When Women REALISED Men Were Right All Along

[@paulameads1207]

When I was dating my now husband I was making more money than he was, had my own apartment (he had 2 roommates) and was 10 years older. All my friends thought I was crazy when we got engaged. But I saw things in him that other women didn’t. Women accuse men of being superficial and just looking at the physical but women are no better. Many women look only at material considerations when judging men. I picked my husband based on his character and kindness and have been happy with my choice for over 25 years. Oh, BTW my husband now makes over 180k and encouraged me to quit my job a year ago. So I did and retired early. Met my husband at church BTW.

[@kirdref9431]

Any children?

[@paulameads1207]

@@kirdref9431 We weren’t blessed with children of our own. I ended up having 2 miscarriages. But we do have 2 unofficial daughters in Uganda and 1 granddaughter. We met them about 8 years ago on our first trip to Africa. We’ve supported 1 through law school and the other through midwife certification and we take care of our granddaughter’s school fees. We don’t get to see them very often but that’s what WhatsApp is for.

[@gordongekko2781]

Well played, Paula. Well played.

[@giullianosep]

You’re a fortunate woman, I wish a can do the same for my wife one day.

[@aleksisuuronen5969]

I actually find women to maybe be even More superficial since they do not only ofc as men do look the opposite sex'es looks, but they also a lot of times go on and on about other women too. Literally seen grown women going thru a magazine and picking apart the women in it with what are the flaws and what are the high points. You would never see men do that about men in a magazine.. (in general ofc, talking about hetero males and that not being like a Crazy example of stuff that women do).

[@jeffgilleese6332]

My wife had little to complain about in our marriage, so she left me for a guy she could complain about all the time.

[@trgk5115]

That's some fucked up logic lol

[@stevenlaurin6059]

Having an argument with a smart person is hard, arguing with a dumb person is so much harder

[@Eck1876]

The saying "never argue with an idiot they will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience" springs to mind

[@GamerM1235]

I would even go so far as to say you don't inherently have arguments with a fellow human being. But rather a discussion. But a dumb person will always make anything into an argument.

[@dimitriasimov356]

To argue with a dumb person is to prove you are one

[@sarmbaker3945]

I'm stealing that .

[@haraldbredsdorff2699]

Not really. If you put up the argument correct for a dumb person, they will accept you know better than them and are probably correct. But try to argue with a smart person, that is convinced of something. Every argument you make, they will think of a excuse for be wrong. The flat earth people, are not on average stupid. They are delusional, thinking what they observe is not true, but that happens when they discover they could not trust what they see. Same with feminists, they are not stupid, they are just convinced what they see is not the whole truth. It is easier to convince a dumb person. And if you cant you will only meet "I think you are wrong" as counter. If you try that with a smart person, they will tell you thier is a giant conspiracy that made you believe in the moon landing.

[@radreaxnoh4038]

I was in college, and i had a friend that had a series of bad relationships. I asked her if she prefered bad boys or good guys. She said she preferred bad boys. I told her, "Welcome to your life of disappointment and STDs." She was stunned and I left her sitting there, silent.

[@FeldtSV]

Truth and Honor is met with the tital of insensitivity 😮 💕

[@ravengrey6874]

I had a friend I college like this, it got to the point that I could predict how long any given relationship would last to within a week....and then how long it would be before she found then next guy

[@arkanaloth2617]

as I heard it: "Don't try to logic someone out of an opinion they didn't logic themselves into..."

[@giftcardbill]

If what a person believes is illogical, no amount of logic or facts will work with them. Their belief system is emotional, not based in reason.

[@Skarlet-ju8sr]

​@user-rw3ob9os7f let's test this. Can you use logic to believe in God?

[@giftcardbill]

Respectfully, Yes. The Bible is very logical and proves God's existence and his purpose for the earth. Humans have take the Bible and it's scripture and twisted it with pomp and circumstance and this has shrouded the truth. God's word spells out quite plainly the origin of the Universe, the terraforming and populating of earth. What went wrong because of rebellion in the heavens and Eden. Gen 3:15 spells out what was to take place over centuries, the coming of the Messiah to right the ship, and finally the Great Tribulation and Armageddon, where the Almighty crushes the governments of the earth. Only the ones who wish to live in peace with their fellow man will survive. God can read the heart, thus he knows who is real and whom is not. It's really quite logical, has been accomplished so far step by step and will do so until the conclusion of this system of things. Also those who are allowed to live according to God's insight and love will be rewarded with everlasting life. Life eternal. It's no mystery. Quite forthright and logical.

[@MrVvulf]

You're paraphrasing the 17th century satirist Jonathan Swift. He is regarded by the Encyclopædia Britannica as the foremost prose satirist in the English language. His exact quote - “You cannot reason a person out of a position he did not reason himself into in the first place.”

[@RexAlfieLee]

Stop trying to change their mind. It's wasted effort. You're beating a dead horse!

[@Treadstone1986]

"You'll never be able to do enough."😮 That one sentence just described my marriage.

[@Michael-td3gz]

Poor bstard

[@georgedunkelberg5004]

A POOR EMOTIONAL NEEDY SELF DELUSIONAL CHANCED DESPARATE CHOICE?

[@shawnmendrek3544]

My response would be, why did you marry me then? Damn them words would hurt though.

[@remsatroy]

$90k minimum income isn’t being delusional at all. That’s what a lot of college grads make out of college if you chose the right degree and not liberal arts.

[@arniebmx]

@@remsatroy minimum 6 foot 3 and black as well as making 90k and in her age bracket. Try to keep up buddy.

[@233kosta]

If someone had told them the scars had been completely removed, they'd have blamed it on sexism instead.

[@MrAranton]

Feminism is the art of looking at random things and finding ways to argue how they oppress women - Karen Straughan

[@niallfitzpatrick6568]

​​@@MrArantonFeminism is emotion based bollox!!!

[@unlimited971]

Feminism is either a societal proxy war against nations/population, or a societal sh1ttest. Either way it s never what women think it is, it defines itself nor looks like

[@chadstanford9807]

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[@chadstanford9807]

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[@nco_gets_it]

the point about arguments is classic. My SIL is "off her meds" so to speak and has dreamed up an entire drama movie in her mind. Of course, my wife is concerned and asked me what I thought. I just listened to her and asked her "do you want to participate in her delusional drama?"....no, she did not. "Well, my position is that her drama is hers and we don't need it. Let her figure it out". We stayed out of the movie she was directing and although it seems to be one of those 5 part mini-series now, my wife told me she is "so happy I stayed out of it". Of course you are. Life has enough turmoil without participating in someone else's.

[@DrNames1]

I was in a toxic 2 year relationship with a women just like these to the point that she once said "yes you have shown me all the proof that you didn't do something, but my feelings are valid and i feel like you still did it." There is no reasoning with these women it will drive you insane and once you finally snap you are the monster for popping off.

[@xavierayayaell546]

Completely this, you can empathise with men who have that one incident of aggression which is not a pattern, yet gets utterly exploited as "domestic violence". Everyone has a breaking point, everyone.

[@briansmith48]

That's the whole point. To get you to snap, so they can argue about you snapping on them instead of arguing about the topic in witch she was losing to you about. And they'll use anything to do it. Bring up something that the both of you decided to put in the past. Or accuse you of cheating just because she feels like you did. Ect ...

[@agustinhernandez7289]

Narcissist woman…

[@User-nx7rs]

Feelings and emotions = selfishness

[@kamwalker6296]

I aint snapping i'm not dealing with any of that BS F**k your feelings

[@patrickday4206]

The only way to win an argument with an irrational person is to not interact with them to begin with

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

Billy Joel: You should never argue with a crazy mind...

[@johncooper9510]

The victim and superior at the same time. Pure delusion.

[@gumdeo]

Crybullies. They hit you and cry out in pain.

[@mustangmikep51]

is that possible?

[@johncooper9510]

@@mustangmikep51 feminism 101

[@kishoratono1567]

​@@mustangmikep51no

[@hoobeydoobey1267]

Romans 1:22

[@TheAurgelmir]

I noticed something recently when talking to my grandmother - who is a very critical old lady - She hardly ever criticize based on gender. She's likely to write issues up to someone's race mind you, but never gender. My other grandmother was very much the same. But, then when we get to my mother's generation - you start hearing a lot more negativity towards boys and men. Like "boys fail in school because they are lazy" etc. "Women = good, men = bad." And then it dawns on my - my mother's generation is the kids who were growing up during the late 60s and 70s when all the social movements were happening. That's really when the "men VS women" narratives began. Women who were born before WW2 - they weren't raised to hate men, and they seem to generally speak rather warmly of men. And... feminists get angry when men's activists point out that "hey, maybe the feminist movement has had a negative effect on men?" Because how dare we point out that one of the biggest social movements in HISTORY isn't perfect.

[@anti-Russia-sigma]

The movement turned into the wrong direction.My grandmas,aunts & mums are good because they quit the movement then.

[@roryf.1349]

It's like an overgrown child. "I want that one! Now I want that one!"

[@busking6292]

His response should have finished with 'you're mentally ill,get out of my car NOW!!

[@ma3stro681]

That’s because they are just overgrown children … 😂

[@bligabliga]

Most people are. ive seen enough to believe no one ever matures, they just get older. if they had learned manners or common sense they wouldnt be karens and the such as adults.

[@attentionalimpact]

I think this clip is staged

[@i_can_c_u_2295]

@@attentionalimpactI don’t think so. I have seen comparable situations.

[@clodoaldodonato3029]

It's time for men to go it alone. No crying, no stress, no arguing, just go it alone!!

[@pvccannon1966]

Yup, its called MGTOW. Men Going There Own Way. And last i checked, its has spread to spain now. Lots of loney women with cats in there future. lol

[@therealnynetynyne360]

Until no fault divorce is squashed nothing changes

[@shawnmendrek3544]

A lot of men have been doing that anyways. Either by choice or not by choice.

[@jakobtdisbro]

One of the forgotten roles of the father was to test the men their daughters brought home to make sure he was of good moral character.

[@doublevisionmedialiaisons2235]

And in modern times I don’t think this test should just be for the boys. It would have been a wonderful moment if my parents straight up told me “Sure she looks fine son, but that woman has some problems.”

[@Greybeardmedic]

Another forgotten role of the father: POP those delusional bubbles that daughters might have.

[@Greybeardmedic]

We cannot appreciate enough those quality women raised by strong fathers.

[@geoffreyokrongly916]

Because women can’t do it for themselves. They choose with their emotions instead of choosing with reality. I’m not being sarcastic.

[@patch4127]

Another contributor is the fact that most homes no longer have a father TO test the boys. Its not forgotten; its been removed by the mothers...

[@kigzman1745]

To a Narcissist, emotions are 100% reality. Thts why u never argue with a Narcissist.

[@budoshi-f2l]

Just say most modern women it is most simpler

[@WebShaman01]

It's actually more than that - to a Narcissist, there is only the Narcissist. Everything and everyone else is only there for the Narcissist's amusement. It is not necessarily emotion, but the solid mindset that only the Narcissist is important - everything else is secondary and only has value if the Narcissist holds that it does. This includes human life.

[@kigzman1745]

​@@WebShaman01 well said.

[@innocentbystander3317]

The lowest common denominators in all of our problems are ourselves. Only men will understand this enough to alter their behavior for the better.

[@antonvalentine]

On several occasions I have warned my female friends about the guys they were interested in/sleeping with/dating because I can see exactly what kind of guys they are and my friends ALWAYS get defensive and sour, but then when I end up being right they basically pretend like I never warned them. I have spent most of my life watching the girls/women around me make poor choice after poor choice (including relatives) and then blaming all men, and it has destroyed my trust in women.

[@keithgraham9547]

Dude. Your female friends all knew exactly what they were doing. They didn't need or care about your warnings. They completely intend to boink the "bad boys," it's a notch on their headboard to f a guy that so many other girls want to f, also. Their delusional part is when they think they can tie Chad or Tyrone down. Some of the girls strictly are in it for a fling, the dumber ones think they are so magical that Pookie will reform, Marty her, and she can shape him into a star. Don't think for a second the girls are so naive that they need your advice. They know exactly what they're doing.

[@catilina9251]

The last thing emotions will do is admitting that they were wrong. Meaning the feeling was incorrect or out of place. Especially with women you will encounter some that identify to such an extent with their feelings that if you tell them their feeling is wrong you are basically telling them their existence (as a person) is wrong. There's just no difference for them, they are what they feel. Make it make sense...

[@Darren-su2gm]

It doesn't make sense.

[@stevescuba1978]

Everytime a woman complains about men, I ask them if their dad's or brothers approved of the men they dated. The answer is always no. I always follow up with, "maybe you should ask your dad and brothers who you should date." They refuse to recognize that they have no clue when it comes to reading men's character.

[@SamSpade-xt2pn]

Some woman love to interject themselves into other people's relationships in a superior way which may stem from jealousy

[@LostAndHangry]

When you FEEL like you’re right, even when you’re wrong you’re still right cause you FEEL it.

[@Fyrecide]

“What are women better at then men?” “We have periods!” 😅

[@schmoemi3386]

So, more bleeding, eh!? 🤨

[@Kevinleehiltonjr]

Trans men beat women at that too.

[@scroom1202]

Based on how much they bitch about it, not sure I'd call it "better".

[@cryptojihadi265]

Yeah. Anything you can do in a coma, isn't something to brag about.

[@craigsmith2755]

Periods of insanity?

[@joelharris3389]

I am 63 years young, and still the conflict between living in reality vs fantasy, FANTASY keeps destroying reality! If you believe your FANTASY is truth you are screwed.

[@FeldtSV]

You are amazing!

[@wadestanion4617]

Yeah my EX wife made it in her head that she did everything, and I did NOTHING. There was ZERO convincing her otherwise.

[@rondasoutherland6882]

Did you try switching roles with her for a day? You can figure out who does everything then.

[@drsiigabb9935]

​@@rondasoutherland6882I offered an ex, to go to work and I'll stay at home to look after the kids ( 3 were hers). Then she tries to tell me that it would be easier to work than stay at home. I also pointed out that the house we were currently in was part of my work benefits so we'd have to find a new place.

[@rondasoutherland6882]

@drsiigabb9935 that is not a flex. Why not let her go to work and you pay for child care and maid service instead?

[@patrickday4206]

​@@rondasoutherland6882why doesn't she go to work and pay for it herself? She probably won't even be expected to pay half the bills because she won't earn enough

[@rondasoutherland6882]

@patrickday4206 women do go to work and pay for it themselves. I do. This conversation is why I'm single. I can't stand being controlled by a man and told how I have to live or else. You just said the house is free with the job...... so what's the problem with her going to work if she wants?

[@PeterJ-lb5vj]

Also the classic "I know it doesn't make sense, but that's how I feel" You're done, you've nowhere to go.

[@benjaminbeier4036]

As an IT guy I am stuck so deep in a rational mindset that I absolutely can't figure out how to handle women since they are so focused on feelings. I tried to discuss the whole situation with my ex girlfriend and she kinda came to the conclusion that she wants to be actively manipulated into happy feelings with gifts and surprises and such. To me this just seems so wrong, that I have to manipulate another person so she wants to stay with me, but I guess that is how a relationship with a female works?

[@PeterJ-lb5vj]

@benjaminbeier4036 I feel you (pun intended) there. We're used to a logical progression of symptom down to cause. Making illogical leaps to conclusions based on how they "feel" baffle us. And the " I know it doesn"t make sense, but that's how I feel" pretty much terminates the conversation. Nowhere for us to go from that.

[@ccoodd26]

@@benjaminbeier4036 No, she's mentally ill.

[@giftcardbill]

If what a person believes is illogical, no amount of logic or facts will work with them. Their belief system is emotional, not based in reason.

[@22EARTHDOG]

Kudos to you. A woman that is willing to listen to this at all is rare. You are a gem.

[@PatrickMcCormick-xc1mx]

Avoiding accountability by being a victim is a wonderful way to avoid changing. I was a paralyzed, homeless, drug addict who spent multiple years in prison and until I took responsibility for my actions and changed my priorities nothing changed. Now I've learned to walk, got clean, bought a home and got married. I'm certainly no victim.

[@joschmo4497]

Well having a criminal record is a plus in modern women's book, thugs are more appreciated than decent dudes. Good that you decided to testify.

[@lusio1579]

it's nice to see where you went from before changing, you can be proud of you, it's not easy to get out of the streets and clean of drugs

[@PatrickMcCormick-xc1mx]

@@lusio1579 thank you. I had a lot of help from above so I can only take partial credit.

[@michaelgiertz-rath7994]

No, Sir, you are a hero. You pulled yourself out of that hole and became a better person in result. That's the typical epic hero story. 👍

[@PatrickMcCormick-xc1mx]

@@michaelgiertz-rath7994 thank you sir but I have to give the credit to God. I took the steps but he laid the path. I really do appreciate it though guys don't get a lot of praise these days.

[@MiB1313]

It took me 10 years to fully understand this. You will never reason a person out of a position they did not reason themselves into.

[@davetimmer5149]

Wife can't stand how I do dishes, cook, clean, make a bed. She needs to control those things. She has complained about me not helping out... I mentioned her not allowing me to help, the argument heightens, but then I ask her what area of Her Kingdom she is willing to give up to me? I walk away and await her response ..she comes back to reality and will ask for help, for a while...

[@billreddy7593]

I lived under the "rule" of a woman for abt a year and we were considering marriage. I walked and have been smiling ever since. Living alone is great.

[@Calladim]

I worked with a guy who did this. It was maddening

[@sithLinkGaming]

In psychology they literally have a term for that called being a self-fulfilling prophecy

[@Texbec]

You know what else they dont get is that the women married to the successful men for the last 20 to 25 years actually got with that man before he was successful and they supported him and they built what they have together. Things that make you go hmmm.

[@michaelsorensen7567]

If an engineer consulted his emotions while building a bridge, he'd be an architect

[@_Delta_P_]

I’m 35 and I’ve fully accepted that women are just chaos and marriage would be a horrible path to go down

[@C_R_O_M________]

Wrong and irrational attitude. It'll lead to your demise with mathematical certainty.

[@BatkoBrat]

I Agree with Mr. Helladius666 above me. Just dive deeper, man. Shit floats, so you have to make lil' effort and take a deep breath, because gold sinks :)

[@rgsniper2]

Having been married coming up on 20 years, you just need to find the right one. If you can do that it's one of the best things you'll have ever done. I'm thankful every day I wake up that I found an amazing woman.

[@richardy2071]

True but picking wrong will destroy your life​@@rgsniper2

[@brendanheald9067]

@@C_R_O_M________It’s definitely not irrational. There’s no rational reason to get married. Not when so many marriages statistically end in divorce, and divorce is weighted to benefit women. It’s a legally binding contract that has no real benefit except filing taxes together. The majority of things you could do with a spouse you could do with someone who isn’t a spouse. Etc… The only real reasons to get married are tradition, religion, culture, emotional and so on. All in all it’s a rational response to decide not to get legally married.

[@MoonMan3000]

”You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality.” - Ayn Rand

[@mainegardenguy703]

The one problem with the delusion calculator is that people keep saying that it gives their chance of finding their ideal man, but thats not the case. It just gives the percentage of people who meet those ideals and standards. Factoring in the probability of even meeting that person greatly drops that number. Lol

[@garykidson4489]

Exactly, the chances of you neeting them, being attracted to them, them being attracted to you etc. The actual chances of ending up with a person like that are significantly smaller!

[@giftapfel]

it doesn't even take into account if you both have similar hobbies and interests, political views, religious backgrounds, etc.@@garykidson4489

[@xavierayayaell546]

Yes, thanks for mentioning this. Those people are in a world these mid 304s have absolutely no access to.

[@remrem-gx3ml]

is there one for men yet?

[@mainegardenguy703]

@remrem-gx3ml we don't need one. Men don't assume much these days and most aren't deluded enough to think that these women are sincere about anything but hooking up with random hot guys and bilking them out of their hard earned time, money, and attention.

[@jantaljaard835]

It is because womans energy is emotional and leads to chaos.

[@spig3547]

Those little girls claiming they've been cat called, not a chance in the world.

[@kingmasterlord]

i dont believe cat calling exists

[@spig3547]

@@kingmasterlord I mean it does just not for them.

[@drsiigabb9935]

If it happened they would have it on video.

[@ravengrey6874]

“Someone masculine looked in my general direction....I felt uncomfortable....thus I was attacked” probably a modern woman

[@Ghost-yd7ep]

That's prison time, I don't think they would especially given that as a result. Or anyone would.

[@LukeMingst]

Playing the victim means nothing is ever your fault. You don't have to make any changes and it removes any responsibility for what happens. There are millions of people running this scam on themselves, world wide. Probably everyone does it from time to time. But there are those who live for this.

[@stephencooper5040]

13:59 Norah Vincent, the radical feminist journalist that did some ACTUAL journalism and went undercover as a man for 18 months to prove that men live life on easy mode. She had originally planned for 2 years but couldn’t finish because she was too depressed living life as a man… She did the doctor assisted self deletion BECAUSE of her depression from only a YEAR AND A HALF living as a man in her 53 year life. Someone seriously needs to make a movie about this woman, Daily Wire?

[@SomeGuy-xf9bc]

God rest her soul.

[@Bigbirdisntreal]

Norah Vincent was put into a depression due to her experience portraying herself as a man. However, she took her life over two decades later, which is typically ignored by folks telling her story. Her suicide was likely unrelated.

[@carpandrei7493]

Her assisted suicide was unrelated to the experiment. She has other health issues that made her choose that option. But, the conclusion of her experiment is clear: men don't have it easier.

[@Alivebutnot]

She also had a history of depression prior to her experience.

[@martinbasten192]

I've seen a lot of comments on TikTok lately where people say that we need to understand it's impact over intent, or something along those lines. "Words hurt" and whatnot. But it's not. The impact of something that someone says to you, or that reality has on you, is something you create yourself. You allow yourself to feel like a victim, when you're not

[@paulwilliams7700]

You never win an arguement with a woman. You only delay and increase a loss. Most will retreat when given truth, step back and feel resentment, and then come back twice as angry. Truth.

[@patrickday4206]

Yeah they find ways to get you back. Probably used to before all of this feminist society crap

[@stevescuba1978]

Not always true. I've even had my wife admit her fault and apologize. I was shocked the first time. Seriously. I stood there dumbfounded for a moment and then just had an overwhelming sense of pride and peace. Since the first time, she has become accustomed to taking accountability. She isn't a unicorn, but she is rare!

[@jeyfr3319]

There are more good women in the world than bad.

[@ccoodd26]

​@@jeyfr3319 A large percentage of women who you call good, do acts of evil that they are unaware of, all because of emotions and feelings taking control. Regardless of the intentions, evil actions are evil.

[@bligabliga]

modern feminism: men = women also modern feminism: men < women

[@miroslavstefka5013]

Let me make algorithm for it: If (men>women) { return "men = women"; } else return "men < women";

[@russellbarrus6177]

Confirmation bias affects all of us. We seek information that confirms what we want or believe. Overcoming confirmation bias takes a conscious effort.

[@FolkBlue]

Wizards First Rule: People are stupid. They will believe a thing because they either wish it to be true or fear that it is.

[@darrynreid4500]

This is what science is about. As a general principle, a false idea will usually not conflict with facts everywhere, so what we look for is refuting evidence, not supposedly confirming evidence.

[@Kitosa_Hinoyosha]

When it comes to faith based relationships sometimes the fear of divine retribution plays a bigger factor in the longevity of the relationship than actual compatibility.

[@lcrsykym0367]

I agree partially because this kind of relationship support can indeed happen with a few couples. To those couples in which it didn't occur, divine retribution doesn't weigh in the relationship. But other benefits religion can bring to the connection between the couple, sometimes do weigh on it.

[@lcrsykym0367]

And about compatibility, it's a factor that complements and strengthen the faith based relationship, just like a normal one. It also guarantees that one of the sides of it, will not initiate savage beast mode and proceed to pull all kind of damaging and bizarre deeds to the partner and the connection between the parts of it.

[@lcrsykym0367]

The faith based relationship traits guarantee that.

[@davidplummer2473]

She wanted whichever part of the sandwich she couldn't have: a) Just because she couldn't have it. b) She was bored and wanted to manufacture some drama. c) Both.

[@georgedunkelberg5004]

SUPER PARENTS BUT NOT BY OUR CHOICES! WE WERE TAUGHT THIS: "THE DIVIDER OR CUTTER, SELF MANDATES TO BE THE SECOND CHOOSER!

[@ianleary5780]

"They are fulfilling the prophecy..." I love this turn of phrase to describe the thought process! Many people are big believers in destiny. Being true to destiny and being true to the story brings people a sense of security. Human beings engage in a constant quest for stimulation and security. These two forces can oppose each other, work in different directions from each other, or coincide. They are at their most powerful when they coincide. A person fulfilling the prophecy acts in a way that is both stimulating and increasing security. Thanks for bringing that turn of phrase into the conversation.

[@DCLOVESGOD365]

When I feel alone & feel bad that I’m alone I watch videos of women being dumb then I’m glad I’m single.

[@drsiigabb9935]

Single nearly 9 yrs. Have dated a couple of times. But they usually have messy homes and can't cook from scratch.

[@monroymartinez]

Amen bro!

[@branislavpetriska882]

Best breakdown of today's thinking process of women, hands down. 👏👏👏👏👏

[@Sarahahahahah]

lol I don’t understand the complaining about men not helping out with housework or being messy. I work 4 days a week, 3 of them from home, and he goes to a job 5 days a week making three times as much as me. I can wash the dishes. He can chill on the couch. It makes sense.

[@josephwilliams1915]

Your husband is a very lucky man for being able to snag a gem like you =) I hope he also treats you well, as you deserve it

[@RexZShadow]

Coz it just selfishness in the end. Also those women alway forget the part men usuaally end up doing the more labor intensive part of maintaining a house too like mowing the lawn, house repair, tree trimming and such.

[@amierulaminin9571]

You're a queen....blessed you🙏

[@gobbledeegouup6578]

Until you have children then youll be crying over neding his help while hes working.

[@Dreamspawn]

The most attractive quality in any person, in my opinion, is the ability to ground themselves in reality and see the world for what it is, not for what they feel or the fantasy ideal they'd like it to be. Thank you for this. I look forward to checking out more of your content :)

[@miroslavstefka5013]

I honestly don't think people are capable of this. The very closest we can get are natural sciences. We can describe plants animals, rocks, seas, sky, stars, energy or whatnot. But the moment you include people, we are fucked. Even if you include just one self. We have delusions, dreams, hopes, ideals. And what is worse, we start living in believe that other people understand us and this part of us.

[@ccoodd26]

@@miroslavstefka5013 Don't use belief. Be a seeker of truth, and you'll be more alert and aware to life around you.

[@borislibaque1558]

Its so refreshing to hear a beautiful women that lives in reality. You're a gem in a sea of nonsense. Please keep doing your thing. Most men don't know women like you exist

[@ma3stro681]

Women is plural …

[@fredflintstone8569]

Don't simp. She is on a grift. She's just like all the women in this video.

[@C_R_O_M________]

@@ma3stro681 non native English speakers exist.

[@klaytonkimball9933]

​@@ma3stro681 Yes and your point is? The comment was correctly phrased since it was referring to the one female AND other females (which would indicate plurality).

[@standardofexcellence]

I'm kinda shocked

[@chancemeyers8502]

The analogy of looking through lenses and only looking through one was a good way to say it. Great video. You're very intelligent. Definitely earned my sub. Hope you're well Christine.

[@fritzidachl]

Christine, you're awesome - I have daughters your age and thank God they think like you!

[@standardofexcellence]

You did well, thank you.

[@darkerbinding6933]

OMG, ditch the woman who complained about the sandwich. As children we do go through that... in my house, the person dividing/dishing up/etc had to allow the other to pick the serving they wanted. But WE WERE CHILDREN and we learned better.

[@goldoildiamonds]

A Christina x Alexander Grace collaboration is needed.

[@joelharris3389]

Christine, you are incredible! Keep up keeping on the road of REALITY!!!!!

[@bryanwoods3373]

7:40. I know exactly why he gave her that half first. It's the hand closest to her. We can go farther that he didn't want to reach across himself. Guarantee that's how superficial his thought process was.

[@kingmasterlord]

i keep both when people do this.

[@Rickyp0123]

Exactly. Imagine if he went out of his way to cross his hands in a big show of giving her a specific half. That would probably tick her off even more!

[@seanthompson9163]

What she wanted was for him to defer to her first, offer both and let her pick which one to take. She wants that power in the relationship and for herself to get what she wants and he can have what’s left. When she asks him about his decision process, it isn’t to understand how he thinks, it’s just to dig in and make him commit to a decision tree, so she can find fault with it and make him the bad guy in the relationship that is ‘lucky’ she puts up with his male brain shenanigans

[@kingmasterlord]

@@seanthompson9163 so she's four.

[@asherandai1000]

@@kingmasterlordno need to insult four year olds.

[@LoganBaty]

Feeling wronged is sometimes the excuse someone uses to justify their own lack of commitment. If the partner is always seen as unfair or unfaithful, then you have an excuse to behave the same way yourself.

[@georgetanga6757]

"Its complicated". Most underrated channel on KZbin. Glad you highlight this channel.

[@shungupatsika]

This is a brilliant guide on how to avoid narcissists.

[@OldCanadianguy953]

Using logic and reasoning with some women is like planting and hoeing seeds in a minefield.

[@philipr.6090]

. . . or in a lava flow. The seeds are incinerated before they can take root.

[@ccoodd26]

Also with ADHD people.

[@BranniganCarter]

Dated a woman with BPD once which is the DEFINITION of not living in reality

[@CommanderReplay]

I did that too. Its a bad time.

[@Calladim]

Nearly 4 years I did my best. I was ignorant, ill-equipped and eventually exhausted in every way. She wasn't taking meds or seeing a doctor the whole time 🤦

[@heavensea141]

Life -Debates and argue's isn't about being wrong or right it is about being objective and rational based to what truth and lies!

[@burdendmist6543]

Im a man, but I still appreciate you trying to flip it and say men and women because you're absolutely correct. I hear guys talking about crazy women, but for what, my sister told me theres some crazy guys out there. Im glad im close with my little sister, and we can share some of the things we are experiencing while dating and outher general stuff. least she listens to my advice on being smart and safe.

[@matthew-005]

We don't like to be right about this and don't want to be right about this we hate that this is the reality. We just want nice feminine woman who we can love and care for.

[@JF-cd5hc]

Communists killed that for us thru feminism.

[@matthew-005]

@JF-cd5hc Feminism definitely killed feminity ironically..... Don't know what communism is though. But honestly I don't believe in equality anymore the more I see of it the more it seems like reducing us all to faceless nobodies all treated the same no individually no uniqueness. And women seem to want all men's rights but none of the responsibility while still keeping there female privileges like getting the vote for example was a male privilege because we had to answer the draft after all you want the men protecting the country to believe in it so men got to vote on what they are fighting for but now men can get drafted and women can change the country while the men are at war, so we could end up fighting for a couniwe believe in than come back from war to one where women have changed everything so we fought to preserve nothing in the end because women changed it while we were away making sure they were safe as they screwed us over. But even though women have the same rights and privileges that men had nlthey want to keep their female privileges of not having to go to war and having a man provide for them and getting a man of higher social standarding than themselves while not offering anything they aren't feminine, pure, loyal or affectionate they aren't even motherly they offer nothing to a decent man which is why they go off screwing the badboys who just want to use them then wonder why they can't find a good man as they believe all of us are the badboys and it's never their fault for choosing to go with the badboys no it's always the mans fault for not being good enough. And equity is even worst that would mean if you work hard and someone is lazy they still get the same as you like getting into college without having good grades dispite the fact you worked hard for your grades. Neither equally or equity are fair.

[@SeanSandberg-j3q]

God bless you Christine! I found you today and have watched several of your videos. You are really quite impressive and God bless you, your family, your friends, and your future! You are a rising star, and with your faith in God-your future is endless.

[@fendersuckss]

With all due respect 99% of any debate or argument I’ve ever seen between a man and a woman, the man is right 90% of the time. Don’t get me wrong I’m not a misogynist, but men are problem solvers, and we think things through, rather than feeling things through, so we are naturally able to get to the root of the problem, and logically see how to fix it. Whereas it seems like women focus on many different things relative to the problem, and express how they FEEL about it.

[@MrAerospecial80]

I had a breakup last week due to this. We had a debate, turned argument. I was correct, and I knew it. She walked away to win. I let her keep waking because no way will I let that be the pattern. Single again and I'm ok with it.

[@fendersuckss]

@@MrAerospecial80 good for you 💪

[@N12015]

In short, we men are the ones who solve problems, they're the ones who notice if something is a problem. Is the most basic concept of teamwork, because we are not good at recognizing issues. We're supposed to be teammates like fungi and algae, not compete because it makes both sides miserable; we're a match made in heaven, literally in christian textbooks.

[@openyoureyes909jones6]

@@MrAerospecial80 well played, you did the right thing

[@michellevi4919]

Hahaha this video is fun. Your facial expressions and nodding are in sync with mine as I watch it.

[@Slimurgical]

"I can do everything better than you" is a red flag for a narcissist and you're always better without them.

[@Ernoskij]

"That is Scientistically true" HAHAHA that made me laugh out so loud that I scared my cat XD

[@Ronin969]

"main character energy" is meant to suggest they read. Just not enough to know the word "protagonist"

[@xavierayayaell546]

We are all the protagonist of our lives, the issue is when someone lacks the self awareness to know that in context (reality) this can't possibly hold true with regards to interactions with the wider world.

[@Ronin969]

@@xavierayayaell546 you missed the point of my joke

[@Lurch685]

@@xavierayayaell546whoooosh

[@tonycooke8545]

As Ben Shapiro would say 'facts don't care about your feelings'.

[@fronttowardenemy9994]

Except when it comes to Israel.

[@tonycooke8545]

@@fronttowardenemy9994 You mean Judea, right?

[@Sindrijo]

Except he doesn't know much about facts.

[@ChrisJetton]

My mom is 82, alone, bitter, barely making it, and still holding on to the story. My sister is not far behind. There was actually a walkway bridge in central FL built by a team of women engineers. It collapsed. It was a big deal in the news. 16:19 "Find a way" is when The Loop starts.

[@AbadaleRavnic]

They want reality to bow down to them!

[@sunbathingsquirel3339]

13:37 I bust out laughing at this part. The way you delivered the punchline killed me!😂

[@lynmacomber8886]

When I was younger I would "argue your facts for the virtue of my feelings" I grew up.

[@seuratguy]

Watching your videos always replenishes my hope in women. You have such common sense and rationality. Women like you are out there. I have to remember that!

[@chicolofi]

As a man, I always feel exploited in my relationships with women.

[@rikdownunda]

Very entertaining Christine. Thank you for putting these together. I really appreciated your Christian point of view and that you're not too shy to voice it. God bless 🙏

[@christophertaylor9100]

He says that about science but... that's what we're starting to get from science. Studies are being suppressed because they come to the "wrong" conclusions

[@Calladim]

I see your point but don't blame the scientific process for corruption by the greedy.

[@dmitrym.6853]

6:20. It's not about something loves it. It's about a habit, more precise complex of unconscious habits. And for any human being it's easier to follow them, than to admit that it's actually dictates your behavior in a way to look and create situation and people around which and who will repeat and evolve situations and habits. BTW, in habits I mean not only habits of doing, but habits of feeling and thinking also.

[@ourlifeinwashington4114]

You have to admit majority of conservative women aren't like this.

[@kiwia8271]

LOL, they get down for chad and tyrone just as fast as all the rest of them.

[@ourlifeinwashington4114]

@@kiwia8271 not the ones I've known but there's always a chance of a Rino. But no Conservative women aren't nearly as bad as 304s from the Left that are Feminists pro abortion, pro societal and moral corruption.

[@ReaveIdono]

You're a fool if you believe this imo.

[@hjackson.92]

Are you sure about that? Some of these "conservative" women have been exposed as anything BUT conservative.

[@tnk4me4]

Lol wtf are you talking about? Both Liberals and Conservatives are right wing and worship money and individualism over people and their communities. They're the same at the end of the day and pretending They're not is not grounded in reality.

[@Vivereftw]

Well, it's good to know there are still sensible people on the internet.

[@jackhadroom4540]

It's a shame we don't talk about cognitive dissonance more. Too many people wave their credentials about or IQ, ignoring the simple fact that two perfectly intelligent people can read all the same material and reach conflicting conclusions, thanks to such things as anchoring and confirmation bias.

[@standardofexcellence]

It exists when observing fake sports etc too which is just as large

[@markkoops2611]

Christine, you're awesome. Living proof that not every woman out there is that delusional

[@Stonewall-j5j]

There is only a few unicorns in this world and you are one of the very few. Hat tip to you my lady !!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@JF-cd5hc]

Cringe....

[@bertilorickardspelar]

One evening I was feeling like having some pancakes so I asked my wife "would you like some pancakes?". She answered "No thanks". So I made my pancakes and ate them after which my wife entered the kitchen and I don't need to tell you what she said because you already know.

[@TNH91]

Hopefully she'll learn. Some people you need to train to tell you the truth, or to think forward to figure out if they'll want something _when that time comes_

[@bertilorickardspelar]

@@TNH91 Unfortunately no. She built up the pressure and finally snapped and now she is completely insane. We had a big house near the ocean and our own company but after almost 3 years of legal battles we are both broke. 20 years of building up our lives completely gone.

[@Chris-qg8ss]

Great video on Feminism lady. Thank you.

[@darrenskjoelsvold]

Blinders.... horses wear blinders.

[@craigsmith2755]

Blinkers.

[@LukiKruki]

@@craigsmith2755 Not necessery. They may translated foreign word literally to blinders.

[@MetalRocksMe.]

You got a new sub! 😅 It’s good to see women calling this feminist dogma nonsense we’re living in. I personally don’t understand any of it.

[@shodan198]

No one is cat calling her she's trying to feel better about her self in my opinion

[@thedjjudah]

I can't believe that nobody has married this girl yet! She is empathetic, smart, and very beautiful. If I lived in the UK and wasn't 40, I would definitely be chatting her up.

[@hongolloyd8728]

Delululand is getting crowded.

[@Erik-nordic]

Anyone, man or woman, who thinks that they DESERVE anything is setting themselves up for a life of disappointment. Striving for something and having goals is different than thinking you deserve something. I think that is what is being lost on people that are like this.

[@haddarac1]

Faith in something can be good as long as it isn’t blind faith. Blind faith breeds fanaticism and delusion.

[@IN-tm8mw]

Yes, having the right amount of faith brings hope.

[@WayneMcKenzie]

In that case I would use the word "trust".

[@vacayooper4728]

Faith is an interesting thing. In the religious arena, faith is seen as harmful and deluded. In another arena, say transgender, if you don't totally buy into everything or have "faith" you are the problem.

[@miroslavstefka5013]

Have to agree with @WayneMcKenzie over there. Faith is by definition blind trust. You believe in something despite having anything tangible to support that believe. If you're sceptic enough you could even argue that faith is trust in the bishop/religious relatives. If you take a loan and someone you already trusts tells you "I trust him", you'll be more inclined to trust the loan person.

[@tarotntoke]

Ok, I'm 56 m. I never knew people do this, live life as a story. Crazy like really crazy, insane. Thank you for having this on your show.

[@AdekunleLawal]

Really appreciate Christine you’re a high value woman. ❤

[@shanenolan5625]

Cheers Christine

[@mortus88]

After 2 horrible long term relationships with narcissistic women who were never happy with anything and would argue with me over absolutely everything and run me down no matter how good i was to them , i finally found a good woman. It's absolutely refreshing , we can talk about absolutely anything and just keep it grounded. So weird to actually be validated and heard in a relationship. Good women are still out there guys , they're a rare gem but they're out there. The appreciation for the little things is such a welcome change , the joy it brings her when i take 2 minutes to send a good morning beautiful , i love you and i hope you have a great day message or when she's genuinely excited and appreciative of me bringing her home her favorite chips or whatever just because... find the woman who genuinely appreciates the little things

[@iamtesting3824]

I can't agree more. I'm a software engineer and i was reported to HR by a female colleague. I was under fire while she couldn't execute her assignments. Ok in the end. Involved in a trouble isn't the first time.

[@tarkov_6]

Brother got accused of made up sexual harrasment by someone to save their job, then him and the only other male got pushed out by his boss.

[@DoralockHones]

I am also a SWE. One fine day, several years ago, I was walking down a corridor with a friend/colleague. We passed by a group of people who seemed to be doing something. I didn't pay much attention coz I was chatting with my friend. Suddenly, an HR person (female) who was there grabbed my wrist and pulled me into the group. Why? To sign a poster about ending "sexual harassment in the workplace" and something related to LGBTQ+ awareness. Can't emphasise enough about the irony. I wouldn’t have even cared about her grabbing me if it weren’t for the context. But if the genders were reversed, may God help the poor guy, even back then 😂

[@eoin7704]

Daaaamn girl!!!! You've nailed it!!!! Im subscribing....

[@shaolinwarrior2012]

I've worked as a bartender on and off for 20+ years. A woman with absolutely ZERO experience will get a job ahead of me in many situations. Mainly in regular bars, as opposed to a restaurant/hotel bar. Where knowledge of liquors, proper mixing, and service with focus matters more. I just accept it, because I know men will come back to a bar over and over if they're attracted to a bartender, no matter the service.

[@gregorytremain4086]

Because women don’t just offer skill but attraction, the more she attracts a man to the bar the more likely he would buy from the bar.

[@shaolinwarrior2012]

My point is a woman can have no experience and be unskilled and get chosen for the job first. The why is obvious