when your blind date doesn't like big girls..

[@khalilahd.]

“I have two kids and I’m divorced” Her: 🏃‍♀️💨💨💨💨

[@Mr.paint123]

Smart woman

[@MG-uj7ng]

As she should💀

[@miraclemay24]

I've heard worse 5 kids and divorced😳

[@millieme6224]

I swear our recommendations must be identical because I see your comments on every video I watch and you always take the words right out of my mouth

[@avery8852]

@@millieme6224 similar recs for similar minds

[@Ntombi383]

The fact that asking for hugs is his strategy to getting an idea of their sizes is sending me😂😭😭😭

[@AlexisTwoLastNames]

haha right lol. clever af tho

[@mariaathena7910]

FR!!

[@kinley.-.]

It’s a lil creepy 😭

[@TheAlien_in_your_backyard]

@@kinley.-. yes but smart

[@pennypillow4445]

HES SO COLD FOR DOING THAT HAHA

[@debby2208]

Her -> I want an Asian Him -> I want a skinny girl But everyone is saying he was wrong for that and when it comes to her, it was just preference. I think it‘s even worse to go after race, than to go after weight or bodies. I prefer fit guys, because I work out too, so no one can judge him for saying he wants a skinny girl🤦🏻‍♀️ If a guy would‘ve said „I want someone who‘s thick“ no one would have judged him😂

[@rubyrose49]

Exactly.

[@bryn1063]

@@ladyexo3030 Poor guy. Let the man have preferences my lord..

[@blume0121]

Well, there is still a big difference between liking people with certain origin or a fetish. Please dont mix things up. Its completley ok to like a certain type. The woman in the video of course gave a fetish vibe

[@PunaniJohnny]

@@ladyexo3030 whats the tiktok

[@cursedfetus5406]

@@ladyexo3030 source:trust me bro

[@remi-D]

Damn this brings a whole new meaning to the “where’s my hug” dudes

[@mommyissue]

@beyond your imagination ooogaaa

[@L0v3lyB3tty]

Broo- 💀

[@anasdomain9994]

That’s literally why women don’t like them though 😭 we know they’re just trying to feel us up

[@nancyedna]

Iktr😂💯

[@berrybloom2000]

@@anasdomain9994 Lmao the way you said it, "feel us up" like they're police officers 😂

[@ari1758]

Honestly if she has the right to choose her date based on race, he has the right to choose his date based on size

[@emma2370]

Thank you. It was odd to me so many people ignored that.

[@symckr]

Yeah but then they should try dating normally, not blindfolded because it ruins the whole idea of having a preference

[@opossumsauce4472]

She wasn't choosing based on race at all, she said what she liked. He just automatically judged her on her weight, an arbitrary trait that can be changed.

[@raulmontr]

@@opossumsauce4472 He also just showed what he prefers, who cares

[@9dra9on9]

Such a weird statement. Of course she has a right to have a preference. Just like obviously absolutely he has the right to have a preference too. It’s literally a preference on who they WANT TO FUCK. You have the be attracted to your partner sexually.

[@mya2kawaii]

that girl is def a fetishizer. “i watch a lot of anime, korean shows” , talks abt her preference for asian men, and literally dresses up as an anime character … she doesn’t like asian men, she jus thinks they look like fictional men ☠️

[@fangyuandemonvenerable]

She's 100% the type of person to think East Asia is all of Asia. Def doesn't know a whole lot about other regions either just because those regions aren't popular with making shows about guys with hot abs

[@penultimania4295]

And?

[@penultimania4295]

@KittenzHoarder it's not any more weird than fantasizing about blondes or green eyes. Calm your tits.

[@daughterofleehyori]

Specifically EA men too. Because had it been a South Asian man, she probably wouldn't have been into him. It's so gross.

[@Cononized]

Anime men look “Asian” hahahahahah very rarely

[@avaelizabeth6226]

being a bus driver is a way more respectable job than people think

[@calliph]

City bus drivers make decent money, benefits, holidays off. Yeah idk what the deal with that was.

[@hyde1893]

period! it's a solid job

[@theeKPOPlover]

At least he has a job and contributes to society. They also get great benefits and time off!

[@hailbones666]

It's steady work and I use public transportation so I have love for our bus drivers! I would have no problem dating a bus driver.

[@AnnieNugget]

Yea and maybe there's more to the story too and she didn't care enough to hear it. even if he's a bus driver just because, there's nothing wrong with that either.

[@reem4039]

The Asian guy knows what he’s doing with the hugs 💀

[@emma2370]

He really did.

[@opossumsauce4472]

Yep, a truly shallow jerk

[@misscatbag6340]

Smart man

[@miraclemay24]

I don't like hugs lol that could be weird lol

[@SecretWars98]

Gotta say it was pretty slick! 😆

[@nikki9966]

Why they keep sending him the fat girls knowing he doesnt like them🤣🤣 shady

[@YyOl-x2g]

😂😂😂😂

[@CG-wr4no]

Lol

[@Heather-ip8sd]

Fr😭

[@abdrex2139]

Reality check i guess😂

[@qtip3998]

Becuz its funny

[@itshaitian_dollz4153]

He is entitled to his opinion . Everyone has their preference .She has a preference for an entire race so he has his own for skinnier girls .

[@sjie1874]

@@eva9310 huh?

[@warmmilk8624]

@@eva9310 then she shouldn't have come to a blind dating show

[@davadu0_045]

Lol then nobody should've come to the show tf? (Answering to the comments above mine)

[@warmmilk8624]

@@davadu0_045 idk I think ppl should be able to have a preference like its not his fault he doesn't like fatter girls and it's not her fault she likes Asian men (as long as they don't go too far with those likes like crapping on every fat woman he sees or fetishizing every Asian man she sees) ppl r weird

[@davadu0_045]

@@warmmilk8624 agreed.

[@trrachel7102]

Bro fair play to the girl who said no to the hug, I feel like she lowkey knew what he was doing😂

[@utibby222]

she my fave love her fa that

[@KpopLover1013]

In the actual episode she said that she buzzed him out bc the girls who were previously buzzed out by him told the rest of the girls he rejected them after hugging, and they wanted him out bc of that lol. To make these more fair, they shouldnt have everyone in the same room tbh. But it does sorta even out the playing field to give more ppl a chance to meet others

[@trrachel7102]

@@KpopLover1013 Ahh okay! I know Netflix has a show called Love is Blind & it’s kinda like this but they’re in separate rooms talking through a wall. One guy asked the girls “Now here’s a question, can I carry you?” & all the women were like “um no bai dude”😂

[@wendyev310]

@@KpopLover1013 in real dating if you get a bad reputation then it’s over so I’d say its fair

[@KpopLover1013]

@@wendyev310 lol true

[@loveydovey9733]

OKAY, that one girl cosplaying was completely fetishizing Asian men so I didn't feel really sorry for her but I also felt a lot of satisfaction for him getting rejected after seeing him try that "hug" trick. Like he gonna ask, "why did you press the button?" BRO - you never explained why you did lmfao. Ya got whatcha got.

[@areyoukirringmeirriyaa]

they both problematix

[@imthecoolest50]

To be fair, it's not like she was asking if he's Asian or not. He was the one who asked what race she liked (to which she said White TO Asian). AND told her he was Asian. She never did anything asides from answering HIS questions. He was the one who made it about race. And then made it about weight when he hugs every person he meets. Idk how you guys talk about fetishization this whole time when the girl didn't even initiate it. You immediately assume she's a fetishizing creep just because of the cosplay. Saying this as an Asian who's not trying to twist things into what it's not.

[@12Kyra121]

@@imthecoolest50 Thank you. I saw the comments first and then watched the video. Yes, she has a preference but she was in no way flaunting it, and obviously he does too. Being in cosplay seems fun, I've never done it, but I always admire those who do, so I don't even get what a lot of the other commenters were going on about her.

[@unrealisticdiversity6427]

im asian and it feels horrible to be romantacized and sexualised

[@beee4758]

@@12Kyra121 yes she is in no way flaunting it whilst being in anime cosplay and saying she has a preference for asians.

[@Lewisiaisoutofcontext]

Imagine talking to someone for a good 5-10 minutes and really feeling like you're hitting it off, only for them to immediately slam the nope button the moment they see how you look. I would be devastated. 😭

[@claredavies21]

We have a series called ‘Naked attraction!,” in the uk and yes it’s singleton’s literally looking at male/female genitalia to see if they would be a match. You can’t make this shit up. I can’t even watch a second of the cringe that emulates from the program ahaha (;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`)

[@Em-fz5uh]

@@claredavies21 that show is wild lol. Like how they comment on the people genitals and overall appearance. I could never been on it. There’re some episodes on KZbin for anyone who’s curious (warning: nothing is blurred)

[@carlacholera]

for real 😭

[@claredavies21]

@@Em-fz5uh Oh dear god noooooo!!. Ahaha 🤣

[@CiaobellaAmour]

Just swallow me earth right then & there

[@aaa_704]

i can smell the awkwardness from a mile away in these videos☠☠😭

[@khalilahd.]

Lmfaoo right. Nathan ain’t slick

[@aaa_704]

@@khalilahd. ikr he really thought he can get away with them hugs LOL😭

[@caughtcontext]

@@khalilahd. euewja

[@ceciliaw1065]

honestly cringing so bad

[@dancingspeed]

the fact that the producers caught on what Nathan was doing and then only send him big girls afterwards 😂😂😂

[@plantita3183]

She was fetishising him so bad, so I can definitely understand why he rejected her, even if he didn’t do the weird hug thing

[@erika8349]

Nah he was smiling when she said she preferred Asian men, food, and entertainment content 😂 It was all good until he felt her size lol But I don’t see anything wrong with that, she was hoping to get what she wanted, why can’t he?

[@chubbybutterflies8971]

@@PurpleMoon799 while in a cosplay of an anime character....

[@PurpleMoon799]

@@chubbybutterflies8971 and?

[@wabi-sabi5621]

Yeah she was def fetishizing over asian men but i am sure that he was actually happy about it and the anime thing. But after the hug lmao.

[@cait3196]

@@PurpleMoon799 if you only date asian men... preference means u prefer something, not ONLY date one race

[@b.luxxvoirr]

the cosplay took me out😭😭

[@joshuagcwong734]

Dresses like that, watches anime and K-drama, says she's into Asians... All the boxes for "nope" were ticked.

[@shinobuily]

She was in a Mitsuri cosplay 💀

[@fisda]

I screamed at that part 😭 i mean it's ok to cosplay but gurl look at the situation, you're embarrassing yourself 💀

[@marimecham]

Idk what they do to get these people in, but I'm just wondering if there was a convention nearby where they asked her if she wanted to be a part of this. Because yeah.... I'm not wearing cosplay to a dating show on purpose 😅

[@davadu0_045]

@@fisda exactly, and on dating show. This ain't no comic con smh

[@shouko4218]

As an Asian girl who’s been subjected to fetishization before and often times, I’m fully behind Asian dude.

[@whow486]

I always wondered what can people fetishize in Asian girls, I mean... flat, no shaving, short legs.

[@plumdutchess]

@@whow486 Yeah... this thing you're doing? That's called generilization and discrimination.

[@Liiizzyy]

@@whow486 That's so rude, everyone has their likes and dislikes. But what I can assure is that prob no one would like you with that nasty attitude of being disrespectful

[@axelcastillo7432]

@@Liiizzyy Oh you cute snow flake

[@frktzsj]

both were such big assholes even if i would be east asian i would still not be behind that dude, its literally a *blind date* and both had to ruin that exact aspect

[@amoralexandria3071]

While I do feel bad for those girls he buzzed out, everyone has their preferences so I’m glad he was respectful about it and was trying not to hurt their feelings.

[@Ahhahhhsiisis]

The fact he hugged them tho to find out 💀 but the second girl sounded like she has an Asian fetish

[@Ahhahhhsiisis]

Damn I fell for it too 💀 now I’m making potato wedges

[@crybaby9101]

U really think after rewatching the video they'll not feel bad ?

[@amoralexandria3071]

@@crybaby9101 I’m sure they do but that’s the name of the game. You’re gonna be rejected on superficial things. Just take it on the chin and move on to the next. There’s people who find me attractive and there’s people who don’t. I’m sure they’ve rejected their fair share of people as well.

[@Eargulp]

At least he didn’t fetishize Asians

[@MeMe-ry1oj]

as a bigger girl myself I really don't see anything wrong with people having preferences on body sizes. I saw the uproar on how the Asian guy kept rejecting the bigger girls but honestly he should be able to do so without people calling him nasty things.

[@emma2370]

Thank you. Dating is inherently discriminatory as we all date (and not date) people who fit what we want in a partner. I don’t see why size wouldn’t be apart of that like all the other factors. If women can date men based on height why wouldn’t men be able to date based on size.

[@mississipi1103]

It's because being superficial sucks and we have the right to judge superficial people

[@MeMe-ry1oj]

@@mississipi1103 I mean in theory yes but at the same time people can have preferences. You date who you're attracted to, whether its a person's physical or inner traits. He shouldn't be shamed for not wanting to date bigger girls. I give the girl the side eye for fetishizing asians but hey if that's her type then more power to her.

[@icybuuchannel]

Oh you’re such a sweetheart! Finally seeing someone with some senses lol Best wishes to you!!

[@mutesama1203]

Respect💯.

[@xolovenicole]

She came in a cosplaying, talking about she’s into Asian men, only being interested once finding out he’s Asian, just strange

[@thiccredgyal3404]

He probably could tell she's fat based on what she said.

[@horticasey]

The hug is a next level move

[@Mr.paint123]

Then what is sex on the first date ?

[@khalilahd.]

Lmfao right 😂

[@jimmyjoyce3554]

@@Mr.paint123 wrong

[@horticasey]

@@Mr.paint123 I was referring to it as a smart way to guage whether the person is overweight or not, not as if it was some extraordinary pimp game maneuver.

[@Mr.paint123]

@@jimmyjoyce3554 bull shit

[@VideoInteresante2024]

He really hugged them just to know if they were overweight 💀

[@ItisBerserk]

Loloolol

[@tattoosprettyeyesthickthig1357]

he smart for that lmfao

[@blast228]

And... What's problem?

[@VideoInteresante2024]

@@blast228 who said there was a problem? Stfu

[@TheBizarre1]

Id do the same lol

[@rubysokolova5905]

Preferences aside, the hugs were lowkey creepy. I don’t blame the girl who refused one bit 😂

[@ch-cx4ot]

It's a blind test 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@amphoteric]

so fetishizing asians and having yellow fever is okay but not wanting to date a bigger person is where y'all draw the line???

[@areyoukirringmeirriyaa]

LIKE IM SO TIRED as an asian girl i go through so much shit because of weird ass fetishizers and people are justifying everything?

[@denatashkovska9537]

exactly!! she can have a preference but he cant smh

[@rockabyeruby0370]

Right i noticed when i watched the cilp, the outfit and they way she brings it up like its a must have quality is werid ash edit (im a big girl and i don't take offense of him hugging them bc he probably wants someone who cares for there health which is not a bad thing and we shouldn't downplay health just to make the fat girl feel accepted and loved thats not real love and her thing for Asians is most likely a aesthetic/fetish not a preference because you can't choose who you fall in love with more like a personal fantasy im guessing) 2nd edit for those who are saying its a preference okay where is the line between preference, prejudices and colorism start and end Huh? And can we please bring up that people like her only look for quality's like (race, height, eye color and ect) they want there kids to have or themselves, your future offspring is not build a bear

[@shinobuily]

the smile when he said he was azn LMAOOO I cannot

[@erika8349]

Right? If he wasn’t Asian she’d probably hit that buzzer too, so 🤷🏻‍♀️ And I don’t see anything wrong with not being attracted to bigger girls. I prefer strong athletic men because I want to be able to do things actively together, and I’m attracted to muscles so 😂

[@areyoukirringmeirriyaa]

not people blindly justifying that cosplay girl. yeah it sucks that she got judged because of her weight but she herself fetishizes asians and that’s okay? 😭😭😭😭 y’all

[@PrincesSakura]

Exactly ‼️

[@katielee7364]

I'm curious if the Asian man said he was into white girls would you still see it as a fetish? because I know plenty of Asian guys who have that same energy as her with other races yet no one has a problem with that

[@hssav5540]

@@katielee7364 I think its abt only liking someone bc their race not who they r like they can date anyone as long they from this race and not seeing them as ppl. U can see how this so dehumanizing and unhealthy.

[@bumblerbree]

@@katielee7364 if he was wearing white cosplay and talking about how much he liked white media, then honestly yeah. it comes off like you idolize the culture and have a lot of insecurity about your own race

[@akina4181]

@@katielee7364 Actually yes. It is like a white guy saying he strictly dates black women and came dressed as lil Wayne its weird honestly.

[@legacy_moments]

That girl rejecting him after he asked for the hug is the MVP.

[@khalilahd.]

Nathan ain’t slick with them hugs. He’s definitely for the streets 😂😂

[@eEmm1]

Actually he was very slick and he's entitled to his preference. He was actually way too sweet about it

[@izziestevens5835]

@@eEmm1 Exactly, IF HE’S A MODEL, then he’ll probably relate more to someone who takes care of themselves like him. Plus, I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who can’t eat what I’m eating. If I eat pizza and my date only eats salads then that’ll get pretty awkward quite quickly. And ALL three of the girls that were with him were DEFINITELY out of shape and overweight.

[@lauryn5701]

@@eEmm1 no he wasn’t. There’s footage of the big girls he rejected talking about him rejecting them after hugging them and that’s why the girl immediately rejected him once she got there. So they definitely knew

[@shinobuily]

😭😭😭

[@FIREcrochethairstyles]

@@lauryn5701 omg how can I find that?

[@ruthhh.m]

I feel like he shouldn't be able to hug, NOT bc he has a size preference, but because the blind folded are meant to prevent them from judging based off of what the person externally looks like💀😂 it's like cheating in the game, but otherwise, it doesn't really matter. People choose SO's based off of preference all the time, we can't pretend it's not real or not normal. Money, looks, size, prestige, humor, nice-ness, etc. Just don't treat the other person as less-than if they aren't your preference. Respect is key👌🏾

[@marimecham]

Tbf, I think the guy knew exactly what he wanted, and he didn't really care to make an actual connection. Which isn't bad, sometimes you want a date that you think is hot that may not lead anywhere, sometimes you wanna buckle down and get down to the bottom to find someone who clicks with you based on personality alone. He definitely found the cheat code, but he was far from the only "shallow" person on the show.

[@rubyrose49]

@@marimecham Some people cannot just form a romantic relationship based on personality alone. Good on you if you’re able to do so.

[@marimecham]

@@rubyrose49 yeah, depends on the person. It's not a bad thing at all.

[@Viscoplasticbeing]

The girl can actually reject the offer to hug, I mean his intension was so obvious. The man is just smart enough to understand the game...

the school driver looks so cute and honest 😭

[@shinobuily]

The girl in a Mitsuri cosplay was such a fetishizer 💀

[@XxPanda6]

Fr and people are mad at him

[@eminemmm9033]

@@XxPanda6 literally

[@yakann5266]

@@XxPanda6 ok she was kinda weird about that, but the other two girls didnt do anything wrong

[@bratzliplogical]

There is nothing weird with being passionate about something or dressing the way you want, you people are just being hypocritical

[@yerinkimm]

@@bratzliplogical no one said there was anything wrong with her cosplaying though?

[@peewee7380]

She's fetishising asians and he's not into physically big girls. everyone seems so superficial. sad to think that this is how dating works nowadays

[@-resin6511]

the guy is only fair, he has preference. we all do, but as for the girl 😞

[@olugboyeopeyemi2428]

@@-resin6511 I'm a thick girl and I agree It's not like he said anything offensive or disrespected them Although he did breach the rules of the game!😅

[@Bobbyfawn]

“Superficial” it’s literally speed dating

[@megadiabrous]

get off your high horse, everyone has a physical preference.

[@shinobuily]

@@megadiabrous fr 😭

[@tumblergal]

bruh the girl who was fast af after he said school busdriver lmao. focus on yourselves kings

[@sinceritydjp]

Takes a lot of courage to go and do this. My self esteem can not handle this in person rejection

[@Mysteriuminiquitatis1998]

I think I would do it if given the chance. It would hurt like hell but it seems kinda fun

[@sinceritydjp]

@@Mysteriuminiquitatis1998 you're braver than me then

[@hidansektas]

i think people feel pressure to be meaner because they assume others are gonna be judgy and reject them i dont like this concept, even though its quite entertaining for us to watch

[@sinceritydjp]

@@hidansektas it is but it shows us how the people doing today the resection don't even think twice

[@berrybloom2000]

I would love this.

[@otakugamer6657]

While I understand the people saying it’s okay to have a preference for who you want to date is fine, that’s not what the point of this video was. The whole concept of being blindfolded is so that the contestants will judge the other person only on their personality. Trying to cheat out of the blindfold by hugging the other party is literally ruining the whole concept of the video 🙃😭 *EDIT: Of course people still get judged for their work or if they have kids or not but I think you get my point.

[@otakugamer6657]

@I Yeah that kinda sucks. It could have been more interesting if they got asked if they wanted to go on a date while still having the blindfolds on. Then again you’d need the participants to be willing to try dating only on personality and not on looks 🤷‍♀️

[@nevadanate4957]

I guess, he found a unique strategy that got around the rules. You can say it's ruining the game or it's introducing a problem that they need to fix to make it more playable.

[@mew4741]

Talking about what race each other is is also cheating then. 🤨

[@otakugamer6657]

@@mew4741 I suppose it is but at least they still can’t see eachother. This way they don’t know if they would find the other person attractive or not. (Unless maybe they are racist I suppose) 🤷‍♀️ *Edit: Again, theres a difference of having a preference for Black women vs saying that you will only or won’t date black women.

[@NoName-ug7rm]

@@otakugamer6657 Can we stop using black women as the token example for these things? It’s so annoying scrolling past comments that had NOTHING to do with black people and see us being brought up out of nowhere.

[@aespamaniac112]

"She's not only into asians." She watches kdramas, anime, cosplays and she also said she liked asian guys and much more, but tbh everyone has their own prefernce I prefer thinner people too, but still they were both very respectful.

[@PrincesSakura]

Everyone has preference and he hasn’t disrespected the girl. Her on the other hand with her Asian obsession… That was a weird interaction for sure

[@sugarplum2467]

He likes thin she likes Asian? Is there a problem with either?

[@kimjongun5613]

@@sugarplum2467 her fetish is the problem. One thing is to find yourself slightly more attracted to one group (if you were surrounded by one group when growing up you’ll most likely feel more attracted to them) and another is to date them because you consume their media and started to obsess over it just because just watch a fictional drama also it’s really telling because she came on a blindfolded date, cosplaying, in the hopes to find an Asian men, she’s a weaboo

[@cecil2742]

@@kimjongun5613 idk, seemed like she was vibing when she thought he was yt / didn't know race?

[@pizzamassacre]

@@kimjongun5613 I like how you just wrote all that based only on your assumption

[@sewirut6423]

@@pizzamassacre I mean... Who, in their right mind, would go full cosplay to a date if they aren't OBSESSED with it? She clearly has a obsession... I can tell you cuz when I was younger I was super obsessed with Asian culture (I still love it, but those dark years are over). I don't think hers are over yet...

[@xGravesyte]

Honestly everyone has the right to their preferences, but I could NEVER do this lmao. My feelings would get so hurt 😂💀

[@blast228]

"People are so easy to break" Cybertron ©

[@mrs_mothra547]

Same 😳

[@funcisco]

I love how they got the most superficial people for a BLIND date 😂

[@punkbeluga5091]

The asian dude trying to get a hug to check the third girl out and she pressed the button, so funny ahahaaa 🤣🤣

[@ToraHayashi18]

And I love that he had the audacity to question her why she pressed the button when he flat out pressed the button the second he hugged the other girls. Like???

[@crayola6586]

@@ToraHayashi18 he deserves it

[@sophiaisabelle027]

The red button kinda speaks for itself. It’s awkward when the person you’re set up on a date with just straight up rejects you in the end. Anyway, we all love these videos. They really entertain us to the point where we end up forgetting our problems. Keep up the good work.

[@MrBaruPl]

I love this guy honesty and respect for his time

[@caffeinated-vegan]

I don’t feel bad for any of them except the last guy! 😭 Vibing so well and then immediately no just when she saw his face!

[@monsterbrat]

lol

[@XXFL4MINGD34THR4GEXX]

I would’ve said no too

[@Crystalbomb321]

They barely talked so I wouldn't say they vibed so well wtf lol

[@houseoftyrell1544]

They all so superficial and the last guy got false hope from that hoe

[@thegalacticmeowfilm1781]

The school bus driver tho

[@roryboxalt]

proud of the girl who didn't want to hug him, she knew he wasn't the vibe

[@davadu0_045]

She knew he would reject

[@KshipsinKchups]

Exactly. It's creepy... It's blind date he can't see but hugging them like that...

[@KshipsinKchups]

@@davadu0_045 either way she don't want him either and I am proud of her and not agree to his creepy "hugs"

[@duongthanhtung492]

Lmao she was insecure af. Nothing’s wrong with a hug 😂. How was it creepy in anyway. It’s not he was touching or feeling their bodies. If it was a woman asking for a hug you guys would not care. Double standards are real 😂.

[@b.994]

@@duongthanhtung492 It depends on the person, I would be creeped out if anyone ask me for a hug fr Plus what you’re saying doesn’t make sense.

[@Eramidas]

It is absolutely wild that his preference for women that take care of themselves is villified while her racial fetishizing isn't as bad

[@yunyung]

I respect school bus drivers. Growing up, my parents were always busy so my main transport is the school bus and honestly? School bus drivers have the biggest hearts ever. I usually talk to them and they'd tell me about their life stories, about the people they've met through all walks of life. If you're a school bus driver, or a bus driver in general, you have my utmost respect. Thank you for being the heroes to those who don't have their own transportation

[@youtubesucks4115]

1:40 if you are chatty and people are cutting you off, that means you need to take a back seat and let someone else talk rather than requiring people listen to you.

[@theoneandonlykawaiigoddess4821]

Slippery slope to being the quiet one and having depression.

[@davadu0_045]

If i were to judge by personality, i wouldn't have like her.

[@yehfish88]

For real I can’t stand chatty person 😭 I’m always thinking how to escape from them but they just keep talking

[@tresanmatroo9477]

The second-hand embarrassment I feel for everyone in those situations is....unreal.

[@itszenbaby]

Some people don’t find fat people attractive and some people don’t find skinny people attractive and thats ok. You are allowed to have your preferences. There is someone out there for everyone.

[@danthovict381]

Yeah but there are people said that anyone dont find fat people attractive are fatphobic. Like many comments here

[@myhobbyismale]

@@danthovict381 Fatphobia generally refers to the fear of consuming fat so perhaps you and other ppl in the comment have misinterpreted it

[@Vixenne.]

@@myhobbyismale you're choosing to be ignorant on purpose and it's embarrassing lmao

[@nivea7481]

@@Vixenne. wat lol

[@katet8639]

@@nivea7481 Fatphobia is also the fear or discrimination to fat people... stop being stupid.

[@mirabella2154]

So he hugs them to see how big they are....☠️

[@12Kyra121]

Yo that was so mean, he takes kids to school, that shows some wholesome character and care for our youngest. man.

[@julinarooks]

im full japanese & i've had guys hit on me just for that & then they bring up how much they love anime, cosplay & stuff thinking it will attract me. i'll say i dont like anime then they'll automatically turn off & insult me saying im all the sudden ugly & crap. so its a harsh weird world out there😂

[@mittag983]

So disgusting those weeaboos.

[@kent-jr7xd]

it's always those yt weebos lmfaooo

[@mittag983]

@@kent-jr7xd Facts. And they're always defending their weird yellow fever. Also they are mostly white.

[@areyoukirringmeirriyaa]

same gosh i can’t date any white guys cause they see me as a fetish and that’s it

[@ルユク-h3h]

Same here!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Ok, you know what? I want to be in a consensual polyamorous relationship with the school driver and the divorced dad. Maybe I’m superficial, maybe it’s Maybelline.

[@ololusername]

school bus driver is fine, but divorced dad? congrats on your low standards i guess

[@the-berries-and-cream-dude]

@@ololusername damn what you got against divorced dads 😂 I think if he gets along with his ex wife it’s ok. But if they have a rocky relationship, and you get involved, you get into drama you didn’t even asked for. So I think it depends.

[@TheAmazingHoho576]

"Polyamorous"? That shit is nasty af...... I hope you are joking

[@jacobs9955]

Damn.. Ya’ll are judgmental af in these replies.

[@wisteria12]

​@@TheAmazingHoho576 how is that nasty?

[@cristinugh3173]

Imagine if more people could recognize that fetishizing people based on race and eliminating potential partners based on body type are BOTH superficial things to do. What a world. Everyone is singing and holding hands, people hook up on vibes alone, world peace

[@luizfernandoribeiro321]

We live in a superficial world. Nobody cares about how nice you are

[@schoumij]

You may be ugly to think like that lol

[@kimchi5049]

how did y’all just ignore the “i love asian men because of anime” comment 💀💀

[@areyoukirringmeirriyaa]

cuz most people are just as bad as that cosplay girl 😭😭

[@ルユク-h3h]

Its disgusting isnt it. I am tired of those people putting us asians as fetish because of anime

[@YourRightMonsie]

@@ルユク-h3h I’m not even Asian and it pisses me off how many times I’ve heard a woman say that she got into anime because of hot characters or she watched k drama’s because the characters were so hot 🙄

[@oohmina2373]

@@YourRightMonsie how is that a bad thing ????? Many ppl watch shows because theyre attractive They basically pick hot actors to play movies so its creepy to like hot ppl ? Lmao

[@trolololololll]

"i love american women because of burgers and heart attacks"

[@uhoh8915]

I find it kinda wild that the first thing he asked for was for a hug so he can MEASURE THEM 💀 Like the hug wasn't a nice gesture at all

[@seulgi_ningx2]

ikr like you're not slick dude we see what you are doing

[@Ariel_ButNotTheMermaid]

Kinda hope he ends up with a weight problem and gets rejected.

[@nanathegoat5106]

Yupppp

[@PurpleMoon799]

he's so gross and everyone is defending him for what 🤮

[@bab2049]

@@PurpleMoon799 he has a preference, is he not allowed to?

[@Ampi3482]

As a girl who also likes Asian features, I think the boy had every right to have a say in his tastes as well.

[@paulaa9367]

when he heard she was a model so automatically thought she was skinny so didn’t ask for a hug💀

[@mentallyillustrate]

it was the guy, they said that he was a model so he asked her how tall she thinks he is and in the full video he still asks for a hug saying "do you wanna hug to feel how tall i am" or something like that 💀

[@cuixinshi]

That girl with the black turtle and fat a** waistline a model? On what planet?

[@happybirthday2078]

I'm sorry, but going to meet someone in cosplay is a little weird, mostly when the other person doesn't know about anime.

[@tiffness270xJUDASx]

Your comment also made me realize that it's a blind date.... And she also cosplayed for it LOL

[@SaffariRose]

@@tiffness270xJUDASx Maybe she's comfortable in cosplay? Some people use styling as coping mechanisms. She may not have been thinking about her blind date but just what she feels confident in.

[@bw5187]

The physical attraction is felt even with blind folds on. . .You dont have to justify your preference for someone with a healthy body weight "because you workout too" it's only human nature and we here in the west are doing our very best to undermine human nature while justifying the want and need for something primal. FIT PEOPLE. Facts don't care about your feelings.

[@puppydogs68]

OH GOD NO SHE’S IN MITSURI COSPLAY??? 😭😭😭 As someone who’s favorite character in Demon Slayer is Mitsuri, I most definitely do not claim her. What a disgrace. 💀

[@BlueYozo]

Bestie same😭

[@bae5872]

2:29 is so REAL idc ab that man at all but the way his last line was "you wanna give me a hug and figure out how tall i am" gives me the seniors in hs that walk around goin like "where my hug at ma" I AM A SOPHOMORE WALK THE OTHER WAY.

[@macchia_theo]

the satisfaction i get when the girl says no to the hug omg yass slay period

[@kaede1_346]

Dating preference is the one thing where humans are allowed to discriminate imo, you can't force someone to like something they don't 🤷‍♀️

[@ayyyyyyyyy]

Don't hate the player, hate the game.

[@lenudnir163]

He's a model, he probably wants someone that takes care of their body, big girls USUALLY don't.

[@lalalalaaAa123]

I prefer skinny men so I get it, but dang the hug strategy was pretty brutal 😂 The Asian fetishization was creepy as hell, why didn’t that turn him off in the first place?? I love anime and k-dramas too but like ew sis 🙃

[@taman68cv]

Fr

[@annef.5095]

Ok I agree it's also a TOTAL red flag that she's fetishising Asians. But it wasn't just about their "date" or her. He did it to THREE other women and it was literally so creepy! The last girl was clearly uncomfortable that he asked for a hug right away. It's not a matter of comparing- it's just what the focus was of the video. That one girl was still super weird for that 🤢

[@rivengeisnear9855]

she is uncomfortable becouse the anime girl told them he is using hugs to see their size and she knew he will buzz her

[@pizzamassacre]

Maybe people need to stop calling calling everything a fetish?

[@niggatry]

OMG YAAAASSS! It was lidduerly SO CREPE, i just stahp the video. I was like, Yikes-aroonie, dat be a Red Flagerino if I ever seent one, ain't I right, sweaty?!?!?

[@El-marino-loko780]

There’s nothing creepy about that, he didn’t demanded them to hug him he asked i GB he could hug them. They could’ve said nah but what did they do? They still hugged him.

[@meik5430]

He didn't force or hug them without their consent, they had the right to say no, like the last girl did. Now everything is "creepy". 🤢

[@maddye117]

I don't think it irked people that much that he rejected her based on her size, but rather that a hug is very personal and if you only hug someone to find out their size (while pretending it to be out of friendliness) that's kinda....nasty

[@AnaleiaKate]

We know what the hugs are for💀

[@evilrereo9638]

Not the girl in Mitsuri cosplay....

[@shinobuily]

second hand embarrassement fr

[@evilrereo9638]

@@shinobuily fr like I cosplay myself but like not on a first date let alone any dates unless we r cosplaying together for a certain reason

[@sharktqle]

1:25 he was about to say "you're a lovely, but you're fat"

[@Mrcheddacheese]

Dude didn’t even take the blindfold off

[@lunix3259]

They're both toxic but the guy was sure sneaky for that hug strategy 😂 bruh how he felt offended that the girl pressed the button tho

[@oogaboogass]

HE IS ALLOWED TO HAVE A PREFERENCE!!!

[@Scrappy_ill_fold_ya_Doo]

She rejected the first guy for being school bus driver and the Asian duds rejected her for being fat. Asian dude is a hero.

[@Msbennett55]

I love how transparent you are about the fact that this is edited to make it funny. Honesty is good.

[@A·c·h·i·l·l·l·e·s·Last·Stand]

That last girl is the type to cheat on you and say "its for the experienceeeee''

[@growdadough6437]

“I didn’t feel like we were connecting “ she didn’t even give him a CHANCE to connect 😂we all know she rejected him because of him being a bus driver and she wants a guy with that bag 💰

[@kerrid5717]

Id respect them more if they were honest about the obvious real reason and feeling

[@NickZephyr]

the girl in the rainbow sweater at the beginning was so clearly trying to get a sugar daddy she’s not even hiding it. every guy that came up, she would ask what their career was and the mention of kids scared her away 🙄

[@lunalight6346]

The guy that said “good luck tonight” …. He knew what type of woman she is 😂

[@rinrin1499]

I thought the school bus driver was such a nice job damn 😭 Also why the cosplay 😭

[@BowerNasir]

“Do you wanna hug?” this boy is cold 🥶 💀 “Why did you press the button” 😂😂😂

[@dana-5815]

“ I watch a lot of anime” I’ve can already tell just by looking at her Lmaoooo

[@goldie1994]

Jokes aside tho, this is the sad part about blind dates. People will like you for your personality first but once they found out that you don't suit their "standards", it all boils down together with the connection that you thought you had with them. Just because the real you is different from the image that they created within their heads 🤷‍♀️

[@misscatbag6340]

Everyone has preferences and it's okay for someone to not want big women.

[@PurpleMoon799]

so it's okay for her to like asian men.

[@bab2049]

@@PurpleMoon799 okay but on top of that, she’s super into Asian culture and showed up in an anime cosplay, she’s full on fetishizes this man. Even if they didn’t hug he probably would’ve buzzed cause it’s kinda creepy. Plus you’re whole thing that I’ve been seeing is that you have this issue with him hugging the girls to see if they’re his preferred size. Why not take issue with her fetishizing/liking his race. Don’t pick and choose what to be bothered by. He likes smaller women, she likes asians. Or better yet, if you’re going to hate one, hate both.

[@PurpleMoon799]

@@bab2049 how did she fetishize him exactly? he asked what was her type and she responded. she wasn't rude about it and shared her love of anime and kdramas with him. i never said i have a problem with him not being into fat women but the way he went about it is gross.

[@arizonarangershat3831]

@@PurpleMoon799 It’s okay thing to have an attraction to Asian men, fetishizing them is a lot different.

[@davadu0_045]

@@PurpleMoon799 exactly, you said it right there. He asked what her type was, she *Mainly* mentioned *Race* . And he's first preference for his date was to be skinny. She ain't no victim, if we talk about personality, i really wouldn't like her.

[@VincentAaron]

Girl: reject guy because of work etc ✅ Man: reject girl because of weight ❌❌❌❌❌ It's sick because this women wants rich guy, and this guy just want healthy girl

[@jimmyjoyce3554]

Ethan has my full respect

[@advlia686]

People have preferences ,if some person rejects me because they prefer fat people I totally understand it , because that's what they are attracted too . No ones talking about the chick who prefered asian men but God forbid a person wanting to date someone with a specific body type all hell will break loose.

[@asm5959]

He didn't disrespect her in any manner, he has preference like that girl has, simple

[@amoralexandria3071]

If we’re being real, Donovan had it way worse than the big girls. Poor guy never stood a chance.

[@celestehndz]

literally

[@kalilamartinsferrazlebrao3350]

They are actually on the wrong type of date. If you do care about looks (whether or not those preferences are morally right or wrong, imo those 2 are wrong) you shouldn't go on a blind date. You are only going to hurt the other person. If you decide to do this you should be totally cool with anything

[@justagenzontheinternet808]

Periodt.

[@bluebubbles2735]

its still them not u.. its hard to tell someone what to do with their dates

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Exactly. If you care about looks skip the blind dates lmao

[@Shamuto7]

That was smart of him. One thing I learned is that people have their preferences and it doesn't mean you're bad. 😊

[@starbutterfly4860]

it took me a while to figure out this man was hugging them just to figure out their size. i'm also a little surprised these people allowed a complete stranger - they couldn't even see - to hug them. i honestly would never.

[@totalsaikou4520]

Okay but like... If she's got an Asian fetish and they have very low obesity rates, I'm starting to think that maybe she has a size preference too. Also, I bet money she would've buzzed if he said he was black 😳

[@PortgasD.Ace5]

Bro measured her. I can't 😭

[@madeniquevanwyk]

This seems like all the worst bits of dating thrown together 😩 imagine getting loudly and jarringly rejected for any of these things

[@crayons1584]

"How are you doing?" *slams button*

[@monsterbrat]

lol

[@kuromistan645]

His way to map out their sizes by asking for a hug IS SENDING ME ☠️☠️

[@Mr.paint123]

People nowadays have Low self esteem Too high of standards And too short of attention spans