Why Are Men So Afraid Of Commitment? - Krew Season

[@LilShawtyWood]

These girls are being told the secrets and STILL in denial 😂

[@zero1188]

@Master_ E agreed, funny thing is my co worker mess around with drug dealers and gang members. the guy she messing with i told her straight up he dont respect her because the neighbor wanted him and his brother to run a train on her. and she let that happen. and she swear up and down he respects her lmao

[@shomarimonroe150]

Facts

[@JC-gq2lo]

@Master_ E you cold blooded

[@tapyourpocket1849]

the reason why me and don't commit because woman change up once they get comfortable

[@siddwitmusic477]

Anthony Dunbar #facts

[@geraldos9094]

Once the marriage paperwork is signed, there’s no incentive for a woman to do anything for you. I work with disgruntled married men eating out of the vending machines because their wives don’t cook and complaining about sex twice a year.

[@sweetvictory89]

Men do as well

[@JB-wb5gp]

@@sweetvictory89 Like how please explain?

[@riversdarrell2000]

All truth!

[@andsanp]

Finally a series where men are speaking the truth!

[@raymondcarter8915]

Imagine going to a financial investor, no proposal, no stats, no nothing and say “you won’t invest in my business because you scared.” Lol. Risk will scare any man with something to lose. And he only needs to see what happened to other men that invested in the marriage industry, to find out if its a worthy investment.

[@Jawsjawsjawsrg]

Totally right, women are one of the scariest investments of all. There seems to be far more risk, and too little reward to make it worth getting into.

[@Jawsjawsjawsrg]

@ If you think having kids and a family is low reward then you are stupid or selfish. Don't get me wrong, MGTOW makes some good points, but I am not a mgtow.

[@Jawsjawsjawsrg]

@ You are stupid, not all marriages end in divorce. Even smarter people have them self's prepared for it, if it does happen.

@@Jawsjawsjawsrg whatever dude

[@cerebralmindgame9818]

Marriage is one of the dumbest investments to make for a dude in this day and age. The only reason I'd consider getting married is to make sure my kids aren't born out of wedlock. Marriage doesn't benefit the man. It only benefits the women and children.

[@CloudTribe]

These woman don't realize men have 2 kinds of love. The lusty love and the love you reserve for someone who is a wifey material.

[@shomarimonroe150]

Facts

[@EmeraldRaven]

Why are virgins not taken seriously then?

[@Jaleel88]

Ur most definitely on point homie

[@sg5720]

@cloud tribe, the problem you men have is you act both the same in different situation. You lusty love and your “other” love ain’t no difference, you say and do the same thing, so maybe being honest with yourself is the first step.

[@EmeraldRaven]

Unfortunately wife material women are not treated as such and when we women want real relationships and real commitment the men freak out and start playing games like "let's slow down." "Let's go with the flow," "you're going too fast."

[@thebluejay3145]

The shaming language just isnt working ladies step it up to get the man you want...simple.

[@CloudTribe]

Or lower your standards but every woman wants a top quality man regardless of their own standings

[@unlimited971]

women: why are you afraid of comitting? am i too good for you? also women: i don't need no man. i'm jsut too good for that. but women too: i need a man that bring something more. i only marry up in the end women: he should be treating me as an equal, but should do all the efforts in any process to prove himself worthy of me. communications include too.

[@LIJerseyBrooklyn]

@@CloudTribe Top quality men want submissive and cooperative women

[@drellcarter7229]

I'm not finna commit to a woman trying to be a better man than me and that's the problem with a lot females today

[@bernardvining7534]

💯💯💯💯 bitches dont kno they role

[@JesseWifeBot]

😂😂😂

[@mrblackman7615]

Damn that's the truth for ya

[@igpxmaster]

Black women

[@AbeW2010]

Dat good ole feminism

[@DemetriT1]

I'm still not a fan of women being loud and obnoxious when describing themselves. It's not attractive.

[@shomarimonroe150]

Facts

[@malikaustin9087]

BOOM!💥

[@kamwill03]

I was afraid these men were gona give some wishy washy answers and I loved every answer. Very real video

[@landariaa]

Why does everyone blame the next person for them not wanting to commit? Just figure yourself out first and you will understand what you are looking for. You will set standards and expectations for yourself and partner. Communication is key. Honest is the best policy.

[@josephmusabyimana3557]

Exactly!!! Happyness is internal.

[@brothaantone8286]

29:06 She sounds confused! 1) I’m not finna argue with you! 2) If I love you, I’m not thinking about another woman. 3) Just because I’m a nice guy that doesn’t mean that I’m gonna sit back and let you disrespect me, that’s not gonna happen, it’d be the same thing if I messed up, I would want you to correct me.

[@w.d.2154]

Some of these ladies and men are low vibration. Period. Pocket watching and superficial, you will never have a fruitful relationship with that mentality.

[@JohnDoe-gc1kt]

Say it again Karen. I honestly don't understand why so much focus is being put on money.

[@taurusteelpan]

@@JohnDoe-gc1kt Because that’s the number one reason for divorce, and for men it’s a double edge sword with no prenup.

[@JohnDoe-gc1kt]

@@taurusteelpan you're missing the point. She said they are superficial meaning they only focus on the physical. You should get to know and love a person for who they are not their money.

[@patkimpell549]

First off No man is afraid of committing they only say we afraid of commitment to pressure us to commit so the real question is why do women disregard a mans feelings in order to satisfy her own needs

[@R.O.T.C._SEEM]

Because they are self centered. As long as they get what they want then all is good in their eyes

[@palesatalks6629]

Generalization

[@1aliasjr]

As men, we commit to women worth committing to. Until we find the one we feel is worth it all, we chilling and doing our thing.. Then like Smuv said, (@1:45) you gotta be able to get it on your own if need be; if you aint getting it, then i need you holding down the house while I provide. Andre & AC came through with facts the whole video as usual.

[@ashreyayerica]

I live for every single Mesha & SWUV scene !!! 😂😂😂😍😍😍😍 I’m dying!!

[@ChrissyAnn85]

I’m glad they paired the girl in brown shirt and the dude in the black 😂

[@ashreyayerica]

They are my favorite!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@KINGHARGRAVE]

"SOMEBODY AINT HOLDING THEY END OF THE BARGAIN " *RICK FLAIR WHEEEWWW*

[@Aggie4life77]

Man that dark skin girl is a strong no for me! Has nothing to do with her being dark skin or her looks as I find her attractive. It’s that mouthpiece and emotional baggage! Oh hell no!

[@popularloner5282]

AggiePride4life what I was say she sounds super masculine

[@ThebigGLRams]

But you had to use her skin color to explain your point.... Gtfo

[@DBLMusic]

Gee rams I thought they used her skin color so that we could understand who they were talking about. Why’d you try to turn it into something else

[@Imnotelijah1]

@@DBLMusic facts because there was two darkskins in the video

[@ryanphillips5591]

@@ThebigGLRams He used it to explain who he was talking about

[@kiseykise]

The dialogue in this joint was real af!! Trill was spitting some knowledge that I had to take heed to about men. But Smuv & Mesha had me tuned ALL the way in when it got real😂😂

[@Elion_gonzalez]

It all comes down to one thing men don't commit because once they do its not about "them" anymore.. its "us" which takes a lot of energy. Some wanna deal with it and some don't. Commitment requires change simple and plain.

[@R.O.T.C._SEEM]

It's not us it's strictly about her and making her happy. Once you say I do everything is on the man. If she ain't happy then the relationship goes to shit but if he not happy then he stick it out and deal with her for two reasons. Either he loves her or doesn't want to start all over again once he gets divorced raped

[@tonileolion9702]

Honestly, this is a fact and I’m a woman …he will have to protect us not just him , provide for us , make sure us has a home 🏡 etc and it can be a lot of pressure.. as I grew older I really understood it but if he commits to the right person with a this is us , we got us TEAM Partner mentality .. it won’t be that hard on him . One thing I know about men or my man is the less drama and BS the happier and better things will be … well speaking from my life experiences..

[@tonileolion9702]

But very great comment sir

[@alldaylong3331]

The young lady said it. She wants who she wants. Unfortunately she only wants the guy who all the girls want , then wonders why HE won't cut all the other girls off once she gets with him #FOOLISHNESS

[@unlimited971]

so basically women complain about the only the men that treat them exactly the same way they treat women. (talking about rotating and having several love interest)

[@WrightwayFT]

These women hurt they really don't have a chance and they don't like guys that are nice to them lol they want to argue and be deceived

[@Jaleel88]

I most definitely agree

[@deficator750]

Every women are severely insecure and arguing makes them feel more secure cause it makes them feel like they can safely connect to you. While at the same time making you miserable asf. Thats why when you see a happy women 9/10 her husband looks completely spent.

[@WrightwayFT]

@@deficator750 🙏💯

[@sbrooks904]

Look at you niggas just agreeing with one another lmao. You don’t understand women

[@nathaniel972ful]

I've learned there's only TWO important women in a man's life. The woman he loves even more than himself, then there's the woman that he needs to build and improve his life. The trick is to learn how to love the one you need because the one you loved was the one that hurt you bad and made you lose your happiness and composure at one time.

[@Handle18880]

Grow up.

[@VyCityMusic]

Dany: " I wouldnt want to meet a man thats on my level, I want somebody thats going to add something to me.." Also Dany: " I wouldnt expect nothing from a man that I'm not bringing myself " Ummm.. then that would mean... nvm lol

[@nathaniel972ful]

Most women are simply not worthy of commitment. They're not constant. All the wonderful things that make you want to spend the rest of your life with her, all those things will progressively disappear as soon as you both share the keys to the same house. Also the sex rate drops immensely as the same time arguing, blaming and the regrets are increasing. At that point people start thinking about how much they miss their ex and their freedom. The bodies are still close but the minds are split. Smart ones go their separate ways. Dumb ass ones stay trying to fix things up and eventually build a family in a chaotic relationship. Fellas, stay single until you don't care about anything else anymore, then settle if you want.

[@wiz369]

The women seem to be dating the trend and that’s why their stories seem familiar almost every video

[@patkimpell549]

Crazy how a lot of men today have been in relationships they didn’t know they was in

[@briannamiller928]

I feel like men want RESPECT,support, loyalty, trust, intellect first then beauty, food, sex to follow up and don’t want emasculation. Most men like things more simplistic and not dramatic (physical appearance, verbal choice etc)🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ryanphillips5591]

Need respect. Otherwise 100% true

[@jabarilee3330]

So she gets it

[@unlimited971]

@@jabarilee3330 did she really? would it be so easy?

[@jabarilee3330]

@@unlimited971 yes. But most women will make that simple stuff difficult

[@cre8gnr8nrg]

Is this a comedy show?!? So entertaining 'holding up their end of the bargain' LOL

[@nekemccall4307]

If u can't except someone at their worse how can u love them at their best there are ups and downs in life..So to say that u can't commit because someone doesn't have it is crazy cuz u never know what life has in store for u..You will know when a man or woman is ready for a commitment by their actions..pay attention

[@blackspiderman1887]

so true. you could lose that 6 figure job tomorrow. We don't know what the future holds. That's why love should be the key to a relationship. Not financial security because that can go tomorrow.

[@Th3lite]

Wisdom.

[@sweetvictory89]

How did I come across this???

[@alewis794]

With age comes wisdom and hindsight is always 20/20 real life facts 💯

[@tacorisead4236]

There is a spectrum of men and women that range from good to bad. There are a few awesome men and women out there at every age, economic stratus, and emotional maturity level. There are a lot of garbage men and women that screw good people over. There be those losers/posers who peak early. Not equally yoked. Good luck to finding the one for you. I understand more about the topic thanks to this video. Screening criteria is a personal thing. Income requirement for one is different for another. We each must stick to our individual nonnegotiable criteria and be flexible enough on the negotiable stuff because nobody is perfect. We all want to win and add to our partner in ways they will appreciate. Good luck to us all. I love the line about the girl who’s not attracted to a sensible guy (a paradox indeed)...

[@chenelle-james]

Big up the krew yall always keep it 💯 the females on here are giving me a wake up call now i know a women with accountability is rare as gold

[@nyajelisa3897]

It’s interesting to me how the question was why don’t men commit and all of the men answered very clearly yet had to argue with women who were convinced that they knew men better than men knew themselves.

[@diegomagellan]

Men aren’t scared to commit, its the asking price of women that’s inflating this dynamic.

[@DBLMusic]

Damn...all the women on this episode sound bitter as hell. I feel bad for them though... what men did this to them

[@LucyFloresYo]

Same for the men. They all sound bitter.

[@daitensai3856]

Apart from Mesha. I think her arguments are pretty solid. To the point my guy started changing his story because he realised he couldn't counter her hehe

[@LucyFloresYo]

himode and so do men. Vice versa. You can clearly see that in this video.

[@LucyFloresYo]

himode well I can say the same for you in your original comment.

[@LucyFloresYo]

himode and what projection? All I said is that men have the same bad habit as women.

[@dahitman55]

This is fire content. I just started a podcast called "Why Aren't You Married?" but this ishhh? So much jewellery being dropped especially from my Man with the red hat on

[@KingMitchellso]

"Shit, my niggas ready to break the cycle." Omg I just cried.

[@NY-Buddy]

He said cuz you was in that same rotation as Becky and jennifer Damn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@patkimpell549]

I hear a lot of blaming from both sides and not trying find a resolution they not agreeing to disagree

[@raphealknox3541]

Love yall. Great conversation

[@elijajackson9651]

We r not afraid of commitment, but we r afraid of committing 2 the wrong one. If we choose wrong, we can loose most of our stuff.

[@blackspiderman1887]

I haven't watched the whole video yet but that chick with the long black hair. Dreads or whatever. She's fine AF. Let's see if I feel the same way after she opens her mouth. Edit: Ok she opened her mouth. Even though I don't agree fully with her, she was very respectful with the way she present it. And she was right about women nowadays got their own. Women are graduating at a rate much faster than men. Most women I know are making very good money. But she said she want someone bringing more to the table than she already have. I think that's the problem with alot of women. They are basically saying they want a man who makes more than they do. So in their head in order for this to be a long term relationship he needs to be making more money than I do. The problem with that is when he get's injured and lose his job, or the economy goes into a recessions, or for whatever reasons he falls on hard time and is making less, she's gonna leave because the relationship wasn't built off love, but off something superficial. Money is needed for life but what keep relationships together. Love keeps relationships together. Would you disown your child because he works at mcdonald? No. You love him or her for life and try to help them. So when you love someone, you're in for the long haul regardless. That's why wedding vows are "for better or for worse" not "for better only". Women wants to leave soon as things get hard. If marriage was only based on financial status then very few people worldwide would be getting married because most countries are not as rich as america. Most countries people are struggling to make ends meet because of corrupt government or whatever. So the missing ingredient in all these relationship is LOVE. That's the problem with today's society. I always tell a man, you know you found the right girl when even if sex wasn't in the relationship you still want to be with her. And women, should find a mind that loves her and cherishes her and if he isn't making alot of money, so what. As long as he's trying his best, yall got a roof over your head and food on the table what more do you need. Yall just want to live it up the fancy life. IF that's what you wanna do then YOU get a 6 figure income and live that life on your own. But if you .are looking for a long term relationship, find a man who truly loves. Not love you for your looks, but who you are as a person. Edit: That light skinned chick was funny. At least she admits they are good guys out there but they are "nice guys" that she don't find attractive. It's hard for women who has that mentality because they grew up in an environment where the thug man is viewed as attractive and they stuck with that and won't give a "nice guy" a chance. Thats a cultural thing because other women in other countries don't have that mentality. American women though are taught form childhood to "reach for the stars" and don't settle for anything less. With such high expectations you're doomed for failure. Nothing wrong with have high expectations, but they have to be realistic. That's like telling a child, you can be president one day, know dang well that child has a mental disability. Not saying it's impossible but his chances aren't that good. So women have to be realistic in life and lower there expectations that was given to them since childhood saying they gotta be with prince charming, or in the black women case, a thug that makes good money and don't cheat. Not gonna happen. But you should really be open minded and give all men of different color or background at least a chance. You never know you may be missing out on something you didn't even realize you needed in your life. For example, I was never into white girls, because I didn't grow up around them. Then I moved to the south and now I am. I never thought I would be. So just have an open mind and at least give people a shot you know or you might be single for the rest of your life and then nobody is gonna want you when you hit your mind 30's.

[@monicar.1832]

Yo shorty with the brown shirt got me diein 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@coreythomas3633]

Monica Richards she fine

[@zakazakaboy344]

Arwyn she said she had a boob job but shitt she fye

[@Fresh360Waves]

@@zakazakaboy344 Whats her @?

[@NickDeWayne]

Instinctively we just wanna fuck EVERYTHING we think look good. If she goin we goin and it's HARD to say no.

[@sonnyqsoul7123]

A man wanting a woman who needs him is about purpose, not fear. That said, it's the attitudes and mentality of these "independent" females that chase guys a way. A woman will always need a man for something, even if she doesn't know what that is yet. And if a man can discover what that is and can provide that, he will. But if her mindset isn't right, he's not gonna be willing to spend the time and effort to figure out what that is and if he can provide it.

[@nextfreeman]

Men are fixers. We fix things when we try so hard to fix the situation and it does not improve, then we need a new project. We fix the problems and a new symptom pops up.

[@CloudTribe]

A woman typically becomes a problem that can't be fixed. Men would pay 500$ for books if they would give them knowledge to keep their woman consistently content/happy. Can't be done

[@MM-cl9zf]

Good convo 👍🏾 laughing the whole time 😂

[@RikishiPhatu1]

Man most of these chicks been hurt too many times lol I think some of em need to go look in the mirror. The men that they want have too many options and they hate it lol

[@stefanmueller7583]

😢you are very good. I love how you talk good things about woman 😢😮

[@RayanaMalika]

I dont think women like to casually date. If women choose you, then they CHOOSE you. Where as men can date you, get intimate, be respectful (or not), and already know they he don’t wanna keep you in the long-term. My question is if men know a woman isn’t the one, why stay and or why not tell her what she is lacking ?

[@truuff]

Cuz he just wants sex....if he was to be honest about not wanting her long term, she wont give up the booty. Its obviously wrong but thats the reason :)

[@donovansweet142]

are you sure women dont like to date casual??????

[@RayanaMalika]

donovan sweet positive.

[@donovansweet142]

@@RayanaMalika women have just as much casual sex as dudes if not more

[@RayanaMalika]

donovan sweet okay they can do what they want. I’m not speaking for ALL women

[@obiwan5003]

😆 **Yo Mesha be cracking me tf up! Shorty got a little temper on her*

[@youngloenoe]

Kenny is a role model. You can understand the message he is trying to convey.

[@janellinell4552]

Why don’t BLACK MEN COMMIT? Other men Do commit. But black men they’re not afraid of unprotected sex, kids out of wedlock and the drama that comes with it and incurable STD’s

[@cerebralmindgame9818]

These bitches and hoes ain't worth committing to when they fucking everything moving and trying to be in their masculinity. Besides, the law is heavily against us in divorce court if we marry them. It's a shitty deal to commit.

[@jrichieander6832]

“Somebody wasn’t holding their end of the bargain” 😭 bro aggy he triggered shorty with that one

[@c.anthonyjohnson259]

The girl in the brown with the two tone face paint 🤣🤣🤣

[@deshawnmcintosh9728]

Shawty that’s sitting next to smuv LAWD HAVE MERCY 😂🤣🤣

[@kougasoze720]

“Men don’t want to be with the video vixens” - Bra in the red cap That’s facts tho

[@TheDalinkwent]

The reason men don't commit to relationships is because women have made it clear...that the minute you really like and care about them...you're doomed. The lose all respect for you, attraction and then start throwing all of their efforts at other dudes who couldn't give two fucks about them. I've seen this pattern since I was a teen. After all ladies...how do you explain High School sweet hearts who were together for over 25 years...they finally get married and she divorces him in 3 months? He's the same nigga you knew for 25 years, but he was a challenge because he wouldn't commit, but the minute he did...the flavor was gone. The challenge was over, and her feelings with it. So, until female grow up on this issue...it will persist.

[@blackspiderman1887]

I agree. women get comfortable when married and feel they got you on a leash and their no fun in that.

[@omarsaleem3076]

The women that made the most sense are the ones that sat and listened. I ain’t listening to no cat try to tell me why dogs bark, especially if I’m a dog....and sis with the braids and the “I’m rooting for everybody “ tee is fine🤷🏽‍♂️

[@vidguy]

Why dont women be REAL women, and let the man be a MAN, and be the provider? im damn sure traditional roles would work, if stupid men wouldnt cheat on their wives so much

[@dwighthayles1226]

True comment! If I want to be the man and the leader I must be faithful. This is right!

[@JT-km6th]

haard to go straight back to traditional when everything is 7x more expensive than 70yrs ago

traditional roles suck for men.Why on earth do you WANT to be the workshorse and work yourself to death and have a woman just live off of your struggle??

[@sg5720]

Thank you. Men lost their way and in turn females don’t have a clue what to do.

[@sg5720]

Dude in the red hat bout he climbing ladder and looking back. Immaturity all over this brotha,. The minute a brotha on top and selects his woman she automatically on top too. A real man brings their woman with them and she joins his level cause she feels secured. That is what it is. Real men have real women periodt.

[@josephgray9858]

"🐔 alfredo is y'all best dish and only dish."😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@shomarimonroe150]

Awesome video and facts

[@JaySantanaofficial]

Car alarm: EXCUSSSSSE MEEEEEE 😂💀💀💀💀💀

[@Thetruth32]

Mesha is very masculine and that is why no man wants to commit to her. Ladies these men don’t want a woman that’s a loud mouth feminist that’s yelling: “I got the bag.”

[@Gigga101]

swear she finna be single for awhileee

[@teecreagh]

Great content overall 👏

[@LuCkiiEsZz]

this clip gave mee a few 1000 reasons more to not commit ever...

[@quanhonson9746]

16:45 the thing is what are you adding to him if your thinking like that lol

[@CharBuilds]

What’s Mesha social media’s trying to see something real quick lol

[@Lucelife]

As a black woman who hates these black relationship advice giving show I love all the MEN on this show. i love there prespective. The woman are awesome too.

[@cherankimiorak1739]

The first guy just said it all 👏🏽👏🏽

[@pheonixxxrose]

Men aren't afraid of commitment... They are afraid of commitment with you

[@WinterMorris]

Using shaming language and being belligerent, and looking down your nose at men, will not get you one

[@April-dy2tn]

It’s strange that these ladies don’t want to hear what is being said by the guys. It is weird they say men don’t do “x” and when given the logical reason why they shake their heads no. Well if we don’t listen to what men are saying and instead listen to the horror stories of friends past of course you will continue to run into these types of men. I HATE to admit that as women we are doing ourselves a disservice by hearing sound advice and choosing not to take it in.

[@molifts4389]

Y’all notice we all only speak on the men & women we don’t like as to why our relationships don’t work???

[@TrippiePineapplz]

You guys are funny but fr good advice Mesha reminds me of Tiny 😆

[@rissbliss]

Heat! I love this.

[@KyleHong]

25:24 This is why so many women think that most guys aren't good men. They are always going after the ones that aren't reliable. smh.

[@TrippiePineapplz]

I love watching this knowing Im one of the rare few who a good/real man will disregard all or most of their hos to progress with me... but wheres my match in that? Like homegirl said, I bring to the table everything (and usually waaay more) than all these manhos trying to flex to me about.

[@rockrocktheragnorok9184]

25:29 That's you all had to say in the first place. Women in general.

[@nigel5895]

Only honest answer in the video.

[@Th3lite]

The one in the brown shirt is fiesty. She made me laugh when she said "and let the games being"

[@tahira.7914]

Great video, bouta send this to my girl lol 💯

[@sydneewest2436]

This dude said Pasta isn’t cooking!!!💀💀💀😂😂😂I’m done!!!!

[@jonnycassh7765]

If the foundation of the Relationship is influenced by Feminism then it will be short lived. When a man commits he risks loosing his resources if everything goes sour.

[@plannedsarcasm6930]

That "boring as hell" is sooooooooooooooooooooo accurate

[@shomarimonroe150]

Fantastic video

[@faustinehua2692]

Where did you find that $2k birkin bag? On hillcroft? 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Mattdog_YT]

@13:05 this is so much facts💯💯

[@PJBrunet]

Don't trust the quiet ones.

[@RedhookBKLYN]

It must be chilly in that room. HA!

[@therealsandraweise]

Men say whatever they think the woman wants to hear. If a woman says she is looking for a relationship and the man SAYS he is not ready, that is a point of good character. A fair man. If a man pursues her still solely to get sex but lied about his intentions, his actions show interest in what that woman said she wants, he is manipulative and calculating. He is an UNSAFE man and that is how a person with poor character operates. How is a woman ever to know if she is safe when men flip flop their character from the start? Men are willing to lose their integrity rather than go without and miss an opportunity for just sex. Why is honesty some-timey for men? They give themselves and other men a pass regarding lying to women? Why is this acceptable? This is who we are supposed to trust to lead??? Every man on this channel has admitted to this behavior at some point. I'd like an answer to why this logic is acceptable please.

[@apelife9615]

SOMEBODY BEATING SOMETHING 🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

[@blackspiderman1887]

Ladies, if you really want to know if a man likes you for you, then simply don't sleep with him. Period. Wait a good long time. Preferably after marriage but at least 6 months. At first it's a game where he's trying to hit and so it's like a challenge for him. But once he realize that he won't be getting any unless he commits, he will either leave or he'll stay. simple as that. If he leaves then he wasn't going to commit to you regardless if you gave it up or not. But women today give it up so easily that he just hit it and quit and and you wonder why.

[@Naijarianman]

So you're saying a woman should stop having sex within marriage for no reason for a long time? Or was that a mistake that you wrote?

[@blackspiderman1887]

@@Naijarianman I'm saying dont have sex until after you are married to the person. But if your gonna have sex before marriage, make him wait it out. At least a few months. Most guys would give up after 2 weeks. If he is still hanging around after 2 months then chances are he may like you for you

[@Naijarianman]

@@blackspiderman1887 Tbh the sex before marriage thing makes the most sense. However you have to keep in mind men are the one's at risk the most when it comes to marriage due to potential divorce and child support arrangements. The problem with the wait it out before marriage scenario is that they're women who would freely give it up to a guy she doesn't want a long term relationship with as opposed to making the "marriage prospect " wait. This makes a guy feel that he's not truly being valued. There is also the scenario that he could just get it elsewhere during the waiting period.

[@blackspiderman1887]

@@Naijarianman Well I'm talking about serious relationships. If a girl isn't looking for a serious relationship and just wanna sleep around then so be it. But if you want a man to have a relationship with you, then you're better off not giving it up right away and make him wait. If you don't want to get married, that's fine, but if you want your man to be committed to you, then don't sleep with him right away. The longer he waits, the more you'll know that he's committed to you. Also if you've ever been in a real long term relationship, you'll know there's alot more to it than sex. Real men would understand that. Men categorize sex as a separate event in the relationship. So while women thinks they are getting closer to him because they have sex with him, we can have sex with someone and not be emotionally connected to them. It's harder for women to do that so in their heads they think men feel the same way, but we don't. I'm not saying we don't have an emotional connection with women during sex, but we definitely know how to separate the two and really only have that emotional connection with someone we see staying with long term. Also if he gets it elsewhere during the waiting period, what makes you think he still won't get it elsewhere after he slept with you? Like I said, if you're looking long term, you don't want to be with a jerk that so impatient he cant wait. That means he's only after 1 thing and 1 thing only and once he gets it he's gone and your value drop substantially. I'm a man so I know how we think. Men will value women more if you don't have sex with him right away. Because men can get sex pretty much anytime they want.

[@rigil5477]

On #KrewSeason, #SMVU says: "But we not going to commit these days. It's not like back in the days when you could get any woman, and basically build a family with, and actually sustain that family. Right? These days we need a woman that's actually on her shyt. You feel what I'm saying? That's going to bring in almost equal to what we bringing in. You know what I'm saying? It ain't even got to be financial. You know what I'm saying? It's emotional and all that, cause men naturally, the ninjas I'm rocking with, we trying to got get that bag. You know what I'm saying? So I need you to uphold the backend of the bargain. I'm going to need you to take care of this crib. You know what I'm saying? You want something I'm going to go get that. I need you to take care of everything else. I need you to make sure my kids make it to school and all that. Allot of these bum bishes don't even take their kids to school." (@01:15, October 9, 2018)

[@Sitoo_2415]

Damn right I’m scared of being unhappy

[@sydneewest2436]

11:12-11:25- that was an extremely valid point.Many women do look to potential in a guy whereas men take a woman for what she has to offer at that time. Some women look towards potential expectations whereas men are more logical. Makes sense.

[@SlanSellsCars]

Trill you need to do a follow up with these ladies……

[@BreeLynice]

These men need to be spiritually inclined. This conversation was so low value, none need to be in a relationship.

[@blackspiderman1887]

I agree. They need to view relationship and life as God views it

[@zakazakaboy344]

Nah obviously they do mean some of their comments but its mostly just comedy man its entertaining

[@ryanphillips5591]

AllThings Bree maybe its you thats low value

[@davon_DaGod]

Speak for yourself girl, I bet My life you’re still single lol

[@BreeLynice]

Davon Da_God what’s funny about being single ? It’s the best part of personal growth.