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[@alexandergrace5350]

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[@rm847]

Alexander, toxic juice ain't worth the squeeze!

[@agm5424]

When they complain about their so wanting to "act like their mom" what they are really saying is that they are the ones who want their boyfriend or husband to act like the only adult in the relationship while they act and relax as if they were back being children and doing nothing. One of the duties and whole points of marriage is to divide the work of a single adult between the two. Normally is the husband being the one who mainly go out into the world and earns the resources anyone needs to live while the wife is the one who is mainly the one responsible for maintaining the house and properly distributing the resources in the house to keep everyone in the family satisfied and relaxed.

[@cedricdellafaille1361]

@alexandergrace5350 do you have the title of the study you got the data from?

[@TheOriginalBrent]

Alex, start packing up your household. Talked to Marco Rubio, and you and your family’s US passports should be arriving in your mailbox, soon. We got a job laid on for you too when you arrive. It’s US director of counter-feminism (DOCF). LOL 😂. Just playin. Love your stuff. It’s well thought out and we’ll argued. Cheers and keep up the good work 😊

[@nonusbusinissus5632]

Tbf what you describe here is not man vs woman or expectations or anything else. Its literally just end stage liberalism isnt it? Never suffering need, never having negative experiences, never needing to meet compromise, never need to deal with anything negative, and the end result is pampered narcissists who think that acts of cooperation are oppression, but always conveniently when it does not benefit them.

[@robertpleydell6527]

Never before in human history have women demanded so much yet offered so little in return.

[@fifthpint4571]

Which is why they’ve priced themselves out of the market. What a silly thing to do.

[@ordinaryretrogamer6944]

All most are is a series of holes

[@soydansogukcesme470]

AND on top they blaming men, that it is too less what they get.

[@DunkSkunk]

It's bad when I'm not even interested in them anymore

[@jamestrent-nw9zb]

@@DunkSkunk You are spot on...I see no benefit from being with a woman...only pain, drama, and mind games to hurt/destroy a man. I am 73 now and live in peace and am content with my life...up until 25 years ago I was in a marriage from hell (I am not exaggerating) Look after yourself and stay single kiddo.

[@great_cosmic_pig]

20 years ago I was helping my friend fix his roof. At noon we went downstairs and I expected to be given lunch, but his spouse said decisively: "I'm not a maid! A grown-up person should be able to do it himself!" Then I said: "Great, I'll go home and make myself lunch, and you help him fix the roof!" Her eyes darted around, there was laughter, and she tried to turn the situation around, that she tried to make some excuse joke and immediately ran to the kitchen.

[@vaguincolombia]

You are the best friend ever!. Just tell your friend, he deserves better.

[@marpro212]

Lol

[@ВладиславВладислав-т1ж]

Туда её

[@IntegraDIY]

I wonder if they’re still together.. you already know what he’s been going through with attitude like that. She was probably sleeping with someone else and was completely emotionally gone by that point.

[@great_cosmic_pig]

IntegraDIY He has moved to other city long time ago so no idea...

[@FirstnameLastname-pe5ib]

The dude who willingly made that video is unbelievable weak. She will leave him the moment a better option glances at her.

[@tomasom4497]

Yep

[@kylemendoza8860]

Probably not. She's probably already sleeping with other dudes and making him watch. And she gets to spend all his money. She got a gravy train. Not saying that she'll ever be happy. Deep down she despises him for being weak and she wants a masculine man.

[@rotm4447]

humiliation ritual.

[@roarzish]

it made me physically ill watching that. Eyes disappearing back into my skull from cringing.

[@PabloLpH]

Word.

[@jameshorgan2395]

My wife bought me a drill for Xmas. I went out and bought her an iron.

[@marklittle8805]

My wife asked for an iron one year....

[@jjrecon3024]

Buy her a muzzle instead

[@BetaBuxDelux]

@@marklittle8805nice

[@poopoppy]

It's a nice gift. Most men like tools.

[@Johnny.1965]

Should have bought her pots and pans and said "finally, you'll be able to cook a decent meal..

[@ryanwelch1321]

I was married for more than 40 years to the same woman, who was a lazy, slovenly, wastful stay-at-home mom. I easily worked 4x more hours than her and 10x harder. And I still played with the kids, read them bedtime stories, and helped with the housework. And for my sacrifice, I was unappreciated, disrespected, and humiliated. When I finally had enough of her and left, I was outraged to learn that I could do everything she did in a week in a half-day without breaking a sweat....and did a better job.

[@ThaMainStage]

A better job, AND it's quieter

[@shadowpathfinder7723]

I think the only thing to do if you're a man who wants kids is to suck it up and acknowledge that this is reality now. If you don't get a trainable baby mama you're just going to have to *be* everything until she disappears and your kids get to see what she did to you (especially girls) or she feels bad enough that she manages to think it through. It just seems like a sacrifice we have to make this generation for the generation that we give birth to

[@farmthestars3962]

You are a good dad Ryan, you just got with the wrong one. Take care

[@jaydee2072]

You loved your children and did good by them no matter how you were treated. It sucks to be neglected but fwiw I think you're a good man who deserves better. You did the important things, it just turned out she wasn't one of them...

[@MegaAvalonn]

This isn't the time of our great-grandmothers. We have dishwashers, air fryers, clothes washers and dryers, automatic vacuums, etc. Remind me, what value does a housewife bring again that I couldn't do myself? Don't get me wrong, I would prefer a housewife over a boss babe who never shares the money. A competent housewife can save me around 6 hours a week if she's a good woman, but if she starts demanding, no way!

[@SomeCanine]

If a man is doing full time work, preparing his own meals, cleaning his laundry, cleaning up the house, and doing all of the other chores, what use is the woman? He already does everything. He is so much above her, she has no use in the relationship.

[@phatpat63]

I think that actually has a lot to do with why women have such a contemptuous attitude for the traditional women's work. All of that stuff is so easy to do now that if that's 'what she is for', then she's actually very dispensable. So she tries to get a sense of security and importance by establishing that all of that low value work is beneath her. And so she achieves the classic female self-sabotage of trying to resolve her insecurity in her own value by attempting to set her own value higher, and thus lowers her actual value.

[@msc8382]

I feel like I’ve seen this comment before. Either way, you’re right. Often, one partner gets the benefits of the other’s hard work but doesn’t pull their own weight where it matters. That’s the problem. The key is teamwork. Sure, anyone can learn to do anything, but we’re not all equally good at everything. If that weren’t true, gender roles wouldn’t exist. And if they don't actually exist, then there's no need for anyone to take any particular role (so why provide or protect then?). So, you let your partner handle what they’re better at. If you can’t do this, one person is dating out of their league. A strong partner fills in the gaps where the other struggles. That’s how some women "date up"-if they’re willing to take on those responsibilities. Though a lot of women feel entitled to the treatment, and then always end up blindsided that their man leaves. Actually.. I don't think this is exclusive to women. The real issue? Some people feel entitled to benefits that successful people worked for. But the person with power decides what’s fair. The person with least power/resources can agree, help improve the stakes, or move on. No smart person gives away value for free and expects nothing in return. That'll lead to sacrifice (losing to the level of induced scarcity). We see a lot of young men making this mistake, and promptly causes them to think they're worthless. (They were not, you sacrificed your worth for someone else who didn't deserve it). So those young men, ultimately grow up, as successful men not willing to share anything, due to the high chance of it becoming a sacrifice. So what are people waiting on? For the other to carry their respective weight in the relationships in terms of responsibility. Honestly, that's why I think marriage worked when you married for kids. You were after all, both deciding to have kids for yourself. This means you were already ready to carry that part of the responsibility. So if we're going to look at it like this, then we could say: "relationships without a common goal are doomed to fail". So, why are men staying single then? Either because their goals are incompatible with those of women, or women can no longer take responsibility. Both could be a consequence of not talking about your ambitions in life with your partner. So I guess nobody is really showing interest in one another anymore, so we don't discover each others ambitions, and thus we can never find common ground to start the relationship from.

[@scrateshooter]

​@@phatpat63 What difference does it make? Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

[@poopoppy]

If.......

[@msc8382]

​@ " All of that stuff is so easy to do now that if that's 'what she is for'.." This is how I spot the wrong woman and walk away before she causes harm. My rule: If it’s not worth doing, don’t do it. But be sure to talk about it with the other before stopping. If she thinks chores are beneath her, yet I struggle with them while excelling at complex tasks, we aren’t a good match. I’d rather do a week of admin work than a few hours of chores. It’s just how my brain works. If she cannot see that, she's clearly not thinking about my needs and wants. I personally find doing finances 'beneath me', but I'm very certain my partner would be happy she never has to think about it. A strong relationship is about balance. If I handle finances while she does laundry, we’re far more effective together than if we switched roles. Thinking a task is "beneath you" shows a lack of respect for its impact. If you truly believe that, you’re likely dating someone below your level. After all, you've found no compelling reason to do that job. But remember-only others can judge how effective you really are. In a relationship, your actions affect more than just you. By single-handledly changing the value of a person by talking about it, you start entering the realm of 'wishful thinking'. Its were you truly believe the mere act changes your value. However, only other people can determine your value according to their own goals and desires. If you do not fit it, no matter how much value you think you have, you'll never be enough. So what do people do then? MORE WISHFUL THINKING! Whatever you do, don't do the only right thing to do when you feel you're not in the right place in your relationship: talk about it, work it, or move on.

[@TheVagolfer]

My ex-wife never understood the amount of work I did on our property, she constantly said she did more taking care on the house. One day I suggested we hire people to do what we did...a maid cost us $300 a week, but it was going to cost $2500 a month to hire two men to do what I did. She never complained again.

[@wattsurfrigginproblem]

Excellent approach 👍

[@NdjayOne]

Great stuff!

[@YouilAushana]

​@@wattsurfrigginproblem absolutely brilliant bravo 😂❤

[@watamutha]

Yeah bc anybody can clean. Hard labor? Not many dudes can do that

[@deutscherfischer55]

Had this same discussion with my wife. Realized she didn’t care because she spends 99% of her time inside so it’s like the whole 10 acres doesn’t even exist. At least my kids enjoy it.

[@ByeDEI]

That "wife" in the first one is so condescending and arrogant, that she said, "babe, I want to publicly shame and undermine you, on social media, to show everyone you are my slave and under my thumb." She has ZERO idea what a wife is, and nor does she care. She's probably already cheating on him (our current female cheating pandemic) with some guy who would never permit such public degradation, while sponging off her little servant here for her needs. He should grow a pair and divorce her. Immediately.

[@KingsguardRP]

Men who do this usually do so because they feel inferior, i.e the usually earn less so they overcompensate. Some XX who crave power actually target lower earning men they can control.

[@Ric_Roar]

The longer he waits the more he will pay in the long run. Especially if they do not have kids yet.

[@ByeDEI]

@@Ric_Roar 100%.

[@YouilAushana]

It not a new pandemic. "Women are only loyal to their feelings" psychacks

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

He probably works all day to afford that McMansion, meanwhile herowife over there is probably going to brunch, to yoga, shopping, then cruises over to Chad's studio apartment, then around 7pm when her husband is finally home from work and a long commute, she's just in time to be there before him to greet him with a litany of complaints about him not doing enough and that she's overworked and stressed. His fault for marrying her though. If she baited and switched him, okay, but the minute she does you either divorce her, or deal with her hardball act with some 110mph fastballs of your own. Don't give her Mr. Nice, give her Mr. Misogyny.

[@garethkirby3904]

So women don't want their husbands to treat them like their mother but are happy to treat their husbands as their baby boy doing chores.

[@JohanLiebert-b1d]

and expect their husbands to be like their dad, want them to completely take care of them, protect them, provide and sacrifice. It sounds almost comical if you think about it, soo absurd you can only laugh at it.

[@Kevin_Knox]

Holy crap you nailed it.

[@great_cosmic_pig]

It's funny, when they spend his salary, they don't ask for any 50/50, but suddenly there's a 50/50 revolution in the kitchen.

[@ZippyPiglin36]

Benevolent Sexism, or more specifically "Princess Syndrome" as a few may say informally

[@TheBazino]

Statistically men spend 50% of their money on women, because while women earn about 50% of all the money, they spend about 75% of all money, meaning that on average a man with a woman spends 50% (!) of his money on the woman. So you don't even need to get divorced, you are already spending 50% of your money on your girlfriend or wife without even realizing it.

[@great_cosmic_pig]

I read that our average Russian Natasha spends 1.5 times more on herself than she earns. How does she do it? Who knows this secret? It's some kind of mystery! :))))

[@ZippyPiglin36]

@TheBazino She didn't spend 50% on the Mortage, Vehicles, Electronics, Childcare, Services, etc.

[@diwakarsharma3228]

Female think about her husband & children. Male think about society, parents, wife & children .

[@AwakenedEmptiness]

The word of the day is: M I S A N D R Y 👁️👄👁️

[@eliezerarce4699]

Funny how all women know what misogyny means, but have never heard of another word: misandry.

[@VaronPlateando]

@@eliezerarce4699 If asked, they even don't know how to explain the former, in many cases, instead of perpetuating | regurgitating gyn.fasc hivemind. Alright, they're (to be) dissmissed.

[@Urkiaistrash]

Women! ☕️

[@YouilAushana]

That's my favorite heavy metal band! _MISANDRY_ 😂❤

[@YouilAushana]

​@@eliezerarce4699 women only repeat and regurgitate what has been spoon fed to them by a authority source akin to a squawking parrot 😂❤

[@MaxxSea]

"Drizzle Drizzle" worked well. Maybe we should start saying, "I'm not gonna pay. I'm not your dad"

[@Ric_Roar]

lol Good idea

[@YouilAushana]

I have been saying that since women ask me about masculine things. _"maybe go ask your dad, uncle brother or cousin"_ 😂❤

[@vagabondjay7281]

Count me in 💯🏆👑

[@mikeconcino4022]

Over the holidays my sister-in-law was visiting for a few days. The two of them were talking about the bear vs man thing with their expected position. About fifteen minuts later, my sister-in-law was talking about something she wanted to have her husband to do. I suggested that maybe the bear will do it.

[@Ric_Roar]

@ 🐻 Grizzle Grizzle

[@DBTwister]

Live by yourself and hire a maid. My maid comes in on a Monday and Friday and does all the housework, cleans and cooks/prepares my meals for the week. I run a business and don't have time to do it myself. She is way more affordable than my other staff. There is no point getting upset and frustrated. Simply pivot and find solutions that work for you.

[@floridaman7]

The maid will do a better job.

[@mohammedgamal5398]

How much does she cost per 1hr

[@DBTwister]

@@floridaman7 She is awesome-older and wiser, too. Recently, she noticed that pizza bases were getting ridiculously expensive, so she started making them from scratch for me. Last Friday, she made homemade spinach and feta pies that I just pop in the air fryer over the weekend. The best part? She tackles everything with a smile.

[@floridaman7]

@@DBTwister i had a maid before i had a wife. The maid did a much better job. Didnt cost me as much money. No attitude from the maid.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

​​@@floridaman7I concur. People must always know that they can be replaced if they are unwilling, or unable to do their jobs. Exceptions for new hires & trainees.

[@solusaldrain]

As a single man, I already do my own laundry and take care of myself. What is the point of taking in a woman as my wife if I still have to do that work while also working to support two people? Congratulations, ladies, you took a good thing like marriage and you ruined it.

[@kenbellchambers4577]

Don't fret, they are learning a lesson. As the age devolves, they will crawl back like the cur who chewed your boots.

[@YouilAushana]

Yep and I don't have any shrunken or pink clothes. 😂❤

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

And also she will never shut TFU about how she "does all the work" yet somehow your house was spotless when you lived alone but became a filthy mess after she moved in.

[@Tanaka-kun9313]

Sound's to me that Shikamaru from Naruto was right.Women are a drag😂

[@adrian8113]

A warm hole

[@milindvsonawane4631]

They think that bringing sex is the only thing they need to bring to the table while we men should live a life that's practically of a single father👏🏻

[@woodchuck83]

hahaha they don't even bring that bro, you forgetting how they love to even stop doing that once the ring is on it.

[@rapsack7058]

Exactly! Girls are brought up today with idea that being a woman is enough. They even get not tought to clean and cook anymore, while most boys actualy learn to cook and do their household. Thats why men actualy do not need woman anymore but woman still need man, since they learned nothin valuable beside m,aybe to work aswell. BUT even in this task they often only chasing their own fullfillment and do not see trhat her work is less a way for selffullfillment as to provide for the family, for their husbands and kids.

[@milindvsonawane4631]

@woodchuck83 That's the whole point bro, there's a reason why we say man of his words not woman.

[@kojo2773]

You will have more sex while single than in any relationship.

[@presidentjoebiden46thpresi93]

Yr comment proved why we women should choose bear.

[@8954-m6u]

Housework has never been easier than today.

[@YouilAushana]

_More stuff more dust bunnies_ 😂❤

[@EsyuDach]

theere's nothing to it, actually. About 1 hour per week. There is zero reason to have a woman who doesnt pay her half of the bills. If you're not a milliionaire you're a moron to have kids in the US today. All that does is set you up to let her take EVERYTHING from you, after you've given her and the kidsw everything , for 10-15 yeard. What a sucker play.

[@gabem6863]

Exactly! I'm can't figure out where those statistics came from. It takes me as a single man about 2 hours a week to prep lunch for the entire week; about 20 minutes per workday to make myself breakfast, 10 or so for dinner; less than 2 hours a week to clean the house and groom the dogs whilst the clothes washer and dryer are running. Total of about 6 hours/week only. Unless those stats include yardwork and preventative maintenance on the house it does not add up.

[@HereWashThis]

I have an issue with stay-at-home moms insisting their husbands take on numerous chores. They’re supported by yet another neo-feminist myth: Being a stay-at-home mom is the hardest job in the world. It’s not. How do we know? Just ask any stay-at-home dad. Any man who has a wife like that should absolutely insist that she return to work.

[@spilledit]

I'm a stay at home dad because the mom is lazy and doesn't parent. It is very hard when you're the only one with no breaks when they are 5 and under. One of the kids is not mine though, and makes it very difficult to discipline. If mom just did her part like discipline when needed or cooked the meals, it would be much easier. I'm mentally exhausted all the time and it just doesn't have to be like this. Women only care about 'team women'.

[@sarahnovella4971]

i hope you read the reply lol

[@kellygreenii]

Staying home and raising preschool children is tough. But the problem isn’t a too many women expect him to divide up All the work that was traditionally her responsibility…while he continues to do all the work that was traditionally his. So, as Alex showed it is not an even split…and they don’t actually want one.

[@spilledit]

@@kellygreenii agreed

[@gumby3057]

If being a stay-at-home mom was REALLY the hardest job in the world, they wouldn't be trampling over each other to do it.

[@peterkoch3777]

Every job you can do in your pajamas is not difficult - Bill Burr😂🎉❤

[@edwardbrito4010]

Having said that there is serious math nerds can do stuff make a grown man cry old Billy red head 😂

[@YouilAushana]

​@@edwardbrito4010 na, math needs are just that math nerds. Don't understand estimate hillbillies enginunity. Like tesla truck v whistling diesel.

[@sarahnovella4971]

zoom meeting? 😂

[@hoi-polloi1863]

@@sarahnovella4971 Zoom meeting doesn't count, because you have to wear a professional top. The bottom half can be PJs or cargo shorts!

[@Slothacious]

I'm also going to say it: 1hour managing the laundry macvines and vacuuming is not the same as 1h shoveling snow

[@josephberrie9550]

well the washing and drying machines actually do all the work...loading and emptying them is the easy part same with a dishwasher

[@YouilAushana]

​@@josephberrie9550 the vacuum, the iron and the oven too 😂❤

[@alexisc7565]

How many days out of the year do you shovel snow?

[@MeHaveDonuts]

During the ol' corona I spent 2 weeks stuck with a girl and by everything, I mean I did everything, from shopping to cooking to cleaning to working to gardening and all around maintenance. Fair tho, she was a new gf and all that so couldn't expect too much but when she started bragging about how amazing she was in bed when she disliked oral and pulled starfish, I was mentally done. After she got back home her mother called me and apologized on her behalf after she spent hours pointing out all of my "flaws". i.e. having bad taste in movies, music, food... I honestly appreciated the apology but I broke that day. Swore to never be that kind ever again. "We now live in a world where a man has to work immensely hard to meet someone he would never want to be near while sober"

[@peripheralparadox4218]

Sounds like you’re ready to read the manipulated man.

[@MeHaveDonuts]

@@peripheralparadox4218 Hehe thanks for the response, but I fear that diving too deep into this world will leave us bitter and pessimistic. With all due respect to this uploader, you can see how doing this for so long is eating at him. We need to go to the gym or something lol.

[@ATXRobot]

​@@MeHaveDonuts Ignorance is not bliss. Quite the opposite, as getting burned repeatedly without understanding why will only shut you down and tempt you into becoming cruel. A woman advocating for your worth and educating you on the red flags is not going to teach you to hate women. lol Watch hoe_math after reading that book. Even women fInd his breakdowns enlightening because he very digestibly breaks down what both sides want out of a relationship, how they can get it and how to avoid people who who aren't interested in giving it.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

"We now live in a world where a man has to work IMMENSELY hard.." I disagree. There are no victims. Just volunteers. - Paul Elam

[@YouilAushana]

It was all a test to see what she could extract from you. _YOU FAILED SON!!!_ 😂❤

[@JarboBombay]

I knocked a chair off a shelf in the garage one time putting a scratch on my GFs car. She got extremely pissed and said I’d be making her car payment (only bill she paid) if I did that again. I told her she could pay the mortgage then because she had ran her car into the garage door a couple weeks earlier to which I did not say a lot. Nope that’s different she said, I asked for an explanation of how and of course the subject was changed to how I wasn’t sorry enough about her car. Only reason it happened in the first place was that I was trying to finish installing a new bedroom floor and I asked her to help me get trim down from the shelves bc they are so long. She said yes but then goes about doing her own thing. I waited 20 mins and then tried to do it myself. I buffed out the dang scratch, & eventually I had to fix the door too. Her dog was the reason a new floor was needed anyway. We did not last much longer. Double standards all around.

[@YouilAushana]

When you engage with them they will say and do anything. Hence, _"play stupid games, win stupid prizes"_ they use your energy against you and just suck the energy and life out of you for their gain and pleasure. 😂❤

[@theelder4797]

Staying away from them now, or still lacking in wisdom? Too thirsty to stay away? Hopefully you don't have to lose everything, up to and including your veryLyfe to learn this lesson. Good luck 🤞🤞🤞

[@bpint695]

10 seconds in and I nearly vomited by the dude agreeing to humiliate himself like that.

[@BuryTheLight-yp4mc]

For real.. manginas

[@gruby970]

Cucks just being cucks

[@PHTraining]

My sister husband has cookes me dinner twice and washed up after. I asked him what he was doing and told my sister to get in the kitchen. He works 12 hours a day on the building site. She is part time home office

[@maxamv3879]

Your sister is also probably cheating on him.

[@kaibaman4843]

If I ever see my sister's husband pay 100% of the bills while he partakes in household chores, I'm gonna straight up tell him he can do better and question him what does she bring to the table.

[@peripheralparadox4218]

She got herself a slave! That’s what they want.

[@PHTraining]

@kaibaman4843 haha it's right tho. He took her from single mom renting to a million pound house and 4 holidays a year

[@StarsDie88]

My dad paid most of the bills, worked most of the hours, and did most of the cooking. My mom nagged him about leaving lights on in rooms he was no longer occupying -- when he paid the electric bill.

[@greyfoxice]

That data is over a decade old. I bet the numbers are even worse now

[@Essexboy0514]

We don't need to rub the salt in the wound

[@AnthonySforza]

Had an ex who was a model from Korea and every time shed leave a room, she leave the lights on. So Id remind her, like "Hey, could you turn the light off real quick?" As she was leaving that room. Only for her to respond "Im not your maid!" However, once her modeling started contributing to the bills, guess who was running around, turning off all the lights and leaving the AC at a specific temp. Turning off the light while Im still in the room, reading. Like she was afraid the Luftwaffe would see us or something.

[@watchinkc]

About a 93% chance she's cheating on you as well

[@poopoppy]

About a 100% chance you are just guessing.

[@YouilAushana]

I would at 95 % but who's counting... Definitely not the women

[@tonycooke8545]

Before we were wed, my late wife and I had an agreement. All my duties were outside of the house (included full time job) hers indoors. There was never a problem with that arrangement our whole marriage. On occasion at the weekend, I would cook the family meal. (only because I loved doing the cooking) At Christmas/new year/family events, we'd work as a team. We'd prep and cook a feast together. She so loved my help in the kitchen. In loving memory. ❤

[@Doberman_6773]

Sorry for your loss. My advice - stay single from here on out. They don't make 'em like they used to.

[@monitorlizard9971]

weird its almost like, weve evolved this way. women inside, men outside. I wonder why libtards and feminists dont udnerstand how we evolved to be this way, and why it is important to continue evolving this way and producing fruitful families in this manner.

[@YouilAushana]

1 in a million

[@tonycooke8545]

@Doberman_6773 Thank you. It's been nearly two years since her departure. TBH, I haven't been a looking. Of late, I've received some attention from a few younger women. But, I'm not interested at the moment. The feminattsea mindset, has infected a large percentage of them nowadays.

[@JonathanVachon777]

Yup same arrangement with my current wife and she likes to cook and cooks well. So its a good deal

[@pp-bb6jj]

Why are young men accepting this kind of behavior? I'm annoyed after 10 seconds. Be single and keep some self respect. Women have turned bad.

[@Mike80528]

Most are not anymore and we need to support them and their choices.

[@Emannzo]

It's because their whole life, everybody around them told them that their gut-feeling about women is wrong and that women are almost angelic. Without any proper guidance you can't just immediately wake up from the biggest gaslighting of your life.

[@marcusr3795]

@@Emannzoas Gen Z you are completely correct I felt like that guy with glasses in they live. Noped out of society slowly becoming normal again but can see the culture pendulum swinging towards the middle.

[@franklinturtle9849]

I'd love to see the opposite trend. Men tell women they can't pay the mortgage this month. Lets see the women's reaction.

[@cursed5359]

Lmao yes I can only imagine the horror

[@chengmunwai]

Your husband is your partner, not your dad.. -- * clap * clap * Your husband is your partner, not your dad.. -- * clap * clap * He's not your bank account and he's not your ATM So he shouldn't have to pay for everything -- * clap * clap *

[@Ric_Roar]

😄 Well Done

[@rjkubr]

So he shouldn’t have to pay for ANYTHING.

[@YouilAushana]

Look up markup language to better format that post ❤

[@Mrfinch9999]

Well, the thing is that being a wife's "dad" is just you doing your job as a partner. So you not being the "dad" means you NEVER pay for anything, NEVER give gifts, NEVER give emotional support, etc. Aka being a husband's "mom" is just you doing her doing her job as a partner. AKA she is just toxically trying to negotiate for you to do more for less.

[@spilledit]

Do not copy what women do when they mock us. They will only laugh at you for falling for their trick.

[@jeffb.140]

This first guy has been simpmaxxing for too long .. jeez

[@Nick-n1r3h]

Hes gonna get cheated on so hard

[@DefendingTheTruth]

@Nick-n1r3h he already is by the look on her face lol

[@Kevin_Knox]

Yep, and best believe she'll pick up tyrones dirty socks.

[@Urkiaistrash]

Sad I see this too often still especially mid age dudes.

[@Nick-n1r3h]

@@DefendingTheTruth goooood point

[@ThomasJTuhrdwatter]

...my son is a successful M.D. his wife exercised 2 hrs. every morning, gets the kids out the door (they walk) and then spends the rest of the day on the internet. When it gets close to dinnertime, she rushes out and buys premade food. They have a house keeper twice a week but the wife wants the husband to help clean the house before the housekeeper comes, so the wife won't be embarassed about how unkemp the house is....now make that, make sense...

[@RationalRage9]

Better off divorcing her once the kids have grown up.

[@trevorking2820]

Women ☕️

[@bigpetetube]

If your son neglected a prenup, which he probably did, he’s in deep, deep trouble. If you have a good relationship you should help him plan for his inevitable divorce. Specifically the financial consequences but also the emotional. This seems like a female that would not hesitate to make horrible accusations to get her way. If that’s a bridge too far then you should at least prepare yourself to help him when the time comes. Gook luck to both of you.

[@mastershake4641]

bruh atleast she exercises. Most women dont even do that

[@eternalbear1135]

Yeah, that’s a gut punch. She has the opportunity to do anything she wants. She could use that time to be active and engaged-finding meaning in any number of things and then doing special things for her family so their time together is memorable. This is why housewives cheat-because they’re bored and unfulfilled. But the problem isn’t the husband (he plays a part, of course) or her situation but how she is wasting her time. Lazy and stupid. In that situation, she very well could be incredibly happy and spread that out to her family. I hope she wakes up before she loses everything she has.

[@malcolmchevrier6866]

Esther Vilar wrote 'The Manipulated Man" in 1971. She was making this same argument back then and every advancement since then is at the expense of men, not the so called "advancement of women."

[@YouilAushana]

Equity not equality 😂❤

[@rm847]

Top 20 inner workings: 1. They reshape reality based on how they feel at the moment. 2. They modify stories to align with their current emotions. 3. They present themselves as virtuous to gain social or relational advantages. 4. They alter details depending on who they’re speaking to. 5. Their narratives often contradict but are justified by their feelings. 6. They act in ways that fit their desired self-image, not objective truths. 7. They shift perspectives to suit personal or situational goals. 8. Past actions may be reframed to paint them in a better light. 9. They deny or minimize mistakes to avoid accountability. 10. Complaints may exaggerate or downplay events to elicit sympathy. 11. They adapt their version of reality to maintain control in conflicts. 12. They downplay competition with other women to appear non-threatening. 13. They embellish success or strengths to enhance their status. 14. Weaknesses are hidden or reframed as strengths to gain approval. 15. Criticism is deflected or reinterpreted as unjust attacks. 16. Relationships are recounted to favor their narrative over others’. 17. They reinterpret agreements or conversations if it benefits them later. 18. Stories about intentions may change to avoid blame. 19. Their explanations can prioritize feelings over facts. 20. They create realities that preserve their preferred image, regardless of evidence.

[@PabloLpH]

They shouldn't be allowed to vote. There, I said it. Societies from the past knew much better where the women's place was.

[@MomoTheDisciple]

Why I just broke up with one of my girlfriends. I realized after an argument there’s no point discussing something with someone who invents their own reality so I just blocked her on everything.

[@dbird1356]

🤔Sounds like a certain orange politician we all know.😉

[@zeep5279]

@@dbird1356you say that so easily, but you don’t even know what the words mean consecutively

[@iamsyourdadi]

@@dbird1356 You mean the only man with the courage to do what politicians havent had the balls to do for the last 50 years? You must really like politicians

[@Gvoozy]

And this was in 2011-things have likely shifted since then, and I wouldn't be surprised if the current graphs look even less favorable for men.

[@MikeG82]

2012 is when dating apps became common

[@JaySlay69]

Responsibility, a western woman's kryptonite.

[@MomoTheDisciple]

Not just in the west. I’m in a Muslim country and some women act like this.

[@MuhammadAli-ct1uq]

So true , Man​@@MomoTheDisciple

[@jjrecon3024]

Bingo

[@akumabazooka9169]

​@@MomoTheDisciple Muslims losing their religion too? Lol

[@MomoTheDisciple]

@@akumabazooka9169 I mean definitely not as bad as America or western women you can find traditional women and virgins in Muslim countries but female nature never changes

[@sad_wrangler8515]

It’s not just in this generation, it was also during my father’s time, when women were already lazy. At the age of 7-8, my younger brother and I were literally independent. Both parents worked, and we had to entertain ourselves all day alone. They were only home to cook, which my father did for the most part. The best thing I ever did was later telling my father to open a second account in my name and funnel his salary into that one, because the women in our household were crippling buying addicts. The disparity in money and labor between my mother and father was gigantic. I remember once she said she was the one supporting the entire family, and I laughed at her and told her she was a financial burden. No one would mourn her if she died in a ditch tomorrow, because everyone else lived a humble life, while she was buying the most expensive designer clothes and jewelry. I once did the entire banking for the family and then noticed that the women in our household spent 16,000 CHF a year on clothes.

[@Urkiaistrash]

Preach!

[@cursed5359]

I'd consider disowning the women

[@YouilAushana]

Yep shity since the 50 or 60

[@bobertoroberto953]

A true father’s son.🤘

[@trevorking2820]

Goddamn. What a bunch of losers. It’s just clothes. Why blow so much money?

[@roarzish]

2:50 how do you do 17.8 hours of housework in a week in modern society? Everything in the house is automated (dish washer, laundry, etc.) That's almost as much time spent at work.

[@peripheralparadox4218]

Because women lie and say it’s so much when it really isn’t.

[@allisonwhoisallisonanyway7601]

You don't. Before we had children I literally spent two hours every morning cleaning the house while my man went to work, and then I had lots of free time. I only had to cook dinner later in the evening and that is it. 10 hours a week. The house was always super tidy. Children made it harder but now they go to school and I once again have all the time I need to keep everything in order so that when he comes home he has no worries. IT IS NOT HARD TO BE A TRAD WIFE! in fact its the best option! I have so much free time and very little responsibility.

[@edwardbrito4010]

If grossly incompetent you can waste 5-6 hrs doing each task individually & watching videos distracting you. But if I was in that position I run the washing & dish washer machines in synchoronicity with an air fryer you can do everything in 2 hrs mostly waiting on washing machine 😂 there’s robo vacuum cleaners now too.

[@nathand4500]

It's my experience over ~25 years that women a) exaggerate the requirements of housework b) are not as effective/efficient at doing it. It's a pure victimhood/value argument - trying to justify their existence/contribution to the household whilst simultaneously complaining how difficult it is.

[@matthewforte5341]

Because men tolerate bad behavior from women far more than we should. Any time a woman tries to belittle you. Just walk away. If she's pretty and you have a tough time just remember. You are expendable in her eyes till you prove to yourself you are not. She only matters as much as she values you. Don't waste any time playing her games.

[@matthewforte5341]

But for the record. Never expect anything nor waste your time pursuing. If she wants you she won't play games

[@YouilAushana]

The entitlement is off the scale 😂❤

[@BeyondTheIce-p1j]

Do you tolerate bad behaviour from wymyn? OK.

[@matthewforte5341]

No I don't ​@@BeyondTheIce-p1j

[@matthewforte5341]

​@@YouilAushanathat's not my fault. Let them get their act together

[@normangoldstuck8107]

I live in South Africa and have a full time live-in maid as a lot of middle class people here do. Some years ago I had a Ukrainian woman come and stayed with me. They fought to do the housework and cooking. The maid feared losing her job and the girlfriend wanted to exhibit her housekeeping skills.

[@YouilAushana]

Did she also do it in a French maid outfit?

[@hungrybeaverontheleaver]

Lol, they aren't as eager in Ukraine with Ukrainian men though 😂

[@alexisc7565]

All of that fuss and no ring or long term commitment for the girlfriend lol...this explains why women stopped doing these things

[@JAmundJohnson]

Unfortunately, many people today see no overlap between the roles of parents and those of spouses, until they expect to benefit from the overlap. They seem to think that men only exist to do what women don’t want to do so that women can do what they want to do.

[@AnthonySforza]

Lets be honest, here... the goal is five things: 1. Have a top shelf guy 2. Who pays for everything 3. As she gets to stay home 4. And do nothing 5. While behaving like theyre single Where anything less than this, is "Settling".

[@Freedom-Fighter1]

Don’t ever be this guy. BE THE MAN!

[@paulbooij7594]

Good job on the sneaky ad. I think men are massively more productive than women when it comes to work at home. I tried the stay at home dad thing for winter as I have a somewhat seasonal job. I got the house cleaned, took care of a child, played with the child, and I was bored out of my mind because the pace of the day was so slow. It was very easy, actual work was less than 3 hours per day working casually. But I could do everything except cook supper in an hour.

[@LilNewo]

staying at a mates place for a few months, during this time i have watched his misses complain about the amount of work around the house she does, things like doing the dishes 4 times a day (they have a dishwasher and wtf 4 loads... bs) I have been enjoying doing her chores without complaining and in 1/10th the time. She still makes excuses and uses it to bash everyone with.

[@NGMonocrom]

Yeah, women don't even want an equal partnership in marriage. The man in that first clip is pathetic. I'd rather be alone and independent than have his Life. It's clear his "Partner" doesn't respect him.

[@Ric_Roar]

If a woman calls you her "partner" or says she's looking for a "partner" that's a 🚩.

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

They're smug as a self defense mechanism. They feel the need to give off an aura of control over the situation, as if they have leverage, have power, and have intellectually, emotionally, and physically mastered their life situation such that they are in their current state by happy choice--all of which , of course, is spectacularly incorrect.

[@Voidward]

Crazy clip at the start. I feel so bad for him. My current gf is wild about me and says things like "I'd love to take care of you if you ever got sick" out of nowhere. If you're not actively making each other's lives easier, i don't think the relationship is worth keeping.

[@wuy4]

Oh they are all like that when "in love" and your GF. When they got you locked down that's when things change.

[@joejackson4202]

That first one was physically painful to watch.

[@brunomadeira8432]

How did that idiot go along with that ridiculous scene?

[@YouilAushana]

Future faking manipulation tactics

[@hyperteleXii]

Because he doesn't want her to leave him. He worships her.

[@user-do1fq8oy9c]

My daughter inlaw went home when she had their daughter. My son obviously kept his job. She gets up when she wants, naps when she wants, watches as much tv as she wants,etc. When he gets home from work, she expects him to take over with the baby and cleaning. Im 53, been single for 10 years. My house is always clean. My laundry is always done. I eat exactly what i want. I always have the money to buy anything i want. What am i missing here?

[@rafaelgmota]

A modern wife. Thats what youre missing. lol

[@MuonDecay]

Here is where we have reached. So sad

[@Freedom-Fighter1]

You can thank toxic misandry

[@Time_to_Believe_in_Yourself]

Honey, I'm going to vacuum You can go clean the gutters and fix the car Women collectively: REEEEE

[@secretchefcollective444]

And if you DID do this, almost certainly whatever it is you asked them to do would cost you 200% more effort to do again properly or would wind up completely broken.

[@YouilAushana]

Oh that kind of vacuum.

[@ab_ab_c]

Actually, men spend less time on house work because men work smarter, faster, & harder. Women doddle.

[@nunuvyurbiz123]

Dawdle

[@YouilAushana]

Dwindle

[@trevorking2820]

Doodle

[@paulsengupta971]

Diddle. Oh, um, did I just say that?

[@silentvoiceinthedark5665]

When you get divorced the court looks at your income and assets to decide how much she gets, however when you are married your higher working hours and higher wages don't mean that she has to compensate by doing more house work.

[@therealestchrisb]

No, but it does mean that she has to participate, which is the real problem here among America's misfit women - their failure to reciprocate.

[@dollydearest1306]

I have lived with 2 former girlfriends before, they expected me to pick up after them all the time. Clothes all over the bedroom floor and on top of furnitures. I was also expected to make sure they got out of bed in the morning so they weren't late for school/work. When I told them I wasn't their parent, they got mad and it led to a fight. 🙄

[@DekkerDave]

Damn, Alexander goes straight for the jugular in all recent videos.

[@peripheralparadox4218]

Looks like he’s finally becoming black pilled. There are rare exceptions of course, but the majority are despicable.

[@Kevin_Knox]

He recently snapped. He realized how hopeless modern women are, yet still advertises his "date coaching". Lol

[@TriScaleCreations]

@@Kevin_Knox When you have hundreds of men telling you their dating experiences week after week, I'm sure you're going to get pretty black-pilled.

[@msc8382]

OH OH! I know the equivalent for men, regarding the first video: "Your husband is your partner, not your dad! Your husband is your partner, not your dad! treat him like your father, don’t be mad when he won’t bother- Your husband is your partner, not your dad!"

[@Ceeboyforlife]

Men who already pay rent/mortgage or will cover their partners bills is a flex to other women. To show other women she too has a dependable work horse.

[@trevorking2820]

That’s why they like stealing other women’s men. She gets robbed of her work horse

[@davesmith5939]

9:22 - wives are like children, not mothers to me, sorry.

[@YouilAushana]

Perpetual 12 year Olds from their old dad to their new daddy. (You and your wallet) 😂❤

[@naturallawman2965]

Then neither of you ever had wives. You had teen girl roommates w/ privileges. A true biblical wife, is an Alpha Female who mother's the entire home. Husband, Kids, Pets, etc.

[@Andre-tc9sb]

The worst part is, even in 2025, in well over half of all marriages, men are still the primary breadwinners. And they're still expected to help with the domestic labor and childcare.

[@Jdin74]

It is a cop out. I’ve been married and divorced twice. Outside of the home I worked at least 60 hours a week every week. When home I took at the very least an equal part in household chores, included the children in household activities, raised them, changed thousands of diapers etc. We had a dishwasher, plenty of kitchen appliances, a laundry washer and dryer, vacuum cleaners and all the modern appliances to make household chores easier. She overloaded her own plate and she still found the audacity to complain that I wasn’t helping around the house.

[@leonardmasco]

So glad you covered this topic. I am surprised that the women’s overall hours were as high as they were and also surprised that the men’s hours were not higher. Another piece of data that would be interesting: What percentage of the income from the women’s 20 hours of work is used towards the family and household expenses? Also, when the women are taking care of the kids are they actually with the kids? In my case, while I was at work my wife was watching the kids (I’m divorced now). I knew that she would often get together with her best friend who also had a child and they would have play dates with the kids. I later found out that they would often hire a babysitter and drop the kids off so that they could have a girls day. Her best friend was also cheating on her husband during that time. I didn’t suspect my wife of cheating at the time but I probably should have

[@jomojojo6603]

When the snow falls, SHE can do the shovelling. CLAP CLAP When the grass is long, SHE can mow. CLAP CLAP When the car needs work, or the eaves need to be cleaned...if the plumbing has a leak, SHE'S the one. CLAP CLAP!!!!!!!!!

[@YouilAushana]

Strong and independent waiting for triple A. _clap clap_ 😂❤

[@МихаилАршуков]

Just for the notice my mom does the shoveling in their house since my dad's health condition got worse.

[@Freethink.Rebellion]

What i really find baffling is the amount of spineless men willing to humiliate themselves by participating in these public shaming videos for their "partners" approval.

[@FactOverFiction1066]

Women want 50/50 in the house/kids etc! How many fix the car/mow grass/maintain the property? Yeah not many!!if any!

[@YouilAushana]

They got high paying jobs they can pay for that subscription service 😂❤

[@Bravetheice]

I am not gon lie, Marriage in these times it's like signing up premium on Alibaba

[@YouilAushana]

We putting a tariff on all mediocre Chinese junk.

[@maitahn]

If she thinks making a meal or cleaning for you is being a mother and not her job, remember that paying her bills or share of rent/morrgage or keeping her safe is her father's job.

[@waltermerchant8149]

Your mother loves you unconditionally. He is right, she is absolutely not your mom. She loves you based on what you can provide or the way she feels towards you. Funny how they tell on themselves.

[@hyperteleXii]

The data proves otherwise. If mothers love unconditionally, then what's with all the fetus deletus?

[@AndrijBalan]

my wife literally said this last night "i wash the dishes in the dishwasher" like.... no the dishwasher washes the dishes.good try tho- idunno guys- i think they're totally gone

[@bradpirochta9293]

How pathetic is the guy in the video? He VOLUNTARILY participated. Have some self respect, for God's sake.

[@powerukhueduan8547]

So true, no inch of balls remains. His wife definitely makes more money than him or he didn't grow up with a strong mad as example. Just sad

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

He'll win the ''Carpet of the Year'' award!

[@doncarlodivargas5497]

I am a single man, have a job, a house, a car , a garden and do everything myself, housework is the easiest thing ever, don't understand why women make such big deal of it, cleaning, washing, cooking etc is so nice and easy its like nothing, but i do it when it suits me, pretty sure women want men to do it when the women want it done, the strange thing is, women never see snow is falling or gras is growing

[@pelle7771]

The other way around would be If the man says, he won't pay the rent nor doing the heavy lifting - because he is not her dad.

[@JohnHerr-dy7eh]

I scratch my head and wonder if all you guys live in urban skyscrapers. Before divorce i mowed the lawn and string trimmed. Cut, split and stacked our firewood. Took care of the garden. Was the only one who walked the dog and picked up after him. Maintained the two cars. Shoveled the snow. Got the mail. Took out the trash. Did the taxes etc. Does any of that shiite count???

[@Kevin_Knox]

No it doesn't because "man bad".

[@danielbezjak1479]

No it doesn't count. I was at a cottage with my girlfriend at the time and 2 of her female friends. After dinner they decided they wanted to have a fire. So being the only guy I said fine no problem. I went out and chopped the wood and lugged it all down a steep hill to the fire pit area and got a heck of a fire going. The next day my gf complained to me that when I had gotten up from the table to go chop the wood I had left my plate on the table and she was upset that she had to pick it up and put it in the dishwasher. Broke up with her that day.

[@Ric_Roar]

​@@danielbezjak1479Great story. Without respect we reject.

[@YouilAushana]

Were you actually married to a human women? 😂❤

[@JohnHerr-dy7eh]

@YouilAushana No I wasn't. 13 years of absolute hell. Turned into a raging alcohol. (Not anymore though).

[@NotMyWar]

Okay, that "can't pay the mortgage thing" was pretty heartwarming.

[@whyeff21]

Smug is the complete opposite of what we want.

[@honestgoat]

The time spent contributing to the household data was one of the best owns on modern women I think I've ever seen.

[@KingsguardRP]

I did the research, so you dont have to: 1. Full-Time Work: Men tend to work longer hours in full-time jobs than women. In the UK, for example, full-time men work about 4-5 more hours per week than full-time women. In the US, men work around 8% more hours than women on average 2. Part-Time Work: Women are more likely to work part-time. In the EU, about 30% of employed women work part-time compared to less than 10% of men. In the UK, around 38% of employed women work part-time, while only 13% of men do 3. In the US, women spend around 4.5 hours per day on housework and caregiving, while men spend about 2.5 hours. Childcare Women spend twice as much time on childcare as men. In the UK: Mothers: 2-3 hours per day Fathers: 1-1.5 hours per day In the US, mothers spend about 2.5-3 hours daily on childcare, while fathers spend about 1.2 hours. Total Unpaid Work (Housework + Childcare) In most Western countries, women spend 4-6 hours per day on unpaid domestic work. Men spend around 2-3 hours per day on the same tasks. 4. Total Workload Adjustment If you weigh work intensity, men’s jobs tend to be more physically stressful and dangerous. Women’s work (paid and unpaid) can be mentally draining, especially in childcare. In total hours, women may do more unpaid work, but when labor intensity and stress are factored in, men likely bear the heavier overall workload. Men’s longer hours in high-intensity jobs and financial provider roles make their workload tougher overall.

[@conradmills4977]

Can we get rid of the concept of "unpaid labor". You are paid, it's just in the end result of that labor rather than some ink on a piece of paper. Nobody has a use for 10k wires twisted around to fit inside a box made half a mile away, everyone has a use for a sandwich or a clean house or whatever.

[@KingsguardRP]

@conradmills4977 i agree with you. It's just victimhood 'guilt trip' manipulation for power and control.

[@EditioCastigata]

You can tell by life-expectancy after the age of 30 or so, to control for reckless accidents. Also, both sides benefit from the work, unpaid or not - it’s the teamplay as couple.

[@Just_a_Proud_Dad]

My wife never mowed the lawn.. never changed the tire.. always drove one of our cars till it was almost empty and switch to another one (rarely put fuel in one of them).. didn’t have a job for last 20 years of marriage (she tutored on the side, but never contributed one penny to our mortgage or car payment etc.).. she rarely cooked.. --- then after 24 years of marriage walkers in one day and announces I have filed for divorce, and I want you to leave. For the record, I had never cheated, or been abusive. She had just grown unhappy?

[@MistaMagic52]

There is no "we" to them, only themselves. It's sad. People like that are not mature enough for a relationship.

[@wattsurfrigginproblem]

😂....right at the 9 second mark it says right on the wall next to him... "DORK"!!!! 🤣

[@DivineLogos]

"I'm your wife, not your maid" " Fine, then i'll find a maid and marry her "

[@curtisdecoste9345]

I still don’t understand what a man is expected to work all day and then come home and do his wife’s cleaning chores and cook dinner? My wife is unemployed right now and I had to fight with her to increase her “at home” duties.

[@kojo2773]

This is why I've become a 50/50 man. No mattter what you do, it's never enough for women. The way they're being unappreciative and ungrateful towards traditional gender roles, is what pushed me, as a young man, to think it's not worth it to treat them traditionally. They simply do not deserve it.

[@kaibaman4843]

Exactly bro Make them pay half the bills

[@Time-is-short-get-ready]

Walked away over 7 years now...

[@buckleymordecai9605]

Once again, you knocked it out of the park! Bravo!

[@freespeech7747]

Women expect 50/50 until there are spiders, DIY, car maintenance, decorating, gardening, construction to take care of

[@therealestchrisb]

Feminism ends with a flat tire...

[@zh4k]

they also make you feel like when you do want to genuinely help that either way you do its the wrong choice. Before we broke up she talked about how she does all the chores and I do nothing to help. I worked remotely she didn't, what this meant was I did everything and she did the laundry because she was so mean about the specific order in which to do laundry. Cause I didn't have to go anywhere my laundry was t-shirts and underwear basically, like a full load every 2-3 months but she easily just mixed what little of mine with hers. But this was too much for her, I was taking advantage of her even though I was the one cleaning the rooms, bathroom, floors, vacumming, dusting, filters, water bowls, main person taking pets out for walks, etc. That I was being unreasonable for doing the vast majority of house work on top of, get this, on top of working 60-80 hours a week working while she worked 35-40 hours. Oh, and money, she constantly complained how she was spending way more money on US. I'm a finance major, we put it all into excel, and I was paying double per month on US than she was, she shutup for about 1 month and was back at it again. And I know this now, but she was telling friends and family I was lazy and not contributing anything, her father literally called me a bum. Like even cooking, I'm the better cook and the one doing the most cooking, but I had to wash the dishes after I or her cooked because I had to do some house work according to her. Meanwhile she stops having sex with me and starts flirting with every guy she ever meets and ended up confessing to cheating with multiple men. Just wow.

[@Cutiejuliya]

I am so sorry u went through that. Not all women are like that. I hope u find peace ❤

[@Patrick-wc7nj]

70-80% conservative estimate? I think the larger point being made is the grievances being expressed here, spring from views the vast majority of women in the U.S. openly align with. I’d like to see the best in people. But not to the point of naivety. It’s not worth the risk.

[@agm5424]

When they complain about their so wanting to "act like their mom" what they are really saying is that they are the ones who want their boyfriend or husband to act like the only adult in the relationship while they act and relax as if they were back being children and doing nothing. One of the duties and whole points of marriage is to divide the work of a single adult between the two. Normally is the husband being the one who mainly go out into the world and earns the resources anyone needs to live while the wife is the one who is mainly the one responsible for maintaining the house and properly distributing the resources in the house to keep everyone in the family satisfied and relaxed.

[@NaruOotori]

Your husband is your partner, not your dad. 👏👏 Your husband is your partner, not your dad. 👏👏 He is not your bodyguard, he is not your ATM. 👏👏 So he shouldn't protect and provide for you. 👏👏

[@roberto8911-f7h]

When you stay single, they can’t get a free ride and are forced to watch you speed past them

[@spilledit]

There's always someone giving them free rides. All they need to do is put out some vag. It's a free money machine to them.

[@YouilAushana]

They definitely don't just sit and watch but use every tool in the book because they mad they can't control and manipulate you 😂❤

[@davidcook680]

I was dating a girl many years ago. We would go to her parents house to wash our laundry sometimes. Well we walked in with the laundry. I say hello and walk into the laundry room. Just start putting laundry into the washer. Separating. Checking pockets the normal. My gf goes and sits and talks to her dad. Her mom said Gracie why is he in there doing the laundry. He works. He goes to school. You aren’t working right now. I said oh it’s fine I like to do laundry. Her mom said absolutely not. Go sit down my daughter will do this. I went and set down. Her father said so Dwight how is work and school. Honestly I didn’t mind doing laundry. Never minded but now I understand her mom’s point. Although my gf at the time wasn’t selfish or lazy. Just her parents were vary old school to how relationships should work.

[@Christopher-d9m]

Marriage is a wonderful institution. But who the hell wants to be in an institution?

[@oaksoldier45]

😂

[@paulsengupta971]

Groucho FTW!

[@thehowlingmisogynist9871]

Alexander - there is a graph/study somewhere comparing average hours spent at work (outside the home) since the late 1940's by gender. It shows something along the lines of men's working weeks increased from around 40 to 60 hours. For women it was an average of about a 3 hours increase. Might be worth looking at if you can find it!!

[@vikingshark2634]

Because they have never been told they're wrong. You're right, you're beautiful, you're perfect and every idea, action, feeling and thought you've ever had is true and correct.

[@hnrwagner]

Wife not partner that's a difference

[@jamesreynolds642]

Teamwork. It takes both parties.

[@john-m1s8k]

Nobody does the washing or drying or dish washing anymore. We have MACHINES that do that and women STILL complain.

[@andreafalconiero9089]

Machines _designed, built,_ and usually _paid for_ by men to make the housework done by women easier, and they *still* complain!

[@ICFUBAR]

A husband is not your Father gals. So get that lawn cut, put a replacement washer in that dripping faucet and change the oil and filter in the vehicles every 8,000 kms without fail and man that BBQ when its 39 C outside while Hubby throws a salad together in the A/C kitchen.

[@TheSpearman-vt3nb]

The state acts on their behest.