WHY I DON'T WANT A CAPSULE WARDROBE | why capsule closet doesn't work | mindful luxury

[@carmelasantana3091]

I had a "capsule wardrobe" when my husband and I traveled for two continuous years: four tops, four skirts, four pairs of shoes, one jacket, one winter scarf, one purse. It worked well, but at the end of it, I was bored with my clothes. When we settled down, my capsule expanded: 10 tops, 10 skirts, 12 pairs of shoes, two jackets, five purses. It was very doable. Now, I'm in a country with defined seasons, and my "capsule" has evolved into summer, winter, and in-between seasons. Life (and wardrobe) is in constant evolution, even when you get the perfect pieces.

[@trippishine]

I went abroad for work for a few months and my capsule wardrobe was super functional and sleek but man...so boring after a while! Even if all the pieces could be mixed and matched..

[@ColourfulNoir]

That's really interesting to hear! I always thought I might be able to live on a capsule wardrobe if I ever go back to live in Malaysia for the long term, seeing it's always hot and humid there xx

[@flohough1870]

Agree 100% with what you've said in this video. I don't have a capsule wardrobe, and don't think I ever would. I have over the past year been eliminating a certain percentage of my clothing to try and get my wardrobe to a much more manageable size. After I'm satisfied with where it's at, I will be using the "if one comes in, one must go out" rule. It will make me think more about buying something down the road. By the way, you look great!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much!! xx

[@fredalearhinan6693]

Finally a sensible video on clothing. Everyone is always saying... t shirt.... blazer and so on. We all live different lives. Like you I no longer wear heels so I have a lovely wardrobe of beautiful flats.. also clothing that is suitable for my own lifestyle... thankyou

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you!! xx

[@missmegs37]

i completely agree, Eileen! Our preferences change and lifestyles may change over time so I've learned to not be so obsessed with the numbers, but be realistic about how often I will need/use something instead. I also adhere (mostly) to a one in and one out rule so that I don't start accumulating excess.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Definitely! I think as long as we use and keep pieces mindfully, there's no need to be extreme about anything xx

[@merb.3576]

What a great video (no surprise)! 👏You have a balanced, cogent, and rational approach to building and maintaining a wardrobe. While minimalism may be a helpful, doable path for many, your perspective (perhaps using minimalism as a springboard) is truly "mindful," in that it takes into account the flexibility we need in "real life", where special or unexpected events pop up at any moment, so, in a sense, you inspire us to be prepared (and for many, "what to wear" is a steal source of frustration). Curating a wardrobe can be yet another source of peace and harmony. Thanks for all you do❣

[@ColourfulNoir]

Having a small just-in-case element has worked well for me. It's nice to not have to worry about finding the right dress for a certain event💛 xx

[@suziesuzie74]

I love your thoughts! I don't think minimalism is about a capsule wardrobe and cluttering, it's having all things you need to live comfortable, worry free life.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Totally agree xx

[@dzuel09]

The time I tried to convince myself I needed a capsule wardrobe was the time I spent so much money and “research” trying to find the perfect pieces. It was getting out of hand. Now, like you, I’ve accepted that I need certain pieces for certain types of events and as long as I’m not hoarding, it’s fine. It might work for some people, but it didn’t for me.

[@vannaeldwijk7075]

Jewelry is a pick me up. Indeed! I wear diamonds a home.

[@ColourfulNoir]

There's indeed beauty in moderation 💛

[@EvelyneB.]

I just discovered your videos on YT. You express beautifully what many other “influencers” try to articulate. Your speech delivery is measured and decisive (no “huh”, “I mean”, etc.). I don’t want to appear condescending, just sincerely complimentary. This particular video is completely on point and I agree with everything you said.

[@user-mp9tu6cp7d]

I think this is one of the best videos you have ever done. Some of us do live in areas with extremes in climate, or do need to dress a certain way for our jobs and you have taken into account one size does not fit all in determining what is best for our wardrobe. And very few people talk about the maintenance of our items. Thank you for a great video.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Glad you enjoyed the video! ❤️❤️

[@athena3865]

"Nine is not enough and one is too many".....I can so relate. I too, have zero high heels, thanks to a sprained ankle that took almost three years to heal (it will never be the same). Capsule wardrobes work for uniforms only. Otherwise, wardrobes are as individual as we are.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Love that xx

[@Marsolan]

Your made an important point for people to make sure that what they see on line fits their life. Like when you said you love cashmere, I thought, yeah why do I not have cashmere? Then I stoped myself thinking, oh wait, I ran hot all the time, I live in Southern California and my skin reacts to it. Dah!! But some things are not so obvious and we rush to buy became it’s looks so good on someone. Taking account of your life specifics is a must. Thank you for the great insights. ❤

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, Marina xx

[@lth7023]

Eileen, I just used your 12% off Code for Lily Silk for the 2nd Time! This time I combined it with my Points & saved over $50 on my order! Thanks Again for the Code! I hope more Women take Advantage of the Lily Silk Offers + your Discount Codes on all of their Gorgeous & Reasonably priced Clothing! The silk blouses are just the most wonderful thing I've done lately for myself! After a long illness that I'm just getting over, the silk is so soothing to my skin it's like being Caressed every time I move! My husband keeps wanting to touch my arm or shoulder bc he says he likes the feel of the Blouse I'm wearing! Next thing I know he'll be wanting silk shirts for himself! 😊 Thanks for your Videos! You'll never know how Inspiring & Comforting they've been to me! God Bless You! I hope you are enjoying your new "Hours at Home" Status! And I look forward to New Videos! 😊💐🇺🇸

[@ColourfulNoir]

Glad you're enjoying your new pieces! The silk pillowcases are so dreamy too xx

[@CyberMercy]

speaking of not numbers: my minimalist style accessory credo is: if it can't be seen frm across the street don't bother putting it on. yes I love Big chunky earings, necklaces etc. I do own delicate Items but I wear many at once & treat them as a single article. Such as my 5 ear piercing forming a single story (think like eye makeup) or I will stack bracelets to form a story. so for me I wear only earings and a fit bit with a black tank & jeans but those earings are over 2oz of silver. Great video

[@ColourfulNoir]

Chunky accessorise definitely never fail to make a statement xx

[@shawndavis7878]

I enjoyed the video! I don’t have a capsule wardrobe and l’m not a minimalist either. I downsized my wardrobe a few years ago and have kept it that way and now l really enjoy shopping my own closet.😅 when l cleaned out/organized my closet l realized that l also have something for every occasion and that is a good feeling for me. Your videos are always helpful and calming. Thanks for sharing.🥰

[@ColourfulNoir]

I can totally relate! I like the feeling of always having the right dress even though I don't have that many of them xx

[@elenakutesmann9661]

I'm on my journey to minimize my closet, I did a 6 month no buy in 2021 and decluttered a lot. Now I shop less and more mindfully, but I'll never be a minimalist, as style and fashion is my passion😅 Capsule wardrobe feels very restrictive to me, I only build a small capsule for vacation.

[@ColourfulNoir]

I think the fact you're downsizing is a sign of mindfulness in itself xx

[@annietran2688]

It’s always a good day when you post a new video! Thank you for making amazing content!

[@ColourfulNoir]

It means a lot! Thank you xx

[@anitadent2717]

Agree 100% with your opinion on this. I did create a version of a capsule wardrobe about 2 years ago, but like you, don’t always have exact same one as fashion content creators do, nor do I k have just 33 items. I work outside the home 2 days a week, exercise regularly and hike and attend ballgames regularly so I need lots of variations in my wardrobe to fit my lifestyle. Enjoy this channel, congratulations on your self discipline that was required to become financially independent and take a break from your dentistry!! I recently paid off my home 15 yrs early and my practice with minimalism and intentional spending mindset definitely made it easier to become content with less.

[@ColourfulNoir]

That's amazing! Congratulations of this massive milestone, Anita xx

[@lynnbrown4423]

I agree with you! Every one is different and should allow yourself to be minimalistic in your own way. I am on my journey of minimalism and Hoping to be successful with this journey.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Wishing you all the best ! xx

[@immiegee]

You are such an elegant woman. I love it when a woman or man takes her/his selfcare seriously. I love your clothing style. I also have more clothes then the general minimalist. I'am wearing all my clothes and love them.

[@TG81]

I completely agree! Over the past several years, I’ve downsized my wardrobe (clothing, shoes, & bags) to a total of 68 high-quality items. (I am not focused on numbers, I only know because I track my items in the Stylebook app.) I’ve thought about further streamlining this into seasonal capsules but I like to have full access to my wardrobe when I’m deciding what to wear. Also some people who have capsule wardrobes of 30-40 items will have hundreds more items in storage that they choose from when planning the capsules. So capsule wardrobes don’t necessarily equate to mindful wardrobes. I think your wardrobe is amazing. 🥰

[@ColourfulNoir]

68 is really impressive! xx

[@anttoronto3202]

100% agree. Also, it depends where you live as well. In Canada, we can go from feeling 30 plus Celsius to minus 30C. It is virtually impossible.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Minus 30 🙈I would love to know what are your essential pieces for the winter xx

[@skygaz3r]

I don’t have a capsule wardrobe per se, but I do like using the concept of having basics form the backbone of my wardrobe with one or two accent colors. It really solves my previous dilemma of,not having things to wear as my clothes didn’t match one another easily. But the whole idea is more intentional dressing and spending, than anything else for me.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Definitely! I think if we're intentional, it solves half the shopping problems xx

[@kkauffman01]

“Life is too short to wear uncomfortable shoes.”

[@ColourfulNoir]

I've learnt people don't necessarily pay that much attention to our shoes, at least not enough to make the pain worth it lol

[@melocoton7]

I couldn't limit myself to a capsule. I am a maximalist with my clothes and I love it. Something for every mood and occasion. However there is a coherence in my wardrobe. Many things go together and let me create almost infinite outfit combos. I could never be a minimalist.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Having cohesive pieces really does make life so much easier xx

[@dawncopple3953]

I do not have a capsule wardrobe. Since I started watching your videos I have downsized my wardrobe considerably, while also adding items that make my wardrobe more cohesive and comfortable. I no longer purchase items without considering how the color and style will go with pieces I already have.

[@ColourfulNoir]

That sounds amazing! Really happy for you xx

[@dawncopple3953]

@Colourfulnoir. I would love to learn about them.

[@brwnbutterfly9967]

I greatly appreciate this video and that you briefly mentioned insurance coverage for your luxury items. It's something that's not spoken about often. Great video.

[@EveD123]

I don't do capsule wardrobe either and I'm not a minimalist either, but I love your videos and I love your cool calm voice

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@katrinapineda6873]

I have the same mindset. I think my threshold is not an actual number but rather "only what I can fit in my closet" which looks about the same size as yours.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Agree! Putting a number on things takes away the fun from a lot of things xx

[@Natashea]

I’ve been motivated pair down closet to 100 items in order enjoy all the items in my closet. I’m not trying to dress like anyone else but infusing fun and functionality in what I own instead of a bunch of items I wear once and don’t enjoy anymore. I’m not sure what kind of closet that is but that’s my goal this year 😅😂 & of course I allow myself to evolve

[@ColourfulNoir]

Sending lots of positive vibes! xx

[@Natashea]

@@ColourfulNoir thank you ✨

[@blktauna]

You look amazing in that red dress. I do not have a capsule as such but I work similarly to you. I know what I have, what colours I like and do not obsess over trends. I don't want a capsule, its too much mental energy and effort for me to keep up with.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you!! xx

[@theartsylife16]

I completely agree with you. On my journey to minimalism, I realized I would rather have three high quality bags than nine mediocre ones. Now figuring out clothes and this video helped a lot! Quality over quantity

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you! xx

[@nmernst]

Thanks for sharing 😊. I love cashmere as well. No I don't have a capsule wardrobe but am mindful of closet and drawer clutter. I'll be doing a declutter of items I no longer use soon. Best wishes 🙂

[@ColourfulNoir]

❤️❤️

[@yasminei4965]

Agree with everything. This was so calming to watch 😌

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much! xx

[@mindbodysoul8214]

Love your content Eileen... it makes sense. I'm not interested in having a capsule wardrobe as it will not suit my lifestyle. I'm still working on curating my wardrobe as well and thought I was done with purging... I'm still purging. What frightens me is, I'm going to part ways with a pieces I'll need later. But so far I've only missed a couple of items. Making the choice to go Neutral was a Game Changer for me. Gorgeous skirts and dresses. TFS&I ✨️

[@ColourfulNoir]

Happy to hear about your progress of curation. Btw if you're not ready to let it go of certain pieces, maybe wait a little longer 💛

[@mindbodysoul8214]

@@ColourfulNoir will do. Thanks✨️

[@MiuMiuG]

Such good, mindful and considered information. You have a lovely sense of style EIleen.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much xx

[@harshikaswarup3879]

When i was younger, I wpuld buy lots of costume jewelry from high street brands. Now with time and age (and money), I have only invested in solid gold, silver and diamonds. Over the years i have built up a great collection that is worn regularly, and shall be passed on to my kids still retaining their monetary value. Just like I’ve inherited from my grandma, mom etc. I think good jewelry can really elevate a simple look.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thanks for sharing xx

[@sihlempungose1578]

Thank you for this❤️❤️ I personally prefer outfit formulas instead of capsule wardrobe

[@ColourfulNoir]

Would love to know more about outfit formulas xx

[@sihlempungose1578]

@Colourful Noir it's basically what goes best with what in terms of your shape and style...e.g. jeans+blouse/shirt+blazer or dress+cardigan+pumps or a line skirt+fitted top+belt etc.

[@CocoB22]

Unless that capsule is pretty big - I don’t believe in them. I have 3 rules for shopping- is it quality/well made, can I wear it out the door of the store right now, and does it fit my budget. If it meets that I can buy it if I like.

[@ColourfulNoir]

All good points to consider! Thank you for sharing xx

[@tereza5211]

I love Ralph Lauren style actually so I am crying here 😅 Lovely video as always 🌻

[@nikkisue1715]

Hello. I am new to your channel. This video was so inspirational. I agree that we should be flexible with our wardrobe so that it suits our individual desires and to feel comfortable in what we put on each day. What did you do with the items that you placed in the yellow shopping bag? I keep looking at my shoe collection and I feel that it is overwhelming. I feel as though I have too much. I am working on eliminating some. What is your height? I am curious because I am a petite 5'1. Thank you and looking forward to more videos from you.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you! I'm about 162cm xx

[@Alesanascreamokid]

Dearest, I was wondering if you could do a video showing us all your shoes. I have a beautifully curated closet, but no inspiration what shoes to get ❤😊

[@ColourfulNoir]

Great idea! xx

[@balletdancernj6894]

I don’t have a capsule wardrobe either. I just finished decluttering my closets and dresser drawers. Most of items were donated, but some were discarded, too. I need to learn how to use the items that I already have. It is a valuable and expensive lesson to learn. 😒

[@ColourfulNoir]

You got this! xx

[@Marsolan]

All great points!!!

[@ColourfulNoir]

💛

[@ebonyj.......detroit5764]

Where did you get the clear jewelry box from? The 1 you removed your watch from in this video. I have seen this unit before …. But the options I have seen looked acrylic and cheap …. Your looks of a heavier material. PLease Respond !!!!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Hi Ebony, the box is from MUJI xx

[@ShatteredRippleBooks]

I tried a capsule wardrobe and it lasted two weeks. I kept finding I wanted things I'd put away due to the weather changing. I'm in the UK and even in summer the weather can be hot for few days and then it's raining the next and cooler. I've realised I have plenty of clothes for now I don't need to buy anything.

[@Dropthesoapto]

For me the word is curated and not minimalist, and is mainly about to stop buying aimless, I have learned to buy intentionally, “this piece goes with that one and that other one, etc.” and not buying bc is so gorgeous and than when at home I realize it doesn’t fit well with what I already have, being in style or color. Another rule is going through my pieces in the wardrobe often to not forget pieces and buy duplicates. Besides that I feel with a capsule wardrobe you risk not having your clothes washed and ironed for the day you’re in need of them and don’t have a replacement. For me this is too much, extremism is a no no for me. Another rule for me that I learn from hard experience is to have something to every occasion adequate to my lifestyle and that requires planning in advancing and investing in classics, not trendy. The other thing I had to conquer, was to not want to part with things, some expensive, that for long I can’t wear anymore bc they simply don’t fit anymore. Girl, you were 20 y.o when you bought that, it’s as already passed several decades, let it go!!!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Some great insights! Thank you for sharing xx

[@heidischultes2956]

Perfectly expressed 💯👍💖

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thanks a lot 😊

[@claudiakalkbrenner4148]

Where are your leggings from? And how tall are you? Thank you

[@ColourfulNoir]

Hi Claudia, I wore the Topshop skinny Joni jeans here but I usually go for the Everlane Perform for leggings xx

[@magnolia1609]

Thanks, Loving for video.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you! xx

[@gabyheon21]

Completely agree ❤❤

[@ColourfulNoir]

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[@selvanasorour9856]

Can you please link the black legging pants you are wearing in this video?

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

Beautiful dresses 👗

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you! xx

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

@@ColourfulNoir your welcome

[@orattik]

Midimalism ❤

[@ColourfulNoir]

What a clever idea! xx

[@Lily4444]

I find it very boring tho wear almost the same every day. The colors are depressing for me I need more color. But that’s me

[@jucaja]

❤

[@ColourfulNoir]

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[@sally3570]

🙌❤🎉

[@ColourfulNoir]

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