When Loving Them Is Hard | Love Is | Part 7 | Jerry Flowers

People that are hard to deal with are the perfect training facility to strengthen the heart of a Christian. In order to be an effective witness for Christ, we must be people of love and maturity.
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[@yahkar]

_Maturity doesn't mean you don't feel it; it means you know how to restrain it._ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Jaxmusicgal23]

Amen!!

[@deniselong6102]

AMEN

[@GodsGirl850]

Boy, Oh Boy, That's such a Battle for me. I need freedom right now as I speak! 😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@ginosmith506]

Pastor Flowers.. this was a WORD. you cold wit it! Bless you brother. WeNeedJesus

[@theopilane]

Culture tells us to match the energy but the word of God says Love them 😭 I was so convicted . Thank you God for using Mr Flowers !

[@Blovely007]

"Enemies are gift wrapped as your promotion if you handle them right"

[@Visionstovisuals]

"You pray for your enemies.. you know why?! .. because you don't want to."

[@SandySandy-p1g]

“Oversharing with the enemy”!! Now that’s a word!!

[@TheJoyIsMyStrength]

"You are incarcerated to an apology that you may never get" Thank you God! I needed that word.

[@durrellhoward3075]

FRFR THANK YOU LORD

[@JC-vd5ux]

Why?

[@yahkar]

*FATHER, INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE; I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS!*

[@ThandekaMakhathini-g5d]

Maturity is consuming what makes you grow!!!!

[@paulaferguson1256]

Just because it's hard, doesn't mean God is not using it!!!!!!!

[@kyndracrump]

How did you do that emoji at the end?

[@JoaquinKeller-q6k]

Loving people that don't love you back... Agape!!

[@patriciacampbell7296]

The way you treat God's people is married to your promise. That's a word right there🙏🏾❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

DON'T GO BACK TO THE CATERPILLAR PHASE FOR ANYONE IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. ❤❤❤

[@msaverielle]

Be a kingdom representative for people who don’t love you back.

[@frederickbrisco1135]

FATHER,INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE; I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS! IN JESUS NAME AMEN

[@thekelliestark]

Maturity is when you out grow what you use to fit you!!

[@yvettewaritay2654]

It's difficult for me to love certain people, however with God's help I can change.7/09/23🙏☮️❤️

[@GodMade1012]

People always criticize assignments they don’t understand.🔥🔥🔥

[@hughtwinnn]

Farther INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE! I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS

[@nataliemontgomery6979]

This was so good! Lord help my maturity & discipline 😢 growth!!!

[@RondaBoston]

FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS.❤❤

[@Midnight_manna]

"You don't get the miracle without the impossible."

[@thekelliestark]

Yes it’s difficult to love some people .. but I can feel God changing my heart toward loving difficult people. I have to see them through God’s eyes. Lord, teach me to love deep with your love. People deserve agape love 💕

[@chloestarr60]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@AstrineCovington]

Here listening for the 3rd time 🫠🥴 Holy Spirit please help me to be a doer and not a hearer of the word 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😭

[@trishelleriley6756]

FATHER, INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE; I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS! HELP ME ALSO TO CONSUME YOUR WORDS OF CORRECTION, NO MATTER HOW DIFFICULT, IN JESUS ALMIGHTY NAME, AMEN!

[@jvdh1887]

People always try to criticize assignments they don't understand!!!! Word right there Pastor Jerry

[@Pitbullover2814]

Thanks!

[@msaverielle]

The enemy hates when your focused on growing up.

[@Miss_Tika1]

I’m no longer interested in a lot of things I use to be interested in

[@marquetta1992able]

Amen💐👏🏽May Christ continue to create a clean heart mind and soul within you to love the Heavenly Father more in Jesus Name

[@ladennayoung2939]

I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. AMEN.

[@sheraycarey4661]

Yes amen 🙏🏾

[@BlessedLife291]

I needed to hear this message God seriously please open my heart and see this person from your perspective because I really do not like this person, but I know deep down they need love.

[@Chinaecuatoriana1590]

FATHER, INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE. I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS.

[@MyChosenChild]

Hallelujah ❤

[@openingup6762]

Father increase my maturity and my love I want to be an effective witness in Jesus name Amen

[@blackbutterfly271]

Praying for God to change my heart. There are some people that are hard for me to love the way God has called me to. I am praying and working on changing. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@35tshone]

Might gotta listen to this again!!!! Thank you God!!!!

[@glendabartholomew8210]

FATHER, INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE; I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS!!! Thank you Jesus!!!

[@hunnycup2008]

You don’t want fans! You want the people God sends you!

[@msaverielle]

We should be mirrors of Christ.

[@dorothyhenderson6515]

Amen good word

[@prophetess.carmen.777]

Cutting people off for me is a protective mechanism, not to be selfish. Boundaries you know.

[@Faith459]

Amen I agree.

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

As long as we are taking it to God in prayer. There are seasons we need to do that. Just so long as we aren't doing it in the flesh. If God gives us the instruction to let people go, it's no ones business but us and God. Some people need to be loved from a far. We must ask God to have people in our lives who will help us grow, and aren't toxic. It's tricky, but God gives us grace and clarity. Even in church it's hard because we are all sinners and the body of Christ. But we need to be careful about how we treat people

[@prophetess.carmen.777]

@@abeekuworldchanger380 I love everything you stated! That is correct I always ask ABBA Father to show me what to do concerning each person! He always shows me! Most times it’s to let go and I am so grateful to listen. If not before God will always show me confirmation of why I needed to “let go.”

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

@@prophetess.carmen.777 yes! And whatever God says, be obedient to his instructions. He will honor your yes and loyalty when you are trusting him with what he is revealing to you. It's tricky with relationships because some people like an older version of you that they liked, so the new version of you is not something they can align with or lack the depth to go deeper. Some people need to be released not because they're evil, but because they're not going to be able to handle the calling God has for our destiny. Leave it to Pastor Jerry Flowers Jr teachings to always hit hard. I'm watching his playlists and revisiting sermons because he keeps it real and biblical and raw. Very hard to find that in ministers these days. He strikes amazing balance in his teachings

[@FrankquanekLaing]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@ogeym9316]

Father increase my maturity and my love I want to be an effective witness

[@Salena_salena]

I needed this word

[@msaverielle]

FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS.

[@corinthatims2208]

FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE I WANT TO BE A EFFECTIVE WITNESS

[@valorahunter1148]

Fresh start

[@Tainiecko]

Oh this message convicted me right away. Thanks for the confirmation. I hear you Father dang 😂

[@ShariT-h4o]

Lord, thank you Jesus for the illumination and freedom found I. This word! Lord, please help me to grow in emotional and spiritual maturity so I can reflect the goodness and mercy of God. Help us all to be less of us and more of you in Jesus name Amen! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@FOG_Fitness]

man I can't even quote bc it would be a transcription of the whole video. so blessed by this ministry and can't wait to go in person. may move to Texas for this ministry. every, single, word was an echo of what I've said, journaled and typed yesterday. so good 🔥🔥🔥

[@virtuouslyQuiet]

You hit me hard with the cut off game 😫 Thank you❤

[@keitalong870]

"Stop letting your tongue loose when your heart is broken" 💔

[@GodMade1012]

FACTS

[@hlengiwembata7045]

I need help with my tongue and how I process information when I'm angry

[@nomvudukamabaleha7035]

I need to promote self control and not letting my tongue loose

[@tadalamponda1300]

@@hlengiwembata7045me too 😮cause yoh my mouth runs loose when I’m heartbroken 💔

[@precious44]

You don’t get the miracle without the IMPOSSIBLE 🙏🏽

[@35tshone]

Anger is pain pretending to be powerful!!! Jesus!!!

[@tetgirlnxtdoor]

ok first of all the timing of this video to pop up on my feed 😩😩

[@4theloveofmakeup928]

Fresh start ❤

[@720rlara]

🔥🔥 love this!! Time to grow up 🙌🏻

[@LadyDoe111]

Pastor, Thank you so much for this powerful and much needed teaching.

[@RachelJenkins-o7x]

The reward for loving our enemies is God calling us sons of the Most High!

[@chrissy1232]

This is good

[@ebaby2194]

No more will I be Trapped by a Apology I never gotten or will Get !

[@jpoindexter6967]

My Lord! I cringe so hard when you do the declarations bc I know we asking the Lord to do a mighty HUMBLING work! Thank you so much for your obedience this whole series has been so on time! May God bless you to continue doing His work!

[@_whatnowofficial]

Maturity!!!!

[@porsha6883]

Thank you , learning to accept people for who they are & keep evolving.

[@rondahubbard80]

People always criticize what they don't understand the assignment!!! This message is a true blessing!!!🙌🙌🙌💞💞💞🛐🛐🛐

[@jelicianorwood24]

Yeah you right. I didn't like being attacked and didn't like spiritual warfare. I need to mature so that I can handle when things happen.

[@ladennayoung2939]

👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿

[@ladennayoung2939]

COME ON HOLY SPIRIT. HAVE YOUR WAY. AMEN. HALLELUJAH.

[@amandadugger7290]

28:34 I felt that 😂 I’ve been driving a truck for 8 years now & I had let my mouth get so bad. Birds be flying at the drop of a hat if someone cut me off. I won’t even say what I HAD BEEN calling some of y’all’s grand mamas & papa’s..driving 52 in a 70. My mouth has definitely been in my top 3 challenging things I’ve been working on changing

[@AntoinitaViolette]

🔥

[@shaymason8415]

It’s not selfish to steward your sanity

[@kalelahardin9569]

FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE!!!! I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@TheLolo7806]

Father, increase my maturity and my love. I want to be effective in the Kingdom

[@Happybellyhappybrain]

Here we grow !

[@prophetess.carmen.777]

Yes, God has shown me Exodus 14:14, to be still and know! Sometimes you do have be still and let God fight for you. Jerry good word, God brought me back to your sermons full circle ! I am thankful.

[@NiyaBlank]

FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY and my love. I want to be an effective witness!!

[@IAMKAFFY]

Thank you Lord for speaking to me through this sermon.

[@heartrenewed-byfaith]

FATHER, INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE, I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS. in Jesus name. Amen

[@brittneytollison1760]

Thank you father, in Jesus mighty name Amen 💛🙏

[@beekreative6217]

Whew Pastor on that neck today!!! Amen though 💯 our generation requires real 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@nomvudukamabaleha7035]

It's not selfish for you to steward your sanity

[@nikkikibbe]

If your emotions have Management!! 👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽

[@stickyscriptures]

✝️🛐☮️💟

[@ahelms261]

I have been watching you for almost 3 years now and I look forward to many more but there is one thing of mine that gets more and more confused with each prayer, each sermon, each video I watch, each podcast I listen to, each Bible verse I read they ALL can speak to either side of my predicament and I'm just tired of not knowing what to be God and what to be feeling. I have been in spiritual warfare for almost a year, major church hurt by the pastor and his wife, the church almost split and I'm not saying that with ease, it's heartbreaking the chaos that's inside the Father's house!.. a house of thieves, a den of wolves... My marriage has been trying to brush dirt off and stay out of the mud but the weekends when we are both at home it's just sad the disconnection and fake scenarios fueled by false desires, one of us is trying to remove and live and trying to make the other see reason and the debris that comes with dwelling in sin rather than acknowledging it and moving away. While the other is doing everything they can to keep one from leaving and continuing to love each other thru hell and tormet..and the only answer I have received from God is to Love my enemies....love even when it's not love, love when I confused on whether God wants me to stay and love or does his love mean to know what God wants for me and to know it's not this love and to move on..? Would God really tell me to leave my husband..?!?! Loving those who don't love you correctly or at all.. is part of being a believer in Christ, many today won't ever love him but yet he still died for them. There is so much to this that I can't even quiet to be able to grab hold of the thought and pull it out of my head without losing another thought or allowing them to settle into feeling.. I'm going legit crazy over here.

[@paulaferguson1256]

My Sister, may I encourage you to fast and ask the Holy Spirit for clarity about You not them!!!! That's what I did. I hope this help you.😌

[@ahelms261]

Thank you Sister, I will try again, may I ask that you pray with me.. asking for clarity and seeing if our answers align?

[@paulaferguson1256]

@@ahelms261 I will pray and the Holy Spirit will confirm to you 🙏

[@Faith459]

@@paulaferguson1256I was thinking the same, sound like she needs to go on a fast ❤

[@jesuslittlegirl2710]

PREACH IT, PREACH IT AGAIN, PREACH IT ONE MORE TIME, AMEN ✝️ YES LORD YES LORD LORD YES LORD YES AMEN 🙏 RIGHT ON POINT, AMEN 🙏 SO SO TRUE AMEN 🙏 🙌 HALLELUJAH GLORY TO GOD 🙏 ✝️ 🙌

[@nickloshenderson6968]

Father increase my maturity and my love I want to be ineffective Witness

[@pracs3377]

Amen. Thank you for this word. 🙏🏾💚👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@dthomas112993]

FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE, I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@msvanessaceo]

FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS!

[@merriamsedumedi6743]

Am in awe of my God,His ways are Perfect🤯🔥🔥🔥💃heavenly Father thank you for Who You Are😭wow,thank You for using Mr Flowers in times as these🙏

[@shanellferrell6051]

OMG!!! Give all of the TRUTH Pastor!!! AMAZING word🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@GodMade1012]

Anger is pain pretending to be powerful 🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

[@thekelliestark]

Oh taste & see .. a Chef perspective that God is good

[@lyscastr0]

I had to watch this for a second time today after seeing it in person. So so good. Praise God

[@MsBuffalo]

Praise be to God ❤👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 your words are True and Living. I receive Father, Thank you Jesus!!!

[@roslynkelley-world8692]

Thank you, Jesus for this changing word today and also for your obedience pastor to do what God has called you to do may God continue to bless you and your family 😊❤

[@stephanielemelle4522]

This message is Good for Everybody!

[@zennyvelez146]

Father increase my maturity and my love I want to be an effective Christian

[@LaRennEstherTV1985]

Jesus take the wheel on this one!! I want to be and see Heaven! I am a witness.

[@ParisWiggins]

Loving you out of the Love God has for me🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@SheenaMarie05]

My God! Jesus… This word was SOOO good pastor Jerry! 🙏🏽🙌🏽