When kids become collateral damage in a break-up.

#MartellHolt has managed to use his children as leverage in an attempt to punish hi ex-wife Melody Holt for divorcing him. At what point should the children be off limits?
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[@tasharobinson4415]

Martell released audio of his daughter wanting a serious conversation with her dad and he betrays her trust.

[@MSBLADE1970]

He wants her to sit at home slumming and bumming and broke like his side trick! He's broke, embarrassed, and mad because Mel is still thriving, happy, and getting them bags. He had a 5-year affair, and to add insult to injury, he had an outside baby during his marriage. now he wants to try to make Mel out to be trifling like he is. All because Mel doesn't want him back.

[@crystalsutton523]

It's hard to get 5 family members or even 2 friends to watch 1 of your kids let alone watch 4. I know because I could hardly find people to watch mine. He know he lying about 24.

[@donzellamiliner289]

Stop talking about your children's mother, what kinda man are you a real man would never talk in public about their kids mothers Usually women talk that way but truthfully when l saw you in the fur wrapped over your shoulder l suspect you might just be on the down low, and that's why it's so easy for you to talk about their mother.

[@penseyfrancis464]

This male wants to be paid by Melody to care for his own children. Maybe, he feels because she walked away and left him unable to make money ( he has no license to build, nor is he smart enough to get one). He thinks, I stay home and live off of Melody. Look at all the opportunity she has because she left me. He thinks pointing out how hard and how much she works helps his case...NOT! Melody has a great support system. Many times Martel was scheduled to pick those children up and last minute, he's a no show. So, again, your part of the problem. If he had to name all 24-sitters, he couldn't, this is something he says and he thinks because he says it, it becomes true. For the record, Martel played himself and now he's mad at himself. Get back on the short yellow bus.

[@pamelabeaudoin8206]

None of what he’s going thru is Melody’s fault- it’s all his own fault… he made his life what it is - NOT MEL…

[@SystaSoldier]

This is not a criminal case. As long as the attorneys are getting paid they can and will delay. He is a sad sorry joke. If there is something he wants Melody to do he’d better not tell her because that’s just what she ain’t gonna do.

[@pamelabeaudoin8206]

He is just Trashy!!! I’ve never heard of a Father putting a Audio of his child - she sounded like she was so scared that she had to say what he wanted her to say - poor bby - he is a “MONSTER”…

[@venessajones855]

Martell uses his family because up to now he has no accountability or consequences.

[@tangajTANG]

Martell's obsession is Melody; the children are just a link no more. IMO I heard someone say once about taking responsibility for a child after a break up "If I can't have you, I don't want either one of you".

[@Marie-jd5de]

Martel started all of this custody nonsense!! Melody has been happily divorced and drama free. Martel can’t accept it’s OVER!!!

[@caramelsmoothcat5477]

He's miserable and he's trying to make her life miserable and from the looks of things he's been a miserable person she just covered him

[@tasharobinson4415]

Typical narc. Same scenario he just switched himself with Mel. He was the one who went to DC. He was the one cheating for 7 years not Mel. He made it seem like Mel still pressed for him and he don't want her, but Mel was not calling him and answering his calls. Then he goes to her set and has a violent tantrum because she did not answer his calls. Mel told her kids the truth.

[@bernettajack2358]

Ditto

[@anitagray6422]

Super stupid fool. Who watched kids while hotel sucked butt? Such a sick fool. Hide were u cant be seen mr std.

[@tiwandabrown428]

It's very sad that these children have to go through this but their father did this to them their mother only told them the truth and sometimes the Ugly Truth can hurt sorry for the M&M kids but their dad did this to them

[@lindabush972]

Melody like anyone else with a busy life will need a babysitter because they work having to travel. I'm sure anyone in show business are on the road, that's how they support their family. I don't see nobody trying to take their kids. He needs get a job then he might understand. People who work needs babysitters. If he worked he would need a babysitter. Melody needs to give this recording to the therapist so she can explain to the courts why this is a form of child abuse

[@Marie-jd5de]

When Martel says he tried to settle it outside of court that means it’s his way or no way!! What an AZZ!!

[@claudetteleverett5288]

Right👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽

[@pamscott7430]

Its amazing how he doesn't go after Arrionne like that.........So its about the money! You better believe that!!

[@adakante1557]

He is a bum

[@wambui5652]

how comes no one PROTECTS Melody? Even Carlos.......OWN,Judges.....,..a B/W at that case🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶WHY????

[@JAZZIEJ4LIFE]

Real talk

[@tangajTANG]

He is mad not that he destroyed the family (he never, sincerely, took responsibility). He is mad that he got kicked out of Melody's life, the lifestyle he wants.

[@marithagray4392]

Yup that's it..,

[@claudetteleverett5288]

🎯🎯🎯👍🏽

[@Theblackbumblebee]

Bingo

[@queenshibadarling]

He wants access to her money.

[@tangajTANG]

@@queenshibadarling His dream is to use custody of the children; share nannies, chefs etc. so he can look like a big shot and in his twisted feel it is all his. He saw that G-Wagon, the personal chef's, vacation home, etc and is seething. I feel he secretly wants Slaw and Knox included to complete "I am the man", "the provider" persona.

[@lindabush972]

We saw firsthand how he question these kids asking them if Melody 's brother ever whip them, etc, remember?

[@queenshibadarling]

I think I recall something like that in the earlier seasons

[@kemiajakaiye1151]

He’s disgusting if you listen closely to the recording…Mariah says “I didn’t ask her” after he asks her to recount what Melody said… it’s telling! He’s angry because he wanted his indiscretions hidden and Mel stopped ding that by way of divorce and putting the truth out there. No he wants to do everything he can to disturb her peace. Crazy!

[@luvshooz2290]

Make it plain Sis! Your summarization was A+. This dude runs his mouth so much that he can’t keep up with his own lies.

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you Queen

[@caramelsmoothcat5477]

Him and his Super Chicken just chirping away

[@tammylawrence7244]

Put his child voice on display is insane. This man is crazy 🤪. when you put stuff on the internet there's no coming back, it's out there forever smh. If the judge took those kids for 56 days, then the judge saw that it was necessary

[@kimclark7985]

He is a sad excuse for a father. Very good review. You really broke that down. But yes, I saw the part about bribe? I did notice belt!!!

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you Queen.

[@coralee9710]

He Should Had THOUGHT 😂 about all that, before 😭 walking out on his marriage 🙏 Lord help Them 🙏 with those kids, in the name of Jesus 🙏 Mel and Martell has bright kids,Sugar Mama ,😀Shine 🥰 Keep up the good parenting . Martell has to move on and face, Reality.

[@mssugamoma]

New subbie here. I absolutely love the way you broke down everything this liar said

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you for tuning in Queen. Glad to have you!

[@queenshibadarling]

Did Martell go to far by sharing an audio recording of his child on social media?

[@JAZZIEJ4LIFE]

Yes he did 💯

[@butta487]

Yes he did.

[@marjorieferguson2064]

That young lady will hate him forever

[@Theblackbumblebee]

Very

[@prettyacct]

Especially because it may have been illegal to record the conversation.

[@susannahall9650]

Queen like you, I have been so invested in this show and cast like no other...because God and the rest of us are sick of our people not using this achievement to encourage and up lift others and extend them higher than self!!! I see this selfish attitude, their braggadocio behavior! This is why I pray for this situation because too many women are losing their lives right in front of our eyes on social media

[@dawnpennie1392]

This man will torture the eldest children for their mother leaving his worthless ass

[@Theblackbumblebee]

I hope Melody not trying to force this man to be a father and giving him passes because she want him in her children life? Those children will grow up to be who they need to be with or without him. He is trash!! She need to keep it moving and get whomever she deem to be fit to watch her children and not care what he or anyone think. She need to sit her children down and specifically tell her children to not answer any questions regarding what goes on in her house. The children need to say ASK my mom.

[@paulettablock6901]

@The Black Bumblebee, I totally agree with you 💯

[@tasharobinson4415]

Martell just told the kids this is ur brother and no explanation of how it got here.

[@tiwandabrown428]

What's Done in the Dark will always come to the light

[@scorpionMiz]

Grand Rising Queen Shiba ☀️ I’m a new subbie and I just want to let you know your analysis of this situation is spot on. This man is so disgusting he makes my skin crawl.

[@queenshibadarling]

Hey Scorpio Queen. Welcome to the channel so glad to have you!

[@punkinpunkin6524]

The more he talks the more he helps Melody’s case.

[@lindabush972]

I bet those kids couldn't wait to get home to show her his head and probably some welts.

[@kpope5948]

I agree with your ever word 💕

[@punkinpunkin6524]

New Subbie here! I appreciate your breakdown of this. Dag, Melody must have some sort of super power…..Let’s see….so she was able to run the businesses, take care of the kids, cook, cover him, take care of his sorry azz AND to also do some slinging linking! Melody did the right thing to be honest with the kids about what happened rather than they hear it somewhere else or to spring the the baby on the kids.

[@queenshibadarling]

Welcome to palace Queen!

[@shereeross4049]

Those children do looks scared compared to being with there mom

[@jeanturner9792]

If Mel wasn't working they would have starved. Your family would have been out on the street. He is a lazy man.

[@queenshibadarling]

They would have. When he stood that $17K he said he was broke and had nothing. Then OWN sent the check to the bank account in the amount of $34K. He literally said he thought God had blessed him so he kept it all. SMH

[@Aquarius-216]

@@queenshibadarling Martell used that $17,000. to help pay for the trollop’s BBL

[@pamelawise4746]

And people saying he's a good father.. nooo he's a active father.. he's around but he is not.. he cared so much he would've always thought of his kids

[@pamscott7430]

Its sad because the mental state of Parents today, chile is CRAZY! But yes I too am caught up in this crazy mess, but it should help us to focus on our ownselves and short comings as human beings

[@nolaclarke253]

This a man who pays zero spousal or child support. How is she supposed to make a living?

[@susannahall9650]

Queen Shiba...did you place Martell on the yellow bus??? I had a nice laugh but it is a serious matter!

[@queenshibadarling]

🤣🤣🤣

[@ritablunt5266]

He calls working “busy” 🤡🤣 Cole Slaw had 2… allegedly 🧐

[@propertybycrystal1]

So it’s okay for him to be alone in the car with slow slaw’s daughter, but Mel’s brother can’t be with his kids.

[@queenshibadarling]

Bingo!

[@dorianguinn5438]

Just listening to him is sooo hard because you know he’s just lying. Projects everything, really telling on himself. He still hasn’t figured out most aren’t as upset about the affairs as all the abuse. As if this woman isn’t allowed to leave. All this hate, even 2 years after the divorce 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@queenshibadarling]

Yep!

[@dawnpennie1392]

Correct..the blatant disrespectf was to much for me..and use his side to do the same. .

[@latanyaevans3160]

Coleslaw didn't write that for him the other Mel did...his fake Manager

[@queenshibadarling]

You think so?

[@latanyaevans3160]

@@queenshibadarling yes l do

[@blaquepearlzchocolatediamndz77]

A lot of men that abuse their kids always say "We were playing, and I admit I was playing a little too rough." You noticed he had a thing for 20's, well if you divide 56÷2 it = 28, goes w/his M.O for 20's

[@queenshibadarling]

This!!!

[@dgsch-nc92]

Facts. Martell should have supervised visitations only.

[@gloriamccalla3970]

Queen Sheba you are really a queen I love how you break down every thing 👍🏾❤️

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you Gloria. Refining my essence everyday :)

[@dawnpennie1392]

This man has stooped to a whole new low to resort antagonizing his children for info about their mother...I won't be surprised if he planted the thought to get her credit card numbers since we know he isn't above stealing money from her..this man sees his children as pawns to use against Mel...He will fail ..He technically wants to monitor if Mel has a man ..

[@queenshibadarling]

OMG!! I thought the same thing.

[@simp1eone]

I wish this case was being tried by NO NONSENSE JUDGE JUDY who could see through his trifling lying axx

[@queenshibadarling]

Now that would be hilarious 😂

[@elainejordan5661]

What I feel where Melody went wrong throughout this situation was not filing charges against him during all of those times when he became aggressive/violent with her.

[@donuele1]

Martell's clothes are cutting off the oxygen to his damn brain. He played a stupid game, he won a stupid prize. Bless his dumb little hurt heart.

[@shelahb5874]

The big story here is that he BLATANTLY admitted to bribing the children, he is just saying he doesn't use desserts BUT he does use THE BELT!! To me that tells me everything. He whips those kids. Maybe not about this, but for whatever he wants he threatens the belt. He's evil.

[@ladymotivation]

So, you're threatening your kids, and then abusing them physically? You may be with any random woman, and you think that would be a better idea? He really doesn't even need partial custody at this point. Every other weekend needs to be all he gets.

[@pamelawise4746]

If she was cheating he would have definitely mentioned it on the show

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

Right. Mel is not the type to cheat anyway. She believes in KARMA

[@SystaSoldier]

Truth be told, he does not want 50% custody. He wants to come and go as he pleases, seeing the kids when it becomes convenient. He can’t stand knowing Melody has the means to travel as she pleases when she doesn’t have the kids. He wants to use the kids to control Melody. Good thing no one believes the words of a lying, cheating, broke thief. He needs to STFU and go back and eat his gal coleslaw from the front to the bike like a champ.

[@roddaniels2976]

Animal behavior

[@feliciarowser308]

You took all the words out of my mouth ! I agree completely

[@ruserious6966]

Martell cannot seem to ever admit he did anything wrong. He is exhausting!

[@claudetteleverett5288]

Excellent Commentary🎯

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you Queen

[@caramelsmoothcat5477]

And him popping tank with a hand or belt on the behind is way different than him hitting him with a back scratcher upside the head

[@caramelsmoothcat5477]

Exactly why was he dropping coleslaw's daughter off alone

[@queenshibadarling]

He ain’t said a word about that. Double minded.

[@mikkibarker8671]

Glad this guy exposes all the “guy secrets” to control and harm women and children. May he move to a desert island and live by himself.

[@jeanturner9792]

Mel needs to file full custody and supervise visit for Martell.

[@lindagamble8077]

Good morning queen shiba

[@queenshibadarling]

Good Morning Queen

[@sandiespeaks4236]

That's the whole thing, in his SICK AZZ mind if Mel have the kids with her at all times, she can't be with another person intimately, and if she sends the kids to be with him on her day's to babysit or as he likes to put it, him just being a good father, yeah right so he can record how he has them more than she does and then file for child support, as if we all can't see what he's doing, HE'S PATHETIC, like your commentary, new to the channel and great work.

[@queenshibadarling]

@SandieSpeaks thank yo for the sub Queen. Glad to have you here.

[@angelenarobinson6745]

Queen I love your commentary. I commend you on trying to be nice when talking about MARTEL when you really want to call him every bad name that is but cannot because you are a better person than MARTEL is.

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you Queen.

[@Saunnie]

I can’t even listen to video can’t stand his voice

[@beatricemccray7815]

Liar he wants things his way or no way he’s not running nothing but his mouth and the two pheasants Coleslaw and Sheree. He doesn’t want for Melody to have no one else . But he can be around Coleslaw’s daughter she said that he is on the D L and like mens to knock at his back door. Coleslaw said it more than one time.

[@renay9681]

Good commentary.

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you for tuning in

[@evettebell3976]

This is abuse period .and iT always something about MELODY

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

Unfortunately, people love dragging Mel into their mess. All she's trying to do islive in peace and focus on her n her children.

[@janetjohnson9690]

I believe Melonik is the writing also.

[@aaw1976]

Queen Shiba, I just subscribed and I really like your channel.

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you for the sub. Glad to have you in the palace.

[@marybrown3886]

Preach! Great commentary.

[@queenshibadarling]

Thanks for listening.

[@pfn5231]

Melody is responsible for his bad behavior? He has some mother wound issues. This man takes no responsibility for his behavior, this makes me sick thinking of those babies, unfortunately he has 5. Generational traumas, I pray he gets some help

[@pfn5231]

@Tawanda Hill a man who doesn’t take responsibility for his behavior @ all. I’m so sorry Mel had to deal with him all these years. He’s cheating Mel is the reason, he’s broke Mel is the reason. He hit the nerves to say people should stop following Mel, as if he controls the followers. He needs to get it together.

[@shareehale1333]

Martell is SAD!!!

[@sheryllcanada6215]

Both of them crazy the people he's talking about is 1 person the lawyer the frat brother the personal friend

[@theresab7177]

Sheryll, that is what I heard too! Trying to make it seem like it Melody was with 3 different men. Martell is disgusting....

[@sheryllcanada6215]

Not Mel sweetie Martell an his goons

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

@@sheryllcanada6215 ❤

[@prettyacct]

I don't care if she gave it up to 15 men. She's a grown woman. Full Stop.

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

@@prettyacct But she didn't so let's not accidentally start rumors, Sis. We all know Mel is too classy to stoop that low ❤

[@blaquepearlzchocolatediamndz77]

The intro, my kids are going to ask if he asks a question bribe, belt.... That alone backs up the story that was going around about him hitting his son. That doesn't even sound right....

[@lakithameaux8121]

He will whip the kids for information thats why she took him to court... The Judge told him that he can not whip them on their behinds ever... So that wasn't the judge throwing nothing out about the incident that happened with tank.... All lies the judge did take them away for 56days for a reason...

[@elainejordan5661]

He’s grabbing for straws because he cannot control her.

[@astutequeenbthoughts]

Replay Gang 👸🏿👸🏿👸🏿❤🖤💚

[@sharilawson7748]

You are on point about 20 something…

[@queenshibadarling]

I mean he’s stuck on that!

[@sdjames2580]

He likes those women who sit at home ALL DAY with their hair all over their heads and the ones who like to sit in their friends car all day while they r at work🙃

[@queenshibadarling]

Almost like they have to beat down mentally in order for him to deal with them.

[@sdjames2580]

@QueenShiba Exactly. That’s how he want them because it makes him feel better about himself.

[@deepaulie8701]

You read him!!!!!!!

[@ladymotivation]

Thank you for breaking this down, Queen. This is very triggering, not sure if I'll be watching LAMH.

[@adakante1557]

I stopped watching, because,I can't believe the domestic Violence that is allowed.

[@adakante1557]

I stopped watching, because, I can't believe the domestic Violence that is allowed.

[@queenshibadarling]

Absolutely! It's hard to report on him. Takes quite a bit of effort.

[@renitaparker1494]

Such a shame that he would bad mouth her because she won't take him back.

[@roddaniels3499]

He’ needs therapy to find out why he won’t let the mother have the children.

[@valeriebowick3575]

Martel and Melody is working together because the Scots and Miss Wanda was disrespecting sugar mama

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

They attempted to coparent in a civil manner but as you can see, Martel is making that IMPOSSIBLE.

[@ebonidancer7290]

Replay gang new here and I will be back 🙏👍❤️🔥🔥

[@queenshibadarling]

Thanks for tuning in. I'll be uploading different content today.

[@bellaLanae]

Facts.

[@ExpressYourselfCGS]

🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟👍

[@roddaniels3499]

Martel go find a job

[@karenmarshall6014]

I watched this 11 mo later. I’d heard about him hitting Tank and some of the other recordings of the MnM kids which he used to attack Melody but you outlined it with such clarity and thoroughness. I am appalled and sickened by what he has and continues to Melody through and their children. The way he accused Mel of cheating and how he spoke about her with such anger and disdain all on social media I can only image how he bullied her when they were in the privacy of their own home. Just sickening.

[@bibi4294]

Queen what is sooooo SAD!! Is Carlos, Destiny, Un biased judge if she is pro men!! I’m not understanding

[@h.pandah.6312]

?👀

[@lyrics5500]

I really love how you break down your content ❤️

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you hun☺️

[@renitaparker1494]

He wants to control her because he can't he tries to manipulate anyway possible

[@bibi4294]

I was in child court a long time also but finalized after at most 8 months