WHY DON'T WE HAVE CHILDREN YET? - MUFTI MENK

[@nasrabintadowsheikh4765]

May Almighty Allah bless me with Children's and those who don't have

[@shukribarkhadle6992]

Amiin yaarab

[@drbasitsheik3371]

Aameen

[@seeker5313]

- اللّهم صلّ على سيدّنا مُحمد. 💛Quran recitations if you’re interested. 🕊 💛☁️🌿 🤲🏻🤲🏻💙💙 😞😞😞 🤩🤩🤩 ❤️❤️❤️

[@Cricket4Sixes]

Ameen

[@raziarajack2905]

Ameen 😊

[@zehwazahoor4302]

What if every person becomes like mufti menk. What a beautiful world it would be. Mufti menk you're an inspiration. May Allah bless you

[@Nupator]

I cannot even imagine. 😂😂😂

[@naida6958]

Exactly

[@syedahassinaraislam5522]

I too agree.

[@mrsundaymorning]

If you think Mufti Menk is beautiful, imagine Rasulullah SAW. Wow, just saying this give me goosebumps

[@FarhanLifts]

What if We All Followed with pure hearts our Prophet Muhammad SAW 's hadiths and sunnahs and teachings. How beautiful the world would become...❤️

[@cloudysir2289]

I was pregnant 15 weeks and had miscarriage and now I’m again pregnant but I have bleeding I don’t know what happened just pray for me if Allah plans that Alhumdulilah it will be best for me

[@tanvirsiam6268]

😂 😂

[@jovialgirl817]

Sister hope you and your lil one doing good

[@lindasarkar2624]

I was 16 weeks pregnant with and had miscarriage and is not my first miscarriage Alhamdulillah I'm happy marriage 9 years married

[@tunkarafatima1571]

Am having same proble may allha give us asabro

[@hassandin5696]

​@@tanvirsiam6268what's so funny

[@iamwhoiam4569]

Its been 3 years of marriage and still I don’t hv a child. But Alhamdulillah my partner is the most nice person i’ve ever have in my life.

[@rkforever5372]

@Aisha Natecho Better you choose your life with someone else as your partner left you for childrn and still he his suffering...

[@beaulieuonnp593]

it is great not to have kids

[@obasogieokundia2815]

May Almighty Allah grant you children that will be the coolest of your eyes Ameen.🤲🤲🤲

[@iamwhoiam4569]

@@obasogieokundia2815 Ameen ... thank you ☺️

[@ahmedbm6875]

masha allah

[@durbakhthamid6885]

I got pregnant after six years and went through a miscarriage week ago..May Allah Pak grant everyone healthy child

[@jama-jay8154]

I met my husband late, married at 38. I wanted to be with the right person and waited patiently. No children. If Allah wills me children so be it, if not I will accept what Allah has planned for me. My husband brought me into this wonderful faith. Still lots to learn in such a short space of time.

[@hanicho6300]

Ma'sha'Allah may Allah increase your Iman

[@0_psh]

“May Allah accept your dua and bless you with strong imaan, sabr, happiness and long age with taqwa.” 😊🤍✨🤲 Ameen

[@debitscredits1276]

Same here sister. I married at almost 40. No children yet. I had a miscarriage 4 years ago. I have accepted Allahs decree 😢

[@RirieKhalifa7096]

My mom she passed away,,,but I’m not with her in her last moment,,because I’m working to helping my parents far away,,,but my mom is very wonderful mom in my life ,,she loves me so much,,,please pray for her may Allah will grant her Jannah.

[@noorainshazia2340]

Ameen may Allah grant her Jannah❤

[@kimberlymedina9979]

Omg 😳 same…she left 17 march and im not in the country 😢 i feel so empty

[@mayankkalra6797]

Ameen

[@huraynahamed7680]

The pain is so deep....May Allah bless us with pious children and those who don't have...include us in your precious duas

[@ramatoulienjie116]

Aameen yarabbal Alameen

[@BritneyThomas-zr5yf]

Amen

[@RSiiMON]

Ameen

[@itshaleemababes7200]

Ameen

[@farhanayesmin4961]

I have been married since 4 years, but still i didn’t concive,, it’s Allah wishes,, but i didn’t give up, i m trying and praying to Allah,, in sha Allah, Allah will Bless me with a cute baby, pray for me,, Allahu Akbar From Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩

[@sharafatali731]

InshaALLAH

[@yeasinist]

In sha Allah

[@mohamedasree4894]

In Sha Allah

[@Vivekmalii]

Sister.. did you conceive ??! Was feeling really bad so just asked out of concern

[@thunderturbine8860]

May Allah grant those who don't have children to have children.

[@suweibaabdulai4210]

Aameen

[@aliyaanassultan8785]

plz pray for me

[@theecologist10]

For those that want children

[@mediaconnexion170]

Aameen 🤲🏽

[@FeFeMiMi82]

Yes but not this world pls....no..not for me!..i prefer to have them in jannah...

[@iraqi6207]

"These children belongs to allah " They are not yours, they are your responsibility .

[@shaheenkhatri5958]

Such a comforting words. I don't have children. But now I have accepted the truth and thank Allah. He knows the best

[@r.mahmood4494]

What is Taqwa? 1.Taqwa is when you miss a single prayer,you feel uneasy the whole day. 2.Taqwa is when you speak a lie,your insticts feel bad. 3.Taqwa is the guilt that follows when you hurt someone knowingly or unknowingly. 4.Taqwa is shame and regret that follows a sin you did knowing full well about its gravity in the sight of Allah. 5.Taqwa is when you cannot sleep the whole night after disobeying or disrespecting your parents. 6.Taqwa is to cry in the depths of the night fearing none but the One above the arsh. 7.Taqwa is the fear from sinning even when we're alone and nobody is looking. 8.Taqwa is the guts and the will to please Allah,even the wolrd is hell bent on displeasing Him. 9.Taqwa is to wear that beard and hijab for sole reason of pleasing our Rabb and to keep it as personal. 10.Taqwa is to stay happy and smiling even after knowing this world is prison for believers. 11.Taqwa is the good manners and character that loving and fearing Allah brings in us. 12.Taqwa is the sruggle to better yourself according to Islam with each passing day. 13.Taqwa is not only about rising in Deen,it is more about falling but rising up again and never letting go. 14.Taqwa is all about what lies in the heart. [And if this heart filled with proper Taqwa, then actions automatically follow, and the sweetness of these actions are so much better!(Alhamdulillah). May Allah Bless you.(Ameen).

[@sk-vf5mh]

Wow this is beautiful :)

[@samramajeed5315]

It's amazing 😍 I am gonna save it ☺️

[@fav531]

We have been trying for 6years and now I have undergone a procedure ….waiting for the results..please remember me in your prayers everyone

[@ThemDessertz]

What a great talk, AlhamdulilAllah Mufti makes it so easy to understand. We have been struggling to get pregnant for the last 5 years (10 years happily married) We get pregnant but only reach 6 weeks and miscarry. Allah swt has granted my husband and me with so much and for that we are soooo grateful SubhanAllah . We are not disappointed just sad InshaAllah Allah swt will grant us children one day. May Allah swt bless all who listen to Mufti Menk Ameen 🙏

[@zehwazahoor4302]

Allah is the best of planners. Whatever he does has a good reason behind it. To whoever is facing a really difficult time, May Allah grant you with patience.

[@__jamesss]

Ameen

[@ashiaaa9556]

@@tafsirislamicreminders6298 Subhanallaah...I love to read and listen also to Qur’an...May Allaah bless us🤲

[@ramatoulienjie116]

Aameen

[@iraqi6207]

Parenting is a very IMPORTANT topic i hope you make more videos about it , it builds the essence of society

[@ATOMIC._]

It is really interesting to listen to Mufti Menk even though i am 15

[@duncan3998]

Go away shirk Kakarot. DBZ has no business with Mufti

[@mm-wiz2256]

@@duncan3998 lol

[@iyaehsan3840]

I am 18. But still like everyone else i also think about my future. I dont want to have a kid right away after marriage. I would just want to spend time with my husband . Otherwise i would be giving my entire attention to the kid for years to come. That doesnt mean that i dont like children, i love them they are adorable😢

[@M.Sid9.3]

Kids grow fast don't worry :) children are so amazing and bringing them up with the best intentions teaches you so much Alhamdulillah.

[@iyaehsan3840]

@@M.Sid9.3 thats true😄. But still i would like some quality time just with my husband. Only Allah knows what will actually happen though so we can pray for the best.

[@dodo-e4x]

Same sis 😔!!!

[@iyaehsan3840]

@@dodo-e4x are you married?

[@vedbhati6541]

@@iyaehsan3840 marry me

[@munnabacker1293]

Assalamu alaikum dear brothers and sisters...Alhamdulillah.....I have been married 9 years...I have no children.....please include me in your prayers

[@AlHaqAhleSunnah]

Been married 12 years and people still asking "why don't you have children?" People don't think.

[@sanjidaalam1897]

Have the same issue. Sometimes people have the audacity to ask “Don’t you want any children?” I find it helpful to respond by saying something like “we’ve been trying for many years now, please keep up in your prayers” or if they’re quite rude Ill say “children come from Allah” usually then they realize that they’ve been insensitive and haven’t considered that everyone doesn’t just have a child as soon as they want one! They’ll quickly apologize and hopefully they won’t be so insensitive next time to another struggling couple.

[@AlHaqAhleSunnah]

@@sanjidaalam1897 yeah, we reply with same thing. Although, as a brother, I feel I get it much less than my wife, so I really feel it for the sisters going through it. May Allah make it easy on everyone. Ameen.

[@uzykadiri5040]

@@sanjidaalam1897 I too reply that everything is in ALLAH's hands, if kids were available in market I would have purchased them long ago.

[@Pnsbcor]

@@uzykadiri5040well actually you can adopt there are many kids without parents right now

[@PreciousGuy86]

Children are a greatest blessing from Allah. May Almighty Allah bless everyone with His greatest blessing in this Dunya and Aakhirah. Aameen 🤲

[@tusiimesifah7464]

Ameen

[@ramatoulienjie116]

Aameen

[@Shanaz28]

Ameen Ameen Ameen...

[@jrtstrategicapital560]

I’m a Christian and Buddhist in my spirituality….I’ve thoroughly enjoyed and was enriched by your words…may God continue to Bless you.

[@SealedNectarOfficial]

may Allah bless u wuth Islam ❤

[@drbasitsheik3371]

Assalam o Alaikum, I m 47 married for 7years,still hvnt any baby after an abortion, Allah knows what is better for us, Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah my husband is very nice person , best person ,Muslim and husband. Alhamdulillah, remember us in ur prayers JazakAllah

[@muslimahmuhammad7269]

Why abortion? Allah knows best May Allah grant us rightous kids 🤲🤲🤲🤲

[@yourfriendlyneighborhoodte2380]

@@muslimahmuhammad7269 I think that’s more of a personal question, I know my mom did that when she was extremely sick during her pregnancy to the point that it might’ve been dangerous for her to have the child. Alhamdulillah that didn’t happen to her again

[@natevic1867]

@@muslimahmuhammad7269 maybe she is a revert?

[@alqubrusia]

Maybe she meant miscarriage.

[@ghafranhaque7161]

Wa aleikum salaam please clarify. Abortion most of the time is haraam and if thats your case you need to hide your sins. May Allah help you and give you peace.

[@dwightschrute4252]

Every droplet of hope and tear is a worship to Allah. Alhamdulilah this video made me happier in yet another failed cycle. Allah knows best and to him we shall return.

[@vkayysmoto]

I have been trying for 8 months and nothing. I been praying to allahp a lot lately and these past few days especially. Usually god listens to my other prayers so inshallah will bless me wiyh my baby soon :,(

[@lindasarkar2624]

Alhamdulillah 🥺🥺I'm still waiting for Allah for mey blessing I'm happy marriage with a lovely husband I'm 9 years married 😢😢

[@furzzy013]

Just what I needed to hear. May Allah forgive me for losing hope. May He bless us all.

[@ramatoulienjie116]

Aameen

[@furzzy013]

@@ramatoulienjie116 I forgot I wrote this 2 yrs ago. My son turns 1 tomorrow. Allahu Akbar!

[@hudaali4031]

Make dua for me to grant me a righteous husband 🥺

[@Meme_fun_1]

For me too😸

[@shreoshit326]

I am the one and only (girl) child of my parents . They are happy whatever god has granted to them❤.

[@0_psh]

Masha Allah sister, May Allah bless you and your loved ones Ameen 🤲✨

[@roshnimr6079]

Now, I also feel like I don’t want kids, because I have already two grown up kids - which is my mum and dad. nobody is there to provide or look after them them except myself. My parents sacrificed their youth and their life for myself , so now it’s my time to live for them by being happy. And in future, if allah wills, I am going to adopt a kid who is an orphan. For that kid, I am planning to stay childless, to do justice to that kid.

[@ZheinabEmpowers]

And Allah know best... I think we have to realize as an Ummah, that we don't practice the same level of patience and faith as the previous generations. We are so used to instant gratification, that we lose hope and faith as soon as hardships hit us. There will always be things that we want in life... But the reality is we're not meant to have it all, because THIS isn't Jannah. And you never know what might save you on the day of judgment... Always count your blessings and thank Allah. Today I was outside and I was admiring all the beautiful shades of the leaves during autumn. What are you grateful for? Thank you Mufti Menk for this great reminder.

[@rafiatumusah8994]

May Allah bless me with a child as well as those who don't have

[@bluesmonkey7388]

I’m 18 and don’t want kids until I am in a good place.Like have my own home and the mindset to raise a child properly inshallah

[@amalkhan8901]

I lost my grandmother today fighting COVID please pray for her it is too painful to bear....plz mufti menk pray for her...

[@MGOODSSSS]

May allah grant her jannah

[@GyanBhaktiSagar]

omg tear in my eyes thank you muftiji you are so great and your words are so precious

[@umaismasshhadi8247]

We had a conception after 5 years of struggle but had a miscarriage at just 11 weeks although the baby was absolutely fine with cardiac activity. I have a firm faith that this was best in my interest and that whatever's happened was and is right for me. I am happy and I have complete faith that this will just be a test Allah will definitely bless us with something much better soon InshAllah.. and even if was just a small time after 5 yrs I'm still thankful for being blessed for 11 weeks.. and I know Allah will bless me better or He knows best!!🙏 Please pray for me and my family..

[@Shasano11]

Make dua for me to grant a child

[@asmarareone7298]

May Allah make us grateful for everything we have and everything we don't have Aameen summa ameen. And may we support female childs just like the male ones instead of neglecting them.

[@FeFeMiMi82]

This is why i decided not to get married for i dont want my children to suffer the harsh reality of this stressful dunya💔how would you feel if you see your kids struggles with all the hardship in this life?!,so its a blessing for me for not having any kids for now,NO PLS, NOT IN THIS WORLD🤧! ...well its better to have them in jannah where sadness and heartbreak doesnt exist at all...

[@ayob561]

yes but its a sunnah to get married though. in a hadith sahih al bukhari 5063 the prophet saw said "Are you the same people who said so-and-so? By Allah, I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers). he said that when three people considered about their worship insufficient.

[@sezzyahmed7373]

I feel the same way but I'm not mentally or physically stable and thinking of not getting married due to my mental health and physical illnesses but ı know Allah has someone written for me. I need to make sure that if ı get married then ı have no kids at all as ı can't even look after my self let alone a child. My future spouse might not understand this so it gives me anxiety as there's no way ı'l ever change my mind. You might manage though and you might need some therapy to give you the confidence in life. My situation is on a while different level so there's not much hope

[@knisayusuf]

@@ayob561 there's a lot of other sunnah other than this that ppl didn't follow.. then,they're not a muslim? I didn't say this hadith doesn't exist,but when ppl met someone that's not married yet..they will remind them of this particular hadith implying that the ones who didn't get married is not a muslim. Just because someone's married doesn't mean that they'll ultimately go to jannah or lead happy lives,sometimes their partner causes them to go to hell. Some ends up with toxic partners or other bad things for example,the wife needs to prepare everything for the family just because she works and the husband couldn't support the family be it bcs of his salary or bcs he's just downright lazy.The divorce cases have becoming a trend. If that person found a suitable person then maybe they could get married,if the future spouse has already shown red flags,getting married to him/her just for the sake of changing ur status from single to married or just to fulfill the sunnah requirement's of getting married is foolish.

[@knisayusuf]

@FeFe 82, I respect ur opinion on marriage, but in my opinion, if u r healthy(physically and mentally) and able to find a good person as future spouse,it is advisable to get married. Being afraid of ur children's future when they live in this cruel world to me looks like u r not trusting Allah could take care of them. InshaAllah,usually when u'd teach ur children good moral conducts,ethics and strong in spiritual sense(Islamic ways),they'll be a good human.But first u'd to practice that urself before u can teach ur children.

[@knisayusuf]

@@sezzyahmed7373 I hope Allah grant u ease and protect u from ppl who'll mock u when u stayed single. Not all spouses will want to understand esp. someone who's struggling w/ mental issues,sometimes ppl get divorced because of it,and it is allowed in Islam to do that. May Allah grant u syifa' and assist u in ur live.

[@prettytulip1077]

Assalamu walikum everyone.. Alhamdulillah....!! I have a son..( 12 y) Hoping for 2nd child.... Pls... Pray... for.. me..!!

[@kayesmith9530]

Assalamualaikum I believe Allah gave me a Son whom taught me unconditional love 💞 We've been through a lot together and it's been the Greatest love. Pulling the heart in every direction. Tears, joy , laughter ,and smiles. Praise be to Allah and thanks giving.😊

[@cherry_b24]

May Almighty Allah bless me with blessed beautiful children's and people who dont have... Aameen. May Allah bless all of us. Please do add me in your valuable duas 😊😊

[@aichakabouhi44]

mufti menk has such an inexplicable light on his face,only at looking you like him,look at this goodness he has and then imagine the prophet how he was

[@aliyahoosein1874]

May Almighty SWT Allah bless me and those who doesn't have children's🤲🤱🤲Insallah...May Allah bless you and your families best teacher ever🤲

[@ANAHAFIZ]

Thank you for these beautiful words. They gave me some amount of peace Alhamdulillah.

[@r.b7979]

Pregnancy and childbirth absolutely terrifies me, i dont think i could ever do it to be honest.

[@ahmedalzindani8777]

May all bless everyone with kids

[@lostfury4447]

Yes it is lonely life but I'm looking at Allah's decree

[@crazy__traveler4027]

Every one Dua for me...

[@saimajahan1666]

He’s so knowledgable Mashallah. He doesn’t just speak referring to Islam, but Science, Society, Reality, he includes everything. Alhundulillah for these topics being discussed and normalized in such manner.

[@ellioth.a.3994]

Walaykum salaam, and thank you, Mufti! May Allah (swt) reward all of us. 15 minutes; 2,012 views; 273 likes; 3 dislikes; 56 comments.

[@meremali2837]

You're right Sir! What Allah given us we have to be accepted and say him Alhamdulillah. Jezakum Allah heyrn. for your Motivation.😍😍🌹❤❤

[@samsardar]

You are a blessing and a love Respect from Brazil 🌹 🌹

[@samsardar]

@Amer Jodeh Shukran. ..If i will subscribe in vídeo to you It Respect from my country. ..Are you appreciate It Respect from my Country? ??Ohh Masha Allah. ..And am appreciate your reply to me. ..🌹🌹🌹

[@samsardar]

@@JahannamHellfire Ameen and Loved. . Assalamu Ailakum

[@yasmeensalloo2646]

Jazakallah khair mufti menk for this talk, we have been praying for children for past 13 years. Allah is the best of planners. Please keep us in your duaas.

[@yasmeenhussain2721]

Inshallah just keep faith in Allah don't ever ever ever give up hope Allah will bless you when the time is right I was blessed with my daughters after 10 years Sending lots of love and duas for you x

[@yasmeensalloo2646]

@@yasmeenhussain2721 jazakillah khair for kind words. May allah swt continue to strengthen us in the best way

[@yasmeenhussain2721]

@@yasmeensalloo2646 inshallah he will just continue to keep your faith strong in Allah your duas will not be unanswered

[@pajashiavelino23]

I'm still hoping In sha Allah

[@obasogieokundia2815]

MashAllah tabarak Allah, Ya Allah grant children to those who don't have children and make them the coolest of our eyes Ameen ya rabbi.🤲🤲🤲🕋🕋🕋😭😭😭

[@ramatoulienjie116]

Aameen

[@abdulkareemafeez175]

May Almighty Allah blessed me with pious children

[@Rosh87756]

I seriously like the tone in which he addresses the issue

[@thameemyousuf8194]

Allah has given me three princesses. Alhamdulillah.

[@nargisbegum75]

I hope my sons wen they grow up be like brother mufti menk. Inshahallah

[@nousheenmustafa127]

At the point of my life I needed this most ❤️ tq sir

[@sohnamakalo84]

I will never loose hope in my Rabb I know He will surely bless me 😢

[@annisa2772]

Assalamualaikum ya sheikh.. have a great day 😍 May Allah ta'ala blessings be with us today n always n forever. Alhamdulillah!!.. after a year I'm getting married and the next year on my 1st anniversary l born my 1st baby..a sweet little girl. Masha Allah Tabarakallah 😍

[@BeilulAbdela]

It's been 5 years of marriage and still I don't have a child but Alhamdulilah make me Dua please

[@ayahsdiary7321]

We've been married more than 4 years but still we don't have a kids. It's really painful because most of the woman surrounded me already got pregnant with their first baby and already second child but still I haven't. I'm starting to question god why he can't give me since I can raise many child. I am not rich but alhamdullilah i can provide everything they need. My heart hurt so much. Now, I'm thinking to divorce my husband since he really want to have a kid even if he is the one comforting me to say that its okay even if we don't have child i will remain by your side.

[@zayedmohammadrowza2061]

Mufti Menk also knows genetics, X and Y chromosome things. He is really good.

[@pamelajohnson2748]

I love how you break down what you are speaking about on a subject.

[@kaif8735]

MasyaAllah Mufti.... Thank you for these advices and reminder. I am one of those you mentioned, i put my hope so high to Allah S.W.T. every single day and going through all possible method (medically) to be bless with a child. BarakALLAHUfik. Syukran Jazilan Kasiran ya Akhi.

[@samiraali651]

Masha Allah nice video God bless you and bless every couple a good child insha Allah and never loose hope and faith I got pregnant after 12 yrs after long medication and when I turned to GOD sincerely I was blessed Alhamdullilah

[@shah713]

I love this bayan. I don't have kids and pray a lot now I sabr that must be Allah have something very very good for me. Most of all I always sabr thinking why I always count what he not given me instead shukr for all that he showered on me.

[@aminasaidu6499]

It’s been 3 years of marriage am still I don’t have a child but Alhamdulillah

[@MeenahJohn]

It been 7 year's of marriage and still don't have a child🧕🤲but l have hope that Allah is able

[@a.s1035]

You should have a child if this decision comes from inside yourself, not because you feel pressure from the society. Who says that having a child is compulsory? It's your own decision, therefore your own responsability, nobody else's. When you have a child because you really want it, then you are going to show him love and give him the attention he needs, whereas when you have a child only because of social pressure then that child is going to grow up with lack of love, lack of attention, possible mistreatment and you will regret it.

[@iramahmed2155]

I am feeling a lot of pressure from society I feel judged and whenever someone says something I just end up crying. I just am not ready for a child I don't even know if I want one in the future. But atm no I am not ready. I just feel really anxious when people say to me why you haven't had a kid they don't even ask if I want one or not. Its not their place to ask anyway. I don't know how to deal with such people it's really affecting me I end up crying and getting anxious.

[@thesoloquest6324]

Mufti Menk- love your content. Can you create content on ‘never ask people’ or ‘your children’ - when are you having kids? It’s hurtful when people ask People.

[@Alexm-bc2dj]

Allah yahfadhek every scenario I’ve encountered in my life you’ve been there with advice may Allah be pleased with you

[@jannatfirdous7458]

Thank you for the lecture May Allah Grant you Jannah Ameen🤲🌷

[@rumi_shoppy]

Inspiration. JazakAllah😊

[@tinks2342]

Please pray for me, I lost my first pregnancy at 12 weeks 3 days. May Allah make it easy for us all

[@tehyalewis2549]

Masha'allah this has made my day 💗💗 may Allah increase my knowledge.

[@b10production51]

Alhamdulillah i lost my twins yesterday which was a boy and girl may Allah bless me more in the future

[@nimosaid5151]

Allahuma Ameen.I lost my twin girls almost 2 years now.May Allah(sw) grant you patience,comfort and pious children.

[@ablajum]

Only Allah ta'aala knows what is best for us. Allahu Akbar!

[@RobinDoomDK]

رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

[@lauralulu3650]

😭 You are right I know, what hurts more mufti is the fact that I love kids so much I would have 10 if I could ,even adopt , sometimes I think I’m at fault because I’m healthy and can have kids but my partner keeps avoiding this topic not because he is against it but own reason. What do I do ? I don’t want to divorce because we have good relationships. So it hurts when you really adore and love any kid you see and wish you had one yet you don’t and don’t know if you will ever have one on this life. I’d really love and hope one day I’ll be a mum Inshallah, everyone says I’d be a good mother. If not in this life maybe in the afterlife. Sometimes I think maybe I don’t deserve it or Allah is punishing me for past sins. I don’t know , this desire is hard on my heart. Pray for me please to find ease.

[@uzmaahmed.catmoon]

aameen sister

[@knisayusuf]

May Allah make it easy for u.Amin

[@SalihuZahra-f7n]

Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah

[@ashieyamer7229]

Ya rabb my husband and I want to have children.

[@samirduran4540]

Ameen

[@naziaanjum5411]

Iam also married trying from 4 years but no children yet dont know why allah knows better alhumdulillah my hubby is very very supportive alhumdulillah ya allah take care of my hubby nd keep our love til aakhirah ameen tq mufti for ur advice 😔I wil leave on allah

[@asmarareone7298]

I wish you were my parent Mufti sir....😁

[@boredom2022]

Alhamudilah.. But also love ur parents that gave birth to u.. Or make duwa for them

[@asmarareone7298]

@@boredom2022 you are right😊

[@duncan3998]

Not a parent, just a Uncle.

[@DanialClips]

Mashallah Mufti Menk is so brilliant at speaking

[@fizaa7120]

Thanks for your kind words. Bless you

[@angelaangelina3140]

Eu amo muito sheikh mufti. 🇧🇷 Brasil.

[@donttalktome365days]

But the question is ,,is it mandatory to have kids?I really can't with kids....kids really binds with lots of responsibilities...u can't have ur ME time... and as an introvert ME time is one of the most important things to me..moreover motherhood is so exhausting and hectic and painful..I don't want it.!😩

[@duncan3998]

Mufti: *People would be delighted to have children* Nah, that would be a nightmare for me.

[@asdfghjkl-pm3jo]

For you. Not for everyone

[@duncan3998]

@@asdfghjkl-pm3jo I was speaking about myself. Do you need glasses?

[@iramahmed2155]

@@asdfghjkl-pm3jo bro they were talking about themselves. You do realise SOME people want kids and SOME people don't. Do what you want

[@mariyummariyum8470]

Assalamuallaikum brother Menk plz make dua for me I got divorced just because of not having children 😢

[@sumivana]

Audubillah he fail the test. U are better without him. Ther are Millard of man u csn find one who is alone with children who is alone and maybe Allah will bless u after me to i not have quite long time no children is big test but like mufti said we don't know and never u kmow I read so so much stories women wher totally ill doctors said never u can have children and impossible and vallahi they had so have good thinking from. Allah my sister i give u a big hug allah bless u wiht all kheir and give u the best in this and in the next life ❤️

[@mrmrshercules3361]

May Allah make it easy for you

[@mariyummariyum8470]

@@sumivana ameen

[@iramahmed2155]

He never deserved you sister. Love is staying through thick and thin he just wanted you to be a baby maker. He wasn't worthy of you.

[@muminasfoodiechannel3030]

Trying for more than years...Alhamdulillahi a'la kulli hal....please pray for me my brothers and sisters

[@muminasfoodiechannel3030]

4 years*

[@wasimmir4229]

i am a kid i pray 5 times praying how to be a good muslim girl i like to be a good muslim girl

[@ashieyamer7229]

May ALLAH(s.w.t) bless us children allahuma ameen.🤲💖

[@zenatjabarkheel3833]

Allah is the one who blesses you with children just ask him for whatever you need he is the one who can give you never lose hope in mercy of Allah

[@Javasif]

Love from India 🇮🇳

[@nakalembehajarah1669]

MashaAllah your good words from Allah give me hope and more faith whenever i do listen to you at times when hv been discouraged and lost hope SubuhaAllah