Why Do People Ignore Me |

People ignore us for so many reasons. The most important thing becomes reflecting on the bigger picture. Is it the person, or is it us? When we answer our question, we can start the process of accepting the situation or improving our negative behavior.
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[@johnT906]

If you haven't done anything wrong and people ignore you it's because they are jealous of you.

[@Juliagodschossen]

You hit the nail on the head

[@Skoolie300]

FELT.

[@ClaryPamela]

Or they feel like the person isn’t good enough.

[@gabeguzman9478]

​@user-tj4ks3uh6f yep and it could be a racial thing

[@joshbecque2424]

​@@gabeguzman9478 oh jeez

[@rik-keymusic160]

I don't have friends because i know that 99% of the people don't work on themselves, they don't read or study. Many just complain and gossip about nonsense so i live in solitude for now...

[@BLCLTx]

Danm I think the same way I stopped talking to my family cause of gossip 15 years ago, well most my family is women and man it's a headache they just talk about other people and really they only got money for beer and cigarettes why do they talk instead of educating themselves and they label me too cause I don't sit and gossip I felt sorry for myself but honestly I feel sorry for them

[@Jessknowsbestt]

@@BLCLTxYou’re just better than them. People hate really special people and try to belittle or make them feel less about themselves because of their own insecurities.

[@AmiraAmira-tx9hu]

I m in same situation

[@violetvixxen5275]

Thus. I'm 28 years old. I feel alone because I feel like I'm the only person aware of how I'm even being when I'm even in my upset ways. I only ever tell anyone mean things when the means things are actual fact, thar they do. "Hey, you can't treat me like that when you don't have your own control" then explain why they are acting how they are which makes them start cussing me out instead of seeing "hey, those things are rucked up that I do, but maybe if I see that I am doing them and if I see how much I'm genuinely hurting someone, maybe I c start to change that about myself" no one cares about the kind people. No one cares for the yes man, the giver, the people pleaser. They just care what we can give and when we can't they hate us until we can give again.

[@rik-keymusic160]

@@Jessknowsbesttso true… i don’t consider myself above others but i just invested time into things that people just don’t want to do but then blame me for having the discipline, to go to the gym, to not drink or smoke,etc… i do the difficult stuff. But I notice that people just don’t want to be around me anymore. Growth comes with haters , especially the people who are close to you because they have some idea about you but if you change for the beter… it will show them their demons…

[@whynot1548]

Most of my "friendships" are one sided. In that I'm the only person maintaining a friendship

[@missstarrynight7736]

Same here.

[@guacgirl]

When they cant use you they degrade then discard you. Ive experienced this alot.

[@larrycollins1538]

Yh that stuff piss me off if ppl are going to be like that! If it continues eventually I’m go Sucidial I’m not always happy and when stuff like that happens I have a dis function towards everyone in the world it hurts me 💔🙌👌👌

[@snowwolf-xt6071]

@@larrycollins1538 I can be your friend:)

[@juanlake53]

Narcissistic world

[@juanlake53]

@@larrycollins1538 maybe you are just better than they are

[@Solitude633]

@@larrycollins1538 don't off yourself bro, try to get some hobbies (both active & passive) outside of your job that you enjoy so you won't have a poor outlook on life.

[@i-love.jesus.the.most777]

I’ve always been down on myself because people don’t seem to “like or accept” me. I’m a straight forward person and will tell it like it is. I refuse to kiss up and do things for the sake of being part of something. So what if I have no friends. I’ve learned (the hard way) that everyone I meet is fake. It hurts because I do consider myself to be a true friend/person who will offer loyalty and honesty. Sometimes, my fear of dying alone gets me but then I remind myself that I came to this cruel world alone in the first place.

[@epairoyahushua4314]

Same here, dearest. God is your everything. Make The Holy Spirit Your friend ❤️‍🔥

[@incognito.502]

I agree, I have the same energy. But that Just makes you a good sparrings partner.

[@thehystericaltaurean6692]

Same here

[@Shepherdslantern]

You're not alone

[@BLCLTx]

I'll be your freind 😊I'm same way people just won't go that distance my house be in order and clean others house look like it's upside down like people don't live there and people just act like they got lots to do when I invite them to my house and they just looking at my house they even ask who cleans my house 😂 well I'm discipline carry myself different but I am a loyal friend and forward tell ot like it is too

[@jameskeating4719]

Its crazy how you can catch a reputation but never met anyone

[@Shepherdslantern]

I've been suffering this type of stuff for the past few years and it's really starting to get to me now. I've tried everything I can think of to remedy the situation but today i saw one of my ""good friends"" in a store and she turned her back on me. I give up!! My expectations of other people are now ZERO

[@JF59122]

I've been like this forever, Idk if it is my low self-esteem or what...

[@MarcoSimple1Videos]

I am ignored too, if i write, someone replies, if I say nothing, no one replies, and I'm tired, im tired of everything, of fake people, toxic people, and others things

[@raihana231]

It’s okay everything will be good just make yourself better ,find the people who truly love you,be grateful of things you have now and pray to god

[@MarcoSimple1Videos]

@@raihana231 thanks

[@GlossaME]

We live in a distorted world, where everything is in decay. And it's done on purpose. The enemy is not clear, but it attacks on family, culture, health, masculinity. But if you research enough, the enemy is clear as day. I feel the same but I see that enemy

[@MarcoSimple1Videos]

@@GlossaME yeah, i know what you talk about, but unfortunately in these times, there is no more freedom of speech or opinion,

[@GlossaME]

@@MarcoSimple1Videos the truth is there to find. Hang in there and make yourself better physically, mentally and financially. And don't lose your humanity/ empathy. Even after the darkest night, the morning sun will come.

[@snowwolf-xt6071]

I get ignored all the time by my friends:( I’m in a bad spot I guess you could say, I’m tired of being treated this way. I don’t know why they do it to me, I guess I’m “too much” :( I’m the person that give and gives but never receives 😔 who ever feels the way I do you are not alone. Much love~Snow wolf~💙

[@999SheIsAStar]

Exactly what I’m going through

[@snowwolf-xt6071]

@@999SheIsAStar I’m sorry 💙

[@desireeadjei9033]

same for me

[@snowwolf-xt6071]

@@desireeadjei9033 💔😖

[@beauty4717]

Girl, become true friends Bc I am treated this way by outsiders & family members. Ppl only contact me when they want a favor or use me for any other thing.

[@TheAzulmagia]

Man, this was something I really needed to hear. I had someone message me literally about half an hour ago because they wanted to go halfsies on some expense together, but they had never messaged me at any point prior for several months. I never really stopped to evaluate just how many people exploit me because of what I provided them.

[@MatthewTheWolf2029]

Sometimes, being ignored isn't really our fault. Sometimes its what people around us choose to do. They can take interest in us, or they can refuse to acknowledge us for whatever reasons they see fit. Though in some cases, their reasons may not be rational. Ignoring people is a choice you make. You can either pay attention or you don't. Its as simple as that. Sometimes people need to be more open to what others have to offer. But of course, that is entirely up the the individual to decide. We can only make suggestions. They're the ones who have to walk through the door.

[@Blissedx]

There’s no such thing as being too much. Those people just aren’t for you and that’s that.❤

[@sistershort1]

Sometimes people might be “XTRA!”…may not have the time or energy it takes to deal with the “XTRA” in life!

[@mydhilysankar9159]

I don't usually comment but today i felt like i want to share what is hurting me . I've been kind to everyone , it was always hard for me to say no ,I've been always a giver but what i always got back is ignorance and feeling left out , now i hate myself for having this kind of personality.

[@mydhilysankar9159]

@@fi_naritra yeah :)

[@epairoyahushua4314]

Please keep praying may God keep and protect your heart in Jesus's name.

[@MarcoSimple1Videos]

don't hate your personality, your personality is ok, is the people that are not ok, fake people and toxic people

[@taurahelms3068]

There is nothing wrong with being kind. You might want to work on saying no if you haven't done it though.

[@Youllneverknow-u2b]

Possibly because I've learned to ignore myself- my needs, my emotions, my thoughts, my beliefs it started as a coping mechanism.. But yeah I don't really what to do about it at this point

[@benjamintafari7047]

This is a definite thing. When Im rejected, my instinct is to go inside of myself, work on myself, and focus on myself in order to love myself. Within 12-24hrs, boom, everybody's checkin on me, in my face at work, or curious about what I got goin on in life. The drawback is once Ive adapted and withdrawn, I get very irritable with the same people who ignored, rejected, or distanced from me, when the try to comeback around. Once I'm in my own space and people start trying to interact with me, it feels like they're trying to distract me and pull me back out for a while, just so they can make me obsolete again.

[@Team_Pisces]

I ignore people because people are negative

[@keith2o9]

We ignore people vise versa but when others do it to us we get emotional about it

[@billywatson9821]

This is so true. If you don't like people ignoring you, then don't ignore them!

[@benno707]

People are superficial and insecure

[@tripdeelets]

the world is full of stimulus sometimes people are just distracted

[@JamesStakem1]

Yeah, but sometimes it goes too far. Like if someone has ignored you 20 times in a row, tell you they’ll call you and then DONT, (multiple times) and just seem to avoid you all the time.

[@taurahelms3068]

I conquered the third one a long time ago. I suspect that a lot of people at my job don't like me and haven't from the time that I arrived there late last year. I don't care. I also think that some have done some low-key stuff as a result. I have given it to God.

[@darthgeorge28]

I just feel super depressed when I get ignored by my friends. We have a group chat and just today, someone started a topic and everyone else jumped in and talked about it. Then, I started a related topic and was literally left on read. A few minutes, whatever. Then, a few hours goes by and still nothing? I felt so defeated, I deleted my chat.

[@OOoKarmaoOO]

That's what happening to me non stop right now

[@kristabistaify]

I get it. Maybe you're "too in depth" on the topic and they feel threatened by your ability to talk about anything

[@mariechristian8756]

I was pulling back before I saw this after trying to prove myself to a group of people that wasn't showing interest in me. My thoughts were that not everyone has a compatible interest in the same group of people I'm among, I've accepted that. The points you've made in being annoying or being too much at that particular time in ones life gives an improvement in my outlook on people, so thank you for helping me in this area.

[@Flooofster]

I guess it really is as simple as people not liking me. I'm getting too old to be so bent out of shape for this. Maybe I just need a hobby?

[@thehystericaltaurean6692]

Its all of them for me...cut my 13yr friendship years ago..still hurts..as of now lonely and trying to survive with ppl telling me either im too much or doing too much or i have no value as a person...either way surviving by only Gods grace 😶

[@vaderkurt7848]

Go to church community or groups or activies or young adult. If you are a Christian.

[@Solitude633]

Nobody pays me any mind, everyone's too preoccupied with their phones 🤳

[@williehodges4859]

for real 💯

[@missstarrynight7736]

Sometimes people start to ignore you, because you cannot provide some resources to them, and they not value people for their character. They perceive everything as a transaction. Which is sick of course. I.e. it can be time and attention. They need you as an unpaid, empathetic therapist. Once their life gets better, they don't need your services anymore, and BAM! They're gone. That means, they valued what they could get from you, but they are not interested in you as a person.

[@tonzatones9430]

I think The 1,2 and well the 3 point as well hits the nail on the head. It’s time to call it quits with a friend of 20 years

[@MaureenMo71]

I love everything you said. I am an enthusiastic, bubbly person and you're right, I need to pull it back sometimes. I remember one time I pulled back and then said, "I'm so excited, I'm pulling back." Yeah, that was awkward. Thanks for your honesty. Appreciated.

[@horusthealien]

Your sincerity has granted you a new subscriber my fellow human.

[@TheRandomINFJ]

Your eyes pulled me in, your discussion kept me here. 🤜🤛💕

[@traceydrake7654]

❤ Thank you Sir for THIS. Ppl these days are Somethin' Else (not good) Over All the Fubarness in this Crazy@$$ World. Growing up was GOLD compared to my Adulthood...here lately. Breaks my heart

[@JosiahBrown123]

I feel, in every friendship I make I always want to be able to connect with people more, but it’s always me being the only one who seems to want to get closer to people. For example I’ll try my best to make my friend feel validated and make sure they know that I’m always here and that they can trust me and that I have no bad intentions. But it just seems like I’m just another friend to them although I don’t treat them like a “normal friend”. I think that I take treat people how you want to be treated to a whole other level and it’s hard to find people who want the same thing as I do. I’m not asking for a village of people to slightly prioritize me (which would be horrible to me anyway Since I’m an empath and rarely like to be around bigger groups of people). I only need really just one person to be “close” with, but I always find myself in a panic when they start to make other friends. And yes I know they’re going to make other friends besides me however, it’s really the fact that it happens before I feel like I can “solidify my standing” with my friend. By that I mean we’re not close enough for me to confidently feel that you’re not going to ditch me for some other random person you met 3 days ago. There’s been times where I noticed there were people placed into my life who were in need and I overextend, once what they received the emotional support they need it’s like we start to fall off.

[@JosiahBrown123]

@@ruddock2668 at least I’m not the only one, it just makes you question what’s the point of being nice to people AT ALL!

[@sarsvfx]

@@JosiahBrown123 same that was me before lol now am popular asf a bunch of people following me I think people usually gravitate towards people who make a name for themselves lol 😂 now I ignore everyone except my day 1 homie karma is a bitch

[@eaglelensforemay7503]

You attract who you are and what you are. So if this person doesn't want to be friends with you, let that person go. A druggie will only hang out with other users right? What business does a clean person have with a drug user? Same for alcoholics, users, narcissists, good people, bad people, Godly people and non-believers. You attract who you are. Keep being yourself and eventually you will meet somebody on the same frequency as you. There is nothing wrong with you, the only way you can continue to force your way into a friendship group is to be like them, but then that means you are your fake self. Be yourself and move on.

[@JosiahBrown123]

@@eaglelensforemay7503 you are so right thank you so much!

[@qwuantum]

I feel you, my friends started to treat me like a random person from school even tho I haven't done anything to them, they don't make effort to talk to me, they literally care more about person they barely know and they want to talk with random people more than me. Oh god, fuck them... I want to just find true friends. I thought that people don't care about me becouse of my average look which is sick i know but it might be true in those days, probably when I lose some weight they would want to be around me becouse many people experienced similiar thing. One thing I know they are not real friends and even if they come to me again I don't want people who didn't liked me then around me

[@lachlan4534]

Thank you Cyrus.

[@maureen4566]

I have a disability, a mental one, maybe that's why people ignore me.

[@gabrielbaker1249]

I'm thinking the same for myself. All the kind, reinforcing words in the world can't cover up the fact that we're different from people that don't have mental disabilities and we're being ignored because of the difference. :( All the best wishes to you, Maureen.

[@ryancentnarowicz]

@@gabrielbaker1249 Sad thing my cousins ignore me too. I have a learning disability as well.

[@mikep.473]

It’s not you it’s them trust me they do it to you because they can’t use you and they are jealous of you

[@Thomasbest2876]

Thanks champ. Im trying my best to accept this truth. It's been a battle.

[@alyssavalerros5585]

Always sharing some very valuable information with solutions!

[@Islamiciman]

Or it’s just them being jealous

[@emmacherry2093]

This talk was life-changing for me thank you

[@egyptiantelesford117]

With Tears in my eyes....... Thank you . ❤️ 🧿

[@sherrimorris1375]

I appreciate your channel, so much.... Hits hard. God bless us all

[@luberknight8571]

this video it to relatable for me. Like i fit in every why you said.

[@ElaineBurke-mw1ol]

I just found this podcast & it's great. I've always been ignored from time to time or treated like a child. I think it may be that I have an illness & are the black sheep. O ce you see it, you can't unseen it! Thx for keeping it 💯 ! 😊😂

[@Scorpio-ug1pt]

I notice that I am an introvent and get ignored a lot. I am introverted because I am an Empath and need to be very careful of who I let in my space.

[@time_on_life8221]

Thank you for changing my life

[@hannabertrand4460]

When my husband and I are watching TV or whatever, I'll say something to him about the show or try to joke with him, he'll just tune me out. He'll not respond or I get a "mmm hmm". This is almost everyday no matter how many times I talk to him about it. It makes me feel so lonely.

[@RaymondKarismah-rc7qh]

Y You put everything in perspective thank you brother

[@mikethomas4570]

Been listening to a few videos like this. This one basically saying same but I felt it more in my heart. Going on to another thanks

[@epairoyahushua4314]

I love perfection in all directions they hate me for it.

[@robbello1000]

Be You, If If don't🦴🦴🦴🦴🦴 work ,move on...

[@kathyburton3142]

The people that first made a beeline for me, took me for a fool and thought they could piss all over me because of my soft kind nature are now regret messing with me. Empaths are strong and intelligent people who don't show their cards, we just let it unfold, we don't fear anyone and just watch and wait it out for them to hang themselves. After the war and destruction is over and we heal are wounds we come back stronger and wiser. When people see me now they run in the other direction. It's all a game, they ignore you because they they know they can't mess with you. 🤣

[@bud_1313]

This is what I wanted to hear thank you 🙏

[@darthgeorge28]

I love this video. I like how honest you are.

[@zaravr]

I never get to express my problems even deaths in my family and grieving. I’ve grown to hate them and don’t want anything to do with them

[@IloveSpicynoodles-j6h]

It's my second week in university I found a group of people,i made a 3 friends, but when I made a group chat, the rest of the people responded to everyone else but me. Im really sad, at first i thought that i haven't gotten the chance to connect with them yet but its becoming clear that something else is going on and i don't know what.

[@Uknown76]

Im starting to think im autistic or lack something people actually find interesting

[@DiAshlie]

Same 😢😞

[@Dr3w2020]

Yep same.but wasnt always like this.

[@notjohndenver1325]

Make friend. It’s worth the loss

[@ElisabettaLily92]

Thanks for this video

[@jamesd5761]

Wise words mate 👍

[@lucasabdou7130]

being ignored by people is something painful to experience but you have yourself in the end take care of yourself first and also don't expect too much from people cuz people nowdays are suck

[@OOoKarmaoOO]

They keep ignoring me in new group chats because I don't really know them

[@bbc20231]

I think that’s my problem I’m too positive

[@vernaharris4700]

When he said..."You may be annoying."😂🤣

[@naturallybecoming831]

Yeah I haven’t been myself and then I’ll be sad if I don’t feel ppl accept me. The ignoring hurts but now I treat ppl how they treat me. I know that sad energy pushes ppl away too. So now I’m letting go all of that. I’m gonna be true to myself and open with others but not lose sleep if ppl choose to ignore me. I see my sadness can be draining I just needed to evaluate my own self worth and stop worrying if I can be myself or not. I’ve been hiding who I am for so long and trying to be someone I’m not. I kind of been ignoring myself in that way. I think I’ve tried to perform and be something I’m not to get approval from others and see I never needed to do that. I just want to find that group that feels like home but i know it starts with being myself first

[@chichifield1169]

Thank you so much

[@JohnMelland]

Amen!

[@Uknown76]

Its so depressing i just want to talk to people but im just a npc they ignore whats the point anymore

[@sistershort1]

A lot of times it says more about them instead of you too! JS

[@jammyjay917]

I like this video.... lots of friends or family members seemed to have so many problems... they see us, the nice kind happy people and they don't like it....some of it is down to jealousy, but these people don't even seem to try to solve their problems or make things better for themselves... i have had a few friends who never reach out, when i reach out to them, they are happy to talk but they always talk about their stuff.... so I'm not reaching out to those types anymore, its absolutely fine because they never get in touch with me... your lucky if you have one or two good true friends, the rest are not worth our time and energy... if they wanted to, they would but they dont... distance yourself and do activities that you want to do

[@no-de3lg]

Im getting ignored by everyone

[@i-love.jesus.the.most777]

Same here. I’m used to it tho. I had to become my own best friend and love myself a long time ago.

[@MarcoSimple1Videos]

😑

[@johnT906]

Ignore them back.

[@MarcoSimple1Videos]

im sorry, and i understand the pain, me too,

[@rocksofoffence.righteousam2422]

Truth

[@j.rebekah8605]

Also, people are in a fallen state and are so lost right now. You'd think they'd crave a strong persons friendship but the devil has their ear. There's something to being too kind. I've been around people lately who think im 'kind' and privileged. They're going to need a wake up call that sets both straight at once if they start walking on me. Then they'll hate me 😆 People! Oh well.

[@BLCLTx]

I come from a hard place where everyone landed behind bars but i changed my mentality i just cant seem to make freinds that never been around that environment i keep bumping into people that are into that life but im not welcoming any freinds that type but im not rude i even changed city but same type people follow me cant get away from that type of person i change my style of clothes hair was faded up now comb side ways and still these kind of people pop up in my life i jist feel like im stuck but once they see im not their flunky they looking for cause i know to much they fade away and look for someone they can handle or manipulate thats cool with me its not the type of freind in want anymore before this loneliness and change of path my house was alway 30 40 deep was so popular change is hard for me

[@bbc20231]

No need to change your hair. Just be yourself. It’s ok to say “I used to be like this, but now I prefer doing x. Find a hobby.

[@j.rebekah8605]

This is good. I'm sick of people just saying that people are jealous. I think God doesn't want certain people in my life. And I'm sober, I don't have premarital sex anymore, and am very opinionated. I've had some very good friends who are strong and wonderful who love me (who have passed or live far away) but most people I've known for years have zero interest in even responding to me anymore. It's confusing because I'm also fun and attractive.... But not for them, I guess. Not to have premarital sex and get high. I'll also talk about Christ at some point. My cousin and mom talk to me sometimes but I think I wear them out and they are there due to family obligations. I have a great dog and Jesus. I'm blessed. Thank you.

[@JonaNL]

its hard bc i dont have other friends than them and im tryna fit in yk

[@Joshdifferent]

‼️💯‼️

[@brandonstaples7300]

5:09 truth

[@tompale]

I sit in discord trying to say something but no one pays attention :/

[@tb22k]

❤❤true

[@rodaneforbes616]

I got a friend who dont want to talk to me just like that and i dont know why ...he make it feel like i did smt bad are say anything. .he give me a phone to use fi the time been but is because i didn't have the money same time to pay him form that he stop talking to me i went to pay down on the phone he didn't tek it are look on me are say anything to me

[@gjdud56]

here i want to b ignored

[@Shan21.]

Because i am not attractive or cool

[@qwuantum]

my friends started to treat me like a random person from school even tho I haven't done anything to them, they don't make effort to talk to me, they literally care more about person they barely know and they want to talk with random people more than me. Oh god, fuck them... I want to just find true friends. I thought that people don't care about me becouse of my average look which is sick i know but it might be true in those days, probably when I lose some weight they would want to be around me becouse many people experienced similiar thing, I have attractive features but just a little too much fat. I think that might be becouee of my attractivnes becouse of that strangers ignore me too and when I want to know new people they at beginning show me that they arent interested that much, and we all know that most of people are judging ourselfs at the beginning by our looks. One thing I know my present "friends" are not real friends and even if they come to me again I don't want people who didn't liked me then around me

[@gabrielguzman6018]

People avoid me due to my resting prick face

[@littleleah310]

Probably

[@gabrielguzman6018]

@@littleleah310 well that sucks

[@littleleah310]

@@gabrielguzman6018 don't worry, it's the same for me

[@uDropper]

I feel you man, my resting face looks like I'm in terrible mood, people avoid looking at me and interacting with me, take a lot of time until they realize I'm humble and can be very social, most of the time it doesn't happen, and certainly doesn't happen in groups

[@jameskeating4719]

Zero friends stop drinking got zero friends

[@jameskeating4719]

Same here

[@masterprincipleblueprint9995]

Nice logo on your shirt

[@epairoyahushua4314]

Repent Jesus Christ is coming back very soon ❤️

[@mahtabvarche6402]

❤❤❤

[@bbc20231]

Just get a hobby and meet likeminded people doing what you like. Go adult college, play football, chess club, dancing etc.

[@mammybelle7302]

Or maybe you're shadowbanned 😊

[@jameskeating4719]

For sure lol annoying guilty but i always Listen but no one to listen depends on location geography some places talk some places no one talk like Jersey real speak florida no one talks

[@dangngiem2196]

so this happens to me : first i was being sexist and racist and insanely gay to my friend and i also did this to his friends , none of them like it , afte ra year i start giving him stuff , he neevr give me stuff he was very nice and always play with me cuz i give him stuff , then a few weeks suddenly he got mad at me for no reasons saying such things as : back off , ignore me , why him?? why him?? . i dont want to be with him. like its weird

[@queenpinb1252]

I talk and enjoy the same thing as other, I join in to, too laugh. It’s like I’m invisible, I try few more times to say same thing. But I give up. As long as I can remember, I’m the girl who is with I guess friends, who the one no one walks with. Makes me feel weird. Happens so often, I completely avoid social settings. The one no one calls, or txts, or comes up too at work just to say hey Shan. I’m working away, can see all my other co-workers laughing, talking all that stuff. I came to join be part, seconds later they disperse. Even if we love the same show like Seinfeld or Star Wars, Big Brother, dads are retired RCMP. I can go on and on and on. But yet I’m ignored when I try talk, literally cut off before I can say anything or mid sentence. My life as a loner who wish she had a friend

[@vaderkurt7848]

Ask them to let you finish your sentence. I think you need to be a bit assertive.

[@erawriter1651]

Thank you, I’m the happy person and many can’t match my vibe. 🌸🫶🏾 so I sense a ton of people who secretly resent or overlook me because they think I’m “nice”. I used to want to change myself, dim my light so that others can “tolerate” my shine. But now I shift that audience with a quickness because so many people out here are sad and want you to be sad with them.