Why A Pampered Child Has No Capability? Explained By Dr Velumani | Raj Shamani Clips

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[@pritic7456]

This clip need to be shown to all the parents of this generation

[@manishajadhav8879]

Dr Velumani Sir himself is school of life. Had opportunity to learn from him in Changemakers event in Mumbai every minute is life changing. Thank you Raj for bringing this wisdom to us .Attitude is the king.

[@binitkumar824]

His very first line got me... freedom matters the most..

[@user-ox3mn5eu2l]

Generalisation is so common....these podcasts and the content therein should be just consumed as opinion of individuals formed due to their unique experience of life. Youngsters should not be overwhelmed by such grand stories by old generation .. Live your life in your unique way and dont get swayed by Over inspirational individuals...As a 44 year old myself I can say this with experience ..Keep it simple and relax

[@reejuvideo456]

Let us not not take this and apply to every family. Exactly, if we start listening to 10 yr old , we will have house filled of digital toys and candies, and internet addict. WE Hindus know that soul reincarnated multiple time and become wiser. Even cultures that do not believe in reincarnation believe in "old soul" or "wise soul" concept.

[@srravaandewangan1356]

Great personality Dr. Velumani sir 🙏🙏

[@tejasreddy2621]

This man has come a long way, just watched this 5 mins clip without blinking, surely watching the whole podcast soon 😊

[@colourpencildrawingsart3309]

😂

[@arabhrocks6587]

That "biryani" part, touch my heart man. Thanks for video Raj.

[@ramaasandeep105]

Wow Hats of to the positive attitude

[@vidyamadamanchi7091]

He is absolutely right. It is more trusting the child. This is the culture we were brought up with. Please don’t give children all the toys of the world. They just more of it then. Let them toil for their own livelihood and understand the value of money and their responsibilities to other members of the family and society.

[@Tarotbyudyati]

Pampering is the not the reason for lost human skills. Irresponsibility (by parents) along with pampering is a dangerous combination. Parents' actions destroy, not just lives, nations too.

[@saishashi9978]

I totally understand u

[@DeltaDragoneditz]

10 year old boy taking decision in the family.. very hard to believe... may be yes if he is earning than father...

[@gray2056]

True ... 10 year old can take it ...

[@prathamwarang6185]

i true agree about what sir said so many youth wanted to do something but parents doesn't gave them freedom or they think my child in not capable enough to tackle the challenge they give you shed so to be under there shed the will please you or rage on your talk nonsense stuff which doesn't make any sense on that given work or situation etc etc that lead to lower level of confidence and decide to give up at the end

[@DidierPeroni]

Dr Velumani is a rock star.

[@Capt.Gagan.Boparai]

Shared with my kids..!

[@bishnusethi9683]

Fact finding... Real experience he has shared....

[@maniveera8042]

Correct, these old guys have always some problems with younger generation. See correct, parents have to be little tough & careful in handling children nowadays. But don’t always see the children with pessimism & need to encourage them to work harder, sincere honest. But end of the day,only even you hard work also, the luck & blessings of God must be on your side. So don’t worry, even though you are pampered child but remember to give your 100%, every thing will come up & be happy always with what you have

[@b2shubh]

Sabka life alag hai.. life is not about simplifying events.

[@kundankumar-eq3mc]

at 10yrs of age i was counting starts .anyone other guys ..

[@dearsariya06]

I really enjoyed this episode !👍

[@highonlife4719]

Those who are going to discuss this man here can't understand him he's got knowledge experience life surviving skills I request everyone please be all ears on him🎁

[@harry5952]

My son is 8yrs old.we give freedom whenever he wants to put leave to takewando class or tution or school.we give freedom to play till 2 hrs.we never compell him to get more marks .we allow him to watch mobile laptop for 1 hour .we bring him to malls outing everywhere.but atlast he said.you are not allowing me you never take me somewhere.you never give freedom.everyday he is arguing.

[@apoorvarawat818]

I loved this episode

[@WhiteFoxx251]

He's true and I was a pampered child, teenager even till early 30s,, I didn't achieve as per my capabilities in comparison to my friends. Sir is true.

[@sanatanhindurashtra8612]

Having freedom to fail that's when success comes near you.

[@naina763]

Parents don't give freedom coz they think my child will forget me... N will not b my slave fr rest of my life.... Coz slaves can't b set free

[@BusinessIdeas-]

That Biryani statement was on point

[@AyanshKapoor-ew2il]

Yahi baat mom bataya kartu thi 😮💯

[@jayhotours7138]

Thanks a lot for the video bro...

[@shantanumishra4155]

What a experience 😊

[@praveenvenugopal9920]

In that case Ambani's kids were pampered so basis this gentleman's opinion, they lack any skills needed to succeed in life.😮

[@shanisankar5345]

This is the real life based on experience....its very very difficult for a normal no struggling person to understand these things...

[@G_E_E_T_A]

Nice advice 👍👌

[@nikhiljadhav2752]

@raj shamani After the explanation abt pampered vs parented You need to ask velumani that his children are pempered or parented... Kya podcasters banega re tu 😂

[@lemonginger001]

chomu berozgar he podcase lene vala

[@nitpro]

😅👌

[@Suralibalistham1168]

Par woh bolte hai unka business hai ​@@lemonginger001

[@pradnyajoshi4636]

Very true

[@SA-hy7ef]

What I understand is his father was incompetent and the mother unloaded her responsibility on her son & made a clean escape.

[@thomasastha9007]

His parents as he mentioned were not educated/ illiterate,

[@kokilaa89]

What he said abt biryani... Someone translate pls

[@veenakumari47]

We can't generalized it...every child every parenting and situation is different...all are not that matured to lead the family

[@jayanthk78]

I think Dr V is right; but the truth needs more explanation than he enunciates in the video. The critical point is, how his parents step out of his life. Parenting means knowing when to step in and step out. Stepping in is extremely important as much as stepping out. I hope parents seeing this dont take the wrong lesson from this video.

[@reejuvideo456]

Let us not not take this and apply to every family. Exactly, if we start listening to 10 yr old , we will have house filled of digital toys and candies, and internet addict. WE Hindus know that soul reincarnated multiple time and become wiser. Even cultures that do not believe in reincarnation believe in "old soul" or "wise soul" concept.

[@AmanKumar-qg2on]

my mother is supporting me post marriage at age of 29 as I am not esteblishinh my self in my carrier and job

[@abhisekht9261]

Pampered brats will not accept this😂

[@arjun0764]

Hi raj😊

[@poojaaggarwal7485]

Jab bariyani achi hai to recipe m q experiment karna🫡

[@sheilalewis2659]

Too much arrogance in the message. Everything is situational.

[@physicalscience9915]

Virat Kohli was a pampered child he himself admitted it.

[@sageofsixpaths98]

He wasn't pampered, but was given more freedom than his older brother, that's why he was able to do what he wanted.

[@physicalscience9915]

@@sageofsixpaths98 he admitted it himself.

[@sapnashah136]

May be 1 exception

[@sapnashah136]

​agree

[@ishanbharatiya6774]

Physicalscience --- Virat Kohli was pampered but not spoilt. You should know the difference between being pampered and being spoilt. Generally speaking pampered children means "spoilt" children which Velumani sir is rightly referring, children who don't work hard, no discipline,no goals just wasting time on useless activities, company of useless friends and parents don't say anything to them.When Virat Kohli said he was pampered,he meant since he was youngest last child to his parents( out of his 3 siblings) his parents pampered him more than his siblings.But his parents instilled discipline in him,made him work hard, daily go for cricket practise,not waste time on useless activities or useless friends ,gave him freedom to have big goals in life. Both Velumani sir and Virat are correct in their way.Its you who is confused.General definition of pampered children means spoilt children which Velumani sir is rightly referring.

[@nitpro]

What has the guest's son turned out to be... 😅... Few know...

[@KejriwalBhakt]

No Rahul Gandhi was harmed

[@Keerthi-prasad]

Rahul gandhi is not hurt., he has resistance unlike feku

[@KejriwalBhakt]

@@Keerthi-prasad He has resistance so much so that he gets irritated by questions. Unlike feku, Rahul Gandhi was given everything in platter. A dishonest usurper. How can someone fail at something so many times and yet not learn anything? Absolutely dumb

[@noticeboard249]

Aisa nahi hai bhai...pampered child bhi bahut achhe hote hain...Aur jyada viksit hote hain,unko dabaya nahi jata,unko azadi di jati hai... Kisi ek example se manavta ko paal pos nahi sakte😊😊😊

[@dm5665]

He is talking about the poor and middle class. Not a rich class

[@Keerthi-prasad]

Save India from Modi

[@kusheswar]

brief more- "why"

[@user-jd7gi3kl8i]

Rahul Gandhi not harmed here😅