When it's too hard to make someone feel better

[@trarags]

Watch my newer skit😂👉🏾 kzbin.info/www/bejne/gWPGqXiMoNWJp9ksi=OCOZWNtJXLkvy0S3

[@amreannaj.]

If you keep us up to date even in your latest skit you deserve the 1.34mil subscribers

[@lazy210-f4j]

Ok

[@phatmantv]

"Walrus belly button" 💀💀💀

[@JadeKing-r4x]

​@@amreannaj.11a

[@zhcultivator]

This is honestly I have felt when trying to comfort my Sister.

[@luvpalm]

“ get in the shower and try to get a sparkle out of life “ 😭😭

[@Soldier4C]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@boundlessblade5205]

Then the ball can get rolling 😂😭😂😭😂😭

[@u2bozzi871]

Lowkey spitting 📠

[@bayek9869]

“Take one tic tac and put it in your mouth and get a BANG out of life” -Martin Lawrence 😂

[@SalemArc]

*"Truer love hath no man than this, that he would tell the homie to stop being a bitch."*

[@driptoohardjimtropf6759]

*"Stop Bitching!!!"* That was so real the DARK Spirits left His Body immediatly 💀

[@StoneyBoi0613]

Immediately*

[@nyebellwether8194]

🤣🤣🤣 then the soundtrack in the back 🔥🔥🤣🤣

[@lorenzorodriquez8730]

😂😂😂 frfr them spirits left immediately 🤣 🤣

[@SaimesierP]

Real men advice

[@Random-n7f4e]

It's not even bitching. Some people get so depressed they can't try.

[@vankleiss4946]

He wasn’t even sad he just wanted to argue😂

[@vtaylor21]

Type sh*t

[@gsmoke9630]

That’s how it sometimes

[@SBkeezyFrmTheCoast]

@@gsmoke9630ain’t Neva lied

[@Bearded_one1]

Nah ah

[@dmuzik3740]

😂😂😂

[@dakidmensah]

"Oh word good, cause I got next" is devious 😂

[@Dupree109]

Comedy

[@Lady_D27]

The way he slid that in there 😂😂

[@GrandStyles]

"Start with a shower" is actually some real ass advice tho lmao

[@CrescentMoonboi]

"Type shi, type shi" Bro really started agreeing about giving up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏🙏

[@OpticPotatoOP]

that shit killed me 😂

[@shorttwinntv6471]

@@OpticPotatoOPdead ass I was weak asf

[@MvsterWayne]

Thats how you know he reached the ultimate level of “fk it” 😂😂

[@visualizetheunexpected2200]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Glotraa]

looking for this comment😂😂😂😂

[@raventaurus08]

“Sittin in the shadows like you’re Batman and shii” 😂

[@Fitlife4L]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@maosenju5444]

Had me crying😂​@@Fitlife4L

[@Fitlife4L]

@@maosenju5444 hell yeah 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mrankles7465]

😂😂😂

[@mrankles7465]

ROFL 🤣

[@monisology]

" Smelling like a Walrus belly button" made my belly button weak 😭😭😂😂😂

[@sG_Paradise]

??

[@bubbakushii]

@@sG_Paradisefrom laughing hard because he thought that line was really funny

[@-R.E.D.A.C.T.E.D-]

Man I thought he said a "warm belly button" 😂

[@RabidGummyBear]

On a side note........why your belly button weak 😏✊️. What you tryna get in to?

[@redflame300]

Your belly button huh...😮

[@geeohard]

“Oh life been punching down on you? Oh alright cause I got next” 😂😂😂

[@Elaine-zh7oc]

He's going to help him though. 😊

[@___idk]

lmao

[@princeeluzai]

“You sitting in the shadows like you batman & shit” 😂😂😂had me crying

[@KingChaos117]

“I feel like it won’t” caught me off guard

[@terrellfleming8108]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@mjawara1]

@@someonesome-h8f sus ahh link

[@Acostilate]

Him insulting him and telling him to get it together was probably more helpful than being like "you're not worthless" lol

[@Mr.Starpop]

Tbh honest it's more in the middle. Telling someone to get it together doesn't beat the internal thing that person's feeling but telling someone "You're not worthless" helps a lot but can lead to nowhere lol. The reasonable would be "You not worthless but bro please, get yo shit together bruh, for your sake and well-being"

[@PalomasMusic666]

Sometimes though that's what it takes to make the first step though is trying, even though you don't feel like it, People can help you and yes there are people that love you, but they can't make you love yourself, you have to at the end of the day put in that effort

[@kylekillgannon]

The real fucked up thing is for a lot of these types this is what they want to hear, so then when it's coming from you they can blame you for it and it's you're fault they're not happy.

[@m.i.c.h.o]

It depends. But personally I feel like I need to be hurt in order to change when I'm at my lowest.

[@sickman9124]

​@@Mr.StarpopTo be fair, he tried to be generically polite over half a dozen times before he tried another angle

[@triggatrey225]

“You got the nerve to come & sit on my couch, smelling like a Walrus’s belly button & waste my time” 😭😭😭🤣

[@Hematologist2002]

Bro dissed the villain arc outta him

[@SuccessWithKwon]

He wasn't wrong about the benefits of a good shower. Feeling bad often stems from feeling dirty. Taking a shower can make you feel like a whole new person, changing your mindset and improving your mood. It's true that a dirty environment can negatively impact your emotions-cleanliness really is next to godliness. The key is to take small, actionable steps, similar to the snowball method for fixing your credit.

[@axelsanchez5849]

Love how the depressed friend’s take becomes darker and darker with each talk

[@nbucwa6621]

It's so accurate tho. That's how I be when I'm in a spiral. I be fighting everyone who's tryina help lol But then I still turn around and get annoyed when my depressed friend does the same and be like "don't fvcking argue with me, bish! I said"

[@cleonanderson1722]

@@nbucwa6621 This is why I isolate when I'm not well so I don't burden friends and family with that irrational negativity. Not an ideal solution though cause it prolly makes it take longer to get better since you gotta spend a lot of energy lying to people, telling them it's fine, and that kind of distance isn't good for relationships either. Personally when I'm with a friend that's feeling like that I usually just try change the subject away from discussion after just listening first for a while (imo no one actually depressed is receptive to advice so giving any is almost always a waste of time) and then kinda shift focus to engagement in some other activity that's hopefully kinda fun and distracting. Anyway skit is funny and sad at the same time.

[@shadowHeartless999]

I used to be like this lol

[@mvpleeke9933]

“It could be worse, sexy red could knock on that door”

[@TheXpertGenius83]

😂😂😂

[@Goldenjaw]

💀💀💀💀

[@Maelstrom001]

Where was that line?

[@TheXpertGenius83]

@@Maelstrom001 It’s wasn’t a line in the skip. The person that made the comment was saying it could be worse lol

[@hollywoodslym]

@@TheXpertGenius83 but why did he use quotations like it’s quote from somewhere

[@princepuma7913]

The way he gets darker moment after moment 😂

[@MachineGunKali]

“Life been punching down on you? Good because I got next.”

[@sympa_is_misanthropic]

1:05 this was the point he knew he had a problem. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@dahonlovely2350]

Nah bro, 1:04😂

[@CrazymanJ]

“Smelled you when you walked in”😂

[@hanajak]

That subtle lighting change at 0:35 was the moment I knew he'd be a menace 😂

[@ineedblues]

i just commented that and scrolled to see if anyone else noticed😂😂😂

[@Motionfrm18V]

Ts got me weak

[@Soldier4C]

“Get in the shower and get a sparkle out of life” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bayek9869]

“Take one tic tac and put it in your mouth and get a BANG out of life” -Martin Lawrence 😂

[@Juicycb2010]

Honestly, starting with a shower is a great start in finding positivity for yourself.

[@13OO5]

Sometimes you need that person to tell you off. Helps you get back in alignment with yourself more than you realize.

[@thedrinkinggamemaker9749]

That's that tough love

[@bloosix]

Tihs is actually so true. It's so annoying when someone comes to you and vents, then you try to cheer them up and they just stay negative. It's like they want to stay negative instead of trying to be positive.

[@Newcomer97]

Its harder to stay positive than negative. But you gotta try to stay positive.

[@gsmoke9630]

You’re acting like I wanna be negative even when I try to think positive I still get consumed by negative thoughts you think it’s that easy?

[@javadacheatham3142]

@@biglikebuu I understand that but if your friend given you advice then you should listen and not thinking about negative

[@Tha_Pencil]

Tra should make a video making fun of these corny ass type of comments. "Omg so true" proceeded by a boring ass anecdote. NOBODY ASKED just like the video and move on 😭 🙏

[@ryderls2729]

Guessing cause staying sad and being negative is easier than actually working towards staying positive and improving. This and some mfs just want attention and pity

[@luvpalm]

“ life is just bad 👹” 💀💀😭

[@drphaxtom3335]

" Sitting in the shadows like you Batman " 😂😂😂😂😂

[@bootyshorts]

i always find the comment im lookin for

[@nickmajora]

"Or a chance for suffering." I felt that.

[@Sf_femz]

“Life has something to offer bro” “Nuh uh” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@taurusstudios5497]

This is why good friends are no replacement for a good therapist.

[@trashboat115]

Debatable but best is a combination ofc

[@istherenooneleft]

Agreed

[@gsmoke9630]

Wym by that?

[@joshuahartigan7937]

to be honest he told him what he needed to hear. better than a therapist

[@deeegeeekay]

he was doing fine, dude just refused to listen to advice bc of victim mentality

[@luvpalm]

they always got something to say or just don’t listen 😂😂

[@Josefproductionsbrother]

they fishing for compliments

[@jamyan14]

farming for validation

[@TheMainLRH3469]

Definitely

[@gsmoke9630]

Sometimes I need validation 🤷🏾‍♂️ I want to feel needed

[@deceptOG]

​@gsmoke9630 yeah I've done concluded that when you're down it's best not to show it because of these^^^^^ type of reactions. If I ever try to kill myself again no one's gonna see it coming. It's just best that way. People really don't care nor would they understand for the most part. It's up to us at the end of the day. No one's life is going to stop. We aren't hurting anyone by being depressed except ourselves. It's our burden to handle alone. Our choice everyday to be here.

[@symlsymma]

“type shit, type shit” 😂😂😂

[@AveryHarden]

Walrus belly button had me weak 😂😂😂😂😂

[@AaronMaycock]

1:42 "i feel like there's gone be no changing." That Deep voice is crazy work, pure accuracy 😂😂

[@michaeljackson2724]

“You sitting in the shadows like you Batman and shit bro” 😂😂

[@Islalara]

“ Get in the shower and get a sparkle out of life” **Dropping gems…as usual 😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@skeletogaming741]

Tra has been running the skit game since 2020 😂

[@hollowfied702]

Genuinely used to only see the negative, tryna change my perspectives have changed a lot of my life

[@Yussalim]

“You sittin in the shadows like you Batman “ that part killed me

[@MaybeCheese]

Bro was fed up with his shit💀😭🙏

[@lord_pixel]

"Walrus bellybutton" crazy 😂

[@davskenn]

He snapped him out of the Darkness and out of his Funk 😂

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

Bro went from “you’re not worthless” to “your sitting on the couch, you better call Everest, life passing you by” 😂😭

[@harlemkid144]

A lot of yall needed to hear this message..

[@tretrefairman]

Knew he was finna fire back as soon as he reacted by repeating “you feel like life punchin down on you?”

[@Parthian6]

The staredown after "And im telling you I am" 😂

[@TheHatersarebad]

"You're not worthless" "BUT I AM"

[@SirYaliBeats]

Speaking from coaching experience, if you ever have to deal with a friend in this situation, don’t validate or invalidate their feelings. Just ask questions; the goal is to induce confusion so that they cast doubt on their own beliefs. It’s better for someone to come to their own conclusions than to have them come from someone external. That actually primes them for being receptive to whatever advice that you may offer. Also, note that we’re not trying to solve the problem, we’re trying to change the mode of thinking.

[@paulomoreira5963]

I have a friend who is past that situation. Asking the questions and trying to make him come to conclusions is a strategy I gave up on like 2 years ago. This man just wants to stay depressed and sad forever, always waiting for the "right girl" to change him instead of trying to change himself. I've got to the point of saying "MAN if you wanna stay sad and depressed then stay sad and depressed, Ive tried to help you countless times and you just seem to keep rejecting my help, come back to me when you really want to get better" And I was someone who never gave up on people and I've helped a lot of friends but this one guy just seems to be impossible.

[@joshuagregoire9504]

Hmm good advice

[@crimsiden]

Listen, ask questions, and find someone who can really help them. Sometimes people are depressed, others just sad, but in both situations, you are not qualified to make that call. Find someone who is and don't assume shit. I know this is just a skit, but ya, the suicide rate is getting higher by the day.

[@fire_godlol941]

Needed this reminder young fr, got a lot of blessings in my life and work got me feeling I’m wasting my life, but I’ve got a place to stay with two cars and a girl that’s being patient with me, I’m not where I want to be but I’m better than where I was two three years ago, just gotta find a better job and life is up !!!

[@MakeItPap]

“Oh Ard good cuz I got next” 😭😭😭😭

[@boiling_snow_water_]

Bars💯

[@Azcrowe]

The first 10 seconds of the video was literally my life a month ago. Except I just wasn’t going to work… this man hit the spot 😂💯

[@Azcrowe]

@@consciousmassofatoms bruh I’m drowning in catching up to this rent I owe my mom. And I still gotta get next months rent I am cooked,

[@БорисШувалов-щ5л]

Always entertained by your content, it's awesome!

[@Luminous.A.Glory_VitaNostra]

“I feel like life is just bad.” “Ok.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@WhiteWolf.the.Artist]

It's so annoying when a person is being impossible while playing the helpless victim

[@YRGKANE11]

“Aight be sad then!!”😂😂😂😂

[@Disney_G]

“start with a shower” 😂😂😂😂

[@SCF721]

He had way more patience than me 😂😂😂

[@Niftynesgames]

'start with a shower and then the ball can get rolling' may be some of the best life advice on the internet.

[@HershelJ]

"Life been punching down on me" Good cuz I got next 😂😂😂 that one definitely got me

[@Josefproductionsbrother]

at that point they’re just fishing for compliments 😭

[@marquisewats]

“What if there’s no good at all”🤣🤣

[@Callmecudder]

“And im telling you i am” 😂

[@Dupree109]

😂😂😂

[@rdm6802]

This is weirdly inspirational, I've met too many people like this that say that nothing is good and that nothing will ever be good. Need to show them this video xD

[@SunGawdRa]

Man 10,000%! I know people be going through some things, they can't help what they feel, there's some mental components... But then DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! Take steps however you need to so you can improve your life! Can't stand people who wallow in pity but don't do anything about it. Life is tough for everyone, it doesn't invalidate what you're going through, but people still move on.

[@TheMainLRH3469]

“Walrus bellybutton” was funny as hell 😂😂😂

[@mannyismood11]

1:30 his voice get more and more deeper

[@pseguin7124]

This is what chronic depression feels like. Sometimes your brain just says fuck life and there is nothing positive you can do but wait for whatever the hell is going on in your brain to stop or go back to normal.

[@sadieimanify]

“Type shit, type shit” lmao

[@DavidWebbItself]

😂😂😂😂

[@jeremypaintedit]

man i relate. I sometimes want to help people but at some point i feel like they want to be where theyre at. like it’s their identity.

[@jussaiyanz6275]

"Oh Ward Godd Kuz i Got next, STOp BiTXHIN" im wheezing shit yo🤣🤣🤣

[@Rinamama09]

It's funny but at the same time it sad how true this is! Those type of people I definitely get up and walk away LOL

[@morganambah3549]

🤣🙌🏿bro is the antagonist of his own life, I got a friend just like that 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@TheObaidUtari]

I’ve been bingeing your stuff all day man, you’re a genius 😂

[@P1llow1x]

😂 the shower part got me

[@berlendewcharles]

The sitting in the shadow like Batman is crazy🤣🤣😂

[@trarags]

What % y'all phone on rn?🔋

[@trarags]

28%

[@bentherapper4356]

9

[@kokujin-k8v]

24💀

[@fish3819]

58

[@v1nce254]

20%💀

[@Thegodofbums-46]

“What if you can’t find it” “Well shit” shi had me dead💀

[@da_n7574]

😂😂😂😂

[@LopezCreations]

Calling people out is what people need sometimes. They be needing a slap of reality

[@woozi36]

“Start with a shower then the ball could get rollin’” 😂

[@ashwink7644]

This is super relatable. I hate when people adamantly say that life sucks and people are always bad.

[@jesusisable7052]

Dang this conversation was too relatable😂

[@jhl17827]

"Sitting in the Shadows 🦇man" is crazy 😂

[@Double04595]

Nah the walrus belly button got it 😂😂😂

[@ckingch]

That deep "Nuh uh!" caught me off guard lol.

[@nonubeats9222]

Honestly this could be helpful if put correctly for people spiraling. A lot of it is based on how we feel. If you give people objective things to do or look forward to, it can help them change their perspective all on their own.

[@Gloomistic]

2:19 LOL get a sparkle out of life

[@jayyy4976]

He finally took the advice in the end😂😂 "na u right"

[@dijone11mus1]

Had a homie like this. Told him, when you at this point you give up or find a way to move on. Nobody wants to die, so nobody wants to give up. What you’re looking for is acknowledgement so you can give up. You want to feel okay in giving up. I’m not gonna give you that. So now I’m your reason to move on. And I’m not your only reason. Once you stop giving up you’re gonna find plenty of reasons, some big and small. It’s been 3 years and far as I know he hasn’t tried to cut his journey short, since.

[@YvngScorpion_007]

Walrus belly button is crazy 😂😂

[@Reliccontent]

1:07 then you make some

[@ArronR-w2j]

W

[@h-Macto]

yeah this one of those villian origin stories, bros cooked 😂 ☠️

[@jamahlrawls3520]

I be like "You are worthless, but we can fix that. We have the technology."

[@B1aqman]

Bro doesn’t know it but he’s gonna get alot of people’s motivation up with that ending

[@princessbeexxxx]

I get many people are depressed, but being sincerely, emotionally torn down is much different from someone letting it all out and you try to be there for them just for them to knock down EVERYTHING you say to basically cheer them up. Appreciate those that are trying to be your light in the world versus being stuck in the shower with water running down your face.

[@consciousmassofatoms]

You lost me at shower

[@UncleRisky]

Damn bro life fcked up😂

[@CorderralLewis]

I get the joke, but ultimately it's an exaggeration. People like this aren't looking for you to speak positive or offer the first, second, or third "solution" that pops into the listeners head. Odds are they already know/been told solutions or some positive gratitude shit. People easily give that up since it's "what you're supposed to do" they got that and it's not what's needed. They need you to affirm that they do, in fact, feel what they do or that their situation is, in fact, fucked up. They are looking for affirmation that they aren't crazy and that most people would feel burdened by burdens. That's the whole fucked thing about therapy where someone is going through things that would depress a healthy person and the therapist understands that that's the appropriate response to such pain, there is no it's all in your head. Your situation is fucked up! They don't want the person they felt comfortable confiding in to disregard their fucked circumstances to say something to "make" them feel better. Bro if it's raining, inside, for them then it is. "Damn bro, that's actually really fucked. And you just been carrying that? I wouldn't have even been able to tell that shit was weighing on you" is what they want to hear. . . . . . . Tho some are attention whores who want potty and sympathy so they don't feel like they need to DO anything. But try affirmation, not validation, every now and then and you'd be surprised.

[@tylerthrasher-walker5602]

He’s one of the greatest skit comics ever. Generational run of humorous greatness 🤣🤣🤣

[@deericking3932]

“Life is just bad” was a statement that sometimes seems to be more true than not