why i avoid flirting at work

[@AnointedOne4God]

Solid advice. Lets keep taking action 💪

[@unexpected8166]

Today was an amazing day of cold approaching

[@pullUniversity]

Tell us more

[@unexpected8166]

@@pullUniversity Thank you for asking man :) Yesterday I approached 14 girls. Mostly boyfriends/not available or not interested. One long amazing conversation with a chill girl 6 years older than me (gave my number but dont expect her to text) and two approaches where they just gave me what I call "gems". By "gem" I mean that when a girl (usually really feminine, sweet and elegant) maybe already has a boyfriend but liked your approach and the fact that you even approached so much that she still happily talks to you and at the end she says something like "keep doing this / dont stop doing this" with a smile on her face. Its just like a little gift from her for you because you made her feel beautiful in such a confident respectful way. But why would I say it was an amazing day of approaching if there were no "real desirable results" some might ask. Because I know and feel in my mind that getting "a result" doesn't matter. I feel just the same as I did before approaching these 14 girls which means Im not letting myself go on an emotional rollercoaster or take ego hits. Eventhough I didn't get a "result" I made so much progress still because I eliminate the approach anxietey day by day and practice my stops and opens and also my conversations. I know how you and Kristian always say that you might do 20 approaches in a row and they are all "undesirable outcomes" but then out of nowhere (and you NEVER know when and NEEEVER know who) you meet a girl where it works. I went out approaching today again and the 5th approach I met a cute girl, got number agreed on shooting pool (then and there) and now I will see where this will go (wont jinx it haha). There is still an unpredictable chance that it might go absolutely nowhere, and I know that and Im fine with that. Im roughly at my 60/100 approaches and will get those 40 more done as quickly as I can

[@unexpected8166]

@@pullUniversity Wow, I wrote a whole ass text yesterday but buggy KZbin didn't fucking post it. Long story short: Did 14 approaches that day, no realistic "desirable outcomes" but I didnt let myself go on an emotional rollercoaster or take "ego hits", after each approach I felt exactly like I did before. You NEVER know when and NEVER know who, because like you say all approaches are independent from each other. You can go out and have 15 "undesirable outcomes" (eventhough the outcome doesnt matter, the process matters) and then boom it happens. Went out yesterday again and 5th approch met a cute girl and agreed on shooting pool- Dont wanna jinx it so I dont have any expectations, I know theres a chance it might not go anywhere and Im fine with that if that happens (expect the unexpected). Im at roughly 60/100 approaches (beginner benchmark) and will get those next 40 done as quickly as I can. Actually this text wasnt very short haha. But thank you for asking man :)

[@joelmedina7777]

you a democrat?

[@pullUniversity]

what is this guy talking about