When it reaches a point u have to choose between your wife n your mother😭😭This was so painful

[@claremasmoraa1974]

The fact that random people can meet stevo a stranger in the street and open up instantly says alot abt him, go bigman

[@METRINEKAFU]

It shows how people are going through alot in the name of marriages ......

[@professorfrancismitulya5700]

This lady should get out of this so called marriage. Your dignity is more important than marriage.

[@BettyKagume]

Ati huyu dame anafulia sister in law nguo hadi za ndani. Huku nje mko na nguvu sana. Nijikute walai! Heri tupigane vita ya mwili.

[@agnesmueni655]

Hta za kiroho tutapingana.. Hta pants like seriously..

[@maurinemaina9653]

Nitapiga mtu walai na nizichome

[@evalynelomelo8964]

Sahi ningekua ndani kamiti..hata na dawa siwezi fua

[@julietkamene7371]

Wacha ata kuosha nguo nasikia anaisha plot walai kwanza mimi nguo sioshi zangu ntaoshea watu Mungu nisaidie

[@galaxyqwer7438]

Nijikute

[@iamkikiee]

We respect mother in laws but kuna boundaries

[@chullakoi8803]

Kabisa mm siwezi kubali yf apitie situation ka hii NEVER

[@ruthmwendwa4198]

@@chullakoi8803 bravo that's being a real man

[@paulpraise02]

Ak some issues are too much ,to unextend

[@Mariahthequeen]

How can such a beautiful woman live in such unhappy situation? Can never be me. She deserves much better

[@kadzo6614]

​@@SmartClean-tr2bq*co-asks. She is so myopic*

[@jeanetteatieno3514]

She is very beautiful, if given another chance of happiness in tht marriage u cannot believe she will be the one. Ps her heart is also beautiful how many of us tunaweza vumilia this treatment

[@AnythngnEvrythng]

So uende umtoe basi

[@elltech]

Haujaskia kijana aliachiwa apartment?alafu una expect mwanamke atoke ata kama anadharauliwa😂

[@margaretnabwire3718]

I have one child- son. I respect the girl friend because she may end up as a daughter in law. This has made us friends she has the key to my house and we respect each other's boundary. When my son is with her I don't interfere with their time. When my son is with me she does not interfere. When the three of us are together we do not over shadow each other.

[@jacksonngulu6653]

Mwaume ni sauti broo. You must be protective to your wife kabisa,na uache umama, how on this earth a adult like you allow your mother to an extent of buying you a boxer??

[@oliveromwange1310]

Hapa hakuna mwanaume

[@monalisakenya6101]

😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@salomenewsome4188]

They borrow kupelekea mganga. I know someone who did that to my relative then she got exposed to be a witch

[@Travel-withnjugunas1624.]

True never allow your wife to be undermined with your family

[@tonnyndundahse69]

This woman deserves respect, peace is very important, she still has a bright future

[@leahwanjiru1004]

We desperately need a follow up on this 🤔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@benardsnell6872]

The day this lady will get a job or someone who will take her serius, the way she talks maturely and deems focus plus her defense mechanism is 👌👌she will go and never look back...

[@anthonymichweya5800]

As a man you can only earn respect from your parents when you stand for your family by moving out of family plot

[@la-ry1ms]

If your woman wants to isolate you from your support system that's a bad bitch let her go

[@abigaelomolo]

ehe @@la-ry1ms

[@carrymm6066]

Huyu msichana si ajitoe coz haya madharau ni mengi,this guy will never draw boundaries

[@ngenyveronicah9073]

A real man NEVER hurts a woman. A woman came out of Man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on..Not from his head to be superior, ..But from his side to be equal..under the Arm to be protected, and next to the HEART to be LOVED❤

[@georgejuma9221]

You have nailed it.😢😅

[@kelvinmwanzia5857]

Usiwahi tupea advice tena wewe..hujui Hawa daughters of jezebel

[@linetshijeti1992]

Exactly majority of men who hurt women are narsists , immature

[@wamaithaemily1869]

​@@kelvinmwanzia5857😂😂😂😮

[@susannyambura8357]

Agreed

[@ngenyveronicah9073]

Sad that, sometimes when people noticed that you're desperate not to be alone, they offer you their worst part of themselves 😢😢

[@Chrissy14]

Man stand up for your family.

[@LL.K111]

This girl is very right 💯 %

[@manchesterunitedfc9579]

The dude is so weak😢.... protect ya family dude ,story na mamako achana nayo

[@rahmarooney4519]

Weee boy child muoe mamako...how dare she🤔eti mother inlaw anaingia hadi bed room hana hata akili😏😏😏

[@leonardrono3868]

This guy is useless the lady is beautiful and hard working she deserves the best guy.

[@beautifulmind1177]

Mumu

[@marykemunto3250]

This gal has been dying slowly,,,thanks Steve for saving such souls

[@kamwaraeric5743]

If you cannot keep boundaries between your wife and your relatives, then you are not ready for marriage.

[@la-ry1ms]

A woman should market herself to your folks after all she the one joining your family if she can't given the surplus of females all over let her go

[@ChristineNzyoka]

I support you 100%

[@naftalynaff7811]

You should never even dream of marriage leave alone readiness

[@marymbugua8875]

I feel for this lady. I too have a toxic relationship with my inlaws.....all sisters and their mother. They control everything like they are all married to their bro.

[@ruthmwendwa4198]

Your patience gal, is on another level I can't entertain some nonsense

[@SarahOuma-z4z]

Even me

[@bettyngonga4999]

some ladies go through a lot in marriage

[@user-fz3dg2fr6bl]

Kuvumilia tuu

[@wairimuwaihwa2475]

They are just Strong....

[@sophiasophie55]

Nilipitia hayo but Nika murife 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️

[@beatriceokello9047]

Haki

[@vikeke1782]

U choose to be married sawa

[@margaretkihwaga255]

This lady is a gem. Kufulia sisters in law nguo?Hata kama hawampendi wangempa respect akae na bwanake.Watamhitaji sana in future wakati kijana amezeeka na Hana bibi.

[@vivalynechepkoech9150]

This lady is beautiful in mind and also physically. This figure of hers deserves someone who gives her peace.May the Lord see her through .

[@rozalwingo2091]

What a beautiful lady you deserve better mama😢😢

[@terrencemeel1905]

We have a pandemic nowadays of very weak men, with beards, wearing trousers but no masculine substance, this guy is a good example of one. Man up boy!!

[@shamalalycious]

The description 😂😂😂😂😂 Weueeeeeeh

[@favourmuchmore7116]

Very mature young girl who deserves better.

[@tabithawandia8564]

Stevo please follow this story and let this girl understand her worth! Her value isn't measured with money or the apartment, let her understand that she can just leave and hustle for her and her kid, God will walk with her

[@kennar012]

yes please. follow this story. haiwezi ends ivo

[@Kiwangorobert31]

True follow up

[@judessunna]

Some women are so determined to their marriage and family that they are so protective to an extent of keeping away or avoiding phones to avoid issues in marriage. She's a good lady,needs support and protection from the husband.

[@terrylangat9448]

Please leave that family, God will provide for you and your child.

[@njorogethiru6083]

A lengthy courtship helps identify such red flags that includes cowardice in marriage. Its quite unfair treating anybody's Daughter like that.

[@sheilaalice811]

Always listen to your instincts dear ladies they are always right

[@gakiimiriti9809]

Unaitwa malaya na mother inlaw na bado uko kwa hiyo familia 😢😢😢jipende Mami and move on.

[@veronicakimii339]

Kabisa,,kwani Ako desperate aje😢

[@josephkwida6824]

Mamas boy.. Kwani lazima uishi kwa nyumba ya family... Sister pack your stuff and run for ur life

[@mammseymimi711]

Mimi kama nyar wagwe CAN NEVER BE ME😒 mother in law ajuwe sote tumekuja kwa wenyewe so atulie, tuwe humble as a team, kilichomleta ndo kimenileta😎

[@shazzysymon6835]

"Dont Worry about anything,but in all your prayers ask God for what you need, always asking him with a thankful heart.🙏Leave all your troubles to God today.

[@francismakuno8643]

The man needs to get his balls together and get the hell from the mothers cacoon😂😂

[@MishenOnMission]

I can tolerate mum in-law alitle, I said alitle, please understand alitleeee😂😂😂... Sister in-law for who😅😅😅😅

[@JoyFlorence-tc9vx]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@eddahwamboi7683]

😂😂😂

[@nelvinawino9196]

Mm sai mtu mmoja angekua ICU😂

[@shiksjustin]

I was once in this situation 😢😢😢i had to run away, i pitty this lady i know what she's saying and going through at the same time

[@cyndiehnyashiroz4630]

Gal u will be blessed money is not marriage peace of mind and respect suits all.....Gal just pray and move on pona utarudi kazini kuishi pekee yako si kifo utasurvive and its very sweet and peaceful

[@PhilomenaMUthoni-q9h]

Ndoa sio jela jameni we need peace

[@dennydenny3665]

Napenda my mum but siwezi kubali aingililie mke wangu to an extend anapasua simu ya mke wangu.Inshort my mum hawezi kuja kukaa kwangu we have cultures and bounderies

[@Blessing462]

I was wondering same thing, my culture haiwezi ruhusu mother inlaw from both genders walale under same roof na daughter or son inlaw😢

[@millykeran9234]

This is why you should watch out for Mama's boys 😢.Ata he doesn't care about how hurt her feelings are , so sad

[@fredrickokumu6396]

Don't forget you too will have sons and daughters so it is universal😢

[@monalisakenya6101]

Mama's boy hukera sana, hawana msimamo wowote lazima waambiwe kila kitu na mama

[@millykeran9234]

​@@fredrickokumu6396 Of course I know that . And because of that I wouldn't want that to happen

[@Wilky254]

Hooooo noooo ooo 😢😢😢some families it's a Nooo... This is mama's boy... Let those sisters Inlaw not cleaning even their own panties get married then... Sisters to the husband come with such rotten witchcraft behavior.. That's a bewitched family run for your life. Love despite them having maybe Mali.. It's a Nooo... Wanakuonea wivu coz you're very beautiful with nice shape... Na huyu kijana isn't mature enough for you.. Anakaa too Naive if not amesubaaa /kusubaishwa na mamake.. Ukweli usemwe.. Go marry your mother.. And manup

[@ramadhanel-rashid1741]

Watching from Dar es Salaam. The Men is very weak. Kwetu tunawaita Nunda.

[@fridahnkatha9589]

Msichana makosa ni yako the moment you went for introduction ukaulizwa uliokotwa wapi you could have terminated the relationship immediately! You saw red flags but you ignored because uliona mali now see 🙈 you are not happy! That's a toxic mother in law 😭 then Hiyo kufuliwa watu maguu i can instead burry them kwa matope then nianike!! If you really love your wife move to another place afadhali hata muanze kulipa rent!! Kijana you now have your life the moment you brought your wife ungejitenga na wao stay far from your family!! Keep a distance kabisa meet them when necessary!

[@patrickomondi4863]

Don't blame the victim. She had to be positive and hopeful for her husband

[@samuelmuiriru]

Tusheme mzee akufe..uyo dame ata fukuzwa uko

[@fenikjaheda8326]

These are the men of these days. No backbone whatsoever! How can a mother break a daughter in law’s phone?

[@fridahnkatha9589]

@@patrickomondi4863 nothing like that!! Mimi siwezi ulizwa niliokotwa wapi nirudi kwa Hiyo Boma mapema ndiyo best!

[@fridahnkatha9589]

@@samuelmuiriru kabisa!

[@millicentesther1315]

Baby gal don’t be blinded by the riches sijui apartments they own respect and inner peace are key and if they don’t respect u neither do u get peace in the marriage walk away

[@SarahOuma-z4z]

True

[@jeniffer2738]

Dear ladies, learn to retain your dignity when single, once you visit such family and red flags of in-laws don't show respect, just know marriage shall be worse,if partner doesn't protect before marriage never dare. Ignoring red flags is buying problems to yourself being single mother soonest. This calibers aren't worth living with,must you live with in-laws? If you rushed ignoring red flags see results,si ungejitoa coz you saw during introduction ala

[@tuk_talk]

Huskii kijana akona apartment... 😅... That changes all the red flags into white

[@jeniffer2738]

@@tuk_talk person owning chopper from parents can't Bragg for me owning my wheelbarrow,Subaru huvuta njeri,wenyewe huvutwa na subira hawaoni mashida

[@loiceWangila-qb4hu]

Young man, the family you create is more important than the family you come from

[@barygarcia3128]

Damu ni mzito kuliko maji. Hakuna kitu unanyamba hapa

[@juliewambui2618]

Blood is thicker than water.

[@la-ry1ms]

You wife is not and will never been your relative

[@timothyithalii5821]

True

[@Wilky254]

Huyu amesubaa sanaaa.. He'll never marry and have his life... Ni malale sanaaaa..

[@xavierowino]

BMS, do followup so we can know how they resolved it.

[@erickimla8222]

True

[@CarolineMutiso-rb3lx]

We pia kama unapitia hii yote kwanini usitoke uende kwenu.mbona uteseke hivo na wewe ni mrembo.then wacha kutumia hiyo word akaoe mamake respect huyo mama pia

[@odhiambogriona5325]

I feel you girl,I go through all that ,take heart keep praying all will go well

[@Wilky254]

Na alifanyiwa cs na wanamufanyisha kazi kama hizo... Hooo noooo..

[@josephinenthoki6659]

Girl, run!! Mummies boy will never grow up and will never change. Meanwhile have boundaries with his people!! Hapo hakuna ndoa 😢

[@bikoflavious2903]

This is so sad from a mother in law ...she really crossed ⚔️ the boundaries This guy has failed as a man ... A MAN SHOULD PROTECT AND DEFEND HIS WIFE your wife is not your slave Young lady please run for your life those people Don't love you

[@dorcaskanyi4515]

Waaa gal... you are so patient... please make sure you are not depressed.

[@gokoviolet9570]

Thanking my kisii husband for creating a boundary... no communication with inlaws we have peace.

[@maggiechez5438]

It feels so bad when mother in law is in control of your marriage juu there will never be peace nor respect 😮😮😮😮

[@aselyne5631]

This is sad maskini,huyu dem ni mpoa and i like the fact that she kept it 💯 Bro straighten up immediately huyu dem ni msupa .The guy clearly loves her very much though ni tu he needs to man up.

[@sharonwangui7786]

Eti mathe anakuaga tu caring 😢😢😢caring my foot ,my dear get out of that house while youre still young kwani wewe ni maid ya familia

[@user-fz3dg2fr6bl]

Napenda mom coz ...she can't betray 😊😊

[@ChrisMuthomi-ir2kg]

Unfortunately she can't build a home for you, so you just balance the two women and put boundaries in place, otherwise both are equally important

[@wamaithaemily1869]

​@@ChrisMuthomi-ir2kg True True,

[@user-fz3dg2fr6bl]

@@ChrisMuthomi-ir2kg very correct indeed

[@winniemayoyo5974]

@@ChrisMuthomi-ir2kg umeongea kama 10 wise men bro🎊🎊🎊🎉

[@christinenkuene4055]

Marry the one who can't betray

[@shishsally5075]

Na wanawake mbona mpitie haya yote namwaendelea tu kuishi huko???? Kwani kwenu mlifukuzwa?? Kwani ile girl power yakusema YES I CAN ilipotelea wapi?? Stop allowing this to eat u 😢QUIT PLEASE 😢

[@mohamedmurunga2880]

This girl child is beautiful and eloquent. Sad that she fell for a sisy.

[@jina253]

Why do people stay in toxic relationships?mo venye spendi kuteseka nitakitoa haraka bila kuangalia nyuma

[@dollyjames7880]

This was my case with my ex husband 😂I had to run😂

[@hotnews2637]

Ata mm ilinfanyikia kwa mum nkahamia tao koz nliona ntaoa sana

[@mulewajoel6552]

You could have made your man trust you

[@mwajumalwingo5469]

@@mulewajoel6552when it get to that point there’s nothing you can do bc even your man will believe his mum more then you no matter what

[@benardsnell6872]

@@dollyjames7880 Hahaa you had to run for your life😂😂

[@chepkiruiwinnie5077]

Keep running. 😂😂😂😂I am right behind you

[@millicentmukoya1292]

Hii ni ujinga mother in laws need to respect ndoa za watoto wao hata kama they love them aje...this is lack of masculity is dangerous na kuuangalia sana ni lack of father figure pia inachangia...huyu anahitaji wips za kibe

[@felixmwanzia9081]

Huyo demu amevumilia mengi,stevoo umefanya vizuri kukutana na huyo demu Ndio aogee hayo yalikuwa kwa moyo wake,Sasa demu ameyatoa machungu moyoni,moyo umeumaa,pole mama

[@beller9304]

My marriage was exactly like that, but I became more tougher than the stupid inlaws Hadi I forced my husband we moved to a good place,bure msichana utaumia

[@olgaogada7868]

Haki woiye, this man loves this lady, mother in law,wewe

[@tonnyndundahse69]

She is so hurt, let her clear her chest, parents should learn to respect and keep boundaries, this guy need to man up, sometimes you need to stand your ground as a man

[@antonynganga7868]

Watoi wa ma Landlords na ladies hua na io challenge,either they're completely overan na wazazi or hao wnyewe wamelalisha tu,Bogus men!

[@JoseMuturi]

They are good for each other they should just locate to new place far away from that wicked mother how can she make her to wash the plot sureley...murife girl for your life😢life is harsh to good people God have mercy

[@moureenkinyeki7880]

Am glad the lady never insulted the mother, jiondoe polepole mama that's a toxic environment

[@catherinewaema9671]

Sister uliona madharau first day mtu hakujui na bado ukaendelea kukaa hadi uzae..... U cld have left that very day

[@EssyEssy-to8yk]

Mother inlaws wengine huharibia watu ndoa mbona mama single bedroom ya kijana wake mwenye ameoa hadi kumununulia boxer? Girl child run hapa heshima imekosekana jipebreak wajue value yako na usirudi kuwaoshea pants ziache hapo alaa😢

[@arthurg.mcqueen64]

Indeed there be so much that be going on with them relationships that many don't know. First and foremost my appreciation for the good work that you do Man Steve. This episode helped out a lady open up wholeheartedly what has been going on with her but all we can hope for is for the guy to understand & wake up from his ignorance and set them necessary BOUNDARIES in his house. A mum's last love is her son but she ought or rather mums ought to understand that they sons got lives to live with they choose as their wives. Boundaries and RESPECT should be the key ingredient to both in that family set up relationship. As a man you need to make yourself understood that you can make them choices and make them right decisions without allow no third party in the picture to intervene. Personally I'm not vouching for the guy nor am I excusing the mum's behaviour but she be the way she is because her son allows him to do so. If he's to take charge I'm dead ass sure the mums gonna lead him take charge cause he's proven he can do it.

[@everlynewamere7063]

Wow 😢😢itabidi awe jet Lee kwahiyo family kwanza aanze nahao masisters zake wamukime asiwaonyeshe eti ako desparet

[@stanleymburu6013]

A parent will always manipulate a son who hasn’t proven a stable foundation as a man whether he marries or not.This beautiful lady wants her husband to be real in life.

[@vikeke1782]

Single mothers raise those men sawa

[@Faluthe]

"Your Mum is the only woman who works for your survival, all others are working for their own survival" - Mike Tyson

[@la-ry1ms]

And downfall 😊

[@JOProductions955]

His mother is a control freak! She should leave her son live his life! Where on earth did you see a mother buying her married son underwear?!! Man take control of your life! Your mother should not be inspecting your bedroom!

[@Lizkeen1945]

Wait until it's your sister 😢

[@emazjassam2452]

Not true as aman you leave your parents house and go out start your home with your spouse... Even the Bible says that mom is mom and wife is a wife this man is not a man

[@Faluthe]

​@@emazjassam2452a lot of evidence to prove Mike Tyson's quote right with exceptions of course. Some work, some don't.

[@iqtarab535]

Difference between mother in-law and sister in-law is TIME 🥴🥴 otherwise all are visitors in that compound because One come early and another later so respect is The priority 😔🙄🥴

[@eddahwamboi7683]

Did you mean daughter in-law or sister in-law? Yenyewe we are tomorrow's mother in-law😂😂

[@ericngatia7715]

Woi. This lafy is strong. Bro be yourself don't loose this woman. Jipange uondeke kwenu

[@shadrackomondi2701]

Ooooya! Big up to mum, kuna kitu mum ameshaona from far yenye hatuwezi ona hata tukipanda juu ya mawingu..mother akisema left , right, center, sounth .

[@theinfinitymatrix.]

This man lacks masculinity. I pity him

[@evalynemuthoni3510]

true weh😂he aint an alpha man

[@SarahOuma-z4z]

True

[@albertsmith8744]

Boiz solution ni tafuta keja place ingine n from there you will see respect ikirudi coz u love ya family n u can't hate ya mum.

[@chemutaijaneth568]

Such a beautiful lady aki,run baby girl wacha aoe mamake

[@bernardmbai7704]

Enyewe msee wee hapanaa ,,,,acha ufalaaa,,,,, protect familia yako ama uoe sista zako aiii

[@eliasnjuki5508]

This man needs to style up,,,,Apache kujifanya ngombe

[@murymih]

The mark of a real man is making independent decisions, protecting what he has chosen without giving excuses or complaining. Unfortunately this boy lacks all of them. 🤔

[@njerucate]

Avoid them at all cost, na if u don't share compound u are more luckier

[@murymih]

@@njerucate whether in the same compound or not, a real man should protect his woman.

[@geoffreyngesa6804]

To be honest this lady ameshachoka.Sioni hii kitu ikilast. Men dont subject your wives to this level of torture.

[@VayoVie]

Bms,follow up Pliz that Mama is hurting Seriously..And Weeh hana peace,mum's boy +Sister's in-law,umekua Maid,wao,Matusi na Madharau apo Sasa ata haieleweki,mbona hauleftingi Why?? Vitu Zingine Zinataka God's intervention..Alot of Missing gaps in the Story....

[@ericnyamasyo150]

Effects of mama's boy... Mummie, get out of this family and begin your family

[@gabrielowenga648]

I'm tired of hiding...I'm SIMO , the one BMS always call during "introductions.

[@rnmtv7818]

Mali sio kila kitu, amani kwa mtu ni kila kitu. If this man is not ready to change madam run for your life. Your future is more bright madam than them I can confirm.

[@annderrick21]

Woiee nmehurumia huyu dame aki,anaumia ndani ya moyo juu hana wakumtetea,hapa kwa BMS ndipo amepata nafasi ya kujiexpress.. God heal this marriage aki.

[@faithwanjiru1159]

This is a beautiful woman .....huyo mother in law ni wivu anaona dem atakula mali.mimi ningekula vizuri siwezi apeleke ujinga uko

[@faithmbithe1712]

Mimi Kuna upumbavu zingine siezi fanya ati nifulie in- laws not unless their sick but aje sasa

[@mweefezzymwee4994]

Siwezi wafulia hta kma wanaumwa,,keeeeeee😂😂😂mm tna teee,,,

[@fridahndungenzaumi6591]

Walk out young lady... find a job and take care of your baby.. Peace is everything

[@mdhulumiwa.mpenda.vurugu]

Matako wewe!!! Uwezi niambia nimeoa mamangu. Matako sana...

[@brendahmulongo5494]

Hii n balaaa😢😢😢😢....siezi fulia mtu nguo aaaaiiiiiii

[@Martha-w6h]

Mm nilienda siku ya kwanza nikaona redfrag we sema nilikua na ball but nikajipea shuguli hadi waleo ma kind ako na 12yrs na baba yao hajawahi marry na mm nilimove on so surely wazazi hukosea sana

[@Notyei]

When a man loves& treats you correctly, the rest of the people around him will do the same to you.

[@stevenmutumbu2860]

This was the the Comment was waiting to see hesima huwa wanamupea Automatically If you show them including your Siblings that you don't love and care your Better half they will starts Disrespecting her.