Why Are Some Women Attracted To Abusive Men?

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[@Roserosey04]

I am attracted to abusive men. Unfortunately. I hate it, though my father made me feel absolutely miserable, I’m familiar with it, therefore I’m comfortable with it. I don’t know how I will change it

[@yanwain9454]

well please help me out with something, what could a nice guy possibly do to keep you attracted without abusing you? let's assume he has everything going for him that women claim they want, he's good looking, good in bed, successful and he's really a nice person, so what does he have to do to get the affection and forgiveness that an abuser would get? Please tell me, I feel like I should be valued more by women and I am finding myself JEALOUS of abuser guys because of the absolute rockstar treatment they get from women. it feels very unfair that I work so hard to make myself a "high value man", yet i never get to experience love and these guys who don't value love at all, get showered with it. it's not just me, i have seen many of my male friends go through the same thing. If a real method for a nice guy to satisfy and abuse hungry woman could be established, it could save so many women and change the course of the human species, but it remains a mystery. this leads nice guys to overanalyze themselves, looking for this fault that isn't there, which leads them to be even less confident. so how do we really turn this around? Should i got take an andrew tate class in how to stop being nice? Do we need to start a fight club or a gang or something to give ourselves some edginess? seriously, help me out here.

[@thecure3982]

Have you looked up orienting out of chaos? This is something I have seen from KZbin on Peter Levine’s channel

[@clich126]

Spot on. Appears upside down. The attraction.

[@intuitivevibes1818]

But how can I change that? Therapist didn't help.

[@oliverjrcooper]

I suggest that you invest in this book -www.amazon.com/True-Self-How-Reconnect-Your/dp/B0C2RVJKD5/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2IRH3GT3EQM8S&keywords=oliver+jr+cooper&qid=1701950799&sprefix=oliver+jr+cooper%2Caps%2C493&sr=8-1 What type of therapy did you have?

[@yanwain9454]

@@oliverjrcooper you don't have it on audible dude? wtf. just because i'm not an abuser doesn't mean i want to read shit lol. you have a british accent, just record it yourself. i got 10 audible credits ready to spend.

[@oliverjrcooper]

haha....I know - it needs to be available as an audio book. Thank you for your comment. Did you leave another comment about a "fight club"? I can’t seem to find it.

[@yanwain9454]

@@oliverjrcooper yeah i think youtube might have censored that other one. i was just mainly wondering if there's any way that a non abusive man can get the treatment from women that the abusive guys get. the constant affection and forgiveness. i was wondering if perhaps starting a fight club would help give the nice guys a little edginess.

[@oliverjrcooper]

That may have happened. Well, a number of things come to mind when it comes to being with a decent woman. For me, a big part of it is healing childhood wounds. There is also the mental aspect of imagining that you already live in this reality and feeling what this would feel like. There are, of course, martial arts clubs that can play a part in giving a man an edge. Having a strong connection with your body and thus, aggression, is also important.

[@gonnacgodeeper7440]

This is a generalization. I had the best childhood in the world, but I still must be with an aggressive, domineering man. If not I grow bored...quick. I have grown to accept that this is simply a part of what attracts me to a man.

[@oliverjrcooper]

It is indeed a generalization and, of course, there are always exceptions.

[@malcolmandrews2779]

That's means that they're masochists, MASOCHISTS.

[@oliverjrcooper]

I believe that there can certainly be a masochist element here. However, if there is, it is likely to show that they were treated badly during their formative years. And, as they were egocentric, they would have come to believe that they were worthless and unlovable. The part of them that believes this is then playing a part in why they put up with this type of behaviour.

[@sljones9103]

Im a abuser i don't choose to be one

[@Poppy-yx8js]

Yes you do .

[@stevesmith6721]

Good video.....

[@oliverjrcooper]

Thank you for your comment.