Why Are Godly Women Struggling to Find Men of Faith? | Paul Washer

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[@orzg1611]

I was that young woman. I was and am the pianist at my little country church and couldn't find a man who would go to church with me faithfully. I heard people say to me that I should leave that church and go somewhere else before I "grew old at that piano" When I was 30 God brought my husband into my life and now Praise God we go to church together 3 times a week! I am a testimony that God can indeed "prepare a table in the wilderness" if you put Him first in your life.

[@learningtheworld.5255]

As a man, I am glad God gave you a husband. I one day wish to become the husband a woman is praying for. I also pray for a wife. I honestly do not wish to remain single all my life. I am 30 now.

[@raniesther9864]

Praise the Lord. We are not alone in this world..Jesus Christ is with us always and He carries us in His precious Bossom..He care and love us unconditionally..let the world say whatever they want to. Hebrew chapter 12 speaks about what we should do.

[@CristianVillanueva-w9p]

Hooray ❤❤❤❤ I feel super HAPPY for OUR FATHER NEVER FAILS TO IMPRESSED AND TO DELIVER ACCORDING TO HIS GRACE... BLESSED ARE YOU AND BLESSED ARE THEM FOR WE ALL BELONG TO THE LORD OUR CREATOR ❤❤❤

[@marj6377]

30? Oooh, you were so old. I’m 46 and still waiting. Sigh.

[@JusticeBajaj]

Cringe ewww

[@lynnieb1396]

So tired of being alone. I pray the Lord helps those of us who desire a godly husband (or wife for men) find one

[@carrie_s1619]

I asked the Lord to fill my void and fill me with His precious Love and thank God I don’t feel alone. It’s amazing what He does when we place our faith and surrender our all! Blessings

[@Unknown_3-p4o]

Trust on God's plan in Jesus name amen

[@kobinaanso5507]

God's gonna come through for you, in Jesus name, Amen.🙏🏾

[@Cebsoleman]

You are never alone with Christ, I know exactly how you feel but we just have to trust Gods plan and not try and force one of our own

[@tylerwerthmuller2005]

We are looking, but many of us are afraid of the modern landscape that wants you to weaponize everything against us. We are so afraid of approaching because we know that in this modern world, that single act could cost us everything by false accusations. Yes, it may be cowardice behind this, but we have seen far too many men fall victim by "simply trusting". You have to invite us out of our shells if you want us to be courageous again. What might have seemed metaphorically like a small burn in the past can potentially for us turn into an inferno that can cost us everything all because we took the step we were told to take. Be inviting to guys who love God, please, that's how you get us to ask you out!

[@hotmessmama3915]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I was that woman. Married at 38 first baby within a year. Stay strong in the Lord stay focused on Him. Stop worrying about boys enjoy your life single and let God bring you a MAN.

[@kidwellmegan]

Yes! Same!

[@kidwellmegan]

Us too! Me and my husband! Waited for him to get to me. 3 babies in 4 yrs. All healthy pregnancies because I had not done any of the hormone disrupting things that promiscuous ppl take.

[@jessicacooper2993]

❤❤

[@god563616]

Amen🙏

[@EYExINxTHExLENS]

I'm 32, this gives me hope.

[@oratuwe8114]

That was me! Had resigned myself to being single. Married at 38 to a man who God miraculously brought from another country

[@Saturns48]

I'm 42 and still praying, but I don't know anymore❤

[@deleted-u5g]

was that man a Muslim? 🧐

[@Gobig4l1f3]

Goes both ways. 36, single, no kids, never married. Waiting for a righteous woman to enter my life.

[@rickduvall9265]

Same, but I’m 45 and living in a small town. Waiting on the lord. 1 Cor 7 gives me peace though.

[@Jong853]

Not really, we men have the privilege of waiting, also, she’s not going to walk in your life, try something new, put yourself out there, stop being so atomized and alone

[@rickduvall9265]

@@Jong853 I thought about this too, but that sounds allot like taking matters into your own hands rather than letting the lord do his work. In a small town, putting yourself out there means going to a bar, or using a dating site. Both of those options are not where you will find a proverbs 31 girl. So, I go to church, but I find that I’m the only one in my age group there. It’s the grandparents bringing the grand children.

[@Jong853]

@ brother, trying something new from what you’ve been doing. is not putting things into your hands. If anything, the fear you harbor with women shows me more about your lack of faith in god. First off, that you assume there’s a 100% proverbs 31 woman out there. None of on this world are innocent, and if you believe them to be innocent. You are being sold false goods. Part of your job as the man, is to refine her, and make her into the proverb 31 woman. This is about a covenant, this isn’t about you. You want perfection? you need Jesus, not a wife. You seek Jesus, and show everyone love. there will be woman there. But that woman is your helper, and the woman you die for, but she doesn’t complete you. You must be complete in full submission of Christ, to be the man worthy of submission.

[@rickduvall9265]

@@Jong853 you said it, she is to be my “helper”. Unfortunately, in a town of 6500 people, I can count on one hand the number of single women in my age group, and they all want a man that will take care of them and pay their bills. That is incredibly not helpful. So, waiting on the lord to provide her to me, by putting the things in motion, because it’s out of my control is really my only option unless I sell the business which would enable me to move somewhere else.

[@kurarisusa]

Finding a man in my generation who is genuinely and wholeheartedly trying to follow God is a real struggle.

[@vbmb]

@@kurarisusa are you genuinely and wholeheartedly following God?

[@Loveispatient_2024]

Its IMPOSSIBLE

[@Nate-or9lw]

Lmao, nice try. U think finding a good girl is any easier? It's literally harder tbh

[@DestructoDisk]

What's your body count?

[@williambowman1317]

Are you genuinely and wholeheartedly following God? If you were, you would submit to a man.

[@VynthePoet-n3s]

God make me into the man you designed me to be. Grow me up. Mature me. Humble me. Discipline me. Teach me to respect authority. Remove all laziness from my heart. Teach me to be a hard worker. Make me into the MAN you designed me to be. In Jesus’ name amen.

[@Christforeverglorified]

Amen!

[@MichaelVandeventer-c3q]

The responsibility is yours stop asking God to do what you're supposed to do.. don't you see how that's just absolutely destroying your responsibility

[@demoladigital]

​@@MichaelVandeventer-c3q he's looking at the whole thing through the wrong perspective.

[@paulrivalto1974]

@MichaelVandeventer-c3q - you have given quite possibly the worst and most dangerous advice that I have ever heard in my 69 years of living! Why.... you might say? Because I have lived that advice for much of my life and failed miserably and I have seen many do and are doing the same! John 15:5 records a great teaching of Christ Himself. In that verse He says "apart from Me, you can do nothing." John 15:5b. Until I ceased my own striving.....only then did I surrender everything in me to Christ and His " All authority " ( Matthew 28:18 ) Greek word Exousia meaning " Out of Being " the very being of Jehovah God Himself! Know Christ....Know The Father.... John 17:3 surrender all in order to give all to Christ and in that life changing moment, you can receive the gift of eternal life, the gift of an eternal relationship in Christ to the Father, again John 17:3. The gift of New Sight, the gift of New Hearing, The gift of a transformed Heart!

[@demoladigital]

@VynthePoet-n3s God has done His part already, which is to give you The Word. It's you part that should come into play now, which is to study the Word of God, grow, and transform your mindset, receive wisdom. Many don't study the Word for themselves, they keep waiting on others to serve them tidbits, the milk of The Word of God, as if they are still growing babies. Don't be like them. Get a Bible and study the Word of God for yourself.

[@Hephzibah66]

Not just women of that age. Older women too!

[@AnEmerald]

Yeah that's what he just said.

[@JoeBidensLastFart]

The older ones had even more time to reject hundreds of men in their younger years, not buying the crying anymore you had your chances over and over

[@delilahspivey1093]

Exactly!

[@buyisiwewendytembe4841]

True..and we waited hey..never worried about anything before 30.. because we believed that " "We must delight ourselves to the Lord and He shall grant us the desires of our Hearts".❤

[@lovetofly32]

Well duuhh! What's a man want with a older woman!? She had all the opportunities in her young years to lock down a man and then expect a man to scoop her up when she's too old to have children?! Whaaat? Ohhh for love. Ok.. yeah. Well we know women only love conditionally so that doesn't benefit him either.

[@j.w.31]

I spent most of my 20’s diligently dating as a God-fearing man. All it did was get me to my 30’s with heartbreak. I cannot be shamed back into dating.

[@garrettstephens91]

This is 100% true. On the flip side, I know lotd of Godly men who don't waste their time and are mature in the same age range who think the same thing. They are wondering where all the Godly, good, traditional women are, because when they look around all they see are women who are of the world. I think good men and good women are unintentially hiding from each other because they both get pushed into the world, get hurt, then that either breaks them or makes them not look in the correct spots. It's quite sad. There are few good people these days and they all need to find each other.

[@surfboy344]

You make a good point. I don't know where God fearing, honest, hard working and financially responsible people find each other.

[@Isabel2002]

Dating apps have been normalized in the last decade. They removed the “effort” needed to meet people. The (unexpected) result is that you can only meet effortless people there, while people like yourself asking this question get lost in the noise. To find people who want to be engaged in the relationship, paradoxically, you don’t have to try making it easier, you have to try making it harder. It worked for me.

[@davidm4566]

You don't find many good traditional women even in church. Churches often talk about how a man should be, but the rare instance of when Prov 31 is brought up about how a woman should act, it gets real quiet with nervous laughter.

[@DaDitka]

Very true. Remember the old saying, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." Many people are at that mode, and on a personal level, I cannot blame them.

[@davidm4566]

We really don't find traditional women any more, even in church. It's not impossible but very rare. To the point where there are youtube channels dedicated to being Trad Wives, and they completely stand out like they are aliens and are often ridiculed. To fully drive the point home, churches will lecture about men taking responsibility all day long, but the rare case when Prov 31 is brought up about how a woman should act, sit back and observe the reaction. There will probably be scoffs and snickers. The common response is, "I'm not respecting someone who isn't worthy of it." And the even sadder part is that being "worthy" of respect is subjective, so you you will find men who are trying, but unable to please their wives, and respect is withheld because they are viewed as unworthy.

[@Ydiana1997]

He's spitting facts about society nowadays.. May God bless us with pious spouses ❤.

[@kermitdafrog8]

Most of us good Godly men are sick of what we see and are tired of being used that we've almost completely given up. A lot of us would rather stay single than deal with the wickedness of today.

[@Julie-g2w]

Are you dating Godly women?

[@chrismoore58]

@Julie-g2w The divorce rate in the church is the same as outside the church. Both initiated about 80% of the time by women.​

[@kermitdafrog8]

@@Julie-g2w many profess to know Christ but few actually do.

[@kermitdafrog8]

@@Julie-g2w some of the most promiscuous women are in church.

[@EmilGhiurau]

And that’s what the girls are saying too!

[@dejoutdoors]

Wow I’m 25 and my husband is 26 we just had this conversation about being the examples we didn’t have in terms of life and family - the young generation cannot play the blame game we have to simply become learned in Christ and grow with integrity to the instructions of God’s word. Gods word was the best “mentor” or “teacher” for us

[@MichaelVandeventer-c3q]

@@dejoutdoors please tell me you haven't actually read the Bible. If you actually live your life based on the teachings of the Bible you'll be in jail at the end of the day. The Bible to factually incorrect and morally bankrupt

[@GodisMyOath524]

“Some of you are laughing” 💔 exactly what he said. Prime example of disorganized or just a pure lack of priorities

[@anothercat1300]

They're laughing because the pastor is out of touch with the plight of young men. Speak for yourself.

[@upliftinggod-eh8ur]

I believe it's not only the young ones....I'm 56, single... never married.... Praying and believing for a husband in Jesus' name!🙏

[@susmithakaturi9126]

It's bz of male pastor's. Watch Terri Savelle Foy videos and vision boards. She helps dream of a husband,house and career.. how to fulfill quickly . Write down the vision in pictures. Read Paul Yonggi Cho ..4th dimension of Holy Spirit

[@happyblessed1858]

@@susmithakaturi9126This practice does not seem to come from God. It almost sounds like witchcraft. Beware of human traditions or things made up by humans to place our faith and hope in other things instead of Jesus and what He asks. Prayer is the only thing that is needed and God will provide if it is meant to be and good for the person asking for it.

[@god563616]

Yes it 100% has nothing to do with age. It's everyone in this hour. It's sad to see

[@god563616]

​@@susmithakaturi9126I know and have been following Terri and read Cho's reading and it's still my case. God's in control.

[@tuitionfreeruralschool]

God will perfect all that concerns you in Jesus name

[@tgood10tg]

It’s strange because I am in the same position as a man looking for a godly woman, “women’s empowerment” promotes women to embody the temptations of the flesh and it in turn makes them “strong independent women who don’t need men” and considering God is our Heavenly Father who sent His Son down to save us, what does that last quoted statement truly entail?

[@LoveCoffe56]

You go to church for women and find there women who follow temptation of flesh? Or do you look for women on the street? There is nothing wrong with beeing strong woman. It is up to men to be stronger and still hold value that surpasses what a female can achieve on her own. Stop being lazy and stop whining. Nothing manly about that

[@dreamsi]

I’m 30 and this video and message hit home. I have recently returned to my faith in God and I’m so lonely and wishing that one day I will meet a man who will walk with God with me and who we can grow together with. I had a lovely partner but he broke up with me and he does not want to walk with God with me… I won’t give up and will keep my focus on God and living life according to His word and way Jesus taught us. I’m trusting that God will bring me what is right for me when it is right ❤

[@brittontwood]

I can speak from both my experience and dating app statistics that in general (with exceptions of course) women today have higher standards than ever before, which causes them to turn down good men and then complain that they’re single. I’ve been a believer for 8 years and have been turned down by almost every single girl I’ve ever asked out. None of my family or friends can figure out why. Many of them are delusional in their expectations. And regarding the statistics, women “swipe right” or like roughly 4% of men’s profiles, meanwhile men like 35% of women’s. So almost 10x more. I know there are true exceptions out there of great, godly women who haven’t been pursued, but we have to acknowledge the fact that there are more godly men out there who are being rejected repeatedly than we think.

[@j.w.31]

The Tinder numbers are much worse

[@WilliamAkins-rw2hv]

You're so right. I have a suggestion. Forget the apps and online profiles. Even if you're in a church, visit several other churches in your city. Don't go directly against your beliefs, but visit a few churches you may have driven past these 8 years without ever walking into. No guarantees, but after spending that long looking, why not?

[@VancouverInvestor]

Men swipe right on 50%. Women on the top 5%. They consider 80% of men unattractive. Just how life is these days.

[@LouisC777]

Well said

[@giovannipasquale2726]

Maybe gods protecting you from the wrong women, maybe you’re not actually being rejected. Give thanks to the rejections, and endurance you’ve been tested to use, it will make having the right women that much sweeter when she’s in your life. Gods got you bro!

[@edivaniasanta8041]

May God send a Christian man to my daughter. Thank you God, you know our hearts and needs ❤🙏

[@loganblackwood2922]

If he did, he's probably in her friend zone for not being 6'6.

[@edivaniasanta8041]

​@@loganblackwood2922A friend is good too, since he has a good influence on her.

[@giorgiogiorgetti3939]

​@@loganblackwood2922Yeah. Women have Unlimited options. If they are single it's only their fault

[@ripvanwinkle1537]

​@@loganblackwood2922nahhh bro 😂😂😂

[@edwardperkins1225]

I've seen a speaker talk about getting complaints from men about not being able to find a godly woman. They weren't met with anything like this kind of simpathy given to women here. He handwaved it away, acted like they should focus on other things, and said their "singleness is a gift." This is basically telling them: there's nothing they can do about it, it's their destiny to be single, marriage must be bad if singleness can be a gift, and also no one cares about helping them. Please stop saying this to men if you want them at your church.

[@j.w.31]

This is all churches, today.

[@edwardperkins1225]

@@j.w.31 Neither of us have been to all churches only a few of them. It might be common, but how would you pin down how common?

[@davidm4566]

Yes godly traditional men are very common. Godly tradition women are extremely rare. By the way, most of the godly men are in the friendzone. That should be the first place to look.

[@DaDitka]

You have absolutely nailed it. I don't know much about Washer, but I sincerely hope he has said the same thing to women with the exact, same level of frequency, volume, and conviction that he is here saying to us men. It's not that he is wrong, mind you. As a man myself, I am convinced of his words and need to do better as a godly man. But when the tables are turned and men are dismissed and scorned for having the same issues, that will show itself in how many men stop attending church, stop praying, stop even bothering with godly living Men deal in the realm of "risk and reward." If we do not think that the reward is worth the risk, we won't take the risk.

[@davidm4566]

@@DaDitkaour society is at war with what a man is. The media says a man should transition, play on swim team with women, etc. Or that they should be mild, weak, and submissive to their wife. Men have been ridiculed and belittled for decades on tv, commercials, movies, etc. even pastors will take those little jabs at men in the services and the congregation will erupt in laughter (but if the pastor says anything funny at a women's expense, it goes eerily quiet). And then we have pastors calling out men to be the leaders (which they should) and holding us 100% responsible for everything that goes wrong in society and the family. They give men all of the responsibility, but none of the honor. For example, at many Mother's Day church services, they go out of their way to honor moms, but the same churches will just give another lecture to dads on Father's Day. Yes, men are the leaders and we need to step up and be worthy of honor, but it's time for the church to call out BOTH genders for what we do wrong and start giving back honor to the men. Otherwise the church is just joining in with the World to tear down men without building them up.

[@crystalspencer3185]

My daughter 27 yrs old feels that everyday. She is a Godly beautiful woman. God please hear my prayer guide her to her godly partner🙏🙏🙏

[@MichaelVandeventer-c3q]

You can sit around and have magic thoughts that do nothing or you can actually try to help. When you say God will I'm assuming you just mean and doctorate it into the religion you convince them of it the same age they were convinced of Santa Claus

[@stacy-annmorgan6685]

27 and have very little hope to find anyone.

[@SindyMagadla-lq9mg]

I can relate,I also have two Godly beautiful and hard working girls and hard to find a good man

[@j.f.w4425]

​@@SindyMagadla-lq9mgEither their standards are too high or their range is too low(your country isn't the only country in the world)

[@peanut_toast999]

​@@MichaelVandeventer-c3q if you knew God, you'd understand what they're saying. I didn't till I did.

[@pandaluv25]

This man just described my ex. We had a child out of wedlock but I loved him very much. At the time I didn't know God as well as I do today but I knew him to some extent. In 2021 my ex assaulted me not for the first time but for the first time I had a new understanding of just how abusive our relationship was. I was granted no contact and in 2022 I made the decision to learn, heal, and grow. I didn't want to ever get hurt again so I told myself and my family I was done with dating and relationships. In 2022 I met my now husband. He's the dad every kid should have. I have no doubt in my mind that my husband is a blessing from the one who loves me most, God. ❤ I can feel God's love for me through my husband. Have faith in God ladies and gentlemen. Don't lean on your own understanding. When things get hard seek God. When you don't understand tell him so. Ask for the wisdom and strength to learn and grow from the difficult situations you find yourself in. God is love, God is strength, God is wisdom, God is good! ❤

[@mandie144]

Praise God for these rare pastors that go beyond thier comfort zone to tell us the truth.

[@ohheyitsdee89]

I’m 35 and single with no prospects and it’s sad to say but I’ve pretty much given up on meeting someone. The only thing I can do now is have faith in God and his plan for my life.

[@Skyscraper2015]

I am single and 34. I have handed that to God, at least I hope I have. It makes it tough but also don't forget God should never be a second option. It's not romance or God. It can be both but it should always be God. He can give you what no man or woman, (whichever applies to you) can give. I speak as one who is very much single. I have had a few women show interest in me but I am not sure about if they are right. So I basically really thanked them for their interest. But said that I hope they find a man suitable for them. And that they should keep looking. You should keep looking to God. As I should also. Don't forget Him. He has never forgotten you. I want to help you. I have no idea if what I said will help. If it doesn't, then scrap what I said. But if anything in there helps, then I hope you can look to Him again.

[@reality_is_the_key]

I didn't meet my husband util I was 37. But you know what? Until then, and in the mean time, I became extremely strong and capable. I found myself. I grew. I became what I wanted to marry and then I met him when I absolutely was not even looking and even after I met him, I thought, "this guy is going to drive me nuts". He wasn't my type. I gave him a chance. My point is, it happens when it's supposed to. Don't settle for a fool.

[@flowermedow]

I knew a guy who was a 45 year old virgin. Literally age 45 he finally met his wife age 37. They married had a baby within the year and still 5+ years on are very happy. It's better to wait for someone who wants to work hard, build a life and has the same vision than to marry any loser with no morals. Pray for that spouse, write down what you are wanting and why and pray for that. There is always someone right for someone. Also, you won't meet Mr or Mrs sitting in your house or little church down the street if it's full of old married people. Consider maybe you have to travel or go on the missions or YWAM. The old joke is if all else fails go to youth with a mission 😆 often you meet people outside your box and church. Online dating only works if you know what your looking for and how to spot red flags or predators. It's best to go on the mission field with a clear vision of what kind of person you are really wanting. Also, never ever rush to get married. Make sure they are actually a person who is not just full of red flags.

[@Sky_Pilot56]

Same I'm 30 and single gave up on searching , I gave my life to Jesus. I don't feel lonely I'm content being alone. In Christ . Fullfills everything

[@Clara-xk3uv]

my dad was 41 when he met my mother, who was 34. 30 years later and the love they have for each other is the kind i wish everyone would find. there is no timeline, work on becoming the best human you can be and don't be afraid to try lots of new things and meet lots of new people. also, if my parents' relationship, as well as my own, have taught me anything, it's that it's very much possible that your person was born on the other side of the world, and if you only look inward and wait around, you might never get the chance to meet them

[@hajraabdool3272]

When I leave this earth, I hope I have given more than I took

[@marytetreault8168]

Very exemplary. What a great world this would be if more people felt like you.

[@Lioness797]

❤

[@heemstarr]

this is exactly how I'm feeling right now. I'm turning 27 this year. and as a pastor's kid, i can say i am trying and living a godly and kind life, helping the needy, living the word of God. and i kept wondering why am i single and will i be single for life because i don't want that 😢 men my age are either going for worldy women or not looking for marriage and just want to hop around.

[@lukas6vers31]

Very true. The mental state of many is worrying. LORD JESUS have mercy with me/us, save our souls, please.🙏

[@janetbroome4319]

So right. Parents are held accountable.

[@justinnentwich2779]

I have started dating a godly woman (age 24) she is amazing and godly. She has followed God and still does, she has expressed her thankfulness to me and has called me a godly man. Im 25 about to be 26 it breaks my heart to see how thankfull she is sometimes. We are not boys fellas we are men so we must act like it. Put the childish things down and do not be fall for the things of this world for they are fading and the enemy is using it to keep you from your full potential. Focus on God and be the man He has planed for you to be not who your flesh wish to be.

[@happyblessed1858]

well said young man. God bless you and continue to guide you.

[@justinnentwich2779]

@happyblessed1858 may God bless you as well and guide you as well

[@KellieCameron-k6n]

@@justinnentwich2779 thanks Justin

[@happyblessed1858]

@LordBaileyDev no one is saying there is something wrong with video games but any extremes are not good. It takes time away from the important things is life. You can have fun playing video games but as a grown man, your focus and time should be balanced in what is important and meaningful for your growth as a human and head of your household if you are one. It is important not to get caught in distractions that take away from your life.

[@happyblessed1858]

@ who is telling you anything about your own life? your life is yours and you lead it as you wish. It is hypocritical that you come accusing others of being a “cult” and get all distressed when somebody gives a different opinion. If what was said does not apply to you, you don’t really need to justify it by giving your life story. Good for you that you are a good father and head of your household. Others choose to spend their time on games instead of their families.

[@jasoncampbell4033]

The same can be said for why Godly men are remaining single.

[@Rebecca-n7n]

So, we have Godly men and women, looking for the same things, but no one can find a mate?

[@ashleydanielson3222]

I think he mentioned women because there are more single women in the church.

[@vbmb]

@@Rebecca-n7n because the expectations are out of this world from both sides.

[@garrettstephens91]

​@@ashleydanielson3222"there are more single women in the church" Oh really, then why do I go to church singles' events and they are 99% male?

[@Ken-xt3cp]

There are more women in the church period. It's unique in the Christian religion. Many people who have studied this seriously say it's because the Christian church has been feminized. The church is effeminate.

[@mhinojos678]

It is not only in this age range. Now that I’m getting closer to God I am seeing how many women have a Jezebel spirit along side other traumas that keep them bound to loneliness and toxic behavior Seeing this at my age of 46, this issue has no age restriction

[@LoveCoffe56]

What is Jezabel spirit? A women that looks to kill prophet? Were is it in a bible? 😅

[@michaeldavis2039]

Over 10 years ago in my late 30s to early 40s, I was a caregiver to my elderly mother who developed the physical violent form of Dementia. With her attacking my docile-dementia father with anything from pots and pans to sharp knives, he had to be separated from her for his safety. Suffered four years of hell trying to care for her as her Dementia accentuated a lot off mental and emotional baggage targeted around my father, who she never wanted to marry, but ended up having to settle for. This was the perfect storm for the enemy through the Jezebel spirit to steal, kill and destroy, almost driving her to her own self-destruction and nearly taking me, her only son with her. After the Lord finally removed me from that responsibility, I couldn't even remember identifying myself as a man let alone a Christian and had to psychologically rebuild my identity as a living, breathing human being created by God. Took me 8 years to get my life back. Now as a 50 year old Christian bachelor, I can tell you that if I EVER have to face as a husband to a wife what I had to go through as a single son to his mother, I choose to NEVER EVER get married.

[@kintsugi-u7v]

This is how you speak the truth in love. ❤

[@corashepherd8696]

This is exactly why I married a man 12 years older than me. All the men my age were too immature. As a mom of 3 boys I hope what we teach them is enough to counteract what the world teaches them.

[@CharleneMaeder]

Yep I’ve been looking for someone who loves Jesus since college. Now I’m 43. Not married yet!

[@ameerm4899]

You are beautiful and still single. I pray you find the one.

[@GR-uc1gq]

Why is it that hard? Shouldn’t there be someone for you in church?

[@ameerm4899]

@@GR-uc1gq it is hard

[@benvindamiguel5872]

I’m that woman. Waiting and trusting God always 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@reginaford8575]

Paul. Paul. Paul! Truth spoken here! My last 2 daughters are between the ages of 25-35 and have said the same thing! Praying that God fearing men will arise become courageous in thier calling

[@shenglongzhong4819]

Salute to Pastor Paul Washer, faithful servant of God ✝️💝

[@rd-st6jl]

It's hard for both young men and young women to find a partner in Christ sometimes

[@joshwaterman5526]

All the time. It’s part of the enemies plans. Just look up birth rates on google right now. It’s gone down everywhere. He’s weakened the generations so much over the years through technology and conveniences and also just the conveniences of sin. This generation has got to get a grip to get Gods children back in order. God Bless.

[@rd-st6jl]

@joshwaterman5526 God first brother 👍 ya seems like we're more lonelier than other generations as well.

[@JoshuaSzanto]

I feel like neurodivergent folk have additional challenges, too. Sometimes neglected, not understood, brushed away as nonsense... so no wonder they just go and do their things... in a new ever increasing digital age

[@Ai_boiz]

It's too hard please pray for me in finding a godly women I'm 30

[@nangephriam1211]

not sometimes but most of the time

[@helicopter5399]

"Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart "My advice is to go enjoy God make Him your centre and in the process I believe He will give you your desires . Recently a friend who did this found her match in her 40s.

[@bezagebremedhine5102]

Beautiful

[@gabriellecasares2601]

❤😢 I have been single strongly for the past 4yrs and I'm 35 yrs of age because I have literally put all of my trust into my heavenly father son of God Jesus Who has never ever failed me not once Truths I am not scared but i am happy in the choice I have made he loves me he provides for me he brings peace and I could go on and that's through the holy spirit something that could never match here on this earth. Just saying all of this had me rejoicing in the fathers name I love you Jesus.

[@elenalauina4174]

I'm 35 and happily single. I trust the Lord is faithful in His plan for my singleness. Praise God

[@kyuss5729]

@@elenalauina4174 Odin, Zeus, Vishnu?! or any other of the thousands gods?

[@onaholoche]

​@@kyuss5729 Yahweh

[@yochanantov5490]

You're hurting but denying it. That's the deception of a demon to make you think all you need is You. Young men are thinking likewise also but its the women that suffer the most with age. You need to be "born again" first so that His Holy Spirit will guide you into all truth. John 3.

[@simba8665]

@@kyuss5729 😂😂😂 We worship the “Sky God.” Ooh and his name is Yahweh by the way.

[@mylove-iq3bk]

Single w0man at 35? And happy? You will die alone.

[@bethanyhixson3647]

I believe there’s two sides for this. There are certainly boys that aren’t becoming men and it’s a huge issue… And there are also women who have gotten into a feminist culture and church telling them that they need to graduate college and get a career before they can even consider the idea of marriage. I think the two things of collided and affected one another. Young men and women, even in the church, are being told that marriage is something to be put off rather than embraced.

[@amodity]

I have the same hard time as a young man its hard to find a godly woman

[@amodity]

@em7937 thankfully I don't

[@shinnosukeyoshinori4313]

Ever narrow is the path to heaven , put God first , you don't need anyone or anything else. Your stay here on earth is short but heaven is eternal.

[@ameerm4899]

​@@em7937I have always been made to feel guilty that my sins are responsible for keeping me away from a Godly woman. You are wrong you know, I spend a lot of years taking care of my family, my siblings and parents and I all had difficult times. How do you say it was corn and not just a test from God?

[@Val-fk3ju]

Maybe it would be a good thing to actually talk to the young men , without deriding them, that are delaying getting married and find out what scares them about marriage, instead of chiding them publicly as a group for being childish for not getting married young. If a man's feelings, view point or opinions don't count before marriage, it won't count IN marriage, maybe that's one thing they're scared about since they already experience that. But a loving ,sincere , nonjudgmental and anonymous survey about this would surprise a lot of people and maybe would be helpful in reversing this problem. God bless and help us, we ALL need Jesus.

[@TheUnknownUniverse]

I can chime in. It's not rocket surgery. For the past 30 years young men and boys have been treated like defective women and girls. They aren't allowed to fight each other to resolve issues when young, they aren't allowed to play rough, and when they don't sit still, we give them Ritalin. Then we wonder why they don't behave like men of the past. In addition to this, you have feminism telling all the girls they need to behave like men and that they are strong and independent. You then tell all the boys and men that they are all toxically masculine and then wonder why they don't step up. You get rid of woodshop and metal shop classes for boys. You tell everyone that blue collar jobs are for low class scum and that girls shouldn't marry a guy unless he's a famous athlete, lawyer, doctor, or CEO. You then have a million scholarships for girls to get their college degrees and give hardly any to men. Then act shocked when the colleges are now 60-70% women. Then you wonder why guys aren't making as much as DEI tells straight white men that they can't be hired because they aren't diverse enough. You then jack up the cost of everything in the economy so that everyone has to work their butt off just to make ends meet. You get girls that act like men and want the same pay, but also want guys that make more money than them to date (which doesn't make sense since they are being pushed out by DEI and colleges not supporting them). You have the blue collar guys that are making bank, but there's a stigma to their work that is icky. You date women as a man and find that they generally don't want to help you, but be a masculine ball buster that puts her career before everything else and doesn't want to help you or have kids. You go on enough unpleasant dates with women to realize it's a huge waste of money and time because women aren't raised to be wives and mothers anymore. You find out that pretty much most of the girls nowadays don't save themselves for marriage, get pumped and dumped by a bad boy, and then have a bunch of permanent unfixable emotional damage. You then realize that around half the marriages nowadays end in divorce and that the divorce is initiated by the women 70-90% of the time. You look into the laws of the U.S. and find that they are against the preservation of the family because there's a multi-billion divorce industry and the government and corporations profit off this new paradigm at the expense of the family. The lawyers get their money from divorce, the courts get their fees, the government double taxes alimony, and when two people are separated, they eventually will both have to work again allowing the government to tax both incomes. In addition, the corporations get to double the labor supply of family formation is destroyed because the woman has to work now. This is why corporations are the ones behind the scenes pushing this feminism so hard. They get to double the labor pool, which significantly reduces the wages, and they know what women tend to spend more and are more easily manipulated with marketing to buy products. On top of this, the corporations now have more workers. This whole situation we are in has been well orchestrated and been pushed for the past 50 years in the U.S. I will also say that men no longer have authority in the households anymore as most mainstream media portrays men as bubbling idiots (watch a commercial next time and see if the husband or boyfriend is not emasculated or portrayed as an idiot). They do this deliberately sabotage the notion of masculine authority because, men of authority tell corporations and the government to pound sand over their dead body if they try to force them to do or buy things they know their family doesn't need. Since women are easily manipulated, the men in their lives are their primary defense that protects them from that social manipulation. Masculine men don't care if people like them. They protect their families and women from being told what to do when they know it's a stupid manipulation tactic. I could keep going on with unjust family laws and debtors prison in the U.S. in the form of alimony and child support, even if you lose your job, but I won't. To recap: Men used to be able to be unapologetically masculine , now we are told we are toxically masculine privileged straight CIS Christian white men that don't behave enough like women (be more emotional 🤮). Men also have very little legal protection in marriage nowadays (if they are the breadwinner) as the laws have been perverted to enrich the lawyers, courts, and government with the side effect of family destruction also being profitable to corporations (just think, we now need twice the housing). Men are given a back seat to education and work. All of our authority in a household has been sabotaged and made fun of. When a man has a standard he is told he is insecure. When a man tries to take charge he is labeled controlling. Young women desire leaders, but they don't want to follow. Men used to get a chast woman that would be his helper and follow him under the condition that he was competent and respectable. This is no longer the case. Many women nowadays are glued to their phones on Instagram looking for the next bad boy to have fun with. Their "real man" has to make a million dollars a year or he's a bum, but she will find him after she has slept with 50+ bad boys. Ok, there are some same and reasonable women still out there, but the numbers are falling and I don't have the time, inclination, or energy to find a needle in a needle stack that has a bunch of HIV infected needles stuck in there (aka crazy women). The cause: So, lack of raising boys right, looking down at men in society for being masculine, removing their ability to provide (via education, scholarships, DEI), removing their authority in a household, telling them they are toxic and bad because they were born a man, make it economically more difficult, make women masculine and unattractive with wild standards, and then make the women super quarrelsome and belligerent, and then ask, "Where have all the good men gone?" Men's solution: They are at home playing video games with their friends because that's what they can afford and a game with literal machine gun fights and grenades going off is more peaceful than living with many women nowadays. Done.

[@loremaster234]

Amen!!!

[@vbmb]

The problem with pastors like this one, is that they still live in the bubble of their lives and have no idea what the real world is anymore. Maybe they should spend some time learning about the manosphere to try to understand where this so called boys stand and why they chose this path, instead of bashing them. Because from this little sermon what young men learned is that they are doomed to get married and be a slave to every little bit of female wish and need , sacrificing himself at the altar of female well being while his needs or wants are going to be dismissed completely.

[@AkhenatonMarcano]

This a fantastic response as opposed to tryin to shame men into getting married

[@lynghee159]

My nephew, whom I'd asked regarding why these younger generations don't see value in marrying said in so many words, "Cause we don't have to". 😢 Have we failed as parents, society, public schools or all the above?

[@kevinb2898]

Same goes for men looking for a godly woman. Work both ways.

[@aprilvannewkirk8761]

Yes it does.

[@giovannipasquale2726]

God told me 10 months ago she was on the way, but that I needed to strengthen my relationship with him first. Which is exactly what I’m focused on, and have made a life commitment too. How can I be an effective “head” for a godly woman when I myself backslide. What kind of culture does that create in a relationship? In a family? In life? Whether we are in a relationship or not let’s continue to build our homes on our rock, Jesus Christ. Amen!

[@deborahedwards8666]

Greetings from The Bride of Christ. Perfectly said. As I speak with others that live single I tell them that in the Kingdom they will find their soul mate, live happily ever after. I do believe He will come in the Spring...

[@kristen_franklin]

This is so true. I was not patient, and now I have to wait again in an even more soulfully painful state. WAIT, MY SISTERS! Even if that means you will be SINGLE for the rest of THIS LIFE. For you will not be alone FOREVER.

[@MadinaKhudoybokova]

Best motivational speech I've heard today.

[@shenitaanng6952]

🎉 thank you 🙏🏽 for the opportunity to witness you being obedient To The Most High ❤

[@CritterGitter-bk2um]

Wow that hits hard. Thank you i needed that. Bless you brother.

[@JAutomated]

When men put God first and women second, the family falls right into place. Men not being men has been the greatest disservice that women have had to endure.

[@j.w.31]

Tell the sisterhood to stop rewarding that behavior

[@williambowman1317]

@@JAutomated stop blaming the other sex.

[@JAutomated]

@@williambowman1317 I didn’t blame anyone. I made a point about men’s priorities.

[@MastaBaitaAmbatukam]

​@@JAutomated Why are you blaming men?

[@davidm4566]

Bro you have not taken into account toxic women. You can stand up and lead all day but if your wife is toxic (not all women are like this-there are good women) it won't matter. I'm just opening your eyes that it's not 1 sides and always the man's fault.

[@adewaleonipede1861]

Excellent message! I sincerely hope men obtain grace to discern the magnitude of the responsibility their burdens as men call for so they can realize and communicate tremendous kingdom value relevant to themselves and spheres of influence

[@matthewshannongreen1900]

Amen. This man is one of my favorites to listen to about the Lord.

[@mariemcconnell6734]

Heart breaking and a lot of truth to your words Paul. It made me think of a conversation I had with our rector’s wife. She observed there were no young illegible men in our congregations. I had gotten to the point were God was definitely enough, however I always believed that if God could take a rib from the side of Adam and create a bride for him, He could also bring a godly man to church for me. I married my second husband at the age of 51. A very good friend from years back. He got to a point where it was God or die. He chose God first, then God brought us together. Seek first the Kingdom of God, and His righteousness, and all other things will be added on to you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼P.S. marriage is a ministry, be prepared. Why would God give you a son, if you can’t look after him, council him with scripture and trust his judgment for the final decisions in your marriage. Be sure you say yes to a man who seeks God first in everything.

[@nerdyempress6745]

I’m 35 and still single. To God be the glory. No man can compare.

[@bezagebremedhine5102]

🧡✝️

[@JohnSmith-vn9oc]

U had 17 years😂

[@lyledavis7175]

If your standard of judging men is Jesus, then you will die alone.

[@BonitaSmith-or7ij]

1000 Amens to this word, we need accountability.

[@marlonalva]

Brother Paul, is full of wisdom from the Word of God!!

[@nsandlin4475]

That's very true and I would love to find one of those women that are on fire for Jesus

[@Grac3AndP3ac3]

I feel you, as a woman, I want to find a man that's on fire for God as well, but sadly, the guys at my church are too old or too young for me, but that's okay if God wants me to have someone he'll make it happen

[@monu8374]

❤​@@Grac3AndP3ac3hey praise Jesus, may I know what you look for in a man you marry

[@AM45932]

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God" Phil. 4 6

[@adk5997]

@@Grac3AndP3ac3 same for me, at my age there are men who think dating is to sleep with women. I find that off putting and no way. Don’t want easy man. I don’t bother no more. And also the men think at my age I am only good to be used. Even have married men making fun of me and asking me out ‘as a joke’ of course, because they think I wouldn’t mind to be a cheat piece being my age. as if it was fine, as if they can’t offend me, or as if I am not decent person because I am single and not the youngest no more. They are so off putting. I look at reality and just don’t care no more. Ignore these is the only way. It is what it is. No point trying to excuse them and be naive. I hold myself to a standard and them too to the same. If I met no decent men, it is what it is. I believe God knows I am not lying. If he wanted that miracle of one decent man to come my way, come my way he would. If not, I accepted it. Better than to have someone easy around just so I can say I am not single. Many ladies date and give in only to be dropped later. I applaud them for trying, but they should be more concerning.

[@Grac3AndP3ac3]

@@monu8374 I'm looking for a man who is on fire for God, one that prays and practices decernment and seeks to find wisdom in God's word. One that is godly and has family values and reads the Bible and believes it's the infallible word of God

[@kaymojil7669]

My brother and I were talking about this. He was empathizing for me and our friends. I pray for him and everyone in our generation.

[@ryanbell6537]

If they want to wait for a little while, my son is an absolute unit of spiritual leadership. He initiates multiple prayers a day about relevant stuff, mostly revolving around the care and concern of his sisters and our family's safety. He's four. If they can wait 14 years, I promise I will do what I can to raise him in the way he should go.

[@4chukwuebuka]

Where is his father?

[@Hebrews111]

Thank you. How many Christian men don't open their Bibles? How many will not pray in the spirit? Have you EVER gotten on your face before the Lord and said "search me, and see if there is any wicked way in me"? Women are CRYING OUT! 😭

[@bradleybutters1511]

I have cry out to Lord Almighty to be man he designed me through the pain and suffering to be strong in him. I lose everything to follow Jesus I left behind my family my toxic friend and get away from the world I walk alone taught by spirit of God

[@JohnSmith-yc6uv]

Men are crying out too.

[@robinhoffeld7584]

Wow!!! You nailed it I say the same thing all the time. When people are complaining about the younger generation when people were complaining about my generation, I said well who raised us. Nowadays, men are boys you either pick a pagan boy or childish boy or you be alone. I’m here to vouch for being alone its not worth it. Some of us want to have more respect for ourselves and have some better standards. Realize that living ourselves is not being prideful or vain. Standards is not being something shallow or greedy.

[@Mizinga-i8s]

That question has been on my mind lately to the point where I am over whelmed 😢.

[@Jedd98Arthur]

Umm I'm 26 and every girl the elders think is a virgin after a few dates you find out they are not. I'm talking women who have been serving since 18 years of age. I've had many Christian girls on the second date initiate sex. Guys know this and take advantage of it and girls never learn. Of course there is a rare few but super rare. Wish me luck

[@jeanlenor1858]

Are you looking for a virgin.

[@bommi20]

Seriously, where are you from? I'm just curious because as a Christian girl, I saw almost all the girls I came across, including the girls doing idol worship is well disciplined and avoiding pre-marital s** because at least they fears their parents. How come they call themselves Christian girls? must be at false teachings either at home or at church.

[@usernametaken6659]

Are you a virgin?

[@Jedd98Arthur]

@bommi20 im from Australia in a big city. Once you get to my age people aren't really worried about their parents any longer.

[@usernametaken6659]

@@Jedd98Arthur so you have slept around too?

[@kelliebrooks9094]

The time for denial is over...

[@williamyates7679]

As a man who loves video games i want to point out this sermon isn't anti video games its pro responsibility.

[@andrear4954]

I adore Paul and his teachings ❤ he is so strong and so compassionate

[@johnwitte9620]

2 CORINTHIANS 9 : 15 . THANKS BE UNTO GOD FOR HIS UNSPEAKABLE GIFT.

[@bezagebremedhine5102]

♥️✝️

[@DivinaeMisericordiae77]

Remember in order to find a heavenly partner one must strive to be heavenly themselves. Pray pray pray 🙏

[@angieblake3424]

Agreed. But I've met MANY MANY godly women and not very many godly men.

[@keziamcdaniel9227]

A woman to find God is simple. Women are more intuitive in the spirit to know when it's time to seek God and let go of all the nonsense. But try to catch a man with God....unless he's on his death bed. ​@@angieblake3424

[@davidm4566]

And be careful to really get to know them: when they are stressed, tired, on their period, and with people who are "beneath" them. Covert narcissists will pretend to be kind and godly but it's fake. The mask drops after the marriage. Just really get to know them and look for the toxicity in case it's hidden. And pray for God's direction (and fir our understanding of it).

[@adampulino1100]

The best way for a Man to find a godly woman is to preach on the street and by doing everything that brings glory to Jesus Christ God.

[@LouisC777]

It goes both ways Washer

[@angieayala4374]

I'm on that list. It looks hopeless to see ethical men nowadays. But I will trust God or remain the way I am. I am content either way.

[@harmonyjames9822]

Im about to be 23 and i feel this. I had exact conversation with God

[@billmartinn9851]

"Whosoever calls upon the name of the Lord shall be saved."

[@bhanitakalita4365]

Oh Jesus please send him for me. In Jesus name Amen 🙌

[@shemchirchir8459]

Stay in purity one day for sure God will reward our dignity 🙏🏽🙏🏽 let's not get weary

[@kelkabot]

Yes, stay in purity. But know that God may or may not bring a spouse. He has our highest good and we can trust Him.

[@virginiawango3968]

Amen 🙏

[@shemchirchir8459]

@@kelkabot we reap what we sow there is a reason why they were written

[@angieblake3424]

💯% true. We Christian women are having a HARD TIME finding good mem to marry amd it is tragic and very lonely.

[@ikr2377]

Marriage needs to be encouraged

[@chaseanthony9377]

I keep looking for all these women Paul Washer talks about.

[@shirleyc.2345]

Yes this is the Truth! Thank You for being bold enough to say it.

[@Abe00880]

I've felt this way, but I trust God will lead me to a mate in His time. Every time I try to find a woman I think is right for me, it fails. For now, I'll be growing in the grace and knowledge of the Lord.

[@margiebastolla1924]

I married at 44 and am now 62. This man speaks the truth. We

[@margiebastolla1924]

Men never become men until they’ve had to do something hard, something challenging.

[@AnEmerald]

Did you meet him in church ? How long did you wait ? Did you have children ?

[@margiebastolla1924]

@@AnEmerald Met him in a secular group for singles. He is a godly, Christian man. I had hoped to meet a man for years at church. I dated a few men from church, but they weren't the ones. I encourage women to also go outside the church to meet godly men. Many of the Christian men that we want to marry don't belong to church singles groups. The men we want to marry are out in the world making lives for themselves and their future families. They have ambition and goals.. They don't need a church singles group.

[@margiebastolla1924]

We were unable to have children. We were grateful to have found each other. Just as an FYI, I joined a group in Orlando called Events and Adventures. This group planned social events every day of the month. I paid $1,500 for a two-year plan. It was worth every penny. We met within three months of joining. I also had lots of dates from this group and met several interesting men. Not all were Christian, but I learned a lot from these men. I knew I would not marry a non- Christian, but I knew that I had to go on dates with several men to find out what works and what doesn't.

[@isabellopes890]

To find someone to marry is 2% of the problem. The problem is that even marriages among Christians are not lasting. Divorce is skyrocketing on these groups.

[@CristianVillanueva-w9p]

We all fall short ❤❤❤❤... No one is godly for where sin abounds GRACE ABOUNDS EVER MORE ♥️❤❤ HIDDEN GLORY IN CREATION ITS BY THE GRACE OF OUR FATHER WE WILL ALL REACH SALVATION.. JUDGE NOT AND LOVE MORE

[@Pete-qt9bg]

How many young girls play stupid games

[@danr2390]

True! These girls don't go for guys their age when they are under 25. Those "boys" want marriage but they can't compete because that girl has so much attention. So young girls have fun and don't settle for anyone desperately available. After that they are left to their own selfishness, also desperate

[@jeanlenor1858]

Exactly

[@jerryt4053]

Why do young girls play stupid games? Because too many young and old men are entertained by them. 💥Sin is root cause of everything evil and wrong in this world.

[@usernametaken6659]

How many men are still boys?

[@calledbygod9817]

God can’t do anything when there’s strife.

[@rubywedderburn9487]

YAH HAVE MERCY ON US ALL 😢

[@keh-dalia809]

This is me as a woman after God. To tell you the truth it seems most of the men are stuck at the maturity level of 16-24 when they are 30+-60+... you can lead a horse to water but you cant make him drink, and you can put a man through school but you cant make him think. I just trust God and no man anymore. Its really depressing and sad, heartbreaking that many women have been ready and waiting for a long ling time, but the promises of Gods families and children arent coming and being raised up, and work of the kingdom isnt being done cuz guys dont want to be responsible as true real men of God. Yeah, its not easy to pick up your cross and follow Jesus... but the alternative is usually lukewarm at best and heading for hell thinking its fine and cool, putting pride and the devils playgrounds above Gods ways... man it is beyond sad.

[@SamuelPelz]

I'd rather stay single than try to compete with women who think they're so much more mature than I am. They're not likely to be submissive as the Bible commands.

[@thegoldthatglitters]

Excellently-worded comment

[@achilles1191]

No it’s just that you don’t want to get married and be a wife.

[@ChrisMoon-i7d]

Amen. Im tired of hearing people talk down on this generation when we're the ones that raised them.

[@pjosepha]

Damn- this guy is preaching !! Facts

[@just_lurking4833]

Why am I not surprised even pastors are saying "men bad, women perfect" now. Guys are frankly sick of this messaging.

[@satishm5260]

Agreed. It's just virtue signalling.

[@gabe6645]

Both men and women of all ages have fallen far in recent years. Paul is a man and will more directly speak to men. It's 1 Timothy 6:11. If you don't think men have fallen badly, i don't know what to tell you.

[@just_lurking4833]

@gabe6645 Nobody said men haven't fallen. Who said that? Preaching AT men, and men only, and ignoring all of the sinful/childish nature of women choosing abusers over good men, is actually one of the main reasons men are opting to stay immature & "peter-pan" like. They've tried being responsible and virtuous, and they stopped because modern women spit on them. Men would change FOR women, as they have in all of human existence, if there was something good worth changing for. That needs to be addressed.

[@singlechristiancowboy]

Every Godly woman around my age (currently 30) that I've ever seen at the MANY churches I've been in as a preacher's son were already spoken for. Still prayin and lookin fer my missin rib.

[@kintsugi-u7v]

I notice the same about men! I'm also 30. People our age are usually already spoken for 😢 I hope you find your person!

[@ja4120]

Maybe you two should meet up!

[@jerryt4053]

Not Every Godly Woman is Spoken For.. The Lord Has More Than Enough Daughters For His Men 🙏🏽🙌🏾🙏🏽

[@Faithfulawakening3]

I notice the same about men too! I’ve just turned 28 but am starting to realise that I must put my trust in Him more and he will lead me to the right single Christian man! ✝️❤️

[@heathersnyder8789]

@@ja4120I was going to say the same thing

[@stayreal120]

Over being alone I got God he find my soulmate 🙏🏻

[@OblivionRide_11]

Where are the women who were raised to be wives instead of leaders. Where are they at?

[@usernametaken6659]

By the same token, where are those that would be true men of God, leading their families?

[@francesgrigsby7400]

Unfortunately, the church is now part of the dismantling. There is no difference between the world and the church.. aside from the remnant.

[@OblivionRide_11]

@usernametaken6659 Leading their families? Thats the way its suppose to be, but with the influx in alpha women over the past few generations, they have made it extremely difficult to lead in a biblical way. That was the whole point of my comment.

[@OblivionRide_11]

@usernametaken6659 To many alpha women for godly men to lead biblically.

[@usernametaken6659]

@OblivionRide_11 you just don't know how to lead. What you're looking for is a servant rather than a helper fulfilling her role as you fulfil yours.

[@biologygirl91]

Wish I could find this sermon and listen to the whole thing. This snippet is great! I recently turned 33 and have switched from focusing on wanting a husband - it’s so painful to want something that you don’t see any evidence of you ever receiving (guys have never been interested in me romantically and I can’t imagine most men would find mw more desirable as I age), but I really feel called to be a mother so am looking into adopting. I can’t think of any examples in my life of people who are my age or around my age who had godly relationships before getting married: most were having sex or if not were not avoiding the appearance of evil. Both my sister and SIL said that if they weren’t engaged to the guys they were with by a certain time they would end the relationship - which sounds very manipulative to me. I just don’t know of any godly men who are interested in me. I pray for those reading this that they find a godly spouse!

[@2Afreedom513]

Christian man in Ohio looking for one of these women

[@vapecatt]

Thank you for not berating young people who were not taught.

[@lynghee159]

Young men can & actually want to be taught, but there are no older, wiser, mentor males & females trying to be both "mom & dad" for their son's just hasn't worked so far (speaking from experience 😢)! Where are the Joseph types, like the man who raised Jesus??

[@Melanie-ro6pl]

😞😔😭😭😭 I FEAR THIS myself... many Nighta I'll even admitt,, I cry a lott to sleep over this matter especially.... Im Currently 33 and feeling very Sad/Lonely lately.... Its very upsetting tho to think of what's going to be the future 4 Me.....

[@PoetiqueMs]

My 34 year old daughter finally found a Godly man. He wasn't raised in a Christian home, but he is saved and has proven himself. My advice to young women is to pray, but, in the meantime, grow in the Lord to be the wife and mother that God would want you to be. Be content where you are now, serve the Lord above all, and pray.

[@anniathome]

I have two daughters, ages 25 and 21, and both of them are beautiful, Godly, servant-hearted girls. But there are no young Godly men in our area.

[@yieldyourdestiny3326]

@anniathome hey I'm just going to say this straight. You ain't going to find good partners for them unless you look for men in their mod 30s.

[@walkinlove2313]

Amen.❤ Men were made on purpose for His purpose for families. Husbands and Fathers are leaders and teachers. Rise Up! Be Great! Men You Matter and Make a Difference.