why GOOD GIRLS MARRY wrong E01 pastor KINGSLEY OKONKWO

[@soliudeenbalikis3732]

I'm a devoted Muslim but I love listening to this man Kudos to you sir

[@isagabrielle4018]

I want you to have a personal relationship with Jesus.

[@denisesmith9194]

Please give your life to christ so you can experience the joy of following Jesus

[@jenniferalloysius]

❤❤❤❤

[@ziondavid2432]

You are right in saying women are emotional beings. However, women like men can feel fulfilled and happy being single.

[@originalblessed]

Very good message, glad he is talking to the men. Most pastors focus on the women....

[@silekiweaudreymwenelupembe6126]

I love this. But this one should have been titled "Why some single men will marry wrong".

[@elishaa101andrew9]

@ Silekiwe Mwenelupembe not all single men, this is one of the reasons i take my time.... dont want to marry to the wrong person, be single is not a crime is to be watchful

[@semefasemefa7612]

@@elishaa101andrew9 Single is not a crime but also make sure you don't fornicate, because it's sin against God that's why if you can't stay without fornication then you have to marry

[@judithjoshua2192]

True!

[@dorancecooper1609]

@@elishaa101andrew9 O

[@elishaa101andrew9]

@@dorancecooper1609 Don't get u, what do u Really mean?

[@HearttoHeartTV]

Most men facing this won't accept this but it is the fact. As a Relationship Mentor I always tell those around me.

[@chukwuvictoria4907]

I'm blessed by your words Sir!! Highly inspirational.. God bless you Sir!!

[@nguesapruth8707]

Beauty is internal! Some marry container without content! Thank you Sir..More Grace

[@iffyblessing9287]

The longer you take to choose a spouse, the greater the chance you will miss it. Thanks sir

[@busolaolaitan1228]

Funny as this message sounds, pastor you are very right though. I am 20 years in marriage, I still ran at my last child's inter- house sports last year and still do "yuppy" stuff with my children. God bless you🙏🙏🙏

[@zainabibrahim293]

I never get enough of your teachings.

[@preciousdaniel8518]

Timely message. So so educative

[@whatgodcannotdoesnotexist2169]

Nothing like achieving your goals wen you still have strength

[@witnesskihiyo5208]

May God help me, Pastor Kingsley You are personally talking to me

[@normadebooth8623]

Yes and Amen; thank you for teaching us! God bless you and yours!

[@mirembegloria8110]

Grt message amen m blessed

[@bamitaleeunice15]

I'm so much blessed whenever i watch your videos, you're blessed Pastor Kingsley

[@ChibabyNzewine]

Finally i get to Watch Pastor Kingsly talk on relationships and marriages... i always watched your preachings every sunday on STV Lagos...

[@DAVIDSCHRISTIANCENTRE]

Thank you for staying in touch with us.

[@ogarmary4487]

You are such a blessing Sir May God continue to bless you

[@perfectpeterpan]

Let's examine the Christianity of what he's saying, section by section 4) From 11:30 onwards, his description based on proverbs that beauty and charm are deceiving a lot of men from the right woman towards the wrong woman or towards an ungodly delay is accurate and truthful as it is based on the word of God. Well done sir.

[@ursulaskitchen9784]

My God!! You know so much about women and relationships 🤭😍 God bless you

[@raph-raphael6568]

This pastor just exposé everything,God ohhhh have mercy on guy's, nothing but truth.

[@TracyOjeabulu]

You are full of Wisdom 👏🏼👏🏼 God bless you Sir!!!

[@kingsleysolomon2018]

I really enjoy your message sir God bless you more Grace

[@success2471]

Thank you pastor. God bless your ministry. Life changing words

[@saintmaxuniverse]

i was in a relationship with a lady she told me I LOVE YOU and i told her thank you. i never understood what it means to be loved by a woman.

[@obiagelicharlotte1603]

Wow! You are on point sir In fact I learnt a lot . More grace sir

[@amosnyakundi9115]

Very powerful message , and for sure this is reality it is not world of fantasy.

[@eyitayosharon1546]

God Bless u more sir! I've been searching for u here & Thank God v finally found u here🙏👍

[@ebenezeralade1565]

Same here

[@rosemaryholuwakem8200]

More unction to function in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏 Am blessed

[@obaserose7949]

Wow this message is powerful am so excited to hear this, it’s a blessing to me

[@nworiechinedu2143]

I real enjoy ur teaching sir

[@preciousvictorakah]

Thank You, Pastor Kingsley. Your knowledge and wisdom is extraordinary.

[@koriasoumare9621]

This is my first time coming across to ur teaching

[@priscilliaadomayi2631]

Wow am so blessed. I have seen so many of your message clips but never watched a full message. I have so many experiences of older guys approaching me but so many of them wants 6 pacs, tall, structured face, long and clean legs, a lady who does not use the toilet. I observe it in what they say.

[@addyminecraftvideos9404]

Good night

[@hajaisatuthullah900]

Thank you Sir, may God bless you.I love your teachings very much.

[@goodnesswisdommaureen341]

I love listening to this program it gives me Joy and it helps me to understand what marriage is all about but I have a question is it bad for a girl of 21 years to get married to a man 40 years

[@joymekuka5478]

Age is just a number. If u are matured enough as a lady and have no problem dealing with the pressure of the world, ur friends and family, then I think it's OK

[@lillianmupeta1835]

Thank you man of God 😍😍😍😍🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@florenceokeh-allison8864]

Thank you for so much; for the kingdom of God. Helping this generation to attract and achieve the utmost for their lives in family.

[@sawkehelenhealth5438]

God blessed you for this gospel fact. God blessed you...

[@Amada._mk]

Such a blessing to our generation, I am so awakened. Thank you Man of God.

[@iamgodschild8722]

Very informative ✅😇

[@life-changinglight273]

God bless you Sir, these are information avoiding us confusion frustration

[@dawidvries6582]

Sir, is it not God himself that have to choose for a man wife?? I'm confused 😕

[@ijeomaagudozie2296]

I am blessed pastor. U touchedy life

[@amiraishaq7794]

I am highly inspired by your words, Please is it possible to have PDF for your books?

[@nnennandukweevergreen434]

I tot the topic of this message is why good girls marry wrong. Good girls marry wrong guys because of their limited social life. Esther went for the contest before she was chosen and made queen.o

[@acharich]

🤙🏾🤙🏾🤙🏾

[@perfectpeterpan]

Let's examine the Christianity of what he's saying, section by section. 1)Between 2:00 and 2:28 he talks about men being able to live long and happy on their own compared to women. False. The bible's recommendation that some can live satisfactorily on their own without the opposite sex is not gender-specific in so both men and women can- if it was otherwise, God, who is all knowingand loves us, would have made this known to us in his scripture through his disciples. [See 1 Cor7: 7-8]

[@patiencemabu7327]

Waow this is so educative , thanks allot

[@anyeatud9806]

Great thoughts 👏👏

[@bosebrownakamamabb9916]

I enjoyed this teaching 🤣more grace sir

[@doolebader7585]

Nice one!👏👏👏👏

[@iffyblessing9287]

Great message

[@perfectpeterpan]

Let's examine the Christianity of what he's saying, section by section 2) His explanation for women being more endeared to men than work is taken from Genesis. As he presents a biblical basis for this, it's good and must be inspired by the spirit.

[@Hertha_Imene9845]

AMEN Glory be to God♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ Bless you man of God.

[@chotimolendelydia2091]

Wow... Thank you sir

[@koriasoumare9621]

GOD bless u for telling they d truth

[@ogahsophiaomonye7941]

Wow Awesome

[@elishaa101andrew9]

Thanks to you Pastor Kingsely, but what about guys that have fiancée at the age of 35 and they are planning to marry, Hope that is still okay

[@onyemaprinceyadah7867]

I agree with you Pastor (My name sake). but Can't the woman with grace at that their young age be modeled to have good character. Please if a guy didn't marry after 30 year he may be trying to make money to keep his future and present home together and not necessary looking for butterflies. This country is hard.

[@agadafeneizonfade465]

nice message..i am just trying to connect the topic with the message....boju boju pastor

[@ekhatorsylvester4032]

Am 31 not that am looking for something that doesn't exist. I love a non violence lady a woman who knows how to comfort herself. Am in Europe Italy on God can explain how here look like in relationship or marriage

[@blessingdinne9160]

HEAVEN SENT SON will like to introduce my sister to you, she's everything a man needs but still single

[@ekhatorsylvester4032]

@@blessingdinne9160 Am not here for joke we play alot.if you are in u are in

[@blessingdinne9160]

HEAVEN SENT SON am not joking either

[@ekhatorsylvester4032]

@@blessingdinne9160 [phone] that my WhatsApp thanks in advance

[@Nokss_20]

But this was about men not girls, plus we're women not girls. Also, I'm appreciative of all the points raised, it is something I've observed in my 34 years of life and even resigned to the idea of marriage because most men are looking for an unrealistic woman to excite them and to marry that's why most of marriages don't work. When you're a woman who's willing to build with them, they say you're desperate, you're rude or not wife material. Also dating the men between 35 and 40 you realize how emotionally weak they're and very immature unfortunately Also set in their ways. They insult us and call us old and we've hit the wall. They go on to date younger women who also eventually exceed them in maturity and they stay with them as long as they look young and appealing. I would have wanted to get married in my twenties but now in my thirties I don't have that desire anymore. The emotional damage and the waiting has taken away any desires for marriage because honestly I don't want to live a miserable life with an immature man. Most of them are immature and don't want any help from women they want to be the hero and to be worshipped.

[@ladyfree3492]

Does not reflect Title at all but still good

[@evelynzakari6724]

God bless you

[@faiththomas2663]

Nice massage

[@ijeomaagudozie2296]

I never thought of ur analysis as people keep telling me am old I wave it aside

[@Snqobss547]

👏👏👏

[@dumdum9898]

I disagree with putting age limits to marriage

[@abigailamoah1499]

ME TOO

[@jenagya7855]

Yh

[@osasvictor5845]

But pastor u focus more on guys here,but from experience girls tend to look out for outward qualities

[@perfectpeterpan]

Let's examine the Christianity of what he's saying, section by section 3) from 9:19- 10:30 , he says that any single men over 30 is looking for a girl that does not exist; and goes on to say that the longer they take to choose a spouse, the greater the chance that they will miss it. I am not sure what biblical principle is being applied here to these statements but I haven't found any. Whatever it is, it will be good if he shared it so that we will know that what he is saying is truth, especially since speaking to young impressionable minds. However, as for me, I would believe the opposite- one who has great faith in God can ask for something - even a woman - from God and where others say it is impossible for such a woman to exist, God could create/direct her to become that way and direct the man what to do to come her way. Are we not serving a God of impossibilities. Did Abraham not wait almost 100 years for his miracle? I think we should let God decide for each person how long they should wait - even after 40 years of age - may still be fine with God and it doesn't reduce the person's chances since they are only looking for one wife. And if no one else but that one wants them then they would have succeeded even waiting till 50. Abraham was waiting for only 1 Isaac and his chances weren't reduced by the years.

[@michelleadomaadanso1980]

osase linked I believe he mentioned that he was just sharing his opinion. He didn’t imply that it’s biblical. An instance in the Bible is where Paul encouraged Christians to remain single for the rest of their lives so that they can devote more time to serving God and have less distractions. He made it clear that it was his personal opinion.

[@edembassey6282]

This message does not tally with topic Na it should have been" Mr Man..delay is dangerous" but good practical talk all the same

[@florenceokeh-allison8864]

I hope that you do water Baptism by immersion, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. .thank you. .

[@Dailyprayerteam]

What has water baptism do with marriage?

[@ziondavid2432]

When will African society stop putting pressure on people to get married? What is wrong with a man getting married at 40? If you want to strictly use the bible as your reference, tell me how many of those great men in the bible got married in their thirties? Stop this nonsense of putting pressure on people! Thank you!

[@jaybaby8973]

Wow!! Finally I found this page. I have always seen snippets on friends pages and never knew the name of the church or pastor. Hopefully I get to learn so much. Pls what is the church address?. Much love from Germany 🇩🇪

[@thefonkouos128]

Jay baby I believe u can check on google u will get the church address there.

[@robbert.b4493]

U pple complaining he talks only about women how many men hv u see in churches the women can deliver this messages perfectly to the men through examples and the rest .... am in a relationship and till today I could still teach my bf some goods things Nd he learns I also learn from him Nd life is good

[@joda1432]

Too good

[@keeganlshoemate6291]

To Pastor: I need prayer

[@callmeesth]

Lmao 😁😁😁. PK always so hilarious!

[@nkeshaesther7848]

Amen amen

[@koriasoumare9621]

Right pastor

[@koriasoumare9621]

Some are more than 45

[@peterblessing7495]

rid on pastor more grace

[@moyoakeremale7610]

Wow!

[@brightonezeh7861]

Preach on sir.

[@koriasoumare9621]

Pastor u are funny

[@onyedikaokoye4811]

I've followed you keenly and I feel blessed I do! Whats your location on the Island & what times are your services on Sunday?

[@AB1kaenobi]

www.insightsforliving.org/contact/

[@luckychidi7076]

Sir, 32 years with the economic in Nigeria

[@susanmajek]

Abeg, tell am o!

[@semefasemefa7612]

So do you prefer fornication because of the economy ? we don't fear God again ooo mercy

[@tinyikom9671]

Not all good women merry bad guys

[@superiorinsight9517]

I RATHER THINK YOU HAVE MORE "MISS WORLDS" TODAY THAN GODLY WOMEN THOUGH.

[@excellentgodsownvineyard4560]

Ha ha ha so funny &-real

[@whatgodcannotdoesnotexist2169]

🤣😂🤣and when she’s about finishing secondary school he has retired and is about 60/65. Hmmmmm nawaoh 🤔

[@salt2420]

Chairman beard gang 😂😂😂

[@ceogutsinc]

The Shades and Subs in the Video is too much

[@tracyexpress]

I agree with most of what the man of God says but i feel like he is mounting unnecessary pressure on these guys and its not fair. Life is not a straight jacket and just because he was fortunate to get his acts together early in life and got married doesn't mean it happens so for every man. Most of them don't even have a job at 35 in that country and you are presuring them to goan marry, will u pay the bride price for them? See the look on their faces na haba have a heart.

[@ritaojo7819]

What you are saying is true, the topic is not preach here. This teaching is different from the topic, more grace to hear from God clearly in Jesus name Amen

[@jacobdennis4862]

WHICH ONE PASTOR STILL CALLING DATERS, IS HE MINGING HIS WORDS FOR FORNICATORS IN HIS CHURCH?

[@Vybb79]

Thats a lie...those men are SLEEPING AROUND!!!