I love this video. It tells my story. I was a woman raising a young black male by myself and one day when my son was three years old he was looking out the window. I heard him saying Daddy where are you? I love you Dad you're so beautiful to me. I was in tears. This when I meet my Apostle under the ministry I'm with now and began to understand the power of prayer. To try to shorten my long testimony. My son and I prayed everyday from 3 to 6 ( almost everyday) for a man of God to enter our life. Through ministry I learned I had a Jezebel spirit and I couldn't raise a man. Only a man could raise a man and I wanted a God following man over my son. Fast forward I've been married 13 years to a blessed hard working man of God. My son is about to finish one more year of college and we moved out of a gang infested neighborhood seven years ago and live in a nice quiet neighborhood where other people work hard too. God is good. Get your heart right. Pray and listen to this man of God. He is wise just like the Apostle I'm under now. The word works but you gotta work it. And this is just the beginning, God is still not done with my family. Amen 🙏🏾 I pray this blesses somebody.
@jenniferjones-ju8qk5 жыл бұрын
I'm from Chicago and this is truth. Violence is the main reason I packed my son's up and fled to the South. It's a million times different. I'm not raising thugs and don't want mines killed by any or police.
@vooes10 жыл бұрын
This message is also apply to us black people in the UK. We have the same problems here in London.
@terryraxamorg.43802 жыл бұрын
This man sent tears in my heart bc I'm that child he's talking about. Raised without a father with 8 other siblings and everything my mother made competitive between us. Now I'm a single father fighting against the odds that I experienced but now the tables are turned and I have a deadbeat for the of my child. It's really sad , however with the word of TMH I got this.💯✊🏿
@yahismyrefuge19835 жыл бұрын
Just stumbled across Pastor Darbys videos on here, and I can't stop watching , his teachings are a breath of fresh air, you won't see these other preachers preaching the truth, all of these false profits out here will have you all confused, glad I found his teachings,even after death Pastor Darby you are impacting lives daily....thank you!!! RIH😇🙏🙌
@kelleygreene56654 жыл бұрын
Absolute TRUTH!!! We as black men and women need to stop setting our children up for failure and try to work it out! Stop blaming everyone else and take responsibility for our actions. No matter how hard you try, mothers CANNOT be fathers. That's not God's design.
@ericmills87706 жыл бұрын
This man, is the best paster.. I've ever watched and listen to, on KZbin, period..
@millalove_2 жыл бұрын
This is a great sermon! I have my father in my life but he didn't really teach me what I needed to know growing up because he was raised by his mother. So all this makes perfect sense. And some of these men who have fathers in their lives still be reckless because they're fathers don't really be fathering them. But Pastor Darby is right about the difference in real men and boy-men.
@dezman607 жыл бұрын
Finally, somebody preaching a word with some substance instead some old tired, played-out, feel-good prosperity message
@cmoe-qp1lx7 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what the black church needs "Timely Messages". Too many churches are preaching about ancient "Bible Days" and what Peter and Paul did. We need more messages for our time!!!!
@ModestyAndMotherhood5 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most important sermons I have ever watched in my entire life. God really used this man.
@peacelove2805 жыл бұрын
Excellent teacher, who left too soon!! Very rare to find a pastor teaching like this!!!
@saraabraham54868 жыл бұрын
If only the churches would preach like this; I see a church in every corner in Brooklyn New York. Now, you know most of them are businesses. How lives would get altered by this kind of Real teaching and preaching.
@quoisegames193710 жыл бұрын
May we KZbinrs continue to support this ministry Financially, so that we can continue to get this life changing, balanced word without being charged. I'm sure every little bit helps. And with our financial support, eventually everybody will hear these life changing messages
@tiakeyaaustin60985 жыл бұрын
If this teaching doesn't elevate your accountability and desire to get closer to GOD; soul searching is needed immediately!!!
@coachb27668 жыл бұрын
" I brought redemption to my bloodline ." I like that . I Never would have looked at it as a generational curse .
@yoli85965 жыл бұрын
Pastor Darby is the best to ever do this...These teachings are so valuable! You can’t get this TRUTH anywhere! RIH Pastor Darby and May God bless Your Family and Your Ministry
@reginaldblaylock72098 жыл бұрын
We need our father's I was glad I had a father.
@comfortlynumb55855 жыл бұрын
It's the same for some of us poor white boy's that didn't have father's growing up in the inner city!
@kevinjoseph72125 жыл бұрын
Nothing but the truth. Not an emotional show. Real teaching.
@jtyryk5 жыл бұрын
This guy is the Truest Preacher I have ever heard.
@unorthodoxdaughterofzion6 жыл бұрын
Rest In Love Pastor Darby... this message was so real and funny. I get so many laughs and learn on your messages!
@lisha2223 ай бұрын
Awesome sermon….Rest well, Pastor Darby. Your voice is still being heard 💪🏾😍
@terryraxamorg.43802 жыл бұрын
When I meet a woman , I ask about her father and how much she respects him. If she doesn't love and honor her father , she can not love or honor any man and she's no good for me.
@billiewilson51975 жыл бұрын
Wow, this preacher is a awesome man of God I wish we had it.🤷🏾♀️🤦🏽♀️🙋🏽🙏🏾
@cynadio94497 жыл бұрын
I love this ..I had both parents in the home it kept me from having sex getting baby at a early marry my husband at 25 my child at 26 yes both parent will make a different..
@NarrowDC3 жыл бұрын
Let’s remember to watch at least one ad so his family can receive the revenue
@adriennehenson90915 жыл бұрын
I just want to play his teachings on a loud speaker! Ha he spoke about my movie Claudine. Amen AMEN Everyone be Blessed
@theresamischeski717 жыл бұрын
This Pastor's The best, Truth nothing but truth, Godbless this ministry ☺
@shanaharris26085 жыл бұрын
This message is so amazing. I never understood the importance of a man in the household because I wasn’t raised by my parents, and then I had a child out of wedlock. Thank God I had a degree and was able to work hard so that my child didn’t have to live and grow up in the system. I am happily married today, and God is still showing me how damaging it was to be raised without parents and listening to Trina tell me “I don’t need no nigga.” Music has raised many of us. We found our identity in it. I pray that more of our youth realize this earlier in life and not on the back end. 🙏🏽
@judahysrael20408 жыл бұрын
Finally a man of Yah on the scene.. I thank the most high Yah for the message and how he's using you in bringing fourth truth according to thus says the Elohim. Then you correlate the history and the mysteries that many claim to understand, but dont have a clue. You gave me the true guidance and understanding of the mysteries of abbas word and the more i listen to you ,the more interesting life is becoming and falling in line with what abba has prescribed for us according to his word. Blessings and longevity pastor, my prayer is that your light will continue to shine so, that all will want to come and seek the masters face. Shalom, shalom the 👑King is coming
@sleepypete554 жыл бұрын
I never get tired of Pastor Darby breakin it down. Are you thurr or are you not?? We thurr!! RIP brother.
@emanueloliver12978 жыл бұрын
This teaching is ON POINT... I live in Chicago and see this foolery often...
@orlandofurioso92285 жыл бұрын
God bless his ministry. He was a great servant!
@wisdomschild35176 жыл бұрын
Really miss this guy! These prophetic sermons are so helpful! Still keeping his family in my prayers! I hope they are comforted by the fact that he is present with the lord!
@gloriakanga64096 жыл бұрын
I love when his wife be saying amen!!! She is awesome 🤣
@TheBridgetdenise16 жыл бұрын
This is so true, my God, my God we are missing Pastor Darby already!!!
@mattiemickler47573 жыл бұрын
Truth and nothing but the truth. The truth hurts but it will set you free if you let it. Pastor so on point about everything
@blyy63248 жыл бұрын
Jesus wept...He was the greatest man ever and our Saviour
@stellarbiz10110 жыл бұрын
Yep I have that movie Claudine. Purchased years ago to get insight on black culture & you're exactly right about how that was a set up for fatherlessness in our community. Thanks so much for the light you are shedding on the things that are really going on in our world today & how we need to clean house & live holy once & for all.
@pamavery35968 жыл бұрын
Great word Pastor, I don't know how I was able to run into you on you tube, but I consider it a blessing. I listen to you all day to catch up. You seriously keep it real, and we have to continue to pray for our kids and communities. You are so right about these young girls having these kids they can't raise. I am tired of seeing it. I wish you had a tv show, we don't need Maury, we need you. Keep it real Pastor.
@lisajackson14765 жыл бұрын
Oh my I miss this man of The Most High Yahua.... Thank You ABBA if you only gave us this pastor for a little while.......Thanks......
@oliviajames41295 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree single parenting is a HUGE issue that needs to be addressed and a TWO parent home the natural order of God and is needed to balance the home. BUT I also believe for those many families left with one parent, IF the parent that is actively in the childs gives their life to Christ and let him lead them they will be able to raise, God respecting, responsible, productive, strong, balanced children into men and women. Nothings to hard for God, he will lead them and show them what to do and not do. This includes all the nonsense going at the pastor mentioned a Godly parent will not allow those things to go on in there home by their children.
@tiptoetone57395 жыл бұрын
31:33 - 31:45 gave me chills! RIP PASTOR!
@queenopurrrr5 жыл бұрын
Lord knows me and my.son father feel out last night I be angry at him but one thing I wouldn't do is stop him from seeing his son I know my son love him and need him I tried to potty train my son and couldn't my son father taught him one time and he learned and been doing it all the time now ladies no matter how angry we get what they can teach them we can never achieve it if he not a drug addict or molester or murder let your son learn from him but it he's not a good man drugs or killing find him a male mentor don't give up on our kids especially our sons
@cidneykirk34075 жыл бұрын
I hate I'm just getting hip to Pastor Darby awesome man of God
@johnbelt852710 жыл бұрын
Great message im J Belt (25) from baltimore the lord gave me a vision that we need to build an army of prayer warrior men and women not bound by sin to help us threw these end times. Commanding demons out even changing matter with our faith in jesus, like jesus did with the fig tree, and the multitude of fish. The devil is stepping his game up as his children we need to step ours up to the next level. The people need truth and as christains we need to market jesus first how we live being a living examples and market jesus in other ways without making our motivation money but faith. I belive then we will have the lords army.
@dsanders7998 жыл бұрын
how will we do it soldiers
@maureenmatovu65305 жыл бұрын
Thank you , pastor Stephen Spot ....on 2 pac music influenced me to drink alcohol , to be angry and to have a rebellious attitude for years.... I felt rejected by my father b4 I started drinking
@kingrashawn59762 жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL message!!! 💯💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽 Rest well Pastor. You were definitely a blessing from God
@comfortlynumb55855 жыл бұрын
I remember ghetto boys the movie colors had us acting stupid in the eighties music and tv can definitely influence you!
@harryhenderson22594 жыл бұрын
SUPERB TEACHING!" YOU ARE TRULY MISSED GREAT SHEPARD DARBY!" BUT YOU ARE & STILL WITH US IN SPIRIT " THANK YOU ALWAYS" SHALOM TO ALL THE RIGHTEOUS ON EARTH"
@msrochellaqueen10 жыл бұрын
We can use our Pain to be better. Amen to this Truth.
@UncommonWoman16114 жыл бұрын
06/23/2K20...5 years later, it's worse. RIH Pastor Darby!!! You are missed!!! GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY!!! AMEN 💝💝💝
@ericford89057 жыл бұрын
Truth and nothing but the TRUTH!!!! AWESOME JOB FACTS HERE!!!!
@westindianmalkah85705 жыл бұрын
Love this Pastor. God Bless his Ministry and Thank you Pastor Darby R.I.P.
@livinglavender462510 жыл бұрын
Awesome word Man of God ... Your changing lives one video at a time.
@lucinala3110 жыл бұрын
true word man of God! thank you so much for this, helps me to be a better mother! God bless you and your family!
@jewelEclear8 жыл бұрын
His message is spot on!
@Keneth-z1d4 ай бұрын
Thank you Stephen and Missy Darby ministries.
@nicolabrooks17953 жыл бұрын
We need our Father's
@riccccccardo8 жыл бұрын
Love this guy
@beverlyhoward35122 жыл бұрын
Our eyes are open thanks to YOU! THANK YOU PASTOR, ALL PRAISES DO THE MOST HIGH🤔
@tracywebb16046 жыл бұрын
Ooooh. That's deep speaking...I was a old school parent.i was a victim of a generational curse... I didn't teach my children about how to be a man..I had 4 boys...I did the best I could...I didn't Know about raising a child....now...I see....my children are grown and my 22yr old commited suicide.....and my grand son 2yrs old was killed..... my oldest son is angry his father died he was a pastor ...my middle son seen his father sale drug's and he is a cutter and very isolated on guard all the time to himself....my youngest son is in the service military.he is doing well his father does everything with him and still treat him like a baby... won't let him grow on his own....to be a man ....I hope that you pray for my family...thank pastor........#starting over......I pray that all will see this cerman.......and learn from this ....
@chriswilson60334 жыл бұрын
“I said It” my most favorite quote ever
@spencerking6035 жыл бұрын
Very WISE BEOTHER MAY GOD HAVE MUCH MERCY ON WHO EVER WHATEVER THAT MAY HAVE HARMED THIS BROTHER BUT I DO KNOW THE MOST MIGHTY GOD OF GODS HAS HIM !!!!
@zzzzz-k7t5 жыл бұрын
Amen, they putting them on our commercials, it's always been a war against the black man
@booklover24048 жыл бұрын
Great sermon.
@byhisgrace28533 жыл бұрын
This word had me crying out to God to save our people!! Thank you Pastor Darby for being willing to preach the truth with no sugar coating at all. May you rest in peace in the presence of our Lord 🙏🏾💜
@peacelove2805 жыл бұрын
Willie Lynch in Full Effect!!!
@Zara_Luna2 жыл бұрын
"Discipline to get strong in your spirit to be faithful with your vows, be level headed & logical, do what you say, be accountable, stick with something, start what you finish, be responsible, and loyal"
@reddqueen97228 жыл бұрын
Amen!!! nothing but the truth
@Tony-Gatos Жыл бұрын
This is proof that God was working threw Late Mr.Dardy, He predicted what we're living presently. That's prophetical
@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade6 ай бұрын
Listening in 2024! From a female perspective, I love when Pastor Darby said “every sin has a soundtrack”. I was never a rap fan BUT I will say that I committed fornication and the “soundtrack” is R&B People think R&B is innocent music but it promotes promiscuity and lust.
@paperbagbrown67336 ай бұрын
NO DISCIPLONE. = NO GROWTH 💪🏾👍🏾💪🏾💯💯💯💯💯
@aceace46606 жыл бұрын
YIKES! He made it PLAIN.
@ellyakimbarjudah20283 жыл бұрын
Our ppl need THIS!!
@Zo_19873 жыл бұрын
This is Pure Truth!!!!!!! I live in Chicago
@martezwright88077 жыл бұрын
I thank God for finding you
@frederickallgood75927 жыл бұрын
excellent teacher
@theone1onhigherground4965 жыл бұрын
Celebrate your Perfection & Victory in Heaven Pastor for your **WORKS** WELL DONE. In Your voice, Teachings and Love We are coming back to Ourselves to God through Christ Jesus. Thank you Father God for unveiled Truth & the **LIGHT** of Jesus that guides Us and gives Us Thee **VICTORY** AMEN
@tawanaturner8854 Жыл бұрын
This a good good sermon..yessss very true.. your Father in heaven Loves you ♥
@prettybwillowbee7584 Жыл бұрын
We miss you Pastor Darby 🙏🏾🙏🏾💝💝
@gwendolynhill34302 жыл бұрын
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS MESSAGE...STILL HAPPENING IN CHICAGO... I'M AM SO READY TO LEAVE THIS CITY..😢😢
@papaadwoa5698 жыл бұрын
true man of God
@augustusb35013 жыл бұрын
Awesome teacher !
@leonitisboyd61157 жыл бұрын
love this dude man, he keeps it real
@lilraisin10 жыл бұрын
Preach Preach Preach
@darjon5858 жыл бұрын
Great word!!!!
@sandrasinclair85736 жыл бұрын
Pastor, you're on point! Tell the truth as it is; we don't hear it from the pulpit👍🏾
@zairegraham30233 жыл бұрын
We should all link up and keep his message going my young kings
@sherrymitchell95205 жыл бұрын
A masterpiece
@victourrogan22434 жыл бұрын
PEORIA,ILLINOIS THIS "DISCIPLE OF CHRIST..."!!! IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!!!
@inpursuitofthetruth19758 жыл бұрын
this is such a blessing and it also made me laugh which doeth good like a medicine... me the most highly bless you and your ministry. Shalom
@vh76374 жыл бұрын
This man told the truth 🙌 💯
@larenzowilson506210 жыл бұрын
You speaking da truth right now go head man teach em be A man
@sandybeaches39505 жыл бұрын
The mother and the grandmother and aunt's are afraid to stop it. She's gonna either put them out or call the police on these boys.
@JustAnwarJ10 жыл бұрын
Good word Pastor Steve
@dsanders7998 жыл бұрын
Steve or stephen
@manoniemoments5 жыл бұрын
“Have a baby by me be on welfare.”😆 Noooooooooooo, Sir. This is a dynamic word.