When To Adjust & When to Avoid People: Ep 29: Subtitles English: BK Shivani

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We have to discern when to adjust and when to withdraw from people, explains BK Shivani. Each soul has been on a long journey of different situations and hence has created different sanskars. When it comes to differences of opinions and ways of working, we need to adjust with others, not avoid them. Only when there is abuse or compromise of values and principles, we can withdraw.
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[@KanchanKumari_]

The HOST is so real and just asks honest questions, really amazing! 'In order to have best answers and seek knowledge, one must have curious questions', this ability is possessed by him! while watching every episode of him feels like my questions are being asked. So real he is. Amazing!

[@sumedhakataria3754]

M

[@jagannathkathuria4275]

धन्यवाद जी सदा खुश रहो बहुत बहुत धन्यावाद बेटा

[@aditi2686]

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[@rihyashaikh2437]

0.

[@ritobandatta124]

True

[@dance7344]

I tried this technique when recently someone blasted on me for an hour continously. I kept quiet and it really gave me peace, that I didnt create any negativity inside me. No regrets.

[@mariamalhotra8228]

You are a winner !🏆

[@shauryasoni5961]

99

[@shubhlucky2960]

But if this kind of situations happen with you daily then what should we do

[@apoorvaminocha853]

I also do this many times...but How long one can have patience for listening bad words from someone....sometimes my feelings just burst in front of that person.....wat to do if that person is really soo mch wrong in his/her words...if they hurt us daily...daily if that person just hits me with bad words...😔

[@dr.nainasharma2548]

Purana ganA

[@madhabmondal8890]

3:46 good counter .❤️❤️ This man is excellent anchor. He always raises counter questions on our behalf

[@payalmodak23]

He s a 80s hero , Suresh Oberoi

[@passionhub6024]

@@payalmodak23 yes papa of Vivek Oberoy

[@soniasingh1087]

True. I really like that he raises same questions we get in our mind.

[@mahuaraychoudhury9368]

In each and every episode,I am in awe of Suresh ji...his bluntness is praiseworthy. And,Sister Shivani explains her best.

[@sparshbansal7641]

Other episodes kha milenge?

[@nonu1401]

Sir is so cute here... Kind of bacha man he has. But very true and honest.

[@anjanakaushal8]

Right ... The way he asks the questions and all his questions ...so childlike 😄

[@MegaAnirudhsharma]

He is a pure soul. Transparent as a crystal!

[@DnyaneshwarPanchaldsp]

💐💐

[@rajenderkhede4121]

Omg santi

[@rajenderkhede4121]

Omg santi

[@gururaj2982]

She explained core of human sufferings in a great way. She is brilliant. Keeping inner mind calm is power.

[@paaru11]

I am in such a toxic relationship, my husband is extremely toxic and narcissistic. I was silently tolerating all his tortures by blindly believing Indian culture that we ladies should suffer all. I never reacted instead cried a lot. But nothing and no one helped me, finally I reached my breaking point and started to react for my self respect. It was a shock for him and was so furious on me. But I stay strong. Still he is there in my life but changed a bit. So my dear girls, these are things never applicable in normal life. Then we will live in failure

[@priyanam1776]

More power to you!

[@SwatiSingh-ro2xe]

Thankyou for telling this to us 🙂

[@ShwetaAg]

Same happened with me..if someone is constantly being negative and narcissistic, one cannot change them. There are only two ways , either fight against it..or keep quiet n keep suffering. Other way is to stay away..from negativity.

[@robmoody4710]

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[@robmoody4710]

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[@shanmugapriyamohan6481]

My appreciations to the host for his honest questions and his curious way of seeking answers to the questions that every one of us have. He is very REAL. In all her videos her greatness BK Shivani ma says that we have to silence our thoughts and send blessings to the ones that are rude and unpleasant to us. But it sure as hell is not easy. And feels impossible to do sometimes. Thanks again to the host for addressing that. I wish they teach us more on how to actually do it in real life. Although, it is difficult to see the other person is usually extremely insecure, disturbed and in pain to behave/speak in such a way. We need to understand this and make sure the groove created in us doesn't get impacted negatively by their actions and words. So understand them even if its hard and do your best course of action which is good for everyone.

[@abhilashponnam]

I just love the way Suresh sir raises his doubts, most of us have it. It's nice to have a host, who brings out the depth of the content. It's great listening to all this. Om shanthi.🙏🙏

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@ns1747]

And he didn’t ask in way which feels asking fir the sake of asking, rather he asked as if these are his own struggles which he experiences in his self. This is the first time I ever liked a host to this much.. wonderful

[@parulmittal5790]

My take away from this video is forgiveness means I am liberating myself..freeing myself from the negative emotions..great om Shanti!!

[@maried.1831]

I love it when this man challenges Sister: "Why can't we change by living alone?" She answers on the same fashion: "How will it change when you are alone?" Great teachers!

[@apurvamahajan3002]

The best thing about this series is that Suresh sir keeps on asking all the questions that we can think of while talking to sister 👏Hatsoff 🙌

[@anjanakaushal8]

Mr Suresh oberoi asks the exact same questions that come to my mind. I can relate so much. 😄

[@thepizzaguy560]

Suresh ji bilkul sahi kah rahe h, sister shivani, its very very tough to implement what you are saying

[@Nidhisrividya_psychologywisdom]

Same here....Exactly same queries I think like Mr. Oberoi

[@hematiwari6798]

Right...Mere bhi

[@jjassal3883]

Same here

[@Rrrrcc4666]

😂

[@manoramaaigal2227]

Suresh sir , you are the best . Your questions are as if my mind is asking her my questions. And sister is amazinly wonderfully explaining. Thanks to both of you.

[@yogitagautam3910]

Ryt

[@libertyawsome6617]

This is so true. I have experienced this, if I ignore how someone hurt me, I even forgot what did he said to me. I have my peace of mind and it's just so relaxing.

[@ZaidKhan-zm2km]

In short .... jiska jitna(depth) zarf hai wo utna hi khamosh hai.....lajawab conversation ❤️

[@harinakshimaindan2837]

Mr Suresh Oberois question is very good which mostly many of them r facing. But Shivani Didi also gives satisfying answer for the question.

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@shootingpoint3508]

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[@sunandagite8459]

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[@sunandagite8459]

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[@reemajain8336]

Sometimes cutting a person off emotionally is the best thing for your inner peace.

[@sheelanair6753]

True .for me that person is dead

[@reemajain8336]

@@sheelanair6753 same here. Though we live in the same house but no emotional presense.

[@sheelanair6753]

@@reemajain8336 idk y the hell these guys are getting married if they cant tc of their family.And atlast blame is on wife.soo funny

[@ambrkali]

@@reemajain8336 :(

[@Dileep_Champion]

Yes in a toxic relationship.....

[@nehapal1623]

I guess it's really easy to talk this when you're actually surrounded by only good people.. But sometimes people actually don't understand that they cross their limits.. And it's necessary to draw a boundary. We cannot just waste our energy like this

[@yamiinusa6883]

I totally agree to this. There is no point living into toxicity. Prolonged exposure to this hampers your sanity.

[@thevectorvolume6424]

Agree.. I also went through so much negative

[@mitalimeet9885]

Exactly... Staying 24*7 with such people who r challenge for your mental peace , emotional level and moreover physical health ... Everything has its threshold and saturation point... The place, the people u can't give your good vibrations to, one that is deforming you n your sanskars, is worth leaving only...

[@rizle1]

@@mitalimeet9885 I know where are you coming from. But from my experience, the more I run away from negative people or situation, it comes in front of me in form of some other person . Now I realize , that these people or situations come to me for my growth. My soul needs to learn to face this situation. Instead of running away, I need to learn to keep myself calm and not carry any bitterness in me. Until I practice this, I will not be able to break this vicious circle. I believe after I m able to awaken this sanskar in me then only these people or situations will stop coming in my life again and again.

[@mitalimeet9885]

@rizle1:hii... I agree with some of your statements... If we r continuously ignoring and cutting off to negative people we r also cutting off a part of growth that would have took place while facing such things n people... But my frnd! by thinking so we can't stay in an abusive n toxic relationship and depress ourself... We shud aso knw the limit until which we can tolerate ... That saturation point is there we r not God.. once u r out of that toxic atmosphere u will realise, analyse and have learnt ur lesson too... There is no need to exopose urself before wolves even after knowing that they r wild n hungry badly. ... Karmic things make people come n go in ur life... Coz as a soul u have chosen ur lessons which u have to learn through people n situations... Learn n move forward.... No point in analysing that dis lesson shud be among the "wolves" or without the "wolves"... Lesson u have learnt that matters.. (there is a huge difference between a negative situation and a negative atmosphere... If u r having an abusive husband/wife u will be having no room fr good things in ur mind .. u will be too low in ur vibrations that u can't even think to do high vibrational things... N to get that vibration u hav to come out from that atmosphere ... We can't inhale carbon monoxide n think we r making our cells to learn hw to stay healthy in negative atmosphere... Inhaling polluted air is one thing and inhaling carbon monoxide is different thing ... We can't say that i don't want to stay in polluted air this is y I am signing off from this world... we can survive with pollution... but we can't survive with toxic n fatal gases in our lungs.. same is true with levels of negativity... we have to choose n analyse what is that limit which can make us learn something it shud not be the limit in which u lose ur sanity n do something wrong with yourself...that's my personal view.. can't force for validation 🤪😀) Would like to ask how do you knw where I come from ???

[@suparnamandal4691]

Wonderful lines..." Duniya se sanyas nehi karna ,apni bikaro se karna..."

[@priyankagarabadu8162]

Once upon a time, I mean 2-3yr back I was extreme anxious, extreme rude word used for people ,since from birth am extremely polite even shouting outside people made me cry later I thought this softness this innocency won't work.. these 2-3yr I was extreme anxious that made me later inside guilt vacant, Now am completely change after watching 6-7month repeatedly watching bk shivani vdo😊

[@drmanikbangar8130]

Great

[@JayaJaya-hj5zo]

Suresh bhai does a lot of homework to ask questions. Each question asked by him perfectly matches with my question. Thanks a lot to sister Shivani and Suresh bhai.

[@smitadoshi9015]

I do not want him. Sister Shivani alone is excellent. Without his asking Sister Shivani answers everything which we want to know. This is planed program. The questions are given to him.....

[@drvikharahmed7910]

@@smitadoshi90151. plz write .....Planned Programme... 2.Not all people are alike in the comprehension of the Core of subjects .,therefore Question..Answer session is the best way to imbibe a thing in our minds. Hope you won't mind. Dr.Vaquar MBBS former Sr.Medical officer

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@sonykubadia7188]

You are an angel on this earth and you are making this world so beautiful to live... So so thankful to you..

[@dilipsrivastava4460]

They r hiding their powerlessness 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻superb

[@rajkumaryadav4957]

बहन शिवानी, सुरेश सर और सभी दिव्य आत्माओं को सादर प्रणाम🌺🙏 कोई भी इंसान वही चीज दे सकता है जो उसके पास होती है तथा वह चीज नहीं दे सकता जो उसके पास नहीं होती। इसलिए हमें अपना व्यवहार दूसरों को देखकर खराब नहीं करना चाहिए। प्रकृति हमें वही चीज बढ़ाकर लौटाती है जो हम देते हैं। हम सभी का जीवन सुख, शांति और सुकून से पूर्ण हो, यही प्रार्थना है। 🙏🌺 ओम शांति 🌺🙏

[@lopa001]

The world is full of people that I perceive as strange. I am so grateful that Sister Shivani has the power to unravel the tangled thoughts I create in my mind. Every discussion is an eye opener. I just realized today, I was creating pain at how people behave while the joke's really on them. They are constantly revealing their own nature with their every act. What am I crying about?

[@sujathasivakumar6603]

I adore the way Oberoi sir is being practical abt the prbs we face almost all that we feel in such situations

[@drshillpajain]

Very patiently answered for the most important question of our life Shivani di.. when v understand that v r all just reflecting our abilities n limitations of that atma in life, then no point in judging anyone. What a bliss. Thank you so much di. Om Shanti 🙏

[@madhumitabose6419]

Being patience and peaceful with good vibration giving answers is I feel the best way.

[@karishmakumari9248]

It's really tough to adapt this sansar in this present world.. But will surely try to adapt it... Every soul needs this sansar to make the world a beautiful place..

[@Sobzz_Poetaster]

This is one of the best episodes of Awakening with Brahmakumaris.

[@ThuLe-eh1xe]

Watching this video over and over and watching other videos and apply her teachings in my life, I finally integrate her teachings in my life and this make my life better. It works. We need to know that everything that happen to us is our destiny, our karma. So, we donot blame others for our pain. Then, we are independent emotionally from people. We become powerful, strong. When we do not blame, we do not need to speak up. If we speak up, make sure to speak up with wisdom and love, not from blame. Second, we should bring those persons in our mind and ask for their forgiveness because we are at fault also. This teaches us humility that free us from pride, the main cause of suffering. Use Gyan, the wisdom of God, to forgive yourself and everybody . Then you will have love, peace and joy in your life. Right thinking, wisdom is our most valuable treasure that will liberate us from sufferings lifetime after lifetime. It is why the bible said that wisdom is more precious than gold and silver and diamond. It is why sister Shivani always teaches us to purify our mind and our heart like what Buddha taught.

[@bakulsonavane4227]

मन को शांत , भार मुक्त , करने का सबसे आसान तरीक़ा हमे लोगो को (आत्माओको) माफ़ नही करना बल्के हमे उन्हें अपने मन में घर ही नही बनाने देना हे , चाहे कोई भी आत्मा हमे कुछ भी बोले, कुछ भी करे. १ शांत मन अनगिनत अशांत मन पे भारी होता हे.धन्यवाद दीदी

[@romatambaku8273]

Thank you Sister Shivani...for giving a deep understanding regarding what is real power and mind control... Thank you Sureshji for your honest responses and queries..they help me a lot. Love your interactions with each other!

[@kalyangms8679]

I feel very tearful watching the full episode.. What a dialogue between the two. Very interesting to apprehend.. It is love only which build bridges between two hearts.. But in reality it's not happening in the present world. Many people are suffering due to some egoistic persons.. It's not easy to handle pain unpleasant situations.. Many situations n people use provocative statements raging wars...

[@pranitaghadiali]

Absolutely true. Not happening in present world

[@monalisamishra9592]

The host is asking so realistic questions. I can relate evry questions of him

[@rialo5563]

Amazing wisdom from a young sis, in silence, meditation, detached yourself from the world, love to hear more of her talk and am glad I have opened her channel..thank you sis

[@shilpavakil9097]

We are blessed to have you in our lives, Shivani didi🙏

[@kimlord3531]

Yes Great Blessings to have you Didi in our lives! 🙏🙏

[@mamtagoel2483]

Before listing to shivani di....i never ever gave a thought to my thinking....but now i come to think of it....my thoughts are my creation and i can control what i create and lead a peaceful life. Thanku shivani di....u r an angel....i will try to implement your teachings in my life.

[@vasanthisundararajan5870]

Hats off to her patience, clarity in thinking, communication. A true angel

[@mikkshree.09]

U r the best maam.. I am your big fan. When I am sad then I listen your peaceful voice nd I feel so relax

[@vidyavaithianathan604]

Never heard of such a clear explanation before, thank you so much didi🙏🙏🙏

[@sunnyshine2215]

Such an amazing teaching. So many people these days are quick to distance themselves or cut toxic people out of their lives. Sometimes over the smallest irritation. All you are doing are running away from your own issues and internal pain. I include myself in this. When I have walked away from someone I feel relief but also some sadness that I was quick to walk away but I didn’t try to work things out and tackle my own ego and issues. Sister shivani you are the best ❤️

[@rivi1011]

Hearing this. I thank God that I put my ego aside and harmonized my relationship with my best friend again. I didn't know all this earlier but I was happy God guided me that time and I just went to her to sort everything out. Everyone told me"Leave her, don't waste your time" but I listened to my heart and now we have a better-than-ever bond.

[@kavitakadyan4231]

Suresh Sir aapke questions jabardast hain..sab hamare waalw..Thankyou Sir ji.Thankyou Shivani Mam aap sab clear kar dete ho👍😍😍👍👌👌

[@meenakaserwal9963]

Didu.😚 You are very sweet always in each n every video . Yours n suresh sir's beautiful series always Awakening our soul. Thank you so much for everything.

[@1rm2]

Very good, persistent and honest counter questions and very peaceful, true and beautiful answers! Thanks so much to both Suresh ji and Sister Shivani.

[@sheph.sharma]

One of the best interactions .He takes up all our points , n doubts in ab open honest way ....like a petulant child .And how well she explains the points calmly , repeatedly n clearly ❤❤❤❤Wonderful duo .

[@navdeepramgarhia3060]

Om Shanti, At This time I am passing same situation on to me, you said very nicely and briefly. Thanks Mam

[@anamikajaiswal4152]

Thank u so much didi,I understand those people in my family who had given me more pain in my life bt whn I listen ur speech n follow in my daily routine in my life that every soul is different, every sanskar is different thay can't be change, thay can't understand to me.

[@shrutikulkarni9268]

Ur angel in my life.... Feels like god himself is teaching me thanku ma'am🙏

[@janegi9877]

Easy said then done.... Love the honest, unfiltered questions from Sureshji.... if we reach what shivaniji said tho kya baath hoti...hum bagwaan na hothe. We are humans and what we feel is quite human. We can thrive to be better people. It’s a continuous effort to better your thought process. It’s good to work on yourself not because you want to accommodate to abuse but maybe to find inner peace. Life is full of difficulties and if you chose to react everything with emotion it becomes difficult. Be nice to yourself.

[@chandraveersinghkhangarot6113]

Thanks you so much Sister आज आपने मुझे गलत निर्णय लेने से बचा लिया आपका बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद. एक दूसरे के विपरीत चलना सबसे आसान है पर खुद की विपरीत चलना बहुत मुश्किल है अगर दौड़ना ही है तो खुद के विपरीत दौड़ो

[@reshmarana4803]

Don't know why sister but this is one of the first videos where I just couldn't control my anger.There are many situations in our lives where you have to react otherwise it will turn you into something else

[@namrataadake5304]

Sister said that you can respond but don't RE-ACT...We can just put our point in a soft assertive positive and a strong tone that automatically the person infront of us automatically will be knowingly or unknowingly starting beleiving you.... If you start to make the person Believe that we both are not opponents of each other, may be situations were not right, but the thing that will make things right is the believe in you that you will not do anything wrong! And this will only possible if we manage the person's unconsciousness calmly and positively. One day definitely by conversating calmly kindly and even respectfully( respect towards both-self and them too) and Love can solve the problem. The key point is don't show the person and also within youself that the thing is concerning you, if you are not wrong and guilty then you should be Absolutely calm.

[@namrataadake5304]

We are insulting and disturbing the things we achieved till now.... Be constantly what you were always(A Good Version of youself).... The people will definitely believe the things what they have seen strongly and ignore the things the have heard.

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

@@namrataadake5304 Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@Shaina_singh_amrita]

EXACTLY !!

[@sonimehta2031]

She is love peace positive... Thank you for everytime ❤💙❤... Showing right path

[@aditisharad3241]

Interesting and makes one wonder how strong willed and secure one requires to be and have ease and comfort in receiving people and their energy...I relate to the conversation with the soul...coz ego isn't flexible...the manner in which the doubts are raised and then clarified is particularly relatable...

[@mannkafood2483]

आप बिल्कुल सही कह रहे है, हम भाग रहे है। हमें भागना नहीं है जागना है।

[@anjalisharma314]

Absolutely right sister shivani...by watching your videos and trying to implement slowly , I have seen slight change in my behavior with others...on shanti🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@pramilahumane2227]

Thank you so much shivani didi🥰

[@Musicallyever]

Thank you angel🥰 You are here in this name and form to remind us of our originality 🥰🥰🥰 To Discover the Angel Within😌🙏

[@ingridp7556]

It’s very true that controlling people and bullies are in in pain. Many people out there are on the spectrum called narcissist personality disorder (the person who is always trying to prove that they are better than everyone else). But even that personality is in a great deal of pain. Because at their core, they feel worthless and insecure. It’s an incredible process to realize that those who hurt others are in a great deal of pain. Essentially if they are hurting you, they are likely hurting themselves in their thoughts so much more. When we have negative thoughts about others, it releases cortisol in the brain and increases stress levels. This affects even the body and inflammation. When we think positive thoughts, and bring peace in our minds, then the opposite happens. At that state, words are communicated in a proactive way, with a tone of love and connection even in a disagreement. A safe space. See how teacher gently and lovingly shares her perspective? It’s more of a call for perspective shift than a disagreement :) engaging with those who hurt i am trying to balance setting boundaries, along with elevating my compassion for the hurtful/hurting person. I think we can do both. And when we speak to them, it comes from a loving compassionate place. I may not change them at all, but the goal is to change me first so that I can be a part of the energy of healing vs adding to the hurt or the world. (Though going back to abuse, compassion doesn’t mean enabling abusive behaviors. That when boundaries are important).

[@goddessoflovev1706]

Hello Maam! One of the best sessions that I have heard so far from you. Thank you & Om Shanti !

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@sushmatewary2000]

thank u suresh sir... you asked those exact questions to sister shivani that i always wanted to ask... i face the same problems in my life that you discussed with her.. and thank you sister shivani for enlightening us.. I will definitely try to find out when to react and when to avoid the reactions from other people who hurt me. Om shanti.

[@OnlineGyan-nk8fd]

Very Practical talk 👍

[@pallavigandhalikar1726]

Very powerful sharing by Shivani di. She is absolutely amazing and who simply she explains the concepts related to soul,amta and mann.

[@sulabhayaj]

One of most beautiful talk , clarity for words like strength and weekness , forgiveness and seeing the conflict situation with clarity . It helped me a lot. Thank you shivani

[@drkeertimadhukar6535]

Omg Suresh ji, u ask such good question.

[@khaledashaikh1423]

Excellent meaningful video.Loved it.God bless you.

[@Gunnuvar]

Natural questions that arises in our minds and very well way explained the answers..om shanti🙏

[@amrutaparkar7504]

Dear BK Shivani mam, thank you for existing, educating us and imparting wisdom.🙏 Also sir thank you for asking relevant questions🙏

[@DharinJayswal]

Om shanti.. Keep spreading the spirituality. Nice.

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@fear_less_2020]

Love love love to Sister Shivani. She gives me the ANSWERS that I seek. And immmmmmense love to this gentleman for asking all the right questions! God bless you, divine humans!

[@utkarshapatil482]

True...👏👏

[@shikhasharma5933]

Sister u r so powerful n clean hearted soul giving so much of positivity to people who r so badly influenced by their negativity n sroundings...real help I got from u whenever I m in trouble ty...may god bless you...

[@hariduttpanta4616]

Om Shanti ! Thanks for great motivational teachings .

[@DDtwerty]

I love the session between Mr. Suresh and Shivani Sister. It clears everything, layer by layer. He speaks what any man can relate to! Thank so much for such session! 🙏 There is so much science and logic behind our culture that we are unaware of, that has never been taught to us, Listening to all spiritual gurus be it Shivani Sister or Sadhguru ji or other ones, I feel so blessed and proud that I am Hindu 🙏 Om Shaanti 🕉️ Our religion is about science, karma. We all should be truly proud of it. There are and will be certain imperfections in every religion/culture that will not be good but that doesn't means we don't appreciate the greatness and beautiful aspect of it. 🙏

[@mariamalhotra8228]

Well said, Sister! I agree 100%

[@nurnaharahmed5927]

I could relate to many of my situations with the explanation..

[@paripandey7696]

Really feel that and i have experienced this... Soul energies talk together and get many powers to each other... Our strength is to control ourselves and to be in limit... Love the way of your teaching us a great power energies emitting towards us... Thanks a lot .... Om shanti🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@namitagupta5646]

Sureshji asked the same question tht came to my mind😀seriously its not easy to forgive tht hurt.....but what a brilliant ans didi gave....u don't ve to forgive tht person u ve to forgive urself in ur mind.....its such an amazing thought n way to deal with such pple with bad behaviour

[@anithasoundararajan2978]

This is definitely one of the most powerful talks by Sis.Shivani. Mr Suresh also presented some really good points that the mind usually comes up with when you self introspect and her responses to his questions were simply perfect.

[@abrahamsidd4035]

Suresh sir u asked my life's questions..same here this pain

[@JS-ld2qd]

Great talk. Thanks Sis Shivani and Mr. Verma. I love his interviewing skills because this is what we all want to ask but we don't because we are told not to ask too many questions. Don't think so much. Don't argue. But we all have these questions and these thoughts stay.

[@sathyanarayana3655]

Sister has said perfectly right, only those who feel powerless inside try to hide that by their fake strong-like behavior. 🙏🙏🌹

[@shwetashukla33]

It depends on what level , hierarchy we are in . It sometimes best to cut off . You dont stay alone but u stay in people where its like little steps n understanding .

[@freelancpro1127]

this was so profound.....and helped me alot.....Much Gratitude🙏🙏

[@DeeptiJoshi1]

Thank you so much BK Shivani di. You cleared my doubts and now I know how I have to deal with such situations. Once again thank you so much

[@FunnEdu]

Thanks a lot both of u for such a mind storming discussion...

[@ShivBabaSays]

Means, If we are silent outside along-with if we silence our mind and heart by understanding others/soul consciousness, then we are powerful. In short, happy always is powerful. Outside silent but internal turmoil is weak. Noisy Outside and as well as internally is the weakest. One more thing to remember is to face injustice with internal peace and outside calm but with assertiveness and authority. Spirituality makes me powerful. And peace doesn’t mean people will trample over me. I release myself from the shackles of pain and be happy always.

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@Riley12341]

Sir your questions are very real and genuine .Thanks 🙏🏻for Asking bcz now my all question have their answer given by Shivani Mam😃.

[@laxmimaurya2210]

Mind-blowing. Love this video so much!

[@moumitabanerjee3250]

All the words are true. I have felt them so intensely

[@FilmiJaankarii]

“जब कभी आप किसी के साथ अपना धैर्य खोने लगें, तो सोचिए कि ईश्वर ने आज तक आपके साथ कितना धैर्य रखा है।”

[@simmichoudhary6871]

Right 👍😊

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

Good thought Durga ji

[@bhairabsain5560]

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[@kawaljeetkaur6044]

Oberoi ji ke questions essa lagta hei jese mere questions hei🙏

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

@@kawaljeetkaur6044 Haan ji...sat shri akal ji.

[@simmichoudhary6871]

Thank you so much sister Shivani Di 😊, good morning everyone 🙏

[@durgaroy7094]

Om shanti di🌺🌺🍂🍂👑

[@P3Y-TheGreatPower]

Hello, If you or anyone really want to get rid of any suffering in life like from corona virus and it should not enter into your life and should not harm you or anybody and if someone has already suffered from virus Corona so to get rid of this I will give you paramji papar paramyog .In this you have to do 11 vkaya and for more detail you can visit the site kindly call on number Mrs. Bharati Sharma Faridabad NCR. [phone] (tried and tested formula from thousand of people around the globe). Thank you for your time! Charnam Sharnam Gachchami 🌹

[@MummaBlossomOrganic]

Perfectly countered. Thank you very much for this session🙏🏼

[@tanbobtanbob2356]

I love this host becoz he asked all my question. Im grateful for this amazing host and speaker

[@radhakrishnasubramanian8881]

You keep adjusting They will keep hurting you repeatedly This cycle will never end Solution lies in slowly strengthening yourself to finally cut off from such persons It will be painful for a short time but you will be in peace as you cannot change anyone Just avoid them Stay away Move away

[@mannatgautam6378]

This is the same question happening to me again and again ... nice episode... thank you .. 🍀🍀🌸

[@shraddhabhamaiker]

All that I wanted to hear today. Thank you Sister Shivani and Sir Suresh.

[@mindfulivingwithmaya]

Such a true beautiful conversation ❣ Om Shanti

[@anjupokar4584]

🙏 Always love to hear n feel so fresh in the morning ......😊 tnq di 🌹🙏

[@joyotchattopadhyay6257]

So true madam

[@shaikzubeda1666]

Good morning aapi, aap ki baatein mujhe aatma vishvas badhaai thank you

[@itsmegarima7224]

He is so damn true.. forgiving is not easy..

[@makeoverbysejalwadhwani7772]

Loved this programme 💗