Ep. 351: Are We Really Sexually Liberated? | Whoreible Decisions w/ Mandii B & Weezy

[@dionatheempresss]

As a 25 y/o who started listening to this pod when I was 19, this episode’s convo was so needed. Love y’all down ❤ I love to see my big sisters healing 😇

[@AmorFati333]

Best part was growing with them low key we grew together! Realest woman on the planet raw and human and beautiful asf love we have them in our lives😊 hang in there young sister you got the world in ur hands excited for the life you lead! ❤

[@prycemacon7097]

I'm 26 I really needed to hear this today!

[@jasminedorsainville1112]

Sameeee😭 just a year off, I’m 24 but definitely started listening at 19. Crazyy lol

[@DymondStar]

I started listening at 18 and am 24 now. I completely agree

[@Cuthroattt333]

Nooo frrrr i started listening @ 21 now I’m 26 🥲

[@NaysiaDee]

“If you wanna be attractive to ppl, you gotta be attractive to yourself” is a BAR.

[@deryckasky9760]

“Ima keep y’all outta my relationships for a while” … “we gone call him R&B” 😭😭😭😭🤞🏽

[@CatarinaFsp]

I really enjoyed this episode. I appreciate how Mandii is evolving and getting to know herself and letting us know how raw the process is. Great communication between both of you. It's hard, but a bitch has to love herself!

[@smome777]

Mandii's self reflection @14:40 was honestly such a breath of fresh air. (Especially coming from someone in the kink space and whose not anti-sex/purity culture pushin).

[@Mamalinds22]

I was gonna sit here and type the same thing! I’m so proud of her!

[@kikindc]

I signed in to come in here and say the SAME THING. this part resonated with me so much, I had to run it back twice! go mandii!

[@ciara-elainefranklin5923]

Mandi is speaking to my soul right now, I am in a similar transition phase where I did let men set the tone for how we interacted, I caught feelings and don’t know how to operate in a situation that wasn’t created by me and now I need to step up and walk away from situations that no longer serve me and aren’t healthy for me. Definitely needed to hear this conversation.

[@dominiquevibez]

#monogamish 😂😂😂 yall need to have Shera 7 Sprinkle Sprinkle on here ✨✨

[@thatgirlshaz]

Omg she would be a great guest!!!

[@saanji0714]

plzzz lmaooo

[@SunnySon321]

I’m sitting here smoking a J and I sneezed at the same time as Mandi, so when Weezy said “bless you” I nearly lost it 😂😂

[@mxss-st]

i would’ve gone insane 😂😂

[@Indivinethyme]

This was a REAL conversation! Thank you!

[@PrincessArchley]

Woww!!!! Love this episode. This is a conversation we all as women need to have. We need to express what we want and not give ourselves to others that don’t deserve it!

[@EgoNatusSum]

WHEW! My girl Mandii Is growing up baby!!!! Mandii, your personal evolution Is so amazing to witness. I feel a sense of pride watching you and hearing your voice over the years and how much you have changed and matured. I am honored that you are letting the whorehive take this journey with you, sus. Keep going and keep growing! Xoxoxo. Ps. And leave those damn twenty-something’s alone, chile! 😂😘

[@JasmineAurielle]

I've been listening since the beginning of the show and this was by far, my favorite episode of all time! Thank you both for always sharing your stories and Mandii, thank you so much for your vulnerability in sharing your reflections of where you were in the past compared to the thoughts and feelings this version of you carries. So much growth!

[@user-vb7ud2id3h]

Love this episode!!!! Thank you for giving us just u 2 to start the year!!!! Wishing you two the best looking forward to 2024 good things for all!!

[@PourLaMourDeLargent]

i just love the evolution of this pod so much. love yall, happy new year yall!

[@kanakash12]

Mandi, I resonate with everything you’re saying this episode. I love the growth you have experienced. So proud of you ❤

[@AdriMariesVlogs]

This was such a good episode. A lot of great words were spoken with new, different insight. Love y’all.

[@c.t.burton7438]

Mandi - every word you said at 15 mins in. Proud of you for setting your intentions. I needed this reminder. Cutoff what doesn’t serve you!! 👏🏾👏🏾🫶🏾

[@tashaunaroberson8055]

What a way to start off the new year!!!!! I've been watching this pod & catching up since earlyyyyy 2023. This episode was very.....enlightening/triggering yet comforting lol. To know that all women no matter where they are in life, lifestyle, money etc are all have the same issues, going through the same things & yall always remind me to DATE ALL THEM NI🤎🤎🤎S unapologetically 🤣🤣🤣 & stay true to ME regardless of the outcome. HAPPY NEW YEAR YALL 😘😘😘

[@jadenwashington8880]

This might be one of y'all best and realest episodes. I love this podcast!

[@danyelljordan]

This is so much growth!! Yesssss really good episode. Love yourself first and don't confuse sex for someone pay attention to you.

[@vendeezel]

1:02:35 just finished this episode (after missing a few). I just wanted 2 say how happy I am 2 see Mandii & Weezy progressing in their growth and discovery of self. Thru therapy and the path of life experience, there's a certain *poetry* in the way Mandii & Weezy have transposed in their worldviews and intimate goals. I hope they both remain open minded and free lovers untethered by the stigmas surrounding women's sexuality, engaging with whom they choose, how they choose, and with fulfilling purpose. My wish 4 every woman would be that they become enlightened, *HEALING* "5304" 😅 (I don't personally like the label, just doing as the Romans do.) Love & sex are not criminal or amoral; Just have them in ways that u won't regret. #Salute 🫡

[@AmandazzWorldd]

I haven’t even listened yet I’m so excited for the first episode of the new year!!! Okay weezy coming in hot 🥵

[@MsO_B_A]

This was really really good! I love when yall can just sit with each other and have open honest non judgmental dialogue with each other! This kind of conversation and understanding between two young , talented, opinionated women of color is appreciated!!!! ❤ PS. Mandii keep saying to Weezy you dating out videos lol girl we know not only by Weezy braids but more specifically Mandii nails !!! Lololol 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 yall, continue growth and abundance to you both

[@RevolutionaryRAYRAY]

🙏🏾🙋🏾 Can I ask you a question? Mandi what makes you happy beyond helping save my life? Why ask Ma'am how are you doing knowing i respect you both beyond the angles in your Podcast. Is everything okay being in North America knowing the Tribe of GAD? Why is Augusta, Georgia not like your favorite city/state beyond Religious Golf or BIBLICAL Military with Elders.

[@monsteramommy]

I really resonated with Mandii in this episode - and for the past couple months following her celibacy (or abstinence 😂) I have been celibate for most of last year and then ventured out to explore and get back into the game however it has been terrible. To Mandiis point - I am trying to find what makes sex empowering for me now. How do I engage in exploration and finding power in my sexuality when I am sometimes feeling hurt or violated or some type of violence is inflicted on me intentional or not. I think it goes back to entering an intentional relationship and not putting sex at the forefront but also sometimes I just wanna scratch that itch, damn!

[@cookieDaXapper]

WOW, what a deep, "Grown Woman" conversation, thank you two for sharing. Mandii just described the "game" all young boys/men get taught when they ask their big brothers, uncles, dads, "how do you talk to girls?". The "game' is corrupt and a subtle "poison" towards male/female emotional relationships. It fuels female self esteem issues, and passes "hurts" along to the unsuspecting, just to use their bodies. Oh, and the "game" is over when the lady "gives up the goods". Its sad, good women and men become collateral damage/victims of "game players' from both sides. Poor Weezy is looking for her male counter-part to share her life-style with,......that is going to be VERY difficult to find,...the first time he says "lets go find a dude to phuq,".....its going to be heartbreaking. Dear Sisters keep going, you are maturing with your age and experience, some NEVER do. PEACE Ladies, and God bless your steps with Wisdom, and Grace.

[@WHOREibleDecisions]

There’s no poor Weezy babe, don’t pity me. I’m looking for what we all should be! Someone that will fit in our lives ❤

[@cookieDaXapper]

@@WHOREibleDecisions Not like that Sister, no pity in the statement, just that it will take a lot of looking for the AWESOME soul who will ride with you like that in this world. A WHOLE lot of cats are DIRTY and selfish. .....be careful in your search. Life is a walk TOGETHER and you are doing it correctly looking for that companion. PEACE and God bless you in your search. and just to check those who don't understand, Jesus stated that whores and publicans(tax and bill collectors) get to hang out with him instead of "church folk".

[@allthingsMJ_]

This conversation was needed, it is so relatable. For the time in my life I feel like I hold the power when it comes to sex! More intentional sexual experiences in 2024 and beyond please!

[@nykedon]

Mandi spoke to me this entire episode. Wow I feel everything about what she said.

[@jennywatson131]

This is my favourite episode ever.

[@BayouDon30]

Weezy you are GORGEOUS. I saw y’all at the Dallas show.. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. MANDII the way you are evolving THANK YOU for allowing us to see your vulnerability that is noble! You don’t have to be so honest &I appreciate it! We can relate &I’m amongst the ones sending positive energy &strength for your healing. I can not wait to flight hop &live in my black girl luxury truth. Y’all are so inspiring. 49:41-50:33 is gold 🤣love yall ❤❤❤

[@IllenePenguin222]

I love seeing this confidence on Mandi

[@erinhardy554]

I love and am inspired by y'all so much. Thank you for sharing your stories and experiences and heartbreaks and advice. Much love

[@whitneyyoung4452]

“ it’s monogamish” 😂😂😂 yes Mandi to the self reflection on what you want out of dating 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@chaviiita]

Great growth episode!

[@mina_ixfp1270]

Oh Weezy, that outfit is 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️✨✨✨✨, chile!!!! That pink is EVERYTHING 💋🙌🏾🎆!!!

[@rcuev118]

Y’all should hire eddin back.

[@smome777]

He's busy :/

[@shenellrichardson4936]

Right poor Eddin

[@loveVanity6]

@@shenellrichardson4936what happened

[@shenellrichardson4936]

@@loveVanity6 he was let go or quit cuz he punched Julian at a bar after hours lol

[@sunshinestarskin]

Mandi you letting the money validate you now. Men don’t care. Just love yourself

[@ninib.9340]

Their relationship now is amazing to see

[@karlybreyanne]

Living for Mandii’s reflection and evolution ❤

[@keiamonet]

“I can talk about to kids, and Will, and Do!” 😂😂😂😂

[@Crissi0709]

Loved this episode ladies❤❤❤

[@Fittwars]

reading the comments half way in the episode and was thinking yeah its a good episode, last 10 minutes killed!

[@thatgirlshaz]

Please have Shera sprinkle sprinkle on!!!!

[@IndigoAjah]

Loved this conversation

[@angelxbath]

Y’all are preaching today

[@lailaahwilson6992]

12:27-12:33 stand on business ✨

[@AShaunte229]

I love these updates on Ross Bae, keep them coming. We need him to come on the show so we can ask him questions. Make him wear a mask or something.

[@IllenePenguin222]

Weezy be having me dying she forgets what monogamous means

[@joicooper5497]

This was the perfect episode !

[@Cuthroattt333]

The part where Mandii said she want a dude that in the kitchen w the apron , reminded me of the scene in baby boy where Melvin in the kitchen cooking for momma 😭🥵😂

[@BarberShoes47]

It’s really Mandii for this episode ❤

[@logicoveremotion3321]

Imma give u what u want, to get what I want but what u want, you might not get, until you take what's left #OneManOfMen

[@Abeillequipique]

Mandy for your relationship with sex, it's the NPD I think, by experience, he takes away what you love the most and what took an important place in your identity , you'll find yourself 🤲

[@shaksmartmurals8212]

Continue to work on ya self ladies … happy new year

[@prettyladdiee2261]

22:06 girl that’s called the push and pull lol. Give give give and then pull back.

[@SofiaRodriguez-gy8kj]

mandii explaining the dennis system is crazy

[@rolandadowney-jefferson5995]

Y'all the best

[@prettyladdiee2261]

Y’all talking about the pour minds ep y’all was on? Also, about the tj maxx girl, that’s how I know it’s true when people say wealthy men wanna be able to show off what you do

[@cvstaff22]

Very very good episode!!

[@jackieescobar7877]

What a great episode to listen to as a welcome to the new year. I have listened to whorible decisions for years now, on and off . I would take breaks bc sometimes the content would be “too much” for someone who was in a journey of fixing their relationship with sex. As I have grown with mandee and wheezy, I have realized how similar our journeys have been. Both ladies have done WORK & it’s empowering and amazing to watch it unfold the way it has. And as of lately, I’ve been asking myself… can I go back to being a whore ? Bc I really wanna go back to popping pussy and not overthink it but I want to do it in a more healthy way. Which I think that’s where both ladies are heading towards, in their own unique way. Because I don’t think the “whore” in us ever dies. I think she just evolves. Love you ladies!!! Keep growing and glowing

[@Doitlikejordy]

Love this ep🤍

[@ToDaMaxxx]

Please bring back Weezy opening the podcast with the accent. That shit was funny. Not my vocals are coming. They are not maam...lol

[@DFNUVS]

WELCOME BACK AND HAPPY NEW YEAR TO MY 2 FAVORITE SEXOLOGISTS! 😜😍🖤😍🖤👌😎. I WISH YOU MORE PROSPERITY AND A DEEPER LOVE THROUGHOUT THE YEAR! WELCOME TO THE DAWN! THIS WAS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL EPISODE THAT INSPIRED DEEP THOUGHT IN ME. I LOOK AT KZbin AS MY FISHBOWL NOW. 😅. I’LL GIVE MY OPINION ON WHAT I GOT OUT OF THIS EPISODE IN A REPLY TO MYSELF. 😜. IT WAS TOO LONG TO JUST INUNDATE THE MASSES WITH ALL THIS PSYCO-BABBLE VERBIAGE. BUT PERHAPS YALL CAN LOOK BACK ON IT IN 10 OR 20 YEARS WHEN YOU HAVE TIME! 😅😘😘✌️🤓😁

[@DFNUVS]

INTERESTINGLY ENOUGH, IN 2024, THE SEX LIBERATION SUFFERS FROM THE SAME THING IT SUFFERED FROM IN THE 1960s AND 70s: THE PSYCHE IS NOT DEVELOPED TO ITS FIRST STAGE UNTIL THE AGE OF 25. OF COURSE THIS DEVELOPMENT OF THE PSYCHE IS HYPOTHETICAL BUT A GENERAL DESCRIPTION OF MATURITY, INSIGHT AND SOCIALIZATION (OR THE AWARENESS OF THE NECESSITY OF COMMUNITY OVER THE NEEDS OF THE SELF). THE LOVEBIRDS OF THAT ERA OF SEXUAL REVOLUTION SOME 50 YEARS AGO WERE PRIMARILY TEENS AND CERTAINLY UNDER THAT 25 YEAR THRESHOLD. YET, THOSE MINDLESS CHOICES OF LOOSENING THE PARENTAL RESTRICTIONS ON SEX AND THE PSYCHE THROUGH EXPERIMENTATION WITH DRUGS GROW LESS EXCITING OVER TIME. IF THEY SURVIVE TO TEACH THE MATURE SECOND STAGE OF DEVELOPMENT, THAT FIRST STAGE DEVELOPMENT THAT FELT LIKE LIBERATION, IN HINDSIGHT -TO A 30, 40, OR 50 YEAR OLD PERSON- SEEMS ABSURD, CHILDISH AND RECKLESS. UNFORTUNATELY, SOME PEOPLE MAY NEVER GRADUATE THEIR SEXUAL PROCLIVITIES. HOWEVER, THOSE THAT HAVE EDUCATION, WEALTH AND INFLUENCE BEGIN TO SEE THE NEED TO ESTABLISH SELF RESPECT BY SELF CORRECTION OF THOSE THINGS THAT WERE VERY IMPORTANT THEN WHILE IN THAT STATE OF IMMATURITY. OF COURSE THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS LIKE EPSTEIN & MAXWELL, WEINSTEIN, COMBS AND PEOPLE THAT HAVE CREATED THEIR OWN LITTLE NASTY WORLD OF FANTASY WHICH WE CAN SAFELY LIVE VICARIOUSLY THROUGH THEIR FANTASY WORLDS -JUST WAITING, OR AMAZED BY, THE TRAIN WRECK TO BEFALL. THE POINT HEREIN IS TO THE PHENOMENON OF A TURNING OF AMERICA YOUTH IN SOCIETY REJECTING THE CULTURE PRE-DETERMINED FOR THEM. HOWEVER, THE HIPPIES AND SUMMER OF LOVE MOVEMENT GREW UP AND EITHER SELF REGULATED THEIR LIFESTYLES , VALUES AND SELF WORTH OR BECAME A VICTIM OF THE WANTON COUNTER-CULTURE BEHAVIORS THEY EMBRACED. THE SUMMER OF LOVE ALSO BRED THE MANSON FAMILY BACK THEN. EVERY GENERATION WILL EXPERIENCE THIS BUT UNTIL THAT MATURITY SETS IN, YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO PROVIDE ANY GUIDANCE OR LOGIC TO HELP THEM MAKE BETTER SEXUAL CHOICES FOR LONGEVITY AND FULFILLMENT. THE SEXUAL LIBERATION OF THAT ERA SEEMS LIKE CANDY FOR THE PSYCHE OF TEENS TODAY LOOK TO CARVE THEIR OWN DESTINY AND CREATE THEIR OWN HAPPINESS. SURELY THE STUFF THAT MAKES SENSE NOW IN OUR MATURATION ARE SEEMINGLY UNNECESSARY AN “OLD HEAD” RULES TO AN EAGERLY PROMISCUOUS AND CURIOUSLY HORNY GENERATION NOW. SOME OF LIFE’S LESSONS CANT REALLY BE TAUGHT TO SOMEONE EMBUED WITH SUCH TEEN SPIRIT. THIS TEEN SPIRIT HAS TO BE EXHAUSTED AS IF FUEL BEFORE LIFE-LEARNING CAN BEGIN. THE ONLY CERTAINTY IS THAT IF YOU SURVIVE YOUR IMMATURITY STAGE WITH ANY ASPIRATIONS FOR YOUR FUTURE -FREE OF WANTON DRUG AND SEX USE- YOU WILL NOTICE THE BETTER SELF EMERGE QUITE NATURALLY!

[@ro8247]

I'm with Mandii a man that cooks is SUPER ATTRACTIVE and rare 🤔🤣 im manifesting this in 2024.. oh and who can speak another language 😛 TEACH ME SOMETHIN 😅😂

[@Abeillequipique]

OMG yes come in Paris Montmartre

[@prettyladdiee2261]

Also the video blacked about twice

[@SwaggDaddy1115]

This is sad lol. A whole lot of regret but yet, acknowledging they’re not changing their “standards” in fact they’re raising them. 😂😂😂

[@IllenePenguin222]

Mandi is cute, I met her at dreamville for like 2 secs, shorter than I expected lol

[@jackee_]

I strive to be that TJ Max girl tbh

[@miamiinnovember2668]

Building a relationship with your body 🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼

[@kemsandbeyond7052]

Being so for real in regards to the company firing a the lady for the pornographic content. I think it’s discriminating and workplacesDO NOT HAVE A RIGHT TO CONTROL PEOPLE LIVES OUTSIDE OF WORK tf

[@Chris_973]

MANifest ME weezy damn😅

[@miamiinnovember2668]

Caribbean men def know how to cook

[@cpeezy02]

Damn weezy 😍😍😍

[@ToDaMaxxx]

Mandii I think when you truly are into a dude you can see as a boyfriend STOP TALKING ABOUT HIM ON THE POD. Do that. Listening to the shit you were saying about your ex as you were loving him ctossed lines. Respect it and seperate that part of your life. Its not our business. Also Weezy listwning to her friends saying she is the hottest girl they know tell me her friends aint cute. No one on thia pod is that fly. They teally think theyre a catch here when they got more growing to do. Yall are heading towards 40. Not 20. Being lit and being self proclaimed cute doesnt mean that much and doesnt create long term relationships. I just still hear a lot of self absorbed bullshit from both of you. And answers the single question

[@kennethluckett4244]

I guess women these days think a relationship suppose be financial and sex but the best relationship u can be in is having mental connection and physical connection which leads to long term monogamy and marriage

[@smome777]

It's best not to paint with a wide brush and generalize. 👍🏾

[@kennethluckett4244]

@@smome777 I am not generalize it's dumb as men out here too. Y'all love them

[@sammiegreen3365]

They're not from the south 😂😂😂 we through down n tx

[@likelovetothelost]

3rd comment! Happy New Year 🎊

[@jessicacastro4346]

Mandi’s voice been sexy 🥰

[@cpiercejr]

Maturing nicely 👍🏽

[@jboogiboo]

We can definitely see him lol

[@WhoIsTheeMeister]

That sounds like love bombing. Can we stop with all these new titles. It’s just simply manipulation and immaturity!

[@SOPERALISHA]

❤❤❤❤

[@PourLaMourDeLargent]

He knew she had low self esteem that's why he said it.

[@prestonlhouse]

Spartan warriors were strong, brave....Bi warriors

[@mschasity78]

Mmm mmm mmm Mandii

[@cdownin]

oh how i missed the live show.. i stopped watching for a while because yall dogging your ex's then i started watching again to catch up and boom missed the live show in my city by 30 days.. smh

[@irenegonzalez9122]

I am weezy I wanna a vato but always want a lady tooo 😂

[@godlovesusall8115]

I think it's important for a man to have the lifestyle and you'll see how much he's love bombing you by how authentic it feels for his tax bracket. And btw, the love bombing can last up to 3 years until the crumbs start to come in, depending on what this man's plan is for you.

[@syckindahead]

#yeahheaux

[@Dr.Beetlejuice110]

To answer the question, I don't think so. With the rise of the manosphere and the rise of the interest in traditionalism....I think we are more stuck in stereotypes, assumptions and the ghosts of the past than ever before. This disrupts and holds our sexuality hostage.

[@tedjamison2037]

No man will really take yall seriously due to the way yall move but yall continue to live yall lives and be great

[@oliviaoil]

shutup

[@genovasquez8361]

i always said when i was younger, How you get it a woman, is how you keep her. I lead with DDDK because thats something i can keep up. i dont start off doing something 100% thats not me. Because i know i cant keep it up. if i cant get you with DDDK ON REGULAR., then your not my type.

[@BarryTaylor-b7e]

Explains neither of them are married

[@starrjackson6226]

you can kinda see the guy wheezy showed on the app. idk if yall meant to leave that in

[@meganrenee5581]

Such a rea a** convo...

[@kennethluckett4244]

Women need to date for mental connection and not financial it's so 4 feeling to be in relationship like that

[@marlon8946]

No he attracted to her body

[@cpeezy02]

Lol women 🤣 😂

[@kenyoung149]

Not being rude but these two going to be 50 yrs old having this same convo