Why Are Women Judged for Their Fashion Sense?

[@reenujose4361]

Women are judged for not having fashion sense, men on the other hand are judged for having any fashion sense at all, for experimenting with colours, patterns, accessories etc

[@pumpkin2228]

So?

[@roshnidilaware7145]

Thatss sooo true! One comment on the color or cut of a dress n they r labeled ‘gay’... Its like come onn!! Neither being a gay is an insult nor having a taste for clothes.... grow the fuck up...!

[@Violetttt24]

Yeah man as a male myself I agree and women should be treated better

[@Violetttt24]

@vic vic men low-key look thicc with makeup lol

[@rockbison.3339]

Wow I love your comment 😺

[@rakheethakur1814]

Literally the people who most of the time judge women on their fashion choices are women themselves

[@sahidaakhtar4225]

can't agree more .

[@sneha4146]

100 percent

[@nayanab5127]

Yup. True

[@mishalkhan9850]

That is because, most of the time, women have internalized the idea that their worth is directly linked to their clothing or their outward appearance and they resort to shame or judge other women who may or may not have triggered this internalization. Also, some women can just be really mean by nature, like any other human. It is really really frustrating though.

[@artraft3669]

Actually kind of not true. Men and women both judge.it's just women talk and men don't. When women talk about other women's clothes men stand there agreeing to them. That's what I feel

[@bhavyagupta6029]

its so true that men are not criticized for their clothes especially during traditional family gatherings where I as girl is forced to wear a suit or lehnga whereas my brother is allowed to wear jeans and shirts just because a plain cotton kurta pajama is "too uncomfortable" for him to wear...

[@umeshkumarsahu2878]

Men will face the criticism when they don't look attractive for women at all and will be told to dress like a "real man". Women face it cos they are looking too "provocative".

[@swatisaini6447]

@lazy hill boy it's not about what is comfortable or what is stylish. We are discussing here the bias that women face about their clothes,men also get judged but it's nowhere near what women face.

[@umeshkumarsahu2878]

@lazy hill boy I donno which fantasy world u live in but let me tell u dhoti and pyjama are uncomfortable to most of the boys I have met so far. They find themselves more comfortable in shirt or jeans. And yes, why did u drag in ur office when the discussion was about traditional gatherings?

[@riankashyap1996]

Congratulations, Bhavya you're a snowflake.

[@treasajanette7350]

Very true. My parents will insist me to wear these heavy clothes along with some jewellery. These clothes are very uncomfortable for the climate of Kerala. In addition to this, these so called fashionable clothes are highly expensive. Many times l have cursed those people who design them and we are pressured by the society to wear them

[@MS-bx5vg]

The double pressure on the Modern Indian girl is so TRUE. it's aggravating.

[@bntiwari3185]

Which pressure? Is it a race?

[@deepikachaudhary9366]

It's not pressure.... It's a pleasure....!

[@nothingness401]

Absolutely! I'm so glad that they brought this topic up and "overthought" about it :)

[@oviyashan9340]

@5 G I hope you realise girls earn their own money too.

[@Hellokitty20033]

@5 G stop wasting dad's/mom's money on petrol and weed.

[@therealgrimreaper68]

My parents force me to wear traditional clothes during any functions like weddings but I never saw any men wearing traditional clothes ( except for groom and priest).

[@btsarmy1520]

So trueeeee

[@therealgrimreaper68]

@@btsarmy1520 ARMYYYYYYY💜💜💜

[@shreyabhattacharyya7573]

The most true statement ever......

[@btsarmy1520]

@@therealgrimreaper68 💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@debatrichattopadhyay5737]

This. ❤

[@adarshsingh2210]

Seeing their videos led me to a conclusion that bollywood is very hypocritical and promotes alot of toxicity.

[@krishafyme]

Oh yes, for sure

[@methcat5005]

They are being sponsored from the big fashion companies. Its all business.

[@sashm7370]

Even Indian tv serials

[@Kkkkkk-q8t]

Without a shadow of doubt

[@cherielovesyou111]

@@sashm7370 Correct!

[@AJK994]

Dear society, choice is everything. Respect a person's choice. Stop judging people and mind your own business.

[@foreverrocks7989]

Judgement is also a choice.😂

[@BeingBhumika]

@@foreverrocks7989 yes it is, and showing apathy towards that judgement is a choice as well. Judgements aren't going anywhere, might as well learn to live in spite of them.

[@foreverrocks7989]

@@BeingBhumika Completely agree with you 😀

[@ujjawalgokhale4240]

Bakwass phir kal se bina kapdo k ghumo choice hee to😂😂

[@AJK994]

@@ujjawalgokhale4240 that too is a choice. Respect that. Someone chooses not to wear any dress. If u don't like that don't look at them. That's all. But it is wrong to shame them for that.

[@magnisky]

I think it’s disappointing that men across whole of Asia dress in complete western styles, whereas the women still display their own cultural integrity especially in South Asia.

[@pumpkin2228]

I wear kurta pajamas

[@suga7680]

I am a girl and always wear western clothes in function also .... my mom and dad never force me ..... and no one judges me ..... actually I look like a Korean and I have a bob cut so western clothes look great on me ...... MY mom hates long hair on me because I don't look good in them........ she always buy dresses of my choice ... I love her ......she knows I hate these lhanghs and shaare ..... i can't wear them so she always supports me .........

[@tanvighadge3089]

@@suga7680 Hey same I too have a bob cut and even I wear western clothes.

[@magnisky]

@Akshay Satish not talking about Muslims specifically. I do mean whole of Asia. Whether it is 🥻 saris or salvar kameez, traditional gowns, women wear traditional clothing more. Men (even though voice that tradition and culture should be maintained) are usually found wearing pant and shirt in western styles. I know gradually even women are transferring over to western styles (as you can see in the comments above). I just find it a little sad that slowly what makes us unique will slowly disappear.

[@tbraghavendran]

What is wrong in being cultural ?

[@SleepIntoTheDiamondLife]

I have zero interest in fashion, clothing, style, etc. I cut my hair from a barber. I sometimes go bald. I don't like to wear earrings and necklaces. and I have least interest in make up and I know that this particular thing stems from my lack of confidence in my look and how I feel about myself. but I still don't want to change it. now imagine the endless nonsense in the name of judgements I have to hear from almost everyone including my mother throughout the whole year. but I don't regret my choice even a bit. :)

[@DevyaniMulik]

Good👏 for 👏you👏

[@SleepIntoTheDiamondLife]

@@ujjawalgokhale4240 that's a win win for me 😊

[@SleepIntoTheDiamondLife]

@@DevyaniMulik thank you 😊

[@simranbhake9389]

That's great!

[@jharnasarkar82]

@@ujjawalgokhale4240 what a thinking.. So, do boys only marry after seeing all these things, the makeup and all? I think these things have no value in front of knowledge and beauty of heart.

[@aparajitasaha2197]

Couldn't agree more! As for me, I was referred to as "behenji" or "aunty" back in school days by both boys and girls just cause I never wore makeup or anything other than jeans and t-shirt.

[@nithi9638]

That doesn't even make sense?...

[@nithi9638]

And they just call me a dude cos I just wear sportswear and nothing else

[@aparajitasaha2197]

@@nithi9638 Ikr?

[@nithi9638]

@5 G um.... Okay?

[@karanjokerfromhollywood4041]

Same here 😭😭😭😭behen

[@ashmitaghosh2281]

The most significant thing is that swaddle always traces or relates the modern phenomenal aspects with that of the past....this is overwhelmingly good in comprehending and reflecting these small issues which have big impacts

[@raiza4996]

For everyone saying that fashion judgement is passed on both genders. They didn't deny the fact that men face it. They were trying to point out the fact that women face much more pressure and in a disproportionate manner. Women are expected to be fashionable, whether it be clothes, accessories or makeup. These things have been marked as stereotypically feminine and so men are actually expected not to use them. If they do, they're called "gay" or "queer" which are intended to be insulting in this context (that in itself is a very damaging notion). In India, these concerns are magnified and women are expected to be traditional and modern with the right balance of "dress modern but don't reveal more than what we want you to" which is actually very difficult for many women to follow who wish to express themselves differently. And since this is a feminist channel, they're displaying this struggle faced by women. They are not denying men's troubles.

[@tanmaypednekar4085]

Funny thing is I'm a 17 year old male and my family refuses to take me with them if they don't like whatever I decide to wear. I'm not trying to ridicule your statement or this video's message but just a harmless funny fact.

[@Bevypastryy13]

@dream31 yeah but what I think he meant is that he does agree but in his case his family demands for him to dress in a way they want as in they probably don't approve of his fashion sense if I'm not wrong @Hideous Martian cool username BTW

[@sumedhaforu]

Well I don't think even men have a choice when it comes to "following fashion" . I have seen men being critized for an old fashioned simple hairstyles or for not wearing skin tight pants ...

[@Bevypastryy13]

@@sumedhaforu that kinda proves that you didn't get what was there in the comment you're absolutely right and they acknowledge the fact that even men face criticism but women face it more.

[@tanmaypednekar4085]

@@Bevypastryy13 Yeah that's what I'm trying to say , all of us face undeserved criticism and that is because we give in to our society's norms and try to fulfill their expectations all the time. But this must stop now ! We should all wear what we want to and it's okay to tell what you think about someone's clothing but only when they ask... Life is short so better have fun while we can.

[@NishkaNanjappa]

Judging anyone for their fashion sense is so out of fashion these days.

[@pumpkin2228]

Bothering is also out of fashion . Learn not to bother rather than telling the society

[@ishaniupadhyay2520]

Ha! Now I got why people tend not to like me. I dress more comfortably, or as people call it 'recklessly'. Or 'Jhalli'. If you dress comfortably, then you are probably perceived to be 'weird' or even at time 'lesbian'. I have started to doubt the IQ of such people

[@byethere]

You can totally do better. I mean the comfort is more important rather than impressing others around and to grab attention. So Kudos. I wonder how genders got attires. People literally guess your gender based on what you wear! How silly!! But 👍

[@ishaniupadhyay2520]

@@byethere Thanks mate! After all, it is your knowledge and attitude which takes you farther in life, not you dressing sense.

[@byethere]

@@ishaniupadhyay2520 true!👍👍

[@anchalyadav229]

Same experience....go girl! Good to know I m not alone. 😁

[@ankitachatterjee2663]

Absolutely right!!On the other hand when we do take efforts to look nice out of our own choice people say "we are drawing attention towards ourselves". Hypocrisy at its best

[@As-vz2pq]

My favorite channel. This is the best👍.

[@sunilbaluni5333]

Worst channel i have ever seen. Inko har cheez mai problem hai. Mat karo fashion nahi karna toh. Hum nahi karte toh hune toh kis e kuch nshin kaha.

[@akvthelion6286]

@@sunilbaluni5333 NO MY DEAR FRIEND , you need some THERAPY ...you are very offended by just a video and the opinions and viewpoints of a particular individual ...😑🤐

[@As-vz2pq]

@@sunilbaluni5333 This may sound harsh but you are living in bubble were these things are irrelevant for you but for some of us these things are problematic and this channel present these problem. And maybe you don't know but multiple ig influencers especially men suffer backlash in online community for wearing makeup.

[@leezaaneja1213]

@@As-vz2pq yeah. I'm a girl but I still know how men treat other man those who aren't that 'manly' according to them. Same is with tomboys like me. Both men and women throw taunts like kya baat lambe Baal ache ni LG rhe the kya tereko, jue pd gyi thi, kapde to thik se daal lia kr occasion K hisaab se and I just sigh and let them say whatever they want.

[@As-vz2pq]

@@leezaaneja1213 I totally understand you. I am a tomboy too and have short hairstyle. And people always made fun of it. But now I am proud of myself and my style. I feel like your way of dressing up is a part of your identify it's not for someone else. So no one is entitled to make comment on your style.

[@sonalisrivastava5643]

U bring a light to concepts that people know but still are ignorant

[@umeshkumarsahu2878]

People don't even know and they think that these things are pretty 'normal'.

[@sonalisrivastava5643]

@@umeshkumarsahu2878 true

[@pumpkin2228]

Many women end up showing too much cleavage in the name of fashion .lol .fashion is good up till a limit

[@sonalisrivastava5643]

@@pumpkin2228 I am so sorry for ur thinking sir Its clearly a matter of choice showing cleavage or not that depends on them...

[@dreamer9375]

@@pumpkin2228 Uhm, you have the choice of not looking but of course, that's not the option because people like to look.

[@gunjankaur7522]

I can totally relate to it as whenever I choose clothing as per my comfort zone my friends n family start advising about fashion trends which I really do not care

[@anjaligupta1766]

Don't give a damn.. as far as it's covering your body and you are comfortable. It's ok 👍 Good 😁

[@hrimanav]

I normally never comment on youtube.. but your page is so damn amazing and perfectly informative.. so I just can't stop myself from appreciating such an amazing page .. Great job ^_^

[@pumpkin2228]

OK boomer

[@artraft3669]

Men mostly wear formal clothing in traditional gatherings, which they can wear repeatedly to various functions. But there is pressure on women not to repeat the clothes they wore in last function. And to top that these clothes cost a lot. It is too much to buy new clothes every time. I've decided to go against these traditions( my family is supportive). I'm going to wear sober Kurtis which I also wear to office and minimal jewelries. After marriage I'll wear sober sarees. I'm also going to rebel against buying tons of gold jewelries to show my status, my personality is enough to say who I am.

[@anushkaparashar4658]

Fashion for me is a way to express myself. And I believe clothes have no gender!

[@aryanbhardwaj3662]

So nobody has pointed it out yet. THIS VIDEO IS AMAZING AS FAR AS PRODUCTION IS CONCERNED, from narration to editing, everything is perfect. Cheers guys.

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

Literally my bff tells me what type of "poor clothes" am I wearing, just because I don't like sparkly clothes and like to wear comfortable ones...

[@umarswapna4267]

Same. Wear whatever you want.

[@rachelmcclain5367]

Like if she is so bothered she should create comfortable and sparkly clothing smh

[@cherrylvrs3342]

What kind of friend is that? That is not a friend my behen.

[@nainimadhukumari4230]

Best thing about this channel is that they always try to connect present scenario with the past/history , and of course this makes their content more interesting!. 👍

[@swatisingh-vn9vt]

From my experience, women themselves do not want to break stereotypes. For ex: waxing. Many women do it under pressure and it is often said that hairless body attracts men more. Why can't a woman feel good in her own body hair. Next coming to fashion, it is again a choice. But women judge other women more than men judge women.

[@mcchilde2903]

Stats?or is this statement a result of your personal experiences?

[@mcchilde2903]

Oh my bad, you've already written it's based on your experiences.

[@VishalKumar-fb7jg]

Ohh.. Miss singh then stop doing that..... Why should be girls doing what men wants........ On the other hand... Truth is that, women wants men's focus.... As men wants also.. That's why.... Gym and abs has became important for men... It's all about attraction....... Pls think of it

[@Lilly-px5qw]

@@VishalKumar-fb7jg I don't think so? Not all men do it for girls it's for self confidence. Maybe its different for you but I've never once chosen to wear something only cux I thought men will like me in it. And it goes the other way too men don't it only for girls (in the case of a hetero)

[@oopstheteahasderailed]

Glad that my mom is strongly against me waxing my body.

[@anvayajadhav9766]

Women are judged on literally everything to be honest...like if you wear traditional you are called behenji and if you wear a bit of revealing clothes, you are called a slut(double standards of our society) !!!! Even if a women dresses fashionably or a little boldly ,she is judged for that too(a lot infact). So I feel we should continue doing and wearing what we like and not conform to societal standards💁

[@Sindhuonmyway]

Me wearing a Bardot top, with straps and long sleeves. People: shoulders! Scandalous! Another girl wearing a blouse with low back and a shoulder cut out (with a sari) Everyone: wow so modern and nice! Edit: I should probably mention that I was also wearing a sari. I didn’t want to waste money on a blouse I’d never wear again, so I wore a top that matched the sari (it also had the added benefit of covering my waist) so basically I was more covered up than anyone there except for my shoulders

[@_aconite_cj_]

Okay soo I cut my hair short after watchin the hair video from swaddle n I feel soo good, THANKS SWADDLE 🥰💖

[@suga7680]

I am a girl and always wear western clothes in function also .... my mom and dad never force me ..... and no judges me ..... actually, I look like a Korean and I have a bob cut I look much younger because of my cut so western clothes look great on me ...... MY mom hates long hair on me because I don't look good in them........ she always buy dresses of my choice ... I love her ......she knows I hate these lhanghs and shaare ..... I can't wear them so she always supports me ......... but she only wants me to wear those clothes in which I don't look vulgar ....... she doesn't care whether I wear tradition clothes or not.

[@_aconite_cj_]

@@suga7680 good for you gurl ✌🏼💞

[@brightthings6]

it's always about girls.........have you ever seen a guy with long hair .................tab bhi to log bolte hai na ...................kYA ladki jaisa lag rha hai ..........................this happens with everyone ...............but kya kare ...................hum to ladke hai na ..............hamare liye chalta hai itna ................

[@_aconite_cj_]

@@brightthings6 kisi ke liye bhi chalna nhi chahiye, everyone should live on their own terms and no one's got the right to judge other people like that, anyone who judges like that should fuck off

[@dimboih444]

fashion for me is, my life, freedom, creativity, a way for me to speak up and its an amazing way to show how you feel. I want to be a fashion designer in the future.

[@ziniaray6180]

This is one real life incident that happened. I went to a wedding straight after my office, and was told why I didn’t carry some jewellery in my handbag

[@nandiniv]

I can't even imagine how much research would have gone into this! Thanks for the work that you do!

[@dreamer9375]

Answer: Some people just have nothing better to do.

[@apekshadargude7228]

Am the only one who dress as per comfort even on functions like marriage and don't care about other's opinions!

[@carmarniah9360]

PJs for the win, weddings or lazing at home.

[@apekshadargude7228]

@@carmarniah9360 ??

[@kdjoshi726]

Same lol

[@kdjoshi726]

@@apekshadargude7228 I guess the OP meant Pajamas lol

[@suga7680]

no, you are not the only one ....... in the weddings mostly I wear western clothes like jeans, top or shirt ..... my family has no objection ...... and I don't care ....... whether someone judges me or not☺☺☺☺☺🤣😆😆

[@liyaannmary9156]

This is so great! In every video you bring to light things that are seem inconspicuous but are actually things of great importance. I had phases of this "fashion sense" in my life. At first i thought not wanting to wear "girlish" clothes and be interested in fashion was cool because that makes me not like other girls( facepalm). Then came the "i will think too much about the clothes i wear and focus on the fashion industry" because that would make me look "stylish" and not dumb cause everyone in my family knew so much about the latest trends. Now i am at this phase where i am like "dress like what you feel" . If i feel like a couch potato , then i am going to dress like one. If i feel like i run this fuckin world, i am going to dress like the queen I am . But after seeing this video, i have new ideas. It is true that we put a lot of effort in deciding what we wear, when we can channel that time into something more productive! But then i am afraid it will that be "not being like other girls" again and will make me not a true feminist. Also, i think this whole "fashion trends and dress like you feel" stuff is also just a ploy to further aggregate capitalism. We need to really think on it.

[@kdjoshi726]

What's more sad in this case is that almost many of the times, womens are the ones judging other womens. For instance, I'm more of a laid back girl & likes to wear something comfy & simple but my friends have always bitched about my fashion sense. I'm just more focused on the classics, the "undying" & "evergreen" clothes but mostly, casual. Some say I'm a like a tomboy since I like hoodies & mostly prefer colours like black, blue & red but honestly it's just me being myself. Yeah I have poor fashion sense since for me, my comfort is 1st then the fashion but one of my friends Ik was so into changing me that I couldn't bare it. I'm glad we're into separate colleges now

[@amrutabapat-t2805]

I absolutely love how they give movie references related to the topic. It's so weird that still women are judged on the basis of their clothing. Love your work team Swaddle! 💥

[@mashupworld.2322]

why cant the world be like this woman!!.you are so intelligent nd open minded...keep on imparting erudition in us❤

[@radhadeshpande1274]

The presenter is doing a great job.... Very very beautifully told🌟

[@shrikaripeddamatham]

Fashion judgement has been there for both men and women

[@suhasop4919]

Ikr

[@loading8502]

But indeed it is more to women... When Indian men were scrutinized for switching from Salwar ( or whatever is it ) , dhoti to jeans... Atleast not on a social level... But women r still getting threats for this... So what do u think about the case It's this globalized time when men r scrutinized too but u can't see this in history

[@loading8502]

@lazy hill boy ohh.. Really!!! So sad na!! ... Feeling bad for u!!..Aww!!.

[@loading8502]

@Sayanka Biswas that's another example of misogyny dear....see the depth

[@loading8502]

@lazy hill boy and if u r talking about misandry...then Definitely we should talk about... Even I'm a guy and I advocate for men's rights but that will not make me biased or prejudiced towards the other gender... Even I have been victim of misandry... But my experience , ur experience is just a part ...of the infinite experiences... We should look on the bigger picture... Thing is who is more suppressed... if we look on social level I'm not a man hater... don't label me like that... But thing is... We aren't addressing either issue...we r just Making noise like anything...with no direction... And putting out petty arguments to defend our group...this look very immature... Both men and women r important... it's not a fucking war happening b/w them...both r inseparable ... Thing is when see u major problems don't bring out ur own personal issues which has no relevance with the issue at the social level... U need to keep it aside for the sake most oppressed... Misandry is a growing issue and it's important to address but this way we can't... U know ! Hope u understand...

[@farihasiddika8322]

Can you guys do a video on make-up. Like how women get judged both wearing makeup and not wearing them and how make-up industries are using "insecurities" as a tool for selling their product

[@nidhibharti2050]

For me, fashion means comfotableness in whichever dress I feel myself comfortable it becomes my style..

[@akshitisharma2968]

Our male cousins can show up in a tee and jeans during family gatherings and when I do the same, people take it their duty to remind that "you're not a child anymore"

[@zahreennaaz6677]

Appreciable for the girl explaining and kept the look simple. Well done

[@Vamusika]

I'm a singer- and for performances I'm expected to be fashionable and wear makeup or else I'll be considered unprofessional whereas Male vocalists/musicians just get to turn up with a shirt pant, style their hair a bit and they're professional enough!

[@sanikakadam4992]

Oh my god, the topics which have been covered in your videos, since the past few months!!! These all are the topics which I wanted someone to talk on and Swaddle did talk on all of them!!!! I thought, why is no one talking about them, for a while I thought are these topics not really concerning issues or are these only my thoughts, but finally my wish was fulfilled 😌 Thank you so much Swaddle for letting me know that these are all actual burning issues and not just my thoughts.

[@methcat5005]

When I was not interested in fashion my mom thought I am trying to act "boyish". Judging goes both ways. The most common one being: Women judged for not indulging in fashion trends and men judged for over-indulging in fashion trends.

[@suma550]

I am so happy to find this channel... which talks so much sense and so much new and educational...which is just mind blowing. Thank you for doing this...❤️

[@nehaa8432]

Please do not turn off captions , your generated captions look so tiny that takes 360p quality . Which I don't want to use .🙏🏻

[@maithiligawade7245]

Yeah, they should have added captions separately. Blind people have devices that can read the separately added captions, but not the ones in the video. It's inconvenient for them :/

[@BeingBhumika]

@@maithiligawade7245 but I guess they can hear the video's audio then?

[@maithiligawade7245]

@@BeingBhumika Maybe they are in a busy place, there's a lot of background noise so they can't hear anything. Or maybe they don't understand the language.

[@poojarathore6759]

I love your content guys... This is something which needs to be shown... You guys are doing absolutely great work😊😊❤️

[@varunk3627]

Albert Einstein wore the same clothes everyday in order to save brain power.

[@ganeshprasad4929]

@@kbshrivastav8539 that doesn't mean we can't do the same, right?

[@pumpkin2228]

@@kbshrivastav8539 stop saying all indians just bcs ur dad works in tcs

[@umarswapna4267]

There are no brain cells in clothes. I think he didn't change because he was really focused on his work and passion for science, to such an extent that he forgot to change. He also doesn't do any job that deals with going outside. So. Yeah! It was my part of argument.

[@vaishnavi2523]

Steve Jobs and Mark Zuckerberg do the same Just saying

[@uesugikenshin386]

😂😂😂😂😂 ikrr

[@Ree_Yeah]

As usual!! An awesome concept!!❤❤

[@spiritualshruti6731]

Love this channel and the topics you pick.. more power to you girl!

[@anweshthulung1375]

This channel explores to our historical depth, that noone could offend with their deeds and conveys answers with such exploration and dimension that everyone realizes. I feel myself very proud to find this channel.

[@AP-fg8vt]

I'm in the academics for long and thankfully I'm not judged at my workplace and among the academic community for refusing to keep up with "trend" or look "stylish". My wardrobe doesn't have any bling or glitters. But whenever I'm at social gatherings, I feel weird at not having flashy "appropriate" dresses for those occasions. Not that anybody makes any derogatory remarks but they express their wish to see me in a saree. 🥴🙄

[@mstrikerp2]

I agree completely! Fashion should be completely based on personal preferences rather about societal pressures. No woman should be judged with the clothes they choose to wear, be it a skirt or salwar suit.👍👍

[@pratiksagar6239]

I think it applies on both,since women care and make more effort in those,so it's just u get more praise and more criticism vice versa

[@VERMA_R_]

The biggest question is " why every channel on youtube discusses problems of women as if men have no problem in this world?".

[@soumyasubhadarsini1270]

This the best channel 😍

[@sarswatiroy8725]

I just lv ur thoughts...I wish all indian society can understand it.

[@anjutripathi3765]

I think everyone is judged on their fashion irrespective of gender.

[@pretty948]

Eh

[@suhasop4919]

So true

[@shivanisamyal3143]

Yes it's true but it's different when it comes to woman because of the history n stereotypical norm that only focuses on women. For example men r specifically judged for their financial status but woman r judged on how well they fit on norm society has fixed for them. They r not judged for financial status because women working out of her home is still not normalised as it is for men.

[@loading8502]

@@shivanisamyal3143 yeah! Well put!

[@shivanisamyal3143]

Infact if a man is not in fashion n trends then people will see it as a positive thing like he wants to spend his money on his family,he is selfless, hark working n simple.

[@gauri2984]

Can this be more perfect ❤️... Well articulated 👍👍👍

[@apekshag472]

Girls suit wear Kare toh bahan g agar girls shorts wear Kare toh .koi lihaaj nahi koi sharm nahi. I mean girls or women are always soft target. This is the worst thing ever .

[@anjaligupta1766]

Let's decide not to judge others. That's how together we can change the evil mentality. 👍

[@apekshag472]

@@anjaligupta1766 true

[@enochchronicles12767]

@@anjaligupta1766 it is impossible, judging is a part of human nature. Best option is judge people, be emphatic but don't speak out unless necessary.

[@anjaligupta1766]

@@enochchronicles12767 try not to poke your nose everywhere .. I meant this.

[@rummaankhurshid7625]

Loved this. So clear and concise

[@SanjuSanju-os3my]

It seems to me that fashion affects both men and women

[@bntiwari3185]

Hey there, fashion is nothing except a mere trend. Slim girls were considered beauty a while ago but now girls with big asses are trending (kim, nickiminaj etc.) That doesnt mean Alia Bhat who doesnt have big ass, isnt beautiful. Its just that she is not the trending beauty. BTW social media is ruining our generation, people are being so much insecure about themselves.....watch the social dilemma.

[@indiankanya6084]

The problem is we are narrow minded . Yes the ways of criticism has changed ; according to the educated morden generation :if you don't wear revealing clothes or or wear makeup you are old fashioned ... When will they understand that modernity doesn't mean wearing trendy clothes . It mean letting one lead their lives whichever way they want to instead of putting lables on them !

[@Clydedonovn2424]

Umm... Men are judged too on basis of their fashion/clothing choices Also women judge other women on basis of clothes and make-up far more often than men

[@sneha4146]

agreeee🙌

[@sneha4146]

even guys get judged..its not only women

[@Clydedonovn2424]

@Halo yes, i guess standards for "proper" dressing are harsher for women rather than on men, but i feel when us women would stop being judgmental about other women, it would be an extreme positive change and would diminish the taboos. ( Not saying only women are at completel fault tho)

[@SleepIntoTheDiamondLife]

@Halo exactly! at first we women have to support each other instead bashing each other.

[@iswaryabethapudi6113]

yes but there will be lot more force on women

[@namirashaikh9012]

Just wear what you like and are comfortable in...who cares what the world has to say...once you've decided how you wanna look then don't sit and cry about what others said or did...also remember to wear your confidence, it goes great with any outfit!!! No one can make you feel low!!

[@nancysrivastava7779]

I swear u ppl are the revolution glad to be standing with u💞💞❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@autumn5203]

I really like the color black and wear hoodies & jeans cause they are comfortable. People always have a look of disgust on their faces when they meet me. I can probably guess they don't agree with my fashion sense.But why the heck do I have to listen to other people about what "I" should wear when it's my CHOICE and my body???

[@saanvinalavde6323]

They say women are always targeted for their appearance and how they present themselves. But most of the times, these are the same people who go on calling a man with an unkempt beard 'jaanwar,' or 'jhipra', tell men to wear 'less feminine' colours and being constantly told to dress like a 'civilised' man. Please talk about that as well.

[@roshnidilaware7145]

All of your videos need to be viral and reach to audience on a large scale. We all think wat does one person’s opinion do.. but you r one of those who r putting their time n effort in this n getting their hands dirty. Cheers to you.. showering loadzz of support!!! Keep doing it.. thank u for being our voice. 🤩💕

[@amritasingharay3095]

I don't know about fashion.. but I definitely feel one should dress according it's personality.. I don't follow trends I dress in a certain way which goes with my personality and I like men who puts thoughts into his attire at least it should reflect his personality, instead of throwing on whatever clothes are Infront of him😐

[@mcchilde2903]

Clothes don't reflect anybody 's personality actually,I mean if someone's personality trait is being 'funny',how exactly would you dress in a funny way,y or statement is illogical and gives way to society being even more judgmental about people and their clothes .

[@laavanyakoushik]

Again, brilliant content. Thank you ❤️

[@monoshwini21]

In my sister's marriage an aunty commented on my weight and my dressing sense. I was heartbroken 😭 😭😭

[@tanviraobh]

This is a very relevant video. Thank you so much for verbalizing this

[@insherahsaleem]

At the same time when a man is interested in fasion wants to dress up stylish he also face a lot of back lash and is made of fun that's why many times men fear to dress fashionably or according to the trend

[@juhipandey5140]

Such a beautifully crafted and unique content. ♥️♥️

[@firstofalleww]

More like why are we judged for ✨existing✨ 😩

[@btspopper790]

This channel is very underrated. PERIODT.

[@bewithnoor1524]

*Kuch kuch hota hai* *Friend : Best memories of Childhood* *Rahul rejected Anjali cause she was tomboy but 8 years later she becomes the"Jisko maa ke paas leke jate hai" kinda girl cause she is wearing Saree* *Me : what kinda chuitiyappa is this*

[@rupalibiswas7157]

Right apu di

[@giteshchandmaurya9052]

Never stop. The Swaddle, NEVER STOP MAKING THESE VIDEOS

[@Chaos.infinity-91]

Not only women ,In real men are also being judged for what they wear..

[@jharnasarkar82]

True

[@kdjoshi726]

And almost many of the times by women... *sign*

[@Chaos.infinity-91]

@@kdjoshi726 Yeah

[@jharnasarkar82]

@@kdjoshi726 women judge and men also but the worst thing is that men directly put restrictions on their woman.

[@pratibhadahiya3016]

Thanks for such great content. 💕

[@aurelcruz4115]

U missed the painful part stilettos.

[@dickys409]

I love this channel pls make video daily lots of love from nashik

[@gampamadhav4401]

Dude even men r getting judged for the clothes they wear...when ever I wear something like shirt when I go out side I feel like what if they think that he wear shorts and comes out...believe me people judge u for the clothes u wear even if u r man or a women...its your style wear what ever u want...just be a little considerate like 10 to 20 percent towards the society of what we wear because we need to wear something that us appropriate to that situation...

[@gampamadhav4401]

Shorts* is*

[@wildfireol]

Loving this channel more and more with every new video. Thank you, fellow overthinkers! 💜

[@aghnashajan5903]

2:22 ....." Keep her where she belongs"??????????!🤯

[@sakshisheth6811]

My most favourite channel now !

[@nancysrivastava7779]

Men had it hard too but women have it harder I totally am on ur side with all these videos but a little request plz plz plz can u make a video on how schools police men's fashion choices (I know we are having it worse but I've seen so many boys close to me who are judged on the basis of every single strand length in their head , please it's just a request) btw great content 💙💙💙👏❤️💞💞💞❤️👏💙💕💕✨✨✨✨😍😍💓💓

[@BeingBhumika]

I agree, they are a feminist based channel but I don't know why they only or mostly talk about female issues and not about issues faced by males when feminism means equality for both/all the genders. Makes the channel look selective. I wish they focused on both the aspects.

[@bhumikasharma4773]

Yeas! True women magazine's only focus lia either on fashion or cooking skills

[@Sandra-hj9mj]

Why cant we wear t shirt and shorts to weddings "Bas khaana hi to khaana he" Credits..:)

[@Rakhikumari-wp2td]

Agree with you

[@sandipkumarchowdhury9644]

Main pehankar jati hu kuch nahi hota hai

[@anjaligupta1766]

Depends, I like getting ready for parties. But if you don't, don't do it. Break the stereotypes. Kya karege yahi to bolege .. haw hawww unki beti shorts pehn Kar AAI thi. 😂😂😂

[@just_someone_here]

I know right, going to a wedding getting all dressed up is just too much, and I feel really uncomfortable too. In my opinion I would wear a hoodie and jeans any day. Just that I should be comfortable enough to have some free food 😁😁

[@sandipkumarchowdhury9644]

@secret planet222 if you wear Indian dress then they will judge

[@lakshyabhardwaj9541]

Everyone is judged on fashion sense.

[@lolz2788]

I feel that men are more criticized on the basis of clothes... they cant wear bright clothes, dresses, skirts, flowery and "feminine " cloths harry styles keeps getting trolled abt his clothing choices ... If they do, they're called "gay" or "queer" which are intended to be insulting in this context (that in itself is a very damaging notion) for not being insecure abt their sexuality... harry styles is the biggest fashion icon and that's on period... Women are judged for not having fashion sense, men on the other hand are judged for having any fashion sense at all, for experimenting with colours, patterns, accessories etc... but men are not criticized for their clothes especially during traditional family gatherings where I as girl is forced to wear a suit or lehnga whereas my brother is allowed to wear jeans and shirts just because a plain cotton kurta pajama is "too uncomfortable" for him to wear... fashion judgment is passed on to both genders. Iwas trying to point out the fact that women face much more pressure and in a disproportionate manner. Women are expected to be fashionable, whether it be clothes, accessories or makeup. These things have been marked as stereotypically feminine and so men are actually expected not to use them. In India, these concerns are magnified and women are expected to be traditional and modern with the right balance of "dress modern but don't reveal more than what we want you to" which is actually very difficult for many women to follow who wish to express themselves differently.

[@pancakesxoxo1064]

Harry is a fashion icon though. No one can deny it.

[@lolz2788]

@@pancakesxoxo1064 periodt

[@DrJerryJean]

I am a woman who chooses not to go to beauty parlours despite a lot of social pressure within my community and husband's family. Even for my marriage, I did my makeup with my mother's help, at home. We spent only Rs 1000 on buying the makeup. This was in the year 2010 This was at a time when my friends and cousins were spending Rs 10,000 to Rs 30,000 for pre wedding beauty regimens at parlors.

[@anandkumaresh1]

Appreciate all your videos. But in this one, "Why?" question seems unanswered. Or rather not detailed, with most part of the content focussed on showing the 'as is'.

[@anandkumaresh1]

@Halo Yup, agree. Was expecting something in the lines of - how men structured women to believe they are the bearers of culture/honour, how women's World was structured to be small, how men were behind structuring women's fashion even. All these are implied; just that I wanted a stronger content. This seems a soft take...

[@luckykumar1915]

@Halo don't blame only on men for forming these social stereotype.Earlier women were out of economic sphere it just because they choosed too.Nobody could be supressed for such a long time.In earlier time in india farming was major economic activity and it demand lot of physical strength and womens body are not designed by nature to do such harsh physical activity.So they to choosed to do household work.But as our country progress there were different economic activity which require less physical labour more of mental labour.So nowadays women want too come in economic sphere and thats normal .But in these period of time it became social taboo for women going out of house.But these these norms are breaking slowly and we will get rid out of it.But what i found as per my observation is old men are more open to these change than old women.And offcourse new genration has high percentage of who didn't care about these social stereotypes.By blaming only on men you are considering your gender too weak who can't take stand for themselves.

[@shishirsurin9061]

I have clothes to cover myself and make me feel comfortable so I don't think any other person should have any issue.🙂

[@shubhimittal9422]

Trust me, men are also judged! 🙈 Moreover, women judge other women and men when it comes to fashion. Fashion can be empowering for some and restrictive for others. It’s for the individuals to decide how they want to look and what they want to wear. There has been a constant buzz to wear what one is comfortable in. There is enough scientific evidence that fashion can instil self-confidence in people that is rewarding in many ways!

[@swastikqjana7128]

You know what!!!! Quarantine really gave me precious yt channels to rely on❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@vaibhavibhardwaj6321]

Why does this channel relates everything with Western history only. Why don't they provide a glimpse of Indian history . The audience must know that our Indian culture and history has never been this prejudiced. Our women have always dressed comfortably and their clothes have always been friendly. It is this western culture that has enforced their predefined and self-suiting ideas of beauty and dressing on women.

[@anupriyabharathi2479]

Due to work, males stuck to western. I agree with your point

[@pumpkin2228]

U are absolutely right . But women think they are being judged while their parents are just teaching them about indian culture

[@anupriyabharathi2479]

@@pumpkin2228 parents should not force them always though. Showing some skin is ok but I have never seen any male with chest open like some girls who are running fashion show on the streets in public.

[@Kat_Jose]

@liza Kaur exactly.. We Indians started to wear full covered clothes after got inspired from western culture.. But now everyone is blaming western and praising Indian dressing culture 😂

[@anupriyabharathi2479]

@liza Kaur I'm a 22 year old woman and I have not seen half shirted men showing "cleavage" or ¼ pants. I don't know where you found such men.

[@Infoentertain555]

Absolutely favorite 🙏