As someone with crippling anxiety and being extremely introverted. Everything to become a top tier freelancer makes me not want to pursue it any further. Deya you are so freaking awesome. This is some really valuable information. The reality of being a freelancer is freaking hard. This feels like something I have to force myself through an invisible brick wall. Like I have to smash my head through. Fear.
@Rebecca-qg8pb Жыл бұрын
Me too, but I have no choice 😔
@ximonwhhatt3796 Жыл бұрын
@@Rebecca-qg8pb how's it working out for you though? Are you quite stressed?
@Rebecca-qg8pb Жыл бұрын
Its impossible to close a deal without a call, some even want a zoom meeting, I am so stressed. I am afraid my shyness might be a turnoff for them or might make me look like a scammer, I wish everything can be handled over text.😔
@ximonwhhatt3796 Жыл бұрын
@@Rebecca-qg8pb I totally agree, it honestly kind of feels like a sales job when your a solo freelancer. I've seen some people hire a sales person that gets the clients and the designer just does the work with no distraction. Which is nice.
@hachikaizen6 ай бұрын
omg samee im trying to overcome that too
@VictoriaWrites6 ай бұрын
I love that your cats are usually part of your video
@ab1otic2228 ай бұрын
Number 4 really hurt! 😅😂 I'm working on it. Thanks for your videos, they have all so far been very encouraging and easy to relate to. You make becoming a freelancer really seem very possible.
@rosegold.sunset4749 Жыл бұрын
so far my fear of getting started (after I do my research and make a plan) is social media content creation. Reels and video have become so popular the last few years and the camera quality keeps getting better. I'm camera shy overall. Even for KZbin, everyone has a certain room layout and camera angles/lighting that's become the standard. I know I can do it but these make it a bigger obstacle than it needs to be, which makes me anxious and procrastinate.
@tobeablessing Жыл бұрын
I so feel you! I’ve been binging 1000s of videos (which is great) but it’s to help me stall because starting is terrifying
@tiffanygordon-co6 ай бұрын
I have to say Daya, your content is so good. And you've been helping me along this new freelancing journey that I'm on. I find it that if I just do all of the stuff you've outlined I should be able to at least land one successful client.
@duailytami4135 Жыл бұрын
Hey freelancer! If you're reading this, I hope you gain clarity + take action towards your goals 🤍 progressive overload is the key ✨️ stay focused and have a productive day ✨️ PS. Don't forget to rest. Plssss🥦
@Marios_CG2 ай бұрын
You provide a huge amount of valuable information here. Actionable and grounded. We are so often held back by fear in freelancing (and, I can attest, as KZbinr)... thank you!
@morteramicadesryne Жыл бұрын
i don't normally watch this type of videos especially before sleeping. but this is really helpful and motivating. thank you
@YourfriendRaymond4 ай бұрын
Love the practical exercises, so many people need these skills. This to the point value packed style is something I'd love to see more success youtubers adopt!
@sheepikabeepika Жыл бұрын
This was so helpful Deya! Thank you :) I'm loving the content you're put out. Came here from your newsletter (good touchpoint ;)) Can't wait for you to blow up 💃
@MyNameIsDeya Жыл бұрын
Ahhh thanks Deepika! Glad it was helpfullllll
@amuchoki65 ай бұрын
Great Deya! I love how you present your insights in a 'Literal' way.
@antonialigeti29322 жыл бұрын
Such a great way of explaining this! Love your strategic thinking!!
@MyNameIsDeya2 жыл бұрын
So glad you liked it, Antonia! Appreciate you watching. :)
@bf-thinking6 ай бұрын
Hi Deya! Thanks for the great advice and for breaking it down into such a helpful structure. You clearly know what you're talking about. It's also great that you dont line up another video, but tell us: go out and start working. An advice we should follow much more often.😅 I found it interesting that you included "applying for openings" under "passive bucket". That's eye opening. Like many others, I'm really bad at putting myself out in front of people and just make a connection. The good ol' fear of rejection...😢 I got to know so many interesting people because people reached out to me. So, I, technically, know its a counterproductive idea. Its time that I finally tackle that fear!💪
@MyNameIsDeya6 ай бұрын
so glad you found it helpful! btw if you're struggling with the rejection side (you're not alone!) -- this video may also help: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qISrg3h8jMdnZ68&ab_channel=Deya :)
@bf-thinking6 ай бұрын
@@MyNameIsDeya Awesome! Setting rejection goals is just what I need. It's liberating. 😃 I often (not always) beat writers' block by telling myself that my first draft will be crappie anyway, so I might just as well get it all out without looking at the form. Same concept, I guess.
@ashan_us2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! Felt personal hahaha! much needed!
@MyNameIsDeya2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful, Ashan!
@classychaos3942 жыл бұрын
I'm glad i found your channel!!❤
@MyNameIsDeya2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you found it, too!!!
@roxanamegyesi69912 ай бұрын
Awesome video! Inspirational and kick ass😀 literally! Thanks a million! ❤
@itsbossin2 ай бұрын
12:12 This part was so wholesome 😂❤.. hey deya, thank you so much for your insightful videos!! I really love watching them, they always add a lot to my learning journey.. cheers!
@tumblingrosesstudio3 ай бұрын
Thank you SO MUCH #neededthis
@mohibquadri40532 жыл бұрын
11:40 so sweet 💛 they're so lovely ! I also have one cat in my home he's the stress reliever & soul of our family, always brings a joy on our face by just being around their innocence.
@MyNameIsDeya2 жыл бұрын
I knowww - they're so cute!
@ulrike67912 жыл бұрын
Very insightful and helpful!
@MyNameIsDeya2 жыл бұрын
So glad, Ulrike!
@tusharhegde817410 ай бұрын
Super cool.God bless you with lot of health and happiness
@IPremNishad2 ай бұрын
Love this video ✨
@crash_davis2 ай бұрын
Great video!!
@itsybitsy83857 ай бұрын
15:45 was so gold aka the "the math"
@lainsloth5 ай бұрын
*Leaves additional like for the cats🐱
@artekal3d14 күн бұрын
I think problem 3 is the most important because without it your freelance business would be... ...catastrophic!
@chrisdoukiris71326 ай бұрын
Great Video!
@lczd8 ай бұрын
By 17’ I thought I was listening to my therapist
@kianparas79742 жыл бұрын
A broken funnel needs a pumpkin-esque patch job to get those clients flowing!
@MyNameIsDeya2 жыл бұрын
Hahahahha - spot on!
@serendipityglory6 ай бұрын
I am a freelance full stack web developer and I've sent out a lot of cold DMs and most people are so kind and they respond but most of them say they don't need my services, I am contemplating freelancing in another field because it feels like web development might be one of the ones with low demand and a lot of supply. I don't know what to do
@tiffanygordon-co6 ай бұрын
I think there is still a need for web devs. Maybe you could try a different method of outreach? Also how long have you been cold pitching via DMs and have you been doing it consistently?
@serendipityglory6 ай бұрын
@@tiffanygordon-co I had a talk with someone and they told me to switch my target clients and I agree😅 I was definitely targeting the wrong people... Thanks Tiffany
@rayvinhubilla2289 Жыл бұрын
Huhu 😢 that last point…
@TheNickWrightChannel7 ай бұрын
Hey Deya! What's the drawing app you use to animate your ideas on screen? Example at 9:20! Thanks in advance!
@MyNameIsDeya6 ай бұрын
Procreate! :)
@TheNickWrightChannel6 ай бұрын
@@MyNameIsDeya Awesome, thank you!
@MarkFreedmanNY4 ай бұрын
Watch your videos at 2x? Seriously? I’ll miss so much important stuff if I don’t watch at 50% speed!
@himsingh8654 Жыл бұрын
Hello Deya! I saw your video and really enjoyed it. I was wondering if I could help you edit your videos and also make highly engaging shorts out of them?
@Rebecca-qg8pb Жыл бұрын
Can I send cold pitches with my phone?
@riyachatterjee2303 Жыл бұрын
If you don't mind, can I know where you started freelancing?
@MyNameIsDeya Жыл бұрын
Of course! Here are 2 videos where I talk about how I started freelancing & how I landed my first job: 1. kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y3zLl6mFnp55lc0 2. kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZjEoqp4o9l2o5o
@highlanderes5 ай бұрын
Awesome
@jmcsorley2 ай бұрын
You really didn't try to get us to watch more of your videos? It's almost like you actually want us to succeed 🤔
@mubashirgfx2 жыл бұрын
You are not active on Instagram?
@tumblingrosesstudio3 ай бұрын
3:30 How to do research 11:45, 5 touch points vs 2st date.... 18:30 exercises against fear
@isurus06 ай бұрын
haha cat
@Rafiq_Khawreen Жыл бұрын
OMG! You are so gorgeous. I was searching for scams in freelancing and then came across ur video on payment methods for freelancing. But I found that I was enjoying your video not because of the importance of the topic but because of your wonderful and cute English with your exceptional beauty that keeps me smiling when I watch your videos. 😊😊😊