Whitney Rose is Busted Setting Up Lisa Barlow | RHOSLC Episode 5 & RHOC Episode 15

[@leigharmstrong9940]

I’m so relieved when I see you delivering content for us! I might be addicted. I need to be your friend. You’re Amazing, my dear QueenEmily!😘 👏🏼🫶🏼💪🏼💗👏🏼✌🏼

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

hahaha you're awesome!! is your name leigh? I always want to respond with your name but i'm not sure if your handle is actually your name lol

[@leigharmstrong9940]

@@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks see? This is why I love you! It’s LeighAnn, but many call me Leigh.❤️ Mwah

[@lukystarrk4life]

I agree lol. I’m an Emily fan ❤

[@LmsLms-y7x]

Johnny J may not be releasing the videos from the night of the crash bc the videos show that he indeed heard or saw the crash. Just a thought…

[@Malibusurfsup]

I gotta watch the Jenn- Tamra scene again. In Tamras attempt to avoid backlash; she's getting ALL of it. 😂

[@melissawest9124]

Watching Jen absolutely rip Tamra a new one has been the highlight of my week. Tamra is obsessed and beyond jealous of Jen’s looks and relationship with a man who actually enjoys her company. Heather is a manipulative, egotistical bore and I am completely over her and Emily can go away as well. Thanks so much for another fantastic recap!

[@esterdrass4964]

The season of the stalker on RHOC. Tamra stalking Jen and Alexis stalking Shannon.

[@its_just_harlem]

As a neurodivergent person myself, I get so frustrated when I hear people who have outwardly behaved like an asshole, justify or reason their behaviour with their diagnosis/suspected disorder. Yes, as people with ADHD and Autism we process social concepts at a slower pace and may come across as cold or rude, but we still have the capacity to sometimes just act like a dick. So sure, maybe a portion of Tamra’s actions are down to her suspected autism, but she is still a human who can just fuck up and have poor behaviour. This revelation doesn’t make screaming at someone that they’re an alcoholic acceptable or a result of your autism, u were just being a dick and u have to own up to that. Bit of a strong stance but I’ve seen so much commentary on twitter from people who just hate Tamra, and as someone who’s indifferent on her I felt maybe my take might be slightly less polarising. Sorry for the dissertation of a comment, but I hope u enjoyed the read 😭🤍

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

I so appreciate this perspective on the tamra situation!

[@its_just_harlem]

@@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks 🤍🤍

[@crc5795]

I just think it’s all b.s. I have a neurodivergent daughter and have known multiple people with that diagnosis and that’s just not how they behave. Challenges with social cues, sure and perhaps they can appear cold or rude but Tamara’s behavior is straight out c-u next Tuesday. The Housewives love to throw around the “bully” word but Tamara is legitimately a bully, at the very least.

[@From55555]

I call that bullsh.. .Tamara just keeps sinking lower, she rushed to say she was on the spectrum, not because she is open, but because she desperately wants compassion from the fans , i think she is scared of getting fired again. How are you going to say you are open and we haven't seen anything going in your real life for years , specially with your husband , girl bye. She wanted attention , no need to mince my word, she should be sorry about using Autism as a way to justify her vile behavior. People on the spectrum have a hard enough life, giving autism a bad name trying to justify with Tamara's malicious actions. Shame on her. I took my daughter to her psychologist , and she had 6 session , and the psychologist would not ever tells us anything about my daughter diagnosis until the a week after the last session. That lady is just cruel, maybe suffering from a lack of empathy, but she has no issue with social interactions , on the contrary, she is quite good at the evil she does.

[@PBJ2148]

Maybe we should be asking Whitney and her husband about the MLM allegations instead of jewelry.

[@LmsLms-y7x]

I think the $618 was for one dinner lol😂

[@deon907]

Special education teacher with over 20 years in the field and a LOT of experience teaching children on the spectrum; and also being a part of the diagnostic process. Tamra was completely wrong to throw that comment out there and I believe did so to make excuses for her nasty behavior. She has been nasty for years-this is not new. Also, her ignorant claims that the "diagnosis" explained her lack of empathy threw me. She is manipulative, calculating, and simply mean. It is her personality. When she clapped at Jenn and Shannon and waves Shannon away, I felt like I was watching a child. She is not fun to watch and I hope she leaves the show and gets the real help she needs.

[@Mz_AKA_1908]

That was refreshing to hear your viewpoint as an educator. Thank you for your service as an educator.

[@carlawilliams8097]

Thank you. My daughter is autistic. I am so happy when people speak up and help people understand why Tamra is disgusting for saying she is autistic like she did. She knew what she was doing. She just didn't expect the pushback. Being an asshole and being autistic are 2 different things.

[@From55555]

I’m sorry , but if I had a choice between being single or marrying Emily”s husband , child , I would choose single. Emily having a partner is not flex , Travis, Shane, Eddie and Ryan are no price, even Heather husband is not really a solid a husband , the only husband in the group that seems lovely is Katie’s husband.

[@jennlow22]

Spectrum. NO. Narcissistic. YES I hate casual use of the word narcissist. But Tamra has a shown over and over classic traits. NOT ONE season since Tamra started has she also not targeted someone. And her remorse lasts momentarily and only to suit her in the moment

[@lauriefarmer2821]

She only has remorse because she miscalculated how the audience would receive her behavior towards Shannon.

[@BBaltazarNV]

This is all semantics. A name might not be on a petition to file suit, but you can still be part of the process. Alexis is hiding behind the fact that her name was not in the petition.

[@Mz_AKA_1908]

The hamster wheel is spinning in Brittani ‘s head but the hamster is unalive. 😝🤣

[@ninamilner1453]

Hotel housekeeping may report finding items of value after checkout in case the guest comes back to claim it (and declare it stolen if no one finds it).

[@iamheatheranne]

As a neurodivergent myself, I don't claim Tamra. She's not my people, some other group can take her. Btw, it took me a LONG time and lots of suffering to be properly diagnosed and find the proper therapies.

[@MsFreebird101]

Adam's story is changing... Adam said in his live recap of episode 5, timestamp 13:17 that the "alcohol business" comment wasn't about Lisa but in his "Truth about" video, timestamp 8:55 put out yesterday he said his source WAS alluding to Lisa being the owner of the account posting horrible things about Whitney's daughter which i don't believe, how could they possibly know that?? Bravo did Adam a favor by making it look like he's saying Lisa is spreading rumors about Whitney's business when he was actually saying Lisa WAS the account posting horrible things about Whitney's daughter

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

ya this has been the confusing part to me too. and also he said that "lisa's not the only one with a beverage brand" but on the phone call when whitney said "the only one with a liquor brand is lisa" adam says "I know". so I think he might be covering for HIMSELF a little. but I definitely know that the timing of that call has been altered. and obviously also the subject of the call

[@MsFreebird101]

@@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks yes it's confusing, I too heard him say in the live recap that it wasn't Lisa because "there's more than one person in Whitney's circle with an alcohol business" but the next day in his "Truth About" video Adam said he asked his source "does this person have an alcohol business" and his source said "yes" and Adam said his source WAS alluding to Lisa so he kinda flip flopped on that

[@alexkarehu9549]

You help me understand so much, Love ya

[@charlottepotin8956]

100% Heather is making it worst for Lisa with the audience, but her points about Angie’s motives are VERY valid. Angie is forcing a beef with Lisa

[@Mz_AKA_1908]

Angie never mentioned Lisa’s name.. heather always throws rocks and hides her hand😂

[@j.reedoneal7828]

I think you’re likely correct about how Tamara came to her self diagnosis. 👍

[@katykatmasters9707]

Honestly if someone said that a HouseWife was on the spectrum I would assume it was Mary and I’m just going off of her bluntness that doesn’t feel malicious.

[@evelinel.9827]

Love your recaps Emily!!!

[@brendacloutier4442]

I can’t stand Tamera or alexis wish they would get rid all of them.

[@sibais]

Why? This season is soo good. They might suck but it makes good tv

[@brennen5022]

We already saw what the show looks like without Tamra. She is essential.

[@twelve11]

The cap and glasses look great on you!!

[@Aekbonita1986]

I definitely get when Jen says, well when I buy a knock off, you have something to say and if I have something expensive, there’s a problem. Ryan’s her boyfriend and if he wants to buy her dress, let him buy her dress.

[@tonibrooks9719]

I heard that Mary’s son was admitted into rehab. I believe she shared it on her social media. I’m really happy to hear he’s getting the help he needs.

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

oh wow i'm so happy for them!! that's a great first step.

[@kellyLynn0215]

Great recap Emily as always! ❤️ I think Tamara is just a mean girl period! Why Emily and Heather want to be in her club is crazy! Kudos to Shannon for showing Jen the text! Was proud of Jen standing up to Tamara!! I think Heather, Tamara and Emily are jealous of her because she is the sweetest and beautiful inside and out!Loving this season and I’m Team Shannon! She is bringing it - receipts and all!! Always thought she is funny too. ❤️

[@bradleyestate]

This is the first season I’m loving Lisa. She is actually authentic and real!

[@Jiorgiapeach]

Tired of these women throwing Lisa UTB when they get caught doing something. Whitney is the one scamming people. What does Lisa have to do with anything ? So tired of the bullying of Lisa in general. This thing of constantly degrading and throwing the most beautiful, intelligent, interesting cast member UTB is so tired. We saw it with Kenya in Atlanta for a decade. Hope yall out there in the audience don’t buy it. A lot of Atlanta fans bought it for years before Kenya was vindicated. The SLC cast works hard every year to push Lisa as the villain and distract from Their own stuff.

[@Mz_AKA_1908]

Girl, do I need to send you something for my husband’s dispensary?😂

[@xkellie79able]

My son has autism and would never have reacted that way to someone yelling at him. He would have had more of a meltdown because of the volume. And when they are being insulting, it’s more like being oblivious that what they are saying while being insulting. Not to mention, drugs or alcohol are nothing he needs to manage his anxiety.

[@floefloe8925]

So many men attached to reality TV personalities are not used to having women expressing themselves on their own platform to a public audience and they are mortified at the thought of being called out for their gross behavior. We see it with Johnny J and now with this Jared dude. He had to make sure he got some screen time so that he could make women (Britani and Lisa) look unreliable.

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

wow this is so spot on.

[@SuzanneKilbane]

First of all- why would Alexis have Shannon’s number and not Tamara? If you remember- Alexis claimed she didn’t meet Shannon- and had no relationship with her prior-but she was on the show with Tamara- sending that test to Shannon is very suspicious. I 💯 believe Alexis was on board with the suing . If you are divorced from the guy - why would you agree to send that text if you are not behind it 100%

[@codyconnolly5692]

tamra is trying to get away with semantics, but she did what she did and jen caught her.

[@cordeliagrayyy]

I feel like Shannon is similar to Sonja in that she is really bad at explaining or defending herself because she gets so emotional & worked up (and both drink a lot) but they’re not wrong in a lot of scenarios. It just reminds me of Bethenny Frankel trying to get a concise explanation from Sonja when she was mad at Tinsley for being a bad house guest They can’t come at Jenn for buying fake designer then criticize her for having someone else buy her real designer.

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

hmm, I can see the sonja shannon comparison I think. but I also think sonja is more of a villain than most people see so I am conflicted a bit

[@HousewivesHunter]

22:28 haha right it was totally shift / she definitely stood up to the one they’re all afraid of and went for the jugular and won but she’s been super quiet until now

[@HousewivesHunter]

33:33 haha ya she was shit talking about someone else 😂😂

[@BarbaraBrooks]

Where did you get your glasses? I want them!

[@meganskeels4822]

Emily you have become my parasocial bestie but I promise to make it the least amount of weird😂 ❤

[@Prentiss1980]

I just don’t know how bravo can bring her back after this…

[@kirstymonkeys1]

You make Me snortle 😂

[@marycadigan7118]

I am so happy you brought up the cruel game! Just when I start liking Emily again she does/something mean.

[@Aekbonita1986]

I think Shannon thought it was a gift until after when she got an email asking her to sign a promissory note. I want to see if the promissory note was signed. Because if she didn’t sign it, that means she didn’t think it was originally a loan. To this day she still says it wasn’t a loan.

[@Aekbonita1986]

I love how Jen told them turn the blow dryer off and then Jen went off on them. Tamra said she was going to do a background check and she did do a background check on his business. Sad thing is she swore on her kids lives about it

[@jorjaLee-Quinn]

I went on a search as well and can't find it.

[@tamararust436]

those noted for the 1st 56 months so her cost was 68000 so hes mad man she spent that in 6 months and they dated for 4 years

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

it's kinda nuts that she spent so much the first 6 months but then stopped, isn't it? like did he take over paying for everything after 6 months?

[@ce7768]

The receipt was the first 6 months of their relationship. Shannon said that so the amount she paid is more. She needs to get an accountant to go through her credit card etc and tabulate everything

[@andrews1250]

I appreciate that she did pay a fortune in the first part of relationship… but that was her choice.. albeit it was highly influenced by gendered social norms telling women they need the love of man to be of value and maybe her past relationship trauma. There is a difference, however, between paying for things you both enjoy ( I.e dinners, holidays) and asking your bf to give you a large lump sum to pay off your debt or get plastic surgery. P.s I do not condone him suing her - not one bit.

[@makeitsokam]

Heather Gay is a grade A mean girl straight out of the Regina George handbook. Also this entire show is premised by the ongoing quest to be Lisa’s best friend or superior. If these women can’t be her right hand, they have to be her greatest adversary and take her down. Whitney’s right, she has had a problem with every single one of these women but it’s not entirely Lisa’s doing. Each of them (Heather the most) is intimidated by Lisa in different ways. It’s very interesting to watch as the dynamics change each season.

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

this is so spot on

[@Amanda-dn3yj]

Alexis belongs in a circle room an told to find the corner 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

lol i've never heard this phrase before and I LOVE it

[@Aekbonita1986]

My son 17 and he’s autistic. Everyone one on the spectrum can be different, but I don’t think rage is a part of being on the spectrum. He’ll come and sit next to me with his head on my shoulder. If anything he’s more antisocial. He wants his cousins to come over, but then go in his room by himself 😂. IMO Tamra’s just a mean person, Point, Blank, Period 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@nataliajude16]

No sympathy for Tamra. Why any at all?

[@Malibusurfsup]

Brittani is weak sauce! Looks ridiculous

[@ninamilner1453]

I figure the $600 for a “family dinner” only covered John & his kids, not Shannon’s.

[@Aekbonita1986]

As far as Alexis goes, her name doesn’t have to be on the lawsuit since her husband is the one suing 🤷🏽‍♀️. I also feel as though she may have encouraged John to sue Shannon.

[@antonelliarico387]

42:44 their honesty is mot set with malice

[@marycadigan7118]

Casinos offer trips to their big spenders to bring them & friends/clients in to spend money. Laws are more relaxed in the Bahamas so I can easily see this happening.

[@Josephine-n8n]

People with neuro diversity don't go out of their way to hurt people intentionally.

[@sandralamkin2252]

Adam worries me. I was an Adam’s Family from the day he started. I love him. I don’t know why he is addicted to Monica. ??? If one of her friends is involved.

[@marib8797]

Yes casinos do that all the time for their high rollers. I work with someone who gets those perks. Casinos fit him and his wife to casinos all over the world to gamble. He wins big but also loses big time. They get free airfare and hotel. Everything is comped.

[@ericaluongo773]

The Electra comment was not bad

[@hunterandolive2693]

Casinos will send jets to bring in their high rollers. High stakes gamblers and VIP. The Bahamas connection is just that there are casinos in the Bahamas.

[@HousewivesHunter]

36:51 😂😂

[@aprilpenland3143]

I love Adam !! It's crazy AF!

[@Josephine-n8n]

It sounded rehearsed

[@deeray5756]

She f'ed up bad

[@mc-ge2bt]

Also, it doesn't matter if Alexis was part of either of those lawsuits. Jim sued Tamra and Shannon for talking shit on their podcast and even after being served a legal letter and opportunity to retract their statement, they said no.. thus he sued them. Shannon is now being sued because she owes John that money. He doesn't have to settle or sign an NDA since that wasn't part of him loaning Shannon the money. All the miscellaneous BS on this show is a distraction from two very simple lawsuits.

[@anon-tlv3399]

Love Alexis. the whole season would be a snooze without her, 75% of all pods convo around the show is about her and the 75K drama. Alexis is the queen of OC.

[@cordeliagrayyy]

I just can’t get on the Angie bandwagon, she seems very fake & try hard with how she is trying to befriend all of these other people in the group and bad mouthing Lisa. Also I can never care about Whitney related drama. Who takes her business seriously regardless?? I did enjoy watching Braunwyn (sp?) and her real storyline, I love how she tried to really give her daughter space and respect while putting her own feelings aside

[@Jiorgiapeach]

I loved Angie last season but really dislike her this season. Lisa is such a good friend and decent person. Angie knows this. She’s just throwing Lisa UTB for her own storyline. This is RHSLC 101 - no story or want to distract from something terrible u did? Just activate Lisa and sit back and have a storyline . So tired of the bullying, blaming and jealousy. We saw this in Atlanta for years with Kenya - when one cast member is super beautiful, interesting, intelligent and popular, the rest of the women victimize her every year until she either breaks down and leaves or the fans buy into their bs and stop liking her.

[@ericaluongo773]

Maybe Heather knows more

[@rebs8020]

Casinos will send private jets to bring high-stake gamblers to their casinos because they will ultimately make a profit on it. They comp $25,000+ rooms, they will wine and dine you, etc. It brings the big bucks to their casinos, creates momentum, gets the watching to gamble more, and again, the high-stake gamblers (whales) almost always take a loss eventually.

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

that's so wild!

[@kourtneywitt3387]

So what if Whitney got busted trying to ruin Lisa. Lisa's horrible and she shouldn't be not on the show anymore she's nothing but a bully

[@Jiorgiapeach]

How is Lisa horrible exactly? She’s literally done nothing to anyone. They keep trying to villainize her and when she defends herself, you guys call her a bully? … this is classic RH let’s bully and villainize the beautiful one strategy. We saw it in Atlanta with Kenya for a decade plus and we are seeing it every year in slc with Lisa.

[@merie1969]

While i agree to a point, Heather couldve said well we have to take out the renters so Shannon and Jen dont count. Did Emilys in laws buy her home? So my husband paid for our home. So it comes down to Tamera and Gina. So, Ginas would but big shout out to being a selfmade homeowner. I know hindsights 20/20. 😂. I dont like how nasty and dismissive Heather and Tamra are being this season. As a never before fan of Gina. I am hoping Tamra, Heather and Emily leave (alexis of course, i mean who wants her to stay?) Bring back Vicky, Gretchen and a newbie.

[@TheVerse101]

We can tell Whitney does this since Jen Shah left. Her and Heather are weirdos and desperate for fame and neither have main character energy. Lisa Barlow is that girl whether they like it or not.. Meredith could’ve been but she’s not fun and sometimes off putting. Mary is literally the only one from the original cast who’s authentic.. and what was the point of getting rid of Monica to do all this BS now

[@deeray5756]

Its all bad 😂

[@annemarr8096]

Love you Emily but so done w/Housewives. I guess I'm getting old. Just don't give 2shits about these old ladies w/ different faces every season... the overly produced fake story lines bore me to tears

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

I don't know what to do with this comment😭

[@geraldineyeong2260]

Is normal for a boyfriend to ask for his money spent in the relationship when hey break up?

[@elizabeth4614]

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@EvaFlavor]

Lisa Barlow is a gross, narcissistic and mean person. If production and Whitney are painting her as a villan, I'm not mad about it. Get her off the show already. As far as Adam is concerned, I watch his little clips on breaking news but, not his recaps because he seems more interested in being their friends than in objectively viewing their actions.

[@Mz_AKA_1908]

Omg I thought it was just me.. he is trying to prove that he is their friend.

[@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks]

BOOOOOOO they can never lose lisa barlow!

[@Jiorgiapeach]

The rest of the cast uses Lisa as a distraction whenever they get caught doing something bad. They know that she reacts and defends herself, making herself look guilty of something when she has literally done nothing wrong. It happens every season. Just think about it. - Lisa has done NOTHING to purposefully hurt anyone. Meanwhile rest of cast has said she’s slept herself to the top, that she’s a fake Mormon, that her businesses are failing, that her husband is jobless, that she’s not really rich, that she gives and accepts bribes, that she cheats on her husband, that she scams the government, that she’s superficial, old, ugly. They’ve even called her a bad mother. It’s really exhausting to watch. Currently we see Whitney, Braunwyn, The osmond guys girlfriend all doing this. Lisa is the heart and soul of SLC tho. She won’t be going anywhere unless the bullying goes too far and she decides to leave for her mental health.

[@andrews1250]

I love Lisa too… she’s great for tv. Not keen on Adam.. I know he says repeatedly “ I wouldn’t make a good reality star” and acts like he’s so intertwined with bravolebs that he could have been on tv if he wanted… but I think he’s actually desperate to be on tv.

[@colleenstephens4122]

😊

[@bradleyestate]

Heather is desperate for a leader as she’s a follower. Whitney is too fake. Angie and Whitney are desperate for a moment. I’m loving Mary, and Meredith needs to step it up.

[@EvaFlavor]

I, like Mary, can't stand Heather...never have...but, her being up Lisa's butt is soo embarrassing. It's like she is in Middle school teying to be friends with the popular girl when the popular girl is a total b.

[@dorothyblack8904]

Again, Heather, you are hitching your cart to the human mullet? Where is your pride?

[@deeray5756]

No girl lol

[@denisekinzle1672]

This is so stupid. I'm done with them! No real reality!!

[@Babyhaswon]

Whitney is so cheap acting!!!

[@Mz_AKA_1908]

Just like her jewelry😂

[@danajones1207]

All this nastiness is aging Tamra quickly. She looks older than she's ever looked

[@lauriedefelice8132]

😊