Where are the masculine men?

Where are the masculine men?

[@bingobango9932]

Avoiding all the masculine women.

[@John.T.]

Feminists*

[@bingobango9932]

@@John.T. unfeminine women*

[@publicalias8172]

Beta “women”

[@Enochian_yeshuaite]

Original poster. I have to say that the perspective that's shown by what you wrote down is the reason and the basis for the feminism that has played when women's brains for the last 70 or 80 years... Well really a hundred and fifty some odd years or so.. From the years after the French revolution. The doctrine of egalatarianism , which serves as the basis for feminism is basically the idea that men and women are indistinguishable widgets on the board.. That's the base idea for why you're always in competition with men... And why women always feel that they need to be. The idea is if women are not in competition with men on every single level of society, then they don't have any self-respect. So then by that logic. Every relationship is going to be made into. "Why am I not getting what I deserve?" "I don't trust him" "He's not gonna give me a fair shake" " Well if he does this, then i'm just gonna do that." "I need to get mine." One other thing. I also understand that some girls are tomboys because when they're younger they think to themselves "It's not fair why do the boys get to do all the cool things" ... As a guy, I understand that, but that doesn't necessarily have to come with the idea that if you don't compete with men, then you don't have any self-respect. But here's a thing for the last 70 or 80 years. That's been sold to you as a package deal.

[@Nass26-c7x]

We had to become more assertive out of necessity, not choice. I am not a feminist. I don't believe that men and women are equal, but we are essential parts of the intricate puzzle called life. Our men are so busy working on their six packs, reminding us regularly how we are looking older and should do somethingthing about it, in otherwards fight against nature, and then off they go leaving us to raise our children as single mothers while they repeat the same pattern with younger versions of us. So, we have had to lose our softness in order to try and raise better men of the boys you left us with. Please do not tell me about these modern, skinny pants, handbag holding ¨men¨. Let other women have them. I now value my peace of mind of a high maintenance drame queen of a man.

[@ELBarbarro]

Facts. High value men don’t want modern women. The end.

[@lorigonzalez1200]

So well put ..And also as a women I don’t understand modern men . They are low on testosterone these days ? They co fuse me so i gave up . everybody wants me to be their wife, but still feel like I’m Marilyn Monroe at the end of the day. It’s like you can’t go to work make a lot of money and be a CEO of the company or whatever you do and then come home and be the stay at stay at home dad mode. It just doesn’t happen like that, I think we need to go people don’t understand what men want and what women want. People need to stop being afraid to be vulnerable and just expose what their affairs are and what they wants and needs. Are God gave us each other for a reason why do we push each other away?

[@ezra8545]

And high value women don’t want modern men

[@parrotshootist3004]

​@@ezra8545 lol. Stop abusing as children then. But then they'll grow up competitive, and hard to control. Cant have that, the old standards mught be maintained. How else will jobs like firefighter and police be open to so much.. diversity.

[@ezra8545]

@@parrotshootist3004 that’s yapping

[@parrotshootist3004]

@@ezra8545 devoicing too. Yo Prof. Sam Vankin, they're everywhere.

[@jzurita6186]

Masculine men are avoiding masculine women, avoiding attention seeking women, avoiding problematic women, etc..if youre asking "where are all the men" then you likely fall into one of those categories.

[@annakirei6004]

So, they avoiding women in general, I see. In that case, they better to find good men for them and leave women alone.

[@dylannelson2165]

​@annakirei6004 Dude, fr. "You know how you're always hearing women ask where all the masculine alphas are?" No, actually. I've literally never heard a woman ask anyone that. 😂 usually, it's some asshole who wants women to realize how ALPHA he is, before doing whatever he says because he's "high value". 😂😂😂

[@SuperZX49]

​@@annakirei6004femcel energy

[@Who_can_save_you_from_hell]

​@@annakirei6004so you say women in general are masuline, attention seeking or problematic? To your solution. Sodomy is frustrated womens solution. Men can be alone.

[@hainleysimpson1507]

​​@@annakirei6004So you are saying all woman are masculine and attention seeking and problematic?

[@easymoney4180]

I can tell you from experience, I am no expert, but I have been with my wife for over 20 years, and it took a lot of work to get here. She was raised like most girls, she had a father she loved but he didn't show her what to expect from a good man. I was raise to be loyal and do right regardless who it hurts. I can tell you we've been through hell and most of it was our own fault. But we fought threw it and she has become the best wife and mother. Kids nowadays don't know God and don't understand long suffering, but if you want anything of value, your going to have to have both.

[@frstchan]

Hopefully you are not brainwashing your children with religion.

[@SJxGrind]

Most of y'all don't know God only the bible. God isn't the bible and a lot of truth has been taken out of it. As far as long suffering, I get that part, but you were vague about the work you put in, if any of it includes infidelity and marrying a promiscuous woman, you can keep that. I'd rather be single than give the promiscuous girls in my generation a chance. Your wife didn't lose her v card in a group I hope.

[@JannatHerzallah]

This made me cry. I really loved my ex but i didnt know how unhealthy i was until the awareness came He has no patience and no mercy and im sure if he dealt with me like you dealt with your wife....We would have a great relationship

[@alfredbenedek3398]

@@frstchan RELIGION? WHAT RELIGION LATELY?? JOEL OSTEENS ?? KIND OF RELIGION???!! THIS IS THE PRECISE REASON, WHY THE HIPPY GENERATION CAME ALONG! SELFCENTERED, EGOIST MOTHERS, GAVE STUPID ADVICES TO THE KIDS. IF - IF? IF THEY GAVE ANY @ ALL?!NOW NOT THE KIDS ABANDONING MOTHERS. NOW SENSIBLE DIGNIFYED MEN ARELEAVING SUCH SELFISH CKICKS! WHO NEEDS THEM? NOT ME! NUT US! UNTIL THEY WISE UP!!!

[@TheSockbottom]

Another SIMP 😂

[@jeremyjeremy8795]

Women want a leader but they don’t want to follow

[@iskateFaIIen]

Well said

[@vanessamartz7596]

No, they want a Christlike leader as specified in Ephesians. They are fine being led by an unselfish humble and sacrificial partner. They don't want an arrogant self serving boss man.

[@pferrer90]

It's like wanting a Car and don't want to drive 😂😂😂

[@HoniTheCircleMaker13]

Most men aren't leaders, especially nowadays. That's how we got into this situation in the first place. Men stopped leading their women and country to God and structure. Now we have chaos Subconsciously women want structure

[@steph50937]

Best comment

[@theIdlecrane]

Most Men are working and when we are not working, we are training. And those are generally female free environments.

[@stranded8088]

Not necessarily, You can meet good women even in serious Fighting gyms (a very small procentage, I agree, but..). I just never Shit where I eat, even If I like those women. Not at Work, not at Gym, not in the library. I don't date women in places I hang around often. How is one supposed to have any idea about me?

[@RRRoll-np5sg]

No you can meet narcissist women in gym's who think that is work 😂 lazy cow's ​@@stranded8088

[@aarons6935]

Shouldn't be basing your entire existence around the gym.

[@warfarenotwarfair5655]

Training? Actual men are married with kids and are busy with a career and working on their own house doing manual labor. A real man doesn't attend a gym and looks at himself in the mirror like a woman does 😂.

[@TheFracturedfuture]

​@@stranded8088That's a good way to not meet anyone.

[@RoughRiderz]

This younger generation is cursed due to the impact of social media. I’ve been with my wife since 2001. Dating apps, IG, Snapchat, etc. I can’t imagine how a person has to design an impenetrable online presence that they can mimic in real life. We are imperfect beings. This is what makes us unique and beautiful. The ability to learn to love someone nowadays is so much more difficult. I feel for you.

[@MegaCommander007]

I haven't used Facebook since 2017-2018. Not only have I had women say I must be hiding something (like a wife and kids 😂) but I've even had one say I must be a serial killer. She said only serial killers wouldn't want an online presence and that she never wanted to hear from me again. Easiest contact deletion of my life 😂.

[@anneb889]

Yea, it’s one of the perks of being older. I don’t now, nor ever had any social media. I stress to my kid to not have it, or use it minimally….since I know it’s hard when all the kids are on them. When they talk of the younger kids having a mental health crisis….who wouldn’t? And the people with channels who have to keep creating content…often more and more extreme for clicks….which likely is mostly lies, what a horrible life.

[@rainbowpheanix]

it was always difficult. just today we have the freedom to look at relationships unbiased from tradition or religion. and we finally ask the question: what is a healthy relationship. what a time to be alive.

[@Takumawakanda]

@@rainbowpheanix​​⁠I don’t think a lot of women or the F boy men are thinking this deeply In to it lol not many people spend enough time alone to figure their ish out … these days not many have a nuclear house hold in the west so right off the bat they don’t know what love is from the get go they’ve be shown a bunch of B.S and don’t take the time to think wait this is a bunch of B.S and that they deserve better and pull the brakes to make a change instead they allow that dysfunction to fester and continue it to be their imprint and world view for decades and when 30 comes along and life hits them,god finally speaks to them and made them realize what they’ve been up to the past 30 years which becomes a harsh reality check this is the mess that’s going on what is a healthy relationship isn’t really something the younger gen thinks about deeply enough there’s been so much brainwashing outside of not having a nuclear house hold the entertainment industry music,movies and social media has all been a curse on many peoples minds but they keep consuming the poison there are too many people mostly women ruining themselves early on choosing the wrong man,being a towns bicycle and messing up their brains watching other people’s lives that they want being envious or jealous etc which has made them more hypergamous than any past women in history everything going on these days are historical events … our parents and parents before them etc all had it right relationship wise The financial side is where I disagree with the older generations most didn’t think about owning their own business etc they just worked a job but I guess it was simpler and it was much cheaper back then too so I guess there was no need to want more when having a family and picket fence was pretty much a guaranteed reality from just having a job right now that is a pipe dream from just a job but anyway when it came to relationships my up bringing was as good as it gets and funny enough my mom is the bread winner but she still managed to keep her femininity still cooked,cleaned every now and then and still gave my dad the respect that all men pretty much require we all definitely require it unique to each man and at varying levels but my mom still viewed my dad as the man of the house regardless of who was making the most money it was not about the money it was about family the connection the whole let’s build an empire together…ya that’s dead in todays world for the most part … I can’t ignore the ones who still get it but most don’t get it and won’t until it’s too late …. Commonality,Communication and Compromise along with understanding also being humble a willingness to be ok with what you have that’s a huge problem now people want more they want to be billionaires I’m 30 and I’ve seen a lot of things in life I was given a lot so now I’m trying to build myself in a way to were I can give back in some way shape or form to the world but here in the US I don’t see a legacy here I have to go somewhere esle to find that there’s alot of healing that this country needs and I mean a lot ….right now people are fighting and slowly understanding what needs to change hopefully they are willing to do the work to make those changes

[@iNGryL]

Yep. Not only mimicking the online presence but girls ever since 14 years old are asked endlessly to have sex with people all over surrounding towns on the internet. Most of them give in. That, along with modern music promoting being a Ho and doing drugs, and suddenly 90% of girls are dirtbags by age 21. It’s absolutely fking crazy trying to find a wife nowadays in America. It’s really really hard to find a girl who is a nice pure virgin. AND even then, when I did find a nice virgin, she was a brainwashed feminist / independent boss bitch. I don’t mean to sound like I’m just shitting on women cus I’m not, I love girls with all my heart. It’s just so sad watching beautiful souls with so much potential get ruined from this garbage.

[@rocketpack910]

"A pilot needs a co-pilot, not another pilot!"

[@Jtanman93]

A co pilot is a pilot you goon

[@vanessamartz7596]

You've never flown obviously. The pilot needs another competent pilot as co pilot.

[@stacia5000]

But also the co-pilot is usually the navigator as well.

[@Jtanman93]

My comment got removed, so let me rephrase it more politely. You are an ignorant idiot - because a co pilot is a qualified pilot. You have no idea about aviation.

[@amiraclek332]

Co-pilot IS another pilot, who fly alone at an emergency

[@chrish2112]

So true. Once you set down any boundaries or explain that they have to behave a certain way, most of them run right back to the streets because they can't handle being held accountable like an adult.

[@mfawls9624]

...the streets, a married coworker's arms... Oh, my bad I didn't 'respect' her. Had I known that men of respect cheat on their wives with married women I might have shown her some respect! No. Who am I kidding? I wouldn't even do that after her affair, despite offers.

[@Kyle-jb7dc]

Many cant hold themselves accountable. Its the downside if a victim mentality. If your always a victim in your eyes, then its never your fault and you never need to improve.

[@lewisjones3345]

@@Kyle-jb7dcbingo! The women are trained through modern culture and too much therapy that they are always the victim and it’s always someone else’s fault for their problems and their behavior. They never take accountability for their actions.

[@tadghostal8769]

I inscribe the oaths of a woman onto water. -some old dead Greek guy

[@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf]

It's not your place to tell your partner how to behave, love. Choose someone that already shares your values instead of messing with a street type.

[@Gregski3]

Modern females subconsciously want a guy that will look after them but also in the same time want to be miss independent. Cant have it both ways in the same time

[@SallyIronic]

And men want a virgin, who is experienced and fantastic at sex, desiring him all the time, who cleans the house, cooks, has children and WORKS at a job making an equal amount of money to him. And he will still get bored.

[@pollynunnally5863]

Yes I can..I have my own opinions but I love to be taken care of by a man even when I'm working..that's my desire .to be so loved..

[@teresamagnusson]

We can have it both ways if we choose the right man.

[@NavasAp-ie6bn]

​@@pollynunnally5863not possible in "real life " ,,, without boundaries to both gender a relationship is f*ed ,,miss independent means still a street 304 or free bird without any responsibility... relationship is a responsibility,,,, responsible= not "independent men/women...

[@sean658]

@@teresamagnussondelusional

[@Emotionally_Mature]

Most women these days walk past a high value man thinking to themselves “he’s too clean for me” or “he acts like he’s too good for me”. No dear. That man just has boundaries & is fully aware of himself and his actions, which means he’ll also be aware of yours, & you won’t be able to get away with the stuff you usually do with those other guys you’re used to.

[@liloruf2838]

"most women these days" What? You can only go wrong from that

[@marcellejane2298]

Women feel the same way as men. High value women are judged and ignored for being high value and knowing she deserves a man that offers the same values. Its about finding someone who is willing to see you for what you truely are. Walking past someone making assumptions and judgements in your mind doesn't tell you who a person is . As the saying goes never judge a book by its cover the cover doesn't tell you everything, read the book then decide what you think.❤

[@Emotionally_Mature]

@@liloruf2838 Thank you for your input. I hope you have a nice day. 🙂

[@Emotionally_Mature]

@@marcellejane2298 I agree. Also your reply is very well spoken. Thank you. ☺️

[@Kiran37369]

Let me guess, your definition of “most women” are the of girls these “alpha males” invite on their podcast?

[@josephwarra5043]

"LAYDEES! The BEARS are waiting for you, go to them!"

[@vanessamartz7596]

There are alot more simps getting laid than bears. Follow me ladies, leave the red pills to their magazines.

[@Shivam782]

yeah definitely😅🤣😂

[@KynzuSan]

For real. Women these days are so brainwashed that they really think they are superior to men in every way possible. Meanwhile they call men to repair their cars, build their houses, program the apps they use on a daily basis and so on. The worlds infrastructure relies on men. There was a TV show where they put like 15 men on an island and 15 women on another. Both groups didn’t have any electricity, drinking water or food. While the men built a shelter and filtered seawater to have something to drink (heating up the seawater so it evaporates and the steam gets catched which is then drinking water, for the women reading this wondering how this works) the women had to be rescued after like 2 days because they were severely dehydrated and lost their minds. The tv show never aired since they only had material for like half an episode on the female side of the show. This goes to show that even women who have a database of knowledge handed to them by men can’t survive if they are on their own. Let alone them being in a forest with 10 bears, rather than 10 men lmao

[@WildandFree4]

We feel safer with the bears. 90% of college educated women are divorcing their husbands. We don't want men anymore, they are not up to par.

[@TheRobbiUno]

What have the bears done to you? 😂

[@patrickk9539]

My Grandma use to tell me you can be sure how much you love that woman but you can never be sure how much she really loves you.

[@ladyofspa]

Ridiculous statement.insulting, and infuriating

[@mayankmehta.1117]

Triggered lol​@@ladyofspa

[@Kuzumeayate]

@@ladyofspamad hearing the truth?

[@rogerdaly6326]

Wise words from a woman that is wise.

[@julyguynj]

​@@ladyofspa It's the truth...!!! 😎

[@SuperSoundtracksEX]

I don’t have time for women. I work 65 hour work weeks, I am tired, I do not require lectures about spending too much time doing things that I like in what little time I have to myself. That sacrifice is insufficient for what little you bring to the table. Bring a better deal, we’ll see.

[@jayknight139]

yea but regardless we are genetically programed to at least want sex if not affection and love. you can't just turn that stuff off so then how do you handle choosing loneliness

[@chiemxerxobi]

@@jayknight139maybe he meant relationship?

[@aaronharman5431]

Then become attractive. Trust me they’re not trying to do those things with the handsome, tall, rich, charismatic Chad

[@Garett.1214]

@@jayknight139 Masturbation, prostitution.

[@SuperSoundtracksEX]

@@aaronharman5431 I’m significantly attractive and reasonably wealthy due to my work habits and position. I just have very little time to devote to any relationship, it’s simply not an investment where the juice is worth the squeeze. That doesn’t mean I don’t have sex with them, just that I don’t have time to entertain them beyond that. They pull the exact same stunts with you regardless of what they have to lose.

[@therapy.with.eve.nikolova]

Totally agree. I had to detox myself from these dillusions in order to finally create a healthy relationship with a healthy man.

[@brendag6148]

Good for you!! 🤗 Could you maybe explain to me what behaviours you detoxed from yourself and how you did it?

[@JoseGonzales-ul9sv]

Are you married

[@soydansogukcesme470]

Wow ❤.. So many bla bla comments and hate and talk about him and alphas.. it is a relieve to see a comment who understands it. Lovely. So ideocrazy is not happening then.

[@ismush8]

Can someone please explain? It sounds so vague

[@LamontAdair]

I’m sure your still in a rotation especially if he’s HVM

[@kdz6858]

Masculine, real good men, what it truly means.. Pure love, god fearing, kind, a leader, faithful, loyal in every way, comforting, supportive, provider, selfless!!!

[@cmhardin37]

You sound way too nice

[@deetails8982]

Truth!

[@monica4.070]

A large number of men don't follow Christ, but consider themselves "high value and good". ...first disqualification.

[@Portia620]

Women too then bam we have a power couple!! Hot hot hot

[@sitirokimbo]

Lmao, sorry sweetie, a real man is an adult who doesnt believe in a jewish santa claus​@@monica4.070

[@terryblais9128]

Real men dont like being grouped into a personality type. I am a real man and remain the unique character I have always been. As every man should do.

[@chrisharris6462]

I'm in the Real Man group, too😂

[@kingadamsthebrokestdustee6561]

@@chrisharris6462lmao.. me 2!

[@jJust_NO_]

witweew mr. special 🎉

[@TheDYLAUGHING]

neither do women. we like to be who we are. individual human beings. but that takes time to find who you really are.

[@Laura-fh3sc]

Love this !

[@icecold8974]

The thing about this topic is that, if you delete all your social media apps from your phone, you never run across any of it. The internet will have you thinking there a shortage. It’s not even a real place.

[@geometerfpv2804]

Yeah this is really important. People take internet discourse way too seriously. There are millions of people who don't even know about this discourse. Just go meet people, you'll find a whole new world that has nothing to do with red-pill content!

[@rdpillsforall6884]

@@geometerfpv2804it depends on your age. If you’re young, then yes you will most certainly encounter this trash regularly.

[@icecold8974]

@@geometerfpv2804 precisely!! When I meet people, we talk about a million other things than this foolishness.

[@extracrispy9229]

10000000% none of this internet shit is real Honestly getting a job right out of high school was one of the best things that ever happened to me because I was exposed to what average working class people think about rather than what the internet tried to convince me they think about. all this “left vs right” “liberal vs conservative” “women want alpha male high value men” “men want women who are devoted to them”. These aren’t conversations real people have. Now I am in college and so many people around me are trapped by these mindsets and it makes me sad because the world isn’t the lonely place the internet tries to convince you it is.

[@ladistar]

@@extracrispy9229so basically people need to get the F off the internet

[@kingatom904]

I’m getting tired of the term high value. It implies to most people, especially women, “rich”. Most people are not rich and can still be high value. The conversations are moot. We are imploding as a culture in every way. Might as well let it happen.

[@Agodintraining]

Yeah… there’s no escaping it

[@1thess523]

Or "alpha male", just say a good honest man wjo has his priorities right. I've seen too many "alpha males" that act like stupid babies who think they are tough.

[@CoralTheMihn]

Spot on! I also hate all this "high value", "king", "queen", "thot", and "304" talk. We have so many ridiculous labels these days that label every individual as some BS buzzword that polarizes everything. It's always something either very bad or very good with very little in between. When I read books from the 50s or earlier, I realize just how dumbed down our vocabulary has become (myself included). So many people limit their communication to the latest slang, and talking like ghetto kids with minimal words. It's as if English is their second language, but they learned all the popular new words before basic English. It's another reason we're getting dumber by the day. We're choosing to use our brains less and less.

[@poulwinther]

Modern women never understood the concept of value. All they care about is money.

[@tomh4244]

High value isn't about money 🤦‍♂️ fools started to say that because they're.. Fools! it's about being a man with standards, life values! We also say high value woman, because she's rich?? No, because it's a good woman, it's value as in VALUABLE.

[@firstnamelastname9955]

I disagree with his claim that masculine men are difficult to be with. This really just applies to women who are not in their feminine, or do not allow themselves to be fully in their feminine frame. Women who are truly comfortable with their femininity will benefit from the sexual polarity of their partner's masculinity and their virtuous feminine characteristics will be amplified. Masculine men can be difficult for women who do not allow themselves to be submissive to men. Masculine men will stand up for themselves, enforce boundaries, and put women in their place when they are being disrespectful, but will also protect, provide, and elevate their woman's quality of life and character. It is a dynamic that only serves those who are whole and bring the right energy to the relationship.

[@jonasbertilbellander]

correct

[@AliciaLin-tn6gt]

Then I do not want a masculine Man. Give me a submissive one.😂

[@bruhnisher5454]

Our parents raised women who think nothing is their fault.

[@vanessamartz7596]

Studies consistently show men apologize half as much and that is due to not perceiving their own poor behavior. Men are more violent, more verbally abusive, and more prone to criminal behavior. They are twice as likely to abandon their families. 60% of men are fine. 40% are toxic and antisocial. The estimate for females is 20% toxic and antisocial. Both sexes need to choose carefully and ditch the psychopaths early.

[@dummy999]

Women in general definitely have an accountability problem. Women will make excuses and deflections so against simple reasoning that it will have you questioning their intelligence. Like are you so dense you really believe that, or would you just say anything needed to convince yourself you're not at fault.

[@Schnitzer325ci]

Very true.. but social changes have been a massive influence

[@vanessamartz7596]

@@Schnitzer325ci Again, science proves that isn't true. Every study on accountability shows women taking accountability and men only doing that half as much. The cause? Men downplay the affect of poor behavior on others.

[@ahmedkamel7065]

trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷

[@avathemis9878]

My husband is a super masculine man. He never ever does anything “romantic”. He never compliments me on my looks. But he works so hard to take care of me and our son, he always tells the truth, and he is always the same person.

[@sergeychehutskiy9543]

It's much better if you tell him all that words directly in face ;)

[@marcusr3795]

Try to create a positive feedback loop, men don’t like to be emotional with their words it’s interpreted as weak, but they still love their wives and show through their actions.

[@Steamerbeen]

Being a consistent human for others is f@cking hard! Most waiver

[@AG-nn8lp]

He's probably cheating lol

[@gfxmaniac]

@@AG-nn8lp wtf lol

[@BJJEnEspanol]

Notice how she instantly put the blame back on the men.

[@RabbityRe]

Yes🎉

[@fivestarlimos]

Yes Typical behavior no accountability 🤦🏻‍♂️ f k them

[@jillalexandrarock9217]

I think the "they" she's talking about is women....not the men. The Women aren't showing up.

[@user-ee5kl6oi7t]

I’m pretty sure she meant that women arent willing to sacrifice part of themselves that requires masculine men to show up. u got it backwards

[@whiterodman]

​@@user-ee5kl6oi7tagreed

[@chzzyg2698]

Princesses aren't ready to hear they're not really princesses.

[@christopherbic7688]

Princesses should Never be told that they are not real Princesses. Princesses are Always Princesses.

[@hainleysimpson1507]

​@@christopherbic7688 Princesses in the past understood what their roles was and acted accordingly. Many understood and practiced, accountability, responsibility, decorum, self discipline, knowing that silence can be useful and not talking so much.

[@DaOverman00]

​@@christopherbic7688Princess's are only princesses if their father is a King and their mother is a Queen, they must rule a Kingdom as a monarchy otherwise their offspring are not princesses. If a woman calls herself a princess, she is delusional and should be ignored.

[@joeschmidt300]

Birds of a feather, flock together, eagles don't fly with pigeons.

[@guslja]

why not? my husband is a pigeon and he is a perfect man for me. I cannot live with a man who would argue with me. I am an alpha male myself even though am a woman.

[@joeschmidt300]

@@guslja because eagles eat pigeons, alpha is the least intelligent person with the strongest will. Alpha is ying without yang, it is unbalanced, and you were never told otherwise.

[@johnalexander7457]

Don’t start comparing humans to animals lmao. Mfers say lions don’t care about sheep’s opinions then they think they’re the lion. Go outside Edge lord.

[@guslja]

@@joeschmidt300 I also think alpha males are primitive for the most part, that's why I don't need/want one... I called myself alpha male in this context, because I do believe that eagles fly with pigeons in human world... I personally for example find a very feminine angelic/flower/innocent type of man much more seductive and appealing... but hey that's just me... I didn't have a father, so no authority figure and when a man would argue with me like really argue , not just disagree on something, it's a total turn off for me... I need a man that can melt my heart :))) but I guess there are as many opinions and preferences about the subject as there are people...

[@joeschmidt300]

@@guslja I think I see your blindspot

[@johnzahm193]

A small part of masculinity is honesty and hard work

[@vanessamartz7596]

For me that's 100%. Physical strength means nothing. A bullet doesn't care who pulls the trigger and I'm always packing. For heavy lifting there are Jack's and forklifts. For all else there are power tools.

[@johnzahm193]

@@vanessamartz7596 yup it doesn't matter how strong someone is we are all limited on what our bodies can do, like I've never heard of anyone driving a nail into wood using their bare hands

[@StarWisher]

A hard days work means nothing if he is terrible with money management and selfish with money failing to provide because of it.

[@johnzahm193]

@@StarWisher you make a good point there, but I just said that it's a small part it's not the full scope, a man puts his family's needs before his own, respects his wife, and so on

[@marlonnodal7143]

@@vanessamartz7596who do you think invented those?

[@Epiphemma]

A true Alpha has father energy. It’s not a guy who’s out there sleeping with as many women as he can. It’s supposed to be the responsible father figure and leader of a group

[@JonnyBeoulve]

Facts. Running around sleeping with many people is short-term and doesn't build anything of value. Being a reliable and inspiring father and husband is not only better for the local community but you could argue for the entirety of our species.

[@criostoirashtin11]

Hmmm, your dream

[@jarroddavid8352]

Very true. And the lady he wants isn’t posting pictures of herself online looking for validation.

[@Aubatron]

He also puts his vision ahead of everything else. As a woman, he’ll take your input about what direction to go with your life together, but at the end of the day you’re following his will. If you want a partner, date the average modern man. If you want a husband who is a leader, there can’t be two in a household.

[@KorpusV6]

This does not apply to single mothers tho.

[@ArshikaTowers]

The moment says alpha male with a straight face, it completely discredits them in my eye.

[@Klaaism]

A flawed ideology based upon a mistake made studying wolves. Even the wolf researcher who pioneered the whole concept later admitted it was an error on his part. There's no alpha, beta, or whatever with wolves. It's more of a small, complex familial unit.

[@guedrini2045]

Its an absolute joke mate 😂 not once have I heard any advice for a normal man who’s looking for a normal committed relationship he can be in. I don’t have the best job, but I make enough to not be poor and still enjoy things. I don’t have a vast network of important people but I have a group of friends I’d trust with my life. How about some insight a good normal dude (not nice guy just a normal dude) who’s is looking for a good normal woman to start a life with???? Probably accounts for most people out there yet the only advice you’ll get is “high value” this and that with the stupidest most irrelevant advice that helps nobody 😂😂

[@TaranTrageser]

​@@Klaaismbro it not flawd. Your dumb. Theres still a leader of the pack it's called the dad.

[@johnl1246]

I dont think he means alpha males like i believe you are thinking (andrew date weirdness) I think he's attempting to articulate or capture what is being sought after by women with the current lexicon.

[@sufferbetter1387]

​@@guedrini2045true

[@MistaKnifeguy]

"...Not willing to give up our commitment to somebody that is still committed to other things..." OMG PREACH brother! That is GOLD.

[@Steve-yu5pf]

Women are great at deception, the pool is polluted.

[@seagoddess12]

This really goes BOTH ways

[@aneeqaahmad6927]

What did he mean by this statement ? specifically " still committed to other things ?? What is meant with other things ??

[@Luni-ew9qw]

​@@aneeqaahmad6927 fr. What does it mean? I cant have goals in life or hobbys? If thats what it means, i'll glady die alone. Thanks.

[@dimitriskatsoulis4986]

Her way of talking is a big red flag!

[@vanessamartz7596]

I agree, it's scripted, obsequious, sexually psychophantic and comes out creepy.

[@dimitriskatsoulis4986]

@@vanessamartz7596 right on point!

[@ahmedkamel7065]

trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷

[@steeleheroesmedia4699]

Correct!!

[@timopper5488]

@@ahmedkamel7065 You give no reason for anyone to trust you. No, you don’t love Jesus, because you deny Him His fullness as God. Jesus Himself warns against doing that: Matthew 10:33 but whoever denies me before men, I also will deny before my Father who is in heaven. And this completes the explanation: Jesus, in response to the Pharisees’ question “Who do you think you are?” said, “‘Your father Abraham rejoiced at the thought of seeing my day; he saw it and was glad.’ ‘You are not yet fifty years old,’ the Jews said to him, ‘and you have seen Abraham!’ ‘I tell you the truth,’ Jesus answered, ‘before Abraham was born, I am!’ At this, they picked up stones to stone him, but Jesus hid himself, slipping away from the temple grounds” (John 8:56-59). The violent response of the Jews to Jesus’ “I AM” statement indicates they clearly understood what He was declaring-that He was the eternal God incarnate. Jesus was equating Himself with the "I AM" title God gave Himself in Exodus 3:14. If Jesus had merely wanted to say He existed before Abraham’s time, He would have said, “Before Abraham, I was.” The Greek words translated “was,” in the case of Abraham, and “am,” in the case of Jesus, are quite different. The words chosen by the Spirit make it clear that Abraham was “brought into being,” but Jesus existed eternally (see John 1:1). There is no doubt that the Jews understood what He was saying because they took up stones to kill Him for making Himself equal with God (John 5:18). Such a statement, if not true, was blasphemy and the punishment prescribed by the Mosaic Law was death (Leviticus 24:11-14). But Jesus committed no blasphemy; He was and is God, the second Person of the Godhead, equal to the Father in every way. Jesus used the same phrase “I AM” in seven declarations about Himself. In all seven, He combines I AM with tremendous metaphors which express His saving relationship toward the world. All appear in the book of John. They are I AM the Bread of Life (John 6:35, 41, 48, 51); I AM the Light of the World (John 8:12); I AM the Door of the Sheep (John 10:7, 9); I AM the Good Shepherd (John 10:11,14); I AM the Resurrection and the Life (John 11:25); I AM the Way, the Truth and the Life (John 14:6); and I AM the True Vine (John 15:1, 5). Source: www.gotquestions.org/I-AM.html

[@huntmatthewd]

It's like teaching calculus to a 3 year old.

[@vanessamartz7596]

If you knew calculus, you might be able to .

[@GalenJoyce-ff2cp]

Great comment.

[@HerbMoore3]

​@@vanessamartz7596Matt probably knows Calculus.

[@Leslie-es5ij]

What's calculation ?

[@vanessamartz7596]

@@Leslie-es5ij Calculus is a great rule of thumb derived first by Newton that gives a short cut to finding the area of an irregular shape if you break it down into predictable functions. Alternately it allows you to find the rate of change at any point on an irregular surface again by approximation of the shape with a known function. It's incredibly handy for Engineering and Physiology applications, etc..

[@Mattermind1623]

I’m objectively a HVM. This is true. Modern women think they define boundaries in a relationship. I do. I’m not going to chase a woman besides expressing interest. If she wants to make me jump through hoops, I’m out. If they say ‘no’ or blow me off just once, I respect their boundaries and walk away.

[@obvioustroll13]

What makes you high value?

[@don220486]

In a healthy relationship both parties set boundaries

[@followGreatness]

And two so called high value man I met went with their hearts broken. At least one of them was high value. Extremely high value...lol until he forgot to keep s promise I didn't ask for. I was stunned cos I truly held him in high esteem and he knew,I was hapy to see him and showed it. I respected my self and never asked him for anything. I dress feminine and behave feminine. I was worried he might think it's ok to say thing nit hold it up. He told me he wasn't interested, and then I thanked him amd said God would bring what's best for me. You could taste his regret knowing he would never be able to Match thus high level femininity. He quickly asked me not leave and then said when I go back to my country I should let him know and he would come get me. From where he was in Columbia, the women where not having it. And I could tell of the bat,he had made a huge mistake. He told however he was traveling. I accepted his words ,no arguments, but I left him there.and you could feel his pain. I don't beg no man. You see it or you dont.

[@glo9163]

Isn’t it a bit controlling to be the only one in a relationship who sets boundaries?

[@BabalonNuit]

@@glo9163 A controlling man is one to be AVOIDED.

[@jermainamburayan580]

With all these labels for men, I would rather be single and less stress.

[@Gamze672]

Natural selection. Good for society

[@contentbuzzer]

nah bruv, get married.

[@rathenslog8490]

There's only two. Alpha or simp. There's no in between

[@vanessamartz7596]

@@jermainamburayan580 Wish granted.

[@vanessamartz7596]

@@rathenslog8490 Simps get laid and are in the gene pool. Alphas ( yeah right) find a good closet and an appropriate magazine.

[@marvinalvarez6248]

Sylvester Stallone got younger

[@masterprophet8378]

Hahaaaaaaaa!

[@vican51]

Too fast , this is a little bit suspicious !

[@TLW369]

😂🙃

[@debrarobey3749]

More victor. Mature. Stallone. Is. Off putting.

[@tommyagain38]

I saw this comment after making mine. I was waiting for this guy to scream out ADRIAN! YO, ADRIAN! I LOVE YOU! ADRIAN !!!

[@psymon25]

Married 24 years I compromise where needed but do what I want when I want no questions, but 100% loyal honesty is key no negotiation on that

[@vanessamartz7596]

Me too.

[@MO-di7up]

A REAL masculine man doesn’t hide. He IS.

[@TimBitts649]

Women were convinced by the school system, to become the men they wanted to marry.

[@carltonlambert7608]

In the UK that's called tossing yourself off or having a wank. For a lifetime. Or they can go looking for a dudettes.

[@JMNihon]

“Trained to want men that lie to their face” Makes me think of politicians too

[@ahmedkamel7065]

trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷

[@ahmedkamel7065]

trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷

[@erinwill6743]

Wait don't all men lie?

[@nessauk2786]

What would happen if noone voted for any of them?

[@hainleysimpson1507]

​@@erinwill6743And women don't lie. Everybody lies.

[@mom4christ191]

A high value masculine man is a faithful, hardworking, God fearing, truthful man who uses self-control to CHOOSE not look at porn, OF, instagram "models," etc. Sadly, these true masculine men are few and far between these days.

[@Mmmmkaaay]

All days. Before porn, they went to sex workers or screwed the secretary. Many men have always been mired in their base animal instincts at the expense of his family's well being.

[@Gamze672]

Most accurate thing i'v heard so far👏🏼👏🏼

[@shaundavis7705]

That masculine man you’re referring to who’s hardworking is going to have higher testosterone levels meaning an increased sex drive. If his woman can’t match his sex drive (which she can’t) it will very hard to abstain from porn, OF, ext.

[@axil157]

You’re also projecting…. So let’s get back to that Bible and figure out what you haven’t released

[@pontoilet]

agree, self control is a key part to see if your strong or weak. just by presence and how they are

[@climbinghenge6382]

I appreciate you sharing and expressing what you feel and think. I’m grateful. And I can sense you ideas of what a “masculine man” is. That’s wonderful and I’m glad you can share what you’ve thought through. And the nature of Feminine energy is CHAOS. It’s the antithesis of masculine energy and why there is “chemistry” that can result in attraction. Feminine energy is wild and creative and when a man try’s to box females in, that feminine energy turns to masculine and the relationship goes on a downward spiral…

[@jeffreyjohnson7359]

"Real man." "High value alpha male." Give me a break.

[@ljsunshine1232]

Thanks for standing up against these kind of predators.

[@khanyusuf09]

I suspect you never met one, there exists a "real woman, high-value strong woman."

[@hustensaftvernichter3785]

​@@khanyusuf09Whoever calls themselves "high value" in human relationships, needs to get their ego checked. I could call myself "high value" in my professional environment for the skills I have learnt and honed over the years to achieve excellence (or something close to it) in that specific field. It works, because the principle does not change. This is not the case with human interactions! Everyone you meet has different perspectives, beliefs, priority, background, etc., etc... There is absolutely no way to define "high value" and whatever you call high value might be of absolutely no value to the next guy -That's what makes us human.

[@khanyusuf09]

@@hustensaftvernichter3785 I agree with your perspective, but it's a sympathetic way of looking at things; in reality, there are high-value and low-value humans, for example, an extreme one - a pedophile as compared to a protector, an abusive person as compared to healer, a good mother/father as compared to a bad mother/father. There is a reason why the word " moral and values" exists, and it has a spectrum.

[@AnthonyManzio]

All cheaters

[@ahicks3651]

Women ask for things that they don't want. Wonen don't want to deal with the maintenance and responsibility of their choices.

[@darkgardener9577]

That's why giving them what they ask for pisses them off more than anything.....

[@evos469]

Oh they will do that for the monsters

[@guellaliguemra2321]

A man saying that women say what they don't mean 🤔. That's very rare and not manipulative at all.

[@vanessamartz7596]

Stay away from wonens then.

[@helgaioannidis9365]

I never wanted an "alpha man" (that's actually a fictional category not at all used in social sciences). I just wanted a man I feel good with and who feels good with me. Have been happily married for 19 years now, love him to bits. Is he the guy that holds the door and pays for everything? No. Did he get up at night to carry around a cranky baby, cook for me after I gave birth, help me accept my after birth body, carry me through the loss of my sibling, help me getting financially independent, make me laugh every day, make me feel safe in his presence, make love to me whenever we felt like it? Yes. Do I support him through everything, be it a career change, severe disease, the loss of a parent and make him feel appreciated, loved and respected? Yes.

[@dorothykaffjamboe6808]

That’s what I also want in a guy but where can I get one? All we have around are mummies boys they can even take care of themselves. They will turn u into a slave

[@ainerice9585]

This is normal.

[@helgaioannidis9365]

@@ainerice9585 exactly

[@santostv.]

The internet is delulu land but a few decades it would stay on the internet discourses nowadays it bleeds into real life, I guess better anology is that the internet is the magazine of the 00s😂 bs more bs, full of fakers to get ad money meanwhile insecure people fall for it while they make $$$

[@awsambdaman]

If that’s what you desire and you have that then congratulations, I’m happy things worked out for you

[@Jupiter_9911]

This woman's narcissism didn't even allow her to understand what the dude was saying. She immediately went on to blame the guy

[@MatchesIsme-io2vt]

I’ve never met a woman who’s ever said “I want an alpha” that’s some red pilled Reddit shit 😭😭

[@mtgsalt1151]

It's mostly in their actions not words

[@Jennifer-vk4jc]

I want an alpha. I’m a woman who needs a strong man to keep me in my feminine energy. Protect provide and lead. But not just alpha, also divine masculine (high quality); meaning able to create a loving safe containment for his woman and family, the ‘light’ aspects of ownership. ‘Alpha’ men lie all the time and are often deeply insecure and narcissistic. I could go for a ‘beta man’ but then I’d be living in my masculine energy taking the lead; been there don’t want it.

[@unidentified90sbaby73]

yea I’ve heard atleast 3 women say they want an alpha, but hey I live in a college town. In the summer all the business is slow bc the whole town goes back home until august 😂, type sht. My point is, lots of young people here

[@skmohmamadsamim9130]

@jennifer-vk4jc Truth be told you can also encourage this beta male to more confident and became lead in the relationship. But most woman don't put any effort on that boyfriend who will be more loyal and do things for their partner. So woman want computation with other woman for that alpha male who don't give slight fuck about the woman.

[@007bbox]

@@Jennifer-vk4jcPractically speaking, what does “leading and protecting” look like on a daily basis? What daily actions build the story of someone who’s leading and protecting? Genuine question from a man that wants to bridge the gap between desires and action.

[@BL-N3xus]

Wow! The disconnect is unreal. He's absolutely right. 💯

[@eulabarredo5186]

He’s wrong subconsciously he want women to take first move lol

[@BL-N3xus]

@eulabarredo5186 care to explain more?

[@angelitaputz9946]

❤. I prayed for a true man of God and I expect no one less ❤❤

[@contentbuzzer]

@@JoseDiaz-pn7tw She literally asked for a 'true' man of God. God is all-knowing, close (to us) and respond to the prayer of every suppliant when he calleth on Him. She might not have the most accurate image of a 'true' man of God, but God knows best. So, we should answer His call and believe in Him that we may walk in the right way. Source: Al baqara verse 186

[@iNGryL]

I do the same but for my future wife. Good luck finding your person ❤

[@awsambdaman]

Gotta put the work in, God isn’t a delivery man. You don’t just get to ask for a bunch of stuff and then not do the work

[@rathenslog8490]

Then you need to a woman of God. Seek ye first the Kingdom of God

[@ahmedkamel7065]

trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷

[@oldtomplatz8862]

Treating women as recreational use has really simplified my life.

[@ivye1826]

Women need to listen to their fathers or males who have their best interest, rather than random men online who want an easier dating world.

[@nikiepunt8631]

Yes. This man is a clown

[@John.ThirteenPoint6969]

Women need to stop listening to other women you mean. So many never figure out misery loves company, until it’s to late.

[@ivye1826]

@@John.ThirteenPoint6969 of course you’d say that to me, but then something totally different to your sisters and daughters. I know, I have brothers too.

[@John.ThirteenPoint6969]

@@ivye1826 I didn’t say you were wrong. Just adding to it and being honest. The guy in the video giving advice, is also pretty feminine and city soft

[@ivye1826]

@@John.ThirteenPoint6969 oh ok, I agree that there are some women who are miserable and don’t want to see others happy. To be fair, there are men like that also. That’s why it’s better to listen to those who genuinely want the best for you, instead of those who are competing.

[@josephspruill1212]

I’m told I’m brutally honest. I didn’t know there was a such thing. I thought being honest is being honest period. Just because someone doesn’t like the answer you give doesn’t make you brutal! That’s the real issue, TRUTH! They don’t want to hear it….

[@0liverfarfan65]

True, real men careless what women think about him. Not rude or emotionless, straightforward with truth.

[@vanessamartz7596]

They should. Real women care less what men think.

[@albertosei8788]

​@@vanessamartz7596 Real woman should care if they want to sustain any relationship with a man. A real man would often never marry a modern masculine woman who doesn't want him to lead. Men don't marry themselves.

[@eulabarredo5186]

Women are careless about men think about also

[@oahts5906]

@@vanessamartz7596yeah right lol

[@hainleysimpson1507]

​@@vanessamartz7596Then why do women complain so much?

[@blackshirtsd9916]

First thing, she interrupts and "knows it all" and doesn't let him finish talking. Can a woman just listen? Apparently not.

[@PT-fs5ff]

No

[@SnerMerNer]

This one can’t, at least.

[@Thunderbult3000]

The first red flag is a big mouth bird that has no control of their own mouth. Raised poorly or wired bad, either way, she is a horrible pick, a road to disaster. Dont waste Ur time...

[@davidcooksey7835]

Men are tired of these golddiggers who want to be taken care of. Pay your own way lady.

[@SuMonCheri]

Just because I am a woman and give birth...who doesn't?! The reproductive system is freely given to all of us, and?! 😅

[@es-br8ck]

We would take care of them, if they fulfilled their opposite role: support us, bear children and cover between 2/3 and 3/4 of the efforts needed raise them in their early years. Everything else can be negotiated, varied and substituted, if needed. But most modern women would rather acquire, raise, train and ultimately bury a dozen pitbulls over the course of their lives than to have a modest 3 biological children. And we're not paying women for their mere existence in our lives. Usually, at age 30, our money, attractiveness and sex drive usually meet at a point where paying for hookers or hook-up dates twice a month becomes more cost effective than a marriage and leads to at least a similar amount of intercourse. If the man is beyond 30 and has at least a halfway decent job, the unique selling point for all women wanting a marriage is offering the qualities and availability to start AND KEEP a family and bearing his children. A man over 30 can perform all other roles well enough or pay someone to perform them, that he does not need a smaller, weaker, finickier version of himself who will invariably be using or demanding more resources than she's acquiring. If she's a high level lawyer, doctor, heiress, this might change, but more often than not, she will still not pitch in her income if it's higher, but use up his resources or hunt forever for a man who's still richer than her. Women cannot comprehend that men don't need someone in the family who performs 50% of their men's capacity while spending more than 150% of their level. (And no matter her own income, women will hunt for men who are rich enough to bring about at least such an income/spending ratio) Men want a female counterpart who brings everything that could not be bought or rented. If the woman tries to outperform his career or deny having children, she becomes more and more irrelevant as a partner, because as outlined, she will spend or demand the spending of all the resources anyway, with or without children, or if she advanced her career, go on another branch swinging to upgrade her man to restore the 50/150 ratio.

[@daisylavenderlove]

How can a woman be utmost feminine if she's in the workforce just like her man? One of the top qualities of a masculine man is his ability & his drive to grind in the workforce. You want women to do that as well not seeing the irony of wanting a feminine woman but also one who does exactly what a masculine man does. So which is it?

[@Minime669]

@@daisylavenderlovethey are stupid Let them play with a plastic doll

[@DaOverman00]

​@@daisylavenderloveThe laws and economy are not set up to reward a man with enough resources alone to provide for a family. So no, a woman MUST pull her weight unless she is doing her job procreating. You do not get to ask men to provide for you in addition to having all the laws and economic powers stacked against men being solo providers.

[@douglasstrother6584]

"Men don't approach anymore": brought to you by "metoo", built by women. Good luck, ladies.

[@luigigotbigtiddies9869]

Douglas.. you're expired.. give up, women don't want ancient men.

[@RebeccaVanAman]

I have an alpha Male in my life and now feel completed. I learned to listen and let him guide me. My life has never been better.

[@007bbox]

Practically speaking, what does it look like daily to be guided? What are some of daily things that set your life apart? Some of us would really love to hear how to bridge the gap between desire and action.

[@RebeccaVanAman]

@@007bbox He gives me his perspective on situations and advises me on how to handle things. One of my weak points is that I am very gullible and often get taken advantage of and get blindsided. He reads people well and will share his perspective and guides me to look at things a different way. He never says things like your being an idiot or criticizes me, he just advises and then let's me take action. If I do not follow his advice and fall on my face, he would advise and guide me to find a solution that moves me forward and not focus on the past. I tend to dwell on the past mistakes and get stuck in trying to figure out where I went wrong. He gives me a big hug and tells me we will figure out how to move forward and everything will be ok. He makes me feel safe and I know I can ask him and tell him anything and he will not judge me or make me feel worse. I am book smart but also am ditzy. He is patient about that as well. He will just explain what I should do, then the light bulb goes off and we joke about it. I can do some major ditzy things, but that's me.

[@Lovebubble_01]

Guide you?

[@lazypeoplecooking]

​@@007bboxnope we definitely would not. Go ahead. The Lord lead you well led

[@ivye1826]

Are you a child? Do you have a job?

[@snowyowl6892]

This man is talking the truth. Women know if a man lies to their face … they can easily manipulate him. That’s why they prefer such a person.

[@Andrew-vy1rx]

She is right. Just because you are rich doesn't make you an alpha.

[@glecservices3114]

Women don’t care about alpha or beta they care about convenience and what stokes their ego, a real woman with substance doesn’t mind sacrificing and submitting because she is humble, these women of today have done so much things that they don’t even no what a real woman is, they have lost virtue, it’s not a matter of high value a man of substance is a man of substance, money in his pocket or not, modern women don’t want a real man they want a life style which again goes back to pride and ego most of them in the west don’t qualify for a man of substance because a lot of women have lost theirs and that goes for women in other countries to, the think they can sleep around, date around, drink and smoke, party, dress how ever, have not nurturing qualities, get different men to give them money, then expect some high value man with money to be a sucker, but they were never wives or even training to be wives

[@alfredbenedek3398]

I DO REALIZE, YES, THERE ARE KIND / GOOD GIRLS AND WOMEN, BUT SOME OF THEM ACT LIKE / LOOK LIKE, FROM PLANAT FREAKOID??!

[@VVIP90]

Excactly bro. Cause real man is free and you feel it. Free in the right way. Healthy man energy is king energy!!!

[@janelee-xt1xs]

Real men would never do anything or lift a finger for females.

[@chaosbalanced]

Women, loving men, for the sake of men being men, and not because men can provide something to her, or give something to her. Loving men for the sake that they are men is not only how you become a wife, but you learn to nurture and care for the men of this planet that Feel the same way about you and women alike

[@1truthseeking8]

You just described what MEN hope for, dream of, and NEVER get to have. Women do NOT "Love" ...they LOVE what men can DO for them.

[@takilathestar4758]

Men love women for what they can do as well! Stop making this one sided! Relationships are transactional! No man will be with a women for just being a woman pleas stop with the bs!

[@chaosbalanced]

@@takilathestar4758 I didn’t. My last line included how men feel the same way about women

[@takilathestar4758]

@@chaosbalanced I was actually responding to the one who commented under your post…. It’s a man world and has always been and now women are trying to find their place in this world and it’s always over shadowed by what the man need and wants….

[@chaosbalanced]

@@takilathestar4758 oh ok to your first comment. -To your second comment-I feel like that’s a half truth.

[@peterk960]

They love the ones that lie to their face the most.

[@504cp]

They LOVE masculine men in the bed. We get the freakiest and really intimate sex.

[@darbofuchs9021]

My father told me that women like it when you lie to them. I did not believe it.

[@andrewevans7992]

@@darbofuchs9021unfortunately we all learn the hard way

[@billhorn3]

Think about WHO may want to start turning men more feminin. That's who the problem is. Women were trained, & are now blamed 4wanting this.

[@guslja]

cos they don't care cos all they need is his money. what he does, does he lie or being unfaithful is irrelevant, cos it is not the man they want

[@FindsWay]

Unless you’re perfect you’re Ego is gonna get checked so stay humble

[@lifter1000]

Real masculine Men are difficult and can't be manipulated. Most women now days looking for a comfort zone Man.

[@backtoschool9760]

yep simps

[@eppsislike]

A masculine men shows her what true love is, and the majority of women are very much damaged this having developed an avoidant attachment style and they believe they're not worthy of him, thus running and hiding. A man who has been around the block may a bit startled at first but he'll quickly understand. Doesn't mean he'll stick around tho, but his door will always remain open.

[@MainUkraine]

Damn this man expressed exactly what I have come to realize as a masculine man in a few sentences. Kudos for him to be able to describe this phenomenon in words. This is really high level dating advice for women.

[@joshuatoms7664]

This is bang on correct. They are also trained to never spend enough time finding out what a potential mate is actually like. They move on so quickly, they pass up the chance to get to know someone. So they continually chase the next bad boy tingles over and over.

[@StephenStrader-f2z]

Yep. I’m a business owner, and due to the economy I’ve had to lay off multiple employees and take on more of the workload myself. My wife hates that, but I just 🤷🏻‍♂️. I’m a man, not a boy. If you want a boy, go to Target and find one. The rest of us men are out here working hard.

[@Portia620]

😂😂❤❤🥂🥂

[@avishill8613]

Why isn't she helping with the work load.?🤷

[@StephenStrader-f2z]

@@avishill8613 She’s a SAHM who homeschools and raises our 5 children.

[@Sisiana311]

​@@StephenStrader-f2z♥️♥️♥️

[@Ekimsrevo]

@user-ln9zo2ji4d yes tell her to keep up the good work

[@PaulBlalock-vd6pj]

The real men are hard to find because we're working 12 hours a day/6 days a week. On Sundays we just chill out so we can do it again.

[@enomisv9830]

Most women today who are like this want a dad. Not a daddy. But a dad. Someone who will give them money, bail them out, do things for them, etc. In essence become their father, But they still want to do whatever they desire, without any repercussions or requirements to treat that "father" with any respect.

[@ahmedkamel7065]

trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷

[@elanie1793]

I don't think women run and hide. If both don't want to give up their commitment, then they're not right for each other. If both are willing to commit to each other, then maybe they're fit to be in a relationship. Why is it only one sided who has to give up their commitment? If you're afraid to be in a serious relationship...don't get into it. Please correct me if I'm wrong

[@Jameslacomus]

The guy in the video is talking about the women in this generation. I totally agree with what you said in the comment but that only includes a very small number of people these days.

[@elanie1793]

@user-yg9jd4ii8r I agree with you too. It's really hard to find or meet someone special nowadays.

[@hgff69]

Don't expect virgin guys to marry non-virgin woman. Bitter truth which hurts most women.

[@omp365]

⁠@@elanie1793you’re looking at it all wrong. Like mostly everyone. Why you spending all your time trying to FIND someone special? Put your energy into BEING someone special. Everyone tryna FIND the right person, very few are taking responsibility for their side and trying to BE the right person.

[@elanie1793]

@omp365 Not particularly looking for someone "special" actually. I had medical issues that I had to face which I'm not open to discuss here. I'm focusing on myself. It's good to invest on your health. Thanks for your comment ☺️ I appreciate you

[@flpanhead]

You will have to share that man with whatever passion he pursues. Most women can't do that. They want a puppy that snuggles them whenever they want. Driven men aren't that. They have goals and they aren't giving those up.

[@Deelitee]

Honest question: does that include getting ego strokes from other women/keeping extra supply??

[@kazykamakaze131]

@@Deelitee Don't conflate narcissism with being driven. True ambition drives weak women away, I know this in my personal experience when I had to work or put time in to get to my goal, then they complain about me not being able to be on their beck and call 24/7, same thing happens every time, they claim they want an ambitious man as that is what they are trained to say or watch on social media as "sexy", but when the rubber hits the road they run as it shows their clear as day insecurities and their own weakness. Women want slaves not real men in 2024, look around, it's always "me, me, me" mentality, never what "we" can do together to overcome. This is why they say women in 2024 have very high traits of narcissism.

[@takilathestar4758]

What about the women passions? Are you willing and equipped to handle her dreams as well?

[@Schnitzer325ci]

Sheep looking for a shepherd with no stick.😅

[@Momoheim]

😂👍

[@TeluguVaallam]

Very well put statement.

[@TheCleverscreenname]

It's not easy to be with a real man. Why not? Real men take care of those around them. What about that is hard to be with?

[@Purposable]

When they are insufferable pricks

[@T.E.Twilight]

Genuine question here, what would a relationship with a "real man" look like?

[@skullbreaker6664]

@@T.E.Twilight He refers to a stereotype, obviously it doesn't make sense to define a real man, since masculinity is a social construct, however human nature does define behavioral attributes in females and males, I think this guy is referring to that and I don't think he´s stupid enough to not know that masculinity is a social construct, it's just that speaking in simple terms makes the conversation simpler.

[@Mmmmkaaay]

​​@@T.E.TwilightA man who knows exactly who he is and has either made peace with his flaws or works to change them, so he doesn't end up putting his woman down to make himself feel better. When she excels, he's genuinely happy for her because she is not COMPETITION. He admits mistakes to his wife and kids when appropriate, instead of hiding behind a huge, unbendable ego. He loves to provide because that's what he's wired for, just as women are wired to nurture. His woman feels safe with him because he's appropriate in public and private. He loves himself. And he only competes with yesterday's version of himself, not his neighbor. He puts the marriage first because he knows that without a strong bond with his woman, everything else comes crashing down.

[@lynnodonovan4204]

Never met one yet

[@jamesbeckham7046]

Culture has had a radical change in values. Marriage is not the same ideal it was just 50 years ago. Women n men are competing not cooperating!😮

[@elizabethvinson3867]

If you talk to a lot of the people who were married 50 years ago, they did not even view each other as people. Men and women viewed the other as a different species. (Not everyone but it was incredibly common.) And gender roles were really aggressive. Both my parents were alive when women could not get a bank account and only could have access to banking through a father or husband. I am a younger millenial btw. The oppression was extreme. And I am not slamming everyone who wants a traditional relationship but when someone has no option but to cowtow to you, that's not a real relationships regardless of how you divide up the work.

[@Luni-ew9qw]

​@@elizabethvinson3867 i hate when they pretend it was all cute and sweet, just because people looked fancy.

[@rotsteineva]

I love real people. Not liers at all. Don't generalize, please!

[@darkgardener9577]

If it's generally true, why not?? The mentality of "But not all!!! IGNORE THE 99.9999999%!!! I once heard about an outlier!!" is the mentality that needs to go.

[@Garett.1214]

Yeah right. What if a guy said he wanted to have sex with other women while having sex with you?

[@kingadamsthebrokestdustee6561]

@@darkgardener9577 it’s a hard concept for the low IQ to grasp. And they are rampant

[@ahmedkamel7065]

​@@darkgardener9577trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷

[@numbernine3436]

Nothing better than a masculine man❤

[@ahmedkamel7065]

trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷

[@Topspeedmotorcars]

How about an unproblematic, effortless relationship

[@backtoschool9760]

women dont want that

[@ahmedkamel7065]

trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷

[@Topspeedmotorcars]

I never listen to advice from anyone that tells me to trust them. Political and religious views are a dead end street. The topic here is about women.

[@m-gn7vy]

Every woman I have dated lied to my face about important stuff to get me to date them. And then call me the Ahole when I find out and break up with them. This masculine man is DONE with dating. I'm done wasting my time.

[@Storkz0re]

What makes you being masculine?

[@m-gn7vy]

@@Storkz0re strong, loyal, leader, protective, honest, great career and desires to get married and have children

[@Storkz0re]

@@m-gn7vy sounds like olds school supporter of the family institution. Masculine word is confusing not only me. Tho with leader word you may have troubles, if you reject her opinion.

[@m-gn7vy]

@@Storkz0re True leaders listen to everyone and make a decision that is best for all partys. I 100% respect my partners inputs and opinions. You are confusing a leader with a controller.

[@Storkz0re]

@@m-gn7vy Then you are right. Anyway the leader role may be the issue. That means she gonna accept that last decision is yours. It limits her freedom of an adult person, if I take it literally. Maybe you could be more ease on that, otherwise you are being very picky.

[@mightydeathlash2867]

"high value alpha male" sounds like language only used in between men. Never hear bs like that amongst women. There is no such thing. Men: sigma male, alpha male, etc, brought to you by men.

[@Jennifer-vk4jc]

It definitely exists amongst dating women

[@mightydeathlash2867]

@@Jennifer-vk4jc The men who complain about "alpha males" is because they are not competitive enough to those men who are. That's the little boys getting taught a lesson by their "bros" who not just say but perform as the alpha/sigmas. All in-between the men talk competition for women. Little boys want women to lower their standards. You hear them complain, 👉👉👉👉 little boys.

[@gerardmichaelburnsjr.]

I have absolutely never heard that language from anyone. I think it is language only used by con artists.

[@the8thchurch461]

​@@gerardmichaelburnsjr.Con artists, lol

[@aamit6211]

some things DON’T need to be necessary told/heard/talked of to exist and/or be true. Everyone knows what women are attracted to, and it’s been the same since ages. Looks, wealth, status in whatever order you may please.

[@ssouza01]

I never realized why i finally committed... Now i know it was the woman who gave up all her commitments to other things and chose us. FACTS! Bro makes sense.

[@marc2638]

When women meet or see me they run they clam up they act all timid!! When I smell that type of fear from a woman I instantly want zero to do with her, it’s unattractive, let me also add they get this way once they realize their typical banter and flirting has zero effect on me that typically gets them feeling pretty vulnerable

[@RebeccaVanAman]

All women are fearful. It is a survival instinct. Let her know you will be her protector, that is what she is looking for in alpha male. She is flirting to let you know she is interested in you so you will not fear rejection. When it has no effect on you I would venture to guess they get bolder. I bet you confuse the heck out of them. Making someone feel vulnerable is not a good thing. Women's first instinct is flight when faced with a vulnerable situation. It is just nature.

[@1truthseeking8]

​@@RebeccaVanAmanand when the government offers them security of welfare - hypergamy. When Chad or Tyrone on Facebook offers them security of persistent attention - hypergamy. When bumble and other dating apps offer ENDLESS mate comparison -monkeybranch hypergamy. Women were never made for the world of *unrestrained* freedom in a society...they were made for: law of the jungle, no DNA PATERNITY TEST secrets and drama within a tribe of whoever is the toughest warrior/winner most sought after. Men are aware of themselves and nature and attempt to create a society of safety and security... Women seek to exist as a biological driven behavior with no restraint on emo or bio ...the downfall of society is the preference of an unevolved woman.

[@1truthseeking8]

​@@RebeccaVanAman what happens when a woman becomes secure in relationship, protected and provided for? She becomes confident of herself and secure in who she is ...once she no longer feels threatened by her OWN FEARS? She divorces him. 90% of divorce is initiated by women.

[@gytosas]

@@1truthseeking8 just a random to go along with your comment. When we were kids provided and protected in parents home we were looking for adventure and excitement.

[@Rainer125]

Kek women have 0 fear of Chads. They are afraid of you beeing a balding incel in denial. Women hate average men with a passion. You can keep coping or accept that fact.

[@ruckin3]

Im a 1% man. Tall, rich, fit. And I go on dates and women try to show me how masculine they are.

[@lowings848]

And they say women have good intuition. lol.

[@rathenslog8490]

They think attraction is symmetrical and it absolutely isnt

[@michelefitzmaurice4610]

This behavior (of the women) is super weird!!

[@RichObiQuan]

This is exactly it. My ex used to always tell me how that she said never been the one to let the man take lead till i came along. All her previous, she was the one calling the shots and I remember her saying that she needed someone that’s not afraid to check her when she’s in the wrong because she noticed that her beauty was what stopped men from keeping her in check. Months go down the line, and now she tells me that she’s never been picked to the point where she feels like the “bad guy”. Ive never once had a situation where whenever i was in the wrong that i deflected. I was always showed humility when wrong but it was hard for her to do the same. And when i started becoming more critical on her and her habits thats when she couldn’t take it.

[@sabrimo4020]

If that was her attitude, you'd be better off without her. There's plenty of fish around. Good job on ending and not sticking around.

[@sambell8284]

Well put. I'm noticing that pattern as well.

[@emilyb1966]

Women want masculine men because of the way they make us feel safe and cared for. A woman who feels safe, appreciated, and desired is a woman who will be willing to change her behaviors for you. If a woman becomes resentful and feels picked on by your attempts to make her a better person, usually you’re missing a step because she doesn’t understand or trust your intentions, and / or you’re failing to give any positive feedback. She will come to believe that you hate everything about her, when in reality you’re only trying to help her because you care for her. If you see this again in a relationship take a good hard look at how you’re communicating!

[@d1v1n1ti]

I'm ready to be at His side, I don't need anything else. I may want worthless things from time to time, but my focus is him, I will do what he asks of me and thank him.

[@arturosalinas7657]

As a man who carries himself like i own every room i walk into, i can't help but notice that ladies are intimidated by my presence. When i do speak to one, they get all nervous. They figet, stutter or cant maintain eye contact. And as a man, i refuse to change myself

[@ethanclark4116]

True alpha male over here

[@ainerice9585]

Are you sure that is the reason -and not because you come across as creepy?

[@arturosalinas7657]

@ainerice9585 yes 1000%, stop hating. That's a female trait

[@ainerice9585]

@@arturosalinas7657 triggered much

[@THEMDoggShow]

What a tool 😂

[@Bob-zk3pi]

“Men are not willing to give up their commitment for somebody who is still committed to other things” can someone please explain what that means?

[@maxjohnson1758]

It's just practiced, canned, babble speak. Put another way, he means highly desirable men won't commit to self absorbed 304's.

[@ibelucrative9920]

If she’s still in contact w an ex they’re still smashing and the ex is the safety net she reverts to.

[@Williamtriggs1]

Ok. So now can somebody explain what a 304 is.

[@maxjohnson1758]

@@Williamtriggs1 Type the numbers on a calculator and then read it upside down. Looks like an "h" and an "o" and an "e."

[@DarrinBang]

Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men who have built something of value are not going to grant their commitment to a woman who will still continue relationships that will detract from the legacy a man is building. Be it old flames, too much attachment to "the girl friends", having kids that are not the man's kids, or wanting to go clubbing to get hit on and showered with attention. The obvious indicator that women are clueless of this is when a dating profile reads, "dedicated to my career and my kids are my life". The less obvious is when a woman is emotionally run by whatever the current media story is, when her social media feed matters more to her than people in real life, and when advertising has more influence over her than her man. Commitment used to give women what they wanted, it came with responsibilities. Now they want what they want( it all- cause they deserve it all!!!) With the freedom to ignore responsibilities That's my take on it

[@julialostetter8855]

As a woman nowadays, I have never said or even thought "where are all the masculine men?"

[@adeamandori1111]

Deep Trust in healthy masculine is the Key. Lots of Trauma have to be healed. Show Up, good Man, worthy to be trusted in leadership.. intergrated and balanced in Heart and Brain. Wanne to feel that safety.. to alow myself to follow, and trust fully.❤️ That is a Challenge.

[@markfaas4052]

“So many men! So little time!” If I had a dime for every time heard on lady’s night…

[@WoundedWarrior77]

Ladies night should be extinct at this point. Call it 304 night and you would be closer to the truth. Women aren’t ladies anymore.

[@Babygirl80572]

In 2024, it is imperative that we do not desire an Alpha male. It is illogical to allow another human being to assume a godlike role while we possess superior intelligence, greater options, enhanced beauty, and higher earnings. As someone who has been married for 23 years and earns a seven-figure income, I surpass others in my responsibilities, with only God being above me. It is evident that one must not be deluded in 2024. I suggest creating instructional videos for men, guiding them on how to attain higher education and develop skills that will lead to increased financial success. By doing so, they can earn respect and validate their masculinity. It is important to understand that masculinity is an achievement, whereas femininity is something to be protected. Instead of condescending towards women, let us focus on assisting these individuals in becoming providers, ensuring they can support someone who will nurture and advocate for their well-being, enabling them to live beyond their sixties.

[@ainerice9585]

Love this idea.

[@TheSaiyanPrince88]

Facts! They're not ready for a truly masculine man. We don't tolerate games or bs.

[@climbinghenge6382]

DEFINE: “truly masculine man?” Without a definition it’s meaningless. Examples are needed as well for each trait

[@TheSaiyanPrince88]

@@climbinghenge6382 I truly masculine man doesn't tolerate a woman with a bad attitude or entitlement or brings too much reactivity or makes herself too available. That can mean different things. A truly masculine man protects and provides. A truly masculine man stands on his business 1st. A truly masculine man is gonna do what he must to better himself AND his partner, but if she doesn't follow, she'll get dropped. A masculine man isn't gonna argue, a masculine man has standards and boundaries that he will communicate. He's gonna take care of his mind and body. And most women, especially today's modern woman, are not ready for that.

[@TheSaiyanPrince88]

@@climbinghenge6382 a woman cannot tell a man how to be a man. She can tell him how she prefers HER man. Just like a man can't tell a woman how to be a woman, only how he prefers HIS woman. The market determines value, not oneself.

[@bertram46]

God i love her look and voice. And im open and masculine

[@PB-et9my]

FOR A STRONG MAN TO EXIST IN RELATIONSHIP IT REQUIRES A WOMAN TO MASTER BALANCED SUBMISSION..A STRONG WOMAN SUBMITTED TO A STRONG MAN POSITIONS STRONG SUCCESS.

[@obvioustroll13]

If you have to have a woman submit in order to be a man, you're not a man, just a bully.

[@Mmmmkaaay]

I was married for 13 years to a man who I thought was an alpha, because he was brave and "manly", but he couldn't lead. It was a smokescreen for his insecurities. So be careful when choosing, ladies. Being a "badass" isn't necessarily being an alpha.

[@007bbox]

Practically speaking, what does a life with a man leading look like on a daily basis?

[@LuisCasal-k9u]

I would say that most women confussed masculinity with muscles, tattoos, being agressive.

[@ronniepratt8710]

So he had to have every possible quality that you deemed. Did or do you have every quality a woman needs. Relationships are about balancing your partner out and helping and supporting them with what they may be deficient in. It didn't take you 13 yrs to figure that out. You knew it all along.

[@Mmmmkaaay]

@@ronniepratt8710 Yes. We were a good team. But he is emotionally abusive and diagnosed narcissist. I basically married my mother. That's why I tell young folks to get into therapy to heal their parental issues or else they'll end up marrying someone just like the parent they had issues with. My mom was all bark and no bite, just like him.

[@Lovebubble_01]

Please tell me he is not on bumble!…. We should have an ex web page to write warning and reviews

[@BlackMrClean24]

Being masculine and being high value are 2 different things

[@obvioustroll13]

Word. Men think because they're strong or have a good job they're high value, it disgusts me. If all you can offer a woman is money or "protection" when we live in a world where most women can defend themselves or make their own money, it's pointless. A high value man has class, respect, doesn't play games or let people play games with him. He doesn't have to earn much, just be financially responsible with his own funds, and lead not by dominance but by reason and by earning respect, not demanding it.

[@bfitnessjoe]

I literally just dealt with this very situation last month from an ex from 20 years ago that was the one that got away on a pedestal. I was her puppy dog on a leash then, then change happened and I became a man who values himself, she came at me like we were back in time. She didn’t like the fact that I could walk at anytime without hesitation and that was demonstrated because she “tested” my boundaries. Needless to say that infatuation is long gone and off to the next. She is hitting 40 and telling me she just can’t seem to find someone “worth it” and I am in my 40s living literally the best time of my life. Own my house, have several vehicles and even have my retirement fully planned out where she has no clue about her future. Oh yeah she has a bunch of kids from 3 different guys.

[@curiousguy-jo4sh]

He stopped that gaslighting promptly like a switch

[@soydansogukcesme470]

❤ I like your content dude. You are the only one who calls all them out. Men and woman.

[@KBALLING1723]

Sacrifice? Did she say sacrifice? I ain't sacrificing shit for you. I'd rather be alone.

[@romariosalas2649]

Don't worry, you will

[@KBALLING1723]

@@romariosalas2649 only the average joe may need to.. she doesn't have a say when you are top 1% male lol she is then easily replaceable. Put purpose over women if you don't want to be miserable.

[@romariosalas2649]

@@KBALLING1723 I am already married. The woman in the video was talking about other women when she spoke about sacrificing things. I thought you had understood it and were a woman yourself.

[@OhioVworld]

Mostly over 35 yrs of age. Just spitting facts.

[@epicvideos6227]

It's like teaching Logic to someone who's only compass is emotional drama.

[@vanessamartz7596]

Dismissed 100% of females. Hope you never need one to care for you.