I agree with you 💯 they never change. I had it for 50yrs all the manipulation and control. Making excuses for his behaviour to make it my fault. Now I have been educated there us no way I would have him back in my life. They just lie all the time, I know we are desperate to believe they will change but they don't, it really does get worse and you lose your own identity and become someone you don't like. I did. Thanks for all your education and support. ❤❤🙏🙏