WHY ARE YOU SINGLE? They Ask

We’re halfway through the year already, and here is the first Q&A session of this year. #questionanswer #philippines #reflection #vlog #gettingmylifetogether #filipina
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[@IanCrouse]

Guys don't have the problem of people wondering if they are single, but I am confident that it must get on your nerves. Being single isn't about not having someone; it's about having more time to reflect clearly and find yourself, then maintain what makes you happy. When the right person comes along, you will still feel single but love the company of someone who shares the same. Hopefully, they are on the same vibration as you, and then it's perfect harmony.

[@skyprince42]

I'm 46 years old, n I have been single for over 13 years maybe more not sure..I haven't found or meet someone that is at my level ..if I die alone without having a family it shall be..I rather not be with some who puts me down or isn't a leech that will suck the life out of one...

[@Life_WithShay]

You will probably find someone when you least expect it. :-)

[@__Craig__]

Happy Birthday. Thanks for always putting out a spirit of caring, compassion, and gratitude. Get well soon.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Craig!

[@albraun-sq6rg]

Happy Birthday Shay! How can anyone not like you? We all love you, and we appreciate all the art that you create, including the ones you produce with your Professor Ron. This is a very special channel. We are your biggest fans :)

[@GlennHiggins]

Well said, agree 100%

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much Al! 😌

[@themalejodietaylor2599]

Happy Birthday to our Poet and Philosopher of the Philippines!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you!

[@johnsmith-gs4qf]

Shay is very eloquent in her topics. Happy birthday and have a good day!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thanks John!

[@JenGioPhilippineJourney]

A very Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 your still gorgeous at 41 even thou you look 29 you never age Dai ❤❤❤❤

[@Life_WithShay]

Awwww! Thank you so much!

[@jimbohi3648]

Learning to like yourself really hit home for me I never had encouragement or guidance rather I just got discouragement still to this day anyone that gives me a sliver of encouragement makes me so incredibly happy

[@Life_WithShay]

Exactly! We all need to love ourselves before we can love others. 😌

[@IanCrouse]

Happy Birthday, my lovely, dear friend, Shay. Once again, your content brings people to a place of serenity and reflection. No one can love anyone until they love themselves. You are the epitome of class and elegance, and you surround yourself with equals. Maya, Mary, Leah, you, and others are truly Gems of the world-amazing ambassadors of the Philippines. I am eager to come and meet you all.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much Ian!

[@LCox-th3if]

Happy belated birthday! Another great video. Thank you for your hard work and effort.

[@rolandmueller7218]

Maligayang Kaarawan Shay! The older we get, the wiser we get. Hopefully. I have always enjoyed your thoughtful videos. Best wishes! Roland

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Roland!

[@guyandre4946]

Joyeux Anniversaire, Happy Birthday to an extraordinary Lady 😊😘🍾🥂🍾

[@user-tm1dk3ph1q]

Happy 29th birthday! I love the way those glasses look on you.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you!

[@ragjamrock]

Happy birthday, Shay! Your answers to the question about self-realization were spot on(5:08- 8:33). I always thought that being a good person and providing for my family were adequate demonstrations of my love for them but I realized after my divorce that sometimes more is needed to make relationships work. I will say that I'm now happily single but open to whatever the future holds.🥰🏝🇵🇭

[@pieterdezwart1664]

Thanks for this posting Shay. First of all, a very Happy Birthday. Enjoy the day with your family and friends. Then, on many of your Q&A answers here I could say 'you took the words right out of my mouth'. Wise words and sentiments indeed, coming from a gentle, open and growing soul.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much Pieter! 😌

[@cruiseguy25]

Happy birthday Shay. Enjoy your special day and all it brings your way. Much love and respect to you.

[@brucestanley9330]

Happy Birthday Shay! I started following you back when you started doing videos, and your humble nature and genuine personality are the reason I always come back to watch you. Keep up the wonderful work, you are appreciated. 🎉

[@Life_WithShay]

And we appreciate you too Bruce! 😌

[@AnthonyHuffman1960]

Dear Shay you have a lot to be proud of, you really do have one of the few unique channels in the vlogger community. I love your content it is creative and amazing! God bless.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much Anthony! We appreciate you for appreciating us! 😌

[@jspice-kl2wc]

Great video and a great Q&A, I had question where I was supposed to send them, Shay you are the greatest just keep going. Thank you.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thanks Joe!

[@RickR_in_WA]

Happy Birthday Shay! I have an appreciation of your own journey and personal growth. What I see through your channel contributions is your appreciation and gratitude for life and how that translates to love of self and even more so love of and for others. Thank you.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much for that Rick! 😌

[@whatsnext-007]

You don't look a day over 30. Happy belated birthday 🎉 my dear friend Shay.. Your sensitivity and intelligence are only matched by your beauty. Wish you all the best. See you for coffee when I recover from some unforeseen surgeries. Take care.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@George-ux6zz]

Happy birthday Shay. I hope you have the most beautiful day and enjoy yourself. God bless you 🙏 ❤

[@Life_WithShay]

Thanks Randy!

[@bwburnham]

Happy Birthday Shay! Hope you have an awesome day.

[@herbwitt7710]

Thanks Shay for sharing yr productions and what it takes to make a video of this quality ❤.. Keep them coming beautiful ..

[@Life_WithShay]

Thanks Herb!

[@michaelorfanos7416]

Maybe some girls are players and miss their opportunity for men they really cared for. Life can feel long and when you age and look back sometimes you think about the ones you lost. You're smart so it has always been your choice, happy 41.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Michael! 😌

[@dwaynebeckwith8214]

Happy Birthday Shay! I hoped you enjoyed your day!

[@randydaugherty607]

Happy Birthday Shay have a beautiful day!

[@michaelhawley1677]

Big Happy Birthday Shay! Very nice video. Reflecting upon your life thru these questions gives us a big insight into "Shay". As they say - "With age comes wisdom" - hopefully LOL. If only we could all go back and change those things in our past we now realize were questionable decisions. Keep making those great, creative videos! The number of your subs on KZbin is not a true measure of your success. Be safe there and take care!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much Michael! Yes, we agree and feel blessed to be able to make our artistic videos. We hope that quality will be appreciated, and you prove that. 😌

[@bookemdanopinay7427]

SHAY TO MOVE ON WE NEED TO TAKE RISKS TO FIND HAPPINESS, HAPPY 41. BEAUTIFUL LADY. MAY GOD BLESS YOU

[@chrisbeidler162]

I loved the intro. The thought flashed through my mind "Oh this is going to be good" and it was. Thanks for answering our questions.

[@Life_WithShay]

So glad you enjoyed it Chris! You know how I like to be creative. 😌

[@tonyr6700]

Happy Birthday Shay!

[@user-yf4pz1lt4s]

Dwayne C Hi Shay I remember last year people didn't remember your birthday. Happy Birthday to one of the special women of the Philippines. God bless with good health and many more birthday's and a lot of HAPPINESS ❤ 😊

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Dwayne! 😌

[@miketrahan777]

Shay Happy Blessed Birthday!! You look so much younger than 41. You're a very strong sweet, caring, compassionate person. All your subscribers strongly appreciate you We will and are always here for you Shay. I always look forward to your videos, Live Streams, Members KZbin Chats. You always take time to reply back on my messages, I appreciate that thank you. I will always follow you. Like I've mentioned your Channel very high on my top 10 list, Enjoy your Special Day. Sending blessings to you and your family and those near and close to you. God Bless.😊👍🙏🍫☕🎂🌟🌞

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much Mike! Our goal is to make your top 1 list 🤣🤣

[@miketrahan777]

@@Life_WithShayAlready on my #1 List very high. 🌟👍🙏💖

[@SoloPilot6]

Let me join those wishing you a very happy birthday and upcoming year. If you were here in the United States, you would have the guys following you around like baby ducks.

[@Life_WithShay]

🤣

[@FilCanGil]

You’re correct Shay. People that choose to be single shouldn’t be viewed as outcasts. Take me for example, I’m single, but if I keep eating the way I am, I’ll be double😂😂😂

[@Life_WithShay]

🤣🤣

[@AnotherOldSquid]

Wish you the best birthday. 41!!!!! I'm impressed. New here but will follow.

[@Life_WithShay]

Welcome to our channel and this wonderful community! 😌

[@Biarritz60]

Happy Birthday Shay. 💐

[@bryankoziar2867]

Happy birthday Shay! Failure should be thought of as a learning experience not a negative. Have a great birthday week.

[@Life_WithShay]

Exactly!

[@certainthings2000]

Happy Birthday Shay.

[@gregsarah430]

Happy Birthday , Do what makes you Happy !

[@Life_WithShay]

Yup! 😌

[@perrywest9344]

Happy Birthday and thanks for struggling with a cold. You always produce great content for us. Sending healing vibes. :)

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Perry! I got the vibes 🤣

[@kennethlewis3575]

Happy birthday Shay looking beautiful as always no matter what your numbers are 🎉🎉

[@Life_WithShay]

😌

[@icemaster54isaac86]

Happy birthday, Shay! Stay safe!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thanks Isaac!

[@chasvonplatten1298]

Excellent video. Very articulate. One suggestion, it would be very nice to see your eyes while you speak. Reflections from your glasses facing a bright perspective robs your viewers from fully experiencing your communication. Very well done, otherwise.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you!

[@charlesc.9572]

Happy Birthday, Shay!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Charles!

[@bookemdanopinay7427]

IF I STARE AT A ROCK LONG ENOUGH HOPING TO BREAK I HAVE LOST TIME AND ENJOYING THE BEAUTY OF LIFE

[@JimMillsCSLC]

Birthday Blessings, Shay🙏🏼🇵🇭🎁🎂🎉🎉

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Jim!

[@johndoedoe4840]

Happy Birthday Shay! I admire your good-hearted personality.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you John!

[@dyrondwade]

Happiest of Birthdays to you, Shay!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you!

[@ollelindskog4531]

Happy Birthday Shay ❤

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you! 😌

[@larryc9617]

Happy Birthday Shay, thanks for answering these questions. Dont worry I wont be going anywhere soon lol I love watching you guys, whether its a video or live I always feel better after watching. To be honest I follow a number of people like you, people like weng Mae the Pea of course, Ann, Mary Jenny and a couple of others and you all have that special something that puts a smile on my face, I always enjoy what you do and who you are, very special people. Keep making people happy, its a rare gift my friend, look forward to seeing what else you have lined up 🙂

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Larry!

[@Lexy-O]

Happy birthday!🎊

[@davidkarl5192]

Happy birthday Shay

[@Randy30165]

🎉 Happy birthday Shay you are the best 🎁

[@NobodyUKnow-ju3ll]

Happy Birthday, sorry to hear your under the weather, Get Well Soon... By that heat I know how hard it is (I had pneumonia 3 days after landing in the Phillipines)... Still enjoying your channel !!!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you!

[@independentcontractor1633]

Happy Birthday and feel better young Lady. Love your work and message. This place (the backdrop) is beautiful. Mike

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Mike!

[@MrRizzo1961]

Baby sister don't pay any attention to people that say negative things to you. No matter what you do. They will always be negative. A lot of people that are negative to you are usually jealous people who envy your achievements. So don't waist your time and energy trying to please people. If they really don't like you they would not watch you anymore. They must like something he do. They don't stop watching you.🤣😂✌️❤️🙏🙏🇺🇲

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you 😌

[@brianbaxter3913]

Hi Shay. Happy Birthday and must say you look much younger then your age. I have chatted to several women here who are single and usually ask why. I have gotten several different answers and each one make sense. I ask this question and many others of women I have chatted to and it helps me to understand more about them and their culture and much more. Keep smiling and stay safe

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much Brian!

[@billlloyd9755]

Good for you young lady. 😊

[@Jerry92128]

Happy Birthday and many more!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Jerry!

[@GlennHiggins]

I remember stumbling upon your channel Shay way back when the dinosaurs where around ( joke lang😂😂) Almost the beginning of yiur journey here. A truly fascinating journey i must say. With your dedication, motivation you bring create content through the lense, your videography is beautiful. I may not watch as much as i once did, though its nice to see you at work, bringing great content. Truly hope we eventually meet in Duma/ Valencia one day in the not to distance future. Hope you had a slendid birthday, we your subs, love and appreciate all your hard work to make the vids/ content you do. Stay safe gwapa. ❤ love from chilli cold Australia 😉

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much Glenn! That would be nice Glenn! 😌

[@jerryfritz374]

Shay ; Your voice is Still so unique and beautiful. I could listen to you all day long. Alas we both have lives to live. My journey consists of going back to the Philippines. If i should see you there , great. If not it's still nice having you on this ball called earth. Be blessed TTFN 😊

[@Life_WithShay]

It would be wonderful to meet up Jerry!

[@mrhooks01]

Shay, I 'am your fan - Please stop complaining - every word you spoken about yourself have attachment in them , just surrounder , you know where catch me . All is truly well 🌺🌹🥀❤💚

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Mr. Hooks. We try not to complain. We try to present reality, and maybe solutions 😌

[@chiefp5340]

Happy Birthday. May you have peace and joy. May you have many more

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you!

[@gator4life]

Happy Belated Birthday Shay! May God continue to bless you abundantly.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thanks Gator!

[@woodtick7798]

Happy Birthday!!!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you!

[@BenjaminGib]

Happy belated birthday Shay 🙌🏼👋🏼

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Ben! 😌

[@BenjaminGib]

@@Life_WithShay 🤗

[@jamaljackson3980]

God bless you throughout your life trust in your own good flow of energy that real

[@kennethfowler5477]

Happy Birthday Beautiful Lady! I hope you had a Wonderful day

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Kenneth!

[@lanec5672]

Happy Birthday Shay... 🍾🥂🎶🌹🥰

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Lane!

[@randellt]

You have the beauty, the intelligence and everything from what your saying one needs to have a fantastic relationship.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you!

[@mojolivinginthephilippines3503]

Happy birthday 🥳 Beautiful young lady ❤

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you!

[@judekidder]

Happy Happy birthday shay.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Jude!

[@allthebuzz4924]

Happy Birthday😉

[@bigjohnson7415]

Shay is only single because I'm stuck here in the US!🤣 But seriously, there are hundreds of your admirers here on YT if life allowed us to be in proximity to the lovely Shay, would be very happy to change her status in a heartbeat. But many, possibly even myself wouldn't be the right match. Just keep working on yourself young lady, and if it's right, you'll be fine. Just stay away from Belgians!🤣🤣🤣

[@Life_WithShay]

I am not single Big J! And no, he's not Belgian 🤣🤣🤣

[@curtiscagle6261]

I like you Shay. Take care of yourself.❤

[@Life_WithShay]

😌😌

[@MichaelBuck]

The topic of this video is "Why You Are Single" at age 41? The answer is relatively very easy and simple. First, you are most definitely SINGLE by choice, no shame in that and no bias or discrimination becuase of that. Its a CHOICE you made early in life. To say otherwise is to display insecurity and show more concern with how others DEFINE being single. Being single is NOT BAD, its simply a choice we make. You decided that you did not want to be married and therefore connected to somone through various personal experiences and analysis of relationships. You decided that pursuing a NON-TRADITIONAL PATH by being INDEPENDENT, STRONG, and in control of your own life was more important and necessary than being connected to a man and having children and raising a family. These are non-traditional choices that you were FREE to make but with that freedom of choice came the consequence of being single and not having a traditional family of your own. ---------------------------------------- What the majority of men in the world want is a woman who WANT to be connected and are traditional, meaning she embraces traditional male and female ROLES and has some sort of TRADITIONAL RELIGIOUS based faith that supports those traditional ROLES. In general a traditional mans role is to be a leader and a woman's role is to be a follower. Men have VISION and press into the world and forge a way through it. They provide, provision and protect and express LOVE through his ROLE purpose. A traditional woman is to be as follows: 1. Submissive - understands her ROLE and her mans role, as stated above and upholds those ROLES in public and private. 2. Compliant - is not Rebellious to the ROLES and doesn't embarrass her man, children or family in public. She will have PRIVATE RESPECTFUL discussions with her husband and doesnt argue incessantly or display inappropriate tampo in the home. 3. Fit - understands her HEALTH is important to maintain a quality life for herself, her man and her children. Understands proper healthy DIET and Exercise is vital to maintaining healthy relationships. 4. Friendly - she is gentle, KIND, sweet, sensitive, tenderhearted, forgiving, loving, humble and understanding. She projects a mature classy lady who doesnt allow things or people to alter her treatment of others. 5. Feminine - she embraces her famine role as a woman, doesnt try to act like man or take on masculine roles. She doesn't allow herself to be manipulated by Feminism or any of its cult like tenants. She is a traditional CLASSY LADY who projects confidence in her role as a traditional woman. She is MODEST in public and supports her man in public at all costs, and is wild and sensual ONLY with her husband and at home in the proper context. 6. Faithful - loyal to her husband, children and family. She doesnt FLIRT or speak or entertain with other men, she doesnt have other men in her DM's or have BACKUPS just in case things don't work out. Her FAITH is based on a traditional biblical faith that supersedes all others. She understands that her FAITHFULNES to GOD, Husband, and FAMILY are vital to upholding a healthy relationship and future. She understands her SAFETY depends on her faithfulness to maintain balance in the family, to ensure she and her family are protected, provisioned and provided for. She knows to BREAK that faithfulness means utter destruction to her self and to her family.

[@AnotherOldSquid]

Happy Birthday!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much for this! 😌

[@michaelweston5787]

Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁

[@michaelweston5787]

Peace blissings always 🙏

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Michael!

[@carey8250]

Yup yup, without a doubt, appreciate ya very much! Sharing your insights, have proven to be a valuable asset. Your style & grace is so refreshing! Salamat & Mahalo 🤙🏽🌺🙏🏽

[@carey8250]

As I'm sure you're finding out, the 40's are awesome. The life experiences you have gained, all seem to come together in this decade, mixed with more knowledge & good sense. Happy birthday 🎉🌺

[@Life_WithShay]

Very true Carey!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much!

[@MrRizzo1961]

Adorable young lady. Happy birthday. Your 41?! You look don't look much older than 12. No disrespect sweet spirit ✌️❤️🙏🙏🇺🇲

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you 🤗

[@francoisl8260]

You are so talented!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Francois!

[@timothybush9633]

Hello Shay, first Happy 41st Birthday 💐I always tried to be kind in any sense but when I was 43 I divorced my wife😞which was hard being a Christian, we had 3 children and 20 years of marriage because she cheated on me too many times😢I raised our 3 children as a single father of a 13, 7 &5 years old, now their 34, 28 & 26.

[@jimbohi3648]

You are a talented classic filmmaker did you know Alfred Hitchcock would rental Warehouse to hang up his storyboards for the whole film he would know exactly what it looked like before he even shot the film

[@Life_WithShay]

Yes, I learn from the best!

[@talleman1]

Happy Birthday.

[@ce5752]

Happy birthday and best wishes 🎉

[@didierdenice7456]

Bon Anniversaire Shay ! 🎂 Cancer people 🦀 are the best ! 😂 I know...

[@Life_WithShay]

Yes! 🤣

[@gotaplay]

Ohhhhhh Shay Happy Birthday beautiful lady ....🎉🎂.... Who could dislike you ??? Interesting title , but have you ever looked behind you ??? The line is LONG enjoy your special day ...

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Paul!

[@jennymark7403]

We are your first week of subscribers, and watched you grow amazingly, your content has soared to great high levels, your presence is so charming, a beautifull and kind lady, who's knowledge and courage to venture to a level that nobody else does, huge contrast in topics which is top level entertainment and educational, love your work cheers ,

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much Jenny! We really appreciate you so much for being here all this time! 😌

[@ChuckFasst]

Well now. After your description of your editing process, it looks like I'm going to have to take a look at what kind of work you're doing. 😊

[@Life_WithShay]

Yes, please watch our content! We strive for quality in poetic and cinematic productions, but we also do documentary style and reflective videos. We're open to creativity and we so much appreciate your joining this channel!

[@sunnysunnymeow27]

first all first: Fear God ! all will come with this

[@garymcdermott-e7f]

Happy birthday from Canada 🎉

[@Life_WithShay]

Thanks Gary!

[@Gary-kg4ok]

What camera are you using to film this episode, I’m coming to the Philippines next month and would like to take many great videos and sound

[@Life_WithShay]

I have Sony, but they will all give you great quality shots these days Gary.

[@karl5536]

Happy birthday 🎈

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Karl!

[@randellt]

41? Ahhh more like 31.. My gaud! Beautiful

[@Life_WithShay]

😌😌😌

[@robertnorkus5582]

Happy birthday 🎂

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Robert!

[@phinpublishing5701]

Happy Birthday

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you!

[@joeganiesienes9387]

Happy birthday te Cheryl❤

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Joe!

[@KoryOssman]

" Happy, Happy 41st Birth Day..., > G. O. A. T. ! ! ! Reserved this very day for YOU !!! " It's your day and non other. . . So... Enjoy with the ones U love ❣❣❣ " 👍😇👍