Why 80% of men lack self confidence (and how to fix it)

[@kango963]

_"World is changing tide that does not give a shit."_ Find video summary below.

[@kango963]

*Safeguard or reestablish your confidence* Often certain external agents destroy your self-esteem/confidence/curiosity/initiating instincts resulting to the deterioration of confidence. Hence, to counter this explore (an integral part of being curious) and unleash your true potential. Don't be bound by your circumstances.

[@kango963]

*Visualisation: Fake it till you make it.* Your self perception will shape how people treat you. Hence, retrospect, draft a prototype of your best version including minute details about your body language, appearance, clothing, tone, pitch, attitude etc. Implementing and sticking to it would gradually infuse those characteristics within your baseline personality. Now you get a taste of self-improvement urging you to scale further.

[@kango963]

*Always understand:* Inner freedom is more a prerequisite to be confident than your physical conditions.

[@kango963]

*Way forward:* 1. Erik Erikson's model of Psychosocial Development 2. kzbin.info/www/bejne/rp6VlGqIa61kqaM

[@Amanreal98]

What a legend! I really appreciate you taking the time to summarize it. More power to you

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kahi dino k baad video dekha maza aagaya bhai and congrats for 1k.

[@Amanreal98]

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really helpful

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[@Amanreal98]

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[@Amanreal98]

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[@dhananjaytrivedi8790]

😮 I am amazed that how a person who only have communcation skills is growing NO THUMNAIL NO EDITING NO NOTHING Now i am feeling that my content is worse than you😢

[@Amanreal98]

Journey of a thousand miles always start with one step. Just find our your own unique way of playing this game on KZbin and try to play well at it. My game is to simply turn on the camera and talk. I dont focus on anything else like editing, thumbnail, etc. I can do it really well because of my communication skills. But you might need to find your own original style of content creation.

[@dhananjaytrivedi8790]

@Amanreal98 I just wanna know how you can do this thing easily like just put on camera and talk ? Kabhi atakte nahi beech me ya bhul jaate ho kuch I also want to speak like this !

[@Amanreal98]

​​@@dhananjaytrivedi8790 sometimes jab main atak jata hoon, I cut those parts out. But that's the maximum limit of my editing. But 90% of the time, I go for one-take shot; I record the whole damn thing at once, like human to human talk, and I post it. Editing, thumbnail, those things take a lot of excess time. They eat away my energy that I prefer to use for creating content daily. Daily raw and real content > well editted videos. Here are few tips for you- 1. Figure out at what time of the day you have pumped level of energy. Shoot your videos at that time only. Personally, I try to record after my workout which is around 8 pm every night. Thats when I'm pumped. 2. Just put your phone or camera somewhere, hit record button and speak your mind the out unfiltered way. Make it a one-take shot. Dont create multiple clips and then edit them into one. It's an energy killer. You build up your energy as you progress through your video length, so make sure that you're taking a one take shot only. If necessary, trim out the fluff afterwards from that one piece and render it clean. 3. Jot down some points on a piece of paper to retain the flow of content. 4. Dont worry too much about how you look (you'll improve it along the way). Instead, look at the lens and imagine that behind your phone, there is a helpless person who is eagerly and desperately waiting for you to deliver your content because it is going to change his life. So, focus all your energy on HOW you communicate. It's HOW you talk that impacts more than WHAT you talk about. Hope it helps, bro

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