a big man though, and leading my family, the old and young. Gotta be strong for them, even though my lil bro is gone in that way right now.

[@BM_624N7]

1:17:19 Isn't giving us the new seasons of top boy paying homage?

[@sillynamereally]

how mich do you think he did 😂 it was coming anyway

[@BM_624N7]

@sillynamereally They where trying for 7 years and got nowhere until he stepped in, or am I wrong?

[@btj7295]

The actors themselves have said it never would have happened if not for drake

[@khhaos865]

@@BM_624N7na you’re right

[@Dwayne3007]

Nah, I just clocked Poets shoes. Badman 😂

[@Nexplorer0000]

Damn Poet spitting in this boy

[@jamal9167]

Everything poet said about drake is spot on

[@liamlezama-johnson6639]

1:30:07 poet I'm not trying to hate or be rude but do you actually listen to Eminem?

[@hitmeyuyu]

i'm currently in the same situation right now between two women.

[@queenirmamay]

WHEN YOU ARE SKINNY TO F COLD

[@Rye4561]

1:47:44 Ushen & Tyler Swift 😭

[@queenirmamay]

Preach 37 year's with him me on one's now

[@jordanjones7043]

Leme go bill it

[@Dude_Named_Rece]

Poet is on the money it’s all ego you don’t own or owe each other anything just sharing time on earth tbh.

[@netmonkey8336]

Chuckie said “we do that” 😅😅😅 who’s we my guy. Speak for yourself bruv lol

[@aneestv497]

Very good chat 🤌🏾

[@jayhavi8691]

That’s real 💯

[@deathofexhale]

Tyler Swift :DDDD

[@dollymoss4439]

The bear 🫠

[@BloomerPandora]

Davis Edward Hall Cynthia Lewis Anthony

[@T.T7934]

59:53 ✅

[@gustose6]

Chuck is podding

[@lisajosephs5608]

I appreciate Poets honesty about relationships. Just like cooking everyone does there ting a lil bit different. The world would be boring if everyone was the same.

[@amfff219]

When the hell was poet such a big drake hater 😅🤣

[@RGMislam]

Poet needs to act his age

[@dazza818]

Drake is dj khalid in final form

[@Traxxworld]

He’s a victim he’s a victim lol

[@pierrepennaneach2963]

poet knows what he's saying in regards to drake man icl

[@MsDarkie93]

It’s crazy because from the comments you can see their audience is maturing and growing up but these two are having the same conversations I hear my 25 year old brother discussing

[@T.T7934]

56:51 ✅

[@enapng]

i feel like a lot of guys want the wife the kids the house etc but actually dont know what it takes edit: but at the same time some guys may think thats what they want but in reality (based on their actions) thats not what they want.

[@adilimaturlu8431]

1:59:51 I love how Chuckie knows how to trigger Po 😂😭

[@RupertPupkin-z1r]

Aubrey’s only mixed and poet hates him it’s like the one drop rule in reverse lol

[@RudyRudes18]

That first convo put me in full rollercoaster mode 😂