When The Kids Aren't Home

[@leliav1651]

Oh Pricilla and Asa. I won’t insult anyone’s intelligence by acting like I know what to do in your place. But I am a nurse, who very well remembers a young man with special needs who suffered from obesity. When he needed dental work, he had to be admitted to the hospital with an ICU bed on hold due to the risk of anesthesia for him. Due to his obesity, he was at such high risk for even minor dental work. Stay the course on this issue, and do what YOU know is best for sweet Abbie. I can’t begin to imagine how hard it is to say “No” to that sweet face, but you are doing what is best for her. Stay the course!

[@heidihokes7789]

You were talking toward the end of the vlog, about people mentioning Abbie's snacking...In addition to all of the things you mentioned, people need to realize that Abbie constantly burns calories like crazy with her rocking, running around the house, etc. She burns calories up doing that constant moving, stemming, shaking her arms, etc. It weird to me some of the things people point out!!

[@annaroseannadanna1]

D. Lemmon Not to mention the fact that they’re careful to monitor what snacks she does get AND except while on their vacay, they’ve also cut back on the sugary foods she has been getting. I said FOODS not snacks.

[@heidihokes7789]

@@annaroseannadanna1 yea, really, I agree!! I just do NOT get where it's people's concern! The Maass family has OBVIOUSLY handled things quite well for 13 years....actually longer, when you consider how well they have been raising Isaiah, too. Bottom line is they run their household just fine & are kind enough to invite us all into their home & lives, in hopes to spread awareness & educate people about Autism. They have committed their lives to it & work VERY HARD to share these things with the world! And a SUPREME job they have done, doing all of that!! I have learned SO MUCH about SO MANY things, watching them!! I have NO DOUBT they have greatly helped MANY families dealing with a diagnosis on the spectrum & needing support & guidance, reassurance, etc. The Maass family has made a VERY REAL difference in countless lives, & it REALLY irks me that anyone would find anything to try & pick apart!!! Sometimes people miss the point, because they are SO busy judging, etc. I cannot even begin to imagine the impact they have made, for sharing such valuable information & tools!

[@gigisoglamorousipeeglitter7466]

Yeah, I have seen a lot of weird, unnecessary, judgmental and downright rude comments over a variety of things that are simply unbelievable. On the last video there's a woman who told Priscilla that she sees sun damage on her skin from not wearing sunscreen. Why would you tell her that? That just seems hurtful to me. It's one thing to ask her if she wears sunscreen because it's so potentially dangerous not to, but to point out skin damage? Was that necessary? Priscilla does wear sunscreen...would have been nice to have asked her that though first instead of assuming she didn't. Another woman was upset because Isaiah had a few pieces of Abbie's candy. She felt like it was just for Abbie. Lol! I just am at a loss for some of the comments I see. Like you, I get to feeling defensive of the Maass family and often leave my thoughts to those who leave these kinds of comments. I just don't understand some people.

[@heidihokes7789]

@@gigisoglamorousipeeglitter7466 yes, it's extremely bazaar, some of the garbage people say!! I happen to think Priscilla is beautiful & young looking! I don't know what kind of microscope this person is using, to see any damage! Some people DEFINITELY need to check themselves!!! It's all a form of bullying & it's just not acceptable to those of us that LOVE the Maass family!! Trolls need to take a hike!

[@aliciasmith6488]

I’m honestly happy that i watch your vlog everyday it truly makes my day

[@elizabethlandis6050]

alicia smith I also enjoy watching their vlogs everyday.

[@elizabethlynnehursey6952]

Elizabeth Landis me too!!!

[@kylaniemand7155]

I don't need to tell you this but I'm going to anyway. You are amazing parents with beautiful hearts. I take my hat off to you both. If I can be half the parent you guys are, I'd be a very proud momma. You are amazing!!!

[@heidihokes7789]

I couldn't agree more!! I have trouble communicating exactly how I feel, but what you said, sums it up quite nicely!!!!!

[@justmythoughts7381]

Exactly, well said. We need to keep reminding them so that these negative people do not have them doubting.

[@leslier.1236]

Abbie is not a starving kid trust me new people out there! She eats well but becauseee she can’t stop herself from overeating, they do have to closely regulate her diet. It’s not them wanting her to stay skinny because they like her better that way, it’s legitimately for health reasons because Abbie can’t understand when she’s full. And if she were allowed to eat when and how much she wanted, she could easily eat until her stomach ruptures. She ate a whole rotisserie chicken one time when the fridge wasn’t locked guys! She doesn’t have the ability to care that she’s full. It’s to keep her at a stable weight so that she doesn’t develop health concerns that she doesn’t need to deal with. But she is not a starving child!

[@shawnda835]

Telling your child they cannot eat is one of the harder parts of parenthood. I am constantly bombarded with people's opinions on how often my 9 year Abbi eats. She is slightly overweight but she is also 5 feet tall and constantly active, riding bikes, walking, or just playing. It takes a lot of energy for someone to grow! We have learned to replace with healthier options, but she's still a kid who deserves a cookie every now and again. You guys are amazing people and parents. Please don't let the opinions of others weigh on you. Thank you for allowing us all to be a part of your daily life!

[@AmbAlex1989]

Have been stockpiling yalls videos because I got behind due to work but catching up every day! Can’t say enough how much I love this channel and your family! Can’t wait to see the future

[@lexiitarot]

Still shocked you guys dont have 1M subs yet

[@fatheringautism]

Workin on it! Lol

[@meganloveslife8570]

At least 500k

[@catrinaolivares278]

FatheringAutism question my 4 year old daughter has sensory processing disorder and every time we go to a restaurant me or my husband have to go sit in the car with her because she will tell us it’s to loud or she can’t handle it. We’re not sure if it’s linked to adhd yet because they won’t diagnose her

[@autumnkeefhaver3239]

I know right? I literally tell everyone I know about yall. Seriously! I'm debating on making a channel myself because my little one has Cystic Fibrosis and there aren't really many channels for that.

[@horticulturek9469]

Super weird, aint it? I watch daily 😅😆

[@victoriahttpqveen]

“obviously we’re not small people” and she smiles all i could think was but y’all are beautiful people!

[@kennedywheeler7470]

I want to be a special needs worker when I grow up this helps me understand more thanks for the vlogs

[@MillyRue]

She is pretty active with her stims so I'd expect her to need more, plus shes a teen and teens love food!!! She looks very healthy!!

[@sil_mang]

It would be interesting to have her wear a fitbit and see just how active she really is. Hey, thinking about it they could use that monitor her sleep too.

[@joykittenlover9052]

@@sil_mang they could start doing that but she probably wouldn't wear it right away they would have to desensitize her (at least i think I remember she won't wear like bracelets if she can escape them)

[@britt9355]

All Isaiah wanted was to eat his carrot in peace 😂.

[@jenaegibler5803]

Thank you for being around! I found you guys while surfing Facebook and your family is amazing! I can’t stop watching (: I am someone who isn’t around someone with special needs, so I unfortunately don’t know how to interact with them. It’s truly been eye opening and awakening for someone like me. Keep it up 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻❤️❤️❤️

[@kristenmaxwell2747]

Siblings day 💖 such a awesome brother & sister relationship

[@kristenmaxwell2747]

Tf

[@juliepulliam8025]

I’ve been watching your families videos for so long and never noticed I wasn’t subscribed!! I’m so sorry about that and I did subscribe finally. I love you guys so much and it has been so helpful! My husbands sister has non verbal autism and this has helped me understand it so much more. Thank you for all you do!

[@tonibarlowbarlow5568]

Thank you for sharing your baby girl. I adore your family.

[@chelseababbyyy2490]

Thank you guys for always providing the best vlogs and content! Your whole family is sooo amazing!! You guys are too pure for this world!! Love you guys so much! And thanks for inspiring me every single day of my life. You guys give me so much inspiration and motivation 💜💜💜💜

[@amandahartmann2611]

I love watching your vlogs I found you guys on Facebook and then came over! You guys really spread so much awareness and I have learned so much from watching these!

[@JorelTheKid]

I just had to comment and say that I have just recently stumbled upon your videos and now I'm binging them! I have a 6yr old son who was diagnosed at 4 with ASD, SPD and DD. He is the light of my life but would eat me out of house and home if I would let him! He's hyperactive and burns so much off. People are so shocked when I say he eats more than me. (I'm pleasantly plump myself) I just wanted to thank y'all for all you do with your channel to help spread awareness. You have such an amazing family! 💙💚

[@andreabennerakaandi9256]

I seriously can’t love your family more! You never cease to amaze me in how wonderful you all are!!

[@ROCKNSTIMS]

My son is very much like Abby. He will ALWAYS seek food. No matter if he just ate a huge meal. You guys are doing great 👍

[@mslitterbox]

My name is Linda and you just turned my rough day into a smiling and laughing day. Thank you!

[@llegorburu]

Hello Again! I found the video where you answer all my questions, thank you so much, that video is incredible, you talked about all the things that I was wondering. Thank you guys, you are been so helpful for my family.

[@centralpark404]

Hey, you are all doing a great job. I think most people also don't realize how you don't get enough sleep. That's a huge factor in obesity as well as fake sugars (cancer causing). So much in the world makes it hard for people to lose weight and get healthy. Even vegetables and fruit that aren't organic have pesticides called "obesogens" which are chemicals that basically act like estrogen in the body and causes people to gain weight. It makes you want to start your own organic farm! People just do their best but it's hard these days with so many factors making it hard to people to get healthy. A little understanding can go a long way.

[@blakelynnneff5285]

I definitely don’t see anything wrong with her eating and it’s sad people feel the need to comment on it! She’s a youngster and she could have a high metabolism 🤷🏼‍♀️ and even if she doesn’t being young like she is and eating often and a lot is just part of it when she gets older she may grow out of it! But no one asked for my 2 cents but I felt like saying, I don’t feel as if she eats to much or that y’all are bad parents or anything of the sort I think y’all are great parents and she has a great brother I think she’s living her best life AND SNACKS ARE PART OF IT FOR HER lol lots of love from Oklahoma

[@esthermiller2713]

So glad to hear that Priscilla is recuperating very nicely!

[@laneycakes32]

I love her reaction to the back pack, shes like “yeaaah dad whatever” lol too funny

[@davinashaffer5822]

Glad everyone had fun, n so glad Priscilla is doing better, im sure she still needs more rest.. Maverick is a superstar!!

[@TheBeautifullyLisa]

Im so glad you guys liked the shirts! i'm also a RBT in school getting my BCAB along with being a single mom and running my etsy shop! i Hope Abby loves the shirts! I also have a shirt going out for Isaiah.

[@TheBeautifullyLisa]

FYI not sure if i put it in the letter, but when you wash the shirt wash it inside out and hang to dry!

[@tracykelly-fedoush1160]

MommysLife I’m not a huge Disney or Harry Potter fanatic, but those shirts were awesome! I’m going to check out your shop. Nice work ☺️

[@katcalico9142]

Love the shirts!!!

[@SuperPreston99]

@@TheBeautifullyLisa n.

[@SW33TCUB3]

I laughed so hard when out of all of the packages and letters, Abbie managed to pick the one filled with cookies haha

[@1crackedup]

It’s me again - I also have an eating disorder. It’s really tough - and you already 1 really tough piece in life, most important peeps - your health My health 3 years ago I was so sick I could barely walk. I listened to doc, from the Marines, and I’m running 2 minutes everyday! I swim. I work with a trainer! You both are too priceless not to take seriously. Life is too short. Please know I respect and care! Both your kids are priceless! ❤️❤️❤️

[@debbiestormes8269]

Hi from Liverpool UK. Watching this before I go to bed. Nice to see Maverick had a great time on his little holiday.

[@morgan_c]

That TikTok BETTER become a hit. That was funny as heck!

[@emilystephensphotography7847]

Right before I was about to comment about the pvc genuisness, you mentioned it 🤣 so smart!

[@sourpeach6716]

Food regulation is extremely important for children. Especially those who will eat 24/7. I have "eating issues" that stem from a lot of mental health issues like depression, poor self esteem, etc and I wish as a child that my parents would have given me a better environment food wise. There are times that I could eat for hours and hours without being hungry or feeling full because of those impulses that come from having a poor relationship with food. Plus, once you're overweight, it's very hard to come back from that and I cant imagine how hard it would be for Abbie to have to deal with losing that kind of weight. She isn't even bone thin, so you know she is eating well. Theres nothing abnormal about wanting your children to be healthy physically. It's very upsetting when you see young kids that are already so far over weight because their parents don't care enough about that physical health to regulate intake.

[@hatinobunnet]

Cill.. Your absolutely gorgeous without makeup..just such natural beauty..

[@juliannenance6919]

9:21 Abbie wants a snack and Dad says not right now 9:32 Abbie, being a typical teenager, asks Mom instead 😂😂

[@kimberlymiller2292]

Julianne Nance lol

[@linneamariequentin8216]

Yeah, I noticed that, too. :D

[@hollymcknight8581]

I urge you to very carefully think before you go to a dog park with Maverick. Dog parks can be very very dangerous, and even though he is a retired service dog, he is still a service dog at heart. Many people at dog parks do not have their dogs vaccinated, even though they say that they do, dogs are often aggressive, and many people do not understand signs of stress in their dogs. Signs of stress include shaking, yawning, drooling, or trying to leave the area. Your dog may also cry, and to me dog parks are not worth it. I have had a guide dog for 25 years, and our school pretty much does not allow us to visit dog parks. When you were going to put several thousand dollars toward training an animal, do not mess up the training. Maverick sees you as his pack, and if you want him to play with other dogs, meet those other dogs and their people first, so you know how those other dogs live every day. Just a suggestion.

[@madelinclaireg4446]

We all know Maverick is the real star here 😂

[@XxzombilovaxX]

Can I just say that you have a wonderful family and thank you for making such amazing videos!

[@jamiealonzo2096]

Wow at the end when Asa was putting Abbie to bed it sounded so much like Isaiah’s voice!

[@SSR00000]

I was not prepared for Linda and the stitches in your wahoo....oh my goodness....you guys made my day!! Hugs from Miss Abbie's biggest fan in Zambia, Africa. 💕

[@sierralifeofasinglemom8860]

Don’t worry about what anyone says, it’s not about perfection but being healthy and trying to live as healthy as you can for your family situations Love you guys so so much

[@jeanettemillar8916]

You guys look fantastic! Food choices are so daily. Gone for today and new for tomorrow. Keep rockin ! Fantastic!

[@trinadennewitz7892]

That Tik Tok was AWESOME! LOL

[@stephaniehollier6335]

Absolutely blessed to be apart of your family’s journey!

[@christinebett4677]

I know what you are talking about my son is only 9yrs old and has asd he is always asking for food especially if he is board and he is gluten free so he is over weight we are trying new amounts of food that he is eating he loves his vegs and fruit we are trying to give him of that in his school lunches to. Sometimes he forgets that he has already eaten and when that happens we tell him to have a drink of water instead. I think like my son they will ask until they get the answer they want .

[@kikiwoodard160]

Just love this family. Y’all are so fun.

[@YariRBDFan]

I have two German Shepherds. The boy will gently take things out of your hand. The girl will bite your fingers so throw it lol

[@shirleygreer7209]

it actually takes up to a year to heal inside and out for Total Recovery but yeah she's doing really well so so proud of her!!!

[@somedude172]

as someone with ASD who is a BIG time oral stimmer (ive destroyed every chewy ive ever gotten within a week, chewed the cuffs off of all my hoodie sleeves, chew the inside of my mouth&fingertips til theyre raw, etc) i have the same problem. id be eating 24/7 if i could. the only reason i dont is bc im relatively concerned about my health lol. but abbie doesnt have that concern, so it makes sense for her to constantly ask for food

[@leisepurtle5669]

The man, sitting down, at the mail place was a huge help!!!! Poor Abbie.

[@jaytotheell]

doggy day care is huge here in quebec. there are many around. other places are kinda just temporary dogsitting places and the dogs are just left in a big room, which is totally boring for them.

[@greenmountainbellows8539]

Love the new mail time vlog set up.

[@jeansurinatel5332]

Still loving your channel & the way your family shares with us. Glad you honestly addressed the family diet thing & hope you're not getting a lot of hate comments. Agree progress & small changes rather than some fad diet that makes a person sicker in the end or gain all the weight (& more!) back just as ABA/going out in public/bathroom, etc. with Abbie is about progress. Such strides since I've started watching!! She's awesome!

[@Graesiful]

This is a bit late (catching up on videos:). I have sensory processing disorder, and I have a hard time knowing when I’m full or hungry, so I can relate to Abbie asking for food. Love the vlogs ❤️

[@sj-hb1uo]

I've had a letter, a sticker, and some box tops for you guys sitting on my desk for the last month and a half. I promise they'll make their way to you eventually!

[@hl3818]

Maass Family Love You All !!

[@pacemarshall9358]

Hi Priscilla and Asa! When I heard that you were limiting sugars to Abbi I had assumed it had to do with her issues with sleep and occasional hyperactivity. Have you noticed a change since you lowered her sugars in activity or hyperactivity and mood?

[@aprilfelder3993]

You guys are great parents!

[@penguin26772]

Priscilla look so pretty with her new glasses am so happy she is still ok from surgery

[@llegorburu]

Hi! Thank you for all the information that you guys share through your videos, I was wondering the device Abby use to communicate, is a regular iPad? Or something else, the case that has and the app or program that she use. We live in Spain now originally from Venezuela, we moved here and my son is going to be introduce to a picto communication system but his new therapist is going to make it by hand, we would prefer something more modern since is 2019 not 1979, maybe in one of your videos you mention it but I haven’t seen it yet. If you can help me I’ll really appreciate it. Thank you again, we love your videos and your family.

[@staceyruwoldt9158]

Maverick really is a sweet boy 😊 His seriously the cutest!!!!! 🐶😍😍😍😍😍💓💓💓💓💓 Quote Asa *referring to Abigail*, Asa: "In case she wants to be a gymnast again" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💕 Awww cool shirts 😊💖 Awesome hat too Asa 😊 Abigail is super lucky getting those shirts they're so cool=) Maverick is a super lucky boy himself getting spolit rotten haha 😊💗💗 I'd spoil him too if I had a dog like that! 😊❤💙💜💛💚

[@abcde123456685]

I can’t wait for you guys to hit 1mil subs I’M SO EXCITED 😆

[@nelliezamacona7233]

You are hilarious. Yup, I've got a Linda in my fam. Lol. You all are awesome. Maverick too.💞

[@staceyruwoldt9158]

I forgot to add that end part, with Asa demonstrating a Linda, omg seriously hilarious and Priscilla's responses 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💓

[@annaroseannadanna1]

I ‘bout died when I seen Abbie’s new backpack. My mail order of summer clothing came in today and in it was a tank top with the same diamond design. Same color and all!

[@lisaallen3175]

I love your vlogs. I wait everyday for it to post.

[@heidihokes7789]

Me, too!! If I don't find a notification, I go searching! 😀

[@brookedean761]

Amazing job Abby 🦄❤️🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩😃😘🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩

[@sabrinadawson9436]

Nice backpack! I got the same one from wish but in pink

[@bamagirl8989]

I’m sorry, but who is the guy in the post office just sitting there & not helping Abbie & Asa??My hubby & son would never just sit there & watch someone struggling!! And I know Asa & Isaiah wouldn’t either!! What has happened to chivalry in our world???? But y’all are great & I love the love y’all spread in our world!!!

[@nakita6153]

Linda needs to make some visits in the future!

[@amandawilson8368]

Great vlog! Love y'all!

[@missycorej1110]

Oh my lord! That’s hilarious! You two make my day! Listen Linda!

[@Kelly-jn4cp]

Mavericks puppy camp sounds better than anything I did last summer! Lol

[@PossumWrangler]

Lol I told y’all Bark on Park had great treats....even Abbie agrees 😊

[@Meow23456]

I love Ben’s turtle photography 😍 great vlog!

[@kaitlynpeterson7528]

Yay excited for maverick to go to dog daycare once a week! I used to work for one like the one he stayed at doing daycare and boarding whee they play all day in groups or in the pool.

[@brittanyduckworth4037]

As an Autistic adult I know that food can be an issue. I have food insecurity,meaning I get anxiety when I go out because I’m worried that I won’t get enough to eat. Like Abby chewing on stuff is a sensory thing,I find that chewing gum helps me a lot but I’m not sure if Abby is allowed gum? I loved your Tik Tok video at the end,in this case I would be Priscilla haha.

[@TheBrandiBauer]

People need to mind their own business when it comes to other peoples weight and diet choices. You are grown adults who have raised your children just fine thus far. Before you did KZbin, Abbie was fine and she is now. I hate all the KZbin doctors/dietitians that live in the comment sections.. Find a hobby that doesn't involve criticism over something that is no ones business..

[@SouthFloridaSunshine]

Aww, Maverick was so happy. My friend’s dog actually sprained it’s tail when it went to doggy day camp from having so much fun. Which is so funny, but also not, because he really had pain from it afterwards when we heard the diagnosis you did not want to laugh, but we did..

[@hasaheadachenow]

I don't think much about how much Abbie eats cause she isn't even close to overweight. She looks healthy to me. I myself am overweight, I wish I had someone to control how often I eat. Lol

[@gamom1]

I love your new glasses Pricilla they look great on you💜

[@PotatoQueen1989]

Best part of my morning routine watching your clogs, Maverick is soo cute just chilling on the back seat

[@KristineT8]

Are you going to do a video on PPP for the ricotta bake? Looks delicious!

[@Baylinandkinito]

I love your family love to watch Abbie she is so sweet love Isiah you have a beautiful family

[@andreanairvin7724]

Abbie was so excited this vlog, it was super cute.

[@claudiarobinson9888]

I love the backpack! She was thirsty from the dog biscuit.

[@tiffsjourney877]

Loved the "Linda" tiktok at the end!😂😂😂😂

[@faithandautism-myjourney264]

I have a 9&4yo girls. Both on the spectrum. They. Don’t. Stop. Eating. They always asking for food.

[@dikoehler4255]

Oh you silly kids! Love all of you. 😁💕

[@kwaktak]

Wow on the weight loss, kids. Ah to be young again! It’s not just about the weight though. I found that as I moved into my 40s my body changed. Not so much weight but a marked increase in aches and pains. Getting old sucks. Take your vitamins. PS: I still like bicycling as a low impact form of exercise - mountain biking notwithstanding. It’s still possible to get hurt, get hyperthermia or dehydration so all that gear isn’t “extra.” Another thing I’ve seen is sort of a rollerblading form of cross country skiing that looks cool. PPS: speaking of biking, are there any events for charity there in Jax? It could be lots of fun.

[@wheelerbeauty84]

That Tik Tok!!! hahahahaha!!! Happy Sibling Day to the most amazing brother and sister duo!!!

[@Joakim3693]

Hey. Love your channel guys! I heard you say that Mavrick loves peanut butter, and I know you all have been trying to cut down on sugar in your diet. I thought I might just give a warning if you didn't already know; some low sugar or no sugar peanut butters are replacing sugar with xylitol and that can be very bad for dogs. Just give the ingredients a check to make sure we don't lose our favourite puppy! Xoxo

[@Joakim3693]

P.S. I wrote this before the diet discussion 😋

[@marymcwhorter5315]

My autistic son as it exact same way he can never get enough food I have to cut him off.

[@klancy96]

I will miss Mail Time, but I want to say, I never expect Abbie to sit and stay the whole Mail Time. Maybe just me, but I’m not sure anyone expects that of her as a viewer. I personally love seeing her pop in and out of all videos, especially when it’s something that really captures her attention. - obviously do what is best for your family! Just wanted to comment that most of us might not expect her to stay the entire Mail Time video if that was a concern . :)

[@fatheringautism]

We will still be opening all on camera. Just throughout the vlogs.

[@jyup5850]

Love you guys!

[@netalurie7243]

Hi! so I really want to ask if there some youth movement in America for kids with autism. In Israel we have Krembo Wings, and more... what Abby do in the afternoon?

[@kikiwoodard160]

Love the ending

[@ellej2471]

That chicken meal in the beginning looked so yummy! Loved seeing so much of Maverick this vlog! Loved that Harry Potter shirt too! 💚💜💙