You sound Dutch. I have pure Dutch heritage too, so wow that's cool. When I listen to your message and see your clothes, I see Hindu, not Dutch or western European. Never mind that you have become a follower of that which does not belong to your own culture, and that it has been promulgated throughout Europe for the last 40 years to the detriment of European values and strength, certainly not excluding economic strength, but if you just listen to yourself, like really, you can hear how everything you say is centered on the self - and such is Hinduism. Granted, you are a sex coach, so that does have some rationale. And what you say is honest and to the point and true regarding sexual pleasure itself, although the conclusions you come to are based on quite shaky psychology. Good luck out there, just thought to share... Cheers.