When The Narcissist Deeds Come back To Them

[@ezdeezytube]

"It's better to be alone, with God, than with the narcissist." That made me cry though it is so true.

[@tammymedeiros7325]

@e GOD ✝️ ALL THE WAY 💯

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

Absolutely 🎉❤

[@rosalynjolly2565]

Absolutely ❤

[@angelacahill9083]

Yes absolutely.....God will never leave us or forsake us. His LOVE is eternal. And although it hurts, I'd rather be alone with God....we are not lonely with God but with them we were left out of everything.

[@traceybiles2061]

Absolutely!!

[@eminthenorth4638]

This is so true. When I got closer to God, my ex ran away. They can’t handle the light

[@collectivemindsunique7945]

Same here

[@thendebele]

Same here... They fled

[@judymacdonald9294]

My Narc Ex did the church thing and the scripture thing with me off and on for about a year, but looking back, it sure didn’t take with him seemingly

[@judymacdonald9294]

Narcissists seem to love the facade

[@ZophiaSzczepaniak]

😂

[@JaneJ993]

"Negative hating machines". So true. They are approaching us from another realm. This is a spiritual battle

[@Narcologyunscripted]

agreed

[@denisechaoub90]

Your comment is so true just keep praying 🙏❤️and using your holy water !!!

[@yolijo2402]

TRUE. ENdING my Hell to one now. Praying not pregnant.

[@amyt7378]

He smeared me to his family within the first 8 months. I was around them and felt ostracized and didn’t know why. He lied to them about me. Why wouldn’t he want them to like me? I am so confused. He put me down and I didn’t know it. I didn’t find out until later. He would tell them about my reactions to his abuse(like wanting to look at his phone) and they thought I was just controlling, but not tell them what he did to make me feel distrust. I was good and honest and true. I would try to talk to them and conversations wouldn’t be reciprocated. When I found out I was thinking he was supposed to protect my heart and build me up…not tear me down. Such feelings of betrayals. And the smear campaign is painful. I know the truth but the cognitive dissonance is so strong. I keep praying 🙏

[@bettydoughtery3920]

He planned it, the day he met you, then covered his bases, with family. This nightmare could not afford to have them like you. FIGURATIVELY, and maybe literally, he's a sadist, and perhaps a killer. If he could gin up your so called crimes against him. Thank God, you're out.

[@angelakeely5859]

That's horrible, but they do say Narcs smear you well in advance so that when it ends with the discard they hope they will be believed as the good person, and they hope you won't be believed when you tell your story they do the same with so called friends "flying monkey", it doesn't make it right, you deserve better we all do.🙌🌺✨

[@amyt7378]

@@bettydoughtery3920 thank you so much I needed this greatly❤️🙏 He was a killer in every way.

[@amyt7378]

@@bettydoughtery3920 we were together 4.5 years. I still am just in shock to an extent. He crushed me to his family and fluffy “friends” the whole time and I didn’t realize it until the last year. I have long term and genuine friends. I lied to them all the time trying to make them think he was a good man, even after I knew he wasn’t. I am just unpacking all of this as the discard was a bit over week ago. (Literally after he professed his love and commitment to me). Just insane

[@andig2218]

I find myself happy alone, been following for 3 years. On Christmas someone tried breaking in my house and I then called police, they told this guy to go home… having come out of an abusive relationship and him walking away with a slap due to Covid protocols… I just can’t help this feeling that there really aren’t people out there that care about anything anymore. The only person who can help you is yourself. I hope our savior returns soon.

[@Skyviking]

The one thing I have learned about being with a narcissist is there is really demonic people in this world. The Devil is working hard to take our angelic light. Thank you for this message.

[@jams9705]

There is no ego revenge...it's all about your soul's plan...you gave love and in return was taught self love.....now be strong, be brave and be a warrior!

[@Narcologyunscripted]

great take Jams!

[@angelacahill9083]

Yes we gave love and returned to us was cold hearted betrayal and lies. We have the light inside of us and that irritates the demon within them. We were unequally yoked.....God took us away from them.....His protection over our lives.....the "good shepherd". We are on the healing path now. And yes "self love" is the lesson for sure! God bless you.

[@Nursegurl82]

The love bomb stage came so fast. He told me he loved me & that “God told him I was his wife” within 2-3 months of dating. They move extremely fast. I received expensive gifts before we were “officially” dating. They have to hook you In quickly. He wanted to get married very soon & became extremely annoyed when I was hesitant. He also was annoyed when I didn’t disclose our relationship(photos of him & I together) on social media right away. The short dating period was a rollercoaster. All of the signs were there but I had no idea what I was dealing with & we got married. The marriage was 10 years of hell. Repeated cycle of love-bombing, devaluation & discards. He repeatedly cheated on me & told me it was my fault each time. Nothing was ever good enough as they are never satisfied. He filed for divorce several times(devalue & discard) but never wanted to go through with it. It was his way of controlling me because he knew my family & marriage meant everything to me. He knew if he threatened to take that away, I’d just comply & just look over all of his BS(which I did thinking I was doing what God wanted me to do, save my marriage). These people are pure evil. The last discard was it for me. After cheating, AGAIN, I asked him to move out. He had to control the narrative & be able to say he left me so he filed for divorce AGAIN. This time, I had made up my mind that I was done. He tried to bring flowers & come back 2 days after he had me served divorce papers. Nope. I WAS DONE. Divorce was finalized last month. If you’re dealing with someone you suspect or know is a narcissist, THEY DO NOT CHANGE. Please free yourself. Their goal is to destroy you & keep you tied up in their chaos. God does not want you to be with someone who is abusive in any way. He would not expect you to stay in a relationship someone who is harming you spiritually, physically, emotionally or mentally. Please understand this. God wants better for you. ❤

[@tammymedeiros7325]

@Tara J I TOTALLY relate to this 💯%!!! Believing GOD does want better for me ✝️

[@Nursegurl82]

@@tammymedeiros7325 God does want better for you. He will never expect his children to tolerate abuse no matter who it comes from.

[@Nursegurl82]

@@TRUEWITNESS4U #1. PRAYER #2. I wrote down every incident, horrible thing he said to me, every time he cheated, every time he triangulated me with other women, every time he walked out on me. I called it my “sobriety list” because any time I’d even entertain the thought of taking him back, that list forced me to remember exactly who he really was & all that he had put me & our children through. That list forced me to keep things in perspective & see that he never changed & was highly likely to never change & it just was not worth going back. I encourage anyone to do the same. Screenshots of ugly messages from them, photos of things they’ve destroyed, etc & refer to it when you need to. Stay strong & KNOW that you truly deserve better than what they want you to believe. ♥️

[@diamondeyez8590]

​@@Nursegurl82thank you for your testimony ✝️🙏🏼💓

[@Nursegurl82]

This is so true. The narc ex husband once told me that he hated when he would see me reading my bible because I “changed”……guess his lil demons got irritated when I was in the Word.

[@CCTOOLE]

It bothered mine too and she’s a Christian* and can quote scripture when useful to her.

[@gstar364]

Almost always when you say ‘I hope this is helping someone’ I say ‘yeah it’s me’. Hope you feel better swiftly thanks.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

I am so glad! and You’re welcome 😊

[@rockybalboa4593]

Many times they’re already searching for a new supply behind your back when you haven’t even the slightest clue that you disappointed them or offended them somehow via narcissistic injury because they have such horrible communication skills if any at all. They are absolutely disgusting vile creatures. I am so glad that I absolutely crushed mine because I informed the narc I have proof of all the abusive things the narc said including photographs of their pictures and the online profiles they had behind my back. The narcissist dropped me real fast and vanished from everywhere on social media. Removed all the profiles they had and has been avoiding going out in public anywhere they might run into me. They messed with the wrong person in me. They threatened to go to the police on me because of my “harassment” of them trying to get closure. I told them “Go right ahead. I’ll expose you.” They disappeared real fast from everywhere. I’m not afraid of these demons at all. Sometimes using their own tactics on them is the only way to stop them in their tracks and teach them a lesson.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Agreed

[@sahd0w]

I’m sorry you had to endure being attacked in your comments. Some pathetic people feel really brave behind their computer screens lol. Your videos have helped me heal and grow and also find safety in God. Thank you for everything and how much you truly care about humanity. There are so many enemies on this planet. All we can do is try to learn how to protect ourselves and each other from their influence 🙏🏻 You are paving the way for this and i don’t know where i would be without your words of comfort and wisdom. I thank God that he lead me to your channel so i could heal from the trauma bond that was destroying my life.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

thank you Lisa D!

[@jrlatina]

Was Dave attacked?! By who? Let me know so I can let them have it!! We may be empaths but we are definitely not punks!! Dave you keep up the great work that you do for all of us!! God bless you! ❤️

[@zooz3366]

Thank you ❤

[@JOHN-ei2tn]

@@jrlatina 🤣🤣your funny! 👍🏽

[@jrlatina]

@@JOHN-ei2tn lol hey I'm a Latina first, and super empath second, so don't nobody better make me pull out a knife!! 🤣🤣😂🤣

[@NinthJewel]

Thank you for this message 😢 it’s really reassuring to know that God sees all even when it looks like people get away with things . Praying for anyone who is hurting and waiting on God to bring justice in their lives 🙏🙏

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Amen Jewel!

[@tammymedeiros7325]

@ Nineth Jewel GOD'S TIMING GOD'S PLAN GOD'S GRACE ❤️

[@mayaj4846]

What god? 😆... every narc I know destroys people lives then moves on to better life w no issues. He damaged me forever while he has a great new family now. 😩

[@palepoet]

Left 3 years ago, no contact for a year now! Still hurts- sometimes it hits me weird out of the blue. It’s just so deeply traumatized in my brain. I still haven’t seen him get his. It really makes me wonder if it will ever happen. Trying so hard to heal and move on. Staying single and working on me.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Thanks for Sharing!

[@Cat-sx6ep]

me too 3yrs narc free and now I am able to stand firm and say NO at the jump thank u GOD and Dave

[@odessagreen8142]

They are soldiers of satan

[@amyt7378]

This is such a lonely road to know about this. I’m finding out friends who I thought were friends aren’t. It’s the turning of the knife. It’s additional betrayal and pain. Wondering if they’re narcissistic too. 😢

[@rosejones5535]

I feel your pain it is very deep

[@josephflamm2262]

Yes! Once you learn the truth about these people, you evaluate perhaps ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS! And quite often they are lacking. The reason. You are very likely compassionate and caring. You just were not familiar with these people. Now you are blessed. You KNOW! And moving forward you cut some people out and others never get a chance at you goodness

[@taffylove6193]

❤Sorry for your pain. Ross Rosenberg describes this in his book Human Magnet Syndrome...The pain is awful~~💞💞💞May you heal & find peace!💞💞💞

[@tyronesmith8305]

They are either only seeing the sweet side, or are codependent and suffering cognitive dissonance, but best left behind as well. And one day one or more of these enablers will tell you they saw the truth finally, maybe even apologize and should be forgiven but kept at a distance.

[@Ariespath9]

We can be pen pals

[@annsam2111]

Tell it Dave, you're absolutely correct! Let the church say, "amen!"

[@Narcologyunscripted]

AMEN

[@amynoe8173]

I got with my ex when I was 14 . Married at 19. Divorced at 40. Difficult process. Changed people. Changed minds. I'm yoked with God's will 4ever. Alone if neccessary. I pray he will one day too.

[@stylist62]

🙏🙏😭😭😭🥰thanks, exactly what happened he met me in grief, they love darkness hate evil. The devil comes to kill steal and destroy, God came to give us abundant life, not to give it to a narc. GOD help us all🙏🥰🥰in Jesus mighty name🙏🥰🥰🙏God was giving them a chance with us

[@alexandragbeauty2451]

My ex narcissist husband married me in 3 months. So depressing to know now that it was a toxic Union. He made me believe he was my soulmate. After the first month of marriage he started my hell on earth.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Sounds familiar Alexandra!

[@avasrx2012]

After the trap you, the mask comes off

[@pauloloura2898]

My narc ran 9 months ago she tries to Hoover but I ignore her completely ,If it’s gods will I’m sure he’ll send someone new into my life that is respectful, caring,and loyal…stay strong everyone

[@fromhopelesstovictorious275]

The devil is a liar. When you call the devil out that's when he really takes off his mask and goes full on narcissist level 1000. Only to be slayed by The Sword ( The Word of God). Hold on tight to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.

[@777JESUSISLORD71]

AMEN

[@lisas1625]

"Lets pretend grandad isnt a psycho" is a dangerous game i do not want to play! 🤮

[@Jl-ou4jt]

All the deeds in the dark will come to the light. " DAVE ABSOLUTELY powerful

[@Danzaxe69]

Dave, I see in your eyes that you still hurt. I feel it, too. You almost single handedly pulled me from the depths of hell. I am truly grateful for you and the message you purvey..thank you

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Thank you Dan, without God I wouldn't be here. Thanks for your words!

[@michellebrown893]

I moved in with him after one month and then I even moved to another state away from family and friends (shaking my head at myself , while writing this ) I'm awake now , I choose the light

[@michaelmorgan7893]

I'm out here in California, and there's so many narcissists out here, that after two bad relationships, I'd rather just be alone. I'd rather have my peace of mind than to try to deal with the spiritual mind games. There's no one out here. As for the question of the day: Mine took the initiative and it was about three months. She had me with her within three months.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Amen Michael

[@sicibell]

Within a month he moved in with me. However, what I will tell you is that although I was with him I never “checked in” the relationship because I wasn’t “checked out” from my last relationship and still nursing the previous break-up. I wasn’t emotionally vulnerable to the narc, therefore, I was able to discern within 3 months who and what he was. I am one of the very few who made it out not crumpled on the floor having to raise my daughter and put the pieces back together. Fortunately, I had money to just leave and never look back. God saved me in so many ways and continues to protect my daughter and I despite I have to deal with him occasionally. The ex is a a covert vulnerable narcissist and because of where he falls on the spectrum, he exhausted all his legal resources and failed at vexation litigation. He has to go through me for limited access. I already know his fate because he has struggled with addiction for 23 years and has no plans of changing, regardless the lip service “Mouth” from Goonies tells me lol.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

lol, thanks for sharing!

[@sicibell]

@@Narcologyunscripted you are welcome lol!

[@roslyncerro1263]

I never want him back. Lonely is one thing. Abuse is another.

[@marycrowley1442]

It’s sickening to watch the aging narcissists. They only get worse.

[@ShortnSpicyNikks]

Hallelujah Lord Jesus. Same here, I'm a work in progress. I share how the narcissist and his witchcraft working mother, tried taking my life on my channel. We have to testify and share our testimony, so others can be blessed from how God rescued us. Glory be to God

[@rachelcaullay172]

It is the rock bottom of being with a Narc. Does not get any worse than this.😔😑🚶‍♂️🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️ Been there and done it. No looking back. And keep walking and don't stop. Thank you Dave.

[@crystalla_mgmt]

Being with a Narc is the worse experence i ever been though in my life.... its not worth it you end up losing your mind your self esteem your hope your faith yourself....... please pray pray and pray there not human.

[@thpuma2589]

So true

[@elizabethbrown5133]

Thank you for teaching the unadulterated Word of God✝️✝️✝️

[@楊宜強]

Mine smeared me to his family while we were dating and was getting ready to cheat on me with another man's girlfriend. I just couldn't understand why no one in his family would talk to me. When his parents` birthdays were celebrated in restaurants, his sisters would leave the restrooms when I walked in. Then when his oldest sister complimented him on doing something that I had wanted to do for his brother and he opposed it, he just lowered his head and said nothing! I was stunned that he had fooled them all completely for so long. But saying something to another sister about him brought a hate stare. The damage had long ago been done. As a result of that and numerous other lies, I went from believing and sharing to assuming everything he says or does is a lie. And they are lies. Thank you Dave for this valuable video telling us even more information on who they really are and what they are doing.

[@tracy.28]

Dave I am licking my fingers after devouring this meal of truth. I am just eating up the truth. Keep going Dave! God will strip you down for all uncleanness the closer you get to him. Yes all things will be exposed with the brightest light that you can’t escape even if you tried. Dave I can relate when you are seeking God and eating these scriptures up you can discern evil very sharply but it’s a challenge keeping your mouth close when God says be quiet and just be sweet to them. We must become better stewards of what the Lord has trusted us with. God Bless you Dave!

[@dynahmaranatha2954]

It took me almost 15 years and three children, countless moves all over the United States, and countless deployments and that is where I realized I was the happiest is when he was gone on a deployment. Don't get me wrong I still was really fooled and was being manipulated all the way through what I wanted to start marital counseling turned into divorce proceedings and not by my choice but it would be today. It took a whole lot of hell for me to wake up and for me not to be loyal to a liar and a cheater and someone who makes me feel like I am in his own words a worthless piece of s***. There was nothing I wouldn't do for him there was no cheating, I looked very well and I did everything to perfection and that's not breaking that's just a lot of hard work that was thankless.

[@Tsharetrainer]

Second heaven opened up and unleashed its hatred and force against my light, in a manner that it was only with God's help and His given strength that I was able to survive the such a deadly storm. Thanks for the remainder of what to be aware of.

[@cherinhunt9152]

Dated & married 7 weeks in,move in 2gether after 4 weeks. Knew eachother sunce we wer 8 years old...im free & on my healing path now,w/ thus new awareness.thnx,Dave.

[@GypsyDee]

Everything you’ve been saying is true. You help me get thru the biggest heart break EVER!❤

[@Narcologyunscripted]

I am so glad Yomomma is healed...lol:)

[@rachel0920]

Preach baby preach!!!!!

[@Tsharetrainer]

This video is an eye opener and a fair warning to keep your eyes on the Lord and not on human.

[@jeanmarie3258]

His sister had my smear campaign well in place before he discarded me. His mam had passed, he was left her house. He had me do 6 months back breaking work on the house while terrorising me. 35 minutes after I'd finished the last room he threw me out, while his sister applauded. They thought they had destroyed me, they nearly did. Took me 3 months to get out of bed. It never crossed their minds I'd grt better and step into my power and reveal them both. I did. Almost 3 years no contact and wouldn't be here without your message Dave. Happy new year from Ireland 🇮🇪 ☘️ 💜

[@JaneJ993]

Dave, your words are great. You're spreading the Word in these videos. I became Mrs A bc you encouraged us to stop being Mrs B. And your "Old Yeller" reference was really great, cuz in the past, I went back twice back in 2018 cuz I actually felt sorry for him. I don't anymore

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Go Mrs. A!

[@susantodd7169]

I don’t remember the old yeller story

[@tammymedeiros7325]

It seemed to happen every 4 years ... 2014 2018 2022 ( The FINALE ) Thank you JESUS for saving me from this Evil, Demonic Creature. Wish you the best with all your supplies & flying monkeys 🐒 ... y'all deserve each other 💋

[@silungilejohn-grace]

I always connect to your revelations about these narcs...very sad that they even use the name of Jesus in their manipulations 😭Thanks God Jesus saved me. It ain't easy but only Jesus is able to do the healing... I'm still in a healing process and God is faithful.

[@chrisgulliford3434]

Nothing turnes you back to God quicker than a narcissist

[@anenglishlife7210]

Dave, you are imho, after watching you on and off for nearly four years, the very best channel for narcissistic abuse recovery. Thankyou thankyou thankyou 🙏❤️

[@KIIINGDAVID1]

I love this man ... luv from Toronto Canada 🇨🇦. Doesn't matter where in the world you are .. Narcissists are all the same . Luv your content sir and thank you 😊

[@Narcologyunscripted]

I appreciate that CANADA IN THE HOUSE!!!!!

[@lissyaviles4316]

1 month and I’m a believer 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@HonestyIsAVirtue7]

Misses A is the narcissists narcissist 😆.. That's me! I'm Misses A! 😍 But, the good part is, I don't hate anyone like a narcissist does. And, I don't get pleasure from causing other people pain. I have a heart inside of my chest. And, I have empathy and sympathy. And, I feel love for humanity. But what I don't have is time to play mind games with a reprobate. They are empty, empty, empty inside. And that, is not my fault. It's their fault. They chose to be like that. I had to edit this because I goofed, and said Misses B instead of A 😆.. I fixed that real quick lol

[@erejoeerejoe9325]

We met at work. So it was zero dates and was pregnant within 3 months. It’s painfully my reality

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Thanks for sharing, hang in there!

[@latashakendrick9709]

Me too🫣

[@pennyholgate7000]

Your a blessing I really enjoy your channel very much. The narcissist people have affected me spiritually because one leader in church used me for his benefit. I couldn’t believe a Christian can do that.😞 Also the Naricissit pastor was abusive also. I did criminal background check. They both have a record. The other leader who uses me as supply. Has one for a criminal record for domestic violence. He would say his sad poor comments. He says his ex girlfriend was crazy or she is a terrible person. But I investigated on him. He has custody with her with two boys. She told me he’s controlling as his mother. His crime was domestic violence. I sense it before I investigated about him. He was my rider for church as well. Because I’m musician I was the supply by helping him with singing play piano also part of Worship team. He just uses me as a supply and weakness of my kindness. I don’t understand why the church didn’t look or in back ground check. I was in danger risk with this narcissistic person. By allowing him to be in Leadership. He knows I’m aware and not naive. The narcissist pastor was taking his side. And Gaslighting me. People use you as supply like a snickers candy bar . Once they eat the candy bar. Or they are finished with you as the candy wrapper in the garage Trish. I can’t find you on Facebook 😊I like to connect. I like you David because you are a good Christian man. The Lord has gave you wisdom discernment. I told narcissus off. I don’t regret standing up to them.

[@sylviaamodeo7090]

Thank you for your videos. Moved in under a year. The love bomb engagement with a cheap ring got me. I thought he seriously loved me, lol.

[@redone2184]

wow.. that final question Punched me..... "how long before the Narc moved in"..........We were in our 20's, after the First Nite of being together, in My house (he still lived at home) I mean the first Nite.....He came over Every Day..... Until he never left.....that was 36 yrs ago......

[@JaneJ993]

I never moved in with him, thank God or married him. But-we were a couple for ten yrs

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Oh wow

[@carriefawcett9990]

I bloody love your accent, it's so frigging cute😅 From 🇦🇺 My ex devalued me and ignored me so much, I packed up and left even though I did NOT want to, and I still loved him. Then he told everyone that he'd "tried" in the relationship and I LEFT HIM! I couldn't believe it. This is what they do.

[@jonathanomahony688]

I was with my narcissists husband for 35 years and looking back now I see all the signs. When we first met he was the greatest, lots of love bombing now I know the name for it. We moved in together after about 6 months. He had told me that he had finished with his ex girlfriend because she had cheated on him. Now I know that this was not true as it was him that cheated on her with me. When I look back now I see all the signs that he is a narcissists. The way that he destroyed his ex girlfriend telling me that she was crazy, phoning him all the time. Chasing him around begging him to come back to him. Now I see why this lady was doing these things, it was because she was trauma bonded to him. She was so in love with him that she would have done anything for him to come back to her. I never could understand why he never spoke to her again after they finished. For 35 years that we were together he never never spoke to her. Now I know it was the silent treatment he was giving her. Now me on the other hand am a very strong person. I couldn't understand him and during the last 2 years of our marriage I began to see things and hold him accountable. I began to stand up to him and question everything. O boy he didn't like that one bit. Than something happened that I wasn't going to let go and I demanded answers. I was holding him accountable big time. No way was he getting away with this. So I wasn't getting any answers so I took matters into my own hands. I decided that I would go to his pastor and he to could hold him accountable. So I did go to his pastor on a Sunday morning service at our Christian Church. O boy that didn't go down to well. I had called him out in public and caused a narcissists injury. The look on his face was something that I never saw in the 35 years that we were together. I discarded him, went no contact and sent him on his way. He became more aggressive, angry , and full of hateard. Everyone was telling me that he never wanted anything to do with me ever again. That he could never forgive me for going to the pastor. I always taught that Christians were to forgive one another just like Jesus had forgive us. But you see he wasn't a true Christian, he was a wolf in sheep's clothing. Because I had figured him out and called him out on his behaviour, holding him accountable in public that didn't go down well. I had removed the mask from him. 4 months on I am still in no contact. He will never contact me again as I had injured him so so bad. I damaged his self image and someone had also been informed outside of me. So glad that I saw what he thoughtly was, and that I wasn't trauma bound in any way to him. As I said I am a very strong person and I believe because of this strength within me I was able to stand up to him and not let him get away with anything anymore . Masks is now off and I figured him out. Shame on him for playing a game with me for the last 35 years. But what do they say......WHAT COMES AROUND, GOES AROUND. HIS DAY WILL COME ONE DAY , I TRULY BELIEVE THAT. WE DO NOT GET AWAY WITH HURTING PEOPLE LIKE THEY DO. IT ALWAYS COMES BACK AROUND AT YOU. I HAVE SEEN THIS HAPPEN TO OTHER PEOPLE WHO HAVE HURT OTHERS. AT THE MOMENT HIS LIFE SEEMS TO BE CRUMBLING AROUND HIM. SO ITS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE HE GETS A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDICINE. SO SO SAD, BUT SO SO TRUE.

[@AZDC99]

1:00 "If they're not seeing this admiration fuel, they're making plans, guys!" Plus one. Of course 20/20 hindsight is good (I could not see it otherwise until I had that point of view). They were trying to sneak me into a more subservient role even next time around. Without putting up a fight, they pretended not to, but they were trying to steal me from myself. NO CONTACT RULES AND I'M OUT

[@Grrrrrrr123]

My narcs mother recently said to me there are two sides to every story… so I told her straight NO he abused me I did not abuse him 🙏

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Mom's of Narcs don't fall too far from the tree, and will project the narrative given to them by their Golden Child. Glad you spoke the truth.

[@angelfire77777]

@@Narcologyunscripted this is so true. No accountability for their actions, everyone else is to blame and only the “good” they’ve done is over exaggerated to soothe any possible conviction and enable justification for their actions 🤦🏻‍♀️(the narc and his mothers dynamic)

[@chriscole5990]

Hope you get better Dave we been hit with some freezing 🥶 weather down here in Florida too I got a chest cold I'm trying to shake off as well. Thanks for another great video bud. ❤️

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Thanks, you too BROTHER get well!

[@katrinaedwards9843]

Needed this message today. Thank you Father!

[@room333rd]

Dave I'm not into religion but I pray. I appreciate you so much for bringing God into this. I love the part where you mentioned the mask coming off when you get close to God. I seen this in real life and boy let me tell you nothing irritates a narcissist than to see their supply get close to God. 😭😭😭 Also because these people dabble in witchcraft and dark art to control us.Dave you're so dead on. This was timely. Dave have this ever happened to you as a child because people with light are targeted from birth. Maybe you already mentioned this already. I also love the way you deliver. You have this sense of humor.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

your words are such a blessing, thank you so much and God Bless!

[@amyt7378]

I keep going back and listening to this video! This video hits me so deeply on so many different levels! I am one month and one week ouch of the disaster and still no contact🙏🙏

[@maria29x]

This is true i was with him for 11 years i feel like i have wasted alof of times but i am free now !! 🙌

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Amen!

[@plantisspeaks]

Glad to report, I'm a Ms. A❤️🙏🏾. One year and a half of no contact 💪🏾. I continue to receive hoovers, but I never respond...fake social media pages and friend requests...I block and delete. Dave you helped me through some of my darkest days when I was ghosted/discarded. Thank you! I'm trying to support a friend who is tied up with a narc. There are more narcs out there then ppl know. Social media platform are their playground. Be careful folks.

[@truthseeker_phoenix]

Don’t throw your pearls before the swine lovely people! You’ve got gifts and a heart full of love that they will only trample on. They will delight in stamping your light out, because you soul, full of love and God’s light are a reminder to them of the very source in which they have turned away from. They don’t believe they are worthy, despite acting and talking like they are beyond worthy. Their disgust of your goodness says it all.

[@fromhopelesstovictorious275]

Great video. I never moved in with the narcissist. I never had him over at my place. He had his own place.

[@angelakeely5859]

Wise girl 👍🙌

[@JumpWatsonYT]

I❤this!! I gotta come back and watch he rest tomorrow

[@isabelleallemand6063]

You are so accurate on this and the little touch of humor make it more bearable &fun. So many blessings to you Dave ,mighty brother in Chist 🙏✨✨✨✨✨✨✨🌟

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Thank you kindly!

[@marijaco4146]

I have been listening to you for a couple of years and at the start of this so called relationship. You are absolutely right! Empty meat suits and the garage. He thought he could foster his relationships while I let him stay at my place. I’m glad I got to see how he operates and how I fit in as a supply. I started saying to myself wth is this?! Finally done but not after the weirdos discard. Had a bit of my own part in the discard which was satisfying. Thought I’d never be free of this devil…

[@BlestChains]

I'm still wearing the 'promise ring' the Narc got me, well I picked it out and of course it wasnt big enough or flashy enough (but if it was it would have been too much money, the ticky trick of damned if you do damned if you dont) but I liked it because it suits me. The day I got it Dec 24th 2021 after being resized he said "So what's the promise again?" and got upset and all "cant you take a joke!?" when I was like "REALLY?! :'(((((" I just had to change the whole concept of the ring to 'God's Promise' ring and I feel infinitely better about the whole thing. God is amazing, and He can do anything. He is a way maker, a miracle worker, a PROMISE KEEPER, a light in the dark. That's my God.

[@LoriSings65]

The discard came out of nowhere!

[@Narcologyunscripted]

It usually does!

[@rosalynjolly2565]

Wonderful Dave 😮

[@loviebyls31]

Walking talking hating machines ….this is correct! And so right they never loved

[@DragonsLairz]

The devil only desire is to drag as many as he can in hell ,devils can be man or or demon so be aware and surround your self with good and prayer

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Amen dragon's lair to that!

[@lissyaviles4316]

I thank you so much God speaks threw you 💯

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Thank You so much!

[@hayden985840]

God bless Dave. Thank you for your work. You ve changed my life

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Very welcome

[@marjoriefidanza6126]

Sadly I finally had to let go of my grown narcissitic children They have abused me Like their father did many years ago I divorced my ex and am shocked my children are carrying his curse I raised them with love and compassion and gave many chances but cannot go on anymore like this or I will surely die Im alone sad and 72 yrs old I was a professional and enjoyed raising my children with trust and honesty but they grew up and betrayed me Is this common I do believe this generation is being overtaken by the devil For my daughter who called me evil and twisted after all I did for her in my life Well she stabbed my heart Any other parents or grandparents having these issues ?????

[@Cat-sx6ep]

less than 6 months and he started to stay with me and it was apparent that he was living with his parents not to help at all the other sleeping on his sister couch I AM NO LONGER playing house 12 yrs apart I learned to stop being caring to a fault

[@kionajones4331]

God Bless you!!

[@johnholmes6741]

Another word for sin is selfishness. The narcissist is built to “take from you” and what they can “get from you”. They’re selfish sinners. Many of them know this and do not care. They know there’s a way out and steps they can take to change. But they will not do them. Those are the lost causes. That’s what my ex girlfriend narc was to her core. I remember (just for sh*ts and giggles right b4 the discard about 4 months ago I said (and this was just to get a reaction) “you’re gonna take me down the tubes with you I’m gonna throw 29 + years of sobriety away” now on a scale from 1 to 10, she had 0 affect on me. Zero. But I said it just to gauge her internal gut reaction to those words. And I swear to god, I have never in my life, seen someone entire face and spirit light up like a Christmas tree, she literally couldn’t contain it she was ecstatic inside tingling with excitement that she thought she was finally going to destroy me. Lol. Little did she know I was playing her like a fool. But I knew right there - this was a demon, satan in the flesh. She knows I’ve sponsored over 300 guys in those years and helped lots of people get their lives and families back together through recovery. And she knew taking me down would destroy a whole lot of people I do for a lot for and rob future others - this is what excited her most! Haha. Let’s just say when I saw that response from her, I made it my internal mission to destroy her. Which I fully did all I could to make that happen. I devoured her. She has a trust fund 26 blonde hair blue eyes very attractive physically lived in a million $ home. 2 weeks later she was living in a tent fully addicted to meth with her new supply who was really a meth supplier. Haha. Joke was on her not me. Her brain is now 4 mins later - permanently destroyed from that new synthetic meth. You tell me good didn’t triumph over evil this time. God has me 100%. Always has. And I already knew this. I knew she was going to be flushed strait down the toilet pipe and it’s been a pleasure for god to use me as his vehicle to do it. Thanks Dave - because of your videos which I stumbled on day 1 of the discard, I blocked her within a week of the discard 3.5 mos ago as well as her parents and anyone else associated with this pure demonic monster. Loool. I had never even heard of a narc. I just knew I was a representative of gods light and gods word and anyone that messes with that will get destroyed so I never sweated anything even once. I was winning before I met her. And I still am. Haven’t skipped a beat. Thanks to god and his people like you. Take care, and god bless. Thank you again for all you do Dave. It’s very important and you’re helping in a big way. Take care

[@nancyaho4639]

I hope you have since met someone new, Christian & your happy

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Yes I have:)

[@marykarle3997]

I so enjoy your videos Dave, and I have found everything you say about the narcissist to be absolutely true! I so hope you find your person who will treat you right!

[@wilfridjoseph6172]

Hoping so for him too

[@freespirit9806]

Never left my own house. Completely. Thank God. But after breaking up my engagement by taking off my ring ( that was one and a half yrs in) it went on back and forth for another 2 yrs. I came across the word “ narcissist” and went online to research. Went NC and started my journey into being awakened.

[@JaneJ993]

Happy Tuesday Dave! Great to see you!Cinnamon coffee today. Yes, mine was in the harem garage big time, the entire time we were together. I even saw a couple of them at different times when we were out. I finally got rid of him

[@freespirit9806]

My daughter got tangled up with a Narcissist. She’s mrs B. Takes all the blame. Even willing to give him full custody of their baby. What can be done ? We need God’s intervention .

[@narcslayerg2631]

This is all true. It’s all about the devil wanting me dead.

[@KatherynInc.]

It took me 8 months before I moved in with the narc. As soon as I was trapped in the haunted house with kids, the abuse got worse and worse until now I am homeless. It is a spiritual battle and my mom was a narc also. I finally got free after 53 years. I had to sacrifice a lot to get here.

[@tiffanykilpatrick-winter165]

The love bomb was crazy. 1st date was like an episode of the Bachelor/ette "yuck" We lived in Santa Barbara gorgeous and romantic by itself. We went wave running off the jetty. He dumped in the ocean. He offered to buy me dinner. Out of the wetsuits back into beach gear and we headed to a harbor cafe...with outdoor seating. I couldn't stop shivering so we went to the hot tubs...2nd date I was working in a bar next to the one he worked at for my 2nd job. I was reading book 1 of a series my father and I were reading. He walked in with book 3 which he was reading. We agreed to ditch the other people we were dating. I told him if we got married I was Christian and my children would be and we needed to find a church we both liked...3rd date Sunday service at the church where we eventually married. The big one, on State Street that looks like England made a donation to Santa Barbara!!! He proposed in the parish hall after church. The irony was a parishoner saw it happening and said out loud, "Is this what you want?" He then apologized and said congratulations.

[@roslyncerro1263]

My ex was angry like a toddler when he asked me if I love God more than him!

[@anndra1160]

Same here! Mine would always pretend like it didn't bother him when I'd tell him I loved God first, and him second because he liked to call himself a "Christian". Inwardly though, I knew he was seething. His actions did not align with those of someone who loves the Lord. Called him out many times, and there was always an excuse for his actions. He actually called himself "lord of the house"... I told him "NO! JESUS is the ONLY Lord of my house"!!! The look of anger and pure hated was just absolute evil staring back at me!!!

[@denisechaoub90]

Thanks Dave for all you do for us all we all ❤ u and support you always !! Feel better

[@annettedevries7559]

You really helped my through the relation shit. Haha. And i found God again also. i,m so glad that you,re back. God bless you...🙏🙏🙏

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Praise God Annette glad to help!

[@NakiH90]

This is very true my ex waited for me to break up with him first, he planned this he was purposely trying to destroy me not less than 2 weeks after the break up he was with someone else than made me look bad with his family.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

They tend to do that!

[@KassieP-sf6nz]

You are right your channel helped me not to take that demon back. He only has looks nothing else he wants told me he was a god

[@debmccafferty1007]

Never return to a deceiver.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

wisdom

[@straightfromthedivinetarot]

Thank you. I hope you feel better soon. Happy New Year to you and yours 🎉

[@lamontjohnson1101]

Thank you 🎉

[@marlenehaigler6603]

Thank you so much

[@Emmanuel-sr5lh]

Your videos make me feel better brother thanks a lot

[@Narcologyunscripted]

It's my pleasure Emmanuel, love your name sir

[@1TrumpVoter]

Jan 1st will be 4 years no contact. Thank goodness. It's been wonderful being free of him.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Amen!

[@leahj2956]

Jan. 8th for me will be 4 years no contact - congrats!!! 🖤💪

[@dahna4822]

Hi Dave, here’s my A to the Q of the day (though it’s embarrassing to admit, but hopefully can help someone) The “Move in” was Far Too Quick! I barely knew the guy & looking back I was Too nieve, what the Bible calls a “silly woman” I was Not walking w/ the Lord & had a Ton of lessons to learn about Life- Thank you & Please keep educating on The Truth of God’s Word❤️

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Amen and will do, thanks for sharing!

[@steved9999]

I look just JT and a single devoted Christian