WHY EVI ISN'T SPEAKING YET... concerns

[@letymerel]

When my kids were at that age I would describe the items to them. For example: "look at the big red truck", "that is a beautiful pink rose," " here is your blue ball" "do you want orange juice in your white cup or in the yellow cup." "Look at the green tree" "that house is blue" That truly helped them develop their vocabulary and helped them grasp the information. I hope this was useful and you can put it to use. 😊

[@isabellasbubble3867]

Thank you

[@maricruzmendez3340]

That’s good! They actually promote that in school as well especially in pre-k

[@ninaaac92]

I do the same with my son!

[@yarlinleonardo332]

He understands everything you tell him in English and Spanish that is so impressive but I’m glad you are being such a great mom and getting him the help that YOU think he needs.

[@gina1710]

I’m in school to become an SLP. So I’ve noticed a lot of the signs I am learning about in Evi’s non verbal behavior because children should know 50-100 words in the milestone’s chart. Speech therapy is the best & he will thrive from it. & women/men need to stop addressing Autism in a negative manner. There is a large spectrum & it doesn’t mean your child is abnormal in any way.

[@cristalgonzalez1333]

I absolutely agree! Also, the comments about his speech being delayed due to him learning English and Spanish simultaneously is incorrect. We need to educate people about this because I’ve noticed it is a common misconception.

[@maritzadominguez7522]

@@cristalgonzalez1333 totally with you on that.

[@brittanychavez3133]

I am in school to become a SLP as well, I agree with you 100%. I know Evi will love speech therapy!

[@Christiangirly023]

Yes that is because obviously no parent wants to find out that your son daughter has anything wrong with them but with the right help they can strive for better And also as a parent informing yourself of autism helps a lot because right away we think it’s something so negative when it’s not Speaking as an autism mom myself I was very in denial at first because I was like oh my son understands what I’m saying he does this and that but there’s more sometimes behind while child isn’t speaking and we as mothers have to do the best for them to get the help that they need

[@yaniraurenda1214]

Yeah but remember the system always expects more and more like for instance back in the days what did they expect from us at that age vrs now . like I worked in the medical field example: an over weight person now is still a skinny person the system wants you to be anorexic to fit the. BMI guidelines but of course some of us are curvy we have different body types. Is just an example that we don't have to believe everything or follow what the system wants us too. Of course at 3 if there's a concern then yes worry but at 2 like come on

[@danym1585]

Put him in daycare for a couple days a week,my son didn't talk alot then boom I put him in daycare and what a difference he started talking alot! Him seeing all other kiddos sparked something in him. It helped being around alot of kids. Instead of just us mom and dad.

[@lovePaula07]

Yeah I think that’s a good idea. Even though you’re able to work from home there’s something about them being around other kids at daycare. They take off.

[@arisaldivar]

@@lovePaula07 yes especially if there aren’t any other siblings at home, daycare would help or take him to those centers that way he can interact with other kids.

[@Preppymm2girl383]

I agree

[@josenande3790]

Good idea I did this with my son

[@beeeee4248]

No

[@ibnatpriotii]

STOP TELLING A MOM HOW TO BE A MOM. There’s no rule book to being parents! Everyone learns as they go. Let’s all please practice be compassionate to each other. Don’t stress too much Bri:)

[@asamalone7374]

THANK YOU IBNAT YOU ARE SO SO SOOOOO RIGHT ON SHOWING MORE N MORE COMPASSION ON ANY AND EVERY MOMMY OUT THERE🥰😇💜🤍💙💚💛🧡🖤❤💖🤎💕💕💕💕💕💕💕🙏🙌

[@pelonch24]

Omg Yess, every child is different and hit milestones different..

[@OurBestLifee]

But you’re not noticing the distress on the child trying to communicate. There is nothing wrong with giving your kid the push and get your child evaluated. No mom wants to hear that their kid “needs” anything . But it’s because people aren’t opened minded about getting any sort of resources for them. You don’t know the help you give your child . You don’t want your child being the only one struggling in school because you didn’t want to start earlier. I’m glad that she notices what her kid needs and I’m sure she will do the right thing. But it’s not shameful to get help. You can’t blind people from reality, kids are different but the average child should be reaching certain milestones . Everyone just needs to listen to their doctors because they do ask you these questions, so if it’s a concern for her then I’m glad she’s trying to do something about it.

[@leajohnson8441]

It’s good to get advice from other people also.

[@sjm4396]

I AM A LICENSED AND CERTIFIED BILINGUAL SPEECH LANGUAGE PATHOLOGIST, bilingualism does NOT cause speech delays/disorders! Stop with the misinformation in the comments!

[@theveefit]

People need to mind their business and worry about their own kids

[@autumnrain2740]

Yeah I me and my siblings were all bilingual growing as children. No one had any speech issues and we were all busy chit chattering going back in forth between two languages all day! drove our parents nuts! That why they say it's easier for kids to pick up on a different languages when they are younger.

[@julisaramos7857]

Really my daughter pediatrics told me the reason why she may not me speak for now is cuz we talk to her inglish and Spanish

[@sjm4396]

@@julisaramos7857 thats unfortunate that her pediatrician provided you with incorrect information, but I’m not surprised. I was trained in a bilingual program for my masters degree and can assure you that bilingualism in itself does not cause speech delays. There is a lot of research that can confirm this. Researchers in Europe, Asia, etc have also found this to be true for other languages, not just English and Spanish.

[@faith2879]

@@sjm4396 So what do you think is the delay. My nephew is just turn 3 years old and he just yelled he still doesn't speak a lot of words .He really just yelled all the time to get our attention because he can't speak words.

[@juliesaucedo730]

Girl your baby is so smart! When he was mimicking the kitchen activities! That was adorable & even if he doesn’t speak correctly yet, you can tell that he tries to say his words in his own way. Your baby is doing great lady, I think if it gives you piece of mind to take him to speech therapy then you should. Obviously it will make his speech better but your baby will speak when he’s ready. My daughter didn’t start speaking great until she turned 3 & it was out of no where tbh! They reach their milestones out of no where. Tu bebe es tan inteligente girly!!

[@vanessaamaya5552]

Yes, every child is different but early intervention is sooo important. Speech will definately help him blossom. My son is a chatterbox now. Blessings

[@JM_BEAUTY]

My son didn’t start talking until like 3 - 4 years old. Once he started talking he was fluent in Spanish and english. I was worried as well but honestly it was only because my family is strictly spanish and my man only English so he was trying to adapt to both languages. Don’t worry Bri once he starts talking I’m sure he is going to be fluent in both languages he’s probably just trying to figure it out cz you speak Spanish and English. My son was the same way as evi ✨ best of luck love ya!

[@dgalindo6671]

I can definitely relate with my son. He was my first born & my family would always say something was wrong because he was big and didn’t talk. My second daughter is 1 and she’s learning more because she hears my older son talk to her and she understands as well.

[@Sonia_g509]

Yes I can relate my baby is almost 3 in March and she doesn't talk yet im gonna ask her doctor it's always Hispanic kids because they hear both languages I think they get confused She does know some Spanish and English words but not enough for a full sentence

[@sjm4396]

I’m a bilingual speech language pathologist and can confirm bilingualism DOES NOT CAUSE DELAYS/DISORDERS. Please be careful with the information you put out in the internet.

[@AliyaSmithh]

@@sjm4396 My son received early intervention and our early intervention specialist also said this is a very poor myth. She said it’s actually better for them to learn both at the same time because it’s easier for them to pick up on both languages at a small age.

[@JM_BEAUTY]

@@sjm4396 I’m not saying it causes delay/ disorder. What i’m saying is he might be adapting to both languages because thats what i went through with my son btw hes now 8 and is SMART AND FLUENT

[@alejandrarubio7174]

My daughter has been going to therapy for two years and she’s been doing great and I feel like it’s helped her so much. Maybe consider an evaluation to answer any questions or feel out if you would even consider. Good luck! You’re doing your best

[@marlenedeltoro96]

My son struggles with speech, he’s seeing a speech therapist and developmental therapist and so far I’ve been seeing so much improvement 🥰 wishing the best for you and Evi 💕

[@MariaGarcia-fp2ro]

Where do you go ? Do you make an appointment with his doctor first and then they recommend a speech therapist?

[@MariaGarcia-fp2ro]

Please help I been trying to go but I’m not sure where to take my son first

[@evelynmedina3219]

@@MariaGarcia-fp2ro your pediatrician should recommend you one and get you started with the process.

[@Liv-ez7mo]

@@MariaGarcia-fp2ro I would ask ur child’s pediatrician for a referral to a speech therapist. Once the referral goes thru (usually 2 days) u can call to schedule ur babies appointment. I think most insurance require referrals especially for specialist

[@jessicaherrera404]

@@MariaGarcia-fp2ro if they r in school u can ask them With my daughter I asked at her school and they r helping her there But u can also ask you dr🙂

[@danielarubio5321]

Please don’t let issues go! The “every baby develops differently” causes a lot of parents to not get their child help that could really benefit them. My daughter has autism and she’s in speech. I noticed signs at 15 months & EVERYONE told me it’s normal for kids not to talk, she’ll do it eventually etc. and had I listened to them she would have been even more delayed. We started aba therpay at 2, she did speech, and OT. She’s 9 & in normal classes, she still does therapies but she’s excelling.

[@yasminmartinez778]

THIS! ✨

[@anastassia1234]

Yes yes and yes ! Speak up about autism nobody ever does it’s like some parents are ashamed but I was told by a señora god give the special ones autistic kids . 😍🥰😘 #im hisvoice💙

[@danielarubio5321]

@@anastassia1234 so true! I always speak about my daughter in the highest regard. She’s so intelligent, she just sees life differently

[@melgonzalez5125]

🙌so true. My son was non verbal and was diagnosed with autism a little before the age of 3. If I would have listened to everyone saying “it’s normal, he will talk soon” my son probably wouldn’t be excelling today. He is what you call “high functioning”. He received all the therapies you could think of and it was A LOT of work 😅 A lot of parents are in denial and don’t get their kids the early intervention services they need. I’m not saying every kid who doesn’t talk by the age of 2-3 has a neurological disorder, but it doesn’t hurt to get them evaluated just to rule out anything other than just speech delay.

[@janetlopez1261]

This! Props to you mom ❤️

[@iliana329]

early intervention is everything! my daughter started speech therapy at the age of 2 because she only spoke 10 words at best. she just turned 4yrs old & speaks sentences, has conversations, sings, expresses herself, tells jokes. it’s made all the difference in the world ♥️ i know everyone says they talk at their own pace & they definitely do but a little help will never do any harm.

[@karyc103]

I agree. Early intervention makes a huge difference! I understand some parents will be in denial about it, but that’s just time lost that could’ve been helped their child out.

[@marleenperalta9063]

Yes so true my son was going to school/daycare at 7 months and once he was almost two the teacher was the one who mentioned it to me about his speech and i already had notice it too. He was only saying a few words & Ever since he was 2 he's been in speech and omg he's improved Soo much and he's going to be 5 💙

[@F11-c7j]

Your right the earlier the better. So great that you have help now. It's ju as t gonna get better from here

[@dsalabarria94]

My son is 2 and is doing early intervention this comment made me so happy. Because it is helping him a lot. As a first time mom I use to worry about speech delay but it is normal and we’re learning a lot together

[@iliana329]

@@dsalabarria94 he’s going to do great ♥️ & you’re going to be the proudest mom ever at all the progress he’s going to make! best of luck to your little one.

[@Ritmo273]

He’s so precious 💕 I love all his mimicking and pretend play so fun and cute to watch! Eve is a precious boy 👦

[@RunningMyMouth_]

Definitely put him in speech therapy. I noticed my daughter was speech delayed (expressive) and we enrolled her in speech therapy. Evi was similar to my child and she is now 7 and tested out of speech. My daughter attended at 2 years old. It’s amazing. Also, a helpful tip: expose him to vocabulary words (sight words) and words around the house. For example, label items around the house put a stick note (chair) and place it on the chair . He will begin to recognize the item and word and the more vocabulary words he know the better his development. We do this in our home and it helps.

[@Bnl_Ale]

Yes! You’re the mom you’re with him all the time idk why people think they are the first to notice shit and want to call it out like they are experts. And you obviously take him to the doctor and they always ask those types of questions. Especially because autism is so common. Not that, that’s the case here but even if it was I’m sure you and your doctor will be the first to know. My cousin literally didn’t start talking until he was 5. His parents were also worried but he’s now 15 and very smart in school. And does not have autism at all. You don’t have to explain yourself but I get why you have to put it out there. 💛

[@marcietiano6588]

Also easy free tips to help with speech delay; sing nursery songs, count 1-10, sing the abcs, teach child simple Sign language words like More- Thank you- Please, animals sounds. Keep at it ! You’re a wonderful mom

[@maleechild6475]

Yes girl this is a great way to help the toddlers learn words well explained & don’t always give the ipad

[@lovelyvillar22]

You got this momma 💪 Love ❤ love ❤ love ❤

[@monicaelias4372]

My son was the same as Evi, his pediatrician said he needed an evaluation for speech. They did the evaluation and he was fine with speech but was delayed in other milestones. The Reginal Center helped me with a therapist and they also recommend mommy and me class with specialists in the classroom. It was the best decision I took, it helped him so much. He was my only kid and didn't know how to play with other kids but that definitely helped him alot. He even started eating by his own with utensils, he learned by watching other kids when they had snack time. Do your research Bri, wish you the best for the both of you.

[@lilivalencia3575]

Mine just turned three and was recently diagnosed with autism spectrum

[@LovingMJayy]

From one mommy to another, maybe expressing to him in detail the things around him, " red ball" "left shoe" when he jumps " jump jump jump" ... babies all take time and so do mommies while in this learning journey, you got this..

[@alejandramartin6656]

Great tip! Involving children in cooking activities and going on walks, for example, are good opportunities to help kids in their language development, saying things like look at the bird in the tree, etc.

[@irisotero6561]

Evi has delayed speech. No lie, my sister talked at almost 5 years old. All of a sudden she started talking and, then we couldn’t shut her up lol. Briana, you’re a great mom. Thanks for letting us get a GLIMPSE into your life. You don’t have to share him (Evi) but, you do. Keep doing the great job you’re doing. Sending love ❤️🤞🏾🙏🏾

[@Adnxe444]

Lmfaooo not the couldn’t shut her up 🤣🤣

[@stephaniepedroza1733]

Same with my son now he won’t stop talking

[@leslyhidrogo544]

I suggest talking to him more as an adult rather then baby talking I’ve always talked to both my girls like I talk to an adult & there speech would be awesome by the time they turned 2!!

[@Briandfern]

Yes this it’s so hard because I just want to spoil him with my baby talk but I know this is definitely a helpful step 🥰

[@leslyhidrogo544]

@@Briandfern I know as moms we want to baby them I get it 100%!! But don’t worry evi’s speech will come in my nephew was the same he’s 3 and is just speaking so much every baby at there pace!!

[@Ydnew51]

Very true.

[@salinamariegonzalez1717]

Right I was thinking this and also he’s not around a lot of kids his age you know so it’s different when he’s the only child

[@xxiyah2609]

This is a good suggestion, I agree. My daughter is 3 talks as if she’s 13. Lol but I still talk to her like a baby, cuz I’m a first time mommy. But this suggestion is a good step.

[@Irigee]

I love how your standing up for Evi! Every baby develops different, you are the mom and you know whats best for him.

[@asamalone7374]

AWWWW MY SON HAS AUTISM AND ONE THING WE DID SEE WAS HIS HAND GESTURES HE WOULD DO AND I'VE SEEN OUR EVI BEAR DO THOSE HAND GESTURES AND I'VE BEEN PRAYING 🙏 OVER OUR WIDDLE EVI🙏😇🥰❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ AUTISM IS NOT NEGATIVE AT ALL IT ONLY MEANS GOD CHOSE THOSE SPECIAL CHILDREN TO BE ON THIS EARTH 🙏 THEY'RE ANGELS IN HUMAN FORMS😇🖤🤎💜🤍💙💚💛🧡❤💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@nuviamorales5614]

Yes speech therapy is good 👍 everyone is different and try not to baby talk to him. Even tho as Hispanic we love to do that he will do great 😊

[@LauraGonzalez-if5yo]

My sons pediatrician referred him to get evaluated when he was 18 months since he didn’t even say mama or papa. I would definitely start early intervention it will help him a lot once he starts school 🙂

[@Alexandra-el2hx]

He’s doing great and speech therapy will not hurt him at all. They will also teach you as a parent how to help him 💙

[@maritzadominguez7522]

Just my little humble opinion Bri. Everything you said is spot on. I can see you are a very good mother and you also have alot of support from your family to help you raise your son. Assuming you were to miss any red flags, there is no way your mom and grandma would just stand by and not say something. I've been following you guys now for about 4 + years and have seen the growth in you and Fern and you guys are moving mountains and helping so many along the way. You are a wonderful mother and girlfriend and also daughter, sister, friend etc. Your house is impeccable and your always very sweet to everyone. Your son will be absolutely fine because he has all he needs.

[@angelicarosales1459]

So happy that you guys decided to get Evi into speech therapy, my son was in early intervention for speech therapy and it helped him so much. Not only did it help him speak but helped reduce his frustration because he was able to express his needs and wants more easily instead of just pulling me to what he wanted he started using words. And not only that but it also teaches us parents how to help our kids learn too.

[@Nadiaaxoxo]

My little sister didn’t speak until she was 4-5 years old. She’s 16 now and she’s a straight A student taking all AP classes. Some kids just take a little bit longer then others 😊

[@reinahurtado8629]

Love Evi playing in the kitchen! Your a great mom and just follow that mom intuition! Speech therapy is a awesome tool my son had a articulation issue with his speech and it helped him so much. Reading out loud and routinely helps so much too

[@mikaylaarsenian9071]

I’m dyslexic and I still struggle with speech sometimes. I went to speech therapy and it helped. Not everything is always autism.

[@mikaylaarsenian9071]

There’s also schools that specialize in helping dyslexic kids how to learn at their pace! Unfortunately, public schools do not offer the right resources for dyslexics to thrive in school. I went to a private dyslexia school and it helped me tremendously. The sooner you’re able to detect dyslexia, then the better outcomes it will have on your child!

[@Diana-83]

Bri, my nephew was born on the exact same day & year as Evi. My nephew was babbling & my poor sister was so concerned but girl, within the last few days, he has been forming full on words! Evi will, too & when he does, he is never gonna stop talking & you'll start miss the baby babbles, too!! He is a NORMAL 2 year old & learning so much about this big old world & as you said, he is PERFECT!! Sending love from me & my nephew, Baby Jackson to you & beautiful baby Evi!!

[@soniaflores1846]

Girl my son is almost 3 in may and is just starting to talk clearly. Don’t let these people tell you nothing he started talking more a little after 2 yrs old ❤️

[@Briandfern]

Thank you so much 🥺

[@jocelyn4592]

I totally agree every child has a different milestone if his pediatrician isn’t telling you anything then please don’t worry what other people say. Every child is perfect in there own way ❤️

[@brandinoriega5470]

Girl yes my daughters 2 as well and is barley starting to talk

[@lilytexas1231]

My daughter has speech problems but therapy helped her and then being in a school setting now and she’s talking a lot more she still will need more therapy . My son is evis age and he’s the same way I’m talking to him everyday and he understands us but he doesn’t talk and it’s a process . But your the only one that knows your son focus on helping him more and talking to him teaching him .

[@gabriellazera4054]

I seen Stormie talking & compared her to my daughter that is the same age & knew right away that she needed help. I called the doctor & asked for a speech therapist. Helped so much! She speaks more than anyone her age. The sooner, the better 💖

[@d.lizbeth7297]

Girl dont even stress about it , my daughter is 4 and bearly started talking a lot more since she is in head start preschool.. she is a only child too , all kids grow up at their own pace❤️

[@lizbethduran2388]

My son had febrile seizures and due to that he was behind in speech. We are still working with a speech therapist and already I see a big difference. As a mom it’s hard to hear that your child isn’t perfect or is behind on things. You tend to question your parenting but you are doing amazing! Each kids is different and educating yourself on how you can help is what makes you a great mom!

[@melissasahagun8118]

My son struggles with speech too, I’m wishing nothing but the best for king Evi

[@11juanitacepeda]

My son was the same! Speech therapy was what help him talk! I would suggest you putting him in SPANISH because the English he will eventually pick up later at school.

[@F2397-m4c]

My son struggled too. Biggest thing that helped is constantly talking to him and teaching words! He is 10 now and he talks A LOT 😂 don’t worry. He will talk when he’s ready 😊❤️

[@Lt13196]

Aweee Poor Brit, you look so emotional I’m so sorry you have to deal with that! But you should do what is BEST FOR YOU! I love you!! 💕

[@yolandacervantes725]

Love you Bri ❤️ your Evi is perfect don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

[@Briandfern]

Thank you

[@montserratmurillo5158]

You’re an amazing mom Bri 💕 like you said he’s still only 2, speech therapy will only support him and can do no harm. Evi understands language and it’s clear he wants to talk. Don’t let the negative comments get to you 💕

[@Ashley-dv3uo]

I haven’t watched the whole video but I’m just clicking in because of the title of the video. Do not let anyone and I mean ANYONE get in yours and ferns ear about evi speaking or lack of speaking. Internet strangers and family members will be doing the most with their think pieces!!! My oldest son who is now 17 took a long time to be verbal, he knew the words he was just reserved and quiet. All through elementary the teachers were always like I wish he would talk and interact more when I would go to parent teacher conference. Now he’s a teenager and he won’t STFU! Lmaooo!!! Bottom line! A kid gets there when they get there.

[@salinamariegonzalez1717]

OMG my teachers used to say the same thing about me how I was so quiet and I would not participate in class. I was just shy. My son is the same way and Girl when he gets here it’s a whole different story lol

[@clarissapichon5875]

My son just turned 6 and is in kindergarten, and we are dealing so much with his teacher. She keeps stating that he might have a disability... But his pediatrician says otherwise and that he is perfectly fine and that some kids are more verbal than others. It breaks my heart because my son is smart and I just don't understand his teacher. My son is shy and talks around those he is comfortable with. I'm just hoping next year is better for him. But thank you for your post it really made me feel better ❤️❤️❤️

[@clarissapichon5875]

And the school also tested my son to see if he needed speech therapy and he passed and they said he speaks normal for his age. I just wish his teacher would leave him alone....

[@Ashley-dv3uo]

@@clarissapichon5875 As moms we are gonna get the most criticism and opinions than anyone. If you know your baby says words and is only comfortable around certain people then that’s all you need to know. The rest is just an opinion of someone who doesn’t truly know what they are talking about. Sending love mama ❤️

[@clarissapichon5875]

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@toystorey261]

Yes!! Therapy is the best thing. Don’t let people tell you wait it out because I heard the same about my son. It didn’t sit right with me so I decided to get him into therapy right at 2 and he ended up having a speech disorder. There is nothing wrong with getting him some therapy sessions! It’s worse to ignore. Early intervention in your state should provide in home sessions!!

[@ayleenmarin]

My little girl struggles to and she's 3 years old. So we're gonna do speech therapy 💘 every baby talks at there own pace ! Your doing amazing love !! Todo con dios 🖤

[@michellejaimes]

Yes! My daughter will be 4 on June and she always has speech delays. Speech therapy is the best! She just started saying 3-4 words at a time

[@jennygonzalez1467]

From a mom of 4 and my first born also had speech therapy when he was 2 but he grew out of it Bri…so don’t worry he will be talking soon. Just be patient and may God bless you and family.🥰

[@karensalgado2932]

He’s a smart boy that we know !! I recommend talking in full sentenced and less baby/dumbing down talk so they understand a full sentence and proper way of speaking . We’re doing this with my baby sister since my other sister still slightly struggles to speak , but you guys will be fine best wishes ! ❤️❤️

[@Lauren-xt8ey]

Evian is developing perfectly fine , he is a happy , loved and well rounded child. People always have the must to say because they mistake opinions for a fact. I would honestly kill to see what some of theses people houses and parenting skills look like , since they have so much to say. Anyways love you bri 💗 #shinethemon

[@elizabethe6984]

Bri dont worry! My son started talking at 3 just a lil and i signed him up for preschool last august and its feburary now and he talks in complete sentences out of nowhere lol. My daughter will be 2 next month and says about 5-10 words. Her pediatrician recommended me to read books to her every night and everytime i give her something say what it is and try to have her repeat it and soon shelle talk. Every kid is different.

[@MsMartinez7722]

I can totally relate! My daughter had a speech delay at his age. I was told it is more common in boys than it is with girls idk. After she went through two different therapists, we enrolled her in a preschool program specifically for toddlers with a speech delay. She thrived in that classroom with only 5 kids. She's now 11yrs old and won't stop talking LOL

[@yeseniapacheco1164]

Same here. Both of my boys had a delay. They didn’t starts talking until about 3ish. I remember being so stressed from peoples opinions. Now they talk so much I cannot get peace and quiet lol.

[@iambethvee]

It’s so hard when other people say “ she doesn’t stay still” “ she claps her hands like a baby with autism “ “ she doesn’t respond to her name “ “has the pediatrician said anything ?” It kills me inside every single time. I’m alone with my baby girl I SEE IT I ASK QUESTIONS . People need to leave her alone. I honestly feel bad for her. Hell get ahead when it’s his time.

[@asmrdestinationsleep7917]

Ppl said that about my youngest son bc he talked late and he had texture issues and he grew up completely fine but I was soooo sick of ppl telling me all that.

[@stephanietorres9393]

People say the exact same thing about my daughter!! its soo stressing

[@iambethvee]

@@stephanietorres9393 to me it’s just super sad. Makes my depression 10x worse. She’s perfect in my eyes and whatever she’ll have she’ll still be loved the same. It’s just crazy think we’re that stupid that we don’t notice our littles….like we’re with them 24/7.

[@thebernardinos4683]

Well said.. I’m glad you don’t take it the wrong way . I’m sure it can be overwhelming but it’s all love.

[@christinabolanos6865]

My son has speech therapy, he started at 2yrs old and he does great! There is no harm in trying nor any shame! Every child learns at their own pace ❤️

[@martinameza558]

So well said! Shows how respectful u are w your subscribers..wishing you all the best😊

[@christinej9080]

My nephew was exactly like Evi but once he started talking it was one word after the other and he started talking alot. We call him a parrot now cuz he's very talkative so much so that he picks up big words and loves to read. Evi is going to be fine!! He's smart he understands what your saying to him. Watch him be a little professor and shock everybody♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@tishalopez4169]

Girl you know your baby!! Your not ignoring the problem so your a good mama! Take care beautiful 💕

[@msagarcia29]

My daughter had a speech delay. I got a referral from the pediatrician for speech therapy and it helped her a ton. Now she won't shut up. The first step is getting an evaluation just to make sure you're on the right track.

[@Habibbbbbbi]

I loved this…you crack me up 🤣 in the best way I love how you spoke of your own imperfections in your vocabulary as many of us do especially when surrounded by multiple languages!!!! That can cause a delay in speech for many children that are surrounded by multiple languages at a young age it’s not bad it develops their vocals….he’ll be fine!!! I love your honesty 😍 he’s soo smart!!!

[@erika5403]

My son turned 2 dec 2 and only says papa. People always SAY something about him talking. 🥲 We are starting speech therapy in a couple weeks. All kids are different they are going to talk/walk when they are ready! Love you Bri! 🤎

[@lifewithnya_]

OMG felt this so much! I feel like the people always judging is the people with kids which is crazy 😒 but I really hate when people have things to say but like you say YOUR the mom you know exactly is something is different with YOUR child. People really need to mind their business sometimes and worry about what they have going on

[@rossanaruiz8839]

Bri I feel for you Motherhood is just another level of struggle dealing with first stages of breastfeeding not knowing if they are eating enough to oh now you don’t know if they need speech therapy to having to deal with people comments you literally go through it all!!! Just know you are doing the best you can!!!

[@mamaawenn]

THIS!!!!

[@Carolina-cn6tw]

I commend you on your maturity on the speech issue. I'm very glad to see your approach on everyone's point of view. 👏👏👏

[@carorodriguez7466]

Boys are usually more lazy for speaking, I have three boys and only one of them didn’t need speech therapy ! It’s okay you are doing great mommy 😍

[@alejandramartin6656]

Yes, boys tend to talk later than girls...and research shows that testosterone levels may delay boys’ speech development

[@jackiechka5513]

This is true, my Nephews took them longer to speak vs my daughter and niece. Ur doing great Bri 😘

[@marylu2216]

For me it was the opposite, my son spoke clearly at 14 months but my daughter just started to say a few words at 2ish. Every child is different. But I will say that boys are harder to potty train.

[@dyna01]

I love how strong you are as first time mom, I can tell that it was hard for you to talk about, there are so many things that a child does that can be questionable but a child is unpredictable; they learn at different paces and how concerned you are is you being a mom!!

[@natalie54321.]

My son was late on literally every milestone lmao walking talking crawling.... he turns 3 in March and he talks he READS he spells etc. 🤯 he just woke up one day and decided he could do all that 🤣 Every child will learn at his/her pace. I commend you for taking him to speech therapy. Early intervention is key. But you're doing great mom don't be hard on yourself. One day hes gonna wake up speaking trust me it's just gonna happen out of nowhere! Toddlers are so so smart. They just need us to motivate them mirror for them explain everything. you can do it Evi 💪🏼

[@cindeemunoz9513]

I love seeing the baby E on your vlogs but I totally understand why your hesitant. Do what’s best for you and your family.

[@lifewithdez92]

My daughter was the same way she did do Speach therapy and it helped along with me talking to her and showing her a lot

[@jeanettegarcia96]

We love your family and watching, Bri. Be happy your fans care and have pointed it out. It’s a jagged pill to swallow especially when it is your child but we as parents have to open our eyes and be real when looking at development in our child to what other children their age are doing. You’re doing a good job in asking your sons ped. Good first step. It’s not what is wrong but what is right by doing good for Evi, and getting services he needs. I have two sons of which are very different sides of the spectrum but still on the high side. The worse thing a family can do is ignore and deny the child any help and make the child suffer by saying he’s lazy, he develops slower, etc… my family stigmatized the mere thought 💭 of having a developmental disability. I recently saw another influencer whose brother I just knew was on the spectrum and yes it came out true. Also professionals and school personnel can and will discourage anything that requires them to assist getting needed services. Sometimes it’s easier to say he’s fine when he really needs some help. Don’t let this slip into the cracks, your child is most important job in your life. Remember that okay? Much love, Bri. -a mama who knows.

[@tnt1652]

My first born struggled with speech. It will be ok. Your the Mom and you know what is best for your baby.

[@TheRealPerezFam]

You're such a great Mom! 💙 My first child was so advanced at everything! Even potty training and my second has been slower at talking and potty training but every child is different and of course as mom we get concerns, my son is 3 and a half and he's barely talking and not even perfect yet and it's okay they will get there 💙 also being bilingual seems to delay them in speech too but they'll know 2 languages!

[@terichavez1751]

You and Fern are good parents . Do not worry it will be fine, time does change things and he will grow and learn in time. He is still so young. Do not stress you are taking care of your son.

[@chenny444]

Girl I love you and you’re entire. Your baby, your business. Ppl need to mind their own children/lives. I know it’s hard to get unsolicited rude comments from ppl. But girl keep doing you! It’s obvious Evi receive a lot of love and he’s will taken care of, he’ll reach his milestone on his on time. I appreciate that you allow us into your life. Much love and best wishes 💜💜.

[@trish31781]

Speech therapy is the BEST!! My son was also a late talker but he learned quickly working with a teacher..

[@alejandra489]

i HIGHLYYYYYY recommend for everyone’s kids to watch BLIPPI 10/10 !!! my nephew has learned so many words bc or him !!!! my nephew is 2 and a half and he can say all the colors not sentences or anything but he’s definitely has learned a lot since he started watching him !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@auddreyy200]

Yes agree 🤙🏻

[@bsanabria1992]

I second this! My son also is delayed on his speech and also does speech therapy what helped him is me taking away the pacifier, speech therapist, and Blippi!

[@pduenas1018]

Yes!! My son is 2 going on 3 and he lovesss Blippi! It has helped him alot with his speech

[@sjm4396]

As a speech language pathologist, I absolutely recommend Blippi! He has great content with lots of opportunities for a variety of vocabulary.

[@MsCalibee]

Oh cool I’m going to try this one too! My son loves: songs for littles on KZbin. It’s a great one for child development.

[@karinagutierrez1099]

Speech delay is very common good for you for finding him resources that will help him. Speech therapy is great especially if it’s play based. A couple of days in day care would help also. I’m a preschool teacher and I had a child with severe speech delay and with the combo of therapy and being in class he has learned so many words. The day he finally called me teacher I almost cried.

[@MakeupbyaliBarba]

As an early childhood educator I have worked with children from 0 to 5 and while milestones guidelines are very useful they can also be very damaging because not one size fits all with these milestones some children develop faster others develop a little bit later but that does not necessarily mean that there is a problem. Now doctors usually recommend speech therapy or early intervention as a precaution and to help a child thrive. Society has really embedded the idea that at a certain age a child Hass to be doing something or automatically it’s a red flag. You are doing an amazing job and keep moving forward. Definitely look into speech therapy and other programs but also keep doing what you are doing.

[@BeautyBee19]

Kudos to you for not only the transparency but the honesty! 🙌🏼 my son was in early intervention for 3 years and he is one of the brightest 5 year olds now. You’re doing the work and that’s all that matters! Keep putting him and his well-being first ❤️

[@mayrasanchez4984]

Hi Bri it is also shown that children who are bilingual take a longer time to develop speech. Their language milestone tends to differ compare to a child who is only learning 1 language. Early intervention is not only for children who are severely delay with speech it can also be for children who have trouble articulating a simple sound. I’m glad you are sharing your worries because people don’t speak about this topic, and in the US majority of the children at one point take therapy for their speech. Love you girl 💙

[@cherrybratbaby3885]

yessss i wanted to say this too. sometimes biligual kids take a lil longer !

[@moniquenunez475]

I totally understand how you feel about people who are not qualified making a diagnosis. It happened to me. My son is 5 and is delayed. Doesn’t make me love him any less. Like you said about your son, he is perfect in MY eyes.

[@aye102811]

I literally just had my daughter get a speech evaluation done yesterday 🥺 she’s 3 weeks older then evi crazy how much we all relate to one another 🥲 our baby’s will be talking before we know it lol

[@oliviafreitas7074]

Aww Bri it’s ok. My daughter is 2 & she still doesn’t talk. We have her in speech therapy & it’s been helping a lot. My daughter is also sensitive to loud noises, she also screams and yells because she can’t talk.

[@giselamunoz5677]

My baby is about to be 3 and still not talking! He’s in therapy now 🥰

[@odalisgarcia01]

Yes 🙌🏻 Bri well said not every baby is the same or have the same development. Just know Bri you’re doing great 😊 as a mom. Your taking the first step as a mom by sending Evi to get help. I myself have hearing lost and while back like years ago I had to take speech therapy to learn new words and learn how to properly pronounce them. Therapy will be so good for him and soon Evi will be a very wonderful talker.

[@daai5796]

Thats how my son was & later was diagnosed with autism it will get better !

[@krista9852]

But everyone’s outcome is always different t

[@daai5796]

@@krista9852 obviously im just sayin lol

[@alexislauren9268]

@@krista9852 also an early sign of autism is flapping and evi flaps in videos

[@anamaldonado1400]

I am going thru the same thing with my almost two year old. My daughter is in therapy already but I have not notice much difference but I continue to do the best I can to help her. Best of lick with Evi

[@kristinapeters9260]

It’s probably because he is learning Spanish and English at the same time, it may just take him a little longer to start talking, every baby is different.

[@J_vent21]

This is definitely not true. Kids learning multiple languages at an early age is good for them and their brain knows how to tell the difference in languages

[@sjm4396]

I’m a bilingual speech language pathologist and can confirm that this is a myth.

[@VBaybee11]

Every child develops at their own pace and that’s ok. You’re the best mommy and don’t ever feel like you need to explain yourself! 💜 With that being said, reading books to them does wonders with their vocab Bri!

[@ng8014]

You have the platform and you always bring up some really good relatable topics!!! And just like the other parents on here are saying that their kids also were the same way ( concerned parents) we as parents get overwhelmed and stressed on figuring out our child’s needs. You got this Bri and Fern !!! $NG9111

[@wym932]

Idk why my comment disappeared but, you got this Bri! Early intervention is the best thing you can do right now!

[@vibingwithmarley]

Thank you for making this. As a first time mom, ITS HARD. Everyone always feels so entitled to their opinions and “concerns” about my son or why I do things the way I do them. I feel you on the “I’m his mom I know everything about my baby” I’ve also been with my son alone every day since he’s been born. He’s almost 8 months old and already getting questions about why he isn’t crawling yet. I love my son more than anything in the world and protect him at all costs. I appreciate your vulnerability to post this. The opinions on my son are what stops me from vloging because people talk so much shit about parenting styles and choices. I don’t even have social media because of opinions and people judging. You’re doing amazing Bri 🖤 this really inspires me

[@erikagaribay5246]

I have gone through what you are going through right now. My son went to his 2 year check up and doctor mentioned speech therapy and I knew as a mother he was ok just being lazy. My son is going to turn 3 in September and now he’s a big talker so my big concerns went away. Be patient. As a mother you know if something is off so don’t let doctors or there’s influence your gut feeling. He’s ok he’s just taking his time.

[@lauram2422]

Evi is perfectly fine! He’s going to be talking in no time! Enjoy his little babbles and everything that makes him, him! 🥰

[@nenasanchez6865]

You’re doing amazing Mama and your baby boy is growing beautifully and is very smart ❤️😍

[@marianna4813]

My oldest son also didn’t start speaking until he was 3 and even then only myself and my husband understood. Speech therapy was the best thing we have done for him❤️ Don’t be afraid to ask his pediatrician. Edit: I’m so glad your good at communicating with his pedia☺️ I held back because I was afraid.

[@alexandriarios6437]

It's scary when your child has speech delay. My son went through speech therapy for about 9 months, that didn't really help. He was only pointing and mumbling at 3. It wasn't until he started preschool that started helping. The first day of school I didn't want to leave him and almost cried bc I told the teacher I was the only one that could understand him. Being around other kids and his teacher being amazing, he started talking so so much. He's now 3rd grade and being testing for the gifted and talented program with an advanced learning plan that will follow him through the rest of school. My mom said my brother was the same way, and he went to medical school. Evi will just be the family genius!

[@jocelynmartinez692]

Another influencer who also has a toddler also mentioned a really valid point - we’ve been in a global pandemic for two years! This has definitely impacted the development of some kids, who will need a little extra help & that’s ok. They will get there with a little extra support :)

[@anisiareyes]

Bri, I didn’t start speaking until I was like 4 honestly my parents and family thought I was mute. & One day outta nowhere I started talking non stop & im a chatter box since. No worries, Evi doesn’t have delayed speech or anything - he’s perfect. 🙏🏼

[@noemitorres8299]

girl he still a baby let him be don’t compare your beautiful child with no one else and enjoy his milestones at his time