Why do I keep falling for the bad boys?

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Why do smart women fall for men who won’t commit & aren’t into guys who will?
In this episode of KavitaTV I get to the heart of why smart, successful, loving women can fall into a habit of loving the bad boys and never seeming to find one who can commit. My guest Leila was experiencing this exact situation. And trust me, it isn’t just that we always “like what we can’t have”.
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[@jamesmahoney2264]

A person who has a alcoholic parent always grow up with issues with relationships and thats a fact,because when you look at it logically how can you want to meet a bad boy or a bad person its like you want to be treated bad which is what happens,so the problem is not the nice guys you meet its yourself the way you perceive a relationship you be better off single untill you sorted your issues out.

[@lovekavita]

+James Mahoney you're right, we grow up with certain beliefs about what "love" looks like based on what we experience when we're younger and it's important to work through this so you can let in love. That said, we all have issues continuously in our lives - if we waited until we had them all sorted out to be in relationship, many of us would be single forever! It is possible to have both.

[@jamesmahoney2264]

+Kavita J. Patel Your probably right to not wait and should let love in but we do have choices,like that woman she has a choice and she has chosen bad boys and might be because of her past but by now she should know that it doesnt work it doesnt mean she should go for a nice guy or a bad boy and put a label on it,she probably wants a certain preference in a man but they could be in a good man bad boy etc but she seems to go for just bad boys for those traits which in time wouldnt work out.

[@jmsmikey]

For women to say 'I really just like dating bad boys' is like saying 'I really really really want to be a struggling single Mom'~ don't shoot the messenger, I'm just trying to help.

[@BloodyHeck]

The simplest part about having someone you're not attracted to being attracted to you while you're attracted to someone who isn't attracted to you is usually explained by a 4 is attracted to a 6 while the 6 is attracted to the 8. There's also the idea that someone is scared to be in a relationship so they're only attracted to people they know they can't be in relationships with, therefore, no relationship. But it gets harder with the idea of women interested in "bad boys" who just don't treat them kind of bad, I've seen so many women who pass by normal average good men for a man who literally beats the crap out of her, or screws around with other women, and the woman, while she complains about it, stays loyal to him. And if he all of a sudden did stop all the bad behavior, most likely she'd leave him.

[@lovekavita]

There is often so much more to why it feels more comfortable to be treated one way or another in a relationship and it has everything to do with how we were raised and how we internally translated what love is. Meaning did one translate love to mean being selfless, which is sitting in the subconscious, and has one choose a man that takes from them or controls them. There are so many deeper factors.

[@fukingmac]

I stop watching at 3:00 when she said she never had a good relation with her father. Women that have daddy issue can't get in real and serious relationship. She is broken. Case closed

[@drsparwaga]

fukingmac Correct.

[@emoizluv]

I feel this 100%

[@fulloffool5925]

This woman Leila makes no sense at all. She sounds like she had to take care of 10-20 ppl but in reality all she had to care was her mom and she felt burdened. Yes, her mom lied to her. Ppl tell lies and like to manipulate. But after all these years if you don’t even know your mom’s behavior then what to expect from you. What will she do when she has children? She is emotionally f****d up. She will be good only for causal until and unless she makes herself emotionally stable before her end 20s. If not then we all ready to welcome new member in CatLady club😂

[@andrecameron3130]

You will like them when your in your (50)

[@jasonhightower5706]

By that time. Nice guys won't want them.

[@JP-uy9kq]

Thise girl has been run through by bad boys and thugs and doesn't know why she doesn't find responsible men attractive. The wall has already claimed her, I see it in her face.

[@jesserochon3103]

Yep she looks totally used up. I don't find her attractive at all.

[@jasonhightower5706]

Now that she sees her options have dried. She's now noticed the guys she dated were all wrong for her.

[@theukeconomist6518]

The eyes tell you a whole story.

[@drsparwaga]

The UK Economist There is a reason why they say the eyes are the window to your soul. Notice that all the girls who have been used and abused by bad boys always have that empty and teary look in their eyes. Clear sign of broken and damaged spirit. Any rational man is best advised to avoid these girls.

[@callummottram2026]

She has to grow up. She's no self esteem

[@emilefrenette9325]

No she has way too much of it.

[@vajrabhuti687]

'Cause you got daddy issues

[@theshowaboutnothing3952]

She looks good for just sex no commitments.

[@jafaralijaffery636]

hey

[@PapiJamaicano]

Is interviewee a psychologist? Broken or normal..all women respond to confidence that bad boys have in extreme..not the whiny nice guys who are the ones who are really broken - hence their needy boring behaviour to women. Logic can't beat panty wetting confidence.

[@jonathanfarley2023]

"Confidence" is the word these idiot women use to justify their obviously bad choice. The nice guys don't start of complaining (they have a right to complain, incidentally), so obviously that's not the reason women reject them until the women turn 30.

[@gerryanderson6378]

That confidence will do women a lot of good when it walks away from her after getting her pregnant...

[@drsparwaga]

DRFX SWING TRADING MENTORING You are a complete idiot...

[@curiousintellect6874]

Women ☕☕☕