When Our ‘Feelings’ Become Our God | Khutbah Highlight | Nouman Ali Khan | Dublin, Ireland

[@bayyinah]

What are your thoughts on this topic?

[@MeemNun_ALiF_Revived_LykNvrB4]

inaayat .. shikaayat .. meherbaan .. portion from shukraanALLAAH .. seems to be solution to this .. *" .. .. main apni FAVOURiTE hoon .. .. "* 🥰👸

[@dilruba-to2pb]

Please focus on these issues more, this is one of the modern times’ problems and we suffer a lot. Thanks for the video!

[@opaque3998]

Personally and as a Gen Z, this topic has been something ive unintentionally deepened into during my childhood. At one point, I had realised how self-destructive psychology can be if misused, and instead only used it for my own personal growth. Alhamdulillah, that knowledge had also helped me with my deen aswell. I won't claim to be an expert at it, but I will say I have always been keen at noticing it even before media influence.

[@imserious5994]

😢i wish youbdo it in urdu

[@imserious5994]

Make these videos in urdu I want my mother to here your words ustad

[@lillianamandabrownthomas695]

And here I sit in therapy realizing that I need a better connection with my Rabb in order to overcome my traumas and grief. May Allah Swt continue to protect the Ummah 🤲🏽💜

[@storycharms]

I found Surat al Yusuf very helpful in that regard. Best wishes for a brighter future ❤

[@aiishmael]

Some trauma you keep with you until you meet your rab. Seek allahs help through patience perseverance and salah and keep trying and one day allah will be pleased with you in sha allah and you will be pleased with him and he will fill your heart with his jannah and will remove every lingering sense of injury upon it that heart of yours. When i think about trauma i remember the hadith about how a man will be dipped into jannah for like a second and then will be asked about his suffering on earth and he wont even remember any of it because jannah is so amazing it just made them completely forget their past traumas.

[@NurayaHijab]

Best therapy ever.... connecting to the actual owner of your life....God...❤

[@NurayaHijab]

​@@aiishmaelthis is why the 1st thing Allah did to the people of jannah is to pulling out the sadness the grieves the grudge the trauma (all negative feeling) in their heart. ❤

[@lillianamandabrownthomas695]

@@storycharms shukran

[@samirahsharif5172]

I think people are missing the point here. Western psychology in itself is not the problem, in fact it is a very great tool to understand the self. The problem lies when we ONLY pursue western therapy and self indulge in our own experience WITHOUT seeking truth in Islam / Quran alongside therapy. The best is to practice both together, remaining grounded & humble and keeping strong iman, taqwah & tawakkul. Also it is important to remember the only one we should seek guidance from is Allah swt, not other people. But that doesn’t mean we cannot benefit from these practitioners either.

[@putocuchinta]

100%

[@syedsaifuddin4759]

Thank you for this. Unfortunately people tend to listen to beautiful khutbahs and extract only what their biases want to extract.

[@Notcooltobecool]

Remember that western psychology came from the minds of a degenerate.

[@laibah6011]

Exactly 💯💯

[@sheenscorner1624]

@@samirahsharif5172 AoA! Sister, this is exactly what has benefitted me as a survivor.

[@dawoodzulfiqar6635]

finally, someone said it. This thing of psychology becoming the ultimate truth and focusing just on your own well-being is an accepted form of selfishness and I don't understand why it is accepted unconditionally. Thank you, Ustad for finally addressing it.

[@ShamsLit]

"People experience various calamities in life. As the Quran says, "ما أصاب من مصيبة إلا بإذن الله" (No disaster strikes except by the permission of Allah). The question then arises: Why does Allah allow such terrible things to happen? In this verse, Allah teaches us a profound lesson: "ومن يؤمن بالله يهدي قلبه" (Whoever truly has faith in Allah, Allah will guide their heart). This means that when we face anxiety, anger, pain, sadness, or frustration-perhaps feeling that someone has escaped justice or that life is unfair-if our hearts are steadfast in iman (faith) in Allah, He will guide us through these challenging emotions."🖤 These words will stand as timeless wisdom until the end of days.

[@nana-sn7vt]

💗

[@patrycjaw8323]

Gaslighting isn't telling someone the truth. It's denying to accept their truth and making them feel they are wrong.

[@ayeshamjad02]

but thats not the point, the point is that when u tell someone the harsh truth, often people don't want to "accept it" eventhough it is and so they accuse the other persone of gaslighting them eventhough they are just stating facts.

[@tasnimnuha2065]

exactly what i was about to point out , thanks

[@mary5305j]

@@ayeshamjad02yet there are people ACTUALLY experiencing severe gaslighting from family members and very real abuse but it’s extremely rare to see sheiks addressing this in detailed videos or long lectures. This video is extremely important but there is rarely the other side being spoken about in an Islamic way. Many sheiks I have seen will either say “yeah it happens” and go no further or say “well if you turn to Allah (while the abuse continues) then you get more good deeds”

[@ayeshamjad02]

@@mary5305j that i agree with.

[@evaphillips2102]

Sometimes they are wrong. I had a friend who cursed at me for a year after a disagreement we had, and because I wouldn’t roll over and grovel for her to act like an adult she said I was “gaslighting” her. At this point anyone who uses that word needs to get over themselves.

[@taibohere]

I really needed this ... I have been practicing psychology for 1 year, and my life got worse. I had lost my family happiness and my job as well due to this negative psychology. But islam and Quran helps me alot.. Allah is best healer

[@MO-sx8mk]

Bro this psychiatrist had a 20 mins with me and was already putting me on antidepressants for 9 months ! Hell NAH

[@taibohere]

@@MO-sx8mk 💔

[@mohamedsiddiq3542]

​@@MO-sx8mk Yes NAK

[@rabeeamansoor7588]

This is so true. I did bachelors in psychology, and i felt that i became so negative by the end of year. Like i didn't even practiced it much, just did my bachelors and very few hours of internship. And it's been three years since my graduation, i still find myself labeling people and putting them in a box. It's now i realize ho limiting this been for me. Going deep in Psychology actually hindered my growth and ability to connect with people.

[@taibohere]

@@rabeeamansoor7588 yes. When we try to find faults in people we loose the connection, purity and peace of our hearts. We think we are getting mature but in reality we become alone and can't make relationships and commitment. And result is that we can't even build connection with our seniors at work. The problem is we want perfection. We can't understand this that human makes mistakes and they learn from mistakes and then try to be better

[@QuraanandHadith879]

Alhamdulillah for this lecture, majority of the people needs it🥲🥲it's such a shame that we let our feelings take control over us, 🥲may Allah forgive our sins and guide us towards right path and connects our heart with him❤, may Allah protect people of Palestine🇵🇸 and all the Muslims who are in trouble, Ameen

[@amuslima2]

ameen

[@188royalkeys7]

Ameen

[@-powermanga-5126]

Amin

[@saarahamir9840]

Day after day, it becomes more clear that we’ve been living a life that’s so heavily influenced by the media, and Islam truly separates the right from wrong and removes the curtain of deceit. Subhanallah. From feminism, liberalism, and every fancy word we’ve used in the past is how the Shaitan has crept into all our lives, forgetting that Islam sets us on the Straight Path. We have our way of life which is so beautiful. Subhanallah. May Allah SWT keep us all steadfast and May He protect our hearts. 💕

[@saimathar007]

When you connect the knowledge of the world with quran that is so fascinating and mind blowing. Always learn something from your lectures

[@themelhurry]

This Khutba spoke to my every thought. It's shocking how we worship our feelings and get so influenced by tiktok and IG psychologist who have a phd in creating posts! May Allah guide us all Ameen

[@BushraAqdas]

Sometime we all don't realise that we start worshiping things other than Allah but the heart was created to worship Allah only ,who is eternal every other thing will perish from this world .if this dunya is in your heart you are always going to find yourself dealing with emptiness loneliness and pain

[@aaliyasalimpathan]

We often let our feelings guide us too much, forgetting to prioritize Allah's commands. This lecture is a great reminder to keep our faith above our emotions. Thank you for this important message. ✨Barak'Allahu feekum! Ustadh.

[@5haneOmac]

Faith itself is based on emotional thinking, so blind faith in a belief system only acts as a placebo, whereas mental health based on proper practices leads to better outcomes.

[@IsrarAyubi]

I was so sad and traumatized and I don’t know how I came across this video and I cried and cried after hearing the truth 🥹 thanks may ALLAH give you Jannat. Ameen.

[@noumanasarwat8678]

This message need to be conveyed and you did so.Thank you.Due to social media we all are confused about our relationships with our family and creating a trauma against everyone because we are listening these words narcissist and toxic very often and we are judging every one except ourselves. And its creating real toxic inside our hearts .May ALLAH save our hearts from such kind of fithnas. And please keep it up we need such kind of wake-up call time to time.

[@AlphasPlayBasketball]

This is what I speak on regularly. Mashallah the brother has a gift in giving these things perspective. This needs to be addressed on a much broader platform. Mashallah, he really laid it out.

[@carlosmp1853]

Nouman ali explained this perfectly and opened my eyes again. Before i reverted to islam i got a deep depression but i went to a imam a friend of mine advised me to go and talk to him i felt better i then would see lectures or read about islam and i would feel better it kept me alive. I then decided to go to phycologist for 4 years. I stoped totally my spirituality even mentioning in islam she would get angry and not respond at all. It helped nothing all those years, i would loose my jobs,complain,blame people,hate.. lived basically in a invisible dark world! I totally pushed GOD completely away. I then about 2 weeks ago lying in bed with a low self, sad, tiredness decided to just after a very very long time listen to a ruqyah for magic,evil eye,business. The very next day i felt lighter more better and slowly moving back to seeing islamic lectures and reading. My life is changing and good things are happening to me. Allahu Akbar 🤲❤

[@zohaali1096]

One of the most powerful Khutbas of Ustad Nouman MashaAllah

[@userMB1]

05:00 _"i need to feel good"_ İ remember a psychologist saying that people used to go to the psychologist to get treatment for a disorder. There has been a shift somewhere in the 20th century where people start to go to the psychologist because they feel they don't get the maximum experience out of their lives. You see now that young people, Especially young men, get aquatinted with Stoicism to learn how to live life with pain and suffering.

[@juggernaut2726]

Is stoicism not good? I mean not in accordance with teachings of Islam?

[@userMB1]

@@juggernaut2726 stoicism has a lot of merit and overlap with Islamic teachings. However, it does not connect those teachings to Allah obviously. Whatever we do, we do for Allah (ikhlas). The manners (akhlak) are broader in Islam.

[@ftyler223]

Nouman Ali Khan I can’t tell you how much you have done for me in learning the dean. I identify with you so easily because I see so much of myself in you. In this video you perfectly articulated something I’ve tried to explain to people for so long. You are correct, as we get deeper and deeper into this information age, what comes with it is so much misinformation or bad use of information and misdiagnosing of others. Feelings have truly become a second God for people (money being their first). Society is tarnished with so many problems. I have faith that your work, put into enough hands will truly help make a difference. Thank you for this.

[@putocuchinta]

Forgiveness takes so much strength, I think a lot of people misunderstand that. Western culture often perceives forgiveness as a sign of weakness and submission towards ‘the enemy.’ And forgiveness can also be done in silence and through prayer… so walking away and letting a conflict be can sometimes be a sign of forgiveness. So not “out of sight, out of mind” but “forgiven and not forgotten, but out of mind”

[@smartforneet]

this was much needed thankyou ustaad for incredible contribution to let people understand real Islam.

[@everseeking60]

Agreed. I just love how Brother Nouman brings everything back to the Quran. May Allah bless me with the same attachment to Quran as our dear brother.

[@syedzakiuddin2162]

Ustad Nauman is the best psychologist.. ALHAMDULILLAH

[@yasmin90s]

no he is not...he is just a preacher.

[@yasmin90s]

@@abidrahim7607 you’re misinformed.

[@abidrahim7607]

@@yasmin90s Psychotherapists have their own place, and may help some. But you're straight away refuting the healing powers of the Qur'an. As much as I like Psych, yes, I am misinformed on most of the things but maybe so are you 🙃

[@YasminaReality]

He is not a psychologist. He has convinced you that he is smarter than a psychologist- that's dangerous. Ustad should stay in his lane, astagfirrullah.

[@asiyasheikh6835]

You are the best. You touch our problems and heal them with your words. Jazakallah Khair

[@rji2617]

This is delivered so beautifully and hits really hard. I keep on reflecting on myself (my behaviour, thoughts, judgements) during my difficult times recently, questioning why this happens to me, etc. But one must remember that we also learn and process things, and it takes time. May Allah guide us all and give us peace and ease🤍

[@merjemvr]

MashaAllah. I say the world changed so much, the only solution to all problems is Islam. Thank you so much.

[@arbeena6028]

Wow! Such a relatable Khutbah! Everyone should listen to this timely, highly important and much needed lecture.

[@sabakhan-km5ub]

❤❤ I really love this guy this generation is so lost coz of him we have hope

[@MuqaddasAli-zf2jv]

Hats off to you Ustadh. You are a valuable asset to the world. ❤‍🩹

[@dhikrandlove21]

Subhana'Allah... modern psychology an avenue to chip away at the beautiful Islam. Ya, Ustad, stay vigilant and continue to keep us enlightened with the truth from the Quran.. BarakAllah feek.. 🌹🌿❤️ Reflection

[@sshaiyana]

i thank Allah for allowing me to see this video and i ask Him to grant you Jannah, you always have the right words at the right time for us ❤️

[@sanumkhattak7660]

Immensely enlightening!……..beautifully explained how the disconnection from Quraan and Sunnah can easily mislead people to become a slave of their emotions. This has actually become extremely common to use these pop psychological terms as Ustadh has mentioned. May ALLAH SWT guide our hearts and not let us become slaves of our emotions. AMEEN.

[@ZainabSuleimanUmar]

This! Is a masterpiece for this close to a crumbled generation. Jazakallahu khayran Sheikh because you just spoke what every parent, true friend, spouse and sibling is trying to communicate. I pray that it becomes an awakening to us all. Aameen

[@nailaali2428]

Love his way of expounding any subject that he addresses. May Allah bless him with more wisdom. Thank you Ustad Noman Ali Khan

[@ilmaali9018]

The more I watch his videos the more I'm becoming his fan. Sir you might not know this but you are a healer. There are many islamic speaker but the comfort your video have is something different. Your vibe is so calming and positive and words make an impact. May allah bless you !❤

[@ayeshagohar0d7dataztfzs47]

Jazak Allah khair excellent sooo excellent I don’t have words to Thank May Allah guide our new generation in this matter .Ameen

[@Ummati-u8u]

It really changed my perception Please make urdu translation of this video so that people of subcontinent can benifit from it Thankyou ustad ❤

[@AdinaiZh]

this person is really educated and intelligent. Thank you so much for these insights on Islam

[@gulayaygun3635]

You hit the nail on the head again. I am also fed up with those who think only their happiness and care only about their emotions. We should not live according to our emotions. We cannot. There must be something above and as you said too, it is God's own system or rule.

[@raheemresidence]

❤ May Allah preserve you Ustadh 🤲🏽

[@annay9804]

I think this lecture targeted to ppl who overuse psychological term and obsessed with self-validating content same way as ppl who obsessed with astrology

[@Akhirah99]

Alhumdulilllah I feel this needs to be said , more so now than ever JazakAllahu Khayrun May Allah guides us all to what please Him

[@MOHALSHAMMAKH]

every time I listen to you Sheek I fall in complete pace, Allah pleased you

[@luckyabdurrahman1085]

wow, this is really relevant, I had thought I'd disagree, but when he get into the forgiveness part, when someone has hurt you but they want to redeem themselves to you, it's like the story of prophet yunus A.S.

[@Tuaha]

بارك الله,جزاك الله such an important topic

[@Justa_mia]

This came at the really right time. Thank you. May Allah guide our hearts forever.

[@fatemasithi204]

Allah has always been with me . whatever I was in need Allah has given me and guided me . But I'm the failure myself .

[@storycharms]

Listen again, sister.

[@SmartMoneyRyan]

It's very interesting before I became Muslim I learned alot about psychology. Then when I started to become Muslim I noticed Allah using some of the things I learned in psychology on me. Like CBT. It's like he was teaching me to be a human.

[@AlKane-pz9kq]

Alhamdullilah nouman really be covering all day to day topics may Allah bless all the ummah❤

[@everseeking60]

Yes MashaAllah.

[@talhataki1147]

ustad nouman, please raise your voice for the people of Bangladesh They need you in this hard time You are beloved and acceptable to them They really want you now Just speak

[@ibkamofa4084]

This video came to my page at the right time Alhamdulillah for Islam

[@zabanresources]

I really love this man, great scholar

[@sarapathan6063]

Subhanallah needed to hear this right now

[@ren4893]

We cannot judge another person's heart. Subhanallah, such truth.

[@maryamalfarooqalfarooq5240]

Much needed topic! Jazak ALLAAHU khair

[@kajianjum]

I needed this desperately.alhamdulillah

[@Haya_pret]

Allah u Akbar , yesterday while listening to a hafidh reciting the Quran , this ayah came and I was shocked too and then I read the translation, SubhanAllah this ayah came here , for explanation

[@mohammadnisaf4443]

Subhanallah! Your wisdom always helps us improve. May Allah bless you and your family with the best in both worlds and protect you always.

[@marisahimid8191]

Mashaallah its amazing Khutbah. Thank you so much and bless you.

[@yochatto6452]

alhamdulillah i needed to be reminded of this. i'm going through a lot of feelings at this phase of being a new mother. i'm overwhelmed/vulnerable and so i find myself reading all these advices and diagnosis on social media. i thought it'd help me cope with what i'm going through. and i see now how false that is.

[@nina-gy8nv]

Alhamdullilah! This is a very necessary topic to be talked about. May Allah assist those who have the ability to help us with this issue! Ameen!

[@Tigerlilly23]

Ofcourse it’s a wonderful video .. may Allah accept it .. and the Quran translation you all have done was so uplifting

[@tessabdo6854]

بارك الله فيك وحفظك لامتنا علما ونورا ونحسبك من جنود حفيد رسولنا الكريم يارب العلمين امين

[@aleenakhan7743]

MashAllah He's the best physiologist, motivational speaker, Quran teacher.

[@whitestrip]

Very very interesting. I tried psychotherapy once (because I have anxiety) and absolutely did not see the point of rehashing events that hurt me 25+ years ago.

[@ahmedhamza4510]

May Allah swt keep you guided and jazak Allah swt kul khier

[@aaliyasalimpathan]

JazakAllah khairan, Ustadh, for this profound reminder. Your words resonate deeply, emphasizing how easily we let our feelings dictate our actions, often placing them above our devotion to Allah. This lecture is a crucial wake-up call to prioritize our faith and submission to Allah over fleeting emotions. May Allah bless you and increase your knowledge. Ameen.

[@seekerep6305]

THANK YOU FOR ARTICULATING THIS PROBLEM/PHENOMENON... PROBLEMS OF HAWA AND SHAHWA STEM FROM THIS DISEASE.

[@sameersiddiqui7139]

I cannot like this video enough, always wanted to say all of this to a few, but could never put it this succinctly, well put

[@yasminiqbal2829]

What a beautiful way of explaining each and every point . May Allah Subhanawatala help us to follow the right path

[@rizawanahmed2090]

MashaAllah yet another beautiful Khutba from Ustaad may Allah SWT accept his efforts and protect him.

[@Alina-h5l6e]

SubhanAllah Ur knowledge ur way of explaining things are so amazing Ustad u r really have a passion to make people understand Islam in a meaningful & wonderful way May Allah bless you with the best of blessings aameen 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@whitestrip]

Thank you so much for making me aware of the pop psychology trend (especially on social media). I hadn't realized it until now, and I am now more aware of it.

[@ayeshakunni6908]

JazakAllah khairan may Allah swt protect are brother and sister all around the world. Those loss there loveones may Allah grant them sabr may Allah grant them all higher rank of janatul firdous aameen

[@NaazmaYasmeen]

I really needed it alhamdulillah Allah show me the right path. Thank you for bringing this topic I wanted islamic scholars who will speak about this topic.

[@absycraftsmore8834]

Great khutbah we are facing this today a lot from people and our own children. I believe today’s psychology understanding has an agenda. Good word pop psychology

[@adnanbasic1291]

May Allah reward you for saying the truth

[@AmelaKuiko]

8.25 literaly makes me feel soooooooo saaad 😭 Thank You Allah Always guide me through the hardest way 😭

[@chrisstylez5770]

I’m learning so much watching his videos until the point it’s making me tear up 😢

[@juwaireeyahx]

GOD BLESS YOU FOR THIS NOUMAN ALI KHAN 🫶🏾🫶🏾 SO MUCH HARM HAS BEEN DONE YA ALLAH HEAL OUR HEARTS AND BRING EVERYONE CLOSE AMEEN

[@wajyakazmi8087]

I am going to listen to all of your videos, InshaAllah. It's something I needed to hear.

[@thansheer7493]

I'm amazed how relatable this lecture❤

[@Victorylooms]

Many of us have abused the terms 'therapy' and 'trauma' when we can't give forgiveness a chance. We're actually hurting ourselves more than others.

[@parvezbhat9559]

Ustaad love you sir JAZAKALLAH ❤

[@HumayunGujjar-pz3ge]

May Allah bless you Ameen sir

[@SibghaTraders]

Thank you noman bhai may Allah bless you to jannah

[@mohdnorzaihar2632]

Al Quran repeatedly mentioned the past-present-future of man. Peace be upon you'll out there and assalamualaiqum wmt

[@DzevadTopcic]

Brother, thank u so much . Today u change my life for the better

[@nizam6196]

Allah guided me to watch this video cause how I truly hate the way my dad acted back then that affecting my life until now. I was having a thought that im gonna move away from him cause remembering him hurts my heart and also breaks my Iman. But, through this video, apparently Allah wants me to face it. Alr.

[@Lifesimp]

This is true Applied Quran ! SubhanAllah

[@yuyunsmili1910]

Masha Allah.. this is deep

[@asfieline2614]

This is useful on so many levels...

[@maryamriyas8286]

Subhanallah. well needed advice to the current ummah

[@Shayan807]

Ustad NAK "you know" you are the best teacher. By listening to you "you know" I convinced to the Quran so much. 😊

[@adeyunipuspitasari2228]

Barakallahu fiik, thanks a lot. This really help me

[@abdullahimunir8352]

May Allah forgive me for each time I have judged myself and people. May Allah guide my soul to his path. Amin

[@soumeyalaloui9457]

Jaazaakoum Allah Cheikh Alfaadhil We do need more Muslim psychologists in western countries more in Muslim ones. May Allah protect you Ustadh with your family🤲

[@medacell]

MasyaAllah as a medical student I have a deep learning from you.

[@NasreenKhan-t8u]

U r best guide in my day-to-day life From india

[@JoaquimGonsalves]

I'm sure I've seen this one a while ago. But I'm really glad it has come back to my feed. Alhamdulillah for this reminder.