Who Was In the Wrong? (A Stolitz Analysis)

[@lilwoofs]

I agree with you 100%, honestly this is well written miscommunication, because talking it out would be something these two would never do. They are definitely both in the wrong, but it’s hard to blame them or imagine them having this talk better. Of course stolas, who already feels bad about keeping him there, and the whole day has been doubting himself that blitz likes him would take the first sign of rejection and be done. And of course blitz, who has a hard time believing anyone would care for him wouldn’t believe him. Great video!!

[@miakwat]

Exactly!!! It’s not a fight that just came out of nowhere and we’ve SEEN how they’ve both developed and what led up to their split. Obviously disappointed about their break up but I feel like this was a natural place for a situationship as messy as theirs to go 😭 (Also tysm!!)

[@niarahancock4739]

There are both valid but the L more so kinda falls on Stolas imo Blitz is a self hating imp who’s bad at communicating. He’s only seen Stolas fetishize and frankly infantilize Blitz not truly seeing Imps at people. Stolas also doesn’t fully communicate his wants with Blitz banking on him to pick up subtext

[@miakwat]

True!!! I was so confused when people were saying Blitzø was entirely in the wrong because I kept thinking about this!!! Constantly being infantilized and fetishized by somebody close to him must’ve HURT and obviously helped add reasons for him to not believe Stolas could *actually* be interested 😭

[@yappchan]

Agree but imo I feel like blitz kinda set the course for that by coming onto him in a sexual way in the first place to manipulate him. They both take the L ofc but I feel like stolas kept up that sort of act because that was the way blitz showed interest in him in the first place and therefore thought it was the only way to keep him

[@valorrios6679]

Imo Blitzø is still in the wrong for that, he was the one to sexualize his relationship with Stolas first by coming onto him, even if it was just supposed to be a distraction. He set the precedent for Stolas of "our relationship is based on sex, if I want to keep Blitzø around I have to act sexual"

[@biobennie-kk9hu]

He is responsible for his own actions and responses stop treating blitz like he’s a baby. Stolas has been trying to communicate with him and blitz got mad at him for that.

[@torialpin4651]

Great video and i totally agree, when i watched the episode i thought blitzs was gonna screw up but it turns out both of them were in the wrong here and i just think it makes it more interesting and an amazing set up for apology tour. Great video ❤ Also I'm glad you talked about something else other than Ninjago :3

[@miakwat]

No frrr!! I’m so excited for Apology Tour because of this scene like it’s unreal hehe (Also Ty!! I wanted to try branching out a bit so I’m glad people are enjoying the video 😭)

[@purpleheadedhedgehog3821]

The one thing that annoyed me was stloas saying “ it’s only about sex” when he was the one to put that out there in the first place like he was the one for the most part that made it purely about that, other then that it’s as ya said just pure miscommunication,they are both bad at communicating with each other which how? holy hell I don’t remember the last time I was tbis worked up over a fictional couple breaking up ( well except for Rory and Jess ) so please Vivian for the love of god please get them back together or there will be war

[@valorrios6679]

He wasn't the one to come onto Blitzø first though. Blitzø set the precedent that their relationship was strictly sexual when he came onto him the first time and took the grimoire after. Despite wanting them to be something more, Stolas believes that the only was he can keep Blitzø with him is to behave sexually towards him.

[@purpleheadedhedgehog3821]

@@valorrios6679 now your not wromg, and I can get the mentality behind where you are coming however, there is a power dynamic there, yes they both have respect for each other , but stolas has the power out of the 2 of them ( until giving blitz the crystal ) and even after that, he could’ve changed the dynamic of the deal at any time if he said to blitz here how about tonight we do this instead or go out to dinner or anything but until ozzies it was purely just sex ( which is cool, but he can’t really get upset when that’s all blitz thinks it is ,cause he put it out there first) also I’m not entirely defending blitz cause ond moment that really made me hate blitz was the whole Ozzies situation until fizzy and Ozzie went after stolas and he hid away , but again they are both in wromg but I just want them to be happy man ,

[@valorrios6679]

@@purpleheadedhedgehog3821 No I know I'm defending Stolas entirely either, but a lot of people rush to blame him for the situation when he clearly doesn't believe he CAN change things😭he tried before at Ozzie's only for Blitzø to have lied to him and then he dumped his ass back at home like it was his fault. Yes there's a very obvious power dynamic here but it doesn't work in Stolas's favor because he doesn't believe it's really there, Blitzø does and that's why he's upset

[@valorrios6679]

@@purpleheadedhedgehog3821 And he really didn't put the sex thing out there first, he started out wanting to be friends and Blitzø was the one that made things sexual 😭😭

[@theemoturtle7002]

finally someone said it! MOCKED! though i think Stola's is mostly in the wrong for the fight, and is the main reason why the fight went so far off the rails, but what Blitzo did was mock Stolas's feelings. plain and simple.

[@shotgunfrenzy1225]

You definitely made an amazing video. I honestly wish you had more subscribers.

[@miakwat]

AAA OMG TYSM THATS SO NICE 😭

[@NotCinnaRock]

both of them are definitely in the wrong but stolas was more at fault than blitz

[@dandereninja4750]

If I have to blame someone I have to blame Stolas. Stolas didn’t do what he did for blitz despite what he says. He was expecting blitz to react either with elation and gratitude or to just leave. He didn’t expect blitz to panic and beg or continue acting as if it was a sex thing. He did this without even talking to blitz. Yes the relationship was toxic and not healthy but on some level blitz needs the book in order to force himself to be better. Stolas clearly wanted more but he never expressed to Blitz that he wanted more out of the relationship. In fact he tried to be subtle and worse he kept giving blitz a way out of the obligations that was set forth by the deal they had. I get the feeling that most (if not all) of blitz “exes” are people he either just had sex with or made out with and never actually dated. We know blitz had feelings for fizaroli but got hurt when he misread a situation and accidentally caused a horrific fire to burn down the circus his family owned and operated. When can guess that when he dated Verosika he acted as a bodyguard for her and that it ended badly but we haven’t seen any sort of evidence to how badly the two were to each other. We know from the episode of Moxie and Millie going to Ozzy’s that monogamous relationships are viewed as unusual in hell so it couldn’t have been blitz or Verosika sleeping around that was the issue. I feel like we need a flashback episode to show us exactly how Verosika and blitz’s relationship played out to know more. If it started out as something physical with Verosika treating blitz like a boy toy only to develop feelings and blitz possibly misunderstanding something he saw (like with fiz) and deciding to leave in a way that he was sure to hurt Verosika in the worst way possible, then Verosika’s actions throughout the show could make sense.

[@patatagodoy9859]

YOOO nice videooo

[@miakwat]

AAA TY TY ✨

[@IsabellaMathew]

I know sounds bad I was rooting for them too break up with each other because they where both toxic too each other.

[@robinmartin2818]

Blitz is absolutely more in the wrong. The moment one burst out in anger or violence, you are automatically in the wrong, because all youve done is elavate the danger celling.

[@miakwat]

Oooh fair point! He definitely *did not* handle his emotions that well once they entered the final room and should’ve tried explaining himself better 😭

[@robinmartin2818]

@@miakwat psychologically speaking the reason why anger is not allowed in society is because the quorum is an unwritten contract stating that things won't get physical. One step off of angrily waiving your hands in the air, is angrily waiving your hands on someones body. People are very perceptive of that and it's a natural reaction to remove the threatening party. Which is what blitz did. He attacked stolas with words. Those words may have been from his insecurities but he said them knowing that it would hurt. And the willful intent to hurt? there isn't much else you can call that other than an attack. The moment things got that far, Stolas was under no obligation to keep the conversation going.

[@kyrarush9451]

i don't agree

[@robinmartin2818]

@@kyrarush9451 how so?

[@kyrarush9451]

@@robinmartin2818 Why don't you look at the way Stolas treated Blitz in the past? They're both in the wrong. None is worse than the other.

[@VelvetteSimp]

Neither of them are in the right or wrong